The last time I dated a black woman (she was a little on the heavy side and didn't have a job) I took her out to eat and we had a pleasant conversation... When I got home I checked to see if she was on Facebook (she was) and noticed the last post she made was about our date and she said "I love ripping off old white men. Pay for my shit, trick!" - After that, I avoided her calls and texts for 3 weeks. Her next post on Facebook was "Where are all the good men?" That was about 10 years ago and I don't miss the dating scene at all. As soon as my mortgage was paid off in 2015, I closed the door on dating and just enjoyed the peace and quiet.
I like the way you took it in stride… One meal??? Here you go Chubby, make it last… Bet she still out there single, broke and hungry asking for a good man.. unfortunately this is all too basic. Other countries actually still have the words “value and appreciation”
Slight correction... The man said: "higher value men don't mind spending money" but the reality is: we don't mind spending money on things we deem to be valuable. Just to be clear... When a man has a long term wealth building and acquisition strategy, he isn't out here throwing money away as if it doesn't matter!
@Green Mills Just to make sure I'm not misunderstanding... Are you really asserting that business owners who exercise financial prudence in order to expand via acquisition are "bums?" That statement is so bizarre, that I figured I should ask for clarification before responding.
Had a woman I was madly in love with, And we would need for lunch. When I knew it was getting more serious, I told her my plan was to stop spending $20-$30 on lunches everyday so I can save up for my next power move. She threw such a tantrum and should’ve been my early indicator to leave her alone and continue my level up! I was 27 at the time making great money for my age. Stay away from these succubus that cannot see past their own self desires and can’t accommodate your power moves.
That's y I'm not even friends with them and I'm a woman. That immature, irrational behavior goes beyond dating 4 them. It goes in2 woman 2 woman friendships. They can't maintain them.
@@October3074 growing up i always seen women around me mom, aunts, cousins, classmates have at most ONE real friend and i always found it very odd as a kid while boys could fight and still be friends on the same team after
Going home to kiss my husband, because I was older 38 when we started dating and had a child. He traveled and dated and he paid and we got married when I was 40. And I am not a 10 but I am a least an 8 to him, which is all that matters. I keep listening despite my alarm because it makes me appreciate my husband all the more!!!!!
I am 62 and married to a 24 year old Filipina , most men have no interest in menopausal woman , your husband Is a saint for choosing and being loyal to you
@@jamesblack9499 Some men are confident enough to marry a women for which they can have more in common. We both know why that 28 year old married you and it was not for your handsome good looks or stamina. But I respect your union because that works (hopefully) for you both. Symbolic. It was not necessary for you to call me menopausal, for one I am a complete stanger who posted something positive and second most women are not menopausal at 38. You were being insulting for no reason, granfathers don't need to talk about menopause. Do better!!! elder.
I dated a woman and after a few dates as you described here. She observed and asked me “you don’t seem to be concerned about spending money.” I answered I worry about money all the time. I worry about it with my clients and in my business so I don’t have to worry about it when I’m with you.”
Kevin: So why would you even agree to go out with someone you’re not even attracted to? Female caller: I wanted to enjoy his company... Translation > his money made him handsome
Yeah like those NFL players they couldn’t even get as much as my phone number how some of them are very ugly but they have women looking 10 times better than me cuz of their money . That dude Eva langoria was married to for a long time Tony something I forgot his name he couldn’t even get as much as my name let along my number he looked like an alien 👽
@himode cut it out. You know the difference about what we're talking about in the videos topic. Stop trying to defend your lack of grind by making it seem more manly.
I don't understand men who are opposed to dating even if they have to pay. I date & pay & I'm fine with it. Men, you have to learn to pick women who are worthy of your time & money. Then you will have no issues
They're usually lower earners who have been foodie calls. Been burnt feeding some women and money means more to them due to scarcity. I get their position because I was the same way when I made less. Bad dates don't have the same financial damage they used to.
I just started watching Kevin last month and I miss him, too. The brother was down, but dealing with so many delusional women on a basis for several years was very stressful. I couldn't do it because he had to deal with so much foolishness. RIP, my brother.
I’ve told girls I’ve known from when they were 20 up to thirty and I would tell them as they were getting closer to 30 you better make a move it’s almost over and they would reply your “nuts”. Everyone of them eventually came back and said. I can’t believe it no one’s paying me attention. It use to be that I couldn’t walk thru a grocery store and not get hit on. Now there’s nothing they don’t even look! And my reply was always the same. I told ya. And I warned you. Lol.
Stop my mom is married and at 60 she has to tell men she’s married cause they try to “holla” I’ve seen it and of course they hit on me too cause I haven’t hit the “danger zone” yet. And if I keep my nice figure up with diet and exercise I never will 😂😂😂
@@cosmicblessings2060 blessed.. Out of 100 people how many have that experience. This is always the reality. One of my sisters has been married 3x . all to men worth over 1M.. Former NFL player, chemist, CFO ... The problem is she really looks for someone perfect. She is a PHd also, its so funny watching up close.
Lol they always feel they are different that it won’t happen to them. Not realizing after the pretty infatuation wears off for dudes they start paying attention to the attitude and how the lady benefits him and not talking about money.
I'm 51, 12 yrs. married, & still had 2 of my ex GFs from college-who dumped me 4 "better" of course--try & come back via social media. LMAO. 1 was as recent as last summer SMH
Can’t believe it’s been a year. Still watch a full episode almost every night while I cook and eat and remember your last broadcast like it was yesterday. Rest in Peace Godfather, you’ve helped me to be a better man and countless others to be better versions of themselves. The Undefeated King of Rhetoric!
@@colewon6172 the snack.. is that what tf it is...... sounded like whip clap..obnoxious loud volume.. his sound effects annoying... music loud blast and volume up and down. Only good thing is salute
The only thing i can disagree with Kevin on is, STD's don't discriminate by income levels. Just because she can carry herself like a woman, doesn't make her immune to catching something.
It doesn’t matter what level of the game you’re on, whether you’re considered to be a high valued, upper middle class middle class or whatever. Trickin Is a behavior of women who expect men to spend money on them to date them. Its okay for men of any level to spend money on the first initial date because more than likely he initiated the invite and is more likely to express his interest and intent over a meal or drinks. It would only be considered tricking when men continue to allow this behavior of spending money on a woman to date them when she doesn’t reciprocates the treatment and generosity that she is shown because true mutual interest doesn’t exist.
If you start off spending money they'll expect it Everytime, that why 1st date should be drinks rather it be coffee or whiskey. Further more who wants to spend that kind of time with a stranger
I'm just an average Joe but still love your content :) Not complaining, love learning new things and love the way you are straight up and honest. I aspire to be a Henry one day
I can’t imagine a brother with the potential to get to the C-suite saying that his wife is of no value. We’re vetting her while our husband’s are vetting him. It’s as true today as it was back in the dark ages, when my dad, who was a New York banker, attended the Beaux Arts ball every year with my mother on his arm. Her gown and accessories were an investment in his own career.
Tricking is when you spend the money you dont have on people who don't care about you. Taking care of your family is standard married or not. I spend money on family and friends all day. I'm not high value but generosity doesn't mean naive.
@@spliffspark4918 why would you marry someone who don't care about you? why would you get married dead broke? If you doing that then you deserve what ever happens. If it happens after you go broke then she never loved you and we back to the beginning where you choose someone who loves you.. Make better choices get better results dude.
