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  • @Kay-Dean
    @Kay-Dean 15 днів тому +24

    Lets get jaye to 20k for her birthday 🎉

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Yesss❤️❤️🎉

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 12 днів тому

      I think so…

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 12 днів тому

      Please wear lipstick. You must come out of your comfort zone. You must… I think for a young girl you should try some makeup… cover the acne spots etc. New look for 2025 in Jesus Name.❤

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 12 днів тому

      You dress very nicely…

  • @me.georgiaj.5685
    @me.georgiaj.5685 14 днів тому +1

    Happy Birthday Jaye and daddy! Blessings for a great year 🎉

  • @ANIT421RAM
    @ANIT421RAM 14 днів тому +2

    Jaye, what can i say to all the wisdom you've shared, nothhing more than I'm so proud of you. You're wise beyond your 27 years. It's obvious that therapy is helpong you. Thanks for sharing. I love you so much ❤️. The happiest of birthdays to you dad and grandma. God bless you all.
    Btw the light makeup suit you 😂. You could give it a go whenever you feel to . Keep being who you are and keep God in the middle.

  • @yolandaarnold6046
    @yolandaarnold6046 15 днів тому +3

    My birthday is the 13th. 🎉. Capricorns are very strong independent ppl and you have definitely demonstrated it. Jaye, we all experience blindness to a certain extent while in a relationship. Once we're out of it, we may look back and see the red flags. The blessing in your case and mine, is that God brought us through on top.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому +1

      Happy Birthday when it comes my dear❤️I agree, Capricorn strength is real! 🙌 yes he definitely has blessed us ❤️

  • @JANET.19645
    @JANET.19645 14 днів тому +1

    Happy birthday blessings to many more❤🎉🎁🙏❤️

  • @valeriehughes7221
    @valeriehughes7221 14 днів тому +1

    Jaye I agree with you went you are in a relationship you should never feel like you are walking on a egg shell with the person you are with

  • @marlenehenry8961
    @marlenehenry8961 15 днів тому +6

    January 6th here - big up all Capricorn in the house.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому +3

      Yess Capricorn season ❤️🎉 happy belated birthday

  • @lornafoster3310
    @lornafoster3310 14 днів тому +1

    Looking great and happy. Way to go Jaye.❤❤🇯🇲

  • @sweetbrown2256
    @sweetbrown2256 14 днів тому +2

    Oh, you are a Capricorn girl. Welcome to the club. My birthday was the 3rd of January. Tell me about it. We January people struggle. We don’t get anything easy. We have to work very hard now I know keep shining my girl keep shining.

  • @marlynmorgan3658
    @marlynmorgan3658 14 днів тому +1

    Another great video, Jaye! For someone so young, you come across so mature! You're helping many people, not only in marriage and divorce, but in relationships in general. The video is also helping to prepare people going into a relationship, or contemplating doing so! Good job!👍😊❤❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому +1

      Awhh thank you so much, that means a lot! 💕

  • @valeriehughes7221
    @valeriehughes7221 14 днів тому +1

    Jaye you are doing wonderful by yourself. I am in the same position as you and i am enjoying every moment

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому +1

      Proud of you dear ❤️❤️

  • @vidadowe7173
    @vidadowe7173 15 днів тому +3

    Good night black Queen , can see you have grown immensely in your Faith.God will make a way when there's no way.Have a blessed BD and hug your beautiful daughter🎉🎉🎉❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому

      Thanks for the kind words, and the blessings! 🙏🙏

  • @marciamiller5392
    @marciamiller5392 13 днів тому +1

    Happiest Birthday Jaye🎉🎉

  • @wannabemillionairesthestru7897
    @wannabemillionairesthestru7897 14 днів тому +2

    Happy early birthday, Jaye🎉🎉🎉🎉 ❤. Mine is on the 13th! 😊

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому +1

      Happy early birthday to you too! 🎉❤️

  • @herbiej5107
    @herbiej5107 15 днів тому +3

    Girl you’re a trooper some of us are blinded by love ,you live and you learn some things just weren’t meant to be ,you’re doing the right thing I know someone right now she has 6 kids and she’s happily married and none of them belongs to her husband god will send the right one in due season just continue to be your cheerful self and trust god through the process ❤️🙏🙏👍

