How To "Detach" from your Twin Flame 😭😼🙃🤷♀️
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The obsessive thinking is exhausting and distracting.
I just reached that point of the 'ah ha'
moment, of having to just give them total freedom, actually it happened this morning when I woke, and guess who , out of the blue,
called me wanting for me to cruise through if I wanted to. All the
heart flutter, tongue tied emotions flooded
in, all that, but, I gently turned down the invitation, even though my emotions
wanted to drop everything and run right over. It wasn't easy. A month ago I wouldn't have been that strong. Question, if he calls again, should I be go?
I've come too far to
go back to where I just came from. The sex is unbelievable. Help. LMAO. YOU JUST LOOKED STRAIGHT IN THE CAMERA, LIKE DIRECTLY IN MY EYES, AS YOU EMPHASIZED, NO
TWIN FLAME VIDEOS. ALL I HAVE BEEN DOING BEFORE
TODAY. I'M LEARNING, FINALLY
UNDERSTANDING A LITTLE BETTER. IT STILL HURTS KNOWING HE IS SEEING OTHER PEOPLE. TELL ME THE END IS GOING
BE SOMEHOW WORTH ALL THIS.
Tracey Jameson How exactly did you give them freedom? Did you actually talked to him and broke up? Or just didn’t contact him. Or is it just in the mind
It sure is
It literally gives me headaches, cause of how frustrating it is. I even beg the universe to relax my mind, and I get maybe a few moments of relief.
@@traceyjameson2297 gg
“The mind has expectations. The soul just accepts what is” 🙌💕
The simple truth.🕉❤🌟
That is exACTLy it, right?! The freedom of no expectations, coupled with knowing, is exhilarating! Almost inexplicable... ✌💙
I dont mean to be so offtopic but does anyone know of a tool to get back into an instagram account..?
I somehow lost the password. I appreciate any help you can offer me.
@Douglas Genesis instablaster ;)
Remember! looking,Stalking, talking about them and thinking about the physical person only feeds the MIND and makes it stronger,which is not who YOU are. DON’T feed the MIND! FEED the SOUL, the real YOU!😊 Hope this Helps YOU as much as this Helps ME! Thank youuuu! Thank youuuuu Kurt and Friends!❤
How to?
The obsessive thinking made me feel like a huge weirdo lol still deal with it but slowly getting better.
Kurt, its time for your BOOK. The TWIN FLAME JOURNEY, You tube is wonderful, but in 2020, let's reach for the stars!! Love you and thank you. I know that there are so many out there who you have not yet reached. think about it.
I agree ! Kurt, go for a book. Much needed in this junk jungle out there !!
we all manifested this video
Valentina Sawan Yess!!!
Yey I detached!!!! I literally don't care! 😂😂😂 I'm focused on working out and getting in shape.
Currently doing that now 🥰🥰🥰
Yeah, I also watched this and came to the realization that what the f**k. Wasn't searching for my twin flame when the spirit threw him as my future husband in meditation to me. Have been in contact with him through his professional page for years before this happened, on the opposite sides of the continent, never even seen each other in 3D.
However, he's a way longer than me on his spiritual path and the soul connection grew fast insane, but there hasn't been much of action in 3D except that he divorced from his karmic, and few months later completely out of blue confessed his love to me.
But there's been so much mixed messages, lack of communication and unequal give and take, until he blocked me when I stopped giving and started to put the boundaries up. This was something like 2 months ago and what I have learned so far the separation stage can last for years, or forever... So, what's the meaning. He's 56 and if the Divine wants an union it will create an union without that I will waste any more time on this bullshit.
I have meditated more or less regularly for some 2-3 years now, and I haven't seen it bringing anything, so what the f**k. If can't manifest by meditating, so why to meditate at all. I can detach myself completely from all this nonsense and the result will be the same.
And are you wearing a superhero top? I think you’re my TF - ha ha!
