Loud Autistic Stimming Attracts Attention
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- Abbie can be pretty loud and have abrupt movements when she is stimming. Especially when she is overwhelmed, anxious, or excited. Loud autistic stimming attracts attention. Some of that is unwanted attention but often times we use it as an opportunity to share awareness and acceptance.
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Once one of my students licked a gen ed kid on the playground. As I moving toward them, the other kid tried to engage my student in conversation and kept getting licked. I told her it was okay to say no or to step back so she wouldn’t get licked again. (Of course, I moved my student out of licking range at the same time).That sweet child replied that her parents told her that she would meet different kinds of people when she started school and it was important to be kind to them all.
Au Teacher aw, this is sweet. At the same time, the phrase "tried to engage my student in conversation and kept getting licked" is just hilarious. Not saying that you shouldn't be nice, You SHOULD treat all people kindly, but the way that is said is just funny
What a sweet wonderful moment
Not proud to say this but when I get close to a melt down I bite my self or if you are in range maybe you.
My little brother knows this.
When he was asked about it he just said "bite or be bitten".
He usally runs and brings me stim toys when I start biting wich is super sweet and I'm super thankfull for him
Pro parenting!
What a sweet girl
The way you interacted with the little girls is precious. Children are not rude unless they are taught to be. Perfect teaching opportunity.
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 Ignorance can't thrive around open mindedness. I learned from a young age to surround myself with caring and open minded people. 💜 It's so hard when it's your own family though.
@UCJ-lN6PDPi9O6ubKzDD3fgQ I don't think it was rude. Totally natural for children just as they state in the video. Their reaction to the girls was perfect in my opinion. 😊
I currently work with 4&5yr olds and they are so accepting of differences and aren’t ignorant at all. I think it’s important for children at a young age to be taught how to be accepting and kind to others of all abilities, races and genders.
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I loved the way the little girls were so enthralled by Abbie and learning about her different ability
I love how passionate her brother is with her. How much he loves her is beautiful
Victoria Reeves seriously, not many brothers are as loving and caring with their sisters. He never seems to get jealous, he just gets it. Props to the parents too, they did a great job with both kids.
It's alot of pressure on siblings or sibling to deal with a special need sibling. Their life is infected greatly in many ways. Scary part is when the paents gone that heavy burden may be on them
he took off with no hesitation. it’s so sweet seeing that relationship and bond between them. they don’t need verbal communication to know they love eachother.
He really does such a great job with her!! ❤️❤️❤️
he's a great bro
Isaiah is the literal embodiment of everything the world needs, he's so kind and caring. What a guy
Right. So hard to find these days
Absolutely
The world doesn’t need a person like him. We need to BE a person like him. Effort is everything. Do more, expect less
As a former employee of Dollywood, we go through training that teaches us to recognize guest's needs and to go above those needs for the guests. We also make memories worth repeating. Dollywood takes care of their employees which creates an amazing woke environment. The sensory room was placed after I had left but it has been a great addition to the park.
Jess, what does woke mean? I´ve seen that word alot lately.
@@davidhintz1 woke is mostly used to describe people who are very socially aware
Thank you!!! Being here in Germany I am not up on the newest lingo. ;o)
@@davidhintz1 no problem!
I was a performer at Dollywood back in 2007. :)
I love that he didn’t even question his dad about protecting his sister!
Lol yeah! 😁😁
I love that children are just so open. They're not judgy - they are curious and just want to know. The freedom to be allowed to ask about something without feeling you're going to offend is a gift. How will anyone ever learn about others if we are too scared to ask?
The little girls were so focused on what you were saying. . .. you taught them such a good life lesson.
That train whistle was horrific.
Psshhh, I love train whistles! It was awesome!
@@fatheringautism the noise was creepy
@@fatheringautism Imagine hearing that in the middle of the night.
Shush the trains name is Cinderella and works hard lol
I loved the train whistles! I loved it when it seemed like it was doing jingle bells lol
Those little girls clearly were not being rude, its obvious that they were just curious. So nice that you explained things to them. Hey I just though of a new t shirt for my son that says Google Autism, ha.
Dollywood is the first autism-friendly theme park.
