Saying What I've Needed to Say to Hank for a While

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @vlogbrothers
    @vlogbrothers  3 роки тому +1348

    Hi. The Anthropocene Reviewed is here! Order your signed copy while there are still signed copies to order: prh.com/johngreen
    Add your copy and your review to the map! theanthropocenereviewed.com/ (Please also include a pic of the signature!)
    Join the virtual tour: www.johngreenbooks.com/appearances
    The discord for discussing the book: discord.com/invite/ect6w82S7U
    Thanks. I'm off to do some more weeping. -John

    • @joshuaadamstithakayoutubel2490
      @joshuaadamstithakayoutubel2490 3 роки тому +2

      Don't add it to Palm Beach on July 8th, 12:40 AM. Just don't.

    • @arunimaphadke
      @arunimaphadke 3 роки тому +14

      I will cherish forever the fact that the Discord is abbreviated to FART. Delightful!

    • @hagaikiri3682
      @hagaikiri3682 3 роки тому +10

      @@arunimaphadke it was John's choice! We askdd him what would be better than the server for Hank's books, which is abriviated FAART

    • @kalpbhavsar
      @kalpbhavsar 3 роки тому +3

      Aren't we all...

    • @omarwaheed9359
      @omarwaheed9359 3 роки тому

      Don't forget the subtitle

  • @JordanThatblondegirl
    @JordanThatblondegirl 3 роки тому +4671

    Seeing John get teary-eyed is like seeing your parents cry for the first time - suddenly I am crying, too. 😢

  • @bridgettrimble9667
    @bridgettrimble9667 3 роки тому +2578

    We’re here because we’re here

    • @mmekh2244
      @mmekh2244 3 роки тому +60

      Because we're because we're here because

    • @Jazzagal
      @Jazzagal 3 роки тому +6

      +

    • @iamthebock
      @iamthebock 3 роки тому +20

      We're here because

    • @avakining
      @avakining 3 роки тому +19

      We’re here because

    • @monibahmad
      @monibahmad 3 роки тому +17

      Because we're here

  • @hestheman929
    @hestheman929 3 роки тому +706

    “Too close to my vulnerable and beating heart,” absolutely broke me.

  • @meenakshivisvanathan9992
    @meenakshivisvanathan9992 3 роки тому +2286

    John: "like so much of my work in life, it starts with you."
    Me: *crying*

  • @thehappyplate
    @thehappyplate 3 роки тому +2851

    I’m not crying, you’re...
    Let’s be honest: we’re all crying. In a good way. Congrats, John! 🎉

  • @ryn_young
    @ryn_young 3 роки тому +474

    Rarely one might see a brother crying in appreciation for the luck of having been born in the same family and to have circumstances come together to build a long lasting beautiful relationship that changes their lives as well as lives of thousands of people on the internet.
    I give watching a brother tear up with love for his sibling 5 stars.

  • @jonathanowo7584
    @jonathanowo7584 3 роки тому +1434

    John really went from only saying I love you to hank once a year, to essentially shouting words of affection at the middle of the playground. Thank you for being vulnerable, in your writing and in sharing this moment between you two. I'll be sure to read the book with the same level of compassion, care, and openness that you've held here.

    • @1Eilatan
      @1Eilatan 3 роки тому +3

      +

    • @CaslavNorisavljevic
      @CaslavNorisavljevic 3 роки тому +3

      That's such a sweet thing to say. They really do have the best fans

    • @RainbowOwl24
      @RainbowOwl24 3 роки тому +13

      I love the mental image you just painted in my brain of John standing in the middle of a crowded playground filled with other adults playing with their siblings on colorful jungle gyms and swing sets, etc. In my mind, he's standing on one of those manual merry-go-rounds with his arms in the air shouting,."I love my brother Hank!! He is made of Awesome!!"

    • @amys9263
      @amys9263 3 роки тому +2

      @@RainbowOwl24 I can hear those words so clearly in John's voice.

  • @shebjess
    @shebjess 3 роки тому +1107

    Its really weird to think they Vlogbrothers started because you two didn't talk to each other often and now you both are talking about how deeply interwoven your lives have become.

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 3 роки тому +63

      What makes it great is how John and Hank are communicating with each other as much as they're sending a message to all of us.

    • @groovypullet2337
      @groovypullet2337 3 роки тому +25

      Yes, in that sense the project definitely achieved its aim!