  • @kingskid4804
    @kingskid4804 15 днів тому +2

    Looking good Jaye
    You’re beaming 😁
    Keep it up 👍🏾 ❤

  • @georgetucker6376
    @georgetucker6376 14 днів тому +1

    hello ms. smile for you wear it very well!! their is nothing like wisdom, knowledge and understanding it make us a better person😄🙏🖐

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      I agree, knowledge is power! 💪🏾

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 15 днів тому +19

    If a woman divorces a man for cheating they are scorned and embarrassed and they will turn to the ex and say nobody will want you, you have one kid or four kids, you put on weight etc. they say it because they want to put one down and try to let one lose self esteem and confidence. They will move on. You are a young beautiful woman, bright, bubbly, highly intelligent that you will get a good honest decent man in your and Nevi life.

    • @GodsChild-1331
      @GodsChild-1331 15 днів тому +2

      Well said ma...Jaye really deserves the best!! Love her...

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      Thanks dear

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      ❤️❤️

    • @normacoote9856
      @normacoote9856 12 днів тому

      I saw thru your husband from day one. He was very shallow… you acted head over heels in love… when he did things you always ignored it. One thing I never liked, was the relationship he had with your sister. As an older Christian woman, I never liked how he joked around with your sister. He acted interested in your sister sometimes more than you. You joked about everything… many times he acted uninterested. YOU WERE SO NAIVE!!! Glad you have grown.

  • @shirleymcdermott5257
    @shirleymcdermott5257 15 днів тому +2

    Happy and blessed birthday Jay wishing you many more happy healthy years more life more blessings enjoy your special day when it comes nuff love ❤️ ❤🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому

      Aw thanks! Sending blessings your way too! ❤️🌹

  • @tardiatomlinson
    @tardiatomlinson 15 днів тому +2

    Hey hey hey. Jaye, your makeup is beautiful. You have such a cute and unique smile always 😊❤Happy birthday in advance🎉🎉😊

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Thanks so much, you're so sweet! 😊💖

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 15 днів тому +1

    Keep on giving advice I think the women out there will appreciate all the advice they can get about relationship, marriage, divorce, lawyers, red flags etc .your make up, cloths and other hauls and gadgets etc.

  • @andreaharrison9818
    @andreaharrison9818 14 днів тому

    Happy birthday jaye and all the best for the new year

  • @AriAnnaMommyWorld
    @AriAnnaMommyWorld 12 днів тому

    Happy belated birthday to grandma, daddy and Jaye 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁. Hope you all had a fantastic time and God's richest blessings.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      Awhh so sweet, thank you!❤️🎉

  • @nickysunshine8734
    @nickysunshine8734 15 днів тому +1

    “RUN LIKE 10 BATTY-FAN 😅😅 “Fan” 😂😂😂😂 yuh know Mi haffi code up di ting! Lol

  • @Introvert88nia
    @Introvert88nia 15 днів тому +2

    Hey mama, I love the hair the make up. I love that you always high vibrational. I love that you are learning these lessons as a young woman and you been through some tough lessons but that is what God allows us to to go through. Sometimes he blinds us from ourselves just so that you can learn lessons, but the important part is that you level up you turn your pain into power so keep on going my girl. I love it for you and when it comes to a mate talking to family and friends about you in a negative way that means that they’re your enemy they are natural person anyone that is comfortable to train you. They are not personso you know it’s a learning lesson all of it but I love it. Keep going beautiful things to come.❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      Awhh thanks honey , so true it’s all a lesson

    • @Introvert88nia
      @Introvert88nia 12 днів тому

      @ first of all let me say sorry about all the typos. I be talk texting because I can’t type everything I wanna say because I’m lazy lol but you figured out the puzzle so that’s important but you’re welcome mama.

  • @marlened8997
    @marlened8997 15 днів тому

    Happy birthday when it gets here, Jordan. Fellow Capricorn here - celebrated my b/day on the 3rd. With the characteristics of a mountain goat, a superpower that we have is being fiercely independent if we need to be.
    I am also divorced, just over seven years now, and way older than you are. Unlike you, however, I got married in my late 30s. Was married for 15 years, and the union produced one child - what a blessing he is!
    Many of the things that you have said here are true - the main emphasis being "don't be afraid to be by one's self." Being alone is not necessarily being lonely. This is a time to really get to know one's self and become stronger/more rounded for the next one - if that's desired.