Sesame place was the first autism certified centre and theme park in the world!
Is it?
I thought Disney land was.
Dark Wolf I think Disney was the first disability/service animal friendly park, not autism.
It's interesting to explain autism to curious people. I actually like doing it. Children tend to actually accept and try to understand the explanation. I have no problem explaining autism to anyone, even if they are somewhat rude in asking.
noahconstrictor100 I do aswell. I never pass up an opportunity to explain to people. The more common one is explaining that autism doesnt have a “look”.
@@hyd8523 Absolutely. Autistic people are just people. The autistic population is just as diverse as the human population.
I would not call them rude they are curious .
Good job Ms. Priscilla. But I also want to bring some attention to ISAIAH for immediately charging off after those kids to tell them about Abbie at Asa's command. It makes me want to be a better big brother to my sisters. You are a wonderful family.
The way I have heard stimming explained is that they are producing output to cope with the input they are bombarded with. Lights, smells, noise touch it is all coming at them at once. They stim , rocking, flap thire hands and make vocal noises to offset this.
Omg those wee girls, i am actually crying at the cuteness of their understanding
I absolutely love the way Isiah takes care of his sister. It appears he does not mind helping with his sister and that made my heart happy. Big ups to you Isiah! You Rock.
I have Highfunctioning Autism and I wish that my parent understood my stimming and where as supportive as you guys are of Abby.
I love Isaiah’s love for Abby. He was more then ready to go tell the boys that Abby has autism and that’s why she was making the movements and sounds. Brothers are the best.
When you mentioned about adults being judgment I wanted to cry. Our son has sensory issues and while the school has been amazing and we work hard at home, he sometimes has meltdowns. I guess one day he had slapped and bit his friend at school (junior kindergarten) & the teacher called and I was mortified and sought out more resources immediately. Things were good until I went to parent teacher interviews one evening and as I was waiting these two moms were sitting outside bashing my son (not knowing that I was his mom, and I didn’t have him with me). The things they said were awful! They even said his parents should be reported to CPS :( I started bawling and left the building, I was devastated as we do everything possible for our son. When I went back in and talked to his teacher, she said it was a one time thing and he’d actually been making big improvements. The teacher and ECE also started crying because of just how awful adults can be. It was ignorance. Those moms didn’t know my son or our struggle to help him.
Adults are so ugly, and just to think they are teaching their children. People don't know what we go through, so they shouldn't judge us. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Capri Sanzari oh my god I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. One time my son bit a student randomly and to make matters worse the year before he bit that same boys older brother! I was so embarrassed and sad and worried but it was a random situation and the mother was so kind! She made me cry just because I was expecting the worst and she was the opposite. Hang in there momma there are kind humans out there as well 💙
You made me cry , I also have a non verbal son with SPD . I see the looks and gossiping about my son and how we parent him. It hurts and it used to make me feel ashamed but now I just educate wether they want to hear it or not. How they respond determines how I deliver my message😁
I’m so sorry you went through this. Unfortunately this is a very big reason for awareness, not only to make our special needs childrens’ lives better but to also make people in general more empathic. Be strong, be kind and don’t give up.
It sucks when adults act like that. I wish people had more sympathy towards others different than them and/their children. But we have to just keep on educating people and carrying on. I’m sure you’re an awesome
mother!
This world is blessed to have fathering autism so they can help spread the word and educate other people about autism. So lovely to see people making a difference.
Abbie has such a busy life. I wouldn't be able to keep up with all that activity... I'd be socially exhausted by the noises and lights and people. She's doing well.
I always explain to children when they ask questions about my wheelchair but I use a lot of sarcasm with adults who stare and make comments.
We have to educate our children as they are our next generation and they will bring about change about disability.
I have a service dog, and kids of course when they see a dog they want to go pet and talk to them. So I always explain to them what a service dog is and what the etiquettes are when you see someone with a service dog. But when I have adults that clearly know its a service dog start talking to and calling over my service dog, I stand up to them and be more "aggressive" towards them and using sarcasm because they are adults. They know what a service dog is. And they usually reply with "Then don't bring it out in public if you don't want people to talk to your dog" and I always tell them "I need her and if not I could have a seizure and possibly not make it alive, and guess what would be YOUR fault"
The Bamboo Crew good for you, adults should absolutely know better. Years ago there were only service dogs for the blind but now there are so many types of service dogs that people, no matter how uninformed about disability, will know about service dogs and the etiquette of when a dog is wearing its vest then it’s working. Some of the vests even have written on them “do not talk to or distract”. It’s not rocket science!
