"It's perfect for those who are certain they don't want anymore children" What about those who don't want any children at all. I'm 36 no kids and having mine done in a week. It's infuriating that there isn't more support for women like myself.
Pls think about it it bring side effects it is ok if you dont want kids but you can destroy your health with this decicion pls research first about the side effects
That was also my first thought after hearing it. There's still a lot of stigma out there, but don't let that change your mind, the decision is always on you.
@@eneldadiaz9628 yes u ate right. 💯. After my 4th c section my both tubes aur cut and burn but my 3 child's death can also regret and many many side effect.
@@lisashears1399 I signed to get it I hope you see this because I want to know did it affect your weight gain? Was it hard to lose weight after because I’ve been told this.. how long did it take you to heal?
Had mine done while I was having my c section 3 weeks ago. I guess the good thing to that was Im recovering from both the c section/tubal ligation together. So far it has been good.
Aye im so proud of all the women who had tubal ligations. I got super lucky in Canada and got my vasectomy at only 23! Thanks Planned Parenthood! There needs to be more access to tubal ligation for those women who are young and have no children at all!
I get that, but they try not to do on young women because they have many years to change their minds about wanting children. That’s an understandable point as well
I had my tubal ligation at the age of 30 after my 3 rd baby. Let me tell ya I was in the most severe painful pains EVER! I was dying at home for 2 straight fucking weeks internal bleeding as a result from the tubal ligation on my right side . The clamp or whatever it’s called busted and caused Inter bleeding. My hemoglobin was a 4. I passed out one 3am morning and I was taken to the er. There they did a ct scan and saw what was happening. I remember one the nurses yelling where’s the blood she’s leaving us. This mom!!!! I will never ever forget. And she started praying after they were wheeling me off to the OR. I can hear the commotion as I was losing consciousness. Remember seeing a bright light then I woke up. My ob who repaired me said Juanita this was done very very quick and they didn’t care if the clamp was secure. I’m taking my doctor hat off and telling you this as a mother. If I were u I would look into taking legal action. I’m so so sorry you lost your right tube and ovary and appendix from the bleeding. This one is a different hospital btw. Never went to the hospital I birthed all my kids and had the tubal ligation. Hate that ob and that hospital. Edit to add: my C-section was supposed to be at 12pm. They were behind that day. I ended up delivering my baby at 230pm. Wtf 😳
To make it clear Tubal Ligation is not 100% effective, there are several things that can happen. Your tubes can reattach, sometimes the egg still manages to travel through the fallopian tubes leading to normal pregnancy. Also unfortunately in some cases you get an ectopic pregnancy. Therefore it's not always permanent and it can be reversed.
This is a PSA for women in the US who live in states where abortion has been completely banned. This procedure drastically increases your risk of ectopic pregnancy. The ONLY way to treat an ectopic pregnancy is an abortion which you would be denied in your state. Please consider this option very sceptically.
Treatment for that is still legal here in Texas, issue is Doctors being straight panseys and not wanting to do it due to "confusion on the law" and denying care afraid they will get hit with repercussions. Doctors that deny treatment due being scared should be stripped of their licenses and sued, law still allows to save mothers life with abortion for entopic pregnancy, its just considered treatment instead of abortion. complicated miscarriages may have issues though.
You can have medically necessary abortions in all states. When the mother's life is on the line, it is absolutely necessary and legal. The fetus will die in an ectopic situation regardless. It is elective abortion that is illegal in some states.
No long term side effects are you joking? Women under 30 please don't do it. I did it at 29 and regret it. Not because I want more kids but bc my hormones are way off and I have suffered from depression and anxiety since then. Never had it before the tubal. I also have symptoms that are mimicking menopause... the hot flashes are no joke. I'm only 30 😫 There is simply not enough research done on women under 30 getting this done and the docs aren't appropriately educating on the facts. And it's not bc they don't care, but like I said very little research.
I haven't had a period since my tubes have been tied at all. I bled after my c section for a few weeks while healing. And haven't had a period since. It's been almost 9 months now
Also, as far as my own body is concerned, I have a very low pain tolerance. I might have vaginitimus because I can’t even have a Pap smear done. They will have to give my me anesthesia to get it done. And I already have heavy periods. I realize my brother doesn’t know all of this, but If he even would’ve given me the chance I would have told him. A man should never tell a woman what to do with her body. Maybe he was concerned about my offspring, but it didn’t seem like it. Don’t get me wrong, I’m pro life, I would never want a child to die, but men please stop asking us to endure pain for absolutely no reason at all.
