Stop People Pleasing: Have The Courage To Stand Up For Yourself (Subliminal Messages)

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  • Опубліковано 10 бер 2019
  • People-pleasing is the constant urge to put others first, usually, at your expense. It's time to stop being a people pleaser and develop the ability to prioritize your needs without feeling guilty. Feel more comfortable saying “no” and staying true to yourself.
    Gradually, the anxiety that arises every time you choose to live for yourself, instead of constantly caretaking for the needs of other grownups (a job that is not yours anyway), will dissipate. People-pleasing is a psychologically learned behavior and can be stopped.
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    The affirmations ('you' and 'I' statements)
    I respect my needs
    I feel comfortable taking care of my needs first
    I have a right to take care of my needs first
    It is safe for me to take care of my needs first
    I am important; I matter; I am valuable
    I survive and thrive when I put my needs first
    I survive and thrive when I stay true to myself and my needs
    I feel comfortable staying true to myself and my needs
    I am joyfully letting go of pleasing others
    I am choosing to put myself first and feel absolutely ok with it
    I feel good about myself, even if others stop liking me
    I feel good about myself, even if others disapprove of me
    My feeling of worthiness is independent of others’ approval
    I am a worthy person, even if others disapprove of me
    My needs, feelings, and opinions are valid
    I have a right to stay true to my needs and values
    I joyfully break free of pleasing other people
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    Each recording on this channel contains different affirmations that match the subject of the specific video. All of the embedded hidden affirmations and most of the brainwave entrainment are created uniquely by me.
    *What are subliminal messages? These are hidden commands that are perceived by our minds, below our level of awareness. Meaning, we process them, but without being aware of doing so.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 119

  • @Sandra-luv-bug
    @Sandra-luv-bug 9 місяців тому +31

    I’ve gotten to the point where I’m tired of being controlled, manipulated, and bullied by people (especially family members, coworkers and men) I’m tired of being “the nice one” I’m not going to be treated like a doormat anymore and apologize for something that isn’t my fault

    • @patriciamilligan8943
      @patriciamilligan8943 6 місяців тому

      I'm tired of my adult children dismissing everything about me to be there without fail or excuse because they don't REALLY WANT TO BE RESPONSIBLE ADULTS! I want to move far away so they will be forced to grow up! They show me no affection and don't acknowledge me on mother's day or bdays but here comes me giving an eff about everyone else's feelings and I'm FED UP

  • @aratag.9380
    @aratag.9380 Рік тому +47

    I realized that my need to give and do for people, being overly nice to people, etc "people pleasing " just comes from an underlining issue. . . "Self-rejection". And I'm so f.cking over it, at this point in my life I just wanna love myself completely and put myself first everytime. I deserve that. ❤

    • @Cheptabgaa
      @Cheptabgaa Рік тому +1

    • @nevershoutevee
      @nevershoutevee Рік тому +2

      Wow. This is absolutely mindblowing. Thank you 💖🫶🏻

    • @fransantelli
      @fransantelli 2 місяці тому

      you do deserve that!! i hope you are loving yourself and having a beautiful life. 🙏🙏💗💗

  • @carolporter7094
    @carolporter7094 Рік тому +54

    I go out of my way to do things and put others first and I just want to be able love myself.

    • @happypeople8358
      @happypeople8358 Рік тому +4

      Yes when you find out let me know! Same

    • @cindyrobertson3780
      @cindyrobertson3780 Рік тому +1

      I feel like I've got to please my mom by doing my diet for her. I feel like I'm not getting anywhere like that

    • @Cheptabgaa
      @Cheptabgaa Рік тому +2

      Me too ! I'm so ready to make a shift with this people pleasing ! It's costed me so much 😢

  • @annesilvah7982
    @annesilvah7982 9 місяців тому +11

    I'm 42 years old and I've spent almost my entire life frustrated with pleasing toxic people... but I acted that way without really meaning to... this audio came at the right time for me. gratitude!

