The truth about true love

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  • Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
  • According to a CBS News poll, 86% of Americans say true love is real; two-thirds say they have experienced it themselves. Correspondent Susan Spencer talks with romance novelist Tia Williams, "Moonstruck" screenwriter John Patrick Shanley, National Geographic photographer Jodi Cobb, and psychology professor Arthur Aron about the reality and stages of love (lust, romantic obsession, and attachment), and how to keep love alive.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 93

  • @kittychatalot
    @kittychatalot 2 роки тому +19

    I knew my husband was my soul mate 40 minutes into our first date, because most importantly, I knew myself fully.

  • @JerjerB
    @JerjerB 2 роки тому +50

    "I'm at the gas-station, do you want anything?" IS MY IDEA OF TRUE LOVE!!!

    • @lizannewhitlow1085
      @lizannewhitlow1085 2 роки тому

      Just don’t ask for the nachos. #Chubbyemu.

    • @washurhands5079
      @washurhands5079 2 роки тому

      @@lizannewhitlow1085 omg I was gonna say some nachos please

  • @yvettemarshallTWN
    @yvettemarshallTWN 2 роки тому +11

    I like the part where the researcher lady says “love doesn’t care whether I believe in it or not! It’s like gravity-it just is”. And I add, it undoubtedly makes its presence known between you and your sweetheart of your soul. 💕 Adventure awaits!

  • @crystalmasters8582
    @crystalmasters8582 2 роки тому +6

    13 years in ..still obsessed with each other 💜

  • @joseh3564
    @joseh3564 2 роки тому +10

    Love is about commitment to being a family, and each putting the other before themselves. It's spiritual, and the world alone will never understand it.

  • @makeracistsafraidagain
    @makeracistsafraidagain 2 роки тому +21

    In 1980 I called my mom and said I was bringing my new girlfriend from college home for Christmas. I told her that my love is from Thailand and doesn't didn't speak much English.
    She said "that's nice, dear".
    The last thing my mom told me on her deathbed, 40 years later, was to never divorce this wonderful woman.
    There's no chance of that happening.

    • @lewstone5430
      @lewstone5430 2 роки тому +6

      You’re fortunate my man.

    • @jkstubbington
      @jkstubbington 2 роки тому +2

      So so precious. Thank you for sharing. Many blessings to you and your forever love.

  • @heinz_fiction
    @heinz_fiction 2 роки тому +12

    20 children is not a sign for attachment, it's a lack of condoms.

  • @Mr2tooCool4U
    @Mr2tooCool4U 2 роки тому +8

    True love is sorta like happiness: the person that wakes up and believes their day will be good, that life is a blessing is correct but so is the person that wakes up and believes that it's going to be a terrible day and that their life is cursed...both are absolutely right but it's the perspective/belief we choose to have that makes ALL the difference in our lives.

    • @Afrimusican
      @Afrimusican 2 роки тому +1

      “What is happiness? It's a moment before you need more happiness.” -Don Draper

  • @SeanOHanlon
    @SeanOHanlon 2 роки тому +3

    They should have interviewed Bill O'Hanlon. He wrote a great book about it: 'Love Is A Verb' ❤️

  • @johnlewis195
    @johnlewis195 2 роки тому +3

    My true love died when my Husband went to Paradise... I miss u so much Baby RIP

  • @honeybunnyxx1
    @honeybunnyxx1 2 роки тому +4

    I’ve experienced true love… if I die I know that I’ve loved and I am so grateful to have experienced it in my life.

  • @semipenguin
    @semipenguin 2 роки тому +8

    Like Shania Twain says, Love Gets Me Every Time.

  • @johnjohnson3709
    @johnjohnson3709 2 роки тому +3

    No matter what is said about it, it’s a state of mind.

  • @cefcat5733
    @cefcat5733 2 роки тому +4

    A guy who thinks that Love blooms and dies can't get along with someone who thinks that Love blooms, grows and blooms again and again. 😞💕💙

  • @KimbradleyMasterGardener
    @KimbradleyMasterGardener 2 роки тому +2

    There are many that will beat your brains out while professing their "Love"...
    Love is very tricky.

