Sarge's End of Life Decision
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- This was not an easy video to put out there. She has made her end of life decision, I know it will be hard for some to agree with, but we have to respect her choices. Thank you to everyone that has reached out with comments and prayers, we love you all.
We lost so many inspirational people last year, Sarge, Peeweetoms, Emily Hayward and Sofia to name a few. May they all rest peacefully.
I miss dan and Emily soo much, I loved their videos !!!
@Robert Gardea all youtubers with terminal illnesses. You can check out their old videos. 2018 was a sad year
Very true. 😔
@@wendy-bellesadventures5323 young people taking to soon.God bless them let them be at peace and free from pain .
awe i watched each and every one of them, i felt so sad for Sophia , such a beautiful young lady, i was praying she would beat her cancer,, i prayed for all of them, saying goodbye of here to each. they were all amazing, sorry for your loss
You both have been amazingly strong through all of this . Big hugs to you and Sarge.You both have A special place in my heart God bless to you both
Still praying, Pensacola, FL.
I know this had to be the hardest decision ever made. I lost my sister to brain tumors in 2003. I was there at her bedside when she made the same decision because the cancer came back three times and finally took it's toll. As my way of saying goodbye, I was a Paul bearer at her funeral. God bless you and the entire family
I'm so very sorry, May she RIP, Condolences to Family and Friends, this is the first time I've been to the channel wish I'd have a chance to message her! Take Care and God Bless!
Oh my dear Sarge, you’re a hero! You’ve been so strong and you’ve been fighting so hard and now it’s time for you to rest. I can’t express the love I have in my heart for you, you’ve touched my soul! You’re a warrior threw and threw and you’ve helped to keep pushing forward. Thank you so much Mrs. Sarge for the update, I cant imagine how hard this is for you. Stay strong and remember that she feels the love around her and that she hears everything you say to her! I’m sending continuing prayers, love, hugs and strong vibes to you both. I love you Sarge my sweet friend! ❤️
Hi Sarge, when you got my letter you stared calling me Mr V. So this is Mr V. I’m so sorry, I really started liking you after I watched your videos. I really don’t understand why god won’t step in and help you. I still believe in god so I guess he has a plan for you. The hard part is I will miss you so much. You were special. I wish I could do something. I want you to know that you touched my life. I will keep praying and hoping that god helps you. Your friend Peter
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sending love and hugs!
So very sorry 🙏💔😚💕💕💕💕
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God Bless Sarge and you Mrs. Sarge. Sarge was an inspiration❤️❤️
R.I.P Sarge
I have not ever commented but i have been following your journey . My cousin who is 36 , just had her second child , was just diagnosed with colon cancer . It was the size of a softball and once they got in they found an additional spot on her liver . Cancer is a vile beast . More and more , due to social media , we are lucky enough to witness the brave and strong people who come against it . It is eye opening and humbling .
The both of you exhibit such beauty and strength in the face of this . I will forever be touched by your experience .
Thank you for letting us in . Sleep in peace Sarge . You have made an impact in this world .
My thoughts are with you and your family . Light and love
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It's crazy and inhumane how many folks suffer. So sorry that she had to suffer. The Family vet is better to our sick animals...why must we suffer usually alone
This is devastating to hear that Sarge has been suffering pain and anxiety. Sarge is such a beautiful soul. To know that her pain is now being managed and she is comfortable is a blessing. Mrs Sarge you are wonderful. I'm just a stranger following this journey but feel so connected to you two. You both are being flooded with love and support from your "Minions". We are here for you! Sending hugs from The UK! ❤ ❤ ❤
thank you for updating everyone. Just know we all love you and Sarge very much. If you need ANYTHING let me know.
my heart is broken, but I understand
Freedom from pain is the most valuable gift that Sarge can be given. Our thoughts are with you both.
Avril Bowler beautiful words... this illness any illness is just bad. I'm so done with my pain
@@arideneros9015 Ari. Am so sorry to hear of your pain. I have arthritis and have pain all the time so I understand. I wish you healing from your suffering and peace for your mind and body.
