@@vladimirazubcekova7727 He wasn't the only one. This isn't even uncommon. People line up before the line to cheer the freaking racers on. Did you bother to even check your assertion before making it? Doesn't seem like it.
@@777SO BINGO!!! An achiever, a true one, not someone who has a inferiority complex and tries to "prove others wrong", be it a man or a woman, knows exactly what it takes to reach that top position so he/she only have respect for you.
Can we also talk about how dangerous it is to send your kids out in the middle of track while adults are running ? The husband literally put their kids in danger trying to sabotage his wife. 🙄
Remember that viral video where a kid wandered into a track and got plowed down by the runner who didn’t swerve in time? Imaging your kid getting kicked in the face by a grown adult going full speed because you let them “go hug mommy” immediately. Even if it’s not malicious, that’s just extremely dangerous
@@lorrainesmith.4995 Exactly. She looks like she has a cute little size 😍. Lol , just right for the # runner up 😂💃. Someone @ her , to tell her , the women's delegation gives her a # hall pass for tonight, to celebrate her win 😂🎉
I've seen large men run while carrying two children without having physically exerted themselves beforehand. Sometimes they manage, but it's not pretty. It's actually humorous to watch. Yet he thinks his smaller frame would be able to do that after running a marathon, and expects a much smaller woman to do it. I call bs. He's grandstanding on his misogyny.
The first woman was right, the runner knew what her husband did was intentional because she absolutely did NOT look back after she crossed the finish line. Seems like she knew he's a hater.
It's like before that she wasn't the main or only caregiver. And we know after that she's still going to be all in with the kids. A man can go on a trip for years but for a woman can't get a few minutes 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ if she's a winner her daughter benefits the most. I know Tracee Ellis Ross because of her mother Diana Ross, the children always benefit from a boss mom
And even that question was such a straw man... 🙄😒 If the choice _really_ was between a race and her kids I think we all know she'd rather have her legs amputated than risk the safety of her kids! But that is not the choice she was facing: she chose between finishing, and winning, a race she'd trained for for _months_ and let the childrens other parent take care of them for 1h 40m, or to forfeit said win and prolong hugging her children by a couple of seconds.
THiS ⬆️ needs more likes! This needs to be on a tshirt somewhere! This needs a whole article and a the show 60 Minutes interview with researchers and scientists interviewed to discuss this!!!! Larry Hill said you "Hurt yourself to make me stay"... can translate also as " you make yourself look stupid to gain my sympathy, empathy, tolerance, rationale and unending patience". They aren't stupid. It's the oldest trick in patriarchy. Behind closed doors he plays stupid but in public he tries to make YOU look stupid.
Yes, he messed up her time. Yes, this was a moron move. It was also dangerous. I don’t think he set out to sabotage her, but I don’t know how their marriage is.
Her husband knew that this is what she asked him to do. But he did not know that the second place female runner was only 20 seconds behind. Try looking it up. Her name is Luciana Grandi Lourenção and it was a small half-marathon in Brazil. She has an Instagram and explained the situation in a Reel. Also The Mary Sue did an article about it.
Thats something that also annoys me about the husband, he put his kids in danger AND the other runners. The innocent runners that got nothing to do with their marriage or situation. What if one of the runners would have trip over those kids and broke their ankle, or broke a leg, or broke their back?
@emmadilemma7800 That's what I was thinking, then he would've been sued . But , from his actions , he hates her b/c she's most likely the breadwinner . Then , she would've had to pay the lawsuit . 🙄
And you know he was planning that for awhile and he didn't even think of that part??? I guess sometimes you have to sacrifice some pawns to take down the queen 🙄
He set that up in more ways than one. Any of the outcomes would make her "look bad": 1. She stops to hug her kids and loses the race/gets disqualified/messes up her time. Now she looks unprofessional 2. She runs past the kids, and now she looks like a bad mom to the world (see: "men" i.e the idiot at 11:12 🙄😒) 3. She runs past the kids "ignoring them" and he drills that point into their heads that "mommy didn't stop for us 😢" and turn them against her. By NOT being on the otherside of the finish line, he showed he was intentionally sabotaging SOMETHING, whether it's her running career, her safety, her image, her marriage, or her with her children. He knew what he was doing. Very manipulative.
I thought the same thing. Just selfish of him to do that then have the audacity to look towards the audience for validation in his careless behavior. If this isn’t even scratching the surface of their marriage he looks very vindictive and manipulative on first glance. She’s too tired to pick up the kids and why should she have to in the first place?? Men have the stamina and strength to do that “victory race hold my kids and pose for the camera hoorah thing” towards the end but she did it for *9 months* and probably loves them very much! More than enough to side step them and avoid them getting injured in a freakin MARATHON. She very well could’ve been disqualified and her competition was literally right behind her! The slow down would’ve given him the go to to speed up. The husband knew exactly what he was doing. I hope she called him out on it and sees all the support she received online. It’s frustrating having to beg others to let you bask in an achievement or hobby that you genuinely enjoy. She doesn’t need his permission to just “let her have this”. That’s a miserable life to live. She should be encouraged to shine by default if he really wanted to watch her be great at anything. Icing on the cake is he could’ve been that on the other side of the tape. So stupid.
The little girl will understand. Kids get simple concepts like, don’t stand in front of the finish line. That child will probably resent the dad for putting them in that situation.
@@Jujubean9795 yes but I hope her mother is aware enough to have a talk with her about this. Kids do understand on one condition: you talk to them in a candid way. The mother can't cover up for the father any longer.
If we’re reading too much into it and he just didn’t get it then men can’t be in charge. If we’re to believe they’re that incompetent then they must vacate all positions of authority or power. Immediately.
Ikr. I couldn’t believe he said that. She has been running for hours (never mind all the training) and this dude can’t give her a few extra seconds of finishing and winning the race.
2 kids , not just one . If she picked up one , the other kid would be sad . She couldn't win , no matter what other path she took. Ladies, prime example: Stay on YOUR OWN path . Don't let any man derail you . Matter of fact let him keep the kids & you go run all over the world 🌎, if YOU want to . Tell him you will be back in a year or never . 😌💅 These men want to be women so bad , let's treat them like they treat us & go # ghost 👻 😂
@@cocoace7587the only downside to your plan is that in your scenario, the kids suffer even more. This is exactly how they get us, use your children and or pets against you, because once they see you’re done with them, they use whatever innocent life they can to control you because they know you know they are capable of harming them. And we know they are better off with us. So the real solution is to just never procreate with or commit to these men but that is also impossible
Absolutely. I wonder if every time she has gone out to train she has had him look after the kids. A few months of being a father that does fatherly things has made him want to sabotage the whole thing so she would stay at home and 'do her job'. Classic.
Brazilian men are precisely like this. My dad did this to my mom, she was a runner and I remember him in every event getting drunk and making a scene. He thinks i don't remember because i was young.
Afé nem me fala, não precisa ser uma corredora pro cara querer te atrapalhar basta querer sair de casa e ter uma vida já é motivo suficiente Ainda bem que temos homens bons como os que estão torcendo por ela
I know right !!!!!! We are seeing change !!! Before society blame Britney, mock her and make fun of her for her bald moment. Now we read, investigate and find out that she was given valium without a reason... We are late but at leats we arrived... Imaging Britney never being free cuz her fans didnt interfere... That is a tragedy
Yes I love it as well!! I wish this was in place in the 2010s because the mammies were so thick at this time but in 2024, it’s a new world order and I am here for it! I am so proud of women.
No, we called out men, too... there just weren't enough of us yet to be heard, and the backlash was _overwhelming._ We got drowned out and demonized. I love this generation because, now that you have the tech to speak louder than the backlashers, y'all are actually _doing_ it, and that is _wonderful._ But don't forget the voices that _tried_ to speak up before.
"The daughter just wanted to be carried to the finish line". OK, well NO! SHE CAN'T BE CARRIED TO THE FINISH LINE! You don't always get what you want! This got me so mad I'm shaking.
She was fuqing TIRED. He wants her to pick the child up and run across the finish line with it after she has carried it for 9 months. Why didn't the dad pick the kids up and run after the mom or waited at the finish line? This woman has run a marathon, and she's TIRED, so now she gotta pick up a 60-lb kid and run some more? Glad I'm gay.
