@@ky6646 I hear you, but see my comment. Birth control works most of the time but if a condom breaks, it won’t be so scary if you also used a contraceptive insert. Between like ages 16 and 39 those hormones be jumping. The women in my family couldn’t take the pill. My mother couldn’t, my sister did and has no children, but she had a stroke at age 38 so there’s that. I took the pill for 3 days and ended up in ER with the MD telling me don’t take it again because it gave me a superficial blood clot so...this was 25 years ago. Maybe the pill has been tested better to include our needs as bw. There are still other types of birth control (spermicide). I had 2 children, but I really spent most of my 20’s and much of my 30’s NOT HAVING SEX after I had my two, I was like sex equals babies and no thanks for any more. I’m 46 now, my two are 25 and 27. I’m just trying to be honest about my experiences to help younger women. I suggest to young black women seeking to avoid unplanned pregnancy to talk with the women in their families about what worked for them is my point. Be well.
Everyone, man or woman should take notes.. Judge Toler would make a better therapist than a judge. She gives the best advice and her advice is universally correct, anyone can take advice to her ans apply it to life. She is just amazing, in my opinion She writes books too, I am going to get one one day
True but our kids now a days have next to no guidance especially in the African American community and are often products of a bad society and residual and direct trauma .. If she had a judge Lynn in her life from early I bet she wouldn't have all those kids ..but the good thing is she is bettering herself and looking to get ahead in life with her babies commendable.. I think she is a nice girl .
Janelle Brown At what age did she start? She said they been together 3 years. So she had 3 kids every year they was together⁉️ Good Lordt. 😩 🗣TUBES TIED‼️
omg i said the same thing to my son how u having all these babies by a broke boy and then get mad cuz he not man enough to do anything for u and those kids smh
She made me smile this episode. She had her head on her shoulders, and he was just Ditzy. She made not 1 excuse for herself or her situation. Proud of her!
Øbey Day Most Doctor’s won’t touch her tubes because she’s too young and has never been married. That’s a lawsuit. She must be doing something that can be reversed at a later time.
watsonar70 I’m 21 with 2 kids and can verify that your statement isn’t always correct. In my state if you have 2 kids and are under 25 and REQUEST to get your tubes tied (or hysterectomy) they will perform such. Now I don’t know about them performing tubal ligation and burning the tubes, but they will for sure tie them. Getting your tubes tied is reversible.
Øbey Day You’re incorrect. In the state of Tennessee and in the District of Columbia you can not get your tubes tied if you are that young whether you are married or not!! It varies by state and most doctors won’t do it because a young lady may get married in her 30s or 40s and may want more children! What you want in your 20s is not the same thing you would want in your 30s/40s is called life experience that is only gained by living life past the 20s.
It’s amazing how people get offended when the judge gives them valid insight. “I take care of my children.” Why aren’t you offended enough to work and why does their mother have to ask before it’s given?! Whew this generation. Have mercy.
I loved her. She's got a good head on her shoulders. She's gonna kick ass once she's separated from this manchild. He's got like 10yrs or more to catch up. No more babies please. Get your money right. Get your education right.
Yes, but that’s the point. It’s a cycle. More than likely, their mother had them at an early age, uneducated, and no true father figure (perhaps several fathers for different kids and none are worth anything if they are not in prison 🙄). This laughing kid is doing the same thing... resulting in no guidance again: THE VICIOUS CYCLE. The girl looks like she has a good head in her shoulder and I’m rooting for her but it’s a tough road ahead for her. I pray she got this that way her children would see and do differently.
This young lady is pretty intelligent, for her age, and for the situation she has to manage. Based on her insinuation, I'm suspecting she has had issues with birth control, and therefore, rapid pregnancies. She is quite promising, and has undertaken to get her tubes tied. That's ludicrous for a 20 yr old, but highly appropriate for her. We have all made poor decisions, and some we have come back from. If sh can get the child care support, she can do great things with her life. So glad she was mature enough to move on. 95% of the women coming to DC, don't have the will, the skill, or even the desire to step away from their sink hole. Good job girl. Keep stepping.
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 well my hubby has an MBA and speaks poorly. He's head accountant in a high profile firm and still manages to obliterate the English language...ijs...lol
Hope she read all of these comments and prove everyone wrong . Let this b her motivation fund time go to college become a CEO and let’s everyone knows she did it 20 with 4 kids ... I’m praying for u sweetie let those kids b your motivation. U got this 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@jurneysjourney4651 I'm so glad you read this comment and even more delighted that you're going to University trying to pursue your PhD despite having children. You're young and beautiful, focus and keep working hard.