Avril Bowler The sweetest words I've ever heard. Thank you so much. I wish the best for you too! That arthritis sure is something, unfortunately it runs in my family. I see how my auntie Who 86 years of age jumps from the pain. Pain is unbelievable. Hope you have a beautiful day 🌞
@@arideneros9015 Thank you, Ari. Your poor aunt - how awful to see her hurting so much. I send loving wishes to you and your aunt in the hope that you both find life much kinder for you both.
My heart is breaking with you, Mrs. Sarge. It is a little comforting to know she is sleeping and not in pain. Please dont let her forget that thousands of people love her and are holding her deep in their hearts. For you too Mrs. Sarge. This must be hell for you. Sarge strong!!!
Mrs. Sarge, Sarge couldn't have a better spouse. Thank you for the news even though it's sad. Sarge has been fighting a difficult fight, and I am glad she is getting some rest. You are both wonderful and dear people and I am pleased to be connected. I feel for both of you but also acknowledge that it is your inner strength that has brought you this far. Lots of love.
Thank you so much for the update on Sarge. Her decision is well respected. She has fought her battle with pride and perseverance. God Bless both of you and the family. XOXO
The nurse told my daughter when her best friend ‘s mother was dying and in a coma,to keep on talking,as loved ones’ voices are the last thing we hear during the process of dying.
I worked in Hospice too. Yes...this is true. And we’d make sure it was good talk....never family arguing. I couldn’t believe it when that happened and removed family from rooms more than once. Seemed to me too that if the talking somehow made it difficult to let go..it was common for them to do so when no one was in the room. Even if just for a minute. So that was good too.
You are a gift. Don’t ever forget that. Palliative sedation is fairly new and I have seen it work wonders. Sleep (I hear her snoring) Comfort.. until the end. And don’t forget for a second that she she feels your presence as you are the love of her life. As a hospice nurse I feel this was a thoughtful decision and I believe it was the best she could have had. This was very hard for you but you have given her the biggest gift. Sarge is on her way... but I am Now wishing YOU healing and peace. The ones left behind suffer but know the suffering is behind her now. She will be so so missed
NYC Trail Runner Thank you for your comments to Mrs. Sarge. Getting her out of pain was job one and praises that Mrs. Sarge is hanging in there "Sarge & Mrs. Sarge strong. I am praying for both their comfort as Sarge makes her journey.
NYC Trail Runner ... this was a beautiful message to mrs Sarge. Much love to you❤️
Beautifully stated.
Amen
NYC Trail Runne77
Mrs. Sarge, there’s no words of comfort to soothe your pain as I have gone through this journey with my own love ones. I have just surrounded my self with family and friends who were compassionate and gave me/us space when we needed it. Continued prayers for Sarge, yourself and your family as you are going through this journey. #staysargestrong 🌺
I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this. I lost my dad to cancer eleven years ago and I know how hard this is for both of you. Sending both of you big hugs and prayers
I am crying so hard right now my tears are like a river. I’m just heart broken but not for only her but for you to Mrs Sarge and the kids. She wanted so badly to go away with you guys and make unforgettable memories but I know that you guys have great memories anyway but it still breaks my heart ♥️. Love and hugs and prayers to you Mrs Sarge and always praying 🙏🏼 for Sarge to I wish there was a cure😢 Love you guys.
I completely understand and accept Sarge's decision. There is no reason for her to suffer. This is heart breaking because she's such a wonderful special person who always made her viewers feel they were important. my heart goes out to you both. Thank you for keeping us updated.
miss her already but glad she is sleeping and not hurting
Brave
😭😭......I will pray that she will be as comfortable as possible, Sarge is an amazing fighter. Rest well Sarge, we love you. 💪❤ #SargeStrong #CancerCantWin #KickCancer
Oh, Mrs. Sarge, I can't imagine Sarge being nearly as strong as she has been without you beside her; you are such a blessing! I am in total agreement with respecting Sarge's wishes, and I'm glad to hear that she's being kept comfortable. My heart is with you both, and I'm staying SargeStrong along with you.
i'm so deeply sorry. I wish you much strength in going through this with Sarge and I wish Sarge a pain-free, peaceful time.