@@senwaters4459 lol silly we only have one TF... and this shirt belongs to mine. If you haven't met yours its okay. Don't look for them. If its gonna happen its gonna happen the best thing you can do is focus on raising your VIBRATION. Meditate twice a day and focus on gratitude be present . This is a Spiritual journey. Your twin is just there to trigger it. Its very painful. I'm a good student so I made it through. Trust me it wasn't easy to detach from my twin and become neutral. I had to see him with many other women and learn to let go and not mind. This person brings all your fears to life. Yet you have to learn to love them unconditionally. It sounds crazy but if you want a fairytale manifest a soulmate. I still don't know if I'm going to choose him or not. He tends to have an attitude with me and put others before me. But I'm sure he'll face his own karma. I'm really sweet and I won't let anyone turn me bitter. Right know I see him more like a child whose learning than a man who will protect me. He's still healing.
@@CrystalRocksForever it’s ok. I was joking! I’m with a soul mate, but I met my twin flame and there’s no way we’re going to reach unity this lifetime. He did help awaken me fully to our mission. We’re tackling something that’s currently gathering a lot of momentum in society and affecting the human rights of lots of people. It’s too big to get it finished in one lifetime. Our soul split because we’re working from opposing sides with the goal of eventually bringing the two views together. I think he’s aware of this. I hope I made him aware of his logical fallacies too. I have always felt the telepathic link between us and meeting him was just an extension of that. He was the one saying, ‘remember?’ About stuff we did together as kids despite being 700km apart. I still feel telepathically linked but I feel freer to devote myself to the mission. I know I’m with him in 5D but 3D is just not going to work out. It absolutely makes sense to me and it’s fine.
Oooh, like the saying goes, "If you love them, let them go. If they come back, it was meant to be." 😍❤️
I did that! And they came back!
Yeah same here but he ran again .. I literally let him go.. and he came back.. and he went again lol
For real
@@maricartan4785 then what?
@@maricartan4785 I mean what we are supposed to do?
The obsession could drive you insane if you don’t figure out what it’s happening. 😂
You know what? I think we should forget the whole thing and let those people live their life so we can live ours. I mean, for God`s sake!!!
How to “detach” from your 🔥 Twin Flame🔥 aka Detox, letting go of the need / want of the physical person: To permanently have your TF…Thanks Kurt👍 …❤️you
1) Switch the focus to the spiritual ascension aka go within, being present, vigilantly watch the mind and your emotions
2) Let go of expectations/ outcomes/ rules. “let him go” .set him free..let him do whatever he wants
3) 6-12 months take down all their pictures etc.
4) Stop looking at TF stuff. Avoid watching Tarot/ pendulum readings about them
Ok this shit is real!!! I watched this for the first time yesterday April 4, 2022 at 2:00 pm at the gym. I watched it a few times to really let it sink in. I even wrote notes at night and this morning read them over again to set my intention to let go and free us both. At 2:02 pm April 5, 2022 as I was at the gym 24 hours later my twin texts me. Absolutely incredible.
There is nothing wrong with letting someone go. Go. They can be free to do whatever they like. However, they cannot be with me and do whatever they want with whomever they want.
Yeah there is still a line in the sand where you love yourself enough not to let yourself be a door matt
When people feel they are free, they usually don’t want to hurt you. Also, since they ARE you, check inside and see what your own freedom means to you. My twin is narcissistic, but I had to look at why, because narcissistic behavior is not inherent, they aren’t born that way. They are made by abusive/narcissistic parents. I am learning to love him unconditionally anyway.
@@TheWitchKitty how do you worth through that. Mine has those tendencies. It’s hard
@@aadeyola once I figured out that he is me, I started looking at my own relationship to narcissistic people. My mother was narcissistic and a lot of my relationships were trauma bonding. As I began to build boundaries to stop those people from draining me, he backed off and apologized for the behavior. But you have to stick to your path. Value yourself, and in every area of life make sure you are getting what you deserve. He heals as you heal.
Absolutely agree ! My TF is way younger and when he came back he wanted to be non monogamous even tho he said he loved me. I said that’s not what I want and so we’re apart. I let him go and he still texts and even called me but only refers to me as a friend.
I prefer that to being intimate with him and panicking about who he’s with when he’s not with me.