    • @albertjackinson
      @albertjackinson 3 роки тому +12

      Everything comes full-circle. I love that about this community.
      +

    • @james4thedoctor482
      @james4thedoctor482 3 роки тому +2

      +

    • @karyon1007
      @karyon1007 3 роки тому +2

      My heart!😭❤️

  • @Jemini4228
    @Jemini4228 3 роки тому +840

    John years ago: We will only do squishy brotherly feelings on one designated day a year on this channel.
    John now: films and posts beautifully eloquent and heartfelt compliments/declarations of love for Hank all over the place.
    It's wonderful to behold.

    • @ThatWouldBeCareless
      @ThatWouldBeCareless 3 роки тому +27

      My favourite character development ❤

    • @Andrew-zm8gh
      @Andrew-zm8gh 3 роки тому +8

      They still hold to only ever using the L word to each other on Esther Day.

  • @elvirasabirova8427
    @elvirasabirova8427 3 роки тому +1177

    « And I am where I belong: in my basement »
    Relatable.

  • @ArielBissett
    @ArielBissett 3 роки тому +3272

    i'm gonna go hug my brother now and keep checking my mailbox for my preorder!

    • @karinelabelle9520
      @karinelabelle9520 3 роки тому +8

      + Yes, same here. Except, I can't hug my brother right now, but I will text him.

    • @carolprince16
      @carolprince16 3 роки тому +2

      @@karinelabelle9520 And me. Can't hug him and this made me miss him so much.

    • @kdk38
      @kdk38 3 роки тому +1

      Just got mine today!

    • @james4thedoctor482
      @james4thedoctor482 3 роки тому +7

      My brother is in his "don't hug me, don't even look at me" phase, so I will give him his space for now, lol

    • @Billchu13
      @Billchu13 3 роки тому +1

      I got mine today! (Or rather my dad got it due to shipping address mismatch). It left via "two day mail" a week ago to arrive this evening with perfect timing.

  • @SweetNightmare369
    @SweetNightmare369 Рік тому +16

    "You are at the beginning and the middle and the end of it"
    Going back to find this quote after Hank's announcement is important to me. Because I know that, no matter what may come, the Green brothers know how much they mean to each other. They never shied away from their vulnerability

  • @CrunchyDragons
    @CrunchyDragons 3 роки тому +495

    I brought your book to Esther's grave today and read the introduction for her. I listened to your most recent episode of the pod and as the closest Nerdfighter to her final resting place, I knew you'd want your book, with your signature bound inside to visit her

  • @kevinlohmann3185
    @kevinlohmann3185 3 роки тому +871

    Even amidst all the teary, choked up sentiment, John still adheres to only saying "I love you" to Hank on Esther Day. Gotta love these boys.

  • @karensprague8857
    @karensprague8857 3 роки тому +279

    I once read that your siblings are most constant relationship in a person's life. Your parents are there from the beginning but will (most likely) predecease you, and while you may eventually be close to a spouse or children, they don't enter your life until you're an adult. Your siblings are the only ones that are there from the beginning, and hopefully until the end, and unlike many of your other relationships, your siblings are going through roughly the same stage of life as you, they are always your peer. It's a beautifully unique relationship. I am so blessed to have a brother.

  • @christinameneses
    @christinameneses 3 роки тому +1545

    "This book finally does have a main character with a sibling..." This is when the waterworks reached a crescendo for me.

    • @DysnomiaATX
      @DysnomiaATX 3 роки тому +8

      I'm smiling and crying right now 🥲

    • @caroliinalopes
      @caroliinalopes 3 роки тому +3

      Crying 🥲🥲🥲

    • @Sleepover137
      @Sleepover137 3 роки тому +1

      same :D

    • @pas.
      @pas. 3 роки тому +3

      At first I started to wonder who the protagonist might be, what adventures they will face, and then I remembered that it's autobiographical.. damn I need 10 more cups of IQ.

    • @1Eilatan
      @1Eilatan 3 роки тому

      +

  • @lk509s
    @lk509s 3 роки тому +647

    I expected to cry, but not nearly as much as I did.

  • @auroraspeltz9910
    @auroraspeltz9910 3 роки тому +180

    "Writing about siblings is too close to my vulnerable and beating heart."
    My life and John's life have very little in common. I am a freshly minted adult trying to figure out my first job, and John is married, a father, and has an established career. But I always come back to his work because it touches a part of my soul. And this sentence found the root of who I am, which is the best friend of my little sister. She is the beginning of so much of me. Thank you, John, for putting that into words better than I can.