  • @frosting6439
    @frosting6439 2 роки тому +12

    It’s rare to find a man that wants love or is looking for love. Women want love. Men only want something when they get too old and need someone to take care of them like a nurse

    • @emersons6896
      @emersons6896 2 роки тому +8

      Nice generalization. I’m a man and I want love so I’m working on myself, my insecurities and trying to get a job and career that doesn’t make me depressed. I’ve been in love a few times, the lasting relationship part is still challenging for me

    • @emersons6896
      @emersons6896 2 роки тому

      As a man I don’t feel encouraged to want love. I feel more encouraged by biology and society to stay in lust and keep looking for the “next best” woman. I feel love gets a bad rap. I mean i feel our existences is hugely based on and formed by Love. I think everyone wants love but it’s not easy or super rational so we get emotional from the facts we can’t completely control when and how it will look and happen. Also are we taught love in school, in society. Is the focus of the world on love?

  • @sunneskye9854
    @sunneskye9854 2 роки тому +2

    Love is Undefined, within the moments & passage of Time.....It is in a moment - Time; is UNIVERSIL; has ITS OWN UNIQUENESS WITHIN RYTHYM & RHYME.....

  • @Bluesbabesrv
    @Bluesbabesrv 2 роки тому +3

    To quote Meat Loaf, “two out of three ain’t bad”.

  • @liliherndz5792
    @liliherndz5792 2 роки тому

    VERY NICE …LOVES MAKES the WORLD 🌎 SPIN ..AROUND & AROUND 🕊💌🕊

  • @Eveningbreeze721
    @Eveningbreeze721 Рік тому

    My marriage isn't a lot of work really. I never understand when people say that.

  • @LR-mh8hs
    @LR-mh8hs 2 роки тому +1

    "In love", like lust, is not real love. It's ephemeral. Real love does not end.

  • @champflowahbomb7630
    @champflowahbomb7630 2 роки тому +2

    I think men struggle with it more because they are not taught to go beyond the physical. Soul recognition is hard for them.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 2 роки тому

      UGHH. Stop entertaining yourself with mean generalizations of strangers.

  • @AiraCamille
    @AiraCamille 2 роки тому

    Attachment or dependency I must say, once you established your goals and aligned everything with another person's mind,heart and soul. You both depend on each other but love is a feeling, love cannot put food in the table, I experienced this although I love him but when the stomach is starving. There are more important than being in love. Past forward to now, I can sacrifice love in exchange of partnership and security. True love really exist with my ex but he was the one that got away he is now married and have kids even though we wanted each other again but it's not anymore possible. I know to myself he loves me more than his wife, I can get him once again if I wanted to but It's my choice not to. Better to move on and love yourself and my daughter that's true love for me.

  • @winter8646
    @winter8646 2 роки тому

    for someone who has never dated, so many love videos are just popping up. I don’t know how to feel at this point 😅🙄

  • @AguilarEstela
    @AguilarEstela 2 роки тому +1

    I wouldn't describe "true love" as an "attachment" that sounds cold and mechanical. I would describe it more as a mutual, soul diving recognition between two people. Sometimes it takes time to discover and recognize those in depth things, but if we are lucky to know something is there, and it's for us...it turns into a date that never ends. ❤❤❤
    When I first hugged my husband, I KNEW from that very moment, my life had changed.🎆🎇✨

  • @btrdangerdan2010
    @btrdangerdan2010 2 роки тому

    I'm a very apathetic man sometimes so I can't tell you what love is to me to interpret for you.

  • @jones2277
    @jones2277 2 роки тому +1

    i no longer believe in true love.

  • @joseh3564
    @joseh3564 2 роки тому +1

    If you want real understanding, look for Dietrich Von Hildebrand's books on marriage.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 2 роки тому +1

      Better might be to be more present and attentive in your own relationship, less distracted by others' generalizations on romantic love.

  • @lizannewhitlow1085
    @lizannewhitlow1085 2 роки тому

    Shucks. ♥️🥰☺️

  • @lnlywriter9618
    @lnlywriter9618 2 роки тому

    There is no such thing as love much less true love.

  • @RoelCandaeleARTISTSPAGE
    @RoelCandaeleARTISTSPAGE 2 роки тому +1

    😘💓

  • @rabietola6708
    @rabietola6708 2 роки тому +2

    Hello

  • @michaelvaladez6570
    @michaelvaladez6570 2 роки тому +1

    As the 🎵 song sings LOVE ❤ STINKS.!!!