What I want to know from budget Theon Greyjoy at 11:15 is, how did dad know she’d be so far ahead in first place to be able to courier the daughter over the finish line? He couldn’t possibly have planned that, Theon. This was sabotage plain and simple.
Why would you say “it” I hate human beings. That’s a whole person, a little girl, not an it. You guys hate when men dehumanize women but yet you do the same thing to little girls. Makes zero sense.
"She could have picked the daughter up and carried her across the finish line?" She was SPRINTING, she would have body slammed her trying to pick her up and she would have lost because there were other runners closing in behind her! And what was wrong with waiting on the OTHER side of the finish line where the kids don't risk getting run over?
The guy with the drunken facial swelling doing the mental gymnastics to excuse the husband... 🤦♀️ Edit: If the genders were reversed, you know he would be raging about the "jealous woman trying to use the kids to be the centre of attention on his important day".
She literally just ran a marathon in less than 2 hrs, she’s exhausted. He wanted her to slow down & pick up both kids. Meanwhile, he’s looking like he couldn’t jog up a flight of stairs. 😂
But women should naturally WANT to center their child even when running a marathon and prefer to use what little strength they have to pick up their child even if it loses them the race because biology! Men are allowed to focus just on the sport and the winning because biology! He’s just pointing out how horrible she is to be against biology and the totally natural, in no way made up by men, order of things!
That one man saying he would’ve picked up the kid or stopped or whatever clearly has never run a race in his goddamn life. After a marathon, many runners are incredibly shaky because their muscles stop being activated by all of the adrenaline they were using to finish the race. It would be incredibly unsafe to stop suddenly or pick up that kid when your muscles are so exhausted from running a marathon. That father deliberately put his children in harms way and there is no excuse and it’s not stupidity.
He tried to make her look like a bad mom, which is why he threw his hands up.... Which it didn't He's banking on stupid males to talk shit about his wife.... The sad thing is the kids tried NOT TO go but dad PUSHED them into ⚡danger of being trappled...
Don’t know if he was deliberately sabotaging her or not but he’s definitely an idiot. How do you send little kids onto a track where adults are running as fast as they can go? WTF? They could have been very badly hurt and so could a runner. She should get rid of the idiot to save the kids so that they’ll make to adulthood.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealingsuch a good point. Men love and respect sports, and he knows that wouldn’t fly if he were sending kids out to sabotage a man’s win. He just didn’t consider it that impressive since it was a woman’s achievement, he didn’t think it was that serious. Just a lil’ hobby marathon for the bored housewife right 🤷🏻♀️
It’s giving sabotage, and using the kids is just disgusting. I love how she stayed focused and didn’t even turn back, ladies your life is more than your kids and your husband.🙏🏾👑. Society wants you to believe that that’s all that life is cracked up to be, they try to scare you straight with you’ll be lonely and single with cats, but this is the game once you get married, that nobody talks about. Men don’t like playing second fiddle that’s it that’s all. So what you’re gonna have to do is be selfish as hell.
"Society wants you to believe that that’s all that life is cracked up to be, they try to scare you straight with you’ll be lonely and single with cats, *but this is the game once you get married, that nobody talks about. Men don’t like playing second fiddle that’s it that’s all."* ^^THIS!!
That was super weird. Who does that? Imagine a wife throwing her kids in front of her husband in a race or even as he goes up to the podium at work to receive an award? My ex husband was like this. Everything that made me me-something separate from him that I enjoyed, he tried to sabotage. He didn’t want me playing for the Army volleyball team and threw a fit when the Olympic bobsled team was asking if I wanted to try out. He was so jealous of me when I had opera concerts, and people would come up to him and tell him he had a talented wife; he even left the video camera battery at home on purpose, so I wouldn’t have a recording. I was home everyday cleaning, cooking, and doing all yard work after I medically retired from the Army, and he’d never speak a word to me, but when I’d go to opera rehearsals or performances on Friday, Saturday, or Sunday, he’d scream at me that he wanted a wife who was there for him. I couldn’t be low enough for him; I couldn’t give up enough for him.
Men do this to women all the time and it’s literally insane. I can’t imagine wanting to manipulate, abuse, and control another person like that. They slowly kill their women and don’t bat an eye.
It is giving weaponised incompetence at best, that you cannot trust the father of your children to look after them properly. At worst you wanted to sabotage your wife. Either way it is sad.
He also could be just mad that she had two children and still looking good for that. He definitely tried to distract her in some way. And what an idiot sending kids onto a track with runners. He a not so bright husband and father. 🤦🏽😞
@@sg5720true that he going to make sure he pump her up with more kids I swear. She still got to much shine in her body and he going to make sure it get dimmed out. Don’t let your wife get first place that her husband place 🤢.
It’s just like the other commenter said about Grey’s Law: "Any sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice". These men know about sports and finish lines. They’d never do that to another man. They are NEVER that incompetent to the point of literal sabotage when it comes to other men… They know what they’re doing. and even IF some men really are that incompetent, then maybe men shouldn’t hold positions of power if they’re really that incompetent.
And not the emotional ones either. With his omg guys did you see that, validation shrug to the audience.Either y’all men are mean or y’all men are dumb. Which is it. And if y’all are dumb, y’all shouldn’t be leaders good bye either way.
I love how her spirit told her "ftk." She worked for that victory. She was not wearing her "mom" hat; she was wearing her "athlete" hat. Her husband is a d-bag.
Look closely. He literally pushes them into the path and lets go. The kids might have known better. He put them out there. Its certainly malicious. And yeah the "I dunno bro" gesture right after tells me he was going for something there and he was trying to play clueless. Also that man whos so useless he doesn't know what 20-30 feet looks like needs to drop and give the world 100 push ups then go carry a child 25 yards. And also needs to shut up.
Yup. And the visual representation of how bitter and surprised men are when you’re still able to accomplish your goals with the kids he tried to slow you down with. 😕
Women give so much of themselves to have kids, let alone raising them. It is NOT too much to ask for some support in a mother going for her dreams. If you don’t have a womb, you don’t have a valid critique.
Agreed. I don’t have kids but watching my mom sacrifice always makes me encourage her to pursue her goals more each day. Even as a kid I recognized that she was doing far too much. At some point kids must learn that they won’t always be first. That their mothers are humans too. And they need rest, have goals, and need time to recoup mentally to be present for the people she loves. I know it’s in moms to always wanna be present but I see a shift where kids and spouses will be in a place of recognizing that she can love her family while still being herself and that she doesn’t love them any less because she has aspirations she’s looking to accomplish.
The week that I had to take my NCLEX exam, my live in bf at the time made damn sure, he didn't help me with $h*T in the house, on top of me being a single mommy and working 40 hours a week. Guess who was pissed when I passed the NCLEX on the first try? It's intentional ladies, you need to be WAY more selfish and less sacrificial, because you only live once. YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS come FIRST. As far as the guy at the end? Good thing she wasn't a NASCAR driver, right? Would it had been okay to put the kids on the track? Would she had been selfish for not stopping and instead mowed over her children? A track is a track, use your common sense.
☝️☝️☝️my ex boyfriend brought all his drunk friends home from the club in the middle of the night before i had an exam at 9:00 am the next day..."so nobody had to drink and drive"
Her sidestep, carrying on, and celebrating her own win at the end makes me think she was fully expecting him to do something stupidly selfish like this. Probably a long history of his sabotaging her.
He sent his girls to give mom a big hug, this was on purpose. Cant have her win a race and remind him of it for months.... At the end he held up his arms and hands like 'I dont know what that was!' as if to say I cant believe she didnt stop to hug us!
Exactly! That's what seals it as a hater move...Him acting confused at the end instead of joyfully going towards his lovely wife who just won a freaking marathon! There should be waaay more excitement for her in that moment. I showed more happiness for her than he did and I don't even know her.
Bump that. Be judgemental. He knew full well not to put those kids in that situation and yet chose to. I'm so dam annoyed. I wouldn't be surprised if she's not allowed back due to his wrecklessness.
Unfortunately I can see it. I hope she can continue but I think because this attempt didn't work he'll through a fit throughout and especially when it's time to train and actually run.