    • @ozkey1558
      @ozkey1558 3 роки тому +11

      Wow, your comment is beautiful and made me tear up as much as this video did. I had a somewhat perilous childhood, redeemed and made whole by older siblings. They were my protectors, my teachers, my cheerleaders. I'm a grown woman now, and my big sister is my best friend. Your little sister will surely be grateful for you for a lifetime. 😊💖

  • @TenTiggers
    @TenTiggers 3 роки тому +1368

    It's poetic how tears wipe away the protective shield from our faces to let us be vulnerable

  • @jibberandtwitch
    @jibberandtwitch 3 роки тому +453

    John: *moving video thanking Hank and some tears*
    Hank: "what's up with 'oil'?"

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 3 роки тому +20

      Hank has a point. What _is_ up with "oil"?

    • @Efflorescentey
      @Efflorescentey 3 роки тому +7

      Always this way 😂 haaaaaank.

    • @SpiralMagic
      @SpiralMagic 3 роки тому +2

      HAAAAAAAAAAA

    • @jeka8826
      @jeka8826 3 роки тому +25

      To be fair, Hank's videos lately have been much more John-centric than normal. They've been beautiful in their data-driven way.

    • @wmfeagin
      @wmfeagin 3 роки тому +1

      Funny and true. 😁

  • @elizabethhansen7284
    @elizabethhansen7284 3 роки тому +132

    As an only child I will never understand what it's like to have a sibling, but glimpses into sibling life like this one always make me emotional and so grateful for the chosen siblings I have in my life.

    • @elizabethsullivan7176
      @elizabethsullivan7176 3 роки тому +9

      I'm an only child too, but I do have two daughters who always amaze me the way they can be screaming at each other one moment and be laughing and hugging the next.

    • @bohemiangroovepod
      @bohemiangroovepod 2 роки тому +1

      Same here. Only child only half siblings with huge age gaps in between meant I was an only child still but have always yearned for that sibling-esque relationship.

    • @emilysmith2965
      @emilysmith2965 2 роки тому +1

      You can’t choose your sibling, or how far apart in age you are. You don’t necessarily understand how to build a positive relationship with someone who is very different from you, when you are a child. And that is even harder to make up for as an adult.
      Most siblings are somewhat close and try to stay in touch; siblings like Hank and John are exceptional. I understand the desire to have a sibling, but maybe don’t romanticize the reality so much.

  • @happyland65
    @happyland65 3 роки тому +913

    John getting interviewed by Drew Barrymore is hilarious to me for some reason because I remember him saying in an old video he would cast her as Hazel in TFIOS because he has no sense of time passing and look where we are now!

  • @charliespinoza1966
    @charliespinoza1966 3 роки тому +496

    I feel like John tried to prepare us with the title, but I was still not prepared.

    • @nueroptera
      @nueroptera 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly this! Why was I not prepared?

    • @albasapri3265
      @albasapri3265 3 роки тому +1

      Most definitely!

  • @Flowtail
    @Flowtail 3 роки тому +71

    i love how as John tears up as he speaks about just how much his brother means to him, the visage of Pizza John stares ever forward in the background

  • @JordanThatblondegirl
    @JordanThatblondegirl 3 роки тому +409

    Thinking of make up as a protective shield is also my experience. It’s war paint for public appearances.

  • @QualityDoggo
    @QualityDoggo 3 роки тому +229

    Took a look at the website mentioned... there are many places reviewed but one caught my eye. There's a reviewer named "Clover" who says they read the book's introduction at Esther's grave today, saying "the world feels alive again".
    Amazing how many people we each care about, often without ever meeting each other.

    • @Efflorescentey
      @Efflorescentey 3 роки тому +4

      +

    • @jeka8826
      @jeka8826 3 роки тому +13

      That person is just a little bit above you in the comments! :)

    • @alexpatch63
      @alexpatch63 3 роки тому +1

      Love this!

    • @Ana-ls4mu
      @Ana-ls4mu 3 роки тому

      + ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ramywiles
    @ramywiles 3 роки тому +83

    Will sibling love ever _not_ make this eldest-of-three dissolve into tears? ... I mean, no, the answer is a resounding no, my siblings are my heart and I'm going to be a mess for the next several minutes

  • @haileybubs9851
    @haileybubs9851 3 роки тому +336

    If John cries I cry that’s just how it works. (But as someone with a sibling who I appreciate very much that hit hard)

    • @anissia1210
      @anissia1210 3 роки тому +3

      I'm an only child, but I've always wanted a sibling!!! This makes me want one even more, but at 52, don't think that'll happen!!!