    • @lewstone5430
      @lewstone5430 2 роки тому

      Black kitty jaded??

    • @emersons6896
      @emersons6896 2 роки тому

      Lol love takes work. Society makes us tired of work 😭

    • @michaelvaladez6570
      @michaelvaladez6570 2 роки тому

      I've been around the 🚫. Love is for the young period. If you want belive in all those love songs your entitled to it just look beforehand when that last step is a cliff while whistling I believe in love ,I believe in miracles...

  • @annescholl420
    @annescholl420 2 роки тому +6

    When you put God in the middle of your marriage and you work at it every day, your relationships will grow into something beautiful! “A giant thread runs throughout the scriptures comparing God’s relationships to his people with the institution of marriage.” “As a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will your God rejoice over you.” Isaiah 62:5b
    Love never fails….

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 2 роки тому

      List of top ten States with the highest divorce rate is dominated by Bible Belt States.

  • @phatato
    @phatato 2 роки тому

    That family in Ohio is RIDICULOUS who has that many children unless it's 1704 and like Half of them die before the age of five

  • @jamesbyars9837
    @jamesbyars9837 2 роки тому +2

    Any pictures of Hillary today after the latest news

  • @FreeSpirit47
    @FreeSpirit47 2 роки тому

    Most people don't make it past lust.

    • @emersons6896
      @emersons6896 2 роки тому +1

      Many are scared to

    • @lewstone5430
      @lewstone5430 2 роки тому +1

      @Brenda B are you speaking about yourself?

    • @FreeSpirit47
      @FreeSpirit47 2 роки тому

      @@lewstone5430 No. Are you asking for yourself?

  • @StandingInMyPower
    @StandingInMyPower 2 роки тому

    TRUE LOVE IS A LIE.

  • @cefcat5733
    @cefcat5733 2 роки тому +1

    The guy who argues that 'love hurts' is himself, the cause of the hurt later.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 2 роки тому

      Not following. Are you claiming the experience of heartbreak renders one a vindictive partner in future relationships?

    • @cefcat5733
      @cefcat5733 2 роки тому

      @@hd-xc2lz no

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 2 роки тому

      @@cefcat5733 Glad to hear it.

    • @cefcat5733
      @cefcat5733 2 роки тому

      @@hd-xc2lz will spare you the long version.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 2 роки тому

      @@cefcat5733 Thanks! And have a good evening.

  • @MrSpeed-lt8gr
    @MrSpeed-lt8gr 2 роки тому +2

    The truth about true love? It doesn’t exist. Work on yourself and if you have been through a painful divorce (they’re ALL painful), get YOU back.

    • @MrSpeed-lt8gr
      @MrSpeed-lt8gr 2 роки тому

      @@theonetrueking2685 you’re right. But I’ve been through enough trauma with human beings in my life. And I’ve frankly had enough of that hurt and heartache.

  • @RaycurtakaFIDDLA
    @RaycurtakaFIDDLA 2 роки тому

    Spencer was boring

  • @elliesings9508
    @elliesings9508 2 роки тому

    " like gravity. Like climate change. It just is!" I still wonder. But...she's a "liberal" with the damn climate change. 🙄
    Jk!!!😄

  • @666Brokenman
    @666Brokenman 2 роки тому

    TRUE LOVE : for women --- Take, take, take.., give me, give me, get, get, get !!! fro men: Give it ALL... for the woman to take. Love is BS.

  • @edyann
    @edyann 2 роки тому +2

    True love does NOT exist.

    • @LG-dj9qr
      @LG-dj9qr 2 роки тому +3

      Oh dear.

    • @Bluesbabesrv
      @Bluesbabesrv 2 роки тому +4

      I beg to differ. 💕

    • @LG-dj9qr
      @LG-dj9qr 2 роки тому +2

      @@Bluesbabesrv Me too. Sadly it may be an exclusive club but it is real. I should know!

    • @goldenlion8123
      @goldenlion8123 2 роки тому +3

      FOR YOU..

    • @maritzadillingham4008
      @maritzadillingham4008 2 роки тому +4

      Oh! My ! You need a hug . Sending you a hug .