“With a tubal ligation, there are no long-term side effects, and nothing to worry about either.” This is a straight up lie from someone who’s trying to sell the idea of getting one to you. One big unintended side effect is that ectopic pregnancies may result from tubal ligations. Remember to please TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR before making a decision
This video is extremely misleading. I had my tubes tied for 20yrs and I can say without an doubt that there are not only side effects but extreme ones. The egg that's released into the fallopian tube has no way of exiting the body if it's not fertilized. The excess hormones and deteriorated cells wreck havoc on your body from beginning to end. I just urge anybody considering this surgery to please do an extensive research into the process. (Look at up the UA-cam video "don't get your tube tied) I can personally vouch for everything she is saying. Please make the right choice for you with all the info available and God bless you.
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Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is fool proof except abstinence. *Virgin Mary has entered the chat* Lol jk, but really abstinence is the only 100% chance you will not get pregnant.
@@cv6442 😂😂😂 This be true... only abstinence. So I guess I should always be ready for anything since i am a married woman and abstinence is NOT an option😅
@@nanit06 vasectomy. I’ve done extensive research into this and the only BC that seems to not wreak havoc on your body & actually work 100% of the time is vasectomies. It makes sense, if he doesn’t want kids either then it shouldn’t be a problem. The procedure is 10-30 mins long and recovery is less than a week!! Why are we even bothering putting ourselves through this when his procedure to tie his tubes is way less???
I think its because of hormones, I get 'periods' on BC because my body thinks due to the decrease of hormones on placebo pills that its time to shed the layer of uterus with an egg. Probably the same thing here
Having a tubal ligation hurts like hell. You can barely walk afterwards & yessss this procedure does require Anesthesia during surgery. Some of this stuff in this video isn't accurate. Making others feel as though its something small.... that's cap.
How the fk are you 22!? And I'm 28 years and I've been told by so many doctors no I'm to young. They won't allow anyone to do it unless they have kids. Im almost 30!!
I had a tubal ligation. When I woke up from the surgery I was in so much pain. My first period was heavy and long. They have been heavy since I had my tubes tied. It took my a full 2 months to get over the actual surgery. Then all I felt was just bloating after the pain and tenderness finally went away. My desire for sex has almost depleted I'm not complaining about it though. Probably the 2 things that I can complain about is that I'm more tired than I have ever been before and the unsightly thick facial hair I have been growing on my face since 2 weeks after the procedure was done.
@Adasia Embry If I had my uterus taken out it would have been different. If my uterus had been removed I would not be able to have a period. But if you get your tubes tide you can still get your period. The only differences with you tubes tied you have no way of the egg passing to the uterus and no sperm could reach the egg.
This MSI Reproductive Choices youtube feature of What You Need To Know About Tubal Ligation is honest and educative. I am currently a 43 year old woman who had tubal ligation surgery at the age of 23 so I know from personal experience that it is an effective form of female sterilization. I also still had my periods normally up until only this summer. The only caveat is that I had to go through the Planned Parenthood clinic for approval to obtain the surgery because of my young age (where a woman can get approval for the tubal ligation surgery depends on where she lives and the options she has in relation to the amount of money she has, if she can find a doctor who will agree to it depending on her age andor how many kids she has etc. )
@free_spirit_hooping well it does you better becareful i have taquicardia now and many issues after taking off the tubes somethimes i can even sleep i get tired my heart is no working the my bones are weak so pls stop if you don't leave this horrible experience dont talk
I would like a reversal I live in South Africa in Middleburg... I was 24 years old and I was not ready they didn't explain in detail that I was not going to be able to have children I am 31 years old and I still want children...what do I do...
They gonna be happy to do it the doctors know that as soon you get it done you gonna be their patience because it has to many side effects that they dont want you to know
@@fabiolacruz2006 I had mine tied and conceived WITH them clamped. He’s a year and a half now. Has Down syndrome and a hand with an abnormality. Love him a bunch. I do wonder if the tubal hormone disruption had something to do with his disabilities
I had mine tied 9 almost 10 years ago I really think I'm pregnant. I pray all the time and really hope my tubes came undone. I do know of people that tubes naturally came undone
I'm tired of horrible side effects from birth control. But the thought I wouldn't be able to have kids.. ever 😞 I already have 2 pretty sure I don't want more. Lol but then again 😂
@@sallyenki4440 that's what I have and it's been a disaster. It's finally mellowed out now but I bled off and on like spotted for like 9 months straight 😅
I hate the medical field my gosh they have caused so much pain...they tied my tubes without my permission during a C-section! Afterwards I felt the worst feeling of doom I ever felt in my entire life I mean not before or since...I was grabbing the nurses saying "somethings wrong!!" Why do I feel this??? I wanted to crawl out of my own skin...it causes EARLY MENAPAUSE and all kinds of female problems later in a women's life...DO NOT DO THIS! It should not be an option for married couples as it's much safer and reversible for a man to do this.
I had mine before one week ... yesterday I had sex with my partner without using contraceptive.....is there any risk of pregnancy...i don't know whether the wound is healed or not ...plz reply soon???
Definitely talk to your doctor. I was advised 21-30. But it's super dependent on honesty on future plans with your doctor. I'm 24 and had to argue for mine.
What's funny to me is how now all the sudden birth control is an issue when it was an option this entire time. Government clinics hand out several methods
I am 14 and i want to get my tubes tied not because I don't like or want children its the opposite because I don't ever want my kids to live in such a cruel world or let anything bad happen to them, so that is why I want to adopt instead of have kids by pregnancy because I DON'T WANT MISCARRIAGES OR ABORTION BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO KILL MY BABY BECAUSE I WOULD RATHER KILL MYSELF THEM MY KIDS. But yeah if I got my tubes tied I wouldn't have to let my kids live such a horrible life while also, helping the kids in need that are already here because they are already in this cruel world so why don't I make their lives better by being their mom! I am currently in 8th grade starting high school and I already know what I want to do i my life, i want to help people and make good people's lives better!!!!! 💖 Once I start my job and when i'm done graduating I am going to make a monthly bill to donate to charity to help people in need!!!!!!! I can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!💖💖
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@@pigeonapologist My sister doesn't want to have because she has endometriosis. She is also 33 in a few days and has spoken to her partner who supports her decision. Is Endometriosis a good reason to not have kids?
My Aunt died today a minute into this procedure god rest her soul my family is devastated she left 2 kids behind one boy 5 and a girl 17 and her husband 💔
I’m 33. After I was married for a year, My brother asked me to get my tubes tied out of the blue last year as he was driving me to the grocery store. I felt so trapped as the only one with him in the car. . I told him my husband and I weren’t very close at the time, but he said he didn’t want to hear it. Also, I told him my husband and I aren’t ready to have kids but we were thinking about it in the next 10 years. He said, if you don’t know if you want kids in the next 10 years then you should get your tubes tied. His wife had her tubes tied after their second child. Later in the year, he apologized for his words and I I tried to forgive him and heal from it this year, but I just couldn’t. This was especially since he wouldn’t stay out of my life like I asked him to. I(I wanted to have this year to heal.) So now I went “no contact ” with him even though it’s hard because I don’t want to have to do that. Also, he denied ever telling me to get my tubes tied, and told me to take responsibility and tell the truth. Which I was. So I called my husband to confirm ithat my brother had apologized last year for asking me to get my tubes itied. He said, “yes.” So why would my brother apologize for something that she’s now saying that he never did? The main reason I even had to confront my brother on this is because not only was it hurting my physical and mental health, but also that of my husband. We probably can’t have kids right now anyway do to natural causes so we might adopt in the future.
It's true it is forever and one day you wake up wanting more children but you can't no more. The thing is we can never be too sure of what we want. I had 3 children from my 1rts marriage I taught I wanted only 3 kids then got a divorce remarried and had a boy after i tied my tubes. now I wished I didn't. not much info out there about this i. fact I never found out what type of ligation i had. All i remember signing those papers and the dr. beign happy about it I was 33 yrs old
Mitch wants a natural woman but is fawning over her glammed up mama. I don’t have a problem with a man crying but it’s annoying when anybody cries all the time so I hope Justin isn’t going to be crying all season. Miguel is rushing sex too quickly. It’s only been 3 days. Chill out. Get to know her. You might not even like her.
im 19 and thinking the same thing there are no good male partners and it would be best to not have children trust me please follow your head not people who have children and want you to be unhappy with a mediocre partner
I'm 31 and I don't have children, I'm perfectly happy despite that. Society is annoying and wants to force everyone to get the "standard" lifestyle, they don't care if you are unhappy with it. So I'm proud of you girls for having the strength to go against the current in order to live the life YOU want, not society
lol if you had one forever-partner he should just get the vasectomy - it's so much easier!! this procedure is fittting if a woman doesn't want children and have a normal sexual life.
I will never go use you people your staff is jhb....soweto in bara was very rude ....I rather pay that 15000 in a private hospital.....that you .....had a very bad experience with your untrained staff
@@Zimmalvlog13 Be prepared to take time off for 1 week. Just rest. No lifting anything at all. You will get neckpain the first days. That happens for some reason I dont know about. You will be fine. I celebrate my tubal every year with my partner
If the men didn't cry and complain about it then we women wouldn't be here watching these videos in the first place.So use your God given brains for a change!
"It's perfect for those who are certain they don't want anymore children" What about those who don't want any children at all. I'm 36 no kids and having mine done in a week. It's infuriating that there isn't more support for women like myself.
Pls think about it it bring side effects it is ok if you dont want kids but you can destroy your health with this decicion pls research first about the side effects
I had mine tied at 39 with no kids. Best decision ever -- for ME. Listen to your heart and do what’s best for YOU!! 💜
That was also my first thought after hearing it. There's still a lot of stigma out there, but don't let that change your mind, the decision is always on you.
How did it go??? ❤️
@@eneldadiaz9628 yes u ate right. 💯. After my 4th c section my both tubes aur cut and burn but my 3 child's death can also regret and many many side effect.
It's perfect for people who don't want children at all.
I’m in my 20s and getting mine done without a single child in my life 😁
Good for you! Having kids shouldn't be forced on anyone. Good luck with the surgery!
@@fabiana7157 thank you my life is starting to revolve around this it's beginning to make me depressed.
I got mine today
@@jillsanchez6200 how's the recovery?any side effects?
How long does it last
I had mine done yesterday and its the most painful thing ever. I walked out of the ward shuffling. I don't regret having it done but it's painful
No anesthesia?
@@Stellarainn Had anasethia, just the pain after
Yes I had anathesia but just the pain after xx was gone in about 3 days xx
@@lisashears1399 I signed to get it I hope you see this because I want to know did it affect your weight gain? Was it hard to lose weight after because I’ve been told this.. how long did it take you to heal?
@@chinacolbertI am also curious about the weight gain
I guess I’m one of the lucky ones. I had my tubal ligation 6 years ago and had no adverse reactions physically, mentally, or hormonal. 🤷🏽♀️
No change in period?
Did u get gas pain u fink cut it's better
Did u get gas pain
@@amberkarim6924 No. I didn’t have any gas pain. Have you had the procedure done or are you thinking about it?
@@driab8574 No change in period at that time. But now that I’m in my 40’s, I’m going through perimenopause 🥺and they are irregular. 😩
Had mine done while I was having my c section 3 weeks ago. I guess the good thing to that was Im recovering from both the c section/tubal ligation together. So far it has been good.
Exactly what I did too I just gave birth to my 5th child couple days ago..4boys and 1 girl I AM DONE ✅
I’m doing the same thing here in 3 weeks during c section for 4th baby. 🎉❤️👏🏼 I’m overly excited lol 😅
@@ninas4968 good luck! 😁
@@brendaa7726 thank you!
Did you experience any issues post the tubal ligation?
Aye im so proud of all the women who had tubal ligations. I got super lucky in Canada and got my vasectomy at only 23! Thanks Planned Parenthood!
There needs to be more access to tubal ligation for those women who are young and have no children at all!
I get that, but they try not to do on young women because they have many years to change their minds about wanting children. That’s an understandable point as well
I had my tubal ligation at the age of 30 after my 3 rd baby. Let me tell ya I was in the most severe painful pains EVER! I was dying at home for 2 straight fucking weeks internal bleeding as a result from the tubal ligation on my right side . The clamp or whatever it’s called busted and caused Inter bleeding. My hemoglobin was a 4. I passed out one 3am morning and I was taken to the er. There they did a ct scan and saw what was happening. I remember one the nurses yelling where’s the blood she’s leaving us. This mom!!!! I will never ever forget. And she started praying after they were wheeling me off to the OR. I can hear the commotion as I was losing consciousness. Remember seeing a bright light then I woke up. My ob who repaired me said Juanita this was done very very quick and they didn’t care if the clamp was secure. I’m taking my doctor hat off and telling you this as a mother. If I were u I would look into taking legal action. I’m so so sorry you lost your right tube and ovary and appendix from the bleeding. This one is a different hospital btw. Never went to the hospital I birthed all my kids and had the tubal ligation. Hate that ob and that hospital. Edit to add: my C-section was supposed to be at 12pm. They were behind that day. I ended up delivering my baby at 230pm. Wtf 😳
Were you put sleep
The bed jumping lol.
😂😂😂 went str8 to the comments to see if anyone peeped the bed
Thank you for putting information out there, I'm passionate about sexual reproductive health and rights
IT CHANGES YOUR BODY ...LOOK UT UP
ANEMIA, PERIOD CHANGES EXC,,,,,
What about the persons who dont want kids at all? These kinds of things infuriates me.
Dont have sex simple 💩🤡
I had one against my will. I need all information about this procedure.
To make it clear Tubal Ligation is not 100% effective, there are several things that can happen. Your tubes can reattach, sometimes the egg still manages to travel through the fallopian tubes leading to normal pregnancy. Also unfortunately in some cases you get an ectopic pregnancy. Therefore it's not always permanent and it can be reversed.
the clip method is more effective
@@LipstickSuccubus yes but it's still not 100%
@@mcelite14 What is an ectopic pregnancy?