    • @allisonreinheimermoore1746
      @allisonreinheimermoore1746 3 роки тому +1

      +

    • @djjoseph8908
      @djjoseph8908 3 роки тому

      +

    • @pendragon_cave1405
      @pendragon_cave1405 3 роки тому

      This hit hard for an opposite reason for me. As someone with siblings I used to be close to until this shit show of a political season, I really miss them and what we once had. We're slowly starting to build bridges again but it's slow and careful and we're not going to have that easy connection we had pre-2020.
      I miss that.

  • @bronny5148
    @bronny5148 3 роки тому +483

    *sobbing in proud nerdfighter * Congrats John, you are amazing!

    • @untappedinkwell
      @untappedinkwell 3 роки тому

      +++

    • @emilymartin5418
      @emilymartin5418 3 роки тому

      +

    • @charliespinoza1966
      @charliespinoza1966 3 роки тому +4

      I’ve spent a lot of the past year sobbing in proud nerdfighter.♥️

    • @ivytarablair
      @ivytarablair 3 роки тому +1

      @@charliespinoza1966 sobbing in proud nerdfighter, rewatching all the videos, has kept me saner this year :) so much beautiful unvarnished humanity, it makes me feel there is hope...while I sob :)

  • @chashahjohnson
    @chashahjohnson 3 роки тому +38

    god the way that nerdfighters are both watching your relationship and participating in the community around your relationship is astonishing. this made me cry not because it was sad but because it felt like I was both john and hank in this moment, both thankful and being thanked. i am endlessly grateful to the green brothers and nerdfighters as a whole. no matter the state of the world, I can always count on nerdfighteria to be empathetic, kind, and thoughtful. i spend every day striving to be just like that.

  • @matthewgilpincom
    @matthewgilpincom 3 роки тому +277

    Whenever I watch a John video I know there's always a percentage chance that I will cry, but like... let's be honest, none of us were prepared for that.

    • @movingforwardLDTH
      @movingforwardLDTH 3 роки тому +13

      ... not prepared, but grateful for it nonetheless. ❤️

    • @literarycircle
      @literarycircle 3 роки тому +8

      Yup, definitely did not think the book promo video would be the one to make me cry, but here I am, in happy tears on a Tuesday afternoon.

    • @RainaRamsay
      @RainaRamsay 3 роки тому +2

      No I was not, but it's a good cry

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 3 роки тому +2

      The title had me prepared to cry, but even then, I was not prepared for that.

  • @hayleybernier6955
    @hayleybernier6955 3 роки тому +219

    Did John Green really just make me cry in less than 4 minutes

    • @noahcamuso2562
      @noahcamuso2562 3 роки тому +13

      Nah it took 14 years

    • @meghanakankara2883
      @meghanakankara2883 3 роки тому +4

      when he started crying... i was like maybe he is not actually crying but when I realised he is crying for real even I started cryng

    • @LikelyToBeEatenByAGrue
      @LikelyToBeEatenByAGrue 3 роки тому +4

      First time? He does it to me about every other month.

    • @hopkinsIE
      @hopkinsIE 3 роки тому

      Yup

    • @hayleybernier6955
      @hayleybernier6955 3 роки тому

      @@LikelyToBeEatenByAGrue Not the first, the quickest! I have read all his books after all 😭

  • @nuvostef
    @nuvostef Рік тому +4

    It is so beautiful to see how much you and Hank not only love each other, but are so relaxed about saying it. Never let that wither away! My younger brother was my best male friend and his last words to me - absolutely literally - were: “I love you, Stef.” He died face down in the dirt 6 days later from diabetes complications. That happened on 9th May, 2018, and here it is, 26th June, 2023, and I’m crying so hard I can barely see to type because I miss him so much. Never let your love for each other - or for anyone - go unspoken. Thank you both for the wonderful, beautiful, precious love you aren’t ashamed of expressing. 🤗🌹💖

  • @keziarhodes4950
    @keziarhodes4950 3 роки тому +200

    Vlog brothers videos are the antithesis of UA-cam drama, to the point where you know when you click on a video with a title like this, you’re going to walk away with a warmed heart!

  • @sarahbell5454
    @sarahbell5454 3 роки тому +324

    The friendship and support between two siblings who purposely choose to be friends and partners is so tender and I love when the brothers share that. I’m so excited to get my copy of the book!!

  • @maudalmusicalmachines3541
    @maudalmusicalmachines3541 Рік тому +1

    Time. It's freaky. I'm writing this 2 years after you said it. And it has moved me... here in another place... and another time.

