The answer not given to the question is... You must release your feelings for that person. _You must put them out of your mind._ It's not easy! It requires a constant, conscious effort. When you find yourself thinking about that person, you must STOP, and focus on something else. Do not allow the memory of that person to take over your life, or you will never be able to find someone new. When you do find someone new, NEVER compare them to that old flame. They are not the same person, nor can they be! Focus on what they are. Their likes and dislikes. Their favorite food, color, etc. See them for who they are. Not for the old flame they aren't! Embrace what is different about them! It is YOU who are holding on, not the person who left you, or betrayed you. Obviously, they have moved on! Don't allow the memory of them to take over your life.
its a Ego problem , The ego always expects more wants more Trying to make one person Special will always end up in pain ... people constantly change ......If we love in a romantic way we will always end up hurt , If we can learn to love in a holy way and not a romantic way .we can move on when things change
Very true but I don’t know how to love in holy way- movies and music and the world only taught me romantic ego love. And yes I expected more and more and the person always betrayed. I always ended up hurt and heartbroken, but it wasn’t real love coming from me. So I gave up like I’m not fit for this. I really don’t know how to love in a holy way. How can I learn this?
I lost someone to suicide. It was a volatile, up and down darkly passionate situation. He haunts me like a ghost. Sometimes I feel finding a way to unlove his memory will help free me to mourn and love his memory in a different way.
I did too, my first love. It gets easier believe me, I eventually even fell in love again but she recently broke my heart, hence me being here. Maybe we heal each time, I don’t know if I’ll ever find it again but I know I can be content with being alone, I have been in the past.
I'm living together with a girl I like and love,,, but she never loved me back as I did, ,, she is dating someone and going out with him,,, it's hurting me a lot,,, she is ashamed to go out with me,,, hence I think I need to let her go and move on,,, also want to unlove her since she dnt reciprocate feelings as am doing
Every individual is created differently by God our creator. Listening to Sadgurus like this is never going to change our life and destiny. Hence, do we need to waste our time, ?
answer is given at the very start of the video that I have already given my heart to someone. it means it's safe nobody can break it and moreover there is no technique to unlove.love is beautiful thing enjoy being in love that's it. DONT EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN . JUST LOVE..
Instead of having expectations on people we love allow them to grow with you or apart from you when the time comes, and not hold it against them. The reason we love another person is because their needs and hopes are aligned with ours. As hard to hear as this is, that’s allowed to change as people change their perception everyday
@@anoohya_k_rao there isn't one. It's time to let them follow their path to grow and you follow yours. Do not give the power of your happiness away to anyone, that's yours to keep and nurture. And it's a heavy load to lay on the shoulders of another.
Love is the destruction of mind body and soul......once you do this you will weaken and destroy any purity within your life..... now you live in lust and think you want love.... LoL 😂🤣....we human are our own detriments.
Why do you want to unlove another person who are clearly important to you? How can anyone teach you how to unlove someone? This feelings is not something we can set an conclusion on how it's possible for a person to have a question like this? I would think that anyone who has a brain would know that is an impossible question to give an answer to🤔🤣🙄 It's no such thing as a stupid question , there is only stupid answers...? Someone who has made this comment as a rule of something that I don't remember. Probably a very important person in his days 🤔🙃😉 but if no question is stupid, you can not get stupid answers. And for example you can ask questions about anything that you want to know. How stupid you are is another question that you may have to ask yourself 🤔🤣😅🙋😜
I dont need a love marriage to choose my soul mate..i need only a good understanding person..then, automatically i will get love from him...in my view...a good martial life needs only based on mutual understandings...becsz, my age is 47 years old..so, i need only a understanding person...now a days..why should people love to other means, just, they want money or physical relationships..something expecting through love..So, that only they are giving troubles to opposite gender... ?....but, true love we can't see...So, don't waste our valuable time to spend for love through earn money and life settelement...only onething, i wish to say that, to give our valuable time and hard work in any other way and to earn sufficient money to lead a happy life....why should lying and cheating others and blaming ?Is it correct ?....So, the mainthing is money...So, they can express love..true love...like goes on..true love never giving troubles, lying, cheating and blaming.....So, why should to cheat others ?..there are so many ways here to earn money..but, some people choosing this way....
Dear Sadhguru, I just can stop watching you talking. The need of my wish is to see you and experience your life in real-time. I am in the Pacific-Papua New Guinea. I pray that God will make way for me to come and experience your life before you move on to another stage of life.
