How To Deal With The Loss Of A Pet
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- Опубліковано 27 тра 2024
- Losing a pet is never easy. The pain of losing something you've taken care of can sometimes be hard to deal with. How do you deal with loss of a pet?
1. Think when not if
2. Feel whatever you're going to feel
3. Create a season for the loss
4. Connect with loved ones
5. Memorialize
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Dr. Paul Jenkins
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I'm so sorry for everyone here dealing with a loss right now. I really am.
Vlasic, thank you for your compassion.
I just lost my cat today and this comment made me cry, but thank you
thank you
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you for putting up these videos. Im a veteran who had such a beautiful best friend who was a Briard/White German Shepherd dog called Curt. I have suffered from depression and anxiety for 15 years. My old army mate who I have known since childhood died 2 weeks before I lost my dog Curt as well so I was in the middle of handling his death when suddenly Curt got sick. I need medication to be able to eat and sleep. As for now, it feels like the pain will never go away!
I just got the news that my cat is going to be put down tommorow.
This comment makes me very sad, but she is 17 but it has to happen sadly.
Your pet might not be able to be with you for all of your life.
But atleast you were there for theirs.
Wonkity, love the perspective.
Thanks
That's nice
What broke me the most is that I didn't get to be there with my furbaby when my husband and I decided to end his suffering...Kitty was on antibiotics for some sort of aspiration in the lungs but still eating and playing as normal..breathing got gradually worse I woke up my husband at 3 am to take him to the emergency vet hospital after he had a bad episode of breathlessness..When got to hospital he was admitted and diagnosed with spontaneous pneumothorax 😭 they draw air out of his chest for 3 days hoping the luns would recover but that didn't happen..he spent his last days alone in a oxygen chamber and on the last night my husband went there because no one would clarify us on what was happening with our boy,he got to see him and he was so poorly he videocalled me to ask me what to do..we both decided it wasn't fair on kitty to suffer any longer😭😭😭this happened more than a month ago and i still cry at least once a day.Because I am a new mom everyone keeps on saying I got the baby to occupy my time with..but the baby has nothing to do with the guilt and grief I feel all the time...
I got to say my goodbyes before his cremation and brought him home with me🖤I don't know what I can do to stop feeling this way, the pain is so real and terrible..
@@ancadi4ever I am SO sorry for your loss, I hope u r doing better now. My puppy just died this morning, but i was not there with him. I never got to say goodbye. I know I can never know the exact pain you are going through, but i feel you. God loves you
I lost my dog today and I feel like this is the most painful experience I’ve ever had.
Gia Karla Martin, I am sorry, it is tough, be kind to yourself as you grieve.
I am so sorry. I’m with you in this pain.
I know exactly how you feel right now
This happened to me today, I woke up and ,y dog had passed away in my floor..
I lost my dear dog thru an accident as it was playing,the best friend and companion I have ever had. This loss has affected me in a way that has made me feel so sad , I told its dead carcass that we will meet again and I thanked her for the good times we shared on Earth as I buried her. That gave me lots of satisfaction. I know God will grant me that wish to meet her again when I too vacate this planet
“Grief is just love that has nowhere to go”
momperni, beautifully said.
I just copied that and will quote it often. So well said.
You feel the magnitude of that love & miss it tremendously. ❤😭🙏
Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..
Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..
Today my dog after 11 beautiful years full of good memories went away, its really painfull, ive been crying so much.
My heart aches for you, Felipe Ochoa. Be good to yourself.
Felipe Ochoa you r not alone...
Felipe Ochoa mines had to but sleep today I know how it feels
Don’t worry. I don’t know you, but we are all in the same boat. We are here to comfort you. Once again, don’t worry.
My dog died at age 3 today im soo sad i cant stop crying
One day my 12 year old lab is jumping around wild and happy, and two days later he’s gone. Enjoy you’re pets while they’re in your life, and don’t worry about how long their life will be, but instead focus on making memories with them. You will be able to love them forever, but you will not always have them with you.
CaNaDIan BaCON, yes, be present. So important.
Same here she was so happy day before yesterday , she was dull from yesterday morning didn't have any food I was too busy to concentrate , She was not at home from yesterday night I went searching but didn't find, and I found her dead when I went in search for her today morning, my heart broken couldn't hold my tears, I was so ignorant for just 1 day and she is gone 😭
My 7 month cat died because a dog attacked him and broke his spine, so we decided to put him to sleep, he brought me so much light and happiness through out these couple months, I feel so broken and sad I don’t know how to keep on with life.