  • @jcoogs7149
    @jcoogs7149 3 роки тому +535

    Someone should make a "John breaks down into tears in the last 30 seconds" playlist

  • @ShivaniSingh-dl3pe
    @ShivaniSingh-dl3pe 3 роки тому +118

    Changing the title of this video from "Bit of a Teary Day around Here" to "saying what I've Needed to Say to Hank for a While" is like trying to hold back tears and finally letting go. It feels so good:')

    • @RamenNoodle1985
      @RamenNoodle1985 3 роки тому +6

      Ty for confirming the title was changed! I thought I was losing my mind there for a bit!

    • @jessicatiedeman1065
      @jessicatiedeman1065 3 роки тому

      I went back to check and indeed it still shows up with the old title on my notifications :).

    • @ShivaniSingh-dl3pe
      @ShivaniSingh-dl3pe 3 роки тому +1

      @@jessicatiedeman1065 Same, that's how I knew!

  • @kayceem5956
    @kayceem5956 3 роки тому +7

    I think one of the reasons I love the vlogbrothers so much is because I never got to have a close sibling relationship. Thank you for being the world's honorary brothers.

    • @felicitem6258
      @felicitem6258 2 роки тому

      It's the same reason why I watch their videos every day and listen to their podcast.

  • @dark_neverland
    @dark_neverland 3 роки тому +499

    "ravenous & tender polymath" being in Hank's bio now is frickin' hilarious

    • @somecallmebri
      @somecallmebri 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for pointing this out, I just checked now and love it! xD

    • @woodwanderer
      @woodwanderer 3 роки тому +4

      That was about John though. But both are super.

    • @biancapineros4287
      @biancapineros4287 3 роки тому

      which bio

    • @caitlinfurgal2146
      @caitlinfurgal2146 3 роки тому +1

      @@biancapineros4287 Twitter :)

    • @caitlinfurgal2146
      @caitlinfurgal2146 3 роки тому +20

      @@woodwanderer Hank’s bio actually says “Brother of ‘Ravenous and Tender polymath’ John Green” just to clarify

  • @wilsonpatterson2703
    @wilsonpatterson2703 3 роки тому +194

    I love that even after all the years of fame and success this channel is still just two brothers making videos for each other. Can't wait for my pre-order to arrive!

    • @Efflorescentey
      @Efflorescentey 3 роки тому +1

      I still imagine these videos are two brothers sharing news and feelings on a weekly basis

    • @Jemini4228
      @Jemini4228 3 роки тому +4

      And I love that they have made a conscious effort to stay that way

  • @marskessler
    @marskessler 3 роки тому +22

    Just a normal evening during which John green makes me cry again

  • @alvarblumme1977
    @alvarblumme1977 3 роки тому +162

    ”I wrote the book because I wanted to write my way back to wonder and hope and sustained attention”

    • @mariacargille1396
      @mariacargille1396 3 роки тому +5

      Isn't that beautiful? It made me think more deeply about why I write, too, and resolve to write more intentionally going forward.

  • @Pyrokzg
    @Pyrokzg 3 роки тому +414

    John Green, the only you tuber that I wake up to watch first thing in the morning never knowing if I’m going to be informed or a sobbing ball on the ground.

    • @Miss_Myth
      @Miss_Myth 3 роки тому +11

      * Or both ❤

    • @MattPalka
      @MattPalka 3 роки тому +5

      Both is good

    • @lindsay3917
      @lindsay3917 3 роки тому

      Or sobbing from laughter. You just never know

  • @cogspace
    @cogspace 3 роки тому +26

    When all this blows over we are going to need the reunion video to end all reunion videos.

  • @ronnedejong7641
    @ronnedejong7641 3 роки тому +337

    Why am I still suprised when I cry because of something John said It happens to often

    • @ClaireF_
      @ClaireF_ 3 роки тому +6

      I’m always surprised at how quickly he can make me cry and yet it happens all the time 🥲

    • @TehTussin
      @TehTussin 3 роки тому +6

      I fully intent to cry at every single page of this book.

    • @maroonedinblue
      @maroonedinblue 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @hunterG60k
      @hunterG60k 3 роки тому +4

      Same! No one else does this to me lol

  • @HeyLookItsKathy
    @HeyLookItsKathy 3 роки тому +262

    I didn't plan to cry at work while casually going through my youtube subscriptions, but here we are.

    • @itsmikehayden
      @itsmikehayden 3 роки тому +3

      "It's a terrible day for rain."
      'What do you mean? It's not raining."
      "Yes, it is."
      'Oh, so it is.'

    • @davidkraus5221
      @davidkraus5221 3 роки тому +1

      same

    • @kieleyevatt2232
      @kieleyevatt2232 3 роки тому +1

      One should always prepare to cry when clicking on a John Green video

  • @wizkida981015
    @wizkida981015 3 роки тому +29

    John saying that the "only child " joke is a lie is a tender moment, sure, but MAINTAINING THE ESTHER DAY TRADITION OF NEVER ACTUALLY SAYING "I LOVE YOU" IN THAT WHOLE BIT AT THE END? Brilliant.