    • @lucianahurduc9383
      @lucianahurduc9383 2 місяці тому +1

      Same age, know what u mean 😓; therapy is an eye opener

  • @ajkash3867
    @ajkash3867 Рік тому +10

    Lisented to this overnight and I don’t feel like pleasing anyone but myself today😂 and my birds of course hehe. Bird momma

  • @cryptotradersbitcoin8183
    @cryptotradersbitcoin8183 4 роки тому +56

    It is great to care for others, but if you do it too much then you become weaker everytime and then you can not help anyone anymore but yourself. Take a few steps back, digest the problems you took on you, then after you can continue to do what you love to do the most.

    • @happypeople8358
      @happypeople8358 Рік тому +1

      ME. Please allow me to STOP helping others. It has made me no strong and people continue to come after. How do you release people pleasing in a weird controlled society. When you find out please let me know I need it. I did it my whole life but it has now taken its official toll on my wellbeing mental health and I took on too much that I could withstand or bare. Ugh dear.

  • @bkswanson2461
    @bkswanson2461 5 років тому +127

    Being an empath by nature, this is so important, very grateful indeed!! xxx

    • @sparklegirl7544
      @sparklegirl7544 5 років тому +10

      I hear ya... me as well! This video is a beautiful reminder that all of us are worthy and valuable, created in the image and likeness of God and dearly beloved! Many blessings to you and everyone else as we learn to take better care of ourselves and then will be able to be there for others in a more beautiful way!!!

    • @user-qv4fq3lu2z
      @user-qv4fq3lu2z 3 роки тому +5

      @Justin Wilhite I just realized I'm an empath. I never thought I was one. But I just read about them.
      Before knowing what was wrong with me, I thought I was just weak and too sensitive, everybody told me I was too girly or weak. Because I actually cared about what others feel. But now I realize I didn't just care about their feelings, I felt their feelings. That's why I'm so sensitive. Now it makes sense. I don't know if this is a curse or a blessing. But I have to learn to stop people pleasing and be confortable with myself. I have a lot of self doubt that consumes me inside.

    • @natandettori2190
      @natandettori2190 3 роки тому +1

      Nobody is an empath by nature, you can be empathic with people but listening to your needs, being empathic without listening to your needs its not a natural state

    • @61subsandnovideos
      @61subsandnovideos 3 роки тому +1

      @@natandettori2190 hello friends, right above me are comments from bots that take you to a website that could possibly get your ip address. do not fall for it.

    • @finnleymicah1040
      @finnleymicah1040 2 роки тому +1

      i know it's kinda randomly asking but do anyone know of a good site to stream new movies online ?

  • @61subsandnovideos
    @61subsandnovideos 3 роки тому +16

    10 minutes go by so quickly when I listen to this. The closest thing we have to peace are subliminals like this.

  • @NicsElectronics
    @NicsElectronics 4 роки тому +123

    I've let so much abuse take place with my family. Just recently told them off and want to keep the ball rolling lol

    • @mskrisemilie
      @mskrisemilie 3 роки тому +9

      me too with my family. i cut them off but feel guilty. i hope you are keeping it rolling!

    • @donnypankonin1782
      @donnypankonin1782 3 роки тому +15

      There came a time in my life where I was so misjudged and misunderstood that I realized as long as I can count on me in staying strong that it's all I'll ever need. And it's so true because the only one who can truly know you is yourself because you're the one who fits the shoes and experiences it. Like Andy biersack says. They dont need to understand. You just have to know it in your heart

    • @FreeFromWithin
      @FreeFromWithin 3 роки тому +1

      Yo did this help?