@@shonkoren3773 I feel your pain, my dog died yesterday night from getting mauled and I just blame myself for it a lot.. It's a really painful struggle.
So well said.
I just lost my dog today. Before she died she looked at me happily and I can see it in her eyes as if she's thanking me for taking care of her.. Its just really sad.. 😭
John Gomez, I am so sorry. I am glad you got the time together and were with her at the end.
The pain is infinite. My precious Kera left us yesterday after 18 years. She was the most loving, educated, well mannered cat. Even doctors acknowledge how peaceful she was. I hope to see her in the next life. 😢
I hope so too, Jamie.
Our cat died yesterday, I still have that memory of his dilated eyes staring back at me. Rest In Peace koko.
Cythist, I hope peace comes soon.
Ours too. He dies yesterday. He was just 1 year and 7months. I am still grieving.
Oh my god both of our cats have the same name. My cat just died yesterday and I really miss her so much.
@@fatinsafiyya5773 is it okay now?😞
Same with my furbaby.It was the most horrific thing to experience😭
A pet isn’t just for life especially if it’s still in your heart
I agree, Isabella Wiggett.
My parents took my dog away from me..he was lying next to me when I sleep ..he was greeting me with his mouth saliva when I woke up or when I come back from outside..when I'm angry or sad of something I feel like he is comforting me .. making me laugh without reasons....he was the only reason I smile and laugh in the house,and here I am ..alone again..I wrote my words with tears and I'm sure I won't be able to get over it..
@@mariambhket3773 your exactly like me.. I’m extra sorry if I just reminded you about the pets death by replying, wish you well.
😞
My cat passed about a month ago.For everyone who is going through this just know your stronger than you think and you get can get through it.Theres almost like an outer covering in the beginning,just tons of grief on your shoulders,then it slowly just,lifts off.
Mckinley Crawford, thank you for supporting others going through this difficult time.
Thank you. I feel awful. I lost my cat of 9 years. I'm devastated. I also feel like it's my fault. Thank you again for your encouraging words.
Thank you so very much I needed this. I. Dealing with putting my dog down soon. 💔
Thanks for this, Sir. I just lost my dog of 14 & a half years a few days ago. She was in such great shape and then one day she wasn't. It took about a week to figure out her time was about up and any therapies or surgeries were only going to put off the inevitable a few months. It was a tough call to make, but I had a mobile vet come to the home and put her to sleep while I held her and her daughter watched on. I drove her to the crematorium myself and took her in and watched them wheel her back to the furnace room. What a cry I had in the car back home! My wife died from CoVid seven months earlier and she's the one who insisted we get this dog! I like to think my wife was waiting to greet her into the afterlife. I hope anyway. Got a plaque and her ashes prominently displayed by the door. Having a "Cuddle Clone" designed from photos of her that permanently house her ashes. She, her daughter and I will all be buried together one day.
To anyone else going thru this, it's okay to cry over a lost pet. It means your a decent human being.
I am so sorry. You have been through so much. Thank you for reaching out to others with comfort.
I needed this.
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and dog.
My cat died the other day. Tough day. Still is tough of course. This pain will never go away.
Hi Steve, your comment got me in tears. I lost one of my cats today. She was such a shy, sensitive, and sweet being. I miss her so much. I can't imagine the amount of pain you had to go through when your wife passed away, and then your dog. I'm so sorry, man. I truly hope you do go through another moment like that for the rest of your life. I hope more good things than bad things happen to you.
Thanks for sharing your story .... sad sad times ... it takes a tough person to be a kind human ..had to let my constant companion go ..for her sake ...not for mine ...miss her immensely..my dog Bailey
My dog died yesterday, I want him to go to a good place and I want all of y’all’s pets to go to a better place! Sending prayers for y’all!
#Tiffy Tofu#, thank you for thinking of others while you are going through your own grief, glad to have you at the channel.
thanks...
Thank you I really needed that
Thank you
Thank you
thanks for this video. my 12-year-old dog died on Friday. I brought him home when he was about 2 months old. very difficult to see him leave.
Oh, Aguz Rodri. Losing a beloved pet is so difficult. We have gone through this in my family a few times. Better days ahead.