I feel for you Mrs. Sarge. Thank you for the update. We just lost a cancer vlogger last week, Emily Hayward. So incredibly sad. The most important thing is that Sarge isn't in pain. We all have come to love her so much and her fight has been such a courageous one. Much love to you 💜💖
ItzBecky Thomas I thought she had at least a month left. I'm shocked how fast that was
@Karen Love I was just thinking of Emily ... whatta woman. I wonder how Aisha is?
Debra Moeller I still think of Emily Hayward daily 😥
My heart is breaking. May you both find peace.
I knew this was her dicision before you told us because sarge is a true champ! This breaks my heart cause once again someone ive followed on here is losing their life. Truly heartbreaking but understood. Mrs Sarge I hope your also getting all the love and support you need too. I hope that you will carry on her legacy with us if not, I understand that too. God bless.
I’m so sorry. I hope that her pain can be managed. Much love to both of you.
was working in san diego..
& i seen someone who sooo
looked exactly like her.. i
stopped what i was doing lol
my 1st thought was her..
So sorry that things aren’t going well for Sarge. Thank you so much for coming on and updating us. I know it was very hard for you to do this video. You are a wonderful person and Sarge loves you with all her heart and is so lucky to have you. I know this is going to be a very hard time for you but if she is sleeping and out of pain that means a lot. Just know you are both in our thoughts and prayers. xoxo
Palliative sedation was a very good decision. God forbid if I end up in a dire situation I will definitely want end of life sedation. I do not want to be awake and in pain or afraid. Better to sleep and pass as gently as possible. God bless you.
I’m so sorry 😔thank you for the update and for the strength from the both of you. It has made me
Appreciate life and the little things so much more and your journey has taught me more than you will ever know. My love and prayers to you and your family ❤️🙏🏼
My heart is so heavy and completely broken into.. I wanted so bad to tell her how she helped save me.. God bless you Sarge and Mrs. Sarge😥 We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Im so so sorry. .
God bless her give her a kiss from all of us, feeling sad but i know she has had such a fight like you say shes tired god love her, In my prayers always thank you Mrs SARGE for the update it must be so hard for you big hug from the UK XXXX
I'm so very sorry. I respect her decision. I just wish it hadn't needed to come so soon. I guess there never is enough time. Sending you both hugs and love. xo
You both have been so strong through everything. I’m so sorry honey. You both are in my prayers.
I am devastated by the news, even though I knew she wasn't doing well. It still hurts so much. I am just so deeply sorry. Please let her know we love her, and we are all here for her. We're here for you both. Sending all the love and prayers I have. Sarge strong forever!
Thank you for sharing a difficult decision with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you from Canada. May you find great comfort in memories of happy times together. xo
#staysargestrong ✌🏼
Words cannot express the sadness I feel.
Praying for you both xo
I’m so sorry 😐 this is such sad news! But both of you have been so strong and positive through this whole thing! Love you both ❤️ #sargestrong
Thank you for letting us know. 😥
You were right this wasn't easy to watch but I truly thank you for letting us know how Sarge is doing, I pray she stays comfortable and that you and the other family members can find comfort and peace at this hard time, much love and respect for you all 💙💖
I' am very sorry to hear what Sarge and you have to go through. She was a really nice and sweet person who I will remember as a you tuber who treated me with respect.
Many prayers are sent out to Sarge and you. She has fought a long time, and God has a beautiful place for her to watch over in the future where she will no longer feel in agony and distress. God Bless.
I'm so sorry this is happening I'm praying for y'all and I hate that she is going through this. Just know I love y'all dearly
Thank you for the update... this is very sad and I’m crying as I write this sarge Nikki and I love you so much and we have from the start your like family to us... we are praying for you and love you love you love you we both are team sarge #staysargestrong
Sending much love and support your way. You are both so brave. I’m not surprised at her choice of care. She is so selfless.....and I’m sure she’s thinking of you in making her decision. Praying for you both...🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sorry to hear but Sarge has over come so much 😥😥😥😥😥😥🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
😢😢😢😢😢😢god bless🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Everyone has a right to die with dignity.. we put animals down without hesitation when they are in extreme pain but with humans people let them suffer for days, months and years. Allow people to die as they choose with doctors permission. 🤒
Everyone's end of life decision in the end, is their own. I have been on this journey with many, being a Pastor. You, Mrs. Sarge are amazing. If everyone who is dying had the support and love that Sarge has surrounding her right now, fear and lonliness would cease. She has won her battle with cancer. I will be praying for sleep and comfort for Sarge, and strength and rest for you. You are an amazing team, you two, on a journey we will all be on some day...you two and your love have shown us how to travel with Grace, with Love, and with Courage. God Bless.
