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    Today on my channel, we are reacting to some wedding petty revenge stories y'all posted on our personal subreddit r/charlottedobreyoutube! . Weddings are supposed to be one of the happiest days of our lives, but unfortunately, not everything always goes as planned.
    In this video, we'll explore some of the most hilarious and satisfying examples of wedding revenge. From the ex-boyfriend who tries to ruin the ceremony to the bride who gets back at her bridesmaid for stealing the spotlight, we'll see how people have taken matters into their own hands to get even.
    We'll also delve into the psychology of revenge and why it can feel so satisfying. Is it always the best course of action, or is there a more mature way to handle the situation? These are questions we'll tackle as we enjoy some of the most outrageous wedding revenge stories.
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  • @kmallory100
    @kmallory100 Місяць тому +2044

    If a man doesn't want you to touch him, then don't. No means no in any scenario. Also, he obviously takes his dancing reputation seriously and doesn't want anyone thinking that he engages in inappropriate behavior while dancing. Respect his boundaries.

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Місяць тому +43

      Agreed. If a man is married or has a girlfriend don't touch him, whether he wants you to or not.

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 Місяць тому +33

      Toxic people don't care about personal boundaries.

    • @qryptid
      @qryptid Місяць тому +34

      Seriously your reputation in a scene like that is so important, if people start thinking he's inappropriate with dance partners it could tank any opportunities to perform or be involved in community events, it could literally turn him into an outcast in a community that's obviously very important to him.
      And also that's your friends husband girl @.@

    • @s.a.4358
      @s.a.4358 Місяць тому +12

      @@qryptid not to mention that they were not even dancing together at that moment. Some dances are more sensual and intimate, so in that context touching more would make sense (both people agreeing to dance together and knowing what a certain dance entails), but that was not the case here.

    • @orelliaorellia142
      @orelliaorellia142 Місяць тому +5

      Plus, outside of any context, if someone is touching your chest without permission it is sexual harassment and he has any rights to feel uncomfortable.

  • @misstoasty1
    @misstoasty1 Місяць тому +3887

    if it was a man sexually harrassing a female friend all hell would break loose. We women need to also keep our hands to ourselves.

    • @FerreTrip
      @FerreTrip Місяць тому +326

      As a man, it's a bit refreshing to see a woman pointing out the double standards regarding this kind of behavior (especially because whenever a guy says it, it almost always feels kinda-sorta like they're whining--"If _I_ did that to a woman. . ."--and it can be hard to take as seriously). Thank you :)

    • @dreamfeatherbolts
      @dreamfeatherbolts Місяць тому +271

      People just need to stop touching other people without permission, it's just basic body autonomy and the right to decide who does and doesn't touch us. Exceptions apply, obviously, like to save someone or arrest but other than the exceptions STOP. TOUCHING. PEOPLE. I don't get why people seem to think they have this right to touch others just because they want to for whatever insane reason they come up with.

    • @cornishmaid9138
      @cornishmaid9138 Місяць тому +102

      100% agree. Why should females get away with it. That’s sexist. Equality!!

    • @Mamapeepeepoop
      @Mamapeepeepoop Місяць тому +2

      YES! so sick of women who do this and at the same time shame men who do the same

    • @KOKO-uu7yd
      @KOKO-uu7yd Місяць тому +133

      ​@@cornishmaid9138That's what many - both pro and against - get wrong about actual feminism. It's about EQUALITY, BOTH in rights AND responsibilities.
      It's good to remind people. Thanks!

  • @mirrorcity4872
    @mirrorcity4872 Місяць тому +290

    Whether or not he was single, he DIDN'T WANT TO BE TOUCHED, let's not normalize touching ANYONE who doesn't wanna be touched

    • @what_equals_42
      @what_equals_42 Місяць тому +9

      Yes, and if OP's friend hadn't been up to no good, that explanation would have been more than enough reason to apologise and respect his boundaries in future!

    • @sylviaperich970
      @sylviaperich970 Місяць тому +4

      This.

    • @lindarodman5014
      @lindarodman5014 22 дні тому +1

      Yes! And men need to get used to objecting to inappropriate touches

    • @arianebolt1575
      @arianebolt1575 22 дні тому +1

      Yeah, why is it "touching other people's husbands" and not "touching people who do not want it"?

    • @amaccoy
      @amaccoy 18 днів тому

      In the wise words of Emperor Kuzco: "No Touchy!"

  • @dorothytenute2710
    @dorothytenute2710 Місяць тому +1442

    Music to my ears..."I have an UPDATE"

  • @CptColumbo
    @CptColumbo Місяць тому +772

    My father is a one-upper. Which is probably why I'm such an introverted/anxiety filled/wreck of a person today. No matter what I did growing up, he would say something he (or someone else) did that was better. I called it "pissing on my parade." The worst one was when I graduated college magna cum laude. He was unaware of it, since I tended to keep achievements to myself, because I knew what would happen. When the graduation ceremony was over and I met my family, the first thing he told me was that my older sister graduated summa cum laude, which wiped the smile right off my face. My sister was living in Florida, with two kids, and wasn't able to make it. When I finally saw her at Christmas I told her what happened and she told me she didn't graduate summa cum laude. So, he made it up just to diminish my accomplishment. What is wrong with him?

    • @reut0094
      @reut0094 Місяць тому +151

      I don't know if this was rhetorical or not, but I think pathological insecurity is what is wrong with him.

    • @marianhoblyn2552
      @marianhoblyn2552 Місяць тому +140

      He's a narcissist. Can't bear anyone else being the centre of attention.