@Jurney Coleman-you must be a Genius if you are working on your PhD at 20yo! You have 4 children at 20 with a deadbeat, silly-ass clown so you cannot be as intelligent as you are pretending to be-level up, stop having children & get your life in order-
@@jurneysjourney4651 ignore these comments. It doesn't matter about your past. It matters where you're going. Trust me I know from past experience and doing better than most people. So keep your head up beautiful! When jesus says yes who tf gone tell u no?!
Judge said it all having babies and no money is stressful the relationship won't last people talk bullshit about love but money is a big thing in a relationship you sleep better when them bills paid
@@wennic2784 Takes 2 to tango and he danced right along with her. He could've put a condom on but didn't, and 3 of those kids are his. Soooo he's just as responsible.
How is it Tragic? YALL DO NOT KNOW THIS WOMAN. Like are y’all serious? Y’all criticize and tear down you own people because of their decisions, you see that she works, cleans, supplies for her kids and you have the nerve to say it tragic. Your Tragic.
Not funny @ all!😡 They can't even decide who's gonna hand the other 1 the baby's bottle @ night? Throw the whole relationship in the garbage! I feel sorry for the poor offspring of these 2 CLOWNS!!
He's a clown. I'm sure every lady in here will point that out, but she chose to have not 1, not 2, but 3 children with a clown. She's as much of a clown as he is.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m never opposed to a good laugh on Divorce Court, but I also want to learn something valuable from the show, not feel like I’m watching a Moesha rerun.
Exactly I had 4 kids at the age of 20. I’m 40 years old now and they are all grown and out of high school in college and every single one of them have their own place. Even my 20yr old and he’s the youngest. I wouldn’t change a thing
I agree, ima say so too. But this is heartbreaking. No education. and she 'd probably marry again in the future, and this certainly will mean more kids!kids!!kids!!
@@victor88786 Marry again in the future? What man of value if any is going to marry a woman with 5 kids who's just barely 20 right now and possibly more to come in the next few years?
#ImStressed #MissMommas is raising 5 kids (that boy included). I can't lie she's clever & witty; for some reason I believe she'll EVENTUALLY be fine. It'll be by God's grace that she & them kids make it, but she'll be ard. Don't have no more babies until you reach a level of success that'll sustain your kids & yourself!!
Cam Foxx She going to have 2 more in her 30s by her new husband. I hope she make it too. But as of right now 😩 Goodt Lord she need to stop. She literally been having babies every year she was with him!
The sad part about it is, most in the comments are bashing both of them for his immaturity. But she seems like she was trying to bee the focused on but apparently his apologies came with🍆 and she couldn't refuse until she got fed up and made the decision to tie her tubes after she gives birth. And it seems she is genuinely happy to be tying them.
She so mature, it's refreshing to hear about her not having social media especially so young. It shows she has the ability to focus on herself her children entirely. 👌🏾
Her life’s not over. She’s still young. It may be a little bit harder but it’s definitely doable. I’m proud of her for standing her ground and leaving this joker behind!!
She is a beautiful young woman who deserves better. I’m sorry society failed her, but in spite of it she is very intelligent, driven, and sensible. I wish her nothing but the best 🙏🏻
She has been traveling at 1 baby a year since she was 16 years old. And she can’t even drink. I need a glass of wine just taking care my cat let alone a 4 tiny helpless humans.
Cant judge her 20 with 4 kids they are her responsibilities and I dont know her upbringing but she can turn all this around and give them better than she had ..with a more mature man....enjoy being young while you can
This young lady is beautiful. Beautiful spirit, well spoken when not flustered. Go forth and be successful sweetheart. May your children be your daily motivation to be a success and an in turn be an inspiration to them.
20 with 4 kids ! Why does this generation think it’s a game now to have children, I’m 25 with no kids , enjoy your 20’s go to school ! I’m so glad I have old school parents, get married 1st
I have 4 kids but I'm 34 years old!! 4 kids at 20 to me is crazy!! Glad they broke up because she can do so much better! Unfortunately he's probably going to go out and have even more kids with a bunch of other woman. More kids that he doesn't take care of. So sad.
NO. She had... *1 kid prior to him. Then she had... *2 kids with him. NOW.. She is pregnant with her.. *4TH child by him. 4 KIDS by 20yrs old is INSANE....
4 kids by what appears to be a bum and getting her tubes tied..... the biggest thing that can help young ladies is birth control And this dude complaining about giving her 200 a month for a 6 month.... w t f Good to her, this is horrible.
He had a great woman. He's about to learn how these streets don't love nobody. He's gonna miss coming home to her and those children. Oh well! You go girl! I wish you and your babies the best!❤️
So the majority of their relationship, she was pregnant. I want to shake him smh🤦🏽♀️ he remind me of soulja boy on marriage bootcamp. Everything was funny to him and he was oblivious of his behavior and how it affected her.
