This talk is very inspiring and the speaker has unveiled one of life's greatest secrets. A secret that states that your outer world is very much a mirror image of your inner world. If you change your thinking, you change your life. It’s that simple!
It’s not “that simple”. People often have very real challenges & limitations, this mindset of “just changing your thinking” can help, but also potentially make someone feel very inadequate & not good enough, making things worse.
I once believed nothing could touch me..Until it did. It was then I realised that I am just as vulnerable as everyone else. That one's life can change in a mere second.
My sister and I were privileged to care for at home, witness and assist at the natural death (she was 95) of our beloved mother. It was three years of hilarity, heartbreak, physical messiness, and fierce connection - sometimes all at once! But I can tell you this: 1-we were all profoundly altered - forever, by having been part of this, and 2-my 'little fears and daily anxieties' have disappeared, following this life changing time in our lives. Context shifted, meanings revisited, the small niggly piggies? Departed. Mother did not 'come back'..but as we helped her to complete her time on Earth - we were given a priceless opportunity to consider things we might never have even thought about! Thank you for this inspiring talk..
Death sucks, even knowing we go home, to a better place, it is very difficult and hurts a lot.....it takes a long time to heal from losing your mother.
My mother's death impacted me so so deeply...I was sooo sad watching her change towards the end. Im the youngest , so spend the most time with her as a child. I Moved away... i called her almost every day. I traveled 2 hrs every other weekend to see her...And cried everytime i first saw her, and especially when i had to leave...before her death, during and still after.... i prayed and prayed that she would go peacefully. But when it was time, I felt selfish, I didnt want her to go. I felt really guilty for wanting her to stay longer for a long long time ..But Watching videos on Utube of people that have died and returned, of nurses that work with hospice and doctors in emergency rooms that have talked to people that have been to and seen heaven has helped me so much to understand that death is a continuation and our loved ones are no longer suffering.... thank you for sharing your story ❤❤❤❤
"When the mind has no motive, when it is free and not urged on by any craving, when it is totally still, then truth is. You do not have to seek it; you cannot pursue or invite it. It must come." Krishnamurti This was your gift in disguise: You stopped thinking-about-being and began being. Thank you for sharing.
Luca Willington I sincerely thank you for your clarity in choice of words of truth. A sincere humble journey to have shared my life's switch moment Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍 SukhiWahiwala.com
My mind feels a much needed quiet and peace as it witnesses this exchange between Luca and Sukhi from 2 years ago, with the backdrop of Krishnamurti. Thank you all for this moment of being.
“To consider that after the death of the body the spirit perishes is like imagining that a bird in a cage will be destroyed if the cage is broken, though the bird has nothing to fear from the destruction of the cage. Our body is like the cage, and the spirit is like the bird. We see that without the cage this bird flies in the world of sleep; therefore, if the cage becomes broken, the bird will continue and exist. Its feelings will be even more powerful, its perceptions greater, and its happiness increased.” ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Many Christians will deny this truth, because it doesn't fit the boundaries of their belief system. They are land-locked in grace, trinity, forgiveness, and think afterlife is filled with rewards, gold, and as such. They can't get over original sin and Christ dying on the cross, and reject any truth, where ever it may come from.
Switching between multitasking and my autoimmune gradually ended up in procrastinating... This was an eye opener. Shukriya ji. Bless u..... And just realised I'm watching a 2017 in 2020. Wowy.
10minutes into the conversation and nothing about a near death experience. Very boring. He talks about a lesson he learned upon being really sick, almost dying, to appreciate his time more. Something important, of course. But he didn’t have a “near death experience”, as in, died and came back to tell what he experienced on the other side. In fact, I think what he is sharing adds to more stress in life, because he is basically telling us we should not get distracted ever. The feeling I get from his experience makes me feel stressed, not peaceful, as I usually feel when listening to real near death experiences.
Carina in Motion what I want to know is why almost every NDE story I have watched is when person is in their 20-30s. Would be more believable if it were happening to more of diverse age range.
@@carlhammill5774 but it is! I have heard countless NDE stories by now and there is no age range. Children for instance experience it! You probably didn't listen to many stories yet and all of them happened to be around a certain age.
@@carinainmotion3100 I have heard of few children ones but almost no elderly NDE. Thats a concern because it tie experiences to younger active brains. Trust me I want to believe.
I was focused on this talk for the first 3 minutes... But it took me 15 minutes to regain my focus. 😢 Now I have to watch this talk again and again and again!
Face it, We're all seeking to be happy, every single person on this planet wants to achieve a state of happines, you know and I know it. The problem is this... Our minds start to judge situations as good or bad .... a lot to do with conditioning placed on us by society and other people. So, we have beliefs that some situations are good and some are bad. We create pleasure (happiness) in the situations that are good, and pain in the ones that are bad , We seek total fulfillment but the only glimpses of happiness we have are fleeting situations that are bad. So, what do we do? We try to figure which situations appear to make us most happy, eroneously believing that a situation could really cause us to feel happy... and we try to find more of those situations, and we try to avoid the opposite situations but life being life, it's impossible to maintain this. We have to work, have to do things that are less than pleasure inducing and we get pissed off. We are also detached from our higher self, which is a consciousness that is felt to be connected to all consciousness, and is also the understanding of the world that is beyond the mind. When we reach that, bliss and happiness is so abundant it's intoxicating. We can get so high on this beautiful feeling, that nothing else matters. And the world is reduced to a mere illusion. We are all seeking our higher selves, but we're seeking for it externally, which just leads to more disllusionment and pain. We seek for it externally because we know, perhaps unconsciously, that some experiences are more pleasurable than others. So logically we conclude "if I keep seeking out those experiences I like, I will be truly happy". But it never happens, because it's the programming that differentiates good or bad, that defines some experiences as unpleasant and to be avoided and some experiences as pleasurable and to be sought out, that causes us to feel unhappy. Happiness is within you, not external!
Agreed, I got rather bored from this talk since I expected something much more interesting. Could you describe your experience a bit? I'm always looking for more of these stories, so fascinating!
There is Life before Death, so make the best to live one day at a time and live it to the full...I think this sums up his talk which shows you how to make the best of your actual Daily Time in Life!! There's a moral in his story which is worthwhile pursuing!!