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I’m 18 and would be considered an adult but if I see someone in a wheelchair or with a missing limb or something I often times do look not to be rude but out of curiosity and do wonder if maybe something happened or if they were born that way. I would never make a rude comment tho but sometimes I do get caught looking and I do hope that it’s not taken as rude just because I’m older I truly am just curious!
“She’s crying tears of joy” 😂😂❤️ I just love Isaiah
Nicely done, Pricilla! Kids love to learn about new things. They will never forget Abby.
Also it is currently my goal and dream to write children's books about autism, mental health, and self care. I think it is so important. 💜
I'd love to one day read one of your books. Best of luck!
PLEASE go for it, I’d read them to every generation I come across.
it is my goal to make a comic series about autism instead, I hope you can achieve your goal!!
@@litrallynotmebruh9531 Comedy is a huge relief for me when it comes to my mental health. Heck, you could say laughing is an essential part of mental health. May you never get writers/thinkers block as you work on those goals. I'd love to see it. 😊
If you are german there is a wonderful comic series named „Schattenspringer“. Only GREAT!!!!!! The author is sooo great too
kids are amazing. I work with kids and a member of our staff has special needs and work trains at our preschool & we have student with autism and kids just GET IT. they LOVE our special needs staff & tries their best to communicate. it's amazing
Idk why one of your videos was in my recommendation section but I am hooked on y’alls vids. I am absolutely hooked. Y’all are a great supportive family for Abby
Much love
Gracie
Some ppl just don't understand Autism. I think you are doing a super great job. My cousin gets picked on at times but not anymore she goes to a special needs school much better now
Isaiah’s face when he saw Abbie’s smile was amazing. The degree to which this family is patient, and constantly caring is just astounding.
Children stare and whisper about things they don’t know and lots of parents just take them away from the situation. That’s where kids learn to be terrified of what they don’t know. That moment with the kids was so sweet and I’m happy their parents/guardians were giving you the chance to answer questions.
"i have a map. the man with the map is in charge. this isn't a map"
I remember when i was a little kid, there was a girl in my kindergarten class who was also non-verbal, and all the other kids avoided/bullied her. One day i was really bored so i engaged this girl in some playing with dolls. I didn’t think much of it, but when her parents came to pick her up, they came up to me and thanked me for playing with her! I didn’t think it was a big deal, but it must’ve been really hard to know their daughter didn’t get to play with other kids.
I'm totally blind, and I like it when parents tell me their little ones are curious about me and would like to meet me. That's always neat. :-)
I'm so grateful to have been introduced to special needs children from a very young age. My kindergarten class had an autistic girl who I befriended when no one else would, and then a few years later I was in brownies (pre-girl scouts) with a really sweet girl who had downs syndrome, and all the girls in the group were AMAZING to her, always willing to help and make her feel welcome. I always just had the mindset that they were humans like everyone else, but just needed a bit more help, or different ways to do things. It's really beautiful though how accepting and kind kids can be if you just educate them and help them understand
I love how quickly Isaiah was going to go defend his sister. that was the sweetest thing
What an amazing big brother she has. Brings me to tears to see the support he give her and ready to educated anyone who doesnt understand. You 2 have raised incredible children
The bond between Isaiah and Abbie gets me all teary eyed every single time! 😭💖
I like that Isaiah listened to you right away without question when it had to do with Abbie. You told him to go talk to those boys and he started speed walking right over there. That’s a good brother, a good son and a good man right there.
I just love how you encourage Abbie to try new things and she ends up loving 🥰
Wow the girls are so sweet! And the mum was so supportive too. 😊
I absolutely love how Isaiah holds Abbie’s hand and cuddles her when she’s overwhelmed💙 Much respect and love:)
It's great that you educate those children on Autisim, and on Abby and how she communicates.