........... ... ................. Breaking hearts I give my heart already so no body can break it Intelligence is hijacked by hormones Whsts happening when we r in love
One small explanation giving about love...True love..😋...Sadhguru, first one lady did a marry with someone..then, automaticcally conceived and delivered a child..girl or boy...after, delivered, she went with another man due to contraversy with a husband and left away from his life..and hand threw the newly born baby .... she said that she did a True Love with a second man or third..i don't know how many she is having......Is it love ?Is she have any rights to described about love ?she Said she did a True Love with him..he, told her, to keep away her child due to over burdern to grow up......
Kya ab aapko ans Mila... I found your comment very near to me ... I am now suffering from the same emotion and feeling... I think I may ask for help... it's okay if you delete this comment.
Am emotionally down right now, am so clean and my kids father doesn't trust me he claims am using dark magic on him...I want to look for a new man and move on how do I do that
Love is a chemical reaction that often leaves the individual who was once in love with the exploration of life and his/herself dependent on another irrespective of wether the other person is serving them in other aspects of their life holistically or not it’s basically like an emotional sugar rush that cripples the infected sadghuru’s point is that once upon a time you were alone and you were fine you were somewhat content you were hopeful you were joyful you were present and you actually mattered to you all of a sudden hormones kick in and priorities change then it’s given to those who reciprocate the connection the problem is during puberty everyone is confused and still finding themselves they’re in this forever changing mode where the slightest thing might turn them off or on his point is that it is first important to discover yourself before you try and connect with anyone else in that way .. and most importantly to remember that at it’s core science nature the universe is just looking forward to reproduction fruitfulness cyclical progression of life nothing else don’t overthink things don’t think you’re too significant too important to get with the program the process the cycle focus on what’s been given practice gratitude then naturally comes universal reward 🙏🏽💯
I don't believe that anyone can learn how to love from movies or by watching and listening to others and who is going to teach another person what love is and how you can learn how to love by following others idea of what they mean is love 🤣🤔😂
1. No matter how well everything was, why is it that it takes a woman little to no effort in leaving, and going silent on you? 2. Where does all the love disappear for the leaver in these circumstances? Does the leaver feel some kind of pain as well? 3. Why do women leave immediately upon hearing about long distance, and moving to another city? Isn't it obvious that world is globalised and work is bound to take us far apart, and that we should accept the distance to some small extent? 4. Can we trust anybody at all? Does love and excitement always come with an expiry date this generation?
When you are young have several girlfriends, that's what I did earlier in my life and I always had a good time and never worried about a girl leaving me.
I find it unfortunate that we look up to people to give us the answers to life's questions... no guru, no God will teach you what your own life will teach you... Life is bigger than Sadguru 💜
The answer not given to the question is...
You must release your feelings for that person.
_You must put them out of your mind._ It's not easy! It requires a constant, conscious effort. When you find yourself thinking about that person, you must STOP, and focus on something else.
Do not allow the memory of that person to take over your life, or you will never be able to find someone new.
When you do find someone new, NEVER compare them to that old flame. They are not the same person, nor can they be!
Focus on what they are. Their likes and dislikes. Their favorite food, color, etc. See them for who they are. Not for the old flame they aren't! Embrace what is different about them!
It is YOU who are holding on, not the person who left you, or betrayed you. Obviously, they have moved on! Don't allow the memory of them to take over your life.
its a Ego problem , The ego always expects more wants more Trying to make one person Special will always end up in pain ... people constantly change ......If we love in a romantic way we will always end up hurt , If we can learn to love in a holy way and not a romantic way .we can move on when things change
You are correct which is why we must never follow our heart...
@larz hillbot Very well said. :)
Very true but I don’t know how to love in holy way- movies and music and the world only taught me romantic ego love. And yes I expected more and more and the person always betrayed. I always ended up hurt and heartbroken, but it wasn’t real love coming from me. So I gave up like I’m not fit for this. I really don’t know how to love in a holy way. How can I learn this?
@@theself5738this is a very great question. I ponder this too
I lost someone to suicide. It was a volatile, up and down darkly passionate situation. He haunts me like a ghost. Sometimes I feel finding a way to unlove his memory will help free me to mourn and love his memory in a different way.
The most crucial steps are to forgive him, and to accept it was never your fault.
Wow, two of the things I still struggle the most with. His name was also Matthew--I hear you universe.
I did too, my first love. It gets easier believe me, I eventually even fell in love again but she recently broke my heart, hence me being here. Maybe we heal each time, I don’t know if I’ll ever find it again but I know I can be content with being alone, I have been in the past.
@Alicia Norman acceptance... accept what is, youtube search eckhart tolle, hope this helps. x
I'm living together with a girl I like and love,,, but she never loved me back as I did, ,, she is dating someone and going out with him,,, it's hurting me a lot,,, she is ashamed to go out with me,,, hence I think I need to let her go and move on,,, also want to unlove her since she dnt reciprocate feelings as am doing
Did you let her go yet? There is someone that is looking for you and that will appreciate you for who you are. 💫
@@yahyah9975 yeah bro i let her go, but as she said am thin hence I need to work on it and be more attractive
Let go of her now, bro! There's nothing good in this situation for you. You can do better.
She doesn't deserve you
Every individual is created differently by God our creator. Listening to Sadgurus like this is never going to change our life and destiny. Hence, do we need to waste our time, ?
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How can you love again how please let me know
I have been in love 5 times, it's important to always find someone new and remember no one is so unique and special that they can't be replaced.
nonsense
how to unlove someone? make them commit jalla samadhi
Please put complete video, the answer is not given. Didn't teach how to unlove. 😥
Yess.. Nothing is answered on that specific question
ua-cam.com/video/lD6KcwC2IiM/v-deo.html here you go. Watch this instead.
answer is given at the very start of the video that I have already given my heart to someone. it means it's safe nobody can break it and moreover there is no technique to unlove.love is beautiful thing enjoy being in love that's it. DONT EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN . JUST LOVE..
He did answer it
Instead of having expectations on people we love allow them to grow with you or apart from you when the time comes, and not hold it against them. The reason we love another person is because their needs and hopes are aligned with ours. As hard to hear as this is, that’s allowed to change as people change their perception everyday
But how to not have expectations? You plan a future with them?
beautiful and true. thank you.
It's easy to say not to have expectations but is it even possible? When they don't meet any of our needs what's the point in being with them?
@@anoohya_k_rao there isn't one. It's time to let them follow their path to grow and you follow yours. Do not give the power of your happiness away to anyone, that's yours to keep and nurture. And it's a heavy load to lay on the shoulders of another.
@@anoohya_k_rao also, are you not capable of meeting your own needs? If not, search within of what you truly expect of someone.
I came here for answer . And i don’t get it .
You never do.
Lmao
😂
Hasn't answered the question
Your mind isn’t developed to understand his words
I know the heartbreak you feel burns down in your very soul but remember this, no one is so unique or special that they can't be replaced.
sure it's just finding them... :)
True
I don't understand
Logic is fine if you can think without emotion. Not all people are purely logic minded though
Wise words. This is exactly what I needed to hear.
It's very difficult to unlove
i know, my gf rn is sooooooo sexy, i could never leave her bitch ass......
Love is the destruction of mind body and soul......once you do this you will weaken and destroy any purity within your life..... now you live in lust and think you want love.... LoL 😂🤣....we human are our own detriments.
Why do you want to unlove another person who are clearly important to you?
How can anyone teach you how to unlove someone?
This feelings is not something we can set an conclusion on how it's possible for a person to have a question like this?
I would think that anyone who has a brain would know that is an impossible question to give an answer to🤔🤣🙄
It's no such thing as a stupid question , there is only stupid answers...?
Someone who has made this comment as a rule of something that I don't remember. Probably a very important person in his days 🤔🙃😉
but if no question is stupid, you can not get stupid answers.
And for example you can ask questions about anything that you want to know.
How stupid you are is another question that you may have to ask yourself 🤔🤣😅🙋😜
This man may sound so good, but he will not give you answer 😂
My man, the question was, how can we undo love? 😂😂😂😂😂
U may idiotic things,which u may regret later🤣
Exactly 😂❤️
I dont need a love marriage to choose my soul mate..i need only a good understanding person..then, automatically i will get love from him...in my view...a good martial life needs only based on mutual understandings...becsz, my age is 47 years old..so, i need only a understanding person...now a days..why should people love to other means, just, they want money or physical relationships..something expecting through love..So, that only they are giving troubles to opposite gender... ?....but, true love we can't see...So, don't waste our valuable time to spend for love through earn money and life settelement...only onething, i wish to say that, to give our valuable time and hard work in any other way and to earn sufficient money to lead a happy life....why should lying and cheating others and blaming ?Is it correct ?....So, the mainthing is money...So, they can express love..true love...like goes on..true love never giving troubles, lying, cheating and blaming.....So, why should to cheat others ?..there are so many ways here to earn money..but, some people choosing this way....
I can never stop recommending *Dr Ase coven* for the great things he has done. He remains the best, I really appreciate him:
*Dr Ase coven* is the best I have ever came across. All thanks to those that recommended him!.
Dear Sadhguru, I just can stop watching you talking. The need of my wish is to see you and experience your life in real-time. I am in the Pacific-Papua New Guinea. I pray that God will make way for me to come and experience your life before you move on to another stage of life.