" You know" "you know" "you know" "you know" ....you didn't KNOW y'all were too young to be having so many damn kids and y'all ain't financially stable????? Steups.
NO I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS. I WORK I GO TO SCHOOL I HAVE MY OWN HOUSE. IM IN COLLEGE SOON TO BE A CARDIOLOGIST. I THANK YOU GUYS FOR CONCERNS BUT IM JUST FINE.
I am STILL suspicious of that PhD at 20, especially with 4 children & little support. I hope you have filed for child support on BOTH your babies' fathers. Good luck on getting to, and completing, medical school to become a cardiologist.
Judging by his character, she's going to end up a single mother and I really hope that she's preparing herself to take care of her kids on her own because yeah, she's doing it all by herself now anyway. Bless her.
I see a lot of people coming down on this young lady and basically saying her life is done, because she has 4 children at a young age. I had 4 by 20, and although it may not have seemed like a good decision to many, it was a life saver and game changer for me. I loved being a mom, there was nothing I couldn't do knowing I had those little people relying on me and i was determined to be the best for them. I never complained about being a mom, working everyday, cooking, cleaning, etc. They are all adults now, I have 4 diplomas and 1 degree to brag about and they are awesome, productive individuals. She can do great things and it looks like she wants to. Oh and BTW, I have an awesome career, and having children young didn't stop me from working hard to achieve it.
He don't want to work, then say she don't have to work. Who do you think supposed to support y'all kids sir? Girl move on. A broken home is not ideal but you have your whole life ahead of you and he's entirely too childish.
These 20 yr olds having 2 and 3 kids just getting out of their teenage yrs. They don't even know what it is like to be adults now they are taking care of children
Send him to the Army he might be alittle different after discharge. I know he gonna read this because his loves social media but its for your own good. 😈
I have faith that she can go on to further her education and have a happy, healthy life with her and her children. She needs to leave the dating scene ALONE for a long while. There are 4 people in her life that need her undivided attention. I wish her all the best 😔
I had 4 kids at the age of 20. I’m now 40yrs old. I have 3 boys 1 girl. All 4 of them graduated high school my daughter Graduated early w/honors. My oldest is in college on a basketball scholarship. They all have their own apartments including my 20yr old and he’s the youngest. They all have cars and good jobs. Not one of them have ever been to Jail and they barely ask me for anything. I’m proud of my kids. Although I had them at a young age I wouldn’t change one thing about it. I’m 40 and fabulous no small kids at home. Me and their father is living our best life. Taking trips a running our business. It’s never to late to change your circumstances. She’s young and has a lot of life to live. Don’t count her out just yet!
Dang these people are my age with 4 kids and so many issues. I’m 23 still trying to get a decent job and get my own spot😓. I couldn’t imagine that stress. & this guy just seems immature and goofy lmao thinks everything funny. He acts like I did my senior year
So what if the woman is working and the man isn’t???? Heavens knows millions of men have worked and the women haven’t.. If he just lost his job it’s not like you can expect him to have another job within 24 hours, that’s not a realistic expectation
Why do people wanna even put themselves in a position to have even ONE KID at 20?? 20 is for having the time of your life, growing into your adulthood gradually and experiencing life. It isn't for raising a family 🤦🏾♀️🙄. I give her props for at least working and trying to raise her kids right, but both of them knew better than to be reckless like that.
“You can’t control your life if you can’t control your fertility “ Ladies take notes from the judge
I definitely agree, but there are women who gets pregnant off of birth control.
@@ky6646 I hear you, but see my comment. Birth control works most of the time but if a condom breaks, it won’t be so scary if you also used a contraceptive insert. Between like ages 16 and 39 those hormones be jumping. The women in my family couldn’t take the pill. My mother couldn’t, my sister did and has no children, but she had a stroke at age 38 so there’s that. I took the pill for 3 days and ended up in ER with the MD telling me don’t take it again because it gave me a superficial blood clot so...this was 25 years ago. Maybe the pill has been tested better to include our needs as bw. There are still other types of birth control (spermicide). I had 2 children, but I really spent most of my 20’s and much of my 30’s NOT HAVING SEX after I had my two, I was like sex equals babies and no thanks for any more. I’m 46 now, my two are 25 and 27. I’m just trying to be honest about my experiences to help younger women. I suggest to young black women seeking to avoid unplanned pregnancy to talk with the women in their families about what worked for them is my point. Be well.
Everyone, man or woman should take notes..
Judge Toler would make a better therapist than a judge. She gives the best advice and her advice is universally correct, anyone can take advice to her ans apply it to life. She is just amazing, in my opinion
She writes books too, I am going to get one one day
@@ky6646 .
Inundated!!!
20 WITH FOUR KIDS?! This is really no laughing matter.
Jasmine Elise
So true … so accurate !!