I can't count how many dates I been on and a woman ,went out with me to get a free meal , they had no intention on getting with me , it seem like they want the benefits of a relationship though
Bro, if this is a consistant thing, maybe you need to get a therapist to help you out. Because it seems to me you might be subcommunicating to the women you go out with that all you want is to just treat them sweet and make them feel like a princess without wanting anything from them. Its ok to want sex from women but dont act like you dont when you are connecting and setting up your dates. Just be confident charming assertive and DIRECT but it takes time to learn/unlearn and this why i say get you a therapist to help you out because most of us men are quite indirect in terms of what we want with women... it happend to me a couple of times eons ago and i got pissed off, got help and now, whenever i go on a date, im smashing. Its just that simple. And this is where u wanna be too so get u some help Bro and get ur smash on. Then you can decide if the lady is even high quality enough for you to get on one knee or jump the broom with. All the best Bro.
This man speaks facts. My girlfriends say that high value men always want to take care of me on first sight and they don’t understand why. I’m in my femininity at all times. I let man move how a man moves.
I don't think a woman can truly respect a man that has to pay to spend time with her. Her actions toward him will never come from the right place if fueled by material means.
I think you HOPE a woman can't truly respect a man that has to pay to spend time with her, but the sad reality is that what you THINK (more than likely hope) about female nature is totally different from ACTUAL female nature. That's right, you think (hope) more highly of women than they actually are. You're living the Hope Strategy but it doesn't reflect the reality of their nature at all. Welcome to the real red pill. I hope it goes down well enough for you to be cured of any blue pill conditioning you may have left over from our progenitor Adam, or from any social conditioning you may have been subjected to growing up. Good luck in your awakening to the truth about female nature sir!
Exactly. Lots of women still live by "Save hers, spend his" and let you know she could pick up the tab but the end result is his money was spent because of chivalry.
There is a high end restaurant in Chicago that has no sign just a street number. You wouldn’t even know it was restaurant from the outside. Let that sink in.
If you in vip with a chick, buying drinks for here and her friends and I know she leaving with me at the end of the night you trickN... If your girl done slept with a few of the homies for free and you buying her ish, you trickN...
In my opinion... A woman can definitely improve my life in the areas which I appreciate but I can't easily reach by myself. I mean, I could do it, but the day has only 24h for all of us, so it's better for me to do something else. So here are my concerns: - living place arrangements, (flowers/ all the stuff like cupcakes, etc I love to be visually pleased) - she can be not problematic in regular life (do some chores meanwhile) - definitely take care of children which I want to have at least 3 up to 5 one day. - she is my third eye in social situations - that is somehow tricky but does wonders - SHE CAN APPRECIATE ME ( it doesn't mean that I need it or she has to do it) - touch - we can pay for almost everything, but being gently stroked by someone who respects you - awesome. - I love it when a woman brings some art into my life. This is my own limitation, I can sense it, but can't do it. - somehow, her presence (if she is not lazy/groaning etc.) inspires me. I want to squeeze all the minutes of the day. As you can see, these things aren't so special. That is why I strongly believe that for an average woman to become a high value is a willingness to become one. Snap of a finger. I'm not that HV as Kevin, but I'm on my way. 30 yo military officer. 10% in my country but it's not as well developed as western ones. Greetings!
Since I am always in dresses and skirts I always get told by the participants I work with how cute I look because I am one of two women who wears dresses the other one is overweight. LORD I AM SO HAPPY I AM MARRIED!
I consider myself that type of woman and i am not rich what ever happened to these shallow ass callers opening a book and reading or enriching themselves through various mediums they are lazy generally and want some quick fix
When does spending money on a woman become tricking? When you know she's truly not a FBI..as you describe her. Feminine, beautiful (inside and outside), and inspirational. We know who's sitting across the table from us on that date...most times.
Sad part is there are men out here that will pay and do things like that for women. And that make some women think they can go on about life and think that it's the norm.
Godfather please tell these guys there is a international Rule for real men. 1) A real man take care for his Family 2) Family first 3) He works for his Kids and his woman If you put money over everything you already Lost guys. Why woman look for man with money? Because they want to get care of these man. That he can take care for the kids. What is the problem i cant understand it. Of course you dont spend money on Golddiggers. If you are a real man, you will see the difference. Real woman or real golddigger.
Yes ....Turk Asian, I agree I can see you're a real man. That's is the precise way it goes, a woman is a gift. She gaves you love and respect, she gives you children and teach them to have respect for the both of you. The children then takes care of you in your elderly years. If you have a girlfriend, she's got competition. Because if you speak this openly, women are going to chase you and try to you from her. I know this because, women are chasing me now. We're a rare breed, keep that mindset. I'm glad to see there's still other real men out there. Turk Asian...you're 100% 👍
@@steelbltz what u said is true 90% of men thing...Some women definitely feel entitled to a man's money.Only if she is a bm or wife should she get funds.Anything outside of that is upto the mans discretion.
@@Tionaintown876 you're right. Sometimes I have to slow it from 2x to 1.5 to analyze the situation and absorb the truth/lie detecting ways of Kevin lol
I know im late but thank you so much for saying this. I've been called a jerk and material for putting a dollar sign on dates. It's like a mental contract... ok 2 months up to x amount is spent then time for evaluation. Great break down
Mr. Samuels..I agree with you. When you move in certain circles as a man, going dutch is classless. It shows you are not top tier with your peers (the other men moving within said circles). Classy women don’t like dealing with time wasters. That should be the first and the last date.
himode I understand it is confusing when it seems to be transactional between men and women. If you think about it, life is always a series of negotiations no matter who you are dealing with or in what context. When negotiations stay honorable and non-offensive you have better outcomes. The so call players want everything for nothing or minimal investment. This is not honorable and the return is negligible at best. An investor has to consider the short and long term return and give himself/herself deadlines and an exit strategy, if needed. Good luck since you are applying critical thinking to male and female dynamics.
Call it simping if you please(Most of you can’t use that word right anyways) but paying for a meal just is not on my bucket list of things to gripe with in life. If you find a dime, that’s an investment in a happy future. If you found a terrible woman, that’s a small fee to get poison out your life. Obviously you don’t want to be taken for a ride but gentlemen, there is A WHOLE LOT more to worry about than losing 50-100 dollars...Buying her a meal is not buying her a whole damn house or making her quit her job lmao.
I must agree with the dressing issue these days the only thing women wear are jeans. It starts young. As I have raised my daughter I noticed parents did not put dresses or tights on their little girls. I struggle with my teen about getting her dress lady like. Dresses and feminine. My daughter's friends always tells my daughter your Mom dresses so cute because I am always in a dress, or skirt, blouses, necklaces. I am going to stay on her.
@@rochelleowens6501 nicely done, madame! Keep it this way and wisdom and knowledge to you to teach your girl to dress the same. I've dressed like Kevin since age of 16 and now I'm 34 and continue to dress like this. I learned way back then the power of dressing well and I use that power to the fullest 😉
I don’t know about of other girls but I wasn’t raised wearing dresses because I wasn’t allowed to show my legs. I understand why but now that I am older I would like to but the clothes today are so tight and short.
The millionaire paying 400 for a meal is equivalent to paying $24 for a man that makes $60,000. Its literally .04% of that millionaires income Lol he'll be ok 👌
You’re right, that’s a fair comparison, but the millionaires I know (just 2) are the CHEAPEST people I know! Neither one would ever pay a $400 dinner bill, even though it’s chump change; it’s almost like a game to see how tightly they can pinch their pennies (both grew up poor though, so I think some of that is Poverty PTSD).
Thats assuming the millionaire in question is actually earning an income of a million per year, which is a tiny proportion of actual millionaires. Most are above average earners who live below their means and invest a significant portion of their earnings, and definitely aren’t blowing 400 regularly on meals.
Spending money isn't this issue. Certain ladies demand that spend money on them in return for sex. I honestly thought it was a Baltimore thing. This is a cultural issue. Media is destroying black women. Breaking families up. The issue I have are with highly educated women.
Media destroying black women?! Sounds more like a lack of accountability for one's own morals, integrity and consciousness. When you lead with money, expect the bull that comes along with it.... 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️.