Mother nature don't care you love or don't love
but it care's you reproduce or not reproduce
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Breaking hearts
I give my heart already so no body can break it
Intelligence is hijacked by hormones
Whsts happening when we r in love
I want to meet with him,i mean to see him, anyone would can to tell me,how?
One small explanation giving about love...True love..😋...Sadhguru, first one lady did a marry with someone..then, automaticcally conceived and delivered a child..girl or boy...after, delivered, she went with another man due to contraversy with a husband and left away from his life..and hand threw the newly born baby .... she said that she did a True Love with a second man or third..i don't know how many she is having......Is it love ?Is she have any rights to described about love ?she Said she did a True Love with him..he, told her, to keep away her child due to over burdern to grow up......
Answer toh Mila hi nai Sadguru plzz tell me wat to do how to unlove man
Kya ab aapko ans Mila...
I found your comment very near to me ...
I am now suffering from the same emotion and feeling...
I think I may ask for help...
it's okay if you delete this comment.
Trusting is myth .....it's a temporary but ...no other way
Remained as a question(??? )
Sadhguru where is the answer?? I have never seen you to be on the point. You always play with words and that's it.
Am emotionally down right now, am so clean and my kids father doesn't trust me he claims am using dark magic on him...I want to look for a new man and move on how do I do that
I can never stop recommending *Dr Ase coven* for the great things he has done. He remains the best, I really appreciate him:
At around 7 onwards I started having crushes and intense infatuation on boys… it was a mental trauma that had to do with losing my parents
Just ne an Aries. They're ruthless in this ability to drop yo azzzz
Yes please make my life whole again I don’t need no sex. Or love
Hands down..the specatacled guy is damn cute.
I’m in love with the girl in black
I will give her my heart
The man basically said nothing.
U love everyone to never really love just one person.
i don't wanna so i will leave at 10sec
That didn’t answer any question
He didn’t even give a real answer
Love is a chemical reaction that often leaves the individual who was once in love with the exploration of life and his/herself dependent on another irrespective of wether the other person is serving them in other aspects of their life holistically or not it’s basically like an emotional sugar rush that cripples the infected sadghuru’s point is that once upon a time you were alone and you were fine you were somewhat content you were hopeful you were joyful you were present and you actually mattered to you all of a sudden hormones kick in and priorities change then it’s given to those who reciprocate the connection the problem is during puberty everyone is confused and still finding themselves they’re in this forever changing mode where the slightest thing might turn them off or on his point is that it is first important to discover yourself before you try and connect with anyone else in that way .. and most importantly to remember that at it’s core science nature the universe is just looking forward to reproduction fruitfulness cyclical progression of life nothing else don’t overthink things don’t think you’re too significant too important to get with the program the process the cycle focus on what’s been given practice gratitude then naturally comes universal reward 🙏🏽💯
P KTORY SAMOTNY CALE ZYCIE?!
Is there anyone like me who is just admiring the beauty and class of the first girl?😁
I don't believe that anyone can learn how to love from movies or by watching and listening to others and who is going to teach another person what love is and how you can learn how to love by following others idea of what they mean is love 🤣🤔😂
*Dr Ase coven* is the best I have ever came across. All thanks to those that recommended him!.
All thanks to those that recommended *Dr Danja the spell caster* his truly the best, he is genius and worth all those recommendations
*Dr Ase coven* is the best I have ever came across. All thanks to those that recommended him!.
I can never stop recommending *Dr Ase coven* for the great things he has done. He remains the best, I really appreciate him:
1. No matter how well everything was, why is it that it takes a woman little to no effort in leaving, and going silent on you?
2. Where does all the love disappear for the leaver in these circumstances? Does the leaver feel some kind of pain as well?
3. Why do women leave immediately upon hearing about long distance, and moving to another city? Isn't it obvious that world is globalised and work is bound to take us far apart, and that we should accept the distance to some small extent?
4. Can we trust anybody at all? Does love and excitement always come with an expiry date this generation?
When you are young have several girlfriends, that's what I did earlier in my life and I always had a good time and never worried about a girl leaving me.
All thanks to those that recommended *Dr Danja the spell caster* his truly the best, he is genius and worth all those recommendations
You can only become love itself. Peace. Directed love is illusive
A great teacher I love your videos so much they change lives
Wiard how this people dressed
I find it unfortunate that we look up to people to give us the answers to life's questions... no guru, no God will teach you what your own life will teach you... Life is bigger than Sadguru 💜
So why are you here watching and commenting?
@@DestinationDionna to let you know 💜
@@DestinationDionna anyone who needed what I had to say reply and people who already know don't 💜
@@318greenman NO IT'S FOR YOU
Watch the full vedio
To unlove someone is accept the pain
Frankly it's a viable advice on this topic tbh