Yesterday I was literally praying for a way to detach from my TF. I've gone crazy from obsessive thinking, running/chasing, and the ridiculous amount of misinformation out there on twin flames. I wanted to give it all up and focus on my spiritual growth again (which is what lead us to meet in the first place.) This video pops up confirming that i am on the right track again 👌 😎 All I want is to have my "self" back and stop focusing on this other person. Thank you Kurt ❤️
I’m detaching and it’s much better on this side. I’ve ungrouped and unfollowed all things twin flame minus this channel. Acceptance and Unconditional love has replaced obsession and the need to control. Gone are the days of trying and forcing. I’m outcome independent. I wish him peace.
🤣🤣 I love your close up into the camera!
Lordshiva & parvathi where also called (Ardhanari) which means half male & half female in one body. In their journey both went through soomuch pain before getting into permanent union 💞
Hindu goddess
From india!! Kurt ♥️
I detached and two months later, after I erased all his contact info from my phone, I see a random call show up on my phone Friday night. I didn't answer the call so he texted, "I'm planning on coming out for Christmas to do some skiing." Ummmmm, ooookkkkaaayyyy...but I have already distanced myself from you. Don't expect me to meet and greet you at the airport. Have fun skiing!
Kurt, you are really such a blessing to all of us on this spiritual journey, I really needed this today, perfect divine timing. I love how generous you are, you give all this information for free and are so committed to just help everyone, you are not greedy just trying to make money out of people's pain and suffering charging absurd amounts of money. Thank you so much for all you do, I love your teachings and lessons and my life is so much better since I came across your channel right when you were just beginning, I watched you since day one and somehow I knew you were different and that watching you somehow would change my life and it did, after years of suffering and so much agony I started to feel free. Again, thank you! Much love to you and your other self.
The other stuff he talked about like choosing what to believe was what I was thinking about. He's good 😍
@@aprildayto5436 you guys taking his course too?
I feel completely the same buddy 😍 i'm so happy that he is here to help us ascend and master our spiritual journey! 😍✨
There’s nothing better then a moment when you experience an Epiphany!
Hallelujah! Twin flames need to set each other free and if they come together and want to stay together they do it as two free individuals. I'm preaching it all the time. Long before I knew about twin flames a very wise tarot reader told me: "You can own your shoes. You can not own another human being." I've been trying to live by that ever since.
If u can't Detach and if u don't want your twin back can u manifest a soulmate a high vibrational soulmate and just move on with your life just continue your spiritual path as a light worker with a great soulmate bye your side
My Dm left his situation, then told me he wanted me then ran off with someone else. I can now see my energy drove him away so I’m detoxing! Thanks Kurt x
Awww. That's sad! I hope you're better now.
Literally same.. this happens. He’s not ready.
@@witchypoo3535 Like I said..? It's been a year now since this comment so a lot's changed but I just got a notification now from your comment :')
Take his course and he will help you what you need to do step by step
@@alliekeel6399 that’s not it… it’s all up to YOU… his course has the answer
I watched this video again earlier this week and it really resonated within me this time. I went to work yesterday, had an epiphany when I got there about completely letting go of my otherself, allowing him to be free like a butterfly 🦋 free to be who he is, even if that means without me.
15 minutes later he appears at my workplace. He walks right by my work station with his best friend.
I have lost count of how many times we've come across eachother around town in the last 2 years but this time was different though.
I let go of the attachment of connecting with him and I chose not to interact with him. I just observed the situation.
I've been trying so hard to focus on myself & detach from him & my mind that I haven't been focused on him and here he is popping up in my life situation.
I'm rewatching this video today, meditating, detaching from my mind & the expectations that the mind has of this Journey being any different than it is.
This video is a gem, i will keep watching it everyday! You're helping me and all of the twin flames out there to master themselves pretty simply, yeah i didn't mean easily, but simply! You explain everything in a very very simple and understandable way for our mind to understand the truth and tonight is the night that i detached from my twin flame after i watched your video! You're a life saver! You're the true spiritual coach i needed! I can't thank you enough sir! ❤️✨
After our 4th reunion and me seeing what I needed to see I'm in the midst of finally letting go and it's scary but I'm truly starting to just not care what happens anymore.