@@Gumball-em6xm Pregnancy outside of the uterus
@@mcelite14 How is that possible though? The eggs are inside
This is a PSA for women in the US who live in states where abortion has been completely banned. This procedure drastically increases your risk of ectopic pregnancy. The ONLY way to treat an ectopic pregnancy is an abortion which you would be denied in your state. Please consider this option very sceptically.
This option vs having a kid during these times/possibly having an ectopic pregnancy anyways.
Thank you
Treatment for that is still legal here in Texas, issue is Doctors being straight panseys and not wanting to do it due to "confusion on the law" and denying care afraid they will get hit with repercussions. Doctors that deny treatment due being scared should be stripped of their licenses and sued, law still allows to save mothers life with abortion for entopic pregnancy, its just considered treatment instead of abortion. complicated miscarriages may have issues though.
You can have medically necessary abortions in all states. When the mother's life is on the line, it is absolutely necessary and legal. The fetus will die in an ectopic situation regardless. It is elective abortion that is illegal in some states.
No long term side effects are you joking? Women under 30 please don't do it. I did it at 29 and regret it. Not because I want more kids but bc my hormones are way off and I have suffered from depression and anxiety since then. Never had it before the tubal. I also have symptoms that are mimicking menopause... the hot flashes are no joke. I'm only 30 😫
There is simply not enough research done on women under 30 getting this done and the docs aren't appropriately educating on the facts. And it's not bc they don't care, but like I said very little research.
I had my tubes tied after my 2nd child.
birth control has the same side effects soo
you are an exception - the consensus in the medical community is that it does not affect hormone levels for the vast majority of people
Did u remove fallopian tube
Did u remove ur fallopian tubes
It’s “ligation”?!? My entire life I’ve been saying “tubal litigation” 😰😨
same here!!hahaha
me too 😂😭
I had my tubes taken out yesterday!
How was it ? Still thinking about it lol
@@driab8574 I had mine done hormones haven't been the same since
@@raquelwells9239 what are your hormones like?
@@raquelwells9239 yes plz explain
Did u get gas pain u did laproscopy
Where does the period come from if the tubes are cut and tied?
The period comes from the vaginal tissue coming away from the Womb walls
The tubes are just what carry the egg cell down into the womb
Uterus
I haven't had a period since my tubes have been tied at all. I bled after my c section for a few weeks while healing. And haven't had a period since. It's been almost 9 months now
The period is in the uterus, not from the fallopian tubes.
@@hannahreagan3696 if you were breastfeeding also then period could not show up to 16 months
Also, as far as my own body is concerned, I have a very low pain tolerance. I might have vaginitimus because I can’t even have a Pap smear done. They will have to give my me anesthesia to get it done. And I already have heavy periods. I realize my brother doesn’t know all of this, but If he even would’ve given me the chance I would have told him. A man should never tell a woman what to do with her body. Maybe he was concerned about my offspring, but it didn’t seem like it. Don’t get me wrong, I’m pro life, I would never want a child to die, but men please stop asking us to endure pain for absolutely no reason at all.
“With a tubal ligation, there are no long-term side effects, and nothing to worry about either.” This is a straight up lie from someone who’s trying to sell the idea of getting one to you. One big unintended side effect is that ectopic pregnancies may result from tubal ligations. Remember to please TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR before making a decision
Did mine today n its really painful no joke😢
This video is extremely misleading. I had my tubes tied for 20yrs and I can say without an doubt that there are not only side effects but extreme ones. The egg that's released into the fallopian tube has no way of exiting the body if it's not fertilized. The excess hormones and deteriorated cells wreck havoc on your body from beginning to end. I just urge anybody considering this surgery to please do an extensive research into the process. (Look at up the UA-cam video "don't get your tube tied) I can personally vouch for everything she is saying.
Please make the right choice for you with all the info available and God bless you.
This isn’t true? I’m sorry this happened to you but it was not due to the egg being released as the egg is only a single cell?
100% agreed
Agree I wish i would have done more research im a year and a half out and regret getting it done
@@dianahale217 same here pls talk about your experience you can save a life
This surgery is evil nobody should do it
is there any hope of tube reverse
😯😯😯😯why did they say... "making it NEARLY impossible for her to get pregnant in the future..." Isnt this procedure full proof? 🤨
hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎶🎶
ive heard there’s women out there that has got pregnant after this procedure
Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is fool proof except abstinence.
*Virgin Mary has entered the chat*
Lol jk, but really abstinence is the only 100% chance you will not get pregnant.
@@cv6442 😂😂😂
This be true... only abstinence. So I guess I should always be ready for anything since i am a married woman and abstinence is NOT an option😅
@@nanit06 vasectomy. I’ve done extensive research into this and the only BC that seems to not wreak havoc on your body & actually work 100% of the time is vasectomies. It makes sense, if he doesn’t want kids either then it shouldn’t be a problem. The procedure is 10-30 mins long and recovery is less than a week!! Why are we even bothering putting ourselves through this when his procedure to tie his tubes is way less???