Listening to. Kevin from East Africa. What people may not be aware of, is the African girls here ape everything USA. The main difference here is there is no govt support! Even with strong societies/ father figures, some still slip through that net. Great eye opening info sir!
@@cliatuspondue ASMR....exactly. hahahah...bless him. He's getting PAID sitting at home talking shit to lost people. He's giving us the blueprint. You really can do anything you want in life. I gravitate more to his older videos...he wasn't as.....sassy. hahahhah...but people love this incarnation. For me its a guilty pleasure like LAHH or 60 Fiance... It's amazing. I call it the Tyler Perry affect. It's not about what I personally like, its about seeing someone that has found their niche and learning from them. Salute.
Its easy: the value a woman provides is a solid homebase. When I am at work I want to be sure of certain things. My kids are being fed, are going to school & sports, are being taken care of in a proper way. I want to come home to a clean house and with my dinner ready. When I call at 5 to say I will be home at 7 with 2 coworkers I expect my coworkers to be fed a delicious meal while being entertained by my upbeat, good looking wife. I don’t want lip when I call to say I am bringing geust. I wanna hear: great sweety looking forward to that ! I don’t want to be called at work by a panicky woman screaming that a pipe bursted in the kitchen. When a pipe burst in the kitchen I expect my wife to call a plumber and get it sorted out without in any way letting it interfere with normal daily operations. In short I expect my wife to handle my estate and children like a professional manager without bothering my in any way. I also expect here to take care of herself and stay slim & healthy. Its a very well payed and appreciated job so I don’t expect any complaints. I expect respect, loving & appreciation. Do all that and we will both be happy & fulfilled.
That is exactly what a word fe is. She is in charge of the home, she has to know how to handle that responsibility for The Family. That is paying the bills, management of budgets, caring for the upkeep. Second is caring for ALL child care responsibilities. There is no calls bugging a Husband at work, no showing up at the job, no meeting for lunch. So many women don’t know how to do ANYTHING. It’s bizarre. I’ve done this for 25 years, and it’s my Husband’s expectations that I trying to meet daily.
You nailed it right on the head. Especially if that man is working multiple jobs, bringing home all the bread while putting up with a lot of bullcrap at work. I would value coming to a clean peaceful home more than anything. It doesn't mean that the other things you just stated shouldn't get done because they should, but I don't want any strife when I come home from work. All this is laid on the table before I would secure a wife. You made great points here.
In chat, Jose Navarro said, " If I made a $1million a year, $400 for a dinner is ridiculous..." ~ I have to AGREE with his comment and I think The Godfather is out of touch with the price of things. If I was earning $10million a year, I still would not pay this amount for a meal that will be pooped out my ass the next day. I would prefer to have a $150 meal and give the other $250 to charity... MONEY HAS MEANING...
I love when Kevin’s like wow you call my show to not talk about the topic.... every other caller does this but he helps them anyway. Every time damn near lol. I’m glad he takes them though.
He just needs to be real and tell young men to not get married, not when they have nothing to gain and risk losing 50% of their wealth. Listening to the women who call should be clear enough, but he needs to say it.
@@damienprice9576 He can't bruh...What KS has done is a stroke of genius. All he literally did was put the mirror up and let them speak and expose themselves. I have learned alot tho I already felt I knew women well. But to see the OLDER women literally talk like the younger ones do SHELL SHOCKS me! They never really figure it out!
@@miyagifatghost2684 Well hopefully Millennial men start wising up and let that marriage shit die. Women aren't marrying men that they love or heck even care about, they're marrying men for money. Back in the day it was a lil better because once they settled they committed and stayed, now they bounce as soon as something better comes along. Dudes need to stop marrying these millennial women, Pre-nups don't even work anymore just look at Dr. Dre goofy ass. Until these no-fault divorce rules change chicks will keep using dudes as steps on a ladder to that glamorous life they don't want to work for.
2:19:26 Since watching your show this moment truly expresses how dedicated you are to the community.. For you to "heavy sigh" knowing that she about to say nonsense and predicting the man already had kids!!!!! I almost died .
That was terrible how the girls acted, 30 and 40 year olds acting like children. Kevin tries to help women and they throw it back in his face. No class, only one female caller was serious out of 5 to 7 calls. Made me sick hearing it..
The reason why is because they are so focused on being right and listening to reply instead of listening to understand on the things they need to do if they want an HVM or doing something wrong in their relationship
That's our fault as men blowing their heads up over these decades...letting them call themselves Queen and etc! Now even the Regulars with nothing to offer a man call themselves Queens...and the old women to hear them talk like that. Makes me lose hope
I had to comment. Bro. Samuels you struck a chord with me when you told the young men that, "memories are important." On a trip to Spain; I hired this Castilian lady in Barcelona. She cost $6,000.00 U. S. ( at that time ) For seven days. She was a lovely, very well versed escort. We went to, Le Rive Gauch in the South of France. A man feels worthy when walking into the casino atm The Grand Hotel in Monte Carlo with an exquisite specimen of feminine pulchritude wrapped around his arm. Money is a tool, not a means to an end. You make it, you spend it. What else you gonna do with it? The right tool, for the right job.
@@dennisrobinson8008 Well, bro. Dennis; my destination was the Grand Hotel on The Left Bank in the south of France, Monte Carlo. In answer to your question; I deliberately went for the escort because, I didnt have time to do, the FIND & TRAIN thing. Besides, I wouldn't know if I could trust her. I needed a woman who could successfully navigate among Pashas, Sheikhs, Dukes, and, Lords; as well as other people, and, dignitaries from other lands. She did exceedingly well. She engaged with the Contessa DiContinni from Florence, while I was at the roulette wheel. It was a grand time! Ya made me think back, Dennis!!! Damn, that felt good. Peace, man.
Taking women on dates and buying women gifts when they deserve it is not tricking. Paying women’s bills just to get the chance to spend time with them is...
That response to the Pookie and Ray Ray thing was both entertaining and powerful. Why envy guys who are really at a lower level? Why not focus on excellence?
That one chick said her baby daddy was a day laborer with no drive or ambition that bounce from job to job so she left him....OK..then The guy she been dating for 3yrs try to give her gifts but she don't wanna except them or let him pay for anything 🤔 I'm cross eyed now🤦 WTF LADIES!!
I have zero issue picking up the check. I've had issues with other men getting offended because I covered the meal, as though I was saying they couldn't do it. I did it cuz I wanted to, cuz I could, not cuz you can't.
Most of your listeners are average guys, you talking to average guys, successful men don’t have time to listen to you, give respect when it due brother.
He’s giving advice to average guys that aspire to high value. This is a free glimpse into the VIP section. You don’t need nor deserve respect from him. He’s an NBA player when it comes to relationships. Would you expect NBA players need to give due respect to viewers that they’re giving FREE ADVICE TO?
Kevin is totally right regarding things that reduces a woman’s value: 1. Age 2. Kids 3. WEIGHT 4. BAD CREDIT In fact a woman with kids will have her highest SMV with the man she had the kids with, than with the men out in open dating market. Women tend to eliminate themselves from acquiring an HVM.
Nadia Richardson There are exceptions...which proves the rule. The wall is so close she can smell the bricks and mortar. Being the highest paid sugar baby at age 37 is not something to be proud of....this is not hate or a debate. Shout to her
They exist. My husband & I have been together for 5 years. We will be married for 3 years this Winter. On our first date & till this day he always paid for our dates. I knew my worth & it was exuded on a regular basis.
@@themosthighvaluemaninthega9048 Hahaha females don't operate like that. They would all get offended and stop talking to me. They'd rather be in denial and blame it on the men!