Edit: Prepping for a marathon takes about 6-12 months fyi. It's an endurance run. Imagine training for a race to win, only to lose it becasue your partner puts your kids in danger. That is SO dangerous! All it takes is one bump and that kid's head would have hit the pavement. This was attempted sabotage for sure. I was a color guard in my high school marching band. The audacity the parents must have to let their kids walk into the parade route was wild! We had to be told to keep spinning. If someone's kid gets clocked by an aluminum pole spinning full speed, it's not our fault since they should have known better. Keep the kids out of the way because it's not only safe for us, it's safer for THE KIDS.
Damn even when running a whole ass race she can't be herself without being a mother first!!! DAMMMNNNN!!! Just tattoo it on her head so she doesn't forget 🙄🙄 But if she doesn't leave, I don't feel bad. That's that.
@@Las645 yeah I don't because she knew what signed up for. Has the red flags flying at you. And you stay. Let's not even talk about the reason why he did what he did. If someone put my kids in front of me while I was RUNNING. Putting my kids in danger then wanna come and say, "I woulda this", yeah I don't feel bad. You allowing your kids to stay watching petty behavior and allowing them to learn, " use anyone to get your way. They'll stay always." F that. No. He the same kinda person to throw your kids in front of a bus and blame the bus driver for not stopping. 🚩🚩🚩 But you wanna put your kids in danger for some d.... Go ahead, but we not going play like he didn't know that was dangerous. Why didn't he throw himself on the track to???
That was intentional. He did try to sabotage her win. He probably is a gaslighter who weaponizes his incompetence. He knew exactly what he was doing. 😡
I love how the man tried to act nonchalant about winning being more important to her than carrying her kids to the finish line when 1. She would have been disqualified for doing so. 2. After running a whole marathon and being exhausted, shes still expected to pick up two 50 pound kids and keep it moving? Nah. 3. Had it been a man, he wouldnt have said anything about him running a few feet to the finish line before coming back to hug his wife and kids. And finally 4. The dad could have easily waited behind the finish line for her and he deliberately chose not too.
I LOVE that she was focused on the goal she trained her ass off for!! Her kids are proud of her for running her fastest through that line and they can celebrate her AFTER the race!! 👏🏾😊
But unfortunately they as well as her will be condemned to the planned argument about how selfish mummy is for running… Which will go on all week, rob her of any sense of achievement, and be brought up forevermore whenever she steps out of line! :(
The weirdo saying she should’ve carried the daughter over the finish has never actually run any long distance. The amount of energy you need to just finish the race is everything. Adding the weight of a child in your arms? And that daughter looks a little big to be carried without significant energy being expended. Smh I really wish we could just let this woman win without making her out to seem like anything other than the queen she is. Marathons are superhuman feats! That husband and those kids should stay behind the finish and let her win in peace!
I ran Boston marathon last year and I wish people understood that you meet AFTER the finish line, not before it! She’s being timed! Did they expect her to lose just to say hi to the kids? WTF?! Omg that pissed me off lol!
That reminds me of the “proud” husband who sent his children to run up on stage screaming when his wife was receiving her master’s degree. He looked like he thought it was so adorable that she had to pick them up and carry them off.
The guy in the blue shirt saying "There's no way she was going to lose that race."...😒 well no one wants to lose a race Sir. Saying the dad and daughter "just" wanted the daughter to be picked up and carried through the finish line is ridiculous. How do you know what that little girl is thinking?! That should not be a question or a thought. That is NOT how people train and that would have been completely unnecessary. He is is delusional.
I love how she didn't let anything stop her😂 that's what's make a woman powerful, when she reaches her life goals by any means necessary. Don't let anybody stop you....not even your family because a lot of them now and days are trying harder to keep you down than strangers. It be your own and I have no problems cutting family or friends completely off. If it's got to be me against the world... I'm choosing me and I'm going hard for me no matter what 💁🏿♀️
This makes me so mad. Her husband pushed 2 kids out to her, so based on what the guy at the end said, was she supposed to snatch both of them up and keep running??!! The man behind her was very close. Stopping/slowing at all would have jeopardized her win. And marathons are not just for wins, people like to finish in a good time. Sometimes a person is even trying to beat a personal record by finishing in less than a certain time. This is just bad all around and definitely looks like a hater husband.
I love how the last commenter was a man telling her she was wrong for not "picking up her kid" after she ran a literal marathon and just running past them to finish the race a few yards away when the dad couldve easily had some common sense and waited on the other side. Then he goes to criticize her that he thinks she feels winning is more important than her kids like thousands of dads across the world dont neglect time with their kids to aggressively persue their careers and even cheat on their wives daily Before this man criticizes ANY woman for doing what they must to accomplish their personal goals, he needs to start criticizing these emotionally neglectful dads who break their kids hearts on the regular by not being there. The damn audacity of this man.
Ladies take note because these same men will propose to you on YOUR graduation day, try to upstage you on YOUR birthday, get mad when family or friends do something just for YOU. They make everything about them. It all goes back to them and wanting to be the center of attention.
For the man at the end… Would you ask a man to stop his race, pick his kid up and carry it across the finish line or is that honor reserved for women only?
Women have been conditioned to believe. Society and even the Bible have been used to place women in situations and women aren't supposed to stray from what has been told or taught no matter what. I'm just glad that women are waking up. For some they just have to find a way out and others they have to stand firm and not believe in the lies. The whole hit the wall, single mom, body count, d!e alone with cats, bad attitude, high standards or maintenance and gold diggers crap. Some fell for it had children, gave up careers, hopes and dreams and/or gotten married only to been duped and/or trapped. Society has made women being they're nothing if not tied to men and children. Unfortunately a lot of women shame others into taking the bait as well.
Honey, running marathons seems like a true hobby of hers that makes her happy so she needs to go ahead and drop that “husband”, coparent & dive deep in to her marathon/running passion. She can even make income off of it by being a trainer, hosting marathons the possibilities are endless! Her kids would know the importance of mommy’s hobbies & she could set boundaries
He’s not a moron. He knows exactly what he’s doing. He’s trying to make her look bad. He knows she’s going to keep going. And know he can say she’s a bad mom. This is what narcissists do. He can’t allow her to have a moment of glory. He had to find a way to belittle her. And PS - he doesn’t care about his kids either.
I thought people were looking into this too deep until that last man come on at the end. Maybe she's not strong enough to pick up her kid and bring them across the finish line. Also, in a marathon, every millisecond counts. A few milliseconds longer could be the difference between qualifying for a national race or not qualifying. I've never run a marathon and I have no man. However, I study for exams months at a time. If my, hypothetical husband, brought my children to the test center when I'm testing and they started banging on the glass to get my attention, then I'd be FURIOUS.
“She could’ve just carried her daughter over the finish line” … Maybe she’s EXHAUSTED?? Y’know, cause she’s just reached the end of a MARATHON??? These guys really act like they don’t have two brain cells to rub together 🙄
Those kids would have been punted. He wanted the guy behind her to win! Also, the marathon company has rules and regulations. I know that the spectators has to stay on the side and they don't allow the marathoners to carry anyone. She could have been disqualified if she broke these rules.
There are advantages and disadvantages to giving people the benefit of the doubt. The disadvantages usually happen when you ignore the evidence or instances where their actions showed you that they are not worthy of your benefit of the doubt. The first time it happens, take your time to reflect on whether or not if this really is the first time. Have a discussion. Reflect again. More importantly, pay attention to l your intuition/instict.
Then it may make her look bad too, like she ignored her own children. I saw some people turn to look at her with confused looks on their faces. I am happy that she kept her focus to win the race. I know she worked hard and she did it!
She was proud of herself because she just won a marathon. Her husband is obviously a tool but even if he were wonderful and supportive, winning a marathon is ALWAYS an incredible accomplishment.
She could have been disqualified for his actions... he knew what he was doing this isn't a out of nowhere event It's planned so he knew and he used his kids... didn't care about their safety or emotional state... idiotic and yucky 🤮.
You are right, Princella. The time it takes to train for a marathon depends on your initial ability level and marathon goals. In general, beginners need 5-6 months of training, while intermediate and pros may only need 2-4 months of preparation12. 16 to 20 for most. BUT while running she is very tired. picking up the child would have made her fall to the ground; she will be exhausted after the marathon. He was trying to sabotage her. The proof is in the action.