You're a fraud.
Wendy Lowden , you say your a paster. A woman. You must not listen to scripture, because if you did you know that a woman is supposed to be silent in worship. The real reason I'm commenting is to let you know, we don't have a choice to do ourselves in, we are to wait until God decides when to die. Christ hung on the cross for six hours, even the Romans offered him a drink to numb the pain and he refused. I sorry for this lady. But the choice is not ours
I bet this is the double spacing after sentences "hospice nurse" from another long comment on here lol
Thank you mrs sarge. I am sad to hear that it’s close to end of life because I’ll miss her too. So many viewers will. Sending love and support and much comfort at this time. Thank sarge for helping me get through my stage 3 breast cancer. 3 more chemo to go. Be kind to yourself and I’m most happy you are not in any pain. Big hugs 🤗. Lori
I have been waiting all day for a report and knowing it would not be good, BLESS you, BLESS you.. wow..
Mitch Grooms blessings won't come from God
Viva los pepes Geesh...no one said, “God” but had the person chose to say this then it would have been none of your business. Don’t force your beliefs on people whom you don’t want to force their beliefs on you.
Besides, I don’t think a year ago when this woman and loved ones were enduring this pain, was the time to run your trap.
I Love You Both!!! Sending Prayers.
I’m so sorry.I hope you are able to be strong.I know how hard it is for all of you .I have cried through this as if I know you both.God and many prayers sent your way hopefully will help you both at this sad time. Sending my love from Canada 🇨🇦
I'm so sorry things have taken a turn for the worse. I am keeping you, Sarge and all of your family and friends in my prayers. This is so heartbreaking. I have truly come to love Sarge and you, her lovely wife. #staysargestrong
You re both in my thoughts and prayers and much love sent your way 💜
Love you Sarge !!!! Mrs. Sarge stay strong sweetie. Love you both and respect the choices made. xoxoxox
so very sorry. prayers and love sent. xoxo
So sorry to hear this news but just so y’all know, the prayers won’t stop. They will continue for Sarge and for every member of her family and all of her friends... now more than ever. Try to get some rest too you will need all your strength now.
Sarge is so so strong. You both are so incredibly strong. My heart is with you both. I know I don't have the right words. Please please know. If there is anything at all I can do. In any capacity. I am here. My prayers are with you Mrs Sarge. Forgive me saying that my heart is just breaking in half right now.. I know I have no right to say this considering what must be going on with you.. I'm just laying on my bed in tears. Yes. I still, probably like all of us.. prayed so very hard for a miracle. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your family. Forever. I'm still here and. Am not going anywhere. Love you both and.. all of you so very very much. I will be going to the gofund me at the end of the week. Bear with me, my finances are complicated.. I know you and Sarge are not and have never asked. It's not that. I just want to help in whatever way I can right now. I'm sure we all will love you hunny. ❤️❤️❤️
My father died from cancer so I'm fully aware of what you are going through but take comfort in the knowledge that she is no longer in pain, I'm so sorry that you both have had to go through this its so very sad, you have a lot of people behind you.
Ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers! I pray ya'll find peace joy and strength at this time. She's a WARRIOR!
Thank you for the update. This is very sad. HUGS to you both.
This news is greatly appreciated because we all feel love for Sarge and for you, Mrs Sarge ( sweet Jenn). Personally speaking I offer a warm human hug and heartfelt care to you. Sarge is safe and you have the expertise and genuine capacity to make sure your wife gets the best care there can ever BE. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this update. All of us know this is very hard on you. With love and positive thoughts and prayers, Sheila
Sending love from Texas,
God bless all caregivers. My heart bleeds for you. I have Stage 4A Ductal Prostate Cancer. Even so, it is harder for my wife than me. Again, God bless you and your whole family.