I’m watching and I’m thinking “am I the only one NOT laughing” ain’t nothing funny about this, yet all I hear is tehehehe!! 🙄
@@ColourMEPinkk0 All I Could Do Was Shake My Head smh 🤷 No Laughing Just Sad 🤔🧐🙄🥺
I’m like what age did she start? They only been together 3 years. So she had a kid every year they was together 😩. Give that uterus a break, sis‼️
@@TimeisUp22 DON'T FORGET the kid she had with another boy, prior to this fool..🙄🙄🙄..
"She's 20 years old 4 children she's got a job he got excuses please lord let me stay in this chair."😂😂😭😭
Lol
😂😂
Remain in the chair. Your life is not affected by this.
man she is amazing amd she does it with a smile amd looking good
Lol!! A hot mess! Ladies, get to know a man for a long ass time!!!!
My Momma always said: CLOSE THOSE LEGGS AND OPEN SOME BOOKS
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👏👏👏💯💯💯
Damn she was on point like a decimal.
Maybe get some speech therapy
@@TriaMaxwell 👀
This dude is goofy. Everything is as joke to him. Their situation is no laughing matter, especially at that age...
Goofy as hell! smh And very childish smh
Facts straight goofy
Especially when children is involved.
Juliet he’s 22.....
Bet he’s happier than you lol. Real problem here is both of them having freaking kids at 20& 22 holyfuck
DID YALL HEAR HIM SAY "NOPE IM NOT DOING IT" WHEN JUDGE TOLD HIM TO PAY THE $250 FOR HIIIIISSSSS KIDS A MONTH.... SORRY ASS UGHHHH
Girl yes a hot mess.
Clarnisha Lashay WHAT A *LOSER* AND TO MENTION YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. 🙅🏾♂️🙅🏾♂️ NO CUP
Triflin' it's crazy to see grown men really feel like they not supposed to pay for the children they created. 🙃
@@lildaddyhenry4864 Thanks ❤️ Check me out at @bali_bylashay on ig
@@brishaberries0101 FACTS!!!
Four kids already and not even legally allowed to drink yet?!?! Is birth control a foreign concept....???? Seriously! 😒
True but our kids now a days have next to no guidance especially in the African American community and are often products of a bad society and residual and direct trauma .. If she had a judge Lynn in her life from early I bet she wouldn't have all those kids ..but the good thing is she is bettering herself and looking to get ahead in life with her babies commendable.. I think she is a nice girl .
Young minded chicks have multiple kids, especially the ones by different deadbeats or by the same knucklehead dude who can't afford to provide.
She was on birth control with the first 2
Her children need to sue her for bringiing them into despair and distress.
She should have been married before all that it at least using condoms.
Whoever raised her failed her because she ain't got no business having 4 kids at 20, unless they're 2 sets of twins or quadruplets.
Janelle Brown At what age did she start? She said they been together 3 years. So she had 3 kids every year they was together⁉️ Good Lordt. 😩 🗣TUBES TIED‼️
omg i said the same thing to my son how u having all these babies by a broke boy and then get mad cuz he not man enough to do anything for u and those kids smh
@SlyTownSlayers2010 No she has 4 kids and 2 baby's father. 3 of them are his.
She has 2 with him (well 3 because she's pregnant with his 3rd) and one from a previous relationship
I had to play it back! 20 years old with 4 children. Geeesh!!
She made me smile this episode. She had her head on her shoulders, and he was just Ditzy. She made not 1 excuse for herself or her situation. Proud of her!
This young lady don't need anymore children point blank.
Steven Gunn she said she’s getting her tubes tied.
20 years old 2 baby loser daddies. They reward the idiot thug liar with children and play hardball with people who are about something.
Øbey Day Most Doctor’s won’t touch her tubes because she’s too young and has never been married. That’s a lawsuit. She must be doing something that can be reversed at a later time.
watsonar70 I’m 21 with 2 kids and can verify that your statement isn’t always correct. In my state if you have 2 kids and are under 25 and REQUEST to get your tubes tied (or hysterectomy) they will perform such. Now I don’t know about them performing tubal ligation and burning the tubes, but they will for sure tie them. Getting your tubes tied is reversible.
Øbey Day You’re incorrect. In the state of Tennessee and in the District of Columbia you can not get your tubes tied if you are that young whether you are married or not!! It varies by state and most doctors won’t do it because a young lady may get married in her 30s or 40s and may want more children! What you want in your 20s is not the same thing you would want in your 30s/40s is called life experience that is only gained by living life past the 20s.
I'm 23 I can't imagine 4 children. At 20 I was still watching cartoons bruh how df ...
Shaker Make. For real
@RoseGold Laverne I'm with you on that one!
I just turned 27, no kids and i still watch cartoons😆
Don’t act like you aren’t fuckin 🙄.
Dominique Lee how many kids you got?
It’s amazing how people get offended when the judge gives them valid insight. “I take care of my children.” Why aren’t you offended enough to work and why does their mother have to ask before it’s given?! Whew this generation. Have mercy.
I loved her. She's got a good head on her shoulders. She's gonna kick ass once she's separated from this manchild. He's got like 10yrs or more to catch up.
No more babies please. Get your money right. Get your education right.
@Albert Unlike you, I see her strength, not her weaknesses
@@PatriciaMuganzi you very right. Them 4 kids will motivate her to succeed. She has real strength
You don’t tell her when to stop having children, that’s not your spot. Stay in your place, thanks.
@@madina9949 So many other I wrote there but all you saw... ok, yes ma'am
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They need mentors in their lives. I’m not even mad at them. I’m mad at the lack of guidance in their lives.
Yes, but that’s the point. It’s a cycle. More than likely, their mother had them at an early age, uneducated, and no true father figure (perhaps several fathers for different kids and none are worth anything if they are not in prison 🙄). This laughing kid is doing the same thing... resulting in no guidance again: THE VICIOUS CYCLE. The girl looks like she has a good head in her shoulder and I’m rooting for her but it’s a tough road ahead for her. I pray she got this that way her children would see and do differently.
Best comment on here!!!!
I’ve heard enough “ya knows” to not want to ever hear it again ya know?
This young lady is pretty intelligent, for her age, and for the situation she has to manage.
Based on her insinuation, I'm suspecting she has had issues with birth control, and therefore, rapid pregnancies.
She is quite promising, and has undertaken to get her tubes tied. That's ludicrous for a 20 yr old, but highly appropriate for her.
We have all made poor decisions, and some we have come back from.
If sh can get the child care support, she can do great things with her life.
So glad she was mature enough to move on. 95% of the women coming to DC, don't have the will, the skill, or even the desire to step away from their sink hole.
Good job girl. Keep stepping.
Avi B I was thinking the same thing.
She's not Intelligent, but she's not dumb.
Did you not hear her speaking incorrectly?
Beautiful statement. My granny says..."what's not dead..dont throw it away" She is ambitious and she will pull threw.
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 well my hubby has an MBA and speaks poorly. He's head accountant in a high profile firm and still manages to obliterate the English language...ijs...lol
Well Said
Hope she read all of these comments and prove everyone wrong . Let this b her motivation fund time go to college become a CEO and let’s everyone knows she did it 20 with 4 kids ... I’m praying for u sweetie let those kids b your motivation. U got this 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@jurneysjourney4651 I'm so glad you read this comment and even more delighted that you're going to University trying to pursue your PhD despite having children. You're young and beautiful, focus and keep working hard.
Yes!
@Jurney Coleman-you must be a Genius if you are working on your PhD at 20yo! You have 4 children at 20 with a deadbeat, silly-ass clown so you cannot be as intelligent as you are pretending to be-level up, stop having children & get your life in order-
Laureen Williams yeah well I’m 21 but thanks for your concern my children and I are well & living our BEST lives 😌
@@jurneysjourney4651 ignore these comments. It doesn't matter about your past. It matters where you're going. Trust me I know from past experience and doing better than most people. So keep your head up beautiful! When jesus says yes who tf gone tell u no?!
Judge said it all having babies and no money is stressful the relationship won't last people talk bullshit about love but money is a big thing in a relationship you sleep better when them bills paid
AMEN
Say that👏🏾👏🏾
🗣🗣🗣Right💯💯💯💯
That's a fact
Facts!!
This is TRAGIC OMG!!! 20, 4 kids, the kids father is a joke. WOW- what a life.
Simply Julie Just tragic!
Sound like a baby machine
@@wennic2784 Takes 2 to tango and he danced right along with her. He could've put a condom on but didn't, and 3 of those kids are his. Soooo he's just as responsible.
@@egcarswell Mommas baby, papa's maybe. She is and will continue to be primarily responsible for her children
How is it Tragic? YALL DO NOT KNOW THIS WOMAN. Like are y’all serious? Y’all criticize and tear down you own people because of their decisions, you see that she works, cleans, supplies for her kids and you have the nerve to say it tragic. Your Tragic.
I am so going to miss Judge Toler. I absolutely love her!
I’m mad they keep making this a laughing matter.. this isn’t even funny
bbg true, neither one of them seems to appreciate the seriousness of this situation. Young lives are depending on them getting their act together.
The crowd seems to think it's funny too! They are doing ALOT of laughing today ughhh
Not funny @ all!😡 They can't even decide who's gonna hand the other 1 the baby's bottle @ night? Throw the whole relationship in the garbage! I feel sorry for the poor offspring of these 2 CLOWNS!!
I’m 26 with one child and I’m stress I cannot imagine having 4 at 26 much less at 20 🥴🥴
Ok! I'm 34 with one and stressed the f out! 😂😂😂.. I'm trying to figure out how does she afford those children while staying mentally sane...
Hell im 30 with a 5 year old and Jesus help me 🥴
I'm 30 with one child and stressed!
I’m 29, pregnant with my first and Lord knows I’m always tired 😂😂😂
This is so sad. This guy is laughing like life is a game and he is hurting his children in the process.
He's a clown. I'm sure every lady in here will point that out, but she chose to have not 1, not 2, but 3 children with a clown. She's as much of a clown as he is.
EXACTLY.
Her PARENTS CLEARLY FAILED HER.
They’re both a damn circus. We all see that.
@@B.Danielaaa 5 of the 6 girls directly beneath my comment didn't see it.
Too young for all of that. When I was 20, I was in college and living my best life. This is too much stress for a 20 year old in my opinion.
Exactly
Everybody not the same
Why is the audience laughing like it’s a sitcom?
Jocelyn Smith I had to look at the title of the video to make sure that I wasn’t watching a sitcom.
This show took a nose dive a long time ago
Either laugh or cry.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m never opposed to a good laugh on Divorce Court, but I also want to learn something valuable from the show, not feel like I’m watching a Moesha rerun.
Angelina Nordstrom exactly!! They sound like a laughing track 😩😂
She has 4 kids that is uchangeable. She can still dust off and make it in life. She has age on her side.
Agreed!
Exactly I had 4 kids at the age of 20. I’m 40 years old now and they are all grown and out of high school in college and every single one of them have their own place. Even my 20yr old and he’s the youngest. I wouldn’t change a thing
If she has a support system and gets priorities in order! And even then it's a long shot.
@@WhoCares3001 never a long shot it’s up to the person
“Why aren’t you home with your children? I mean you don’t have a job” - Judge Lynn Toler who I enjoy so much in this episode 🥺
Stop procreating with bum dudes
He's young and immature. Stop laughing and get serious broski. But salute to her real woman's worth.
Words of hope. Whoever is reading this know that everything is going to be fine. Its coming to an end dont lose hope you are a victor
Amen 🙏🏿
I WISH..
Grace Morgan speaks UA-cam Channel Thank you, brother: your words always come at the right time whenever I read them 🙏
Thanks Grace I needed that
I can't even finish watching this. Too young, immature and too many kids. Ima just go out on a limb and say they won't make it.
They were already broke up when they was on the show.. They said they were BROKE up living separately on the show..
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Sooo why are they on the show? Just to be on tv? Lol
I agree, ima say so too. But this is heartbreaking. No education. and she 'd probably marry again in the future, and this certainly will mean more kids!kids!!kids!!
I turned the channel immediately
@@victor88786 Marry again in the future? What man of value if any is going to marry a woman with 5 kids who's just barely 20 right now and possibly more to come in the next few years?
#ImStressed #MissMommas is raising 5 kids (that boy included). I can't lie she's clever & witty; for some reason I believe she'll EVENTUALLY be fine. It'll be by God's grace that she & them kids make it, but she'll be ard. Don't have no more babies until you reach a level of success that'll sustain your kids & yourself!!
Cam Foxx She going to have 2 more in her 30s by her new husband. I hope she make it too. But as of right now 😩 Goodt Lord she need to stop. She literally been having babies every year she was with him!
@Cam Foxx Yeah well she might
The sad part about it is, most in the comments are bashing both of them for his immaturity. But she seems like she was trying to bee the focused on but apparently his apologies came with🍆 and she couldn't refuse until she got fed up and made the decision to tie her tubes after she gives birth. And it seems she is genuinely happy to be tying them.
I really don’t understand these comments calling her clever. Where we watching different episodes? ??
@@fuvishiami She CLEARLY is UNDER-EDUCATED...
She funnier than he is && he the "comedian" 💀😭😭
This brotha is something else...
She so mature, it's refreshing to hear about her not having social media especially so young. It shows she has the ability to focus on herself her children entirely. 👌🏾
Her life’s not over. She’s still young. It may be a little bit harder but it’s definitely doable. I’m proud of her for standing her ground and leaving this joker behind!!
Shes beautiful and smart. I wish her nothing but success. I hope she always has a reason to smile ❤️
Back to work after 2 weeks... I must have been too old when I had my children.
"Come get me if I get up" 😂😂😂
Let's have a drinking game. Everyone take a shot every time she says "you know"
I was waiting for this comment 😂😂😂😂
I’m gunna use up all my quarantine alcohol...
I'll be passed drunk
I'm already inebriated. And I'm 6 minutes in
Alcohol poisoning here!
I’ll be single for the rest of my life before I deal with a fool like this.
She has such a pretty smile!
She is a beautiful young woman who deserves better. I’m sorry society failed her, but in spite of it she is very intelligent, driven, and sensible. I wish her nothing but the best 🙏🏻
She wants $1200.....She want's his whole Trump Check
Jada Nichole I think it was a joke.
Ishma Pinckney 🤣🤣🤣
Ishma Pinckney 😫😫😫
I screamed 🤣😂
She has been traveling at 1 baby a year since she was 16 years old. And she can’t even drink. I need a glass of wine just taking care my cat let alone a 4 tiny helpless humans.
this boy act like that one bad ass boy in school everybody be annoyed by
20 year's old with four kids. Where are the parents at nowadays?
Cant judge her 20 with 4 kids they are her responsibilities and I dont know her upbringing but she can turn all this around and give them better than she had ..with a more mature man....enjoy being young while you can
@Cam Foxx they gone have to be alot older than her that would be too much pressure on another 20 year old
Such a pretty young girl. Where is her Mama? His mama? A grandma or auntie? They need help!
This young lady is beautiful. Beautiful spirit, well spoken when not flustered. Go forth and be successful sweetheart. May your children be your daily motivation to be a success and an in turn be an inspiration to them.
20 with 4 kids ! Why does this generation think it’s a game now to have children, I’m 25 with no kids , enjoy your 20’s go to school ! I’m so glad I have old school parents, get married 1st
KiddRogers exactly
I’m old-school too, I’m 24 with no kids.
Tayler Buster yes girl , all my friends hav kids, & they can’t always get up & go like me. 🙄🙄
I have 4 kids but I'm 34 years old!! 4 kids at 20 to me is crazy!! Glad they broke up because she can do so much better! Unfortunately he's probably going to go out and have even more kids with a bunch of other woman. More kids that he doesn't take care of. So sad.
She’s 20s got 2 kids with him and 1 on the way. How old was she with her 1st kid and where’s that kids father
10 😂😂😂
NO.
She had...
*1 kid prior to him.
Then she had...
*2 kids with him.
NOW..
She is pregnant with her..
*4TH child by him.
4 KIDS by 20yrs old is INSANE....
CALIFORNIA GODDESS that’s exactly what I said
You can't reward a person this immature with children and then expect them to change.
"You know, you know " No you DON'T know!
She said “you know...” 35 times while explaining why she got 4 kids at 20....
I'm a math teacher and I lost count so early on that I missed what she was trying to say.
@@4everThoughtful 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@4everThoughtful Hmmmmm, can't blame you!!!!
@@4everThoughtful 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
BREEDING LIKE AN ANIMAL, THANK GOD SHE IS DECIDING TO TIE THEM THINGS UP YOUNG LADY I AM PROUD OF YOU !!!!
Dwahn Denson him too!
the joke of a boy should be castrated too.
@@spimentel562 😂😂 castration is a little extreme
Now what if she meets the right one ☝️
@@jazhoney8519 She's had enough children for a lifetime!!!!
she was failed by her parents
They failed her completely
Miserably
If she had them💔💔 she seems like the kind that had to mature quickly
4 kids by what appears to be a bum and getting her tubes tied..... the biggest thing that can help young ladies is birth control
And this dude complaining about giving her 200 a month for a 6 month.... w t f
Good to her, this is horrible.
She has sense enough to know its time to move on now and do what's best for her and her kids
Both of them are very pleasant and likeable. They both made the judge laugh and smile a lot. 👌🏾
brishaberries0101 what video you were watching ? They almost gave her a heart attack 🤦🏾♂️
He's lazy and immature.
@J Peavy that's fine
He is very immature which can harm their union and what they are trying to build.
Such a waste. This girl will get through. I am praying for her.
She would do better by herself it's not like he's helping. She needs to drop him.
He had a great woman. He's about to learn how these streets don't love nobody. He's gonna miss coming home to her and those children. Oh well! You go girl! I wish you and your babies the best!❤️
21 with 4 children?!?! How? Make it make sense!
Nobody:
Jurney: cuz like you know because you know how it is I mean yeah because you know
😂😂😂😂😂
THE CELL PHONE TELL EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE DOING!
So the majority of their relationship, she was pregnant. I want to shake him smh🤦🏽♀️ he remind me of soulja boy on marriage bootcamp. Everything was funny to him and he was oblivious of his behavior and how it affected her.
This her second baby daddy she know whats up. She is selffish and manipulator. She has more sense then him but she is full of shit. don't trust her.
Twenty is not for kids, it's for college, traveling and girlfriends.
" You know" "you know" "you know" "you know" ....you didn't KNOW y'all were too young to be having so many damn kids and y'all ain't financially stable????? Steups.