    • @damianszymanski5301
      @damianszymanski5301 3 роки тому +4

      All the power to you and anyone else who might be reading this

    • @rickkytoohott5749
      @rickkytoohott5749 2 роки тому

      That nth we fight an shiii telling them off ain’t shiii pussy ass shiii

  • @user-if9lf7uc9w
    @user-if9lf7uc9w 6 місяців тому +2

    I learned to fawn for people who were not even good themselves

  • @essencesofgaia7491
    @essencesofgaia7491 2 місяці тому +2

    Aint no one gonna mess with us anymore 🥰🔥

  • @dodongai
    @dodongai 3 роки тому +10

    I cared so much for people who don’t give two shits about me, fuck that

  • @michellebarber2178
    @michellebarber2178 4 роки тому +28

    Thank you. Yes, this is my truth. I send out to all now for immediate shift in perspectives and awareness. The truth is We are fearless limitless free all forms all ways and addiction free now bc we are in complete control of ourselves now. I surrender accept and allow my true self to completely purely emerge permanently now. Done.

  • @tonirichards7559
    @tonirichards7559 2 роки тому +6

    I need to stop this.i feel bad,after I say yes.thank you for this

  • @magnacary
    @magnacary Рік тому +7

    I am using this to protect me and give me what I need to stand uo to. my abuser

  • @ismail5505
    @ismail5505 5 років тому +65

    I noticed I wasn't paying attention as much to others after listening to this audio.

    • @brianmartin2049
      @brianmartin2049 3 роки тому +2

      Same here

    • @FreeFromWithin
      @FreeFromWithin 3 роки тому +1

      How are you doing now can you tell the effects?

    • @ismail5505
      @ismail5505 3 роки тому +13

      @@FreeFromWithinYeah it helps if you are a pleaser. Also listen to Letting go of the need for validation and also the set boundaries. They are really good

    • @brianmartin2049
      @brianmartin2049 3 роки тому +3

      This shit works bro 💯 100 percent. The more consistent you are the better.

    • @61subsandnovideos
      @61subsandnovideos 3 роки тому

      @@FreeFromWithin Yes it's very good, I've learned to stand up for myself because of this and a playlist I made.

  • @amberyaa
    @amberyaa Рік тому +12

    Honestly I need to be for myself first. Put yourself first. Cuz nobody will, and should not either, it's my responsibility. 🙉

  • @brighteyes33
    @brighteyes33 8 місяців тому +4

    I pray that God gives you all the blessings that you deserve. You are helping humanity at core level . These videos can save us therapy costs,toxic relationships,literally capable to turn yourself into a brand new person because we have all been programmed since birth. And what a gift you are to me! How can i support your work?

  • @Nicole_Zyon
    @Nicole_Zyon 4 роки тому +45

    I have a constant need to heal others; especially those closest to me, which I've realised goes hand in hand with people pleasing. Deep down I know that it is not my responsibility yet the deeply rooted habit has been proving stronger than my knowing. I am grateful for this subliminal much needed. 🙌🏽🙏🏽Thank you

    • @samatashah
      @samatashah 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you for speaking on behalf of me. Thank you Vortex success

    • @jacalyntaylor6721
      @jacalyntaylor6721 3 роки тому

      Me 2.

    • @happypeople8358
      @happypeople8358 Рік тому +3

      Yes, be very very careful that you don't ruin yourself. But whatever healing you have given out, and the lives you have touched and saved, will always come back to you! It's a very wonderful subliminal I agree and one I too have much needed.

  • @gabby14lov70
    @gabby14lov70 3 роки тому +7

    I put this on speaker so my mom can hear

  • @klscriviner
    @klscriviner Рік тому +3

    Youve got to stand up to yourself and not let them win. You have a mind of your own too dont fall in their trap get out of it they are not worth it. Thinking of you xx

  • @SonicWolfhard
    @SonicWolfhard 4 роки тому +15

    I was caring to much! Thank you for this video!

  • @carolporter7094
    @carolporter7094 Рік тому +4

    For me it’s just no Contact, it’s not even worth “telling them off”. They’ll lie anyway so I’m not going to worry about it. I won’t waste my energy I live with a narcissist and that’s harder than anything ever. Also my Sister is a narc so it’s really tough. I hd friends that did terrible things to me not caring about the outcomes. I’ve left them too so I’m looking for better people to be with.