    • @wickiwo1098
      @wickiwo1098 Місяць тому +84

      I am SO SORRY you had this kind of father! wow...

    • @vanillafire2652
      @vanillafire2652 Місяць тому +63

      Because he is jealous of your accomplishments, so he try to deminish your smile to make him feel better that it touch you.
      You are better off a father like it than with.

    • @rafaella6385
      @rafaella6385 Місяць тому +63

      Go NC. You can never win against a narcissistic person. Pray for him, and try to live the best life that you can. My grandma once told me that people can do bad things to you once at the time, but at the end of the day is up to you not let them do it again. It's up to you to let the past in the past and move on. I know because I had to do that. BTW, congratulations on you Magna cum Laude, it's not for the fainted heart. I am very proud of you.

  • @sarahcaitlyn88
    @sarahcaitlyn88 Місяць тому +560

    Even worse can be a "One upper AND one downer".
    I had a friend (over fifteen years) and if you said something positive, yes he would one up. Even worse was when you said something bad happened such as "My uncle just passed away due to covid" and his response was not "sorry to hear that" or ANYTHING EVEN CLOSE... no... his response was "Yea well, I have had three friends pass from it!"
    I KID YOU NOT THAT WAS HIS RESPONSE!

    • @caljones
      @caljones Місяць тому +11

      🌋

    • @marshawargo7238
      @marshawargo7238 Місяць тому +23

      Some people require the center of all attention, without it they would be off balance, and probably not recover their importance😮!!! Probably best to keep them out of any, even all, events that are important to you❤!!! Unless they are Really Fun to hang out with, gradually erase them from your circle, if not gradually, they may cause problems with you at fault😢! (Of course this would be harder to do, if they are related to you😢!!!

    • @snippyJ
      @snippyJ Місяць тому +8

      My youngest brother is exactly like that.

    • @jessicaholland1903
      @jessicaholland1903 Місяць тому +12

      That's rough I'm so sorry u had to deal with rhat kinda person xxxx

    • @greenie2390
      @greenie2390 Місяць тому +13

      I think a lot of people do that, they want to appear empathetic. I know someone who had an ovary removed and of course, others were like, I have had a full hysterectomy done. It can be even happy stuff. I was able to go on a week cruise and they respond to one-up to whatever event I am talking about. Soooooo I don't tell these people anything more than polite stuff as they are not being rude, just more into their own land. In my mind, I refer to them as being (Paula's land).

  • @mechshanewman5199
    @mechshanewman5199 Місяць тому +233

    The real reason the couple was uninvited is because she did not WANT TO TAKE THE CHANCE THAT SOMEBODY MAY BRING IT UP AND THEN HER HUSBAND HEARS THEN SHIT HITS THE FAN.

    • @NealBurkard-ut1oo
      @NealBurkard-ut1oo Місяць тому +9

      Definitely my initial thought

    • @Suedepants100
      @Suedepants100 Місяць тому +6

      And because she was also upset that the friends husband didn’t want to cheat on his wife with her and instead was uncomfortable with her touching him

  • @BruinPhD2009
    @BruinPhD2009 Місяць тому +338

    I worked with a one upper like Kelly. She was the bride at every wedding and the corpse at every funeral. Good day? Hers was better. Bad day? Hers was worse. I used to make up stuff just to see how she'd respond, but stopped when I realized she was a terminally unhappy parson.

    • @rebny7801
      @rebny7801 Місяць тому +23

      I like that you made stuff up!

    • @inshallamiami
      @inshallamiami Місяць тому +61

      "The corpse at every funeral" OMG that's hysterical

    • @Kabaladamawomasp
      @Kabaladamawomasp Місяць тому +3

      ​@@inshallamiamideffo using this one in the future

  • @WraythSkitzofrenik
    @WraythSkitzofrenik Місяць тому +1116

    I need "ALL RISE FOR THE HONORABLE JUDGE CHARLOTTE" on a shirt
    "You may be seated" on the back.
    🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃

    • @QueenMFLaurie
      @QueenMFLaurie Місяць тому +38

      SAME ❤
      Charlotte please 😂 we need this

    • @Villager565
      @Villager565 Місяць тому +29

      A hoodie!❤

    • @Abby-du5hd
      @Abby-du5hd Місяць тому +18

      🙌🏼 YESSSS!

    • @klaytonalexandermatthews2047
      @klaytonalexandermatthews2047 Місяць тому +15

      it would be a great shirt for a comfy evening, sitting down after a long day with tasty dinner to watch big sis Charlotte

    • @ashleenicole71
      @ashleenicole71 Місяць тому +17

      I read that in her voice too😂😂

  • @shannalee50
    @shannalee50 Місяць тому +1224

    WHY do i live for the turkey-court noises?!? 😂😅

    • @mandywathen7847
      @mandywathen7847 Місяць тому +37

      @@shannalee50 her gobble is so friggen good right!

    • @kasm_nME
      @kasm_nME Місяць тому +25

      I was thinking the same thing😅
      All petty potatoes have risen👩‍⚖️

    • @Stralia_Silvuh
      @Stralia_Silvuh Місяць тому +19

      I crack up every time I

    • @dvs7392
      @dvs7392 Місяць тому +17

      They are glorious 🦃

    • @InhaleExhaleBreathLaughLove
      @InhaleExhaleBreathLaughLove Місяць тому +8

      I loooove them😂

  • @charmantcakes
    @charmantcakes Місяць тому +314

    Indian here ...
    FYI ... In India even Bengali it is common to shop for weddings without friends (bffs also excluded) only family accompany the bride

    • @aryagopakumar198
      @aryagopakumar198 Місяць тому +18

      From the description, I think the bride was from West Bengal and may be not from Bangladesh..