I had a perforated stomach ulcer and was misdiagnosed from hospital and sent home. I then developed peritonitis with full on fever. I was delirious and in and out of this reality. Never felt so terribly sick and only the powerful pain killers helped me. I was in another place where everything was heavenly. I wanted to stay there forever although It felt like forever as I had no sense of time. I still think back and try to make sense of it all but I could travel to anywhere I wanted to go just by thinking of it. I was out of hospital after 26 days and lost half of my body weight. People thought I would die when they saw me because I was literally skin and bone, like a picture of someone from a concentration camp photo in Poland.
Of course I agree all nde be bad or good is a blessing. Most NDE experiences is so awesome that it cannot be described to people on planet earth. The message is that the key to living is love.
Like many, I thought this about NDE but interestingly enough, found it of great benefit. I’ve always done lists to organize my thoughts and tasks, however, he’s right, they can also distract and overwhelm due to the nature of the mind/brain. By using his process of narrowing ones focus, you do free yourself to dive into the task at hand and the “moment “.
Well for all the people here who are going on and on about how this is not a real nde, I have read and watched and heard hundreds of nde's in the last 20 years and I think you guys are totally missing the point. There are tons of the other classical ndes were people talk about going to the other side blah blah blah. I am in the midst of doing my purpose on Earth and I definitely need help with time management skills. I need to actually get something done and to try to do it in a spiritual way and this message from him really helped me. I am trying his techniques now and so far I feel a lot better as far as trying to get stuff done without getting stressed out. So maybe there is some gold here for those who need it.
I dont mean to be so offtopic but does someone know a way to log back into an instagram account?? I stupidly lost my password. I love any help you can offer me
Epic . Cartesian logic .Digital , Analog and Visual. Beautiful talk . This should be shown in all schools across the land so that the young know how to manage time and be aware about the bad habit of procastination. Sukhi bro , you are there among the movers and shakers of this sleepy little gloomy half baked creatures of the land . Go forth and wake em up brother. Peace.
This talk is about avoiding overwhelment. At 14:10, I'd deduced the moral. Here is clear and specific instruction for leading through balancing ones own life via work-life balance
Summary of the method - Daily Focus Time 1. Start with a clear question. 2. Write down everything that comes to your mind. 3. Select the 10 important task that have to be done today, write them on a seperate peace of paper and throw the first list away . 4. Reduce the 10 tasks to 5 top tasks and take a pause. 5. Reduce them again down to 3. 6. Put them in Order (1,2,3). 7. Do the first task immediatly then the second and the third. 8. Repeat as often as you want.
Any evidence for that? At all? I've been waiting my whole life for someone to give me something other than a personal experience or a scripture from there book of genocides and fairytales. I Haven't gotten anything yet though. I doubt I ever will.
@@cherikkuamarak4053 I have read it through. I grew up a devout Christian. I spoke tounges. You don't know me and you are full of yourself. You are too weak to accept that your personal beliefs may be wrong, because then you have no purpose left. I simply believe that the truth of the origins of the universe and of life and existence is unattainable, at least right now. Nobody has irrefutable evidence of anything, including there own existence. Your beliefs are as baseless as mine and everyone elses and I hope one day you'll have the humility to understand that. And enjoy life, because this is probably the only one we get.
@@sukhigmail SSA Bhaji - great to hear your talk. I have been living in the candy floss for last few years and hope to implement your steps and find focus again.
Oh, what a fine eloquent speech Mr. Sukhi! Truly engaging, enlightening, but also a session on how to be a fine, elegant, graceful, grammatically fine speaker. Respect!
Meditation of naam (Vaheguru) is the way forward. It brings peace of mind. With peace of mind you can easily achieve anything you want. Simply believing in just anything is not enough!
I thought this was a story about a man who almost died who focuses on nothing but work and realised family and spirit were more important after his near death experience,....but alas it was about as man who almost died and then went back to work and refocused himself on work.
mackerel69 Thank you for your comment and I sincerely appreciate it. I actually did take a change in life and. Started to help others on their paths in life. My focus these days is sharing the learnings that I was gifted to move others on in life in a more meaningful way. Hope to share with you some day if you feel happy to connect with gratitude
The title states that the talk is about what his NDE unveiled to him. I don’t know why so many people are getting bent out of shape because this wasn’t specifically about the event. Read the title COMPLETELY and you’ll see that it is correct in saying that he is talking about WHAT was unveiled to him; not how. Just because he prefers to keep sacred things private but still share the wisdom of the experience, don’t discredit his NDE out of disappointment due to not being capable of understanding such a simple title. GREAT VIDEO! 👍🏽👍🏽
Thank You!!! This is life changing information- I hope that I can be strong and implement it! I started following your advice as you spoke. Thank you Thank you Thank you for sharing your insights and experience. Work is a vital part of life. There is no shame in learning to work effectively and efficiently so that we can be self supporting.
Everything this guy talked about regarding being distracted....its the exact description of living with ADHD. Its the same pattern day after day after day.
Yup, agreed--I'm a therapist. I think it's interesting that he has symptoms after illness; it could have caused an injury and/or rewiring in his brain that would cause ADHD or ADHD-like symptoms. I'm also dealing with something similar, where my symptoms got a lot worse after an illness, but have also had symptoms since I was a child. ADHD is a spectrum and environmental factors can also make things manageable or worse.
It was an awesome experience meeting you last night and learning so much from you! I know this teaching is just what I needed at this point in my life, can't wait to start getting more focused on my tasks now!!! Thank you so much Sukhi!!! 🙏💜
He is discussing the results of recognizing that our embodied life is finite .The teachings left to us by the adepts of the great wisdom traditions- and their present day practitioners- make it clear that consciousness of impermanence is one of the major KEYS to being able to bring ourselves completely to the moment and live as fully as we can.
Thank you Sukhi, for this wonderful story. I have been working a lot myself and asking the question is it worth is. the answer is no, I would love to have more time for myself and to spend more time with the people I love to create memories. Also as a psychologist I know the brain is make-able and I use a special training to help the brain to focus again. However, your secrets for daily focus, are very true and helpful indeed. I always go back to pen and paper myself and found that making a list on the computer of what to do or who to call, will sit on my computer for ages, not being done.
Louky de Lange - Hi Louky, thank you for your comprehensive and honest comment, I sincerely look forward to us talking this through in days to come. Please feel free to text or connect with me directly as I would be humbled to be of service. Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
@@sukhigmail Hello Sukhi, have you actually watched the near death experience Veritas recommended? There is more to this life than success and productivity though that is very important here and now to survive in a difficult economic world to balance work, family life, leisure etc. Your advice is good to better achieve set goals, but maybe just maybe you have missed "The whole point of Life!", and that is to get right with the creator of the universe. In the Holy Bible Jesus quotes KJV Matt 6 verse 33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. The Lord bless you and open your eyes, mind, heart and soul to know him and his purpose for your life. Edit typo
Always start with a clear question...task at hand Grab pen and paper write it down Select ten important tasks to be done today, now Throw away the rest of the list Reduce Ten to top five tasks Go. For a walk Reduce to top three tasks Prioritize them Immediately do the top one Then second then third Repeat at will
Refresh word in computer jargon... everybody knows...but all energy within Creation is continuously refreshed by Universal Mind... Every thought is energy...
The changing his life after his illness is basically what people with ADD deal with daily. There are medications that help but the side effects usually aren't worth it. This solution is interesting I'm going to give it a try.
hi sukhi, I met you at the business start-up you are giving your talk about focus and I really enjoyed it thanks for letting me know about your TEDTalk I thoroughly enjoy it I'll strive to be more focused person thank you for sharing your story
Most of the women I know can manage their time, prioritize AND multitask and get a helluva lot done, in the time it takes most men to decide what to have for breakfast. And they still make time for their kids.
Thank you for sharing your process for redirecting and focusing your attention. I gather that your NDE was enough to point you in the direction of your authentic self. Being scattered is definitely a hindrance. Thank you again.
That’s why we are called “Human Beings” and not “Human Doings”! We need to spend more time in the ‘being human’ state, just be, in the present, than always ‘doing something’ state! It’s that simple! Researchers lied to us when they said multitasking was the way to go. It’s that simple!
This was a wonderful talk I can relate to this topic well... I had a similar experience that afforded me the opportunity to look at life in a more present state and enjoy what God has given me today to use and share with others. Thank you for your testimony/ talk it was nice to know someone else gets the slowdown & thinks about how to have a healthier life rather than the one presented by societies/cultures and traditions etc. especially with 2022 & Pandemic rocking everyone world.
It was special...like i got a new spirit...or another extra soul ...saw...a person without a body only clothes..and i felt so save ...old souls ..do they had more than other...expieriences more than other...thats why we understand and feel it more...people animals...etc...
Rehrass Sahib Starting... Shalok, First Mehla: Suffering is the medicine, and pleasure the disease, because where there is pleasure, there is no desire for God. You are the Creator Lord; I can do nothing. Even if I try, nothing happens. ||1||
One thing at a time when someting comes up deal with it one thing at a time one breath at a time. Giving the mind a break requires we put aside all practices and getting honest the fact is i am helpless. There is great power adimitting to ourself our weakness
Thank you Suki Wahlwala. Your slight pause after describing procrastination [5:42] reminded me that I set out to do something other than watch Ted Talks and had allowed myself to be distracted 🤣🤣 At that moment, I decided to not watch any more Ted Talks tonight and get back to my task I originally set out to do, after your excellent talk, of course 😄😄 To help me not get distracted again, I am leaving this window open with the screen frozen at the point in time I decided to comment here (not a distraction at all! 🤣🤣🤣🤣).
I see people here have written a lot about not hearing about NDE. Go watch Peter Fenwick, Mary Neal, and many more inspiring people before you listen to to this great man. It will give you a more sense of meaning. I will make these rules a part of my life. Thank you!!
So he talks about business but just because he had a trip in the hospital doesn't mean that there isn't stuff to be done in the world. You know every day you got to take care of the business of life I don't care how spiritual you are so the fact that he gives us some techniques to do our busyness in a more spiritually aligned way the more intuitive way that's more peaceful I think that's a good thing.
The title states that the talk is about what his NDE unveiled to him. I don’t know why so many people are getting bent out of shape because this wasn’t specifically about the event. Read the title COMPLETELY and you’ll see that it is correct in saying that he is talking about WHAT was unveiled to him; not how. Just because he prefers to keep sacred things private but still share the wisdom of the experience, don’t discredit his NDE out of disappointment due to not being capable of understanding such a simple title. GREAT VIDEO! 👍🏽👍🏽
Um. I had a being dead death experience 3 months ago where I had been gone for almost 2 minutes. In that time I went from feeling great to everyone around me telling me I'm fine now and that they loved me. I also had one of those monitor things they attach to your finger. It was confusing since I had no idea what they meant. Once I was told what happened everything clicked and my assumptions about where I might go after death had been weirdly confirmed. Cessation of consciousness and no memory of the death part. Like anesthesia except instead of resuming the countdown they have you do, it was a point a to point c with a subtracted point B I wasn't aware of. No unlocking of the mind. Just me...not existing. No time passing since I was dead, and didn't need time. I would not have known I was brought back had I not been. I wish it could have been something else. Anything else, I didn't want to be right. Yet here I am. If there really is a me to be.
Lubos Jurecka Hi, I am very blessed to have been of value to you in your life and journey. 🙏😊 Thank you for using the DFT Method and sharing your post. Enjoy and create Focused Action everyday Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
RELIGION AND NEAR-DEATH... Psychologists who reviewed a range of Phenomena such as Out-of-Body Experiences, Visions of Tunnels of Light or Encounters with Dead Relatives, say they are Tricks of the Mind rather than a Glimpse of the Afterlife. Researchers at the Universities of Edinburgh and Cambridge say that Most of the Experiences can be Explained by a Reaction in the Brain Prompted by a Traumatic and sometimes Harmless Event. The Researchers say that many common Near-Death Experiences are the brain’s Attempt to make Sense of Unusual Sensations and Perceptions Occurring During a Traumatic Event. Out-of-Body Experiences, for example, Happen when there is a Breakdown in the Brain’s Multi-Sensory Processes, and Visions of Tunnels and Bright Lights stem from a Breakdown in the Brain’s Visual System caused by Oxygen Deprivation. The new study also points to the Effects of Noradrenaline, a Hormone released by the Mid-Brain which, when Triggered, may Evoke Positive Emotions, Hallucinations and other Features of the Near-Death Experience. Our brains are flooded with a hallucinogenic, DMT, as we approach the moment of Death. DMT Is a psychedelic chemical our brains produced naturally. So just a small hit to the brain-produced DMT could make our final minutes on Earth a psychedelic adventure. Science uses DMT to produce the same kind of Near-Death Experiences as people have reported. The Scientific Evidence suggests that all Aspects of the Near-Death Experience have a “Biological Basis”. Science has proven Religion and its Teachings to be Wrong and Out Dated. From the Earth being the center of the universe, Earth being Flat, Exorcisms, Salem Witches, and the list Go's on and on. As time moves forward Science continues to Prove that Ancient Teachings are Misinterpreted, and Not True.
Losing so much blood and a loss of iron creates the loss of memory. Been there - done that - it's awful! It's almost like you cannot hold onto a thought for a moment....that thought comes and goes, and is forgotten.
Real death is when the body immediately starts decomposing. Near death is all about hallucinating. The neurosurgeon Eben Alexander, (who was raised in a religious household) believed that his positive thoughts of heaven during his near-death experiences were “real” … but that his negative experiences were fantasy and hallucination. By the way, his brain had puss in it, so it was little wonder that he was hallucinating. From his book … Proof of Heaven, by Eben Alexander, M. D. come the following words … “The most interesting thing about this session of nightmares and paranoid fantasies, in retrospect, is that all of it was indeed that: a fantasy.”
This is quite a boring talk. I thought it was a near death experience tale. It's just about a man who didn't appreciate his family and life ect. Then decides what's important, it's a lesson we all learn.
@Charlotte Bruce - At least the description told you what the talk was about. "In his talk Sukhi Wahiwala will reveal the “7 Steps Process” he took to take control of his mind to say “Goodbye” to wasted days. Sukhi harnesses the power of “Laser Like Focus”, which enabled him and will enable you, to unlock & accomplish all you want to achieve on demand."
I feel like this would have more views if it was titled properly.... it seems as though it is a talk about the afterlife, when really - its about focusing and productivity. It seems confused. The content is excellent and would have better reach with proper branding/titling, as its the same level of other ted talks. Its a shame :(
If God only favour believers regardless of their righteousness, then he needs to have an egoistic and nepotic character like Satan, worldly tyrants and corrupt politicians. The idea that one can go heaven without cultivating himself to higher spiritual standard is as silly as cramming unrefined squatters into premium residential estate.
Yes the goal of life is to get free from the cycle of birth and death and to put an end to the reincarnation from one material body to another in the 8400000 species of life in the material world. The goal is to go the spiritual world or Vaikuntha which is free from all kunthas or anxiety , where there is no more birth, disease , old age or death. Human birth is very rare because in this body one can achieve the aim of life. For details - Read Bhagavad Gita and Srimad Bhagavatam
This talk is very inspiring and the speaker has unveiled one of life's greatest secrets. A secret that states that your outer world is very much a mirror image of your inner world. If you change your thinking, you change your life. It’s that simple!
It’s not “that simple”. People often have very real challenges & limitations, this mindset of “just changing your thinking” can help, but also potentially make someone feel very inadequate & not good enough, making things worse.
I was 17 when I was inflicted with infectious hepatitis and I can relate to his experience.
@Magical Chemical Daddy God i
Perfect, thank you.
I once believed nothing could touch me..Until it did. It was then I realised that I am just as vulnerable as everyone else. That one's life can change in a mere second.
I’m so glad this gentleman recovered from his illness.
My sister and I were privileged to care for at home, witness and assist at the natural death (she was 95) of our beloved mother. It was three years of hilarity, heartbreak, physical messiness, and fierce connection - sometimes all at once! But I can tell you this: 1-we were all profoundly altered - forever, by having been part of this, and 2-my 'little fears and daily anxieties' have disappeared, following this life changing time in our lives. Context shifted, meanings revisited, the small niggly piggies? Departed. Mother did not 'come back'..but as we helped her to complete her time on Earth - we were given a priceless opportunity to consider things we might never have even thought about! Thank you for this inspiring talk..
Death sucks, even knowing we go home, to a better place, it is very difficult and hurts a lot.....it takes a long time to heal from losing your mother.
What an amazing experience. Thank you so much for sharing. 🙏❤️
Bryce Anderson I am so sorry. I am sending you love. ❤️
My mother's death impacted me so so deeply...I was sooo sad watching her change towards the end. Im the youngest , so spend the most time with her as a child. I Moved away... i called her almost every day. I traveled 2 hrs every other weekend to see her...And cried everytime i first saw her, and especially when i had to leave...before her death, during and still after.... i prayed and prayed that she would go peacefully. But when it was time, I felt selfish, I didnt want her to go. I felt really guilty for wanting her to stay longer for a long long time ..But Watching videos on Utube of people that have died and returned, of nurses that work with hospice and doctors in emergency rooms that have talked to people that have been to and seen heaven has helped me so much to understand that death is a continuation and our loved ones are no longer suffering.... thank you for sharing your story ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this! Its a gem.
"When the mind has no motive, when it is free and not urged on by any craving, when it is totally still, then truth is. You do not have to seek it; you cannot pursue or invite it. It must come." Krishnamurti
This was your gift in disguise: You stopped thinking-about-being and began being.
Thank you for sharing.
Luca Willington
I sincerely thank you for your clarity in choice of words of truth.
A sincere humble journey to have shared my life's switch moment
Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
SukhiWahiwala.com
MARIO MARTINEZ OVERDOSED NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCED HELL SUPERNATURAL RESCUE )
Beautiful!
Beautiful written
My mind feels a much needed quiet and peace as it witnesses this exchange between Luca and Sukhi from 2 years ago, with the backdrop of Krishnamurti. Thank you all for this moment of being.
Explanation of the process begins at 12:30
“To consider that after the death of the body the spirit perishes is like imagining that a bird in a cage will be destroyed if the cage is broken, though the bird has nothing to fear from the destruction of the cage. Our body is like the cage, and the spirit is like the bird. We see that
without the cage this bird flies in the world of sleep; therefore, if the cage becomes broken, the bird will continue and exist. Its feelings will be even more powerful, its perceptions greater, and its happiness increased.”
‘Abdu’l-Bahá
Many Christians will deny this truth, because it doesn't fit the boundaries of their belief system. They are land-locked in grace, trinity, forgiveness, and think afterlife is filled with rewards, gold, and as such. They can't get over original sin and Christ dying on the cross, and reject any truth, where ever it may come from.
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing.
@@defiverr4697 Many Christians are Very unspiritual people.
Allah u Abha
@@rhamiszrabbani7409 Allah’u’Abaha 🌺
Switching between multitasking and my autoimmune gradually ended up in procrastinating... This was an eye opener. Shukriya ji. Bless u..... And just realised I'm watching a 2017 in 2020. Wowy.
10minutes into the conversation and nothing about a near death experience. Very boring. He talks about a lesson he learned upon being really sick, almost dying, to appreciate his time more. Something important, of course. But he didn’t have a “near death experience”, as in, died and came back to tell what he experienced on the other side. In fact, I think what he is sharing adds to more stress in life, because he is basically telling us we should not get distracted ever. The feeling I get from his experience makes me feel stressed, not peaceful, as I usually feel when listening to real near death experiences.
I hate when people label almost dying as a near death experience...
He's going to die and realise he worked too much and never let himself have any fun.
Carina in Motion what I want to know is why almost every NDE story I have watched is when person is in their 20-30s. Would be more believable if it were happening to more of diverse age range.
@@carlhammill5774 but it is! I have heard countless NDE stories by now and there is no age range. Children for instance experience it! You probably didn't listen to many stories yet and all of them happened to be around a certain age.
@@carinainmotion3100 I have heard of few children ones but almost no elderly NDE. Thats a concern because it tie experiences to younger active brains. Trust me I want to believe.
I was focused on this talk for the first 3 minutes... But it took me 15 minutes to regain my focus. 😢 Now I have to watch this talk again and again and again!
hahaha...
What has his speech got to do with NDE?
Face it, We're all seeking to be happy, every single person on this planet wants to achieve a state of happines, you know and I know it. The problem is this...
Our minds start to judge situations as good or bad .... a lot to do with conditioning placed on us by society and other people. So, we have beliefs that some situations are good and some are bad. We create pleasure (happiness) in the situations that are good, and pain in the ones that are bad , We seek total fulfillment but the only glimpses of happiness we have are fleeting situations that are bad. So, what do we do? We try to figure which situations appear to make us most happy, eroneously believing that a situation could really cause us to feel happy... and we try to find more of those situations, and we try to avoid the opposite situations but life being life, it's impossible to maintain this. We have to work, have to do things that are less than pleasure inducing and we get pissed off. We are also detached from our higher self, which is a consciousness that is felt to be connected to all consciousness, and is also the understanding of the world that is beyond the mind. When we reach that, bliss and happiness is so abundant it's intoxicating. We can get so high on this beautiful feeling, that nothing else matters. And the world is reduced to a mere illusion. We are all seeking our higher selves, but we're seeking for it externally, which just leads to more disllusionment and pain. We seek for it externally because we know, perhaps unconsciously, that some experiences are more pleasurable than others. So logically we conclude "if I keep seeking out those experiences I like, I will be truly happy". But it never happens, because it's the programming that differentiates good or bad, that defines some experiences as unpleasant and to be avoided and some experiences as pleasurable and to be sought out, that causes us to feel unhappy.
Happiness is within you, not external!
I had an NDE it was the most ecstatic, joyous experience in my life. This man talks about business, not an NDE.
Agreed, I got rather bored from this talk since I expected something much more interesting. Could you describe your experience a bit? I'm always looking for more of these stories, so fascinating!
What was ur nde
Exactly, Nde changed me are for the better.
the LOVE of money. LOVE of power. When really we should show more love to all we meet
There is Life before Death, so make the best to live one day at a time and live it to the full...I think this sums up his talk which shows you how to make the best of your actual Daily Time in Life!! There's a moral in his story which is worthwhile pursuing!!
I had a perforated stomach ulcer and was misdiagnosed from hospital and sent home. I then developed peritonitis with full on fever. I was delirious and in and out of this reality. Never felt so terribly sick and only the powerful pain killers helped me. I was in another place where everything was heavenly. I wanted to stay there forever although It felt like forever as I had no sense of time. I still think back and try to make sense of it all but I could travel to anywhere I wanted to go just by thinking of it. I was out of hospital after 26 days and lost half of my body weight. People thought I would die when they saw me because I was literally skin and bone, like a picture of someone from a concentration camp photo in Poland.
you say you don’t wish a NDE on anyone, yet it’s a wonderful gift... I wish everyone much bravery in the face of the unknown 🙏🏼
Of course I agree all nde be bad or good is a blessing. Most NDE experiences is so awesome that it cannot be described to people on planet earth. The message is that the key to living is love.
Like many, I thought this about NDE but interestingly enough, found it of great benefit. I’ve always done lists to organize my thoughts and tasks, however, he’s right, they can also distract and overwhelm due to the nature of the mind/brain. By using his process of narrowing ones focus, you do free yourself to dive into the task at hand and the “moment “.
Well for all the people here who are going on and on about how this is not a real nde, I have read and watched and heard hundreds of nde's in the last 20 years and I think you guys are totally missing the point. There are tons of the other classical ndes were people talk about going to the other side blah blah blah. I am in the midst of doing my purpose on Earth and I definitely need help with time management skills. I need to actually get something done and to try to do it in a spiritual way and this message from him really helped me. I am trying his techniques now and so far I feel a lot better as far as trying to get stuff done without getting stressed out. So maybe there is some gold here for those who need it.
I truly needed this today ! Thanking god for ur recovery Heath , god bless you and thank you for sharing ur experience with us ,
my experience was in 1994, 4 Angels appeared in front of me. They left a woman with me. I became clairvoyant,. We were laughing our butts off,
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I stupidly lost my password. I love any help you can offer me
God with a capital letter “G”
There is an after life, for a fact. Jesus Christ is the key .
Thank you Sukhi Wahiwala ji, for sharing these invaluable insights 🙏
Epic . Cartesian logic .Digital , Analog and Visual. Beautiful talk . This should be shown in all schools across the land so that the young know how to manage time and be aware about the bad habit of procastination. Sukhi bro , you are there among the movers and shakers of this sleepy little gloomy half baked creatures of the land . Go forth and wake em up brother. Peace.
Well said. I could never create words like this. But I was mesmerized by his talk and experience. Greetings from Indonesia.
This talk is about avoiding overwhelment. At 14:10, I'd deduced the moral. Here is clear and specific instruction for leading through balancing ones own life via work-life balance
Summary of the method - Daily Focus Time
1. Start with a clear question.
2. Write down everything that comes to your mind.
3. Select the 10 important task that have to be done today, write them on a seperate peace of paper and throw the first list away .
4. Reduce the 10 tasks to 5 top tasks and take a pause.
5. Reduce them again down to 3.
6. Put them in Order (1,2,3).
7. Do the first task immediatly then the second and the third.
8. Repeat as often as you want.
Thank you
12:45 is where you want to start.
Wow, I didn't expect the type of Message - that I actually NEEDED MOST!! TY
The afterlife is REAL and the Light and Love of Jesus is REAL indeed and with us and our Loved ones...Always....
Any evidence for that? At all? I've been waiting my whole life for someone to give me something other than a personal experience or a scripture from there book of genocides and fairytales. I Haven't gotten anything yet though. I doubt I ever will.
We are god not the bs you read in the Bible
Amen. Let your love be your witness. Christ promised that the world would be hostile to the Gospel.
@@daddoesthings9461 read Bible than you will know the truth. But im not forcing you is your wish.
@@cherikkuamarak4053 I have read it through. I grew up a devout Christian. I spoke tounges. You don't know me and you are full of yourself. You are too weak to accept that your personal beliefs may be wrong, because then you have no purpose left. I simply believe that the truth of the origins of the universe and of life and existence is unattainable, at least right now. Nobody has irrefutable evidence of anything, including there own existence. Your beliefs are as baseless as mine and everyone elses and I hope one day you'll have the humility to understand that. And enjoy life, because this is probably the only one we get.
It was a "close call", not an NDE apparently. The title is misleading....Still he learned to become a bit more "sukhi", good for him and his family.
What an amazing talk Sukhi! A man full of wisdom and knowledge. Thanks for all the contribution and support.
NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCE OF OCCULTIST MARIO MARTINEZ ASTONISHING STORY..
Thank You Lara
Your Ted talk was Truly Amazing with Blessings 🙏
@@sukhigmail SSA Bhaji - great to hear your talk. I have been living in the candy floss for last few years and hope to implement your steps and find focus again.
Every belief will shatter to make us stronger n wiser n enriched.
Sikhism is god’s latest gift to our human race 🙏🙏
This is about recovering from illness not about near death. Great story just a misleading title. Thank you for sharing
Oh, what a fine eloquent speech Mr. Sukhi! Truly engaging, enlightening, but also a session on how to be a fine, elegant, graceful, grammatically fine speaker. Respect!
Amazing articulately said. Salute from Indonesia
Meditation of naam (Vaheguru) is the way forward. It brings peace of mind. With peace of mind you can easily achieve anything you want.
Simply believing in just anything is not enough!
Well-said!
You are a fortunate and blessed man Sukhi
I thought this was a story about a man who almost died who focuses on nothing but work and realised family and spirit were more important after his near death experience,....but alas it was about as man who almost died and then went back to work and refocused himself on work.
mackerel69
Thank you for your comment and I sincerely appreciate it.
I actually did take a change in life and. Started to help others on their paths in life.
My focus these days is sharing the learnings that I was gifted to move others on in life in a more meaningful way.
Hope to share with you some day if you feel happy to connect with gratitude
The title states that the talk is about what his NDE unveiled to him. I don’t know why so many people are getting bent out of shape because this wasn’t specifically about the event. Read the title COMPLETELY and you’ll see that it is correct in saying that he is talking about WHAT was unveiled to him; not how. Just because he prefers to keep sacred things private but still share the wisdom of the experience, don’t discredit his NDE out of disappointment due to not being capable of understanding such a simple title. GREAT VIDEO! 👍🏽👍🏽
Not a single comments from any India man.they don't bother.don't care.i doubt if they even watch you tube videos.
It's called bait and switch.
Did you watch the whole thing? If you did, you would see that he refocused on life!
Very interesting talk. Thanks, Sukhi Wahiwala, for sharing what you've learned from and after your NDE.
Thank You!!! This is life changing information- I hope that I can be strong and implement it! I started following your advice as you spoke. Thank you Thank you Thank you for sharing your insights and experience. Work is a vital part of life. There is no shame in learning to work effectively and efficiently so that we can be self supporting.
Everything this guy talked about regarding being distracted....its the exact description of living with ADHD. Its the same pattern day after day after day.
Yup, agreed--I'm a therapist. I think it's interesting that he has symptoms after illness; it could have caused an injury and/or rewiring in his brain that would cause ADHD or ADHD-like symptoms. I'm also dealing with something similar, where my symptoms got a lot worse after an illness, but have also had symptoms since I was a child. ADHD is a spectrum and environmental factors can also make things manageable or worse.
It was an awesome experience meeting you last night and learning so much from you! I know this teaching is just what I needed at this point in my life, can't wait to start getting more focused on my tasks now!!! Thank you so much Sukhi!!!
🙏💜
He is discussing the results of recognizing that our embodied life is finite .The teachings left to us by the adepts of the great wisdom traditions- and their present day practitioners- make it clear that consciousness of impermanence is one of the major KEYS to being able to bring ourselves completely to the moment and live as fully as we can.
Grazie anche dall'Italia..è arrivato anche qui il suo illuminante e bellissimo discorso! Thanks endeed!!!! ❤
Thank you Sukhi, for this wonderful story. I have been working a lot myself and asking the question is it worth is. the answer is no, I would love to have more time for myself and to spend more time with the people I love to create memories. Also as a psychologist I know the brain is make-able and I use a special training to help the brain to focus again. However, your secrets for daily focus, are very true and helpful indeed. I always go back to pen and paper myself and found that making a list on the computer of what to do or who to call, will sit on my computer for ages, not being done.
Louky de Lange - Hi Louky, thank you for your comprehensive and honest comment, I sincerely look forward to us talking this through in days to come. Please feel free to text or connect with me directly as I would be humbled to be of service.
Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
Near death experience of OCCULTIST MARIO MARTINEZ ASTONISHING STORY .SUPERNATURAL RESCUE
Veritas icine thank you, I Truly agree, with blessings; my holiday was actually reduced 3 days before I traveled abroad.... very interesting 🙏
@@sukhigmail Hello Sukhi, have you actually watched the near death experience Veritas recommended? There is more to this life than success and productivity though that is very important here and now to survive in a difficult economic world to balance work, family life, leisure etc. Your advice is good to better achieve set goals, but maybe just maybe you have missed "The whole point of Life!", and that is to get right with the creator of the universe. In the Holy Bible Jesus quotes KJV Matt 6 verse 33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. The Lord bless you and open your eyes, mind, heart and soul to know him and his purpose for your life. Edit typo
Always start with a clear question...task at hand
Grab pen and paper write it down
Select ten important tasks to be done today, now
Throw away the rest of the list
Reduce Ten to top five tasks
Go. For a walk
Reduce to top three tasks
Prioritize them
Immediately do the top one
Then second then third
Repeat at will
Thanks, very helpful.
Ellie, thank you for listing it.
Grace and planetX you’re both very welcome 🤗
Wow, you should make a video about this.
Refresh word in computer jargon... everybody knows...but all energy within Creation is continuously refreshed by Universal Mind... Every thought is energy...
The changing his life after his illness is basically what people with ADD deal with daily. There are medications that help but the side effects usually aren't worth it. This solution is interesting I'm going to give it a try.
I caught that halfway through as a woman with ADD myself! Thank you!
hi sukhi, I met you at the business start-up you are giving your talk about focus and I really enjoyed it thanks for letting me know about your TEDTalk I thoroughly enjoy it I'll strive to be more focused person thank you for sharing your story
Thought he was going to share about this NDE but was infact talking all about his work and work and more work.
Beautiful talk. Thank you for sharing this.
An excellent talk, really made be think about how I go about my life. Thank you so much
just described attention deficit disorder. which I have after stroke. maddening. I can't cook, burn stuff. i live my lists and post it notes.
13 minutes in. Start there for the 7 Steps Process.
wildwildben lmao thank you 😊
You are mvp about 80 percent, to be 100 percent mvp, one must put a time stamp on where the steps start. Namaste ooga booga
Most of the women I know can manage their time, prioritize AND multitask and get a helluva lot done, in the time it takes most men to decide what to have for breakfast. And they still make time for their kids.
Gillian Sernich Bit of a sweeping generalisation. Peace.
Around 12:39 the 7 steps
Thank you for sharing your process for redirecting and focusing your attention. I gather that your NDE was enough to point you in the direction of your authentic self. Being scattered is definitely a hindrance. Thank you again.
Beautifully said, thank you.
That’s why we are called “Human Beings” and not “Human Doings”!
We need to spend more time in the ‘being human’ state, just be, in the present, than always ‘doing something’ state!
It’s that simple!
Researchers lied to us when they said multitasking was the way to go.
It’s that simple!
This is one of the best. Thank you
I think this is an important listen for Mom's and Nurses. ...regarding multi- tasking.
when ever i do a bad sin i watch this to motivate me to be better!
This is not a "NDE". This is something else. Any way good speech in British accent.
Lol
This was a wonderful talk I can relate to this topic well... I had a similar experience that afforded me the opportunity to look at life in a more present state and enjoy what God has given me today to use and share with others. Thank you for your testimony/ talk it was nice to know someone else gets the slowdown & thinks about how to have a healthier life rather than the one presented by societies/cultures and traditions etc. especially with 2022 & Pandemic rocking everyone world.
It was special...like i got a new spirit...or another extra soul ...saw...a person without a body only clothes..and i felt so save ...old souls ..do they had more than other...expieriences more than other...thats why we understand and feel it more...people animals...etc...
sukhil wahiwala your talk is best in all talks
Great talk. I'm assuming the dislikes are people who can't handle the truth i.e., put the device(s) down and fully experience the present.
Rehrass Sahib Starting... Shalok, First Mehla:
Suffering is the medicine, and pleasure the disease, because where there is pleasure, there is no desire for God.
You are the Creator Lord; I can do nothing. Even if I try, nothing happens. ||1||
You can relax your body though
Very inspiring, great topic, eloquent speech, truly engaging and enlightening. Thank you
One thing at a time when someting comes up deal with it one thing at a time one breath at a time. Giving the mind a break requires we put aside all practices and getting honest the fact is i am helpless. There is great power adimitting to ourself our weakness
That was wonderful thank you I will study and utilize this information thank you so much
I traind it by studying...and making my brain Learn it quiker..you can expant it
Thank you Suki Wahlwala. Your slight pause after describing procrastination [5:42] reminded me that I set out to do something other than watch Ted Talks and had allowed myself to be distracted 🤣🤣 At that moment, I decided to not watch any more Ted Talks tonight and get back to my task I originally set out to do, after your excellent talk, of course 😄😄 To help me not get distracted again, I am leaving this window open with the screen frozen at the point in time I decided to comment here (not a distraction at all! 🤣🤣🤣🤣).
I see people here have written a lot about not hearing about NDE. Go watch Peter Fenwick, Mary Neal, and many more inspiring people before you listen to to this great man. It will give you a more sense of meaning. I will make these rules a part of my life. Thank you!!
I really appreciate this. Thank you!
Pen and Paper is my way of getting things done.
Love the 7 steps process, when you use this it really helps you get focused. Thanks for sharing.
Mr.0 .
He perfectly described ADHD symptoms.... Hopefully this will help awareness
Thank you for sharing y our experience
Thanks for sharing it resonates spiritual leader Eckharts time of now
So he talks about business but just because he had a trip in the hospital doesn't mean that there isn't stuff to be done in the world. You know every day you got to take care of the business of life I don't care how spiritual you are so the fact that he gives us some techniques to do our busyness in a more spiritually aligned way the more intuitive way that's more peaceful I think that's a good thing.