NO I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS. I WORK I GO TO SCHOOL I HAVE MY OWN HOUSE. IM IN COLLEGE SOON TO BE A CARDIOLOGIST. I THANK YOU GUYS FOR CONCERNS BUT IM JUST FINE.
@@jurneysjourney4651 👏👏👏 #Congratulations.
@@jurneysjourney4651 Happy Early Mother's Day to you too!!!
I am STILL suspicious of that PhD at 20, especially with 4 children & little support. I hope you have filed for child support on BOTH your babies' fathers. Good luck on getting to, and completing, medical school to become a cardiologist.
Laureen Williams as of now I’m going for Cardiovascular sonography from this point on I’m working my way up , so don’t be “suspicious “
Judging by his character, she's going to end up a single mother and I really hope that she's preparing herself to take care of her kids on her own because yeah, she's doing it all by herself now anyway. Bless her.
I see a lot of people coming down on this young lady and basically saying her life is done, because she has 4 children at a young age.
I had 4 by 20, and although it may not have seemed like a good decision to many, it was a life saver and game changer for me. I loved being a mom, there was nothing I couldn't do knowing I had those little people relying on me and i was determined to be the best for them. I never complained about being a mom, working everyday, cooking, cleaning, etc.
They are all adults now, I have 4 diplomas and 1 degree to brag about and they are awesome, productive individuals.
She can do great things and it looks like she wants to.
Oh and BTW, I have an awesome career, and having children young didn't stop me from working hard to achieve it.
Wonderful for you!!!
I love love judge Lynn I learn so much jus watching her show .... she so real ...
They’re actually really funny together however, both of them are extremely young minded! They need to grow...apart!
she's so beautiful I wish her the best
Grown chil'ren playing house...SMH!!!
She is really pretty!! 😍
Yeah something about her is intriguing
This is sad, I think I will skip this one!
You're pretty.
He don't want to work, then say she don't have to work. Who do you think supposed to support y'all kids sir? Girl move on. A broken home is not ideal but you have your whole life ahead of you and he's entirely too childish.
She said he hitting females with the Xscape pickup line..
"WhoCanIRunTo??!?" 😂
😮😮😂😂
FATHERS! If you want YOUR CHILDREN to end up like this so young.......continue to not be there for them.
Y’all comments are just rude. She gets the picture. Y’all should be uplifting!
These 20 yr olds having 2 and 3 kids just getting out of their teenage yrs. They don't even know what it is like to be adults now they are taking care of children
Its hard to feel bad for her when she walks in the court with another child on the way by this goofy bum.
Judge Toler said come get me if i get up...
Send him to the Army he might be alittle different after discharge. I know he gonna read this because his loves social media but its for your own good. 😈
I have faith that she can go on to further her education and have a happy, healthy life with her and her children. She needs to leave the dating scene ALONE for a long while. There are 4 people in her life that need her undivided attention. I wish her all the best 😔
This is crazy, 4 kids is a lot for a 20 year old, I truly hope she is fine and she will make it
I had 4 kids at the age of 20. I’m now 40yrs old. I have 3 boys 1 girl. All 4 of them graduated high school my daughter Graduated early w/honors. My oldest is in college on a basketball scholarship. They all have their own apartments including my 20yr old and he’s the youngest. They all have cars and good jobs. Not one of them have ever been to Jail and they barely ask me for anything. I’m proud of my kids. Although I had them at a young age I wouldn’t change one thing about it. I’m 40 and fabulous no small kids at home. Me and their father is living our best life. Taking trips a running our business. It’s never to late to change your circumstances. She’s young and has a lot of life to live. Don’t count her out just yet!
Dang these people are my age with 4 kids and so many issues. I’m 23 still trying to get a decent job and get my own spot😓. I couldn’t imagine that stress. & this guy just seems immature and goofy lmao thinks everything funny. He acts like I did my senior year
I'm trying to ensure my daughters don't end up like this. This is just sad.
This guy is immature and doesn't know what he wants. The is even too mature and responsible for her age. Happy she is schooling and ambitious.
So what if the woman is working and the man isn’t???? Heavens knows millions of men have worked and the women haven’t..
If he just lost his job it’s not like you can expect him to have another job within 24 hours, that’s not a realistic expectation
If we didn’t know NOW we know I swear shorty we know!!!!!!
Watching this makes me wanna broaden my vocabulary
Why do people wanna even put themselves in a position to have even ONE KID at 20?? 20 is for having the time of your life, growing into your adulthood gradually and experiencing life. It isn't for raising a family 🤦🏾♀️🙄. I give her props for at least working and trying to raise her kids right, but both of them knew better than to be reckless like that.
Less than a minute in and I'm screaming CONTROL YOUR FERTILITY
:20 seconds in....where are her parents?!!!