Stop taking women out to dinner on the first date. Take her out for coffee and get to know her a little. If she isn't down for that, pick your head up, keep your money, and keep it moving. 🏃
Very Very Interesting. Fight over the Check! Knowledge / Wealth! (I have been a few times to High End Restaurants. The experience is priceless. You are literally treated like Royalty. It is the experience that is created in that environment that has extreeme value.)
The fact that the woman had to say out loud, Why he left, shows that she was buying time to stall to shape her story in a way to not say she messed up and is the reason why he left. Just say your bs is the reason he left and own it. How hard is that? These women will not tell the truth for nothing.
Lol. I hear what you're saying about the woman you start with not necessarily being the woman you end up with when you get to the top. But this is how movies like "Waiting to Exhale" and "Diary of A Mad Black Woman" end up getting made.
I have some old friendships with some guys who are movers and shakers. To my surprise , they have a notoriously difficult time finding suitable women. One thing I didn’t consider was that a lot of women moving in these “high-value” circles are the product of “high-value” marriages and as a result, they have financial expectations. You might might have millions in your account, but her father used to spend millions on her mother, annually. How do you compete with that? You need a woman with similar financial expectations. Plus, you also have to be seen to be on the same level as those other high-level couples. There are levels and then there are levels.
Taking a woman on a date is not tricking, that's broke talk. But some of these women be expecting girlfriend/wife treatment on day 1. Taking a woman shopping on the 1st date is tricking.
Whenever they say, "I'm going to be honest", they mean, "I haven't been honest previously and now I'm going to lie in a different way."
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The last time I dated a black woman (she was a little on the heavy side and didn't have a job) I took her out to eat and we had a pleasant conversation... When I got home I checked to see if she was on Facebook (she was) and noticed the last post she made was about our date and she said "I love ripping off old white men. Pay for my shit, trick!" - After that, I avoided her calls and texts for 3 weeks. Her next post on Facebook was "Where are all the good men?"
That was about 10 years ago and I don't miss the dating scene at all. As soon as my mortgage was paid off in 2015, I closed the door on dating and just enjoyed the peace and quiet.
Ugly people on the inside, make everything ugly. Shouldn't let ugly people give up possibilities with beautiful people.
so you decided to close dating from one bad experience?
I like the way you took it in stride… One meal??? Here you go Chubby, make it last… Bet she still out there single, broke and hungry asking for a good man.. unfortunately this is all too basic. Other countries actually still have the words “value and appreciation”
@@OnHerMajestySecretServiceHe has the right to do as he pleases.
Get a foreign chick
Slight correction... The man said: "higher value men don't mind spending money" but the reality is: we don't mind spending money on things we deem to be valuable. Just to be clear... When a man has a long term wealth building and acquisition strategy, he isn't out here throwing money away as if it doesn't matter!
Facts. I'm more like Warren Buffett with my money though. He had his baby in a dresser drawer instead of buying a crib. That's how I am
💯 none of use are budgeting to throw away money like we have an endless bank account. A woman who's worth it will have that benefit when we date.
Not a correction it’s implied or else he likely wouldn’t be or remain in his financial position.
@Green Mills Just to make sure I'm not misunderstanding...
Are you really asserting that business owners who exercise financial prudence in order to expand via acquisition are "bums?"
That statement is so bizarre, that I figured I should ask for clarification before responding.
Had a woman I was madly in love with, And we would need for lunch. When I knew it was getting more serious, I told her my plan was to stop spending $20-$30 on lunches everyday so I can save up for my next power move. She threw such a tantrum and should’ve been my early indicator to leave her alone and continue my level up! I was 27 at the time making great money for my age. Stay away from these succubus that cannot see past their own self desires and can’t accommodate your power moves.
These women are 35+ and still acting like 14 year olds. Scary
That's y I'm not even friends with them and I'm a woman. That immature, irrational behavior goes beyond dating 4 them. It goes in2 woman 2 woman friendships. They can't maintain them.
@@October3074 growing up i always seen women around me mom, aunts, cousins, classmates have at most ONE real friend and i always found it very odd as a kid while boys could fight and still be friends on the same team after
@@pharaohstudiosllc 😄😄 unfortunately that is a lot true. My mother is one of them.
That's because they had kids at that age and lost their childhood to raising children
@@14paste14 😳😳😳😳
Going home to kiss my husband, because I was older 38 when we started dating and had a child. He traveled and dated and he paid and we got married when I was 40. And I am not a 10 but I am a least an 8 to him, which is all that matters. I keep listening despite my alarm because it makes me appreciate my husband all the more!!!!!
no you a 10 because he believes it and you are his queen!! thats wonderful you giving us older women hope. Congratulations 👏 👏
I am 62 and married to a 24 year old Filipina , most men have no interest in menopausal woman , your husband Is a saint for choosing and being loyal to you
@@jamesblack9499 Some men are confident enough to marry a women for which they can have more in common. We both know why that 28 year old married you and it was not for your handsome good looks or stamina. But I respect your union because that works (hopefully) for you both. Symbolic. It was not necessary for you to call me menopausal, for one I am a complete stanger who posted something positive and second most women are not menopausal at 38. You were being insulting for no reason, granfathers don't need to talk about menopause. Do better!!! elder.
@@lakeishagalloway2983 I will only say , a man will choose the best partner he can attract .
& then the slap on the back of her neck, from her manager at MD’s, woke her up, & she realised she had been dreaming!!
Older women don't get younger women treatment..."that's outrageous" says women.
Broke men dont get rich men treatment..."damn right!" Says women.
Hell they cheat rich men with broke dudes.
Well put
So funny
Nailed it
@@dennisrobinson8008 true lol
I dated a woman and after a few dates as you described here. She observed and asked me “you don’t seem to be concerned about spending money.” I answered I worry about money all the time. I worry about it with my clients and in my business so I don’t have to worry about it when I’m with you.”
Awww🥺
Makes sense to me.
No disrespect but David you look like you pay for dates! You are average at best in looks
@@thetgrenadegranada1570 Lmao
I dont spend shit on bitches.. They have to earn it
Kevin: So why would you even agree to go out with someone you’re not even attracted to?
Female caller: I wanted to enjoy his company... Translation > his money made him handsome
Translation: she's broke and hungry!
Money makes every unattractive man handsome
Yeah like those NFL players they couldn’t even get as much as my phone number how some of them are very ugly but they have women looking 10 times better than me cuz of their money . That dude Eva langoria was married to for a long time Tony something I forgot his name he couldn’t even get as much as my name let along my number he looked like an alien 👽
@@beautiful4evergod879 ok.
@@beautiful4evergod879 it’s ok to sew some oats on the , ummm easy women . None are suitable for wife however.
There's nothing wrong with spending money on a quality woman.
It is if she isn't giving you anything of value in return,,,
@@tom11zz884 That would imply she isnt a quality woman
Yeah, just don’t lead with money for validation.
Agreed. And it's usually broke dudes that think leading with money means picking up the check at a date.
@himode cut it out. You know the difference about what we're talking about in the videos topic. Stop trying to defend your lack of grind by making it seem more manly.
I don't understand men who are opposed to dating even if they have to pay. I date & pay & I'm fine with it. Men, you have to learn to pick women who are worthy of your time & money. Then you will have no issues
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Yes what has value will be valued !!!
They're usually lower earners who have been foodie calls. Been burnt feeding some women and money means more to them due to scarcity. I get their position because I was the same way when I made less. Bad dates don't have the same financial damage they used to.
A woman's time is not worth more than your time
Yeah just be mindful and don't waste your time. I prefer to pay for mines and he pay for his on a Date.
I just started watching Kevin last month and I miss him, too. The brother was down, but dealing with so many delusional women on a basis for several years was very stressful. I couldn't do it because he had to deal with so much foolishness. RIP, my brother.