  • @ihavespoken164
    @ihavespoken164 3 роки тому +111

    Feels quite weird, but I feel a little pride every time people mention how great this book is, not that I’ve contributed anything to the book but I feel happy and proud.

  • @TerminalThiccness
    @TerminalThiccness 3 роки тому +272

    Let's all be sure to give props to the most accurate description of how makeup makes a person feel that I have ever heard.

    • @Graci726
      @Graci726 3 роки тому +1

      For real! He gets it.

    • @vaguelyweird
      @vaguelyweird 3 роки тому +3

      how many stars?

    • @jlcl96
      @jlcl96 3 роки тому +1

      Makeup is a shield we put on to mask insecurities and claim power our natural genetics did not gift us. 5 stars

  • @outrageous42ne
    @outrageous42ne 3 роки тому +13

    I'm watching this video shortly after listening to the Dear Hank and John episode with the allergist who never sneezes and let me tell you it has been an emotional roller coaster

  • @rge9992
    @rge9992 3 роки тому +159

    I cried. Then I called my brother, who is 2 years older than me and has been with me for all my life. We cried. I can’t imagine not having him. Thank you for making me feel this, John.

  • @vongard94
    @vongard94 3 роки тому +186

    I still remember John talking about Ester day and how hard it was for them to show their love to each other, now we are here. Honestly I hope we never go back.

  • @manyaagarwal1513
    @manyaagarwal1513 3 роки тому +1

    I am going to to cry because every time I see john cry, I cry

  • @ckind2098
    @ckind2098 3 роки тому +53

    this channel is such an earnestly beautiful corner of the internet, I'm so glad it exists

  • @sokknica
    @sokknica 3 роки тому +81

    I switched from watching this on my tv, to my phone, so i could cry with all of you in the comments. Was not disappointed, 10/10 would recommend. Nerdfighters are the best company for crying in unison all over the world while watching teary-eyed John. Greetings from Croatia 🇭🇷

    • @DCsk8rgoelz
      @DCsk8rgoelz 3 роки тому

      +

    • @mexDpeace
      @mexDpeace 3 роки тому

      Every time I watch a UA-cam video on my tv i pull out my phone bc I need to read the comments!

  • @CleverUserNamez
    @CleverUserNamez 3 роки тому +28

    I’ve been listing to the audiobook and I just have to say .... you can hear the humanity out of every word leaving john’s mouth . Well done my friend

  • @hopehaswings388
    @hopehaswings388 3 роки тому +203

    Absolutely sobbing. Hank and John have such a beautiful friendship. It isn't even Esther Day! I think she would have been so proud of this video.

  • @ClaireF_
    @ClaireF_ 3 роки тому +174

    Alternative title: How to make me sob in 4 minutes or less 🥺😭

    • @Kredige
      @Kredige 3 роки тому +8

      The amazing part is that most of the video wasn't even about what the title eluded to, but, as is so often the case, tenderness needed a preamble.

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 3 роки тому

      The time constraint has led to some brief but wonderful displays of emotion.

  • @Kayccie
    @Kayccie 3 роки тому +16

    while i did not cry watching this video, the one-two punch of hearing John read the line “he was right. he always is.” in the audiobook shortly after watching this definitely made me take a few deep breaths. the audiobook is lovely so far 💕

  • @foreverjynxed
    @foreverjynxed 3 роки тому +101

    I love that this week doesn’t need a vision board. The vision board is, kinda, Hank.

  • @CrazyButKindaGood
    @CrazyButKindaGood 3 роки тому +119

    It doesn't matter how many times John tells me he records in his basement, my brain has decided that room is on the upper floor which is all kinds of weird. Also, thank you for making me cry.

    • @k1tkat-kate
      @k1tkat-kate 3 роки тому +5

      I think it's the amount of light.
      My brain always tries to tell me there must be consistently softly-lit window offscreen left. In reality it's probably several light boxes, but damn!!!!

    • @witmoreluke
      @witmoreluke 3 роки тому +2

      It's because John is a light in this world.