@@ASDdoesgames I can feel that, my dog passed away yesterday and I was right there when he went, he was 15❤❤
Aguz Rodri Mine just died yesterday and he was only 6 years old
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I am sorry for you, so did mine, 9.15 am UK time. ❤️
I’m so sorry... my rabbit died and I have been crying even in school. I feel you.
6 days without my dog after being with him everyday from ages 12-30 😭. I am
Beyond broken. He was perfectly fine aside from his age. This is harder than family. I knew he would pass, but I thought he would show signs. Not just one day and done. I knew my dogs parents years before he was born. I was there for his birth. He came home at 4 weeks. This hits completely different. I want my dog back 😢
Carlos Cecilio Beauty, how sad. You are on the grief journey, be kind to yourself. We are here for you.
So sorry...we.lost our beautiful girl Bella yesterday and there are no words for the love we had for her and will for the rest of our lives...stay strong theres a little lost soul out there needs rescued and lots of your love ...after some time maybe ....
I'm sorry for your loss. I feel the same way. My cat died 2 days sgo. She developed something and vet said she needs to be put to sleep. I'm crying since she's been gone.
My dog has just passes and i have been thinking the same exact thing i thought there would be a sign that she was going to pass not just so sudden like i should’ve done more
Wife and I lost our cattle dog of nearly 11 years. RIP Rocky. He was the best. Smart, obedient, funny, so much more.
Sorry for your loss. My wife and I recently lost our little dog recently. Glad you have someone to share the grief with.
Thank you so much for this video . My dog died this morning and I’m heartbroken it happened so suddenly
Sorry to hear about your loss, Alize m. Be good to yourself and take some time for yourself.
Same is happening to me today😢
I know it’s 5 months ago but I’m so sorry
So so sorry, I know how you feel, lost my Petra 2 days ago to a sudden heart attack. It is the worst time ever. I hope you are getting thru this difficult time, they will always be with us in spirit x
Mine to miss her so much
It really hurts because I just lost my dog this morning. I've been crying for hours now and my eyes are swollen.. I really miss her, it really hurts and all I feel right now is regret and pain. I hope she's in peace right now and another piece of me is broken..
ainne mill, I am sorry for your loss. Go ahead and cry, that is part of grief. It will get better, but may take a long time.
Yes i lost mine yesterday some car knocked him down after he escaped the yard. My eyes are swollen and i am.work and have been crying all day
my dog just passed this morning. I wasnt there. He lived such a beautiful life with us for 10 years, I am sad but at peace to see hi go. It still hurts so much though.
Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..
I'm dealing with this now.. Does it get any easier??
I lose my pet yesterday and I really wish that I still have him for a little longer. My heart goes to those people who are grieving right now. May all our pets hanging out in peace out there. I am missing you everyday, 8. I love you! 💕🐾
Kool-Aid Man, Thank you for your support and encouragement to those going through what you are.
♥️♥️
Lost my best friend of 11 years a few weeks ago.
Still brings tears to my eyes just at the thought.
Sorry for your loss.
@@Jennchannel24 im so sorry that happened
Both my rabbits passed away today. My heart goes out to anyone who’s going through the sane grief right now, they’re in a better place now❤️
Ambika Singh Tomar, thank you for your kindness and support. I wish you the best.
My rabbit died this morning, I slept next to the cage and when I woke up he was lifeless, I called my mom and cried and talked to her on the phone.
My bunny died yesterday, I'm completely broken up about it. It was very sudden and it was my best friend:'( he had a friend who said goodbye but still is searching for him at home.. Hope it get's better over time
My rabbit suddenly had a seizure and I was rushing him to the vet but he passed away in my arms by the time we got there.
I feel you, I had a bunny at only 6 months he passed away. We did everything we could. Even though it was only 6 months we became sooo close
2020 couldn't get any worse 😭, my dog just died today..
Khronovaude, I am so sorry, hang in there.
Mine too
Same 😞
Same here😢
@@meliryan311 My beautiful Pomeranian boy Bubble of 10 years just passed this morning. I've been crying all day. He is in a better place now and no longer suffering. I'm going to miss his cuddles and kisses. Rest In Peace my little beautiful boy.
I never thought I would go to UA-cam to search about this. I just lost our dog Dunkin and was crying while watching this but I laughed when he said think of the annoying things you had together with your pet. I remembered how he hates taking a bath. Thank you for this. Definitely in life it's useful to be realistic during this tough times. Hugs to everyone who's dealing with the pain. We'll get through this!