  • @robynevans1287
    @robynevans1287 5 років тому +10

    *THANK YOU!* for creating & sharing this with us all! 💖 💖 💖 This will be sooo supportive for me & for any who choose to listen! I sincerely appreciate *YOU!* ...& all that you do to assist others! I hope you can FEEL all the *LOVE & APPRECIATION* flowing straight to you!!! 🤗💖

  • @cutiepie0330
    @cutiepie0330 2 роки тому +7

    GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS!! IVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS FOR YEARS!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

    • @VortexSuccess
      @VortexSuccess  2 роки тому +2

      You're welcome! I hope you make the most of it.

    • @happypeople8358
      @happypeople8358 Рік тому +2

      It really is amazing! Many needed this and are so grateful. You can truly feel and sense your genuine gratefulness,.

  • @Sofia.K.CheerYT
    @Sofia.K.CheerYT 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm slowly realising that there are times I wrongfully believe I like someone, and it's just empathetic appeasing towards them. Worst part is they seem to realise it before I do 😂

    • @goddesschess
      @goddesschess 2 місяці тому

      I loved that for me 😂😂😂 such a tease 😜 and it makes them fall in love now I get why they are so obsessed 😂

  • @harshshah1860
    @harshshah1860 5 років тому +9

    528 hz with subliminals! That's awesome! Thank you so much! 💜

  • @dodongai
    @dodongai 3 роки тому +9

    Honestly sick and tired of always being there for people, that’s the old me, now I’m choosing to be a fucking bitch and that’s that

    • @amberyaa
      @amberyaa Рік тому

      Join to the bitch club. 💯💅

  • @bubbletea4912
    @bubbletea4912 3 роки тому +5

    You’re amazing, I’m so thankful for you ❤️

  • @LittleBird888
    @LittleBird888 4 роки тому +5

    Much needed! Thank you! ❤️

  • @tylerpayne4568
    @tylerpayne4568 5 років тому +3

    thank you for uploading this amazing video!!!

  • @AndWeHaveRisen
    @AndWeHaveRisen 3 роки тому +2

    Wow, thank you so so much for this.. I need this, I could actually cry...

  • @wendyleora4533
    @wendyleora4533 5 років тому +23

    Thank you and Bless You for creating this beautiful subliminal meditation. Perfect perfect timing for me. I am so grateful and already feel more relaxed, empowered and good about myself after just listening for a few minutes.

  • @christineadhiambo3187
    @christineadhiambo3187 5 років тому +5

    Thank you so much n stay blessed dear

  • @heidijay5902
    @heidijay5902 5 років тому +27

    This is gold, thank you so much!

  • @kathylynch2086
    @kathylynch2086 11 днів тому

    Thanks❤

  • @Jaysonsphotography
    @Jaysonsphotography 5 років тому +5

    Thank you!!!

  • @shirleyakpelu1831
    @shirleyakpelu1831 5 років тому +9

    Beautiful scenery!

  • @archeiaangela3472
    @archeiaangela3472 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤ Thank You So Much For This Audio! Blessings & Love To You & Yours! ❤❤❤

  • @asiaj1
    @asiaj1 3 роки тому +2

    This is so beautiful that I could cry. Thank you

  • @earthis4poorpeople111
    @earthis4poorpeople111 3 роки тому +3

    It works

  • @asraadnan3693
    @asraadnan3693 Рік тому

    Thank you 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @user-if9lf7uc9w
    @user-if9lf7uc9w 6 місяців тому

    I fight for me, so I will never bleed like this, again..

  • @pwetty4r4
    @pwetty4r4 2 роки тому +6

    Trying to get the courage to tell my roommate to shut the f up 😅😅

  • @YuriTartedd
    @YuriTartedd 2 роки тому

    Danke

  • @ellenwalker4377
    @ellenwalker4377 3 роки тому

    pleasing pleasing.