  • @MsWyndmere
    @MsWyndmere 3 роки тому +5

    i’ve lost count of how many times john has made me cry

  • @BigJoel
    @BigJoel 3 роки тому +745

    Awww :,-)

    • @katherinekingma5042
      @katherinekingma5042 3 роки тому +38

      Hey, this may be weird but we went to college together and took a couple of the same Soviet history and literature classes, which I won't specifically identify because I don't know if you want people to know where you went.
      Just wanted to say it's been so interesting to watch you and your channel grow and see one way of how we can put liberal arts degrees to good use. I watched the old videos when it was just voiceover and I remember thinking "Whose voice is that, I know that voice," and then you did the reveal one and BAM, it was you Henry! Best wishes!

    • @moonlitRandomness
      @moonlitRandomness 3 роки тому +19

      @@hollywoostars It's like seeing a teacher outside of school. Didn't expect to see them, but it makes sense that they go to the same grocery store as you.

    • @ethandole2218
      @ethandole2218 3 роки тому +5

      Hi big Joel fancy seeing you here

    • @lizisverycool8711
      @lizisverycool8711 3 роки тому +2

      What did you say? You are in a wind tunnel all I an hear is just an awwww sound.

    • @savtube
      @savtube 3 роки тому +7

      Woah this is a larger joel than I expected!

  • @dragonharris5465
    @dragonharris5465 3 роки тому +173

    As an anxious older sibling with a younger sibling not unlike Hank, this hits HARD. I love it

  • @hayley6767
    @hayley6767 2 роки тому +4

    I don’t have siblings, and this video for the first time made me truly want to have more than one child. Just on the off chance they might share something like what you and Hank do.

  • @carmenc3224
    @carmenc3224 3 роки тому +72

    We have three copies in my library where I work this morning and I am so excited to see who picks them up! DFTBA, John and congrats!

    • @carmenc3224
      @carmenc3224 3 роки тому +7

      We even got one with a “DFTBA” inside!

    • @ihavespoken164
      @ihavespoken164 3 роки тому +3

      @@carmenc3224 I hope that makes a nerd very happy

  • @My-name-is-Kit
    @My-name-is-Kit 3 роки тому +41

    Never have I ever been so grateful that I spend 90% of my work day in a cubicle, speaking to no one. I do not have to explain these tears to anybody.

    • @Efflorescentey
      @Efflorescentey 3 роки тому +1

      I concierge for an office building with many many different companies. I link them together with a smile and a hello.
      Maybe I should call in sick today....

  • @shayfunk6366
    @shayfunk6366 2 роки тому +3

    I can't believe this video is a year old. I've come back to it so often, it may be my favorite of your videos, John!

  • @ErichNova
    @ErichNova 3 роки тому +144

    Pausing Audio Book to watch this then going back to audiobook.
    Edit: Only listening to Audio as I await the physical copy to arrive.

  • @lukjad007
    @lukjad007 3 роки тому +64

    Man, the bit about Hank is the most touching thing I've heard in ages.

  • @gomathyganapathy4280
    @gomathyganapathy4280 2 роки тому +3

    Oh my god why did I have to find this at 11 am on a saturday as I was sitting down to work. Idk how but the moment I realized John was crying, I started crying, it was so f-ing involuntary I hate it. But I love you both and am ever so grateful for your existence. Dftba.

  • @VanessaRaquelRaponi
    @VanessaRaquelRaponi 3 роки тому +202

    Screaming “johhhhhnnnn” as I fully cry and want to give you a big hug

  • @_mels_
    @_mels_ 3 роки тому +55

    Esther Day came early!
    We love you, Hank. We love you, John. Thank you both for this community.

  • @lemonade_standing
    @lemonade_standing 3 роки тому +6

    John Green can make me cry with fewer words than anyone on the planet

  • @DaltonPowelled
    @DaltonPowelled 3 роки тому +37

    There is a reason that you always watch a Vlogbrothers video to the end. You will almost never notice the lifting and tangling of your heartstrings until they are pulled so tight that you're crying.

    • @bluefox99887
      @bluefox99887 3 роки тому

      What a beautiful turn-of-phrase! 💛

  • @Hmm...Whats-Their-Name
    @Hmm...Whats-Their-Name 3 роки тому +107

    Jesus, John, wasnt expecting to tear up in the middle of the day sitting on my couch watching youtube, but here we are. If I heard my brother tell me that, I would completely lose it. Thank you for sharing something so personal and vulnerable. It was beautiful.

  • @MichaelFitzpatrick17
    @MichaelFitzpatrick17 Рік тому +3

    I love John, I love Hank, I love their love for each other

  • @aekreate1693
    @aekreate1693 3 роки тому +60

    the way john just immediately cried as he spoke about hank... it's such a special connection between siblings, thank you for sharing this vulnerability and love.