I absolutely love Abbie !!! I’m so glad my son doesn’t stare at people with disabilities! I worked Hoth handicapped and disabled adults. The people loved deon! So he understood at a young age that some people are just different and that ok! Abbie is such a star.
That was so sweet with those kids. I’m glad you were able to raise awareness and teach them about autism.
*You guys are amazing parents. Don’t let anybody tell you anything different.*
Isaiah you are the best big brother. You remind me of my little brother he is 7 years younger than me. Three years ago I became ill and was in the hospital and was put into a medically induced coma. The first time I opened my eyes my brother was asleep holding my hand right beside the bed. He is my rock. Isaiah keep that wonderful heart. Compassion is the best trait in people. And you exude that compassion to others.
So cool that Abbie taught these little girls how to sign, shows that everyone has their own unique way of communicating.
I feel that this channel is great in educating people about Autism.
i love that Isaiah was going to do what you asked him to do and tell those kids she has autism. just being such a good big brother!! so sweet!
I know I'm watching this late, but wanted to say how awesome it was with you all talking to the kids (and their parents). Fortunately, my kids go to a school where they are exposed to ALL types of people. It's great there. They call all the kids friends. Every single one of them. Some are different, but they're still just another friend (just meaning only treated differently by giving them what they need). My daughter has ADHD and being there has saved her life in a lot of ways. The school is Montessori and largely became what it is due to working with their first autism student. The school was renamed for her because of her inspiration for so much. Keep doing what you do. So glad to see Abigail thriving.
When i was in elementary school we had what was then called a TMC/special education class and when i was in 4th grade I was able to apply to "work" in the classroom as a teachers helper. I was accepted and paired up with a blind kid named Eric, he was also non verbal autistic. Of course then we didn't call it that then... I am 43 years old now & still think of him on a regular basis... he had a lot of the same mannerisms/stims as Abbie does.
Thank you for teaching those girls about Abbie and making these vlogs so others can learn!
Big up to her brother I say! How lovely to see him being prepared to advocate for his sister without question, after his father instructs him. You guys have done a great job with ALL your children! x
So happy to see her smiling once the tram got going. That struggle to get through the initial stuff is rough sometimes. It seemed like after the first time she did much better riding.
That’s awesome that they have everything marked so you can see where you can find what you’re lookin for accessibility wise.
Overall it just looks like a fun place!
I like that Isaiah was all about to go on a mission in big brother mode.
Love the teachable moments especially with youth, it is SO important!! They are harmless and they just want to know and once you tell them, it’s just like oh okay. I love that they followed up with questions. We don’t always get such great opportunities to educate in real life so when you do, it’s so great!
My brother has a few different things he's been diagnosed with. Growing up my mother always told me and other kids that special people are Angels in disguise to help watch over everyone on Earth, so we should always be nice to them and spread the love they bring with them from Heaven. It's something I tell my sons too. It's something easy to say and understand as a child.
There’s nothing like southern hospitality. They have a beautiful community even the lady bigs are wishing you good luck
Awwww...Isaiah is just the sweetest!! The way he was going to tell the little boys the reason why Abbie was being noisy! ❤
I love love love when Isaiah holds Abbie's hand to calm and comfort her @ 3:21.
He is such an amazing brother.
I know you hear this a lot but you guys are amazing. Your children are lucky to have you. The world is lucky to have you!
I love how your educating people on autism in a very nice way . Such a great family .
Thank you for bringing awareness to Austisum my niece has autism and I tell her that her autism is what makes her special and unique and embrace her differences
The tram is like a big golf cart, Ab.
Wait hold up. It is actually
It's great for the younger generation to be aware that we are not all alike and we may communicate in a different way as well it was awesome that y'all were able to answer their questions and they were satisfied and the children were so inviting to Abbey it's all a win-win
i clicked on one of y’all videos because it was recommended to me, and i wanted to check it out, but i like how you don’t necessarily get angry at kids because they look and you explain which is one of the best things to me! I’m 16 and i haven’t explored what autism is and how people with it function and i think that y’all open up a whole new way i can view things and i’m hooked!! love y’all so much, mckenna💛
Hello from a family with a disabled daughter, ( not officially autism) epilepsy, global development delays, reflux,pica . You guys are so brave taking abi to a theme park, we definitely wouldn't have the guts. Hats off to you guys for bringing awareness. 😘😍
"they have a whole building just called Christmas" classing Dad joke smh😂
I get kids asking about my daughter all the time. I love it when people (kids and/or parents) asking questions. The parents are the ones that don’t want there kids playing and/or talking to her. 😔 I’m so thankful for yawls videos and the amazing information yawl bring to the world.