    • @clairehall8518
      @clairehall8518 15 днів тому

      @@marlened8997 well said

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      Awhh happy belated birthday my dear, so true man, thanks for your insightful comment ❤️

  • @JudithAWhite
    @JudithAWhite 15 днів тому +2

    To the Capricorns. Jan 6th. Mek wi big up wisself! BTW, the blush and lipstick looks good on your Jaye. I agree, glam up sometimes.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Yeah, Capricorn energy! Love the support and the makeup compliments, I appreciate it!

    • @kerri-annmalcolm6913
      @kerri-annmalcolm6913 15 днів тому

      Happy belated birthday

  • @juliettejean-louis6856
    @juliettejean-louis6856 10 днів тому

    Happy Belated birthday Jaye my is the 14 .Capricorns my love we are survivors. Much love🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  5 днів тому

      Yess hun happy belated ❤️❤️

  • @ivylinstubbs4144
    @ivylinstubbs4144 12 днів тому

    Happy happy belated birthday to you and your family whohas a birthday in this month, 🎉🎉❤🎉🎉🎁🎂🎊🎊🎊💕🇯🇲

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      Appreciate the love and blessings! ❤️

  • @maxineweir6093
    @maxineweir6093 15 днів тому +1

    Hey Jaye & Nevi, love to see you all happy and bubbly ❤🙏.
    Happy birthday to you my dear 🎉🥳🥳... Mine is on the thirteen (13th) I will be 61 yrs old ❤❤🙏.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому

      Thanks so much! Happy birthday to you when it comes. 🥳🎉

  • @jacquilinenapier7791
    @jacquilinenapier7791 15 днів тому +1

    Girl you have me.glue to the phone, wow you learn a lot ❤

    • @rhonarobinson3557
      @rhonarobinson3557 15 днів тому

      Same here i just could not move 😊love this vlog

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      A hard lesson man I’m glad you enjoyed it hun ❤️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Awwh thanks for watching

  • @pamelajohnson323
    @pamelajohnson323 15 днів тому +1

    Love and blessings continually ,Jaye,take things one day at a time you're truly a wonderful beautiful and strong young lady❤🎉.

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 15 днів тому +4

    Happy birthday for the 11th mine is tomorrow January 10, 58 years old

    • @Darimeeks-n9i
      @Darimeeks-n9i 15 днів тому +1

      Happy birthday to you. I'm a capricorn too,the 15th

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Awwhh wishing you the happiest of birthday ❤️🎉

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Happy birthday when it comes dear ❤️

    • @Darimeeks-n9i
      @Darimeeks-n9i 15 днів тому

      @jayesparkle Happy birthday to you, jaye, when it comes. Enjoy your day to the fullest with family.

  • @anonymousanonymous-fj8xj
    @anonymousanonymous-fj8xj 15 днів тому +2

    You're beautiful Jay... Love watching your videos ❤😊

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Thanks so much, you're so sweet!

  • @audreydouglas6567
    @audreydouglas6567 15 днів тому

    Happy birthday in advanced to you, grandma and your Dad. My birthday is tomorrow the 10th as well. Jaye, I know for a fact that we love hard, so I understand you. One thing is sure we will get over things easily than most persons.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому +1

      Awhh happy belated honey ❤️ we truly do

  • @kerri-annmalcolm6913
    @kerri-annmalcolm6913 15 днів тому +2

    Capricorn season yeah. New Year’s Day

  • @genevievewilliams9252
    @genevievewilliams9252 14 днів тому

    Happy birthday when it comes dear wish you all the best

  • @rhonarobinson3557
    @rhonarobinson3557 15 днів тому

    Happy Happy birthday girl keep enjoying your self 🎉🎉❤

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Appreciate the love! 🎉❤️

  • @valeriehughes7221
    @valeriehughes7221 14 днів тому

    Jaye for that person who tell you that didn't respect in the first place. You should have tell him what is garbage to him is gold to another person you just keep the faith God is with you and your daughter 🙏

    • @donnashields2540
      @donnashields2540 14 днів тому +1

      You are a beautiful young lady , wonderful personality . God bless. One. Day you will meet someone who is worthy of your love.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      I love that ❤️

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      ❤️❤️

  • @marleenblack70
    @marleenblack70 14 днів тому

    Happy birthday in advance enjoy your day more blessings 🎉❤

  • @SuzanneGordon-em9xh
    @SuzanneGordon-em9xh 13 днів тому

    Happy birthday Jaye long life happiness.