  • @LeoPrommasa
    @LeoPrommasa 3 роки тому +117

    Is this the most emotional Vlogbrothers video ever made? There have been some touching moments over the years but this one really blew me away.

    • @kalashnikovkamrat
      @kalashnikovkamrat 3 роки тому

      Same. It hit me in the feels even more than the other times because this is pretty much exact (ofc without the publishing a book/podcast/accomplishments lol) what I want to SCREAM at my siblings, but never do.

  • @LazerLord10
    @LazerLord10 3 роки тому +72

    Preodered this a week or so back, and I can't wait to read it. I feel like it will give me back a shred of humanity that I feel I've lost over the past year or so...
    Times are tough for a lot of us, but we need to remember that it's 'us' and not just 'I'.

  • @brij5778
    @brij5778 3 роки тому +74

    John, I didn’t need to almost cry right before my studio art final.

  • @TravisGilbert
    @TravisGilbert 3 роки тому +50

    I haven't seen the video yet but the book was delivered literally as youtube notified me about this video which is a great coincidence
    Congratulations John!

  • @edlevonschaf
    @edlevonschaf 3 роки тому +8

    The last 30 seconds may be my absolute favourite vlogbrothers moment. I love watching both of you so much. The camaraderie and support amidst our human fallibility and frailty is a much needed note right now. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

  • @jademcmichael4358
    @jademcmichael4358 3 роки тому +36

    The instant I saw John's tears, I was like.. "Okay, gonna start off my day with a good cry!"

  • @JuliAria
    @JuliAria 3 роки тому +15

    This week’s 2021 vision board is telling the people who we love how much we love them, however that manifests

  • @juliastejskal4995
    @juliastejskal4995 3 роки тому +4

    I realized today that I started watching you guys when I was 12... and I’m 26 now. I’ve lived more life with you in it than I have without.
    John, your books have marked my most formative years.... As I’ve been awaiting The Anthropocene Reviewed in the mail, I’ve been reflecting on how grateful I am to have been shaped and changed by your presence in my life.
    Thank you, John & Hank. For real. Thanks.

  • @mineola_
    @mineola_ 3 роки тому +52

    John just making us cry while promoting his book. It makes me appreciate my siblings even more than I already did.

  • @AnneleenRoesems
    @AnneleenRoesems 3 роки тому +25

    Man, sibling love is so underrated. I love my brothers and yet I never tell them that. I just hope that they know I do when I support their creative and professional endeavours and listen to their stories and ask them to go on a walk. I should probably say it too though, to make sure they know.

  • @Sijore
    @Sijore 3 роки тому +6

    It's unusual to cry. I've never cried.

  • @alexandral8894
    @alexandral8894 3 роки тому +68

    The genuine love John and Hank have for each other is so inspiring and heartwarming. I hope everyone in this community manages to form similar meaningful relationships

  • @enigmawrappedinmystery7772
    @enigmawrappedinmystery7772 3 роки тому +19

    I normally don't comment on videos but I just needed to say how proud I am of John and to be apart of this amazing community. You all have helped me through so much and taught me so much about the world and I am eternally grateful. did not expect to be crying in my break between classes today but here we are!

  • @laiscampos8573
    @laiscampos8573 3 роки тому +9

    It is amazing how I don't have a brother but for a minute John made me wish I did.
    Congrats John🎉🥳 you deserve every piece of it!

  • @Zachdancer1
    @Zachdancer1 3 роки тому +143

    I’m not crying, you’re crying…..okay, I might also be crying

  • @brandeanne618
    @brandeanne618 3 роки тому

    I am at work (dinner break) and I am now crying! I'm sending this to my sister. Thank you for everything you & Hank have created throughout the yrs.

  • @OzymandiusStudios
    @OzymandiusStudios 3 роки тому +32

    “For a little while, I forgot I was even on zoom.”
    That there hits different

  • @ninawii5318
    @ninawii5318 3 роки тому +21

    John crying because he loves Hank so much made me think if my sisters as well, I can't imagine a life without them and I'm so thankful for their love and protection
    Thank you for giving me such warm feelings today, and I'm looking forward to having the book with me

  • @erinstohlmeyer1714
    @erinstohlmeyer1714 3 роки тому

    😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤ I was not prepared! Love to my favorite brothers and this amazing community that surrounds you.

  • @sarahvervalcke4067
    @sarahvervalcke4067 3 роки тому +16

    Who cut the onions? I feel almost like an intruder, watching such an intimate message from John to Hank. Thank you, both, for all the wonderful things you created!

    • @kellymalone947
      @kellymalone947 3 роки тому +2

      I second that intruder feeling -- but also I feel so blessed to have witnessed that moment!