Why do you still get periods? I can't find the answer ANYWHERE
I also wonder where the ovum passes through to be periods later 😀
Because you still have a uterus and it will still shed it's limning every month, hence you'll still bleed.
I think its because of hormones, I get 'periods' on BC because my body thinks due to the decrease of hormones on placebo pills that its time to shed the layer of uterus with an egg. Probably the same thing here
Because periods are from the uterous & not the tubes.
Having a tubal ligation hurts like hell. You can barely walk afterwards & yessss this procedure does require Anesthesia during surgery. Some of this stuff in this video isn't accurate. Making others feel as though its something small.... that's cap.
How come they don't use anesthesia
I want to get my tubes removed because I'm terrified of pregnancy.
Is it possible
@@manurathbhattarai6593yes it is that’s the video lol
Don't sleep around. It's that simple
I’m 22 with no kids. IM HAVING THE SURGERY TOMORROW ‼️‼️‼️
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations
Updates? Did you have any side effects? How long to recover and how are you feeling now?
@@its.hope.plz share
How the fk are you 22!? And I'm 28 years and I've been told by so many doctors no I'm to young. They won't allow anyone to do it unless they have kids. Im almost 30!!
I had a tubal ligation. When I woke up from the surgery I was in so much pain. My first period was heavy and long. They have been heavy since I had my tubes tied. It took my a full 2 months to get over the actual surgery. Then all I felt was just bloating after the pain and tenderness finally went away. My desire for sex has almost depleted I'm not complaining about it though. Probably the 2 things that I can complain about is that I'm more tired than I have ever been before and the unsightly thick facial hair I have been growing on my face since 2 weeks after the procedure was done.
@Adasia Embry Honestly my periods are lot more heavier.
@Adasia Embry If I had my uterus taken out it would have been different. If my uterus had been removed I would not be able to have a period. But if you get your tubes tide you can still get your period. The only differences with you tubes tied you have no way of the egg passing to the uterus and no sperm could reach the egg.
@Adasia Embry the procedure was good for me because I know I'll never be surprised buy a pregnancy. I can live with all of the hormonal changes.
Adasia Embry did you not watch the video?
That’s awful that happened to you! I’m so sorry! This is called post tubal ligation syndrome it happens in about 1 out of 200 women.
I did tube ligation 6 years ago and I want to reopen it. It is possible or not, any risks after reopening?
You can get it but you're chances of pregnancy are much less
Does it stay in there permanently
This MSI Reproductive Choices youtube feature of What You Need To Know About Tubal Ligation is honest and educative. I am currently a 43 year old woman who had tubal ligation surgery at the age of 23 so I know from personal experience that it is an effective form of female sterilization. I also still had my periods normally up until only this summer. The only caveat is that I had to go through the Planned Parenthood clinic for approval to obtain the surgery because of my young age (where a woman can get approval for the tubal ligation surgery depends on where she lives and the options she has in relation to the amount of money she has, if she can find a doctor who will agree to it depending on her age andor how many kids she has etc. )
How long does it last
Permanent
I know people that have had this and they tubes can undone naturally
Tubel ligation finish but this month not come to period
Very very scientific video.
I may consider this if I don’t have any kids since I am older in age
Dont do it pls try different birth control this is permanent it has to many side effects like taquicardia dementia no sex drive pls becareful
@free_spirit_hooping well it does you better becareful i have taquicardia now and many issues after taking off the tubes somethimes i can even sleep i get tired my heart is no working the my bones are weak so pls stop if you don't leave this horrible experience dont talk
@free_spirit_hooping loss of memory to
@free_spirit_hooping i just dont want nobody go to samething
@free_spirit_hooping o well i'm not
Thank you.
I would like a reversal I live in South Africa in Middleburg... I was 24 years old and I was not ready they didn't explain in detail that I was not going to be able to have children I am 31 years old and I still want children...what do I do...
Same here I need children but my tubes r tied I'm 33
Adopt lol. Plenty of kids in Africa to adopt from
Can you get that done during the Pandemic????
Yes!
Yes i just did mine 5 days ago
@@elizabethtinajero825 congrats!!
I just got home gone yesterday
They gonna be happy to do it the doctors know that as soon you get it done you gonna be their patience because it has to many side effects that they dont want you to know
How does the egg or bleeding pass through when is tight enough to not let the sperm get through?
I’m getting this lol
Me too
Why do i feel this video is way too optimistic?
It is!!
Had mine a week ago after i had a c-section and healing is going great. But was so not expecting it to go this well.
@@tamraarmstrong1433 so it can be done together with the cs?