The title states that the talk is about what his NDE unveiled to him. I don’t know why so many people are getting bent out of shape because this wasn’t specifically about the event. Read the title COMPLETELY and you’ll see that it is correct in saying that he is talking about WHAT was unveiled to him; not how. Just because he prefers to keep sacred things private but still share the wisdom of the experience, don’t discredit his NDE out of disappointment due to not being capable of understanding such a simple title. GREAT VIDEO! 👍🏽👍🏽
Thanks for sharing 🌈
Um. I had a being dead death experience 3 months ago where I had been gone for almost 2 minutes. In that time I went from feeling great to everyone around me telling me I'm fine now and that they loved me. I also had one of those monitor things they attach to your finger. It was confusing since I had no idea what they meant. Once I was told what happened everything clicked and my assumptions about where I might go after death had been weirdly confirmed. Cessation of consciousness and no memory of the death part. Like anesthesia except instead of resuming the countdown they have you do, it was a point a to point c with a subtracted point B I wasn't aware of. No unlocking of the mind. Just me...not existing. No time passing since I was dead, and didn't need time. I would not have known I was brought back had I not been. I wish it could have been something else. Anything else, I didn't want to be right. Yet here I am. If there really is a me to be.
Thanks for this great talk! Very inspiring and the method DFT became the part of my life. :)
Lubos Jurecka Hi, I am very blessed to have been of value to you in your life and journey. 🙏😊
Thank you for using the DFT Method and sharing your post.
Enjoy and create Focused Action everyday
Onwards & Upwards! Always, 👍
Please do this video in Hindi version.🙏 Let everybody know your experience.
Everything is Love ❤️.
RELIGION AND NEAR-DEATH... Psychologists who reviewed a range of Phenomena such as Out-of-Body Experiences, Visions of Tunnels of Light or Encounters with Dead Relatives, say they are Tricks of the Mind rather than a Glimpse of the Afterlife. Researchers at the Universities of Edinburgh and Cambridge say that Most of the Experiences can be Explained by a Reaction in the Brain Prompted by a Traumatic and sometimes Harmless Event. The Researchers say that many common Near-Death Experiences are the brain’s Attempt to make Sense of Unusual Sensations and Perceptions Occurring During a Traumatic Event. Out-of-Body Experiences, for example, Happen when there is a Breakdown in the Brain’s Multi-Sensory Processes, and Visions of Tunnels and Bright Lights stem from a Breakdown in the Brain’s Visual System caused by Oxygen Deprivation. The new study also points to the Effects of Noradrenaline, a Hormone released by the Mid-Brain which, when Triggered, may Evoke Positive Emotions, Hallucinations and other Features of the Near-Death Experience. Our brains are flooded with a hallucinogenic, DMT, as we approach the moment of Death. DMT Is a psychedelic chemical our brains produced naturally. So just a small hit to the brain-produced DMT could make our final minutes on Earth a psychedelic adventure. Science uses DMT to produce the same kind of Near-Death Experiences as people have reported. The Scientific Evidence suggests that all Aspects of the Near-Death Experience have a “Biological Basis”. Science has proven Religion and its Teachings to be Wrong and Out Dated. From the Earth being the center of the universe, Earth being Flat, Exorcisms, Salem Witches, and the list Go's on and on. As time moves forward Science continues to Prove that Ancient Teachings are Misinterpreted, and Not True.
❤I love this inspirational video
Losing so much blood and a loss of iron creates the loss of memory. Been there - done that - it's awful! It's almost like you cannot hold onto a thought for a moment....that thought comes and goes, and is forgotten.
I can relate to so much of what he is saying and it scares me a bit.
wrong copy. this is not what i thought. ignore.
very important speech, thank you
So true what this man is saying yup yup and
fabulous
Real death is when the body immediately starts decomposing. Near death is all about hallucinating. The neurosurgeon Eben Alexander, (who was raised in a religious household) believed that his positive thoughts of heaven during his near-death experiences were “real” … but that his negative experiences were fantasy and hallucination. By the way, his brain had puss in it, so it was little wonder that he was hallucinating. From his book … Proof of Heaven, by Eben Alexander, M. D. come the following words … “The most interesting thing about this session of nightmares and paranoid fantasies, in retrospect, is that all of it was indeed that: a fantasy.”
The cameraman is getting distracted every 90 seconds
Where did you get this beautiful British accent!!! Nice! Smile.
very inspirational
This is quite a boring talk. I thought it was a near death experience tale. It's just about a man who didn't appreciate his family and life ect. Then decides what's important, it's a lesson we all learn.
I CAN'T STAND WHEN TITLE SAYS NDE THEN THERE ISN'T REALLY ONE THERE !
Charlotte Bruce can you or somebody here refer to REAL nde's worth watching because this guy is a turd
I agree... I should have read the comments before I wasted 20 minutes of my life....
Thanks for saving me the time till the end of the video.
@Charlotte Bruce - At least the description told you what the talk was about.
"In his talk Sukhi Wahiwala will reveal the “7 Steps Process” he took to take control of his mind to say “Goodbye” to wasted days. Sukhi harnesses the power of “Laser Like Focus”, which enabled him and will enable you, to unlock & accomplish all you want to achieve on demand."
love the steps
I feel like this would have more views if it was titled properly.... it seems as though it is a talk about the afterlife, when really - its about focusing and productivity. It seems confused. The content is excellent and would have better reach with proper branding/titling, as its the same level of other ted talks. Its a shame :(
What really matters beyond death is that you put your trust and faith in Jesus to be saved! God Bless :)
If God only favour believers regardless of their righteousness, then he needs to have an egoistic and nepotic character like Satan, worldly tyrants and corrupt politicians.
The idea that one can go heaven without cultivating himself to higher spiritual standard is as silly as cramming unrefined squatters into premium residential estate.
Up my alley. Super!
Yes the goal of life is to get free from the cycle of birth and death and to put an end to the reincarnation from one material body to another in the 8400000 species of life in the material world. The goal is to go the spiritual world or Vaikuntha which is free from all kunthas or anxiety , where there is no more birth, disease , old age or death. Human birth is very rare because in this body one can achieve the aim of life. For details - Read Bhagavad Gita and Srimad Bhagavatam