Head high
Thank you for your support of others while dealing with the loss of your own beloved pet. Much appreciated.
Been a few months since my baby passed, I still don’t see getting over her any time soon, it makes me tear up every time I think of her cuteness and how she could still be with me.
Grief takes time, Totally Acting. Hang in there and remember you are never wrong about how you feel.
My birds just died last night and I had the 3rd one on my chest as he took his last’s breathe... didn’t know stuff like that can break you so much
Sorry for your loss, Shamoshes.Take care and I hope the video helps to remember your bird.
I just lost my two parrots xd
Hristina Shopova I lost my budgie yesterday he died of a seizure after flying into a window sorry for your loss
My dog was named Sulley and he died in a car accident when he got hit and he was only 6 months old
i tired to rescue a bird but he died the next night..i feel like i killed him i shd have brought him to the doctor sooner
It never gets easy. I've gone through it so many times....it's what holds me back from getting another one. Just not the right time for me.
It's definitely tough stuff Georgeanne. Trust yourself to know when it is right. DrPaul
I’ve had 4 dogs. They have all been put down except for 1, but he is getting old, hence why I’m watching this video.and every single one broke my heart. I’m still not used to it. I’ve decided I’m not getting any more dogs. I just can’t deal with it any more.
@@drhater2318 Same here, 4 dogs, one left and he's old.
@@georgeannepanos8132 Me as well. I’m down to my last dog of four after having to put my Boston Terrier down this morning. This was the toughest one, never gets any easier :/
Same, don’t think I can get another pet. Can’t go through this again 😢
My dog was hit by a car yesterday and passed away. Trying to cope with the loss of my best friend. The only person who loved me unconditionally weather am rich or poor, ugly or cute, fat or thin. Tried watching many videos to come to terms with this loss. This video really helped me a lot. Thank you 🙏
Ali Hazari, that is so hard. Thank you for watching and know that things will get better. I am glad you are watching this and other videos to help you process your loss.
My dog died the same way just a few days ago, my whole family is still grieving his loss, all we have are the beautiful memories we shared with him and how happy he was with us.
My sweet little silly Lilly passed away over a week ago. I'm struggling badly, but this video and everyone's comments are helpful to hear. Sure, it has me crying my eyes out, but that's just proof that I truly cared for her as much as I've ever cared for anyone on this planet. I will be memorizing her by getting my first tattoo of her paw print on my upper left arm. I miss her so much! So grateful to have had her in my life!
I'm sorry to hear this, I hope the video is helpful for you as you work through your grief.
That pain never ever goes away, l have lost many pets through the years, the pain is exactly the same today as it was yesterday.
Walking Through Life, my sincere condolences for your losses.
I lost my dog this morning and it broke my heart. He died in his sleep thankfully, but I wish I got an opportunity to say a goodbye. I can't stop crying, I spent almost my entire life with him. He had a special spot on my bed and it smells like him. There's no way I can wash these sheets.
Kinley C, oh, this reminds me of when we lost our Crystal, so sorry. Be gentle with yourself, you are not wrong about how you feel and you will heal. Peace.
I just lost my furbaby lasting he has been sick with cancer for the last 8 weeks I cant cope with the pain I can smell his medication on my pj's as I spent the day snuggling him before we went to the vets iv been up all night smelling my clothes I'm devastated I'm not sure how I'm gonna cope
I’m so so sorry for your loss, my dog isn’t doing that well and his back legs are starting to not work anymore which means he can’t go to the bathroom so he doesn’t have much longer...he is been in my life since I was born and it’s going to be so hard to deal with his death,.
@@cliffordthebigblackdog6300 Wishing you the best
@@kin7381 Sorry for your loss. I feel you.
Just lost my black lab today. He had to be put down at the vet and I just can’t get past the moment where he stopped breathing. It all happened so suddenly. He gave me and my family 10 years of amazing joy and I’m so so so happy to have been his owner. RIP my baby boy❤️🐾.
Beautifully said.
My labradoodle was just put down today due to leukemia. I just couldn’t stay for her euthanizing, it was so painful to see her the way she was. She wouldn’t eat and she was losing hair and couldn’t walk. She could hardly open her eyes when I talked to her and her tail no longer wagged when she saw me. Normally when I scratch her belly, she’d kick her hind legs rapidly and it was always funny. She didn’t do that this time. I couldn’t help myself but to cry in that moment seeing her for the last time. I knew it was time to let her rest and that’s exactly what I did. I miss her already and it hasn’t even been 30 minutes. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope I can get over this easily.