🙏❣💞💕🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I am so so sorry To hear about Sarge! Keeping her and you and the rest of the family in my prayers!
Sarge and you (Mrs. Sarge) are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry.. not the update anyone wanted but I’m devastated for you. I hope she is comfortable. Truly that is what Sarge deserves for the rest of her days. I hope you are taking care of yourself as much as possible too❤️
My Heart Is Breaking,Prayers Up,I Support Your Choice🙏🏾🙏🏾#StaySargeStrong
Thank you so much for the update. You and Sarge have a place in my heart forever.
Sorry to hear she has deteriorated so quickly. God bless you both.
Peace and comfort for all of you
You both have been so amazing. God Bless you both at this most difficult time. Thank you Mrs. Sarge for the update. You are amazing. hugs
Sending loves and hugsss please tell her Chrissy is always thinking of her ... that she has a wonderful smile :)
I have been keeping ya'll in my prayers. I understand her decisions and choices are her own and respectfully there is nothing I could say other than I am okay with what she, you and your family are okay with. I really am thinking about you, your heart, your feelings, how your fairing though all of this. I can only imagine that its not easy for you though you appear in this video to have a strength and resilence that I always felt from Sarge whenever she put out any of her videos. I am here, though wish I could be there to give you a warm humg and help comfort you. I am glad you have your family there and everyones support. #STAYSARGESTRONG
Thank you for sharing your life you and sarge are amazing..... please post when possible take care of yourself! I have been looking daily for you & your families updates you have become a part of my life ! You guys are amazing
Peace be with you dear. God Bless you both. 🙏🕊
Very sorry to hear that Sarge has taken a turn for the worse. I think she has made the right decision and at least she won't be in pain or suffering anymore. xxx
I am so very sorry. I did the same with my mother. I feel for you. God Bless
You Both have fought this for some time now.
I’m sorry to hear that things aren’t going well. May Gods will be done and strength for you and your family during this time of hardship, God bless
This saddens me, I will be praying.
Praying to whom?
Mrs.'s Sarge I'm so sorry that this is happening. I don't even know what to say, my heart is breaking 💔 I can't even fathom how Ur feeling at this moment. I wish there were something that I could do or say to make this all go away & give our beautiful Sarge back her life. All that I can say is that I love Sarge very much & I'm always praying for her & you & Ur family & of course I love you too. I wish I were in the same state as you, then I could be there for you & Sarge in "real life" , giving you both my love & my support but I'm here in Arizona & I can barely walk due to SFN. But just know that I'm praying & Im hoping for a miracle for our Sarge. I'm here for you as much as I can be, from afar. Let Sarge know, I support her decision that she's made & Im going to love her forever. Be brave & #StaySargeStrong . All My Love ❤️
HUGS TO YOU BOTH.Thank you for allowing us to to be with you during this difficult time.
Wise choice at this stage not taking more chemo, bless her... comfort is the most important.
Thank you Mrs Sarge for explaining that process of your choice in the “comfortable dying process”
Although hard, and so sad, the combination of those words are actually beautiful words, in that we are so lucky with medical intervention to have that kinder palliative care available. Much love from Australia 🇦🇺 xxxxx
Thank you so much for the update. You both are amazing. I love you both. My thoughts and prayers are with you both ❤❤❤
Hi Sarge and Mrs Sarge. So sad and sorry. Love to you both ❤
Carsons mom here. Im praying for your family. You are such an inspiring family.
I seen sarge in her first video..sooo strong..I had hoped for a miracle for her..than I found the next video..I can't imagine ..and I doubt I would be so courageous..💖💞
My heart is breaking for you. Much love for you both. God bless.
Thoughts and prayers to you and Sarge. Peace and comfort in Sarge's last few weeks.
Stay strong xxxxx
My thoughts and prayers are with you both .love you Sarge & Mrs Sarge xx God bless xx
I am so sorry. You both are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs