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  • Опубліковано 29 гру 2024

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  • @anhong271
    @anhong271 27 днів тому

    Want to let you know that watching your clips make my day better!

  • @markpaxton3337
    @markpaxton3337 Місяць тому +6

    Mate, sorry to hear what you’ve gone through but keep going because lots of us are here for you 💪

  • @brianhuckle570
    @brianhuckle570 Місяць тому +5

    It's great to see you back, I have missed your presence on UA-cam. Time will make things a lot better. How do you think I feel being a Manchester United supporter and we are currently 13th. Heads up all the way. Hope to see you more often Brian from Manchester.

  • @yamuiemata
    @yamuiemata Місяць тому +4

    Glad to see you've overcome the dengue fever.
    Sometimes it's better to just keep the memories and let go of what may be a toxic relationship.

  • @foofielu7577
    @foofielu7577 Місяць тому

    Be strong brother .. keep heads up and moving on

  • @ursala1232
    @ursala1232 Місяць тому +5

    Light switch is what you and Trang have in common. Keep this relationship personal. Its beginning to be a tele novla❤️‍🩹

  • @matthewdavan2339
    @matthewdavan2339 Місяць тому +4

    We missed you
    Good your back

  • @Mineav
    @Mineav Місяць тому +6

    Hope you're doing better and the content keeps coming.

  • @HueNguyen-cf5ok
    @HueNguyen-cf5ok Місяць тому +2

    I'm so sorry to hear that. It's part of our journey in life. Stay strong. I hope you feel better soon both mentally and physically.

  • @olivermartinez4591
    @olivermartinez4591 Місяць тому +3

    No worries! Tyler! Because the guy like you won't be single for long!!!

  • @jonwear9791
    @jonwear9791 Місяць тому +2

    Welcome back, Tyler. I'm so sorry for your breakup and bad medical, but remember, life moves on for the better. Be strong 💪

  • @chesterphung1143
    @chesterphung1143 Місяць тому +3

    Welcome back and gets well soon.

  • @LootingFn
    @LootingFn Місяць тому +7

    hope your feeling better

  • @neyler9314
    @neyler9314 Місяць тому +3

    The alleys are interesting but also quite disgusting...

  • @MartinRichards-m4e
    @MartinRichards-m4e Місяць тому +1

    Great that your back! Enjoyed the walk.martin

  • @sandw84
    @sandw84 Місяць тому +4

    I was just wondering how you are after you told us you were sick. You have my prayers for a better and healthy life. I'll be thinking about you ❤🎉

  • @seanlee2250
    @seanlee2250 Місяць тому +5

    You 're gonna be fine! Tyler!!!

  • @20735jason
    @20735jason Місяць тому +2

    Glad to here you are up and running I bought the new GoPro for the adventure 1st time in Vietnam staying in D1

    • @20735jason
      @20735jason Місяць тому +1

      3 weeks in Vietnam 2 in D1 HCMC 1 in Da Nang

  • @scogginsscoggins
    @scogginsscoggins Місяць тому +2

    I watch your videos regularly. Living in Phu My Hung now. Sorry to hear about your break-up.

  • @bradgowins4812
    @bradgowins4812 Місяць тому +3

    Glad you are starting to feel better. Sometimes we need to do what we need to do to heal.

  • @unediTEEd
    @unediTEEd Місяць тому +2

    Great vlog! Keep your work going!

  • @debrahanson8458
    @debrahanson8458 Місяць тому +1

    Great to see you! I must admit was worried about you there for a little while, knew something was up..glad to hear you've recovered from those awful fevers and illnesses.Take time, go slowly, good to hear from you again😊

  • @covidcovid-xx9pb
    @covidcovid-xx9pb Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your feelings.

  • @kimberlybentleyme
    @kimberlybentleyme Місяць тому +1

    Great vlog Tyler! Glad to see you healthy and happy. Mending body and soul is good. Somber is correct. Cool to see you interacting with people and making new friends. Looks like the new pizza place may be pretty nice. Give Trang my love and I love and miss you always! Good luck in your pool match!!

  • @johntobin4170
    @johntobin4170 Місяць тому +2

    Tyler, missed seeing you@rafters and around the neighborhood. Best od luck in your recovery. And good luck in the pool tourney.

  • @lanavo80
    @lanavo80 Місяць тому +3

    I am sorry to hear about all the bad news. I hope you’re getting over this feeling soon and I also hope things will work out between you and Trang. I really like you guys as a couple. Take care.

  • @ericle3362
    @ericle3362 Місяць тому +2

    I'm sorry to hear what you're going through; just relax and give yourself some time and you'll be ok. Stay positive and best of luck.

  • @TheNamDude
    @TheNamDude Місяць тому +1

    Hey Tyler, glad to see you back and sorry to hear about your getting sick and everything else. My wife and I our coming back to Saigon in January. I’ll bring you a box of pop tarts if you want! Just let me know what flavor.