  • @daphnethomas9082
    @daphnethomas9082 15 днів тому

    Hello georgious
    Jaye....You are glowing.......
    You have given some beautiful words of advice
    I really enjoyed listening ✨️ 😍 💛 💖

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Thanks so much, you're so sweet!❤️

  • @sisterdeelevy-lp7ip
    @sisterdeelevy-lp7ip 14 днів тому

    You are so beautiful! That hair suits you! A big rounds of applause to you for finding your true self: wise and intelligent girl ❤👏

  • @josephinelindabrown312
    @josephinelindabrown312 15 днів тому +1

    Jaye your makeup looks good.

  • @Maureen-pp7ix
    @Maureen-pp7ix 15 днів тому +1

    BIRTHDAY 🎂🎁🎉 BLESSINGS WHEN IT COMES

  • @rosebiggs9381
    @rosebiggs9381 14 днів тому

    You are looking beautiful Jaye. This is a great video.

  • @dawnwalters1955
    @dawnwalters1955 15 днів тому

    Happy Birthday, Jaye

  • @carribeanqueenfitts7277
    @carribeanqueenfitts7277 11 днів тому

    Happy Earthday 🎉❤❤❤ you look Beautiful

  • @donnashields2540
    @donnashields2540 14 днів тому

    Happy Birthday Jaye when it comes. My birthday was January 6th

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому

      Happy belated birthday hun 🎉

  • @stacy5981
    @stacy5981 15 днів тому

    Happy birthday when it comes. We share the same birthday 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

  • @hortensevernon1913
    @hortensevernon1913 15 днів тому

    Happy birthday Jaye when it comes may God grants you many more looking good girl you are so inspiring for your age

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому

      Thanks so much, you're so sweet!❤️

  • @carolecampbell9056
    @carolecampbell9056 15 днів тому +3

    Looking lovely

  • @paulinestephens5872
    @paulinestephens5872 13 днів тому

    🎉happy birthday blessings to you 🎉

  • @JANET.19645
    @JANET.19645 14 днів тому

    My two grandsons share same mom, 23 rd of Jan

  • @genuinecathy2947
    @genuinecathy2947 15 днів тому

    Well said. Happy birthday.

  • @veronabrown9770
    @veronabrown9770 15 днів тому

    That's so true 💯💯 totally agree

  • @majohnson2939
    @majohnson2939 15 днів тому

    Jaye u are strong and glad u learn a lot and u could share with someone keep look gorgeous

  • @joycemalcolm7542
    @joycemalcolm7542 15 днів тому

    Happy birthday Jordan and Dad on January 11🎉🎉🎉

  • @lovedayirons2201
    @lovedayirons2201 15 днів тому

    My birthday is the 14th Jan . Thank you.❤❤❤❤❤🎉

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому

      Awhh happy birthday when it comes my dear ❤️❤️

  • @Resilientqueen-c1b
    @Resilientqueen-c1b 15 днів тому

    💯 don't ignore them for real.