Just last week, one of my girl's man tried to sabotage her birthday celebration. She was almost in tears as he caused so much chaos and confusion just so we her girls would not be able to celebrate her. Thank God we were able to come through for her. Just imagine the tone he was trying to set for her new year.
@gazagxrlx2974 but you know you can't really tell another woman how to live her life. We just quietly canceled him within us and promised ourselves to always stand by her no matter what, as that's our job as her girls.
Its almost like a visual metaphor of men trying to use kids to stop women from achieving their goals 😂😂
Giiiirrrrllll
💯 Exactly.
It literally is
😂😂😂 Pin this comment Priscilla 😂😂😂
It's eerie how accurate that is
Men know everything about sports and finish lines.....stop infantilizing them.
if they do then why was he infront of it and not behind it
So true. Imagine if she interrupted his video game or sent the kids to him during the game, any game, cause they are all soooo important.
@@vladimirazubcekova7727 He wasn't the only one. This isn't even uncommon. People line up before the line to cheer the freaking racers on. Did you bother to even check your assertion before making it? Doesn't seem like it.
@@ynmonroe they dont expect contestants to stop and hug them
Apparently Vlad came here to prove not all men know everything about sports... 😂
The guy she was competing against was more supportive than the actual husband smh!!!!
I saw that ❤
@cb4017 Yes, he was even applauding her.
Yes because he knows what it takes to go that far and have respect for her! Not like her damn husband!
Yeah you see how the dad got an attitude when the mom didn’t stop right before the finish line to hug her daughter and lose the race.
@@777SO BINGO!!! An achiever, a true one, not someone who has a inferiority complex and tries to "prove others wrong", be it a man or a woman, knows exactly what it takes to reach that top position so he/she only have respect for you.
Can we also talk about how dangerous it is to send your kids out in the middle of track while adults are running ? The husband literally put their kids in danger trying to sabotage his wife. 🙄
Facts. People have been stomped to death back in the day on Black Friday sales.
Remember that viral video where a kid wandered into a track and got plowed down by the runner who didn’t swerve in time? Imaging your kid getting kicked in the face by a grown adult going full speed because you let them “go hug mommy” immediately. Even if it’s not malicious, that’s just extremely dangerous
He was focused on stealing her shine. The kids were pawns in the game!
@@JukuduB Classic narcissism move
Yup, and aside from the runners, there are motorbikes to video record the racers. Those kids would have been crushed by one if they run off fast.
Hell be the next "blindsided" man whose wife left "for no reason" 😢😢😢
They’re always blindsided😂😂😂
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@@lorrainesmith.4995 Exactly. She looks like she has a cute little size 😍. Lol , just right for the # runner up 😂💃. Someone @ her , to tell her , the women's delegation gives her a # hall pass for tonight, to celebrate her win 😂🎉
Of course...
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“sHE CoULDa jesT piCkEd up ThA daUghTur anD cuRried Er tA tHa fiNish lAan” I’m so tired of these mfs lmao
She would have disqualified if she did that.
I was flabbergasted, like did I hear him right? 😂
I've seen large men run while carrying two children without having physically exerted themselves beforehand. Sometimes they manage, but it's not pretty. It's actually humorous to watch. Yet he thinks his smaller frame would be able to do that after running a marathon, and expects a much smaller woman to do it. I call bs. He's grandstanding on his misogyny.
Hahahahahahhhahahhhhaaaaaaaaaaaa😅😅😅
If she did that, he wouldn't be ok with it
The first woman was right, the runner knew what her husband did was intentional because she absolutely did NOT look back after she crossed the finish line. Seems like she knew he's a hater.
Yep, she immediately went around them. He wanted to trip her up
I agree. She knew who she married
I hope there's a divorce coming. Her kids need to learn not to sleep with the enemy
more than likely not the first time he’s doing this, so she probably is very used to ignoring his hissy fits.
The other guy looked back at him to see what kind of 🤡 she married.
"If winning is more important to her..."
YES, it is! She trained her ahh off for that. In that moment, winning was ABSOLUTELY more important.
Exactly. If a man trains hard and is ambitious to win he gets praised and admired.
Besides she can hug her children a few seconds later.
Victims of a feather....
It is in that moment and that is absolutely appropriate....
It's like before that she wasn't the main or only caregiver. And we know after that she's still going to be all in with the kids. A man can go on a trip for years but for a woman can't get a few minutes 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ if she's a winner her daughter benefits the most. I know Tracee Ellis Ross because of her mother Diana Ross, the children always benefit from a boss mom
And even that question was such a straw man... 🙄😒
If the choice _really_ was between a race and her kids I think we all know she'd rather have her legs amputated than risk the safety of her kids!
But that is not the choice she was facing: she chose between finishing, and winning, a race she'd trained for for _months_ and let the childrens other parent take care of them for 1h 40m, or to forfeit said win and prolong hugging her children by a couple of seconds.
Most men are NOT stupid. They use that assumption to mistreat you.
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Women who think men are stupid are the foolish ones
THiS ⬆️ needs more likes! This needs to be on a tshirt somewhere! This needs a whole article and a the show 60 Minutes interview with researchers and scientists interviewed to discuss this!!!!
Larry Hill said you "Hurt yourself to make me stay"... can translate also as " you make yourself look stupid to gain my sympathy, empathy, tolerance, rationale and unending patience".
They aren't stupid. It's the oldest trick in patriarchy. Behind closed doors he plays stupid but in public he tries to make YOU look stupid.
Also them- I'm the head of the house
@@DuchessAnastasiaAin't that age old truth. If they can choose and pick when you are acting dumb...you are acting.
The men expecting this woman to pick up her kids before crossing the finish line don't even pick up their kids from school so I don't wanna hear it
I'm dead 😂😱😭🤣😂
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Running is exhausting enough, imagine being expected to pick up a kid
The fact that he put their kids in danger, probably ruined her time, and then had the audacity to look offended is telling that he's a moron.
I'm glad she won, but yes I do think he messed up her time, unfortunately
Yes, he messed up her time. Yes, this was a moron move. It was also dangerous. I don’t think he set out to sabotage her, but I don’t know how their marriage is.
He literally threw those kids in front a freaking motorcycle 🥴
@@prima-madalina what he did was extremely dangerous and dumb. I don’t think anyone could say otherwise.
@@nickj12 he did it intentionally.
Good for her for winning! If the roles were reversed people would drag the wife for trying to mess the husband's win up!
True
This was my first thought!!
Exactly especially salty men
And call her a “bad mom” for not having control over the kids and letting them wander dangerously into the race.
I initially thought that was her husband 😬
I am a marathoner. Her husband knew exactly what he was doing. It's a shame when your biggest enemy is your spouse.
Her husband knew that this is what she asked him to do. But he did not know that the second place female runner was only 20 seconds behind. Try looking it up. Her name is Luciana Grandi Lourenção and it was a small half-marathon in Brazil. She has an Instagram and explained the situation in a Reel. Also The Mary Sue did an article about it.
He’s a hater. He not only tried to sabotage her, but he put the kids in danger and the runners in danger too. Both could get hurt from that action.
i would be mad as hell if i, mom or not, had to slow down so i don't trample over some damn kids who shouldn't even be there!!!
Thats something that also annoys me about the husband, he put his kids in danger AND the other runners. The innocent runners that got nothing to do with their marriage or situation. What if one of the runners would have trip over those kids and broke their ankle, or broke a leg, or broke their back?
@emmadilemma7800 That's what I was thinking, then he would've been sued . But , from his actions , he hates her b/c she's most likely the breadwinner . Then , she would've had to pay the lawsuit . 🙄
And I hope she would have still finished first before checking on the injured parties
Pick up the kid and run with her to the finish line?!? I hate the way men think.
After she has carried the child for nine months already.🙄
@@juanita_rocksteady2761 and carries the whole idea of “family.”
They don't even pick up their own kids on a regular day
@@mogulmadefacts!!!! 💯 my son's father NEVER held our son. he couldn't because he always be dumpster diving, literally 😢
Please, let one of these basketball wives put their kids on the court during the playoffs, they wouldnt have that same energy. 🙄
Nothing against the kids, but how she side step was such a mom skill 😂
And SWERVE!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Right
Sporty 💪🏻
@@OGfromQueens "Stay in your own lane cuz I'm about to swerve!" - BlackPink "Shut Down" :)
Ikr 😂😂🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The father is reckless for putting his small children in danger they could have gotten trampled over.🤦
My only takeaway from this
And you know he was planning that for awhile and he didn't even think of that part??? I guess sometimes you have to sacrifice some pawns to take down the queen 🙄
@@xletragedyxhe did think if it. It’s not the first time children have been harmed while under the care of a father.
@@xletragedyx In the words of our great Lord Farquaad, "Some of you may die, but it's a sacrifice! -I am willing to make."
@@strawberrysangria1474 😂😂😂
He set that up in more ways than one. Any of the outcomes would make her "look bad":
1. She stops to hug her kids and loses the race/gets disqualified/messes up her time. Now she looks unprofessional
2. She runs past the kids, and now she looks like a bad mom to the world (see: "men" i.e the idiot at 11:12 🙄😒)
3. She runs past the kids "ignoring them" and he drills that point into their heads that "mommy didn't stop for us 😢" and turn them against her.
By NOT being on the otherside of the finish line, he showed he was intentionally sabotaging SOMETHING, whether it's her running career, her safety, her image, her marriage, or her with her children. He knew what he was doing. Very manipulative.
BINGO, that man is clearly evil.
I thought the same thing. Just selfish of him to do that then have the audacity to look towards the audience for validation in his careless behavior. If this isn’t even scratching the surface of their marriage he looks very vindictive and manipulative on first glance. She’s too tired to pick up the kids and why should she have to in the first place?? Men have the stamina and strength to do that “victory race hold my kids and pose for the camera hoorah thing” towards the end but she did it for *9 months* and probably loves them very much! More than enough to side step them and avoid them getting injured in a freakin MARATHON. She very well could’ve been disqualified and her competition was literally right behind her! The slow down would’ve given him the go to to speed up. The husband knew exactly what he was doing. I hope she called him out on it and sees all the support she received online. It’s frustrating having to beg others to let you bask in an achievement or hobby that you genuinely enjoy. She doesn’t need his permission to just “let her have this”. That’s a miserable life to live. She should be encouraged to shine by default if he really wanted to watch her be great at anything. Icing on the cake is he could’ve been that on the other side of the tape. So stupid.
The little girl will understand. Kids get simple concepts like, don’t stand in front of the finish line. That child will probably resent the dad for putting them in that situation.
@@Jujubean9795 yes but I hope her mother is aware enough to have a talk with her about this. Kids do understand on one condition: you talk to them in a candid way. The mother can't cover up for the father any longer.
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Ladies, men know what they’re doing. Stop giving them excuses, this is a game as old as time. Understand the game, and be selfish as hell.👑
UNDERSTAND THE GAME AND BE SELFISH AS HELL! 👏🏽
They know exactly what the hell they’re doing.
It’s a literal physical representation of men using kids to slow women down and stop them from completing their goals and ambitions.
Men are either lousy incompetent losers or malicious.
There is no third option.
BLOW THIS COMMENT UP!! PIN THIS BIH!! WHERE'S THE EFFIN' BILLBOARD?!!
I bet any dudes who are calling her selfish and a bad mom would probably rage if the kids disturbed them during a call of duty match.
You know this is true 🤣😅
TRUTH!
😂 This is amazing
SO TRUEEEEE
If we’re reading too much into it and he just didn’t get it then men can’t be in charge. If we’re to believe they’re that incompetent then they must vacate all positions of authority or power. Immediately.
Hear! Hear!
Ding ding ding!
I second this motion
Thank you! 👏🏾👏🏾
Yahtzee
He didn't intend on her winning....at all cost 😅
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F him and them kids she said 😂😂😂😅😅😅
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Yup
Bc hes a loser
Just carry the kid over the finish line? WTAF we can’t do shit without a kid on our hip or we are selfish
Ikr. I couldn’t believe he said that. She has been running for hours (never mind all the training) and this dude can’t give her a few extra seconds of finishing and winning the race.
But of course is a man saying that shit 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@LilzkiEXACTLY!!
2 kids , not just one . If she picked up one , the other kid would be sad . She couldn't win , no matter what other path she took. Ladies, prime example: Stay on YOUR OWN path . Don't let any man derail you . Matter of fact let him keep the kids & you go run all over the world 🌎, if YOU want to . Tell him you will be back in a year or never . 😌💅 These men want to be women so bad , let's treat them like they treat us & go # ghost 👻 😂
@@cocoace7587the only downside to your plan is that in your scenario, the kids suffer even more. This is exactly how they get us, use your children and or pets against you, because once they see you’re done with them, they use whatever innocent life they can to control you because they know you know they are capable of harming them. And we know they are better off with us. So the real solution is to just never procreate with or commit to these men but that is also impossible
She probably runs so she has an excuse to leave the house alone. Running is her "me time" and Daddy didn't like that.
This is it 100% AND she's good at it AND she gets attention for it. Can't have that.
@@icantwiththisWell niw he got the attention he wanted 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Absolutely. I wonder if every time she has gone out to train she has had him look after the kids. A few months of being a father that does fatherly things has made him want to sabotage the whole thing so she would stay at home and 'do her job'. Classic.
Brazilian men are precisely like this. My dad did this to my mom, she was a runner and I remember him in every event getting drunk and making a scene. He thinks i don't remember because i was young.
Afé nem me fala, não precisa ser uma corredora pro cara querer te atrapalhar basta querer sair de casa e ter uma vida já é motivo suficiente
Ainda bem que temos homens bons como os que estão torcendo por ela
Muito interessante! O problema é global.
Yep! Men are men for sure.🤦🏾♀️‼
@@lilig8323 The problem is global, generational, and goes back into the mists of time. But today we say, Enough!
@@Wednesdaywoe1975It's HIGH TIME to say "enough is enough!"
I looooove this generation because we are calling out men. In the past only women could be criticized and ridiculed
I know right !!!!!! We are seeing change !!!
Before society blame Britney, mock her and make fun of her for her bald moment.
Now we read, investigate and find out that she was given valium without a reason... We are late but at leats we arrived... Imaging Britney never being free cuz her fans didnt interfere... That is a tragedy
Yes I love it as well!! I wish this was in place in the 2010s because the mammies were so thick at this time but in 2024, it’s a new world order and I am here for it! I am so proud of women.
No, we called out men, too... there just weren't enough of us yet to be heard, and the backlash was _overwhelming._ We got drowned out and demonized. I love this generation because, now that you have the tech to speak louder than the backlashers, y'all are actually _doing_ it, and that is _wonderful._ But don't forget the voices that _tried_ to speak up before.
Yes, I'm here for all the women standing up and supporting each other from these male liars, bullies, and sabotagers. We will no longer tolerate it.
not true , Im 53 , been calling out men since the 80s , we ddint all put up with their BS
She married the enemy of her progress! 😮
He don't want his wife to have any fame.
There’s no naija in this😂
@@ebonynaomi1085 exactament!
@@GGGG-uj1no there's naija in EVERYTHING baby 😘 🤣🤣😂
@@alexismum 😂 this is unseasoned business..let us observe and enjoy 😂😂
He effed up her time. You can see that the guy who came second has shown more understanding and compassion to her than her literal husband.
"The daughter just wanted to be carried to the finish line". OK, well NO! SHE CAN'T BE CARRIED TO THE FINISH LINE! You don't always get what you want!
This got me so mad I'm shaking.
Plus she didn't really. She was coached to ask for a hug by her father.
I'm so glad Mom ignored them and won her race. She deserved it.
Dude saying that looked like a hobo
Not to mention it could've been dangerous if she did cuz she's going to be exhausted from running.
Stop blaming the little girl, she’s not at fault. She probably didn’t want to be at the marathon to begin with
@@Las645 Not blaming her. The guy says this in the last video. The if this WAS the reason, the dad should have told her no.
She was fuqing TIRED. He wants her to pick the child up and run across the finish line with it after she has carried it for 9 months. Why didn't the dad pick the kids up and run after the mom or waited at the finish line? This woman has run a marathon, and she's TIRED, so now she gotta pick up a 60-lb kid and run some more? Glad I'm gay.
I said the same thing they know what he was doing and they're ready to spit lies
Men nowadays will always expect more from the woman while you can barely get the basic minimum from men. Na... 4B baby
It doesnt matter if she is tired. Most importantly it messes up her run time.
What I want to know from budget Theon Greyjoy at 11:15 is, how did dad know she’d be so far ahead in first place to be able to courier the daughter over the finish line? He couldn’t possibly have planned that, Theon. This was sabotage plain and simple.
Why would you say “it” I hate human beings. That’s a whole person, a little girl, not an it. You guys hate when men dehumanize women but yet you do the same thing to little girls. Makes zero sense.
"She could have picked the daughter up and carried her across the finish line?" She was SPRINTING, she would have body slammed her trying to pick her up and she would have lost because there were other runners closing in behind her! And what was wrong with waiting on the OTHER side of the finish line where the kids don't risk getting run over?
And she would have been disqualified
This man has never picked up a child before. Besides, the kid didn't want it, he pushed them! They were smarter than he is.
No, no, no - somehow it is clearly the woman's fault. 🙄 /s
That dude trying to gaslight her, is a bum. This type of gaslighting stuff is annoying
@@ebonynaomi1085 bums stick together. Defending this man he doesn't even know
For situations like this I remind myself of Grey's law: "Any sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice".
Ohhhh this made me think 💯💯💯💯
damn......
Shit 😮😮
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This…BARS! 😮💨
The guy with the drunken facial swelling doing the mental gymnastics to excuse the husband... 🤦♀️
Edit: If the genders were reversed, you know he would be raging about the "jealous woman trying to use the kids to be the centre of attention on his important day".
Literally he sounded like he was suffering from the most intense alcoholic brain rot💀
She can't just be a winner, she has to be a winner that is a wife and mother. They are pathetic
She literally just ran a marathon in less than 2 hrs, she’s exhausted. He wanted her to slow down & pick up both kids. Meanwhile, he’s looking like he couldn’t jog up a flight of stairs. 😂
But women should naturally WANT to center their child even when running a marathon and prefer to use what little strength they have to pick up their child even if it loses them the race because biology! Men are allowed to focus just on the sport and the winning because biology! He’s just pointing out how horrible she is to be against biology and the totally natural, in no way made up by men, order of things!
Because when men play sports, it's taken "seriously "
That one man saying he would’ve picked up the kid or stopped or whatever clearly has never run a race in his goddamn life. After a marathon, many runners are incredibly shaky because their muscles stop being activated by all of the adrenaline they were using to finish the race. It would be incredibly unsafe to stop suddenly or pick up that kid when your muscles are so exhausted from running a marathon. That father deliberately put his children in harms way and there is no excuse and it’s not stupidity.
Some runners can barely walk after a marathon. That man has no idea what he's talking about.
That’s what I was thinking too, she would have probably stumbled or tripped if she paused her running rhythm.
Exactly.just like a car, you can't just hault like that.
@@leehalloway8787 that’s exactly what I was thinking of. And imagine if she had tried to lift her child! It’s unsafe for both of them!
THANK YOU!!! HOPE SHE DIVORCES THAT POS!
He tried to make her look like a bad mom, which is why he threw his hands up.... Which it didn't
He's banking on stupid males to talk shit about his wife....
The sad thing is the kids tried NOT TO go but dad PUSHED them into ⚡danger of being trappled...
I think he threw hands because some people there were blaming them for interrupt the race
Don’t know if he was deliberately sabotaging her or not but he’s definitely an idiot. How do you send little kids onto a track where adults are running as fast as they can go? WTF? They could have been very badly hurt and so could a runner. She should get rid of the idiot to save the kids so that they’ll make to adulthood.
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That was deliberate. Men know everything about sports and the finish line.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealingsuch a good point. Men love and respect sports, and he knows that wouldn’t fly if he were sending kids out to sabotage a man’s win. He just didn’t consider it that impressive since it was a woman’s achievement, he didn’t think it was that serious. Just a lil’ hobby marathon for the bored housewife right 🤷🏻♀️
It was done on purpose, his reaction when she run past the kids says everything 😶
Exactly. Who doesn't understand a finish line?
It’s giving sabotage, and using the kids is just disgusting. I love how she stayed focused and didn’t even turn back, ladies your life is more than your kids and your husband.🙏🏾👑.
Society wants you to believe that that’s all that life is cracked up to be, they try to scare you straight with you’ll be lonely and single with cats, but this is the game once you get married, that nobody talks about. Men don’t like playing second fiddle that’s it that’s all. So what you’re gonna have to do is be selfish as hell.
Men do it ALL the time
"Society wants you to believe that that’s all that life is cracked up to be, they try to scare you straight with you’ll be lonely and single with cats, *but this is the game once you get married, that nobody talks about. Men don’t like playing second fiddle that’s it that’s all."* ^^THIS!!
And that’s on !!
That was super weird. Who does that? Imagine a wife throwing her kids in front of her husband in a race or even as he goes up to the podium at work to receive an award? My ex husband was like this. Everything that made me me-something separate from him that I enjoyed, he tried to sabotage. He didn’t want me playing for the Army volleyball team and threw a fit when the Olympic bobsled team was asking if I wanted to try out. He was so jealous of me when I had opera concerts, and people would come up to him and tell him he had a talented wife; he even left the video camera battery at home on purpose, so I wouldn’t have a recording. I was home everyday cleaning, cooking, and doing all yard work after I medically retired from the Army, and he’d never speak a word to me, but when I’d go to opera rehearsals or performances on Friday, Saturday, or Sunday, he’d scream at me that he wanted a wife who was there for him. I couldn’t be low enough for him; I couldn’t give up enough for him.
OMG - Just reading this makes me so angry! Its like he did not want to see you happy or excelling at anything😒I am assuming you divorced him?
I’am so happy this mf is your ex sis!!hope you healed the wounds and you are now in a better place in your life🙏🏽😘
Men do this to women all the time and it’s literally insane. I can’t imagine wanting to manipulate, abuse, and control another person like that. They slowly kill their women and don’t bat an eye.
For men like this nothing is ever enough. They won;t be satisfied until you no longer have breath and then they'll be angry with you for dying.
@@dabriahbrown506Exactly!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯 They're EVIL *to the core* - malign "human" *cancer cells* ... 🤮🤮😡
It is giving weaponised incompetence at best, that you cannot trust the father of your children to look after them properly. At worst you wanted to sabotage your wife. Either way it is sad.
He also could be just mad that she had two children and still looking good for that. He definitely tried to distract her in some way. And what an idiot sending kids onto a track with runners. He a not so bright husband and father. 🤦🏽😞
@@sg5720true that he going to make sure he pump her up with more kids I swear. She still got to much shine in her body and he going to make sure it get dimmed out. Don’t let your wife get first place that her husband place 🤢.
It’s just like the other commenter said about Grey’s Law:
"Any sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice".
These men know about sports and finish lines. They’d never do that to another man. They are NEVER that incompetent to the point of literal sabotage when it comes to other men… They know what they’re doing.
and even IF some men really are that incompetent, then maybe men shouldn’t hold positions of power if they’re really that incompetent.
at worst he wanted to get her disqualified. that is what would have happened if she touched her child, that is why she dodged it
And men are supposed to be the logical and analytical gender. Wow!
And not the emotional ones either. With his omg guys did you see that, validation shrug to the audience.Either y’all men are mean or y’all men are dumb. Which is it. And if y’all are dumb, y’all shouldn’t be leaders good bye either way.
They want whatever BS that comes out of their brain to be accepted as logic.
I love how her spirit told her "ftk." She worked for that victory. She was not wearing her "mom" hat; she was wearing her "athlete" hat. Her husband is a d-bag.
The father is ignorant and then had the nerve to play confused. Use the kids for his narcissistic motive. Smh
The ‘confused’ and ‘exited’ body language he used was WILD
He going to make her have more kids so she can actually slow down next time 🤢
@@Satin.Bshe's gonna leave him. I can sense it
@@cb4017- he was so exaggerated
Men think women should finish the race with 40 extra lbs, easy peezy. SMH.
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What's sad is if she picked both of them up it would have been an extra 75 pounds lol. I'm proud of her for finishing her race. 💯
40? My 4 yr old is 40lbs that little girl looked 7 so more like 55-60 lbs
@@justicevibes1252exactly what I said
@@babyvia6712 agreed 💯. I hope you're having a great day!
Look closely. He literally pushes them into the path and lets go. The kids might have known better. He put them out there. Its certainly malicious. And yeah the "I dunno bro" gesture right after tells me he was going for something there and he was trying to play clueless.
Also that man whos so useless he doesn't know what 20-30 feet looks like needs to drop and give the world 100 push ups then go carry a child 25 yards. And also needs to shut up.
Nope he needs to run a full marathon then stop and pick up two full size kids and run to the finish line. He wouldn't make it past 6 ft.
plus, i think you are disqualified if you touch someone before crossing the finish line....that's what i've heard
This is true.
That's even worst wow
Wow now that mess up for what he did
Stone cold sabotage
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A visual representation of how someone men try to slow you down with kids.
Yup. And the visual representation of how bitter and surprised men are when you’re still able to accomplish your goals with the kids he tried to slow you down with. 😕
So now he has to get in her head. He'll probably do the whole "mom doesn't..." thing.
Women give so much of themselves to have kids, let alone raising them. It is NOT too much to ask for some support in a mother going for her dreams. If you don’t have a womb, you don’t have a valid critique.
Agreed. I don’t have kids but watching my mom sacrifice always makes me encourage her to pursue her goals more each day. Even as a kid I recognized that she was doing far too much. At some point kids must learn that they won’t always be first. That their mothers are humans too. And they need rest, have goals, and need time to recoup mentally to be present for the people she loves. I know it’s in moms to always wanna be present but I see a shift where kids and spouses will be in a place of recognizing that she can love her family while still being herself and that she doesn’t love them any less because she has aspirations she’s looking to accomplish.
I don't know what a womb had to do with
I see a lot of fellas suporting her instead of the husband
He forgot the pots, dirty laundry, and the broom.😂😂😂
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Giiiirl, your comment should be illegal!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Lawd girl, you too bad 😂🤣😱😭🤣
😂🤣😂🤣😂imagine him throwing all that at her as she passes LMAO
The week that I had to take my NCLEX exam, my live in bf at the time made damn sure, he didn't help me with $h*T in the house, on top of me being a single mommy and working 40 hours a week. Guess who was pissed when I passed the NCLEX on the first try? It's intentional ladies, you need to be WAY more selfish and less sacrificial, because you only live once. YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS come FIRST.
As far as the guy at the end? Good thing she wasn't a NASCAR driver, right? Would it had been okay to put the kids on the track? Would she had been selfish for not stopping and instead mowed over her children? A track is a track, use your common sense.
☝️☝️☝️my ex boyfriend brought all his drunk friends home from the club in the middle of the night before i had an exam at 9:00 am the next day..."so nobody had to drink and drive"
How dare women have acheivements out of child birth
He tried using the kids as human spike strips.
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¡¿¡Human Spike Strips!?!
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
¡HA!
I can NOT laugh hard enough.
LOVE the visual …
bc that’s exactly what it IS.
Wheezing😂😂😂😂 literally this is reality omg . Men using kids to stop women from accomplishing anything
And they will say " She just left me, I did nothing wrong " 🙄😒
This is a visual example of "behind every unsuccessful women, there's a man behind it" 💀
No, my mom choiced to not use protection... i mean, there was a man behind, but it was her fault anyway
@@marcosgonzalez4207 your father choose to not use protection and sleep around. It was his fault 😂
Her sidestep, carrying on, and celebrating her own win at the end makes me think she was fully expecting him to do something stupidly selfish like this. Probably a long history of his sabotaging her.
Before that she was waiving her arm telling them to move aside, and anyway he push the kids ...
He sent his girls to give mom a big hug, this was on purpose. Cant have her win a race and remind him of it for months.... At the end he held up his arms and hands like 'I dont know what that was!' as if to say I cant believe she didnt stop to hug us!
Exactly! That's what seals it as a hater move...Him acting confused at the end instead of joyfully going towards his lovely wife who just won a freaking marathon! There should be waaay more excitement for her in that moment. I showed more happiness for her than he did and I don't even know her.
The girls will realize once they grow up how this man tried to use them for sabotage.
Right
A bear would never do this to his wife 😕🐻
That's right. The bear would be gone in the woods minding his own business.
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Bruh 💀💀 I cannot even
the bear would be taking care of his kids . Teaching them how to hunt like a good bear
Female bears chase off the males after they mate. There is no such thing as a bear wife or husband. They mate and then separate.
I think he feels like, if she WINS she’ll want to race more often meaning he has to watch the kids so LETS PUT AN END TO IT NOW lmao 😭
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That was my exact thought!
And she’ll find a better man who is also a runner.
@@PrettyPolyInPink like the man that congratulated her at the end 😢
Bump that. Be judgemental. He knew full well not to put those kids in that situation and yet chose to. I'm so dam annoyed. I wouldn't be surprised if she's not allowed back due to his wrecklessness.
Unfortunately I can see it. I hope she can continue but I think because this attempt didn't work he'll through a fit throughout and especially when it's time to train and actually run.
Edit: Prepping for a marathon takes about 6-12 months fyi. It's an endurance run. Imagine training for a race to win, only to lose it becasue your partner puts your kids in danger.
That is SO dangerous! All it takes is one bump and that kid's head would have hit the pavement. This was attempted sabotage for sure.
I was a color guard in my high school marching band. The audacity the parents must have to let their kids walk into the parade route was wild!
We had to be told to keep spinning. If someone's kid gets clocked by an aluminum pole spinning full speed, it's not our fault since they should have known better. Keep the kids out of the way because it's not only safe for us, it's safer for THE KIDS.
Damn even when running a whole ass race she can't be herself without being a mother first!!! DAMMMNNNN!!! Just tattoo it on her head so she doesn't forget 🙄🙄
But if she doesn't leave, I don't feel bad. That's that.
Best comment EVER!
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Exactly # the biggest # red flag
You don’t feel bad if she doesn’t leave? That’s extreme but ok. You don’t know these people
@@Las645 yeah I don't because she knew what signed up for. Has the red flags flying at you. And you stay. Let's not even talk about the reason why he did what he did. If someone put my kids in front of me while I was RUNNING. Putting my kids in danger then wanna come and say, "I woulda this", yeah I don't feel bad. You allowing your kids to stay watching petty behavior and allowing them to learn, " use anyone to get your way. They'll stay always."
F that. No.
He the same kinda person to throw your kids in front of a bus and blame the bus driver for not stopping. 🚩🚩🚩 But you wanna put your kids in danger for some d.... Go ahead, but we not going play like he didn't know that was dangerous. Why didn't he throw himself on the track to???
You can even see her waving for them to get outta the way, and he STILL stood there with the kids in the way. 🤦🏾♀️
He was pushing the kids into the street like Scar pushed Simba into the buffalo stampede 😭 That’s so obviously intentional!
RIGHT
Maybe he can’t even run a mile that’s why he’s so jealous
The father shoved the kid towards mum. He knew what he was doing. Normal people wait at the other side of the finish line…
That was intentional. He did try to sabotage her win. He probably is a gaslighter who weaponizes his incompetence. He knew exactly what he was doing. 😡
I love how the man tried to act nonchalant about winning being more important to her than carrying her kids to the finish line when 1. She would have been disqualified for doing so. 2. After running a whole marathon and being exhausted, shes still expected to pick up two 50 pound kids and keep it moving? Nah. 3. Had it been a man, he wouldnt have said anything about him running a few feet to the finish line before coming back to hug his wife and kids. And finally 4. The dad could have easily waited behind the finish line for her and he deliberately chose not too.
She didn't come right back. She was probably trying to keep herself from cussing him out. If he wanted to "celebrate" with her, wait til she finishes
@@xletragedyx I'm glad she didn't too
I LOVE that she was focused on the goal she trained her ass off for!! Her kids are proud of her for running her fastest through that line and they can celebrate her AFTER the race!! 👏🏾😊
But unfortunately they as well as her will be condemned to the planned argument about how selfish mummy is for running… Which will go on all week, rob her of any sense of achievement, and be brought up forevermore whenever she steps out of line! :(
The weirdo saying she should’ve carried the daughter over the finish has never actually run any long distance. The amount of energy you need to just finish the race is everything. Adding the weight of a child in your arms? And that daughter looks a little big to be carried without significant energy being expended. Smh I really wish we could just let this woman win without making her out to seem like anything other than the queen she is. Marathons are superhuman feats! That husband and those kids should stay behind the finish and let her win in peace!