I’ve told girls I’ve known from when they were 20 up to thirty and I would tell them as they were getting closer to 30 you better make a move it’s almost over and they would reply your “nuts”. Everyone of them eventually came back and said. I can’t believe it no one’s paying me attention. It use to be that I couldn’t walk thru a grocery store and not get hit on. Now there’s nothing they don’t even look! And my reply was always the same. I told ya. And I warned you. Lol.
Stop my mom is married and at 60 she has to tell men she’s married cause they try to “holla” I’ve seen it and of course they hit on me too cause I haven’t hit the “danger zone” yet. And if I keep my nice figure up with diet and exercise I never will 😂😂😂
@@cosmicblessings2060 lmfao!
@@cosmicblessings2060 blessed.. Out of 100 people how many have that experience. This is always the reality. One of my sisters has been married 3x . all to men worth over 1M.. Former NFL player, chemist, CFO ... The problem is she really looks for someone perfect. She is a PHd also, its so funny watching up close.
Lol they always feel they are different that it won’t happen to them. Not realizing after the pretty infatuation wears off for dudes they start paying attention to the attitude and how the lady benefits him and not talking about money.
I'm 51, 12 yrs. married, & still had 2 of my ex GFs from college-who dumped me 4 "better" of course--try & come back via social media. LMAO. 1 was as recent as last summer SMH
Can’t believe it’s been a year. Still watch a full episode almost every night while I cook and eat and remember your last broadcast like it was yesterday. Rest in Peace Godfather, you’ve helped me to be a better man and countless others to be better versions of themselves. The Undefeated King of Rhetoric!
That funeral salute gets me every time.. 😂😂
The smacks get me.
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@@colewon6172 the snack.. is that what tf it is...... sounded like whip clap..obnoxious loud volume.. his sound effects annoying... music loud blast and volume up and down. Only good thing is salute
I trip when he drops the money world song 🤣
😂😂😂😂, I crack up Everytime I hear it.
The only thing i can disagree with Kevin on is, STD's don't discriminate by income levels. Just because she can carry herself like a woman, doesn't make her immune to catching something.
If she did carry herself like a woman, it’s a higher chance of it not happening. Same for men. Because STDs do discriminate by behaviors.
Get her tested and the results sent to your phone or email
He doesn’t speak on exceptions he is saying what he says because STD are more rampant in lower income areas.
He’s not really saying that, he’s just saying if you’re worried about costs, you gotta think about that too
1:09:00 first phone
1:18:00
1:32:00
1:50:00
2:10:00
2:27:00
Honest, hard truth. Many of the women who called in cannot have a proper conversation and cannot handle truths and show accountability.
My man is ICE COLD!!!
His BS radar is unfuckwithable.
Bruh he be reading through BS that I don’t even peep and I think I have a pretty strong BS meter 😂 he’s a legend
Bruh im stealing that! Lol
I suspect the godfather was some sort of profiler or detective in a previous life
Every damn time.
Elliott ness and the untouchables
I’m so glad I’m married to a good woman! Not perfect but good and good is great! 33 years!
Well done . I got 15 good years then , it all went south , no sex bad communication . 15 more years of torture .
Enjoy
You pick poorly then judge them for being poor...classic!!!
That was a highlight of the video
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A high end restaurant has His/Hers menus. His menu has prices. Her menu has no prices.
Never noticed that.
Factuals!
@Lamar Brown did you receive the females menu
Found that out after college. Lol. I was miseducated in alot of ways.
Word..? 👀👀👀
It doesn’t matter what level of the game you’re on, whether you’re considered to be a high valued, upper middle class middle class or whatever. Trickin Is a behavior of women who expect men to spend money on them to date them. Its okay for men of any level to spend money on the first initial date because more than likely he initiated the invite and is more likely to express his interest and intent over a meal or drinks. It would only be considered tricking when men continue to allow this behavior of spending money on a woman to date them when she doesn’t reciprocates the treatment and generosity that she is shown because true mutual interest doesn’t exist.
If you start off spending money they'll expect it Everytime, that why 1st date should be drinks rather it be coffee or whiskey. Further more who wants to spend that kind of time with a stranger
Young. Buck. King. Solomon
"I'm gonna be totally transparent here..."
Me: Here comes some straight up bullshit.
They dont love you. They Love what you can do for them. If you dont do anything for them,that benefits them,they will leave. Advantage to you.
I'm just an average Joe but still love your content :) Not complaining, love learning new things and love the way you are straight up and honest. I aspire to be a Henry one day
You have to move out of your mom's basement first...
Kevin is a surgeon with his questions and understanding, it’s great to watch and gives me hope that there are men out there of this caliber
I must say...great taste in intro music Kevin. My hats off to you. It’s 5am, missed live show, music made my morning. Thank you for your channel.
I can’t imagine a brother with the potential to get to the C-suite saying that his wife is of no value. We’re vetting her while our husband’s are vetting him. It’s as true today as it was back in the dark ages, when my dad, who was a New York banker, attended the Beaux Arts ball every year with my mother on his arm. Her gown and accessories were an investment in his own career.
So...
Are you saying your mother was an escort?
Tricking is when you spend the money you dont have on people who don't care about you. Taking care of your family is standard married or not. I spend money on family and friends all day. I'm not high value but generosity doesn't mean naive.
what if as a husband you do not have much money and your wife doesn't care about you. will that be considered tricking?
Spliff Spark how did she end up being your wife then??
perhaps she fell out of love with you @@totallychillgirl2895
@@spliffspark4918 an shit like that is why marriage is failing.
@@spliffspark4918 why would you marry someone who don't care about you? why would you get married dead broke? If you doing that then you deserve what ever happens. If it happens after you go broke then she never loved you and we back to the beginning where you choose someone who loves you.. Make better choices get better results dude.
I can't count how many dates I been on and a woman ,went out with me to get a free meal , they had no intention on getting with me , it seem like they want the benefits of a relationship though
sounds bout right, trust me I been down that road too
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How about you trash your choosing skills instead of the women? Are you ever able to hold yourself accountable or you just talk s**t?
@@selomekebour3439 How was your statement relevant?
Bro, if this is a consistant thing, maybe you need to get a therapist to help you out. Because it seems to me you might be subcommunicating to the women you go out with that all you want is to just treat them sweet and make them feel like a princess without wanting anything from them. Its ok to want sex from women but dont act like you dont when you are connecting and setting up your dates. Just be confident charming assertive and DIRECT but it takes time to learn/unlearn and this why i say get you a therapist to help you out because most of us men are quite indirect in terms of what we want with women... it happend to me a couple of times eons ago and i got pissed off, got help and now, whenever i go on a date, im smashing. Its just that simple. And this is where u wanna be too so get u some help Bro and get ur smash on. Then you can decide if the lady is even high quality enough for you to get on one knee or jump the broom with. All the best Bro.
"I'll get this. No, I'LL get it." You are SO right! My husband fought for the check all the time, lol.
This man speaks facts. My girlfriends say that high value men always want to take care of me on first sight and they don’t understand why. I’m in my femininity at all times. I let man move how a man moves.
You let a man move how a man moves?? A man will move and does things as he pleases inspite of what you say. He does not need your approval.
I don't think a woman can truly respect a man that has to pay to spend time with her. Her actions toward him will never come from the right place if fueled by material means.
I think you HOPE a woman can't truly respect a man that has to pay to spend time with her,
but the sad reality is that what you THINK (more than likely hope) about female nature is totally different from ACTUAL female nature.
That's right, you think (hope) more highly of women than they actually are.
You're living the Hope Strategy but it doesn't reflect the reality of their nature at all.
Welcome to the real red pill. I hope it goes down well enough for you to be cured of any blue pill conditioning
you may have left over from our progenitor Adam, or from any social conditioning you may have been subjected to growing up.
Good luck in your awakening to the truth about female nature sir!
Agreed
You can watch TV shows which are centered around women and dating going back 20 years to prove exactly this... You don't have to spend money...
Exactly. Lots of women still live by "Save hers, spend his" and let you know she could pick up the tab but the end result is his money was spent because of chivalry.
There is a high end restaurant in Chicago that has no sign just a street number. You wouldn’t even know it was restaurant from the outside. Let that sink in.
Division street
If you in vip with a chick, buying drinks for here and her friends and I know she leaving with me at the end of the night you trickN...
If your girl done slept with a few of the homies for free and you buying her ish, you trickN...
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No free validation. No free drinks.
Damn you right but if that's your homie being a clown is he really your homie
In my opinion... A woman can definitely improve my life in the areas which I appreciate but I can't easily reach by myself. I mean, I could do it, but the day has only 24h for all of us, so it's better for me to do something else. So here are my concerns:
- living place arrangements, (flowers/ all the stuff like cupcakes, etc I love to be visually pleased)
- she can be not problematic in regular life (do some chores meanwhile)
- definitely take care of children which I want to have at least 3 up to 5 one day.
- she is my third eye in social situations - that is somehow tricky but does wonders
- SHE CAN APPRECIATE ME ( it doesn't mean that I need it or she has to do it)
- touch - we can pay for almost everything, but being gently stroked by someone who respects you - awesome.
- I love it when a woman brings some art into my life. This is my own limitation, I can sense it, but can't do it.
- somehow, her presence (if she is not lazy/groaning etc.) inspires me. I want to squeeze all the minutes of the day.
As you can see, these things aren't so special. That is why I strongly believe that for an average woman to become a high value is a willingness to become one. Snap of a finger.
I'm not that HV as Kevin, but I'm on my way.
30 yo military officer. 10% in my country but it's not as well developed as western ones. Greetings!
Pls Try traditional African women.
That sounds very reasonable
Since I am always in dresses and skirts I always get told by the participants I work with how cute I look because I am one of two women who wears dresses the other one is overweight. LORD I AM SO HAPPY I AM MARRIED!
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@@LA-wv7gf omg... Flip flops???
And later women like her complain about not finding a man that take her seriously🙄🙄
@@LA-wv7gf She wasn't that into him.
Yea I like women in a dress 👗 and skirts
@@LA-wv7gf I hope he said 'oh no' and cancelled the date on spot. that's ridiculous .
We have to learn how to communicate better to each other. Simple questions take forever for people to answer.
Phi, you are a leader of men. You have my deference. I stay High Valued. Yo baby, yo baby, yo!
HVM is basically what used to be called back in the day A Renaissance Man. Well versed in life, travel, society, women etc.
@MasterWuWei You Hit The Nail Right On The Head!!! Thats The Best Description of A High Value Man!!! Great Insight!👍👍👍💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥✔✔✔👌👌👌
@@docfada1701 respect
I consider myself that type of woman and i am not rich what ever happened to these shallow ass callers opening a book and reading or enriching themselves through various mediums they are lazy generally and want some quick fix
Absolutely!
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When does spending money on a woman become tricking? When you know she's truly not a FBI..as you describe her. Feminine, beautiful (inside and outside), and inspirational. We know who's sitting across the table from us on that date...most times.
She can be all that and still not like you but keep you around because you spend something on her heck she may even give you some..
Sad part is there are men out here that will pay and do things like that for women. And that make some women think they can go on about life and think that it's the norm.
True, the right woman can inspire a man to achieve more, go further and strive to go beyond limitations.
Kevin be going In! They Really Think it’s A Game! But You Gone Learn Today 😂
Godfather please tell these guys there is a international Rule for real men.
1) A real man take care for his Family
2) Family first
3) He works for his Kids and his woman
If you put money over everything you already Lost guys. Why woman look for man with money? Because they want to get care of these man. That he can take care for the kids.
What is the problem i cant understand it.
Of course you dont spend money on Golddiggers. If you are a real man, you will see the difference. Real woman or real golddigger.
True
The problem is you believing putting money over everything is some how loosing
Yes ....Turk Asian, I agree I can see you're a real man.
That's is the precise way it goes, a woman is a gift.
She gaves you love and respect, she gives you children and teach them to have respect for the both of you.
The children then takes care of you in your elderly years.
If you have a girlfriend, she's got competition.
Because if you speak this openly, women are going to chase you and try to you from her.
I know this because, women are chasing me now.
We're a rare breed, keep that mindset.
I'm glad to see there's still other real men out there.
Turk Asian...you're 100% 👍
Man I tell women like this, "ill spend on you if I FEEL like spending on you. Its my money, not ya obligation"🤷🏿♂️
But are youna high value man and if not you need to ask yourself Why???
@@jibcoolio7 90% of men arent "High value", so idk what that has to do with what I said
Lol.
@@bowlegged876 ? Wus funny
@@steelbltz what u said is true 90% of men thing...Some women definitely feel entitled to a man's money.Only if she is a bm or wife should she get funds.Anything outside of that is upto the mans discretion.
This is your newest video and Im here after watching some of the other ones at faster speed... That's all I've been doing all day lol
Omg right... generally watch them at 1.5x
@@Tionaintown876 you're right. Sometimes I have to slow it from 2x to 1.5 to analyze the situation and absorb the truth/lie detecting ways of Kevin lol
@@Tionaintown876 1.25x for me! :))
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I hope y'all learning something about men while you are speeding through them.
I know im late but thank you so much for saying this. I've been called a jerk and material for putting a dollar sign on dates. It's like a mental contract... ok 2 months up to x amount is spent then time for evaluation. Great break down
Please Kevin we need you alive at your age slow down on those red bull.
@3rd Way not true
@Moor 34 Moor 34 😆 a hell of a drug.
According to KS, he had already had a past dealings with cancer. He does need to slow it down.
I know right. cringe every time he takes a sip.
It sucks seeing this comment after he passed away 😞
Only people with money fight for the check. Most average black folks don't even believe in tipping 20% let alone fighting for the check.
Is a culture not expounded upon
Mr. Samuels..I agree with you. When you move in certain circles as a man,
going dutch is classless. It shows you are not top tier with your peers
(the other men moving within said circles). Classy women don’t like dealing
with time wasters. That should be the first and the last date.
himode I understand it is confusing when it seems to be transactional between men and women. If you think about it, life is always a series of negotiations no matter who you are dealing with or in what context. When negotiations stay honorable and non-offensive you have better outcomes. The so call players want everything for nothing or minimal investment. This is not honorable and the return is negligible at best. An investor has to consider the short and long term return and give himself/herself deadlines and an exit strategy, if needed. Good luck since you are applying critical thinking to male and female dynamics.
Provided for your wife and children is tricking?
What kind of Dusty, Corner store standing , loose cigarette buying nonsense is that?
@@unlimited971 only booboo the fool would try to wife ^^^ that up
Aint those the clowns yall prefer
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If that's 'trickin'....IM THE BIGGEST TRICK IN THE 🌎
Call it simping if you please(Most of you can’t use that word right anyways) but paying for a meal just is not on my bucket list of things to gripe with in life. If you find a dime, that’s an investment in a happy future. If you found a terrible woman, that’s a small fee to get poison out your life. Obviously you don’t want to be taken for a ride but gentlemen, there is A WHOLE LOT more to worry about than losing 50-100 dollars...Buying her a meal is not buying her a whole damn house or making her quit her job lmao.
Reality Not Considered Sorry man. Can’t relate.
Reality Not Considered like I said. Can’t relate.
I must agree with the dressing issue these days the only thing women wear are jeans. It starts young. As I have raised my daughter I noticed parents did not put dresses or tights on their little girls. I struggle with my teen about getting her dress lady like. Dresses and feminine. My daughter's friends always tells my daughter your Mom dresses so cute because I am always in a dress, or skirt, blouses, necklaces. I am going to stay on her.
Funny that your photo speaks different from the text you put in here 😂
@@bull.dog. wearing a dress, tights and boots right now!😏
@@rochelleowens6501 nicely done, madame! Keep it this way and wisdom and knowledge to you to teach your girl to dress the same. I've dressed like Kevin since age of 16 and now I'm 34 and continue to dress like this. I learned way back then the power of dressing well and I use that power to the fullest 😉
I don’t know about of other girls but I wasn’t raised wearing dresses because I wasn’t allowed to show my legs. I understand why but now that I am older I would like to but the clothes today are so tight and short.
@@alexandriagamble8147 No disrespect to your upbringing but long dresses and skirts are available to wear. Muslim women and girls wear them.
Man I die laughing every time Kevin play taps on em and salute 😂😂😂
The millionaire paying 400 for a meal is equivalent to paying $24 for a man that makes $60,000.
Its literally .04% of that millionaires income
Lol he'll be ok 👌
You’re right, that’s a fair comparison, but the millionaires I know (just 2) are the CHEAPEST people I know! Neither one would ever pay a $400 dinner bill, even though it’s chump change; it’s almost like a game to see how tightly they can pinch their pennies (both grew up poor though, so I think some of that is Poverty PTSD).
@@lisar.3815 My school churns out future millionaires like butter and they honestly drop money on food like gum wrappers 😆.
Thats assuming the millionaire in question is actually earning an income of a million per year, which is a tiny proportion of actual millionaires. Most are above average earners who live below their means and invest a significant portion of their earnings, and definitely aren’t blowing 400 regularly on meals.
especially when he turns it into a business meal... it's business!
@@lisar.3815 😂😂😂 yup, I'm seen some very stingy rich people..!
Spending money isn't this issue. Certain ladies demand that spend money on them in return for sex. I honestly thought it was a Baltimore thing. This is a cultural issue. Media is destroying black women. Breaking families up. The issue I have are with highly educated women.
Media destroying black women?! Sounds more like a lack of accountability for one's own morals, integrity and consciousness. When you lead with money, expect the bull that comes along with it.... 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️.
Sounds like a prostitute
Listening to. Kevin from East Africa. What people may not be aware of, is the African girls here ape everything USA. The main difference here is there is no govt support! Even with strong societies/ father figures, some still slip through that net. Great eye opening info sir!
MKTu Industrialization and technological advancement play a large role in feminism and female empowerment as well.
Sorry to hear thateast Africa has beautiful women.
@@MrMannface lol. They are everywhere!
KS you a saving the black community one black man and women at a time. Get family husband and wives clearly and recommending them to reunite 🙌🙌
I really like this guy. He has decoded the Matrix...but the Red Bull burps are really annoying
For real. It’s like an ASMR show; you can hear his sinuses clicking too, reminds me of my grandad.
😂😂😂
That's the only knock on him even if he just said excuse me after!
@@cliatuspondue ASMR....exactly. hahahah...bless him. He's getting PAID sitting at home talking shit to lost people. He's giving us the blueprint. You really can do anything you want in life. I gravitate more to his older videos...he wasn't as.....sassy. hahahhah...but people love this incarnation. For me its a guilty pleasure like LAHH or 60 Fiance... It's amazing. I call it the Tyler Perry affect. It's not about what I personally like, its about seeing someone that has found their niche and learning from them. Salute.
Lol...you will always find something
Its easy: the value a woman provides is a solid homebase. When I am at work I want to be sure of certain things. My kids are being fed, are going to school & sports, are being taken care of in a proper way. I want to come home to a clean house and with my dinner ready. When I call at 5 to say I will be home at 7 with 2 coworkers I expect my coworkers to be fed a delicious meal while being entertained by my upbeat, good looking wife. I don’t want lip when I call to say I am bringing geust. I wanna hear: great sweety looking forward to that ! I don’t want to be called at work by a panicky woman screaming that a pipe bursted in the kitchen.
When a pipe burst in the kitchen I expect my wife to call a plumber and get it sorted out without in any way letting it interfere with normal daily operations. In short I expect my wife to handle my estate and children like a professional manager without bothering my in any way. I also expect here to take care of herself and stay slim & healthy.
Its a very well payed and appreciated job so I don’t expect any complaints. I expect respect, loving & appreciation. Do all that and we will both be happy & fulfilled.
That is exactly what a word fe is. She is in charge of the home, she has to know how to handle that responsibility for The Family. That is paying the bills, management of budgets, caring for the upkeep.
Second is caring for ALL child care responsibilities.
There is no calls bugging a Husband at work, no showing up at the job, no meeting for lunch.
So many women don’t know how to do ANYTHING. It’s bizarre.
I’ve done this for 25 years, and it’s my Husband’s expectations that I trying to meet daily.
You nailed it right on the head. Especially if that man is working multiple jobs, bringing home all the bread while putting up with a lot of bullcrap at work. I would value coming to a clean peaceful home more than anything. It doesn't mean that the other things you just stated shouldn't get done because they should, but I don't want any strife when I come home from work. All this is laid on the table before I would secure a wife. You made great points here.
In chat, Jose Navarro said, " If I made a $1million a year, $400 for a dinner is ridiculous..." ~ I have to AGREE with his comment and I think The Godfather is out of touch with the price of things. If I was earning $10million a year, I still would not pay this amount for a meal that will be pooped out my ass the next day. I would prefer to have a $150 meal and give the other $250 to charity... MONEY HAS MEANING...
Elcheapo
Or ladies the older you get the smarter he gets and he realize money does not buy love.
I love when Kevin’s like wow you call my show to not talk about the topic.... every other caller does this but he helps them anyway. Every time damn near lol. I’m glad he takes them though.
Bro, listen to the first track on the intro it’s fire 🔥 🎉🎉🎉
No disrespect to Steve Harvey but The Godfather is killing the game....real talk!!! Great show once again!
He just needs to be real and tell young men to not get married, not when they have nothing to gain and risk losing 50% of their wealth. Listening to the women who call should be clear enough, but he needs to say it.
No disrespect to Mr. Harvey and his female pandering a$$?? Are you serious? Kevin sermons shall NOT be mentioned in the realm with that man plz...!
@@damienprice9576 He can't bruh...What KS has done is a stroke of genius. All he literally did was put the mirror up and let them speak and expose themselves. I have learned alot tho I already felt I knew women well. But to see the OLDER women literally talk like the younger ones do SHELL SHOCKS me! They never really figure it out!
@@miyagifatghost2684 Well hopefully Millennial men start wising up and let that marriage shit die. Women aren't marrying men that they love or heck even care about, they're marrying men for money. Back in the day it was a lil better because once they settled they committed and stayed, now they bounce as soon as something better comes along. Dudes need to stop marrying these millennial women, Pre-nups don't even work anymore just look at Dr. Dre goofy ass. Until these no-fault divorce rules change chicks will keep using dudes as steps on a ladder to that glamorous life they don't want to work for.
Not really. The audience is mostly frustrated washed up rough looking women. We good G.
2:19:26 Since watching your show this moment truly expresses how dedicated you are to the community.. For you to "heavy sigh" knowing that she about to say nonsense and predicting the man already had kids!!!!! I almost died .
Word up😂😂 i loveee kevin
Great to see the shout out to Tom Leykis. The Godfather of Red Pill Radio.
That was terrible how the girls acted, 30 and 40 year olds acting like children. Kevin tries to help women and they throw it back in his face. No class, only one female caller was serious out of 5 to 7 calls. Made me sick hearing it..
The reason why is because they are so focused on being right and listening to reply instead of listening to understand on the things they need to do if they want an HVM or doing something wrong in their relationship
Soon as i see this i just leave. You cant even have a conversation because it goes into childish replys or anger 🙄
This is embarassing what black man would accept this
That's our fault as men blowing their heads up over these decades...letting them call themselves Queen and etc!