Here is a idea I use that be good for you to try. I printed up some business cards with my service dog's picture, a little about why I have him, and service dog etiquette. So many parents shush their kids anytime they look at us. Most kids are just curious, so when parents shush them, I go up and say my dogs pretty cute huh? I then have him give them a card. I let them know it's okay to be curious and to ask someone with a service dog if they would mind telling you little about their dog. I reassure them he gets lots of pets and hugs when he is not working and let them know if we are out and he doesn't have his work clothes vest on, that they are more than welcome to come pet him. I know you guys don't use maverick as a service dog, but you could print up some cards that says she has autism and make make noises and gestures most teenagers don't. You could put your UA-cam channel on the card if they want to learn more. These are especially helpful in cases where I maybe don't have time to do a 20 minute explanation of everything but still feel it's important to let them know why I have him.
BottleBabies Reborns this is such a good idea!! I love that its very polite and helps everyone in the situation i hope they see this!
Thats really awesome. I know a lot of people are irritated by the constant questions but as someone who doesn't know anyone with a service dog im curious and intrigued. Id like to know more (like what the dog can do/training etc, not really what condition the person has or such) but i dont know how to go about asking without seeming rude
This is so great because if kids are taught to not ask questions and to not be curious then they will never be educated about these types of things. I know I was told to never ask questions about different types of people because it was rude but not knowing about them made me think of them as more and more different. I might have been able to identify my anxiety early before I was diagnosed maybe if I had a little more education about anxiety and anxiety service dogs I might have been able to get the things I needed earlier.
I will also try the cards with my service dog because it is a really cool idea if I do not have alot of time.
I love how to took the time to explain to the kids why she was being loud, it’s so helpful for kids to understand at a young age that everyone is different and some people have special needs
My 4 year old son has autism and he has meltdown all the time my son doesn’t talk he sometimes repeats stuff and he makes noises and gets upset and people look and I know they think my son is being a brat or what’s wrong with him and it upset me I wanna cry cause people are mean and I love my son my son has freak out stuff where he will throw his hands around and put weird stuff in his mouth that he isn’t soppoused to do ... I love watching your guys stuff
I have experienced the same thing with my autistic son. Stares, glares judgement, condemnation.
I'm addicted to this channel now. thanks.
Priscilla, you were amazing with those kids! I am learning through your channel that it is SO much better to come up to you and say something nice than just stare. It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so rude and hateful. Thank God they weren't in this case. The parents really appreciated you talking to their children and educating them as to what's going on with Abbie. Y'all are amazing!!
I love it when she gets excited and smiles 😊
I just want to Thank you both for always taking the time to explains to others about Autism.
I am a parent who’s oldest son who has ASD, and I wish ppl would just ask questions, instead of starring and whispering. We need more acceptance, and less judgement!
I live in a small town, and Autism is not talked about especially within the school district. Our children within our school district need to be taught about Autism and other students who have different special needs so they are excepted at a young age.
Keep up the great work you do educating others 😀👍💕
Those kids faces when you were talking to them about Abby! Look at them soaking in every single bit of information your willing to offer. Thats seriously so nice to watch. Abby is probably then most interesting person theyve ever met. They'll remember that forever. Great way to initiate the conversation too Priscilla. So well done.
I don’t know how I stumbled upon your channel but I haven’t been able to stop watching all week. What you guys do is amazing, and your videos are genuine and real. Both of your children are awesome. Thank you guys for being you!
I'm in stitches over Cilla's ladybug meltdown. Y'all are precious.