I feel the exact same way...so over him...I think we are at our 5th reunion ..I'm done
If I stop watching twin flame videos, I will not get to see you anymore!! Is there a way to block the twin flame videos, and only watch the true spiritual videos? I want to flush the words twin flame from my existence and be in the NOW!! ❤️❤️❤️ As my energy continues to balance, I need to let all of this stuff go and remove all labels. You are such a blessing and life saver!! Love you Kurt!!❤️❤️
Thats true but not only for twins...thats happened to me i every relationship literally..when i forgot them completely they started to be obsessed by me..every men in my life..one of them texting me 5 years desperately trying to talk to me 🤘😄
GoFigure that's the paradox but they are other self is not other ppl...it's completely different because other ppl don't trigger the Dnots ....namste
I'm in this energy as you speak. About 2 months ago I felt an energetic shift. I woke up one morning and felt light as a feather. I felt like a huge stone was lifted from my shoulders. I felt incredible and I still feel pretty good. In November, he contacted a friend of ours and said he "accidentally" called him according to the friend. He brought my daughter's lunch while in a drive thru because he left his name with the cashier! That was crazy. We met in 5d a few times in the month of November alone and that was unusual. I haven't seen him in 3d in 10 months, however, after I experienced that energetic shift, He appeared in the spiritual realm with me and all the other things I mentioned. Also the signs and synchronicities are just incredible and is simply magical!
OMG I was so desperate to hear every word you said 🌹🙏👍 I swear I’m going to hear this over and over again to absorb it completely... I felt so lost before hearing what you said
Thanks a lot 🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹
Take the course it’s even better
I detached. Boxed up her shit, I posted something on my wall to memorialize her and I am done. I’m working on myself and that’s the priority. Runner/chaser dynamic was so exhausting.
Lmfao at you getting closer and closer to the camera! Lmfaoo 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah unfortunately I have one. Trying to detach tonight because he's stomping my heart into oblivion.
This not only happened to me and my twinflame but with someone else too,I think it's just the law of attraction!
My DM gets very angry and goes crazy on me every time I try to detach... And I even don't tell him anything, he simply feels it! :D
Kurt, you are amazing. You have cut through the BS out there. I have watched almost all your videos and my twin flame is talking to me again, albeit as a friend, after our break up. He is dating someone else at the moment, but communication is increasing. Will continue to follow your advice. Without it I would never have managed to get this far. Am now working to detach from my mind and align with my soul. Lol, I put alll his gifts away too. Now doing the detox. Will follow up on my journey.
Blocked him on every sm since mid aug. I felt as if i've gone thru the dnots several times already... my soul is stubborn😐🤔😑but i kno something's changed i hardly ever bother to watch tf readings. I am actually listening to power of now n Samadhi n the alchemist (😂) over n over . Thank u kurt for ur teachings on yt ur truly amazing
I blocked my tf in mid August too 😂❤️
Wow I also blocked my tf on all platforms in August
Same, I blocked my tf in August. And I’ve been listening to the power of now.
NEVER STOP. YOUR STORY IS TRUTH! KEEP 'EM COMING.
been detaching for weeks, though i have the urge to go back and start yearning but I have to control myself. i disappeared from social media, i deleted his number, removed his photos from my phone and go about my life. i can feel his energy trying to come closer not gonna lie but i just try not to care haha
No you can’t feel him because energy can only go to him from you…
That same story happened to me!! I detached, felt amazing!! BOOM! He comes back. Had a great couple of days. Totally in love. Go out with my friends and BOOM he’s gone again.. alright here we go. It’s time. Time to let go.
Ego death..... you got me.. exactly, exactly what happened.. the first time I met him... a 5 minute meeting... he set my soul on fire. He made my soul want to dance.. for the first time ever, having been awakening ever since.
Thank you Universe for putting this video in my feed ! Peeeeeerfect timing ! After feeling good for a few weeks I got back to feeling like crap 💩 !! Didn’t know how to let go of the sadness and obsessive thinking...I was trapped in my mind again ! Thank you Kurt for this video 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻✨✨✨
I’m experiencing a horrible case of Deja Vu with him running again and I just want to forget about him but I can’t! Before I ever even heard of twin flames he triggered this powerful sense of awakening. I told him I felt like I was becoming my true self. He even commented that I was remarkably self-aware, right before he ran away.
Then I felt like a manifesting goddess and I have never been a religious person. I started meditating and taking better care of myself and we, “reconnected.”
Everything felt great and even said he felt we were, “compatible in every way,” then suddenly he ran away again.
I can’t stop thinking about him and I just want it to be over.
I just messaged him, “I’m feeling a sense of Deja Vu,” followed by our safe word, “Meatloaf.”
I’m so hurt and frustrated. I don’t want to live my life feeling like some kind of consolation prize when someone else doesn’t work out for him! 😢
I choose to release my twin to be free to fuck anyone he wants because he’s still an immature, insecure jackass and my spiritual journey is more important than his physical presence in my life.
I love when Kurt does close ups and stares into the camera! 😂😂. I purchased the videos and have watched them and am starting the process of detachment. First attempt: Huge Fail! Going at it again trying to practice neutralization. It’s SO Hard for me though because I work with this person. I really think if I didn’t work with him, it would be easier for me to detach. I’ve noticed the farther away I get from him (even 4 hour trips away) the energy isn’t as intense and it helps me to forget him. But the working together is what is so hard!! Maybe if I look/treat our relationship as if he were my older brother it will be easier. (Cause then it would be easier for me to think/say “I don’t care - he can do whatever the F@&@ he wants”). 😂😂. Yes, the answer is SO SIMPLE, yet it is challenging and hard. But I will continue to work on my soul ascension. I have to because I can’t continue to live with this craziness!!
7:20 That's honestly hilarious that literally happened to me today! I told myself "okay, i give up it's over. You can do you and i'll do me. I'm not mad at you or anything and i hope you can become happy "
I also felt my energy shift and made the determination to focus on myself. 10 mins later she responded to my text the day before saying she's down to get coffee together whenever i'm in town again.
Was dumbfounded and laughed. Honestly convinced me that working on myself would actually attract my other half. And i believe that once i sort everything in my life and am financially stable things will just come together. Gotta create the foundation first.
Love your teaching Kurt ! Brilliant video. I think the Divine steps in and finally helps you detach. For me happened overnight!!! Finally feel free and obsessive thinking has stopped. Keep up the good work. Twin flames need you xxxx❤️❤️❤️
Check out the diagnostic criteria for PTSD-- especially the rumination. Vibes heavily with this video.
I really needed this one. Thanks Kurt!
This whoke journey is simply amazing. I start feeling good and not worried if i see her again. Then i feel a huge pull from her, almost like she is about contact me. Then bam a her LinkedIn profile shows up. I panic and start to Meditate to bring myself back to calm. My best friend sends me think link.
Thank you! You have made so much sense! You are doing great work!!
I DEFINITELY needed to see this. Thank you 🙏💖
Thank you so much, really needed to hear this...
I want to detach not for the person to be back anymore. The pain is too much. I just want wholeness, brightness and light. I am a much lighter person without him. My life is amazing & so blessed. This is the last TF video I’m watching. It’s too tiring. I give up fully. Thank you.
I’m crying while you said I let her go and I felt free and I am on the bus looking like a weirdo
What a journey this journey is…
The power of this journey is so big these connections are for the Marvel movies
Thank you Kurt for being so real
My favorite video of all. I watch this when I feel my mind "taking over." 😊
this video came just at the right moment in my life. Kirk thank you! Sending love and light !
This is so helpful- thank you! 🙏🏻❤️
This was exactly what I needed today. Thank you Kurt.
Goshhh I’m tired of this obsession bullshit!! Thank GOD I found your channel!!
I have done this before so I can attest to it. It looks like it's that time again. 💕 Thank you Kurt for the reminder
I’m so glad that I came across you. You bring real life into this journey.
Thank you again Kurt I've been seeing this come up in the suggested videos for a while now and I really felt I needed to watch it and I am grateful that I did! You really talk in a way that allows me to understand the true meaning of all this!
All your videos are great, but this one is a new level 🙏😊
thank you so much Kurt ... am getting there .. and yes " the power of now " is a great tool
Kurt you are so right about all this! Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
This was a huggggggge help and showed up at the right time thank youuu Kurt ❤️
Thanks Kurt!
I woke up this morning with this exact thought and here you are.. so divinely timely!