Now even the Regulars with nothing to offer a man call themselves Queens...and the old women to hear them talk like that. Makes me lose hope
Cee Tee 🙄 get sick hearing these women talks 🙄
I don't think its the money or amount a person spends on someone. I think it's the reason a person spends money on someone.
I had to comment. Bro. Samuels you struck a chord with me when you told the young men that, "memories are important."
On a trip to Spain; I hired this Castilian lady in Barcelona. She cost $6,000.00 U. S. ( at that time )
For seven days. She was a lovely, very well versed escort. We went to, Le Rive Gauch in the South of France. A man feels worthy when walking into the casino atm The Grand Hotel in Monte Carlo with an exquisite specimen of feminine pulchritude wrapped around his arm.
Money is a tool, not a means to an end. You make it, you spend it.
What else you gonna do with it?
The right tool, for the right job.
Prince Anael Bey Like they say...Spend good money on pretty women, fine wine, and song...and waste the rest
And how would you have felt if a lady such as her had a yearning desire to spend that time with you, without spending cash?
@@dennisrobinson8008 Well, bro. Dennis; my destination was the Grand Hotel on The Left Bank in the south of France, Monte Carlo.
In answer to your question; I deliberately went for the escort because, I didnt have time to do, the FIND & TRAIN thing. Besides, I wouldn't know if I could trust her. I needed a woman who could successfully navigate among Pashas, Sheikhs, Dukes, and, Lords; as well as other people, and, dignitaries from other lands.
She did exceedingly well. She engaged with the Contessa DiContinni from Florence, while I was at the roulette wheel.
It was a grand time! Ya made me think back, Dennis!!! Damn, that felt good.
Peace, man.
@@princeanaelbey1236you got a helluva magination. Use these to keep it warm: 🧢🧢🧢
Taking women on dates and buying women gifts when they deserve it is not tricking. Paying women’s bills just to get the chance to spend time with them is...
I hate when callers talk like they're on the phone w their cousin. Get to the point and get out of the weeds!
Too much Red Bull. This stuff is bad for your heart.
That response to the Pookie and Ray Ray thing was both entertaining and powerful. Why envy guys who are really at a lower level? Why not focus on excellence?
All of these women are DELUSIONAL. This was painful to listen to. Definitely cringeworthy.
It IS, but that’s what makes it so good! This is a guilty pleasure for me, takes me away from my true crime podcasts to cringe in a different way, lol
That one chick said her baby daddy was a day laborer with no drive or ambition that bounce from job to job so she left him....OK..then The guy she been dating for 3yrs try to give her gifts but she don't wanna except them or let him pay for anything 🤔 I'm cross eyed now🤦 WTF LADIES!!
The consistency of the format. 🔥
I have zero issue picking up the check. I've had issues with other men getting offended because I covered the meal, as though I was saying they couldn't do it. I did it cuz I wanted to, cuz I could, not cuz you can't.
Most of your listeners are average guys, you talking to average guys, successful men don’t have time to listen to you, give respect when it due brother.
He’s giving advice to average guys that aspire to high value. This is a free glimpse into the VIP section. You don’t need nor deserve respect from him. He’s an NBA player when it comes to relationships. Would you expect NBA players need to give due respect to viewers that they’re giving FREE ADVICE TO?
You sound entitled
Successful men, that’s funny bc you think you are. Let me guess, you’re a big ol alpha male 6 figure individual who can’t spell yet.
You’re not owed respect dumbbell.
Kevin is totally right regarding things that reduces a woman’s value:
1. Age
2. Kids
3. WEIGHT
4. BAD CREDIT
In fact a woman with kids will have her highest SMV with the man she had the kids with, than with the men out in open dating market. Women tend to eliminate themselves from acquiring an HVM.
Nadia Richardson There are exceptions...which proves the rule. The wall is so close she can smell the bricks and mortar. Being the highest paid sugar baby at age 37 is not something to be proud of....this is not hate or a debate. Shout to her
Nadia Richardson Typical BW babble when they have trouble with logic and connecting the dots...a liquor license and cats is the future of most BWs
They exist. My husband & I have been together for 5 years. We will be married for 3 years this Winter. On our first date & till this day he always paid for our dates. I knew my worth & it was exuded on a regular basis.
Good for you! Glad you’re telling others
The lady saying her husband of 18 years divorced her sounds like she's drunk as hell talking to Kevin.
I thought the same thing
Too much Chablis lol
@@MoveInSilence23 Asti Spumanti 😄🍷
@@MoveInSilence23 No, I put it down to the Lacrima Christi !!!!!!
Thought the same thing
I WISH my single female friends who are in their 30's would listen to this content!
You could send it to them
@@themosthighvaluemaninthega9048 Hahaha females don't operate like that. They would all get offended and stop talking to me. They'd rather be in denial and blame it on the men!
@@NWYVR SMH
The Godfather’s opening theme song is: “Your Lies“-vividry. You’re welcome
Thank ya
*Your Good Lies
Thx you!
Thanks! I left a comment on another video asking 🙏🏽
Exactly..Image is Everything 💯 to A High value man he most definitely wouldn’t have a (RAG DOLL ) on his arm ...I’m loving this topic !!
Me too.
Clothes send a signal into the world. You send a weak bum average signal. You won't get much.
Stop taking women out to dinner on the first date. Take her out for coffee and get to know her a little. If she isn't down for that, pick your head up, keep your money, and keep it moving. 🏃
Very Very Interesting. Fight over the Check! Knowledge / Wealth! (I have been a few times to High End Restaurants. The experience is priceless. You are literally treated like Royalty. It is the experience that is created in that environment that has extreeme value.)
The fact that the woman had to say out loud, Why he left, shows that she was buying time to stall to shape her story in a way to not say she messed up and is the reason why he left. Just say your bs is the reason he left and own it. How hard is that? These women will not tell the truth for nothing.
Yikes!, These woman are nuts! I’m sorry for dudes out here man
“Trash can juice” means you are worse than trash! 😂
😂. Trash man dumps the trash.
And that nasty trash can juice is left behind
Kevin is too damn sharp, I'm inspired
Nah frfr
@@sylvesterhurt447 your screen name says it all….don’t hate on a well put together bro
Lol. I hear what you're saying about the woman you start with not necessarily being the woman you end up with when you get to the top. But this is how movies like "Waiting to Exhale" and "Diary of A Mad Black Woman" end up getting made.
That 40 year old second caller was so annoying. She was all over the place lol
I have some old friendships with some guys who are movers and shakers. To my surprise , they have a notoriously difficult time finding suitable women. One thing I didn’t consider was that a lot of women moving in these “high-value” circles are the product of “high-value” marriages and as a result, they have financial expectations. You might might have millions in your account, but her father used to spend millions on her mother, annually. How do you compete with that? You need a woman with similar financial expectations. Plus, you also have to be seen to be on the same level as those other high-level couples. There are levels and then there are levels.
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And keep in mind that dating in America is ridiculous..
Genesis 1:1
Prime. Meridian axis
Network consultation agency
Transfiguration
Noah's ark. Encounter
I use to tell my ex wife that all the time "Go buy a dog" !!!!
A tea cup Yorkie is what's up. I just love dogs. Peace
They treat the dog better these days
@@plannerist i don't think so.
Lol
No one ever had the time of their life at Ruth’s Chris.
😂😂😂
Faaaaaaaxxxxx
Some of these biggums LOL
Hometown. Birth place
Gospel. Sermon
Pentateuch tetragrammaton
Q 8 ball party
Taking a woman on a date is not tricking, that's broke talk. But some of these women be expecting girlfriend/wife treatment on day 1. Taking a woman shopping on the 1st date is tricking.
If you buy her dinner BEFORE smashing then it is tricking