    • @BarbaraCarr-q4p
      @BarbaraCarr-q4p Місяць тому +12

      I'm not accustomed to Bengali weddings, so ty for the information

    • @badkitty4922
      @badkitty4922 Місяць тому +12

      I've got a BIL who's Indian and although he's been with my sister for decades ,and even I remember some of the customs. My sister's wedding was a blend of both Indian and American Catholic.
      Wedding mostly American, reception Indian, and even some of the dress shopping, etc. Although sid had a mengila for her reception.
      It was all awesome!
      Happy Dawali to you, my friend. 😘💖🫂🐾🐾🩵👏👏👏👏👏

    • @AkhtarM28
      @AkhtarM28 Місяць тому +5

      It’s usually flexible. The future SIL might come, the bride to be can take a friend with her, sometimes brides shop with their friends and family while the groom just pays, sometimes the groom’s sister/s and mother take over the bridal shopping (happened to my cousin lol. She spoke to her fiance and got a second lehenga that she liked. Didn’t wear the one she was pressurized to buy by the groom’s side of family.)
      I’m Bangladeshi btw and our wedding rituals are somewhat similar with West Bengal.

    • @charmantcakes
      @charmantcakes Місяць тому +1

      @AkhtarM28 true

  • @LiMoo02
    @LiMoo02 Місяць тому +474

    Babes, if you go out of your way to withhold important details from the story, you know you're not the hero of that story😂 Also, it will never cease to amaze me that people pull this mess in their own friend group. Like, do you want to get caught?!

    • @marshawargo7238
      @marshawargo7238 Місяць тому +31

      Do you think that no one else talks but you? Do you imagine that when you leave a room/conversation no one compares their own observations & conversations😢??? "Where I am not, the world simply stops"

    • @nancyrukavena6992
      @nancyrukavena6992 Місяць тому +16

      ​@@marshawargo7238I love your comment "Where I am not, the world simply stops!" That level of self importance, grandiosity and entitlement along with a pattern of cheating because they need constant approval clearly points to narcissism. This woman and her friend group are fortunate to be rid of this toxic person!

    • @jojoluvr4life
      @jojoluvr4life Місяць тому +3

      Giiirrrllll (euphemism) people do this in their own families and straight tell whole lies on others 😭😭😭😭😭 it’s wild what is believed but the people who do this KNOW their audience. Only the keen will prevail 😞

    • @thepkitty
      @thepkitty Місяць тому

      unfortunately I've seen a large # of people get away with this kind of behaviour in their friend groups cuz no one wants to "engage the drama" in order to "keep the peace" so like, if you're the one to call bullshit, EVEN THOUGH LITERALLY EVERYONE KNOWS AND NOBODY LIKES THEM, you'll end up being the one exiled. -.-

  • @raisaalam9591
    @raisaalam9591 Місяць тому +41

    I'm Bengali from Queens, NY and with the level of detail she mentioned, that story is 100% real. I think the friend was jealous and probably into OP's husband, which is why she was acting that way.

  • @GenestaDMcKay
    @GenestaDMcKay Місяць тому +121

    The bride: pick any dress it just HAS to be lavender"
    Burger king commercial cuts in abruptly: "at BK have it your way" 😂😂
    The noise that left my mouth at this perfect timing 🤣😂

    • @Ciborium
      @Ciborium Місяць тому +5

      You can pick any dress in any color you want, as long as it is lavender.

    • @hannahcampbell8196
      @hannahcampbell8196 Місяць тому +2

      I love it when that happens 😂

  • @Inconcvable77
    @Inconcvable77 Місяць тому +166

    Regarding the second wedding story (the one with "Sam" ), I bet the issue with the "friend" is that in her mind, you were the DUFF (designated ugly fat friend-not saying the person IS, just what Sam probably thought she was), and she couldn't handle you getting the man she wanted. Because the only time a "friend" would suggest you see multiple people is if they are lusting after the one you have and are hoping to get them for themselves...

    • @hannahcampbell8196
      @hannahcampbell8196 Місяць тому +11

      Agreed!! But just to clarify, I think Sam was the name of OP's fiance, and "Laura" was the name of the friend.

  • @yvonne5322
    @yvonne5322 Місяць тому +47

    My husband looked after decorating our wedding! He knew what I had in mind and looked after it. It was awesome. My anxiety stayed at bay and I only saw the full look a few minutes before ppl started showing up.

  • @queenkashmir
    @queenkashmir Місяць тому +53

    Bengali doesn't necessarily mean Bangladeshi.
    A huge chunk of Bengal is in India and many of our beloved Indians are Bengalis.