  • @mickholmes7571
    @mickholmes7571 Місяць тому +2

    Good to see your back mate…9-7 to the good guys! (Rafters)

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому +1

      cheers Mick...we ended up losing 5-11 but oh well...we had fun

  • @Giadinhdauyeu
    @Giadinhdauyeu Місяць тому +5

    Yes, Sài Gòn still existing some places like this, some projects are kicking off to improve

    • @nocancelcultureaccepted9316
      @nocancelcultureaccepted9316 Місяць тому

      Đâu phải riêng chỗ này đâu, văn hóa dân sanh ra với đầu óc tư tưởng thiếu ý thức từ thế hệ này sang thế hệ sau cả mấy chục thế hệ rồi. Văn hóa kiểu ba xàm bầm dập không ra trò trống gì đâu.

    • @nocancelcultureaccepted9316
      @nocancelcultureaccepted9316 Місяць тому

      Đâu phải riêng chỗ này đâu, văn hóa dân sanh ra với đầu óc tư tưởng thiếu ý thức từ thế hệ này sang thế hệ sau cả mấy chục thế hệ rồi. Văn hóa kiểu ba xàm bầm dập không ra trò trống gì đâu.

  • @ongrua356
    @ongrua356 Місяць тому +1

    Good to hear you’re feeling better!

  • @tuyennguyenthithanh2790
    @tuyennguyenthithanh2790 Місяць тому +2

    I am sorry to hear about all the bad news. Sometimes it's better to take a break and recharge take care of yourself and you will find the right fit for you. Thank you for your honesty and showing your vulnerability. Talking about it with people takes a lot of courage. I understand your story and feelings. Hope you're doing better!!!!, giáo viên tiếng Việt của anh-Tuyền ^^

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому

      For anyone interested in taking high quality Vietnamese lessons, Tuyen here is a great teacher. You can reach her on instagram at instagram.com/coctaisuada/ or @coctaisuada

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому

      and thank you for the kind words Tuyen

  • @MikeeH626
    @MikeeH626 Місяць тому +2

    Sorry to hear you're going through a rough patch Tyler. Things always work themselves out in the end. Just stay positive and know it's just another bump in the long journey of life. Take a break and enjoy being single.....let the wound heals and start again. You'll be fine. We have faith in you....When one door closes, another opens.
    I am planning a trip back to VN next July so if you're still in the area, would be cool to hook up for lunch or dinner and chat over a drink.

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому

      cheers yeah that sounds good let me know when you're out here

  • @rein3684
    @rein3684 Місяць тому +3

    Hope you feel better soon

  • @kenngo4434
    @kenngo4434 Місяць тому +3

    Maybe is your chance to start over like moving to a chill and relax city like Vung Tau. Saigon is just too stressful for most foreigner.

  • @keithhogg1963
    @keithhogg1963 Місяць тому +2

    I’m glad you’re better Tyler. Have been wondering what had happened to you. I really did get worried. I sent a pm.You and your girlfriend have been together a long time . Off and on. Glad y’all are back. Sorry about the fever . And food poisoning. Good video. Pls
    Ease keep them up

  • @maryssaadams9421
    @maryssaadams9421 Місяць тому +2

    I was just looking for your videos yesterday. Glad you’re back! Keep your head up. There’s always tomorrow, and then the next day, and then the next day, and then the next day. (SpongeBob reference)

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому

      haha...and there will be a new video tomorrow too

  • @dougphamtexas2707
    @dougphamtexas2707 Місяць тому +4

    I think u did a great job ...to be sharing your personal life with us....but i think another girl friend wlll be a good thing and will bring freshness into your life.....sometimes an old favorite shoe you love needs to be replaced.....MUST BE ABOUT money and goals not yet reached for the both of u guys .....

  • @vanton6308
    @vanton6308 Місяць тому +2

    Hope you will be fine in this time then all the best thing will be with you soon

  • @dougm3037
    @dougm3037 26 днів тому

    I'll have to check out Rafters early next year. Good Google reviews. I'll be staying in D1 but the metro may actually be running by then so easy to get to. My first chance to check out D2. Expat pool teams are also big in D7 where I stayed last time. They seem to take it pretty seriously wearing gloves and using their own sticks. They were nice enough to let me play but I was utter crap. Good luck with relationship mending.

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  26 днів тому

      @@dougm3037 we lost a close game to a team in d7 a couple weeks ago

  • @nicholassibley5080
    @nicholassibley5080 Місяць тому

    Keep your head up!

  • @anhha9607
    @anhha9607 Місяць тому +2

    Hope you feel better 🎉

  • @benquach3127
    @benquach3127 Місяць тому +2

    Tonight eh? I'm in the PVC area for a few weeks. Maybe I'll come by Rafters for a beer or 2. What time does pool tournament start?