I ran Boston marathon last year and I wish people understood that you meet AFTER the finish line, not before it! She’s being timed! Did they expect her to lose just to say hi to the kids? WTF?! Omg that pissed me off lol!
Never ran nor even trained and even I know not to do that crap. He knew what he was doing
That reminds me of the “proud” husband who sent his children to run up on stage screaming when his wife was receiving her master’s degree. He looked like he thought it was so adorable that she had to pick them up and carry them off.
Are you freaking kidding me 😡. It's not surprising but sometimes you just can't believe how far guys are willing to get in order to get their way
I feel bad for her.. she's been married to the OP for a long time.. but that day she truly understood who she married!
11:39 “if winning is more important” sir what’s the point of running a race? Men are pointless
The guy in the blue shirt saying "There's no way she was going to lose that race."...😒 well no one wants to lose a race Sir. Saying the dad and daughter "just" wanted the daughter to be picked up and carried through the finish line is ridiculous. How do you know what that little girl is thinking?! That should not be a question or a thought. That is NOT how people train and that would have been completely unnecessary. He is is delusional.
Runners also aim to complete the race in a certain time. Even 10 seconds is a lot of time to miss.
Also if she did the kid across the line and won, this could lead to disqualification
She was competing for time
I love how she didn't let anything stop her😂 that's what's make a woman powerful, when she reaches her life goals by any means necessary. Don't let anybody stop you....not even your family because a lot of them now and days are trying harder to keep you down than strangers. It be your own and I have no problems cutting family or friends completely off. If it's got to be me against the world... I'm choosing me and I'm going hard for me no matter what 💁🏿♀️
Amen!!!!🎉
This makes me so mad. Her husband pushed 2 kids out to her, so based on what the guy at the end said, was she supposed to snatch both of them up and keep running??!! The man behind her was very close. Stopping/slowing at all would have jeopardized her win. And marathons are not just for wins, people like to finish in a good time. Sometimes a person is even trying to beat a personal record by finishing in less than a certain time. This is just bad all around and definitely looks like a hater husband.
I love how the last commenter was a man telling her she was wrong for not "picking up her kid" after she ran a literal marathon and just running past them to finish the race a few yards away when the dad couldve easily had some common sense and waited on the other side.
Then he goes to criticize her that he thinks she feels winning is more important than her kids like thousands of dads across the world dont neglect time with their kids to aggressively persue their careers and even cheat on their wives daily
Before this man criticizes ANY woman for doing what they must to accomplish their personal goals, he needs to start criticizing these emotionally neglectful dads who break their kids hearts on the regular by not being there. The damn audacity of this man.
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Ladies take note because these same men will propose to you on YOUR graduation day, try to upstage you on YOUR birthday, get mad when family or friends do something just for YOU. They make everything about them. It all goes back to them and wanting to be the center of attention.
For the man at the end… Would you ask a man to stop his race, pick his kid up and carry it across the finish line or is that honor reserved for women only?
He was probably mad he had to “ babysit” the kids while she ran the race.
How do these women not understand how petty men are? Yes he was trying to sabotage her, of course!!!
Women have been conditioned to believe. Society and even the Bible have been used to place women in situations and women aren't supposed to stray from what has been told or taught no matter what. I'm just glad that women are waking up. For some they just have to find a way out and others they have to stand firm and not believe in the lies. The whole hit the wall, single mom, body count, d!e alone with cats, bad attitude, high standards or maintenance and gold diggers crap. Some fell for it had children, gave up careers, hopes and dreams and/or gotten married only to been duped and/or trapped. Society has made women being they're nothing if not tied to men and children. Unfortunately a lot of women shame others into taking the bait as well.
Picked up the kid and ran to the finishing line after RUNNING A MARATHON?? 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴 he doesn’t think she was tired???
I don't think some men even realize women are humans. The idiot that said that is one of those.
Honey, running marathons seems like a true hobby of hers that makes her happy so she needs to go ahead and drop that “husband”, coparent & dive deep in to her marathon/running passion. She can even make income off of it by being a trainer, hosting marathons the possibilities are endless! Her kids would know the importance of mommy’s hobbies & she could set boundaries
Exactly! Omg that was infuriating to watch
He’s not a moron. He knows exactly what he’s doing. He’s trying to make her look bad. He knows she’s going to keep going. And know he can say she’s a bad mom. This is what narcissists do. He can’t allow her to have a moment of glory. He had to find a way to belittle her. And PS - he doesn’t care about his kids either.
Totally!
He was just tired of the kids and wanted to hand them back as soon as possible.
I can definitely agree. He had to be responsible and he understands completely what the mom goes through. He's the fourth child.
The AUDACITY
So she can't have anything for herself? AT that moment she was being a runner not a parent. It was his job to be the parent.
I thought people were looking into this too deep until that last man come on at the end. Maybe she's not strong enough to pick up her kid and bring them across the finish line. Also, in a marathon, every millisecond counts. A few milliseconds longer could be the difference between qualifying for a national race or not qualifying.
I've never run a marathon and I have no man. However, I study for exams months at a time. If my, hypothetical husband, brought my children to the test center when I'm testing and they started banging on the glass to get my attention, then I'd be FURIOUS.
And I promise unfortunately he wouldn't care and would be mad at you for being mad and not stopping and trying to focus.
Plus, she could have hurt herself if she abruptly stopped to even hug them. People jog to a stop for a reason.
She went through two pregnancies,and wins the marathon,and who knows what else,and this little impotent is jealous.
“She could’ve just carried her daughter over the finish line” … Maybe she’s EXHAUSTED?? Y’know, cause she’s just reached the end of a MARATHON??? These guys really act like they don’t have two brain cells to rub together 🙄
Those kids would have been punted.
He wanted the guy behind her to win!
Also, the marathon company has rules and regulations. I know that the spectators has to stay on the side and they don't allow the marathoners to carry anyone. She could have been disqualified if she broke these rules.
He was like a woman can’t beat a man
@@DanitiaAfonsoewa and she was like watch me. Lol
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There are advantages and disadvantages to giving people the benefit of the doubt. The disadvantages usually happen when you ignore the evidence or instances where their actions showed you that they are not worthy of your benefit of the doubt.
The first time it happens, take your time to reflect on whether or not if this really is the first time. Have a discussion. Reflect again. More importantly, pay attention to l your intuition/instict.
If she were a chef, the husband would've put the child on the cutting board to distract her
If she was a pop star the husband would’ve put the child stage without safety equipment/earbuds. 😕
Or a stove😂
@@TOFFEETASTICC and the media will say that she put her carreer before the children
Then it may make her look bad too, like she ignored her own children. I saw some people turn to look at her with confused looks on their faces. I am happy that she kept her focus to win the race. I know she worked hard and she did it!
He set that up so well. Run past & she is a bad mom. Hug them or pick them up & she loses her time& spot she had worked hard for months. It's evil.
The way she was proud of herself screams she doesn't get any recognition in her home
Oh a bear 🐻
She was proud of herself because she just won a marathon. Her husband is obviously a tool but even if he were wonderful and supportive, winning a marathon is ALWAYS an incredible accomplishment.
She could have been disqualified for his actions... he knew what he was doing this isn't a out of nowhere event It's planned so he knew and he used his kids... didn't care about their safety or emotional state... idiotic and yucky 🤮.
You are right, Princella. The time it takes to train for a marathon depends on your initial ability level and marathon goals. In general, beginners need 5-6 months of training, while intermediate and pros may only need 2-4 months of preparation12. 16 to 20 for most. BUT while running she is very tired. picking up the child would have made her fall to the ground; she will be exhausted after the marathon. He was trying to sabotage her. The proof is in the action.
Divorce, immediately. Hes shown that hes incompetent with kids weaponized or not its still incompetence. Throw him away.
I used to run track…her time was altered by dodging the family
Just last week, one of my girl's man tried to sabotage her birthday celebration. She was almost in tears as he caused so much chaos and confusion just so we her girls would not be able to celebrate her. Thank God we were able to come through for her. Just imagine the tone he was trying to set for her new year.
And she's still with him.
@gazagxrlx2974 but you know you can't really tell another woman how to live her life. We just quietly canceled him within us and promised ourselves to always stand by her no matter what, as that's our job as her girls.