😢 omg this made me tear up because the stares in the public ya r awesome the way ya handled it especially spreading awareness to the young people is awesome because they r our future #autismacceptance
I rather have people come up and ask why then just stare like idiots. Thank you so much for sharing your life. ❤️❤️❤️
Great job with the kids! Good getting on the kids level and telling them
It made me so happy when her brother was about to go say something to those little kids just shows us how much he loves her ❤
Hello! I just happened to come across one of your videos and I can't stop watching your channel now. I have never personally known anyone with autism but I appreciate learning more about it through your videos. Love your family! ❤
I love how they made it a teaching opportunity with those girls it's so sweet how interested they were with learning about Abby I think that the situation was handled perfectly
Priscilla&asa in the end are so cute, lover/bestfriends...this vlog made me tear up cause its so touching.. You guys are the best...
I'm glad to hear that the girls asked questions about Abbie, I don't have autism but I have other handicaps, I wish when I was Abbies age that people would have been more understanding instead of making fun of me back then.
Abbie is so pretty ,I love how great Isiah is with Abbie always looking out for her and holding on to her,brilliant big bro.glad you have had a great holiday.x
Well done issiah great job love how you interacted with them to raise awareness and protect your sister
Omg I love the sound of that train. Nothing like walking through the park and hearing that whistle
I am so glad you all educate families about autism. Our daughter no longer lives with us but when she did, we were viciously attacked by tons of people, even family. Everyone thought we were somehow to blame for her issues. No one thought she was autistic, including strangers which made everyone an expert on her in their opinion, so out came peoples insults and opinions. Even where she is at now, with tons of other kids with disabilities, visible special needs, who live with her...if she is out someplace without any of the other kids around, people want to call the police, security on the people caring for her. Because she looks so typical, yet she is not. I tried to educate others but rarely if ever got any positive response. The fact you both continue to include others, educating others on everyone has a difference inspires me, I sadly just gave up. Only hubby dealt with her out in public because the insults thrown at me were so severe because I am the Mom. Hubby rarely, if ever got attacked like I did. I believe because he is a guy and people respected him more, traveling, and out with a child people were helpful or left him alone entirely. He traveled the world with her and she did exceptionally well with him. Thank you for being such positive role models.
I love Priscilla! Her reactions to everything is so sweet. ❤
I love how you tell other kids about Abbie.
I love it when kids are curious. I have a few chronic conditions that mean I use mobility aids and you get really curious kids asking question like 'why are you in the car in a shop' when I am in a mobility scooter and the parents mostly say don't ask that sweetie and I am like no no it's ok and I explain in a way they understand. And when use crutches it's the same ' why do you have sticks ' and it literally just kids being curious. I find it's 9 out of 10 people who are rude or judgemental are adults and elderly oddly enough. That whom I get the most nasty comments from
I’m so stinking proud of you! Isaiah is such an amazing grown man/brother!!! Praise you for raising such an loving man for this world!
It doesn’t matter what anyone does she’s a person and that means as anyone out there you shouldn’t put down or mock someone so what there making different noises she can’t help it and that’s the way she is!
Wow this is an absolutely beautiful thing. Priscilla handled that in such a fantastic way! Great way to help those young girls understand what was going on. Wonderful job!
cool video. i'm 15 and in 9th grade i'm just like Abbie i had special needs since birth but wasn't diagnoused until i was 3 my dad understands me my nanny don't really understand it and say she needs to act her age when my brain is not 15. i have anxiety and i get really anxious in front of a lot of people. like at stories, visiting with family, even at school cause i go to a normal school but in a special needs setting and it's always a lot of people there we have over 1,000 something kids from 9 - 12 switching classes at the same time so i'm in the hallway with 1,000.
congrats
I totally teared up when Isaiah was so quick without hesitation ready to go tell those kids about Abbie!
That was nice when Abbie was smiling!
Abby was enjoying that place I could tell 😊😊
Woahhhh Isaiah was ready to beat someone up! Such a great big brother! Go cilla, go cilla!! So so important, you know those girls are gonna keep what you told them as they grow up! Love yall keep it up!! Apple pie 😂
You're right that children are genuinely curios and are only judgemental if they're taught to be, or overhear an adult being judgemental and think that that's how they're meant to behave. It's better to ask than anything.