  • @melosidhe779
    @melosidhe779 Місяць тому +19

    This is why you always ALWAYS call cheaters out. Never protect a cheaters peace. It just leaves the door open for them to lie and manipulate others

  • @erikarussell1142
    @erikarussell1142 Місяць тому +30

    Can we just talk about how amazing the editors are?? That gobble take off was 💋🤌🏼

  • @boogiebear3095
    @boogiebear3095 Місяць тому +75

    0:22 editing is top tier 😌

    • @r98570
      @r98570 Місяць тому +5

      Yes!!! The editor did such a good job❤❤❤

    • @mizzmatrix
      @mizzmatrix Місяць тому +4

      11:30 was very good too 😂

    • @Digimonisbetterthanpokemon
      @Digimonisbetterthanpokemon 25 днів тому +2

      3:50 - 3:54 made me laugh so hard

  • @samuraicrunchbird
    @samuraicrunchbird Місяць тому +105

    7:11 there are SO many jokes running through my head, involving DEE going NUTS. However, that would be, apparently like R, way too easy.😅😅

  • @arty8008
    @arty8008 Місяць тому +38

    "She's talking badly about you while you're simply telling the facts" Oooohh hunneeyy, it's so funny how accurate this is even on an unrelated experience😂

  • @TwiggyHetfield27
    @TwiggyHetfield27 Місяць тому +89

    "He proposed to me at a Rammstein concert"
    HELL YEA GIRL!!!
    Secretly hoping he pulled out the ring with the flames high behind him 😄😁

    • @kristinapella
      @kristinapella Місяць тому +2

      I love Rammstein too

    •  Місяць тому +8

      I just couldn't how she read the name 😂

    • @Wanderlust4Life247
      @Wanderlust4Life247 Місяць тому +2

      I thought the same 😆 What a kickass way to propose. I hope it was during that part in Du Hast, when Til launches the pyro into the air, and then a few seconds later the whole stage lights up. That would have been EPIC.

    • @TwiggyHetfield27
      @TwiggyHetfield27 Місяць тому

      @@Wanderlust4Life247 or Engel when the wings are aflame!!

  • @blue-wm9ne
    @blue-wm9ne Місяць тому +287

    OMG i've never been so early to watch such an ICONIC woman talk drama hehehe

  • @viviansketch
    @viviansketch Місяць тому +109

    I've always called 'one-uppers' Elevenerifers... cause if you've been to Tenerife.. they've been to Elevenerife!! looool

  • @adquilantang
    @adquilantang Місяць тому +221

    When I'm alone i attempt to make the turkey sound. I have yet to get it. Especially since i tend to start laughing at myself. I need this (her turkey sound)as my notification tone. It'll go perfect with my son's "cockda do da do! Wake Up! Alarm"

    • @ThestuffthatSaralikes
      @ThestuffthatSaralikes Місяць тому +10

      Once. I did it once, alone (of course), while driving. I got VERY excited and got a weird look…
      (of jealousy, I’m sure cause I’m so friggin’ awesome and made a gobble sound…)🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @BrianAndresScott
      @BrianAndresScott Місяць тому +1

      Ha😅😂❤

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Місяць тому +3

      Have you ever said 'Subscribe!'

    • @hcd621
      @hcd621 Місяць тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @sBaum
      @sBaum Місяць тому +3

      Just gotta keep practicing.. It will come.

  • @sosamaticbrown6217
    @sosamaticbrown6217 Місяць тому +76

    Jamaican petty potatoe here😂😂🇯🇲

  • @maevewashere_
    @maevewashere_ Місяць тому +109

    The girl who got mad about someones boundaries was so bad! its probably good you weren't going to go to the wedding, shes not a good friend. I also feel bad for her fiance 😭

    • @sotrue5413
      @sotrue5413 Місяць тому +7

      There was no wedding to attend to since the fiance called off the wedding.

  • @NealBurkard-ut1oo
    @NealBurkard-ut1oo Місяць тому +77

    Proposing at a rammstein concert has to be one of the wildest things I've heard. The pyro would make good proposal photos though

  • @solitaryfrog-_-
    @solitaryfrog-_- Місяць тому +62

    I love hearing other people's drama and not having to be a part of it

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 Місяць тому +31

    Charlotte deserves all the success in the World. I'm so proud of her. 🎉
    She's an inspiration to all of us❤

  • @spacedorito9592
    @spacedorito9592 Місяць тому +80

    Weddings are the best milestones in people’s happiness.
    As well of some juicy drama for years to come 🥴

  • @kateleong-po2gt
    @kateleong-po2gt Місяць тому +47

    How are they “ NOT EMBARRASSED 🗣️”

  • @lindageorge8209
    @lindageorge8209 Місяць тому +13

    22:26 sooner or later we harden up. I used to tear up with the sad stories my brother used to tell then I realised I was brought up in the same house and refused to be manipulated. Do not feel bad.

  • @JosephTerterian
    @JosephTerterian Місяць тому +41

    9:04 how come she gets 2 fiancés and I can’t even find 1 man to date me wtf

    • @The_Nightsong
      @The_Nightsong Місяць тому +4

      I feel the same pain 😅😅

    • @unicornofatlantis
      @unicornofatlantis Місяць тому +8

      Ikr? So many of these women baffle me. How do good men fall for them, and I sit in pjs daily and cuddle my dogs while watching Charlotte or Star Wars

    • @lyswatkins9321
      @lyswatkins9321 Місяць тому +10

      YOU are being real & looking for QUALITY--she is putting on a 'front' (wearing a mask) while going after other women's men!

    • @nicolewetzel2986
      @nicolewetzel2986 Місяць тому +2

      😂

    • @JosephTerterian
      @JosephTerterian Місяць тому +2

      @@unicornofatlantishahahahahaha love that. Watching charlotte is the best

  • @breanapadilla3661
    @breanapadilla3661 Місяць тому +9

    As a true crime fanatic, I would end the friendship with the crappy friend who didn't give the bride a bridal shower. There is a few cases in which one friend was oddly attached to the other, and when the emotionally immature friend saw that her friend was moving on in life (just getting married), she actually killed her. Watch out for the controlling, they tend to be sociopaths in hiding.