  • @blissfullyfree8536
    @blissfullyfree8536 5 років тому +10

    I have been sleeping a lot more lately since I’ve completed this audio. Is this normal?

    • @sparklegirl7544
      @sparklegirl7544 5 років тому +9

      Maybe you need some deep healing and your body is healing while you sleep? Soo...just enjoy it, girlfriend! Much love...

  • @Abbyxo-lv3wi
    @Abbyxo-lv3wi 5 місяців тому

    I have a roommate who doesn’t clean up after herself and expects me to do it she comes back thinking it’s me and I was cleaning up after her for a while but I stopped and the one time i left a mess she says something. Like you see what happens when you stay quiet, people put their expectations and price on you. I wish from the jump I would’ve nipped tht shi

  • @ljmk22
    @ljmk22 Рік тому +1

    Can you remake this with different music options preferably Not piano/keyboard??? Like just rain or or similar music but again no jarring piano note strikes

  • @DrPat-mx9nn
    @DrPat-mx9nn Рік тому

    How does this work?

  • @merabbram5688
    @merabbram5688 Рік тому

    How does this music help breaks the patterns?

  • @blvarin
    @blvarin 2 роки тому

    Anyone knows if 528hz frequency actually stops after 1h of the vid ?

  • @SHIMASABA268
    @SHIMASABA268 3 роки тому

    Is there a shorter version of this?

    • @61subsandnovideos
      @61subsandnovideos 3 роки тому +1

      You can listen to this for 10 minutes or even shorter, it'll still be effective. All affirmations are repeated anyways.

  • @king-nick2023
    @king-nick2023 5 років тому +2

    How long should someone listen to these?

    • @craig3567
      @craig3567 4 роки тому +1

      How long in duration, or how frequently should someone listen to this video? It all depends on one's individual, personal objective. So, more for some, and less for others. What are your listening habits?

  • @jjhuffstutler338
    @jjhuffstutler338 Рік тому

    I do this and it really hurts my chances with the women

  • @bobjohnny206
    @bobjohnny206 3 роки тому +1

    Can I listen to this while I sleep?

  • @Dominik7T
    @Dominik7T 5 років тому +4

    English is not my first language. Will it still work for me?

    • @Dominik7T
      @Dominik7T 3 роки тому

      @@craig3567 i can switch to english thinking without translating words, because i understand them.

    • @natandettori2190
      @natandettori2190 3 роки тому

      @@craig3567 he can speak he is doing it dont you see?

  • @raymanavichdemonslayer5929
    @raymanavichdemonslayer5929 5 років тому +3

    What will one listening do to me?

  • @sangeetayadav831
    @sangeetayadav831 3 роки тому

    1

  • @S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier
    @S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier 3 роки тому

    Title typo ;-)

  • @maxwellswanson9657
    @maxwellswanson9657 3 роки тому

    i think this is supposed to say "stop people pleasing" Edith ^_=)!

    • @VortexSuccess
      @VortexSuccess  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you Maxwell.

    • @maxwellswanson9657
      @maxwellswanson9657 3 роки тому

      @@VortexSuccess Yeah Thanks For All Your Work Edith!!! I Still Share Your Stuff with Ppl Everyday Almost haha XD! Some saying Muchos Gracias as well! Wow i can't believe how cool Mexico City is.... 700+ years of culture... trees are huge. 80-100 ft PALM trees XD! 9000 ft elevation, world's Best Kept Secret XD?

  • @PapaJohnConstant-ph9vf
    @PapaJohnConstant-ph9vf 6 місяців тому

    👐💗🌈😇🌹✌

  • @sarahwatkinson9953
    @sarahwatkinson9953 3 роки тому

    It's just music

    • @61subsandnovideos
      @61subsandnovideos 3 роки тому +8

      the messages are hidden beneath it. I suggest to do your research on subliminal audios since they've really improved my life.