Super interesting, and love the specific example. As an INFJ, I feel like my identity is most tied up in my co-pilot (Fe), so that is where I most crave validation (but maybe Im just more aware of that need). I do notice that in moments of conflict, I tend to *argue* via my tertiary (Ti) ... with far less productive results than I think I should be getting from the airtight logic I'm deploying
I think the most powerful word to learn is "projection" and knowing that people can project onto others any of their functions including their 3rd function. So in the scenario Joel doesnt understand Antonia because he is projecting his Te onto A assuming she thinks like him and A is projecting her Fe onto J thinking he thinks like her. ANY conflict or time I get triggered now my first question is what am I projecting onto the outside world and what am I projecting about myself onto others.
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Super interesting, and love the specific example. As an INFJ, I feel like my identity is most tied up in my co-pilot (Fe), so that is where I most crave validation (but maybe Im just more aware of that need). I do notice that in moments of conflict, I tend to *argue* via my tertiary (Ti) ... with far less productive results than I think I should be getting from the airtight logic I'm deploying
I think the most powerful word to learn is "projection" and knowing that people can project onto others any of their functions including their 3rd function. So in the scenario Joel doesnt understand Antonia because he is projecting his Te onto A assuming she thinks like him and A is projecting her Fe onto J thinking he thinks like her. ANY conflict or time I get triggered now my first question is what am I projecting onto the outside world and what am I projecting about myself onto others.