Guide side effects who done
The fact that women don't get anesthesia for these types of procedures is kind of punishment for not wanting children.
No anesthesia? Monday im doing mine. Thank god.its with anesthesia
Thanks for the info, but our bed moves way more than this.
please we are worry about this.Before
BTL
During sex after tubectomy operation where sperm go female body absorb it or it will fall outside?
Its gonna die and gets flushed out of the vagina via discharge
Had mines done after my section C-section . Definitely did not want anymore 😂
I had my tubes tied when I had my son, I'm 24 And I'm Pregnant. My son is about to be 8 months old.
Really
Happened to me too
So you can get pregnant. Did you get pregnant naturally or did you go get them reversed.
@@fabiolacruz2006 I had mine tied and conceived WITH them clamped. He’s a year and a half now. Has Down syndrome and a hand with an abnormality. Love him a bunch. I do wonder if the tubal hormone disruption had something to do with his disabilities
I had mine tied 9 almost 10 years ago I really think I'm pregnant. I pray all the time and really hope my tubes came undone. I do know of people that tubes naturally came undone
Creator: Make it simple to understand
Editor-makes it so children can watch it
I want this procedure done. Very soon
I’m so scared.
Can't do it when you're awake
I'm tired of horrible side effects from birth control. But the thought I wouldn't be able to have kids.. ever 😞 I already have 2 pretty sure I don't want more. Lol but then again 😂
What about IUD
@@sallyenki4440 that's what I have and it's been a disaster. It's finally mellowed out now but I bled off and on like spotted for like 9 months straight 😅
@@elizabethvaughn5694 god that sounds bad 😬 good luck with it dear✌️
@@sallyenki4440 thank you my love. I'm back to normal periods now thank God 😅 haven't gotten knocked up yet either so that's good lol
I hate the medical field my gosh they have caused so much pain...they tied my tubes without my permission during a C-section! Afterwards I felt the worst feeling of doom I ever felt in my entire life I mean not before or since...I was grabbing the nurses saying "somethings wrong!!" Why do I feel this??? I wanted to crawl out of my own skin...it causes EARLY MENAPAUSE and all kinds of female problems later in a women's life...DO NOT DO THIS! It should not be an option for married couples as it's much safer and reversible for a man to do this.
wtf it’s seriously why do they have u awake? I was awake for my little knee surgery and they crap hurt
Nearly impossible?
I had mine before one week ... yesterday I had sex with my partner without using contraceptive.....is there any risk of pregnancy...i don't know whether the wound is healed or not ...plz reply soon???
Can you still get pregnant if your tubes is burned
No I don’t believe you can.
You can through IVF. However, it's extremely expensive.
What age is best for this procedure
Definitely talk to your doctor. I was advised 21-30. But it's super dependent on honesty on future plans with your doctor. I'm 24 and had to argue for mine.
What's funny to me is how now all the sudden birth control is an issue when it was an option this entire time. Government clinics hand out several methods
You can still have kids by in-vitro btw so this is the best method
NOt Nearly impossible. Baby number three tubal ligation baby here
wow! my husband had a vasectomy 2 years ago and I became pregnant. Was hoping this would be an option 😕
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I got mine done at 21 and don't have a single kid
I am 14 and i want to get my tubes tied not because I don't like or want children its the opposite because I don't ever want my kids to live in such a cruel world or let anything bad happen to them, so that is why I want to adopt instead of have kids by pregnancy because I DON'T WANT MISCARRIAGES OR ABORTION BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO KILL MY BABY BECAUSE I WOULD RATHER KILL MYSELF THEM MY KIDS. But yeah if I got my tubes tied I wouldn't have to let my kids live such a horrible life while also, helping the kids in need that are already here because they are already in this cruel world so why don't I make their lives better by being their mom! I am currently in 8th grade starting high school and I already know what I want to do i my life, i want to help people and make good people's lives better!!!!! 💖
Once I start my job and when i'm done graduating I am going to make a monthly bill to donate to charity to help people in need!!!!!!! I can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!💖💖
Miscarriage and abortion isn’t murder, also being 14 you wouldn’t be able to have this procedure.
can you get it even if you had no babys
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yes you can! but unfortunately it gets harder to be able to get one cause some doctors think that you’ll “change your mind” and refuse to give you one
@@pigeonapologist My sister doesn't want to have because she has endometriosis. She is also 33 in a few days and has spoken to her partner who supports her decision. Is Endometriosis a good reason to not have kids?
@@havanadaurcy1321 any reason is good to not have kids
My Aunt died today a minute into this procedure god rest her soul my family is devastated she left 2 kids behind one boy 5 and a girl 17 and her husband 💔
What ?? During the surgery or after the surgery?? Plz reply
😢
I’m 33. After I was married for a year, My brother asked me to get my tubes tied out of the blue last year as he was driving me to the grocery store. I felt so trapped as the only one with him in the car. . I told him my husband and I weren’t very close at the time, but he said he didn’t want to hear it.