Totally resonated. Great video.
I love this so, so much. Thanks, Kurt, you're a gem.
Thank you for being so real✨
DUDE!!! LOLOLOLOL!!! I soooo totally get this!!!! Your close up to the camera made me laugh! You're like me in so many ways!!
This is one of your best videos . Excellently done ! I’m truly grateful.
Agree🎈I am in this same consciousness. Really good to hear your voice 🏆
IT WORKS!! Kurt you are a TF God...!!
Thank you , Kurt !
This is by far one of your BEST videos EVER!!!!! Thank YOU!
Thank. You, you have made things very clear and am so appreciative of your level of awareness.
You are special Kurt!!❄️🥟🌎
This episode is touching into some deep sadness for me.
Thank you so much for being a beautiful reminder of the true path of spirituality. I'm finding my way back to it after being triggered on my TF journey last year. I now understand EXACTLY why it happened. You've cut through ALL the bullshit. Thank you!!
Ive been binge watching your videos and this is the best! Absolute most helpful content I've seen about twin flames. Thank you so much
You're awesome, thank you!
Thank you Kurt ! I've watched a few of videos on Twin Flames but I never knew how to "let go" of someone who is me .The exact video I needed popped up on my feed . You just explained things in a way where it's clear and not going off on irrelevant tangents so thank you for making it clear for a fellow twin flame . 💋❤
Listening to this just opened my eyes . Thank you so much !! You need a book please asap lol
I watch the mind and has soon has it is coming i shut it down i tell my self i am love i am happy i am free
Excellent info as usual.
Detaching two weeks ago was the best thing that happened in my life...
Hey Kurt, I am so very grateful to have found your channel. My way of being and doing is exactly as you describe. I live in the way you are describing, in line with my soul. And yes I've met my Twin Flame and love the way you have presented all the signs. Beside being hilarious and fun to listen to, it felt liberating to know that what I feel within is correct and what I already do is correct.
I feel blessed because the severity of your suffering was much greater than mine and that's not to say that I've not or do not suffer, yet I'm quite good at detachment and bringing self to the here and now. I am quite independent and value and love my freedom. I am free within and out.
So yeah, the signs are precise! I am grateful for being who I am and follow my soul calling and my intuition.
Keep shining your light for everyone who needs it, for there are many.
Endless love, light and positive vibes your way. 🙏🌟🕉
Wow thank you so much Kurt ❤️🙏🏽Sending you my love and light ❤️🙏🏽
I'm so thankful I found your channel. You really helped me stop with the obsessive thinking. And also, I saw your love and rockets playlist. Daniel ash was my neighbor in Ojai,ca. Love him! 💖🎉💖🎉
This video is the most helpful in answering a few big questions I've had for a while now. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your honesty when talking about your journey with your other Self. It is so validating. Love your content and your passion to bring back people to who they really are. You sure have helped me (and keep doing so) to remember who I am, and for that I will always be thankful.
I listen to you because I know that this is the truth and it is the confirmation for what I found out during this journey. Thank you so much!
This is sooo Fknn helpfull thankyouu😭😫❤️
I’ve been watching your videos for a few weeks now, but this video hit me like a Mac truck. I finally understand.
Awsome video 🙏
i love your teachings so much. it all resonates deeply & aligns with the spiritual path i’ve been on. the twin flame aspect, though, is a new concept for me & you have inspired peace & clarity. thank you 🙏
Thank u for that link I was looking for 🤗
You are an amazing person...Feels like God is talking through you for all the troubled souls....God bless ya!!! Thank you!!!
You are absolutely right kurt. Lately for the past few weeks my TF hasn't talked to me at all. Kinda feels like we've detached without a reason really but I'm fine. Of course I still think about them/how they are doing but not getting upset anymore. Time to move forward and progress my self. Thank you for the message.
Ego always wanted to control what is instead of accepting what is. That's why there's more suffering. Detachment is surrendering that whatever happens will happen, you just accept it as it is. They are free to do whatever they wanted to do. Whether they come back or not, you accept it.
How come You NOT have more subs ? Your videos are really relaxing Kurt. It just takes all my worries away. I would love to see more of these videos from you. Keep it up !