  • @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes
    @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes Місяць тому +61

    Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
    Of course we love you Charlotte! Also congratulations again to you and Kelly!

    • @theeclecticaries1159
      @theeclecticaries1159 Місяць тому +6

      Good Morning fellow petty potato! ❤️

    • @ladykiwi2946
      @ladykiwi2946 Місяць тому +1

      Hai!!! I hope you had a beautiful day, fellow petty potato ☺️

  • @RayBoles
    @RayBoles Місяць тому +26

    I’m a simple potato, I see a new Charlotte upload, and I click immediately 😅

  • @wastelanderflint5987
    @wastelanderflint5987 Місяць тому +19

    At the beginning when she shot off like a rocket gobbling, had me dying 😂😂 that was hilarious

    • @ladykiwi2946
      @ladykiwi2946 Місяць тому

      YAAASSS!!! That’s my favorite part! 🤣😂❤

  • @aleahwoods2506
    @aleahwoods2506 Місяць тому +23

    you look freaking STUNNING Charlotte!!

  • @gouriiiz
    @gouriiiz Місяць тому +9

    18:32 Possible context: She had a crush on the groom 😂

  • @Kaliko.Kawaii
    @Kaliko.Kawaii Місяць тому +18

    I've started joining in on yelling out the "ALL RISE FOR THE HONORABLE JUDGE CHARLOTTE!!" followed by the turkey noises and god my roommates must think I'm a turkey in a human suit!!! 😂😂😂 Love you Charlotte, making a reddit soon just to join your subreddit!!! 💖

    • @caljones
      @caljones Місяць тому

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @ashleenicole71
    @ashleenicole71 Місяць тому +29

    When you think bagging a cheater is a flex🤦‍♀️

  • @AmyWarriorPrincess
    @AmyWarriorPrincess Місяць тому +51

    Thank you for your videos, Charlotte. They have been helping me through this difficult time. My mom is at the beginning of an illness, and you make me laugh and help take the stress and pain away. Thank you so much.❤️❤️

    • @autumnmoon999
      @autumnmoon999 Місяць тому +5

      Sending love from Vegas. My mom is also at a beginning of an illness. 🖤🫶🏻

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Місяць тому +8

      I’m sorry to hear about your mom big hugs!!

    • @rM-xk9ob
      @rM-xk9ob Місяць тому +3

      Be sure to take care of yourself. Make sure you get help from family, especially siblings, time or money. Don't dump to much on your kids and be sure to spend time with them and for yourself. It is easy, especially for women to overdo. If they have insurance including Medicaid/Medicare ask to see if you can get help. Everything from help cleaning to assisting with care needs. Also, get doctors to write scripts for medical equipment including beds, wheelchairs, lifts or breathing equipment. As soon as possible, even if it is months away. Get the process started. Also some insurance can get someone to advocate for the patient. Sometimes thte can help with appointments, dealing with paperwork, etc. It never hurts to ask. But most important, everyone goes though things like this and you aren't alone, counseling for everyone involved is important but also you too are important, so take care of yourself. Lots of love and prayers. Remember, everyone needs help and it is ok to ask. .

    • @ladykiwi2946
      @ladykiwi2946 Місяць тому +2

      I’m sorry about your mom being sick, @AmyWarriorPrincess 🥺
      Please take the time to take care of yourself and to be good to yourself while being around and present for your mother. Don’t forget that it helps you be there for her and your other loved ones, and remember that you are important, too.❤️
      I’m heart-beaming you and your mom a lot of love from New England 💓💓💓💓

    • @AmyWarriorPrincess
      @AmyWarriorPrincess Місяць тому

      Thank you, @CharlotteDobre, my fellow red head, and every single potato who has wished us healing hugs and well wishes. It is a very hard time for us, but know my mom is a fighter, and so are we. We are here for each othere and we will get through this. Thank you all so very much. ❤️❤️

  • @thisismetoday
    @thisismetoday Місяць тому +19

    20:35 Please have some love for your ADHD friends. We actually relate to you by telling you stories of something similar that happened to us to show that we understand how you feel. It has zero to do with one upping, and is our way to show love! ❤

    • @lightningangel45
      @lightningangel45 Місяць тому +9

      I can relate to the adhd thing 😭 but one-upping is a bit different
      The relating thing is more like "oh, i know how that feels! I had a similar experience with (thing)."
      One-upping is more like "oh, your dog died? That's sad, but my grandpa died."
      Smth like that

    • @ScragleKat
      @ScragleKat Місяць тому +1

      AuDHD here and this is so true 😭

  • @H-Bomb1990
    @H-Bomb1990 Місяць тому +24

    Mother potato has once again provided us with sustenance!!!!❤

  • @Sleipnirseight
    @Sleipnirseight Місяць тому +22

    Proposing at a Rammstein concert is WILD 😂

    • @kt3539
      @kt3539 Місяць тому +4

      Right?! Also, since I live near Germany (in Poland), I had a moment of confusion about what band it was 🙈 the German pronunciation is "rahm-shtine" and I've never heard any other pronunciation of this name 😅

    • @Chuyitamm
      @Chuyitamm Місяць тому +1

      One can only wish 🥲

    • @meridiannemesis
      @meridiannemesis Місяць тому

      @@kt3539 many American youtubers pronounce Rammstein this way, but yes, I also had to check the text 😅
      To be proposed at a Rammstein concert though 🤩

  • @jeremydavidson1420
    @jeremydavidson1420 Місяць тому +12

    thank you charlotte for making anyday fun and for being such a positive person to your fans. ps with all this talk about tea i think you should sell your own tea set

  • @LunasofficialMum
    @LunasofficialMum Місяць тому +25

    Here's the thing, though: I get if R wants to be open to everybody and not want to settle. She wants to flirt and be with different men because she can't see herself in a serious relationship; sure, but DON'T be in a serious relationship and cheat on your partner. Be open to your flirt partners and to yourself, but seeing how R is very manipulative and, in general, a nasty person, I don't think she realizes this fact.