  • @lidvids
    @lidvids Місяць тому +2

    Think Positive, Stay Active and
    Move Forward

  • @bryanr435
    @bryanr435 Місяць тому +1

    Hey, I live in Vietnam for over five years. Remember one thing life is not easy and it’s not hard and when things happen it’s just life you get up every day and move on you don’t sit and listen to the voice between your ears and remember it does no good to anybody for you to isolate at home and feel sorry for yourself. You gotta leave that American thinking behind and understand you’re in the greatest country to be living in. Enjoy it every day and feel grateful that you’re in Vietnam.
    For you, I would straighten up the relationship with your girlfriend. It’s not easy to find a woman here that really cares about you without the dollars Vietnamese women are the best in the world if they love you they will take care of you forever so straighten that crap out….
    Yes, this might be tough love but sometimes this is what you need. Snap out of it and enjoy life. Be grateful every day and make your bed every morning :-)

  • @repete763
    @repete763 Місяць тому +2

    Any apartment updates ? are you all moved in.

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому +1

      yeah I'll have a video about that up soon

  • @DevineOne
    @DevineOne Місяць тому +2

    What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger. Take action before you fall. When you are falling you need to take action rather than going with it.

  • @binhkyla1252
    @binhkyla1252 Місяць тому +4

    Long time ago known see your videos! Thankfully you be backed and Hopefully your Health feelings better dear.l Lovely your beautiful beautiful videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰👏👏👏👏👏🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇻🇳🇻🇳🇻🇳🇻🇳

  • @neyler9314
    @neyler9314 Місяць тому

    Glad you feel better!! Is Dengue fever common there? Are there vaccines for it?

  • @darthson9655
    @darthson9655 Місяць тому +1

    It would be a great video if you can find time to make it. I'm talking about the hospitals video. I have always wonder the ranking of the various top rank private hospitals for expats and tourists to utilize while in Saigon. I will be in Saigon soon, and would love to maybe get a comprehensive check-up at one of the best private Saigon hospital that is comparable to Bangkok Hospital in Bangkok Thailand.

  • @Inkabodcrane
    @Inkabodcrane Місяць тому +3

    Glad you're back bro! What food gave you the food poisoning? I'm heading over soon so want to keep an eye out. 👀

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому +1

      It was a Vietnamese restaurant delivered from Grab, but to be honest with you I think it was less of the restaurant's fault and more of me just not reheating food well enough I had left out too long. I don't want to shame the restaurant for that

    • @Inkabodcrane
      @Inkabodcrane Місяць тому

      @BigTimeBentley ok thats actually good to hear. Thanks bro!

  • @eddiegrant58
    @eddiegrant58 Місяць тому +2

    He lives!

  • @btraj07
    @btraj07 Місяць тому

    Glad to hear you’re ok. What’s your pool game? Last time there visiting the in laws, my brother in law’s brought me out to shoot. Been a long time but I think I’ll pick it back up when I’m there.

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому

      we play a weekly match against a different bar...this week is a bar in district 7...I'll probably film a vlog out there before the match

  • @MSWcryptoworker
    @MSWcryptoworker Місяць тому +1

    I wish u would get in the nitty gritty of the good spiral stay and costs because I’m going to be in the hospitals doing cosmetic surgerieres

  • @chaub7268
    @chaub7268 Місяць тому +1

    Usually when you are sad is easier get sick

  • @33owls
    @33owls Місяць тому +7

    brother don't get down and focus on making money and building your skills and being the best version of you that you can possibly be. Men age like fine wine and your value will grow. I married a Vietnamese woman from the countryside and she's 17 years younger than me and we have 3 kids together now.

  • @hiSPACEmango
    @hiSPACEmango Місяць тому +2

    Stay strong.
    - mango

  • @ChrissieSM
    @ChrissieSM Місяць тому +4

    Of course, I don't know what Trang is really like, but maybe you need somebody more outgoing and more extroverted. As they say, opposites attract. You need some fun.

  • @Amash796
    @Amash796 Місяць тому +1

    Routine! Take your mind off of yourself. Set some goals.
    Create more content; whatever stops you being introspective. Tier yourself out in the day so you don’t have the energy to think at night except to prepare yourself to do it again tomorrow.
    Get a job, or work at a charity.
    I’ve been there…no less during my solo travels around Asia.
    If you can’t make yourself happy, make someone else happy

  • @danielou01
    @danielou01 Місяць тому +9

    Don’t give up brother 🤔 I was actually looking for your videos. Glad that you’re back on the Tube 😉 I have been there also . Keep working on your post 🙏 this is a good therapy for you but for us also❤️🙏👍🙏 keep positive and posting 🙏

    • @BigTimeBentley
      @BigTimeBentley  Місяць тому

      I'll keep them coming...thanks for the encouragement

  • @youMatterItDoesGetBetter
    @youMatterItDoesGetBetter Місяць тому +2

    Have you considered medication? I wouldn't be around without it. I used to self medicate with drugs. Much love my guy.