  • @joycemalcolm7542
    @joycemalcolm7542 15 днів тому

    Ditto ditto ditto. I learnt the hard way! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @sweetbrown2256
    @sweetbrown2256 14 днів тому +1

    Oh yes, oh yes, Jordan, that is a a fox without shadow of the doubt is true these people that pretend to be somebody who they are not and they said come and live with me I see who we are the true colour coming out is it true? True colour? I’m telling you girl if not in that situation you cannot speak, but I’m telling you we all been through it is like hell on earth

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 15 днів тому

    Well said❤

  • @shirleymcdermott5257
    @shirleymcdermott5257 15 днів тому

    You are beautiful in your heart and outside beautiful you. When the time is your heavenly father will send the right person nuff love and endless blessings to you and Nevi

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  14 днів тому

      Awww that’s so sweet, I really appreciate it!❤️

  • @torresslick5738
    @torresslick5738 15 днів тому +1

    You are looking beautiful ❤

  • @Marelva100
    @Marelva100 15 днів тому

    Happy birthday my husband is also January 11th

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Happy birthday to your husband as well🎉

  • @briannaspicyweekend334
    @briannaspicyweekend334 13 днів тому

    Happy birthday

  • @kingskid4804
    @kingskid4804 15 днів тому +2

    So true, keep your past in your past 👍🏾

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      right

    • @nikki101
      @nikki101 15 днів тому +1

      I learned this the hard way! Never again

    • @Nollugs5111
      @Nollugs5111 15 днів тому

      Much older than you .....and girl I'm living single past 6 years when I say single I mean single and I'm good😊

  • @Marelva100
    @Marelva100 15 днів тому

    Btw Jaye you are glowing

  • @kimberlybinnie1188
    @kimberlybinnie1188 14 днів тому

    Big up, I was January 1st

  • @clairehall8518
    @clairehall8518 15 днів тому +1

    I have watched you from the beginning, I have seen from day one and seen some things I did not like. When you fall in love with different ethnicities family can be very tricky and difficult. I said that as I am not sure what to type or say Incase of saying the politically in correct words my family went through some stuff. Please do not blame yourself as not seeing red flags, Its easy for people to look and judge you and say why you did not see this or that, they are not in your situation.

  • @ChimmySloan
    @ChimmySloan 15 днів тому

    Typically if a partner or friend says nothing while someone else is running you down it’s because they agree with what is being said! Typically if friend or partner tells you what nasty thing or criticism someone has said behind your back again it’s because they agree with it

  • @mariedames3240
    @mariedames3240 15 днів тому +3

    That's why we should never marry someone unequally yoked.
    Christ died for us and the Bible says your husband is the love you the way Christ church.
    Your past is your past leave your past in the past.

  • @rubyparris8456
    @rubyparris8456 15 днів тому

    Good night Jaye and Nevie ❤❤happy birthday Jaye 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊 when it comes ❤❤what date is your birthday. Mine is on the 20th of January.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  15 днів тому

      Aw thanks! You too! 🥰 I’m the 11th

  • @angellafrancis9401
    @angellafrancis9401 12 днів тому

    Chat yu wid fambili. That is the word.

  • @wphtv401
    @wphtv401 15 днів тому

    The devil is a liar. I got married and i had 7 children who didn't belong to my husband.

    • @jayesparkle
      @jayesparkle  12 днів тому +1

      Wow that’s such a blessing❤️

    • @wphtv401
      @wphtv401 12 днів тому

      ​@jayesparkle never let anyone tell you who you are or who you can be. God is the One that writes our story.

  • @sharonclarke5371
    @sharonclarke5371 15 днів тому

    Can you imagine who will want you with a child that's bird brain reasoning.

  • @stacyannhibbert9929
    @stacyannhibbert9929 15 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @denisegreen3335
    @denisegreen3335 15 днів тому

    Your pass relationship should never be a part of your present relationship.

  • @petewray8876
    @petewray8876 15 днів тому

    Daddy big baby ❤

  • @JANET.19645
    @JANET.19645 14 днів тому

    I thought J was 100k why I thought so? 2025 is it in Jesus name ❤

  • @cynthiathompson6830
    @cynthiathompson6830 15 днів тому

    Outside you see problems clearly

  • @nickeshaallwood431
    @nickeshaallwood431 14 днів тому

    Let me say early Happy birthday greetings to you, your dad and grandma I do hope you all have an awesome time and I wish you all many more happy returns 🍰 🧁 🍦 🍧 🎂 🎊 🍰 🧁 🍦 🍧 🎂 🎊 🍰 🧁 🍦

  • @sherinegrant830
    @sherinegrant830 11 днів тому

    Jaye you deserved to be

  • @patriciahiggins5446
    @patriciahiggins5446 15 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