  • @addiemontgomery4559
    @addiemontgomery4559 Місяць тому +42

    HAPPY SATURDAY PETTY POTSTOES! it’s messy tiktok o’clock

  • @SamiMichelle
    @SamiMichelle Місяць тому +29

    2:35 it looks like you’re not wearing a shirt 😂

    • @sage5530
      @sage5530 Місяць тому +9

      LMAO i was like... am i intruding on something charlotte?

    • @heatherbirdlady
      @heatherbirdlady Місяць тому +5

      Now I can't unsee it lol

    • @carriesmith3421
      @carriesmith3421 Місяць тому +2

      Cute tho! Huh?

    • @meponolol3276
      @meponolol3276 Місяць тому +3

      It does! 😂😂😂😂(agreeing with)

    • @deborahbutcher3933
      @deborahbutcher3933 Місяць тому

      As long as we're not seeing nipples. Apparently women's nipples are traumatic to many.

  • @Rubylou_18
    @Rubylou_18 Місяць тому +11

    I’ve been rewatching your old videos waiting for you!! I live for these moments ❤

  • @FlowersZoya
    @FlowersZoya Місяць тому +5

    When someone’s willing to disrespect their husband or significant other in public, there’s no telling what they’re doing in private

  • @KwispyZ
    @KwispyZ Місяць тому +1

    I know someone who is the same way in regards to not having proper boundaries and spreading lies/omitting key details so she can be the innocent one. It's a miracle how my dad stayed married to her.

  • @anneelise9787
    @anneelise9787 Місяць тому +15

    Is it just me or Charlotte is looking more and more stunning in every video? I can't get enough of how beautiful she looks all the time. This woman is a wild card and I'm here for it. Not only beautiful on the outside but also on the inside, amazing. When I grow up I want to be like you (I'm already 23, fully grown 😂)
    Love ya ❤

    • @theresa.m.
      @theresa.m. Місяць тому +2

      She keeps getting more and more glowy. I love it.

  • @TheOneWifNoUsername
    @TheOneWifNoUsername Місяць тому +4

    I just attended the most beautiful wedding. My family is mexican/some Irish/etc but mainly mexican. So we celebrated Dia De Muertos and a wedding all at once. That’s what my cousin wanted. We had an ofrenda with loved ones from her husband’s family and our family. Her husband’s family is all irish. Her dad is too. Her mom is mexican. But they all loved the idea of Dia De Muertos and celebrating those who have passed. And they made sure we all toasted to our loved ones who couldnt be here.
    Our shared grandpa passed a year and a few months ago ajd she did this wedding to honor him and her other loved ones and to have the most mexican party ever. You know we party good. I had a swollen ish knee and still danced the whole evening. It was so good. Nothing like a good party, some tequila and family! ORALÈ!!! Para Aribba! Para Abajo! Para El Centro! Para Adentro! Thats a toast you do when you do a shot or a sip pf alcohol. To the above, to the bottom, to the center and to your insides! Love that for us. Amazing evening. Now for some Juicy wedding content.

    • @sasskvetch8617
      @sasskvetch8617 28 днів тому +1

      Irish-Mexican must be an absolutely WILD extended family 😂 at our English-Dutch-Danish mixed gatherings we have to tell guests "Don't worry, we're not pompous, subdued or dull AT ALL, promise. We may even occasionally laugh out loud! 😉"

    • @TheOneWifNoUsername
      @TheOneWifNoUsername 20 днів тому

      @ it’s so fun! Honestly it was great intermingling with everyone. I also like my other cousins husband to be. Those two and their kids are adorable. Two cultures that love a good drink and a good party? What’s not to agree with? We may favor different liquors sometimes but that’s ok!

  • @LadyDreamfyre
    @LadyDreamfyre Місяць тому +13

    Charlotte's pronunciation of Rammstein is iconic 😆😆😆

    • @malliebooh
      @malliebooh Місяць тому +3

      Finally I was looking through the comments to find this 😂😂😂 thank you

    • @BrianAndresScott
      @BrianAndresScott Місяць тому +1

      Was thinking the same cool to get engaged at the show

    • @andreavantzet1962
      @andreavantzet1962 Місяць тому +1

      In the fire zone!

  • @ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6
    @ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6 Місяць тому +21

    I love the last story !!! I always love a family that is fair and backs up the person that is right

  • @goofungilumptis3464
    @goofungilumptis3464 Місяць тому +11

    I figured out that the people (that I have met), who are like this: go after married or dating men because it's like an ego boost. Like, the thought process is: "I am so irresistible, that I made them want to risk it all for me." Selfish and jealous all the time, simply they can't step out of their "hoe" erra to be an actual decent and desirable human being. It's just simply too much work.

    • @Just-Nikki
      @Just-Nikki Місяць тому +1

      Yep, I fully agree with this.

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Місяць тому +22

    Belated congrats on your engagement, Queen Charlotte! That is so lovely. I’m excited for you ❤

  • @Cornflakegirl16
    @Cornflakegirl16 Місяць тому +31

    Charlotte, you keep saying it’s the wife who had the issue and it was the HUSBAND who was uncomfortable and they decided that the wife would approach the mutual friend. It’s not a “stay away from my man” situation, but a “my husband does not want you touching him and asked me to explain this because he is not comfortable being around you” situation.

  • @tosiebel5522
    @tosiebel5522 Місяць тому +2

    No matter how low I’m feeling when The Honorable Judge Charlotte arrives I have a smile on my face and laughter ensues 😂

  • @Dessii1
    @Dessii1 Місяць тому +4

    Hey Charlotte! ❣️ Thank you for being such a positive vibe. I literally CANNOT live without your 🦃🦃🦃🦃✨❤️

  • @Hermit-Bear_Gaming
    @Hermit-Bear_Gaming Місяць тому +1

    There's also 1 downers. I'm no longer friends with someone but along the lines of I would yawn and be like "oh, sorry I didn't sleep that much and only got 4 hours." She then gave attitude of being like "I only got 2." It's not a competition.

  • @channiebaabe7444
    @channiebaabe7444 Місяць тому +4

    YUP! fully agree to not having anyone, family or not, there on your special day if they have never supported you or done anything nice for you. I left out one of my aunty's (and consequently her entire family - I like the kids, just not her and her husband) and my uncle and his family from my wedding as they have NEVER been nice to me and have always had something to say about my weight (yes I'm overweight, I don't need to be constantly reminded) so yeah, I was NOT having that negativity around my special day. Do what's best for you!

  • @taraleepenn8274
    @taraleepenn8274 Місяць тому +2

    So I recently adopted an orange girl kitty which they’re very rare. I was having a hard time coming up with her name, but I would watch your videos on my iPad and she would touch the screen every time I watched your videos in particular. With her being an orange girl kitty, I decided to name her Charlotte after you. And it absolutely fits her! Just wanted to share with you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tara-leighputter7153
    @tara-leighputter7153 Місяць тому +4

    You are the only channel I watch and I've watched every single one 😍 you are so authentic, and your videos are just getting better and better as the years go by

  • @Pooh1101
    @Pooh1101 Місяць тому +1

    Your vids really help me understand that I’m not crazy, going through things with the girls you love the most in life is so stressful. Thank you for easing my stress Charlotte❤

  • @kathrynr.7065
    @kathrynr.7065 Місяць тому +14

    36 comments in 48 seconds! You are the QUEEN, Miss Lady 🤩

  • @travelmom3031
    @travelmom3031 Місяць тому +1

    I have had experience with a similar situation to the first story-- one wife in our group was being inappropriately flirtatious with everyone's husband. She played the misunderstood victim--but it turned out she had affairs with 3 or 4 of the men in the group.

  • @mariahillenbrand8396
    @mariahillenbrand8396 Місяць тому +3

    Regarding the bride who told her "one upping" sister not to come to her wedding, she stated that she constantly brings attention to your fiance's condition, but says she's just making an "Observation". An observation would be made once - not every single time you're in her presence!!

  • @emogurl47
    @emogurl47 Місяць тому +3

    Your videos are never long enough! I need more Charlotte in my life!

  • @SekireiHomura
    @SekireiHomura Місяць тому +14

    We may be sat Honorable Judge Charlotte presiding

  • @kasahadragon9499
    @kasahadragon9499 Місяць тому +2

    If you have a friend that wants to paint you as the bad guy by lying to cover their behaviour, just walk away. The friends who don't believe you and choose to back the liar will find out for themselves. It may take a while and rarely will you get an apology from those friends but it's better for your mental health to just walk a way.

  • @rita1234567100
    @rita1234567100 Місяць тому +6

    Omg Hii! Hope y'all are having an amazing week! Love you Charlotte, and watching your videos are like talking with one of my girls🥰 So thank you for being you❤❤

  • @jenniferbate-mz3yl
    @jenniferbate-mz3yl Місяць тому +2

    Honestly can I procure you as my therapist? You are so emotionally intelligent and I’m emotionally broken, relationship trauma and bad choices in friendships. I swear watching you everyday is like therapy for me. I adore you ❤

  • @lizzvicious481
    @lizzvicious481 Місяць тому +4

    My favorite wild animal is Charlott and her judge turkey voice 🤣❤️

  • @brotherpig11
    @brotherpig11 Місяць тому +1

    I’ve been watching you for years and you are the best and funniest person I can never claim to know personally! Congrats to you and Mike- very happy for you charlotte

  • @stephaniejohnson6968
    @stephaniejohnson6968 Місяць тому +4

    Omgggggg perfect way to start my shift, a Charlotte video!!!! I love your videos and tell my boyfriend all the time I wish we were friends 😂

  • @kerrinbrittain4393
    @kerrinbrittain4393 Місяць тому +2

    Something similar happened to my husband as happened to OP's.
    My husband & I were married in November 03. About a year later, one of his friends was.
    Before then, he & his fiance came down to visit one weekend. He was asleep & I'd gone to bed. She hit on my husband, trying to kiss & touch him. He immediately stepped back & told me. He didn't tell his friend.
    Fast forward to 6 months after the two of them got married & he calls my husband, letting him know he was divorcing her. Turned out she'd been hitting on & shagging his friends since before they became engaged & continued after they were married.. Unfortunately for him, a lot of his friends took her up on her offer. My husband & one other guy were the only ones who were disgusted by her behaviour.
    I think some women just get a rush & ego boost from doing these things. She had even said to my husband that she could get any man she wanted & they all want her. It's like they justify it by saying it tests their loyalty.
    Too bad for her, my husband is loyal all the way through. We just celebrated our 21st anniversary last week.🙂

  • @LeeAslays
    @LeeAslays Місяць тому +6

    I love your videos so much and taking me so much joy watching them you’re so funny ❤❤❤

  • @Purplewonder123
    @Purplewonder123 Місяць тому +1

    The story of the Asian bride is me. I just had to make a throwaway UA-cam Channel just to comment lol. I noticed a lot of the comments were about the Bangladeshi flag. To clarify, I am from Bangladesh so the flag Charlotte used was correct and I live in NYC.

  • @lacy1311
    @lacy1311 Місяць тому +8

    Hi Charlotte!❤
    You should've said, "she couldn't keep her hands off of other people's mans!" Lol

  • @Laylia_
    @Laylia_ Місяць тому

    That last story, it’s so refreshing to hear that a family has respect towards OP’s boundaries. ❤

  • @hopeleathers5386
    @hopeleathers5386 Місяць тому +3

    Charlotte I love all of the videos you post. I have to say that the wedding drama videos are my favorite! Love you Charlotte ❤

  • @lifeascassandra5758
    @lifeascassandra5758 Місяць тому +1

    It’s like my mom tells me about going low contact with people without knowing what she meant when I was younger. She said “ let your nays be nays and your yays be yays.” Meaning to be cordial but say as little as possible so they don’t have anything to say about you.

  • @Shanna302011
    @Shanna302011 Місяць тому +3

    Hope you're having a fantastic day, Charlotte!💜

  • @jasonlock884
    @jasonlock884 Місяць тому +1

    11:33 for some reason, I love it when UA-camrs do that kind of animation. All she needs now is those old fashion cartoon noises

  • @nyahaha79
    @nyahaha79 Місяць тому +4

    I have to wait for an hour and I came on hoping you’d come out with a video for today, this is amazing

  • @wildsagediary1109
    @wildsagediary1109 Місяць тому +1

    Before i noticed Charlotte's shirt, i was thoroughly shook. I was like, "i know youre comfortable with your fans but this is a bit much" 😂😂

  • @floridanurse4901
    @floridanurse4901 Місяць тому +10

    Yes! New video! Never been this early!

  • @SecretSquirrelFun
    @SecretSquirrelFun Місяць тому +2

    My friends brother has always been a one-upper/downer.
    His stories are usually about himself and he’d always begin with the words “that’s a bummer but…” (this is relevant)
    Once my friend was in hospital. I (female) was visiting her along with her mother.
    My friend has endometriosis and so our conversation that day was 3 adult women talking about about menstrual pain, cramps etc. How we could best be supporting my friend through her pain etc.
    It was at this moment that my friends brother arrived at the hospital.
    My friend’s mother had mentioned earlier that her brother might visit. My friend’s mother laughed how her son was going to find it difficult to “one-up” endometriosis (and this cheered my friend up a little)
    He saw us 3 women, said hello to his mother, sister and to me. He sat as we continued talking.
    My friend’s mother mentioned letting the doctor know about the changes in my friend’s/her daughter’s pain etc.
    It was at this exact moment my friends brother said -
    “that sounds like such a bummer. But that’s nothing - MY ex girlfriend had such bad cramps, she had a hot water bottle and ….”
    He stopped talking when he looked up and saw us, his mother and sister were just glaring at him. His mother politely asked him to shut up 😂
    Years later my friend is doing well and we are still laughing about the time her brother actually tried to one-up her about endometriosis and menstrual pain😂

  • @MollyGaia
    @MollyGaia Місяць тому +3

    I'm starting to think half or most people are getting over attending weddings, with how fast people drop out of them at the first quarrel. it's stressful, long, boring, feeding the narcissism of other people.. it became a dumb celebration tbh birthdays are enough ego feeding for everyone, you get it once a year.

  • @PatienceMarie88
    @PatienceMarie88 Місяць тому +2

    The last story: If you're like me, and have a weird guilt complex, yet end up in this type of situation where you feel guilt about inviting someone, then invite them WITH CONDITIONS. Lay out your conditions on which they can come, and if they refuse to the conditions or even seem reluctant, then tell them they can't come. If they act okay with the conditions and come, then plan to have someone available to kick them out if they choose to break your conditions. That way, you don't have the guilt on your hands. You have laid out conditions, and if they don't attend or get kicked out, then it is on them, because you left that ultimatum up to them.

  • @FeralTexasMama
    @FeralTexasMama Місяць тому +6

    Just what I need while stuck in bed after emergency bhole surgery in the middle of the night. 🥴

  • @mariyaamcrus6199
    @mariyaamcrus6199 Місяць тому +2

    I love your makeup! I like the way the shape of the liner complements your eyes

  • @letsnot5113
    @letsnot5113 Місяць тому +3

    Love you Charlotte. Couldn't make it through cleaning today without a new video lol thaaank you

  • @conejaa.__
    @conejaa.__ Місяць тому +2

    Getting proposed to at a Rammstein concert is legit goals.

  • @nalinishriniwas9968
    @nalinishriniwas9968 Місяць тому +27

    hy charlotte, big fan of yours and i started using reddit because of you and it feels like i have alot of friends to whom i can talk. Thank you

    • @Shelleysnail
      @Shelleysnail Місяць тому

      Reddit is great for that. Some great people on there ❤

  • @gouriiiz
    @gouriiiz Місяць тому +1

    11:19 You are never insecure about expressing a boundary even if your spouse is “okay” with it. You are not complaining if it makes you uncomfortable: that’s what it is.