Also, I told him my husband and I aren’t ready to have kids but we were thinking about it in the next 10 years. He said, if you don’t know if you want kids in the next 10 years then you should get your tubes tied. His wife had her tubes tied after their second child. Later in the year, he apologized for his words and I I tried to forgive him and heal from it this year, but I just couldn’t. This was especially since he wouldn’t stay out of my life like I asked him to. I(I wanted to have this year to heal.) So now I went “no contact ” with him even though it’s hard because I don’t want to have to do that. Also, he denied ever telling me to get my tubes tied, and told me to take responsibility and tell the truth. Which I was. So I called my husband to confirm ithat my brother had apologized last year for asking me to get my tubes itied. He said, “yes.” So why would my brother apologize for something that she’s now saying that he never did? The main reason I even had to confront my brother on this is because not only was it hurting my physical and mental health, but also that of my husband. We probably can’t have kids right now anyway do to natural causes so we might adopt in the future.
Cool story bro 🎉
It's weird! Why is it any of the brother's business?
No side effects my ass
Great
It's true it is forever and one day you wake up wanting more children but you can't no more. The thing is we can never be too sure of what we want. I had 3 children from my 1rts marriage I taught I wanted only 3 kids then got a divorce remarried and had a boy after i tied my tubes. now I wished I didn't. not much info out there about this i. fact I never found out what type of ligation i had. All i remember signing those papers and the dr. beign happy about it I was 33 yrs old
You got pregnant after your tubes were tied??
is my sexual life disturb after BTL????????????
I was put to sleep
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my wife Maryam and me have 4 children and now we want BTL
Mitch wants a natural woman but is fawning over her glammed up mama.
I don’t have a problem with a man crying but it’s annoying when anybody cries all the time so I hope Justin isn’t going to be crying all season.
Miguel is rushing sex too quickly. It’s only been 3 days. Chill out. Get to know her. You might not even like her.
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Can I ask I want to have a baby...can I reverse my tubal ligation
From what I know, you can have it reversed to some extent, but it isn’t guaranteed
You can have it reversed but the scarring done to the Fallopian tubes after ligation can be an issue when trying to conceive.
Cn I ask the question?I'm ligation for more than 7years but my partner want me pregnant again but I ask him, how?
Look up IVF
@@melalunaambolo1905 how many c section u have?
I’d make my husband get a vasectomy instead
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I just don't want any kids FULLSTOP..PERIOD!!
I JUST DON'T WANT KIDS...NO
I'll get one I'm the future...I'm 16 so..
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im 19 and thinking the same thing there are no good male partners and it would be best to not have children trust me please follow your head not people who have children and want you to be unhappy with a mediocre partner
I'm 31 and I don't have children, I'm perfectly happy despite that. Society is annoying and wants to force everyone to get the "standard" lifestyle, they don't care if you are unhappy with it. So I'm proud of you girls for having the strength to go against the current in order to live the life YOU want, not society
lol if you had one forever-partner he should just get the vasectomy - it's so much easier!! this procedure is fittting if a woman doesn't want children and have a normal sexual life.
Freeze your eggs beforehand if you think you "might" change your mind.
Their still there no need to freeze
I will never go use you people your staff is jhb....soweto in bara was very rude ....I rather pay that 15000 in a private hospital.....that you .....had a very bad experience with your untrained staff
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everyone I know that got the tubal got fat afterwards,,
Everyone I know that birthed a kid got fat afterwards
Im not
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@@lumpyspaceloki5075 i m planning for tubal ligation please guide me
@@Zimmalvlog13 Be prepared to take time off for 1 week. Just rest. No lifting anything at all. You will get neckpain the first days. That happens for some reason I dont know about. You will be fine. I celebrate my tubal every year with my partner
No long term side effects? FALSE! i had mine done at 20 years old its been 16 years and yes there are side effects !
What are de?
Please tell me wat r the side effects u experience
@@saleems8210 plz guide us too
i dont understand why so many women complain and cry over this. Men have to go through vasectomy too so sthu?
I think tubal litigation is, on average, more painful and has a bigger chance for complications than a vasectomy
If the men didn't cry and complain about it then we women wouldn't be here watching these videos in the first place.So use your God given brains for a change!
:'(
Is
Dr I want baby
Look it’s called birth control tf that’s sad you can’t say no or keep your lags close
Wow why do you care?
Bruh its called a choice
The hell's your problem
It's called a choice yours should be keep your mouth shut :)
the fact that you think it’s your problem lmao move on it doesn’t involve you
i get mine done in april & i am so excited!!!
How was it?
Update?
How did it go?