  • @thuantran5362
    @thuantran5362 Місяць тому

    Taken care Bentley ❤❤❤❤

  • @20735jason
    @20735jason Місяць тому +1

    Ill be there December 8

  • @PS-gm7vg
    @PS-gm7vg Місяць тому +2

    what your doing is not work, it is a hobby.....u need to go back to america and join the army maybe......send all you rmoney back to trang, and in 10 years you can retire early....dont waste your strength and power on early retirement....i tried at 51 and its the worst thing in the world.......your content is cool with trang, but honestly everyone has seen all the videos of vietnam already.....your a nice guy and thats important.....use your strong connections with your family and friends to go back to america, work alot so you dont drink, see what floats your boat, and come back stronger.......

  • @ngotrongkhoi
    @ngotrongkhoi Місяць тому +1

    "When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.” - Anonymous

    • @jonathanluong4855
      @jonathanluong4855 Місяць тому

      Hi Anh Khôi cũng coi channel của Tyler AKA Big Time Bentley giống em 🎉

  • @Calichris2
    @Calichris2 Місяць тому +1

    There are times to be selfish and take care of yourself before you can take care of others.

  • @wanghuynh9142
    @wanghuynh9142 Місяць тому

    Sorry it VCP city ( Ho chi Minh City

  • @KK-FL
    @KK-FL Місяць тому +1

  • @UncleHoCM
    @UncleHoCM Місяць тому +1

    🙏

  • @End_Illegal_Apartheid_israhell
    @End_Illegal_Apartheid_israhell Місяць тому +2

    content rock bottom? hang in there

  • @thuantran5362
    @thuantran5362 Місяць тому

    It so terrible and worse and worse since after Saigon's falls in 1975 there and the North Vietnamese from Hanoi they moved over in a Saigon and they always lair lair did you see alots buildings sign renting all over Saigon 3 years from now after Covid til today !

  • @_SeeIt
    @_SeeIt Місяць тому +1

    Keep it up, brother!

  • @VictoriaOnlyEngland
    @VictoriaOnlyEngland Місяць тому +2

    Im sick with that country Omg . Keep coming the content i will follow you ❤❤

  • @hikefishcook6796
    @hikefishcook6796 Місяць тому

    buy here flowers and chocolade and get her back

  • @PS-gm7vg
    @PS-gm7vg Місяць тому +1

    i had dengue in thailand last year...here in the rice village....it almost killed me i was sick for 3 months or more....joint pain debillitating pain like broken bones.....your lucky u survived and are young....sounds like your tracking welll.......shell take u back when you get sexy and lose some weight from not drinking, then u can start again slowly and start having fun again....being sober is the absolute worst......find a balance and just binge drink once a week or something.......u can do it!!!! im 51 and have done it multiple times....

    • @sandw84
      @sandw84 Місяць тому +1

      @@PS-gm7vg Noooo, he's already in recovery! Do not suggest anything else. Don't be Rude!

  • @alc6269
    @alc6269 Місяць тому +1

    Stay up, pimp

  • @thuantran5362
    @thuantran5362 Місяць тому +1

    Hello Bentley! What districts is it in Saigon ? You know why it happened ? Because the Communist government they stealing everything away from the poorly and they forced them by government violating there and the peoples have no choices and can't said everything and can't not open mouth because the Communist government they playing they owed rules there Bentley ! Just let you knows and understanding alright my friend Im living America 40 years from now! The always forcing a South Vietnamese there Im usually living in District 1 on Hai ba Trung ( Tan Dinh ) market there ! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @worldchanges10
    @worldchanges10 28 днів тому

    This slum looks similar to the Philippine slums; your facade looks depressing; maybe getting help in anyway will improve it
    Best

  • @robertespinoza6202
    @robertespinoza6202 Місяць тому

    Stay positive and try to keep your girlfriend. She seems to really love you.

  • @kevinowen7388
    @kevinowen7388 Місяць тому +3

    You shouldn't blame yourself for all that bad luck especially your break up with her because I know how it feels after being with your partner for sometimes however if things don't work out move on no use feeling bad for yourself not all relationship are perfect.
    There's plenty of more beautiful fishes in the water there in glamourous Vietnam !
    Enjoy and don't think negative of your ex or things like this will fall back on you feeling negative as you said.

  • @Vietturtle2023
    @Vietturtle2023 Місяць тому +1

    Vitamin C & D some 🌞 ☀️ 🌤 🌅 will fix the depression and other illness need immune support for sure