My rabbit was dead when I woke up, I called my mom and talked to her on the phone and balled my eyes out. I don’t know why but I did. I know he is in a better place and I also want to say thank you for replying to all of these poor people who have had to go threw this. thank you for making this video. And thank you for helping me rap my mind around things. For anyone who has lost a pet, you are in my prayers and your animal is in a better, peaceful place. Bless all of you.
Thank you for your kindness during your time of grief.
We had to put my dog down yesterday I’m heartbroken :( I was there for his last breath I held his paw and pet him as he passed I feel like I’ll never be happy again :( rest in paradise Ziggy
honeybunny, I know you feel this way, it is part of the grief process. It will get better, but you will always miss Ziggy.
I lost my 18 yr old cat only 3 hours ago, im heartbroken. How are you feeling 7 months on? Hope your ok .
@@jeremybailey175 my sister's dog was put down today I loved that dog. I visited a lot and he was my buddy when I was there, he filled the hole that was left from me not being able to have a dog due to my living situation. R.I.P Stunner you will me missed.
I had to put my dog Spanky to sleep this week due to complications of congestive heart failure. I'm really feeling low. My other dog is beside himself, he looks in the backyard all day trying to see his brother. You always second guess yourself-could I have given him a few more days? Couldn't we have strung him along with another procedure? The reality is, when dogs have terminal conditions like this their quality of life can go downhill very quickly. You owe them the responsibility of looking out for their best interests-and sometimes that means making the ultimate call. I miss Spanky, very much. I hope you've found peace in the last 8 months, honeybunny.
Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..
My cat died today. Chillest, most behave and most loving pet I've ever had. It's been tough. I wasn't prepared for this...
Blue Dragon Fruit, it is hard to be prepared for something like this. I wish you the best.
It’s been 9 months since then, can you please tell me how you have moved on?
I am going through this just now. He died a few ours ago and I feel as if I am in a bad dream😔
My cat of 14 years passed a few months ago back in February and I’m still accepting the loss. I was thankfully able to come visit from college when he passed, but I had to go back only a few days after we lost him. Now that I’m a college grad I am living at home full time again and am feeling the loss way more. We have his ashes which we keep in the box he used to sleep in. I remember him everyday and the unconditional love he showed me. It isn’t easy to not having him here, but I remember just how much he gave me and I fell grateful
Sofia Chevez, I am sorry for your loss. It is hard and I am glad you can feel gratitude.
My dog passed away about 5 hours ago, they started having seizures back in December but they were very infrequent and minor. Today, he fell down, and never got back up. It was like on off switch, I've never seen a living being die so fast for seemingly no reason. It's hard to deal with, I've had him since my earliest memories. Thanks for the tips.
Rest in piece Hunter
2011-2022
I'll always have you in my memories.
I am sorry for your loss. That is sudden. We never know how much time we have together.
Just lost my dog today... he passed peacefully but man, I just can’t stop crying 😭 rip my good boy
Loco Lobo, the loss is fresh. It will take some time for you to process this loss. Go through the grief and you will feel better.
Loco Lobo how have you moved on since then?
So terrible 😞
Lift yours up to The Joy of Salvation O'Human like Me. Eternal Treasure.
So sorry man
I had a pet who died yesterday, I had him since I was two and he lived until he was 15 and me at 17. Thank you for this
You are welcome, Nope Nope. I am glad you had such a great relationship with your pet. What a gift. I hope the video helps you during this difficult time.
This is the exact same position I’m in rn, except we had to put him down this morning, I hope you’ve been able to move past the sadness and that I can too
Nope Nope My dog was 17 and I’m 15. We had to put him down on the 15th. Snoopy was born July 16, 2003. I’ve cried so much since he passed
Computer Nostalgia my cat was around 12 and I’m 17 so I’ve had him for most of my life and he was hit by a car this morning and it’s been so hard 💔
Laurel Grace I’m very sorry for your loss. I wish the best of luck to you.
Lost my beloved 11 year old lab a week ago. I am lost without him. I am devastated. I miss him so much. He was my buddy, always at my side. Even with all this pain, I feel blessed to have had him in my life.
Beautifully said.
Well needed video. My Pomeranian went to heaven September 5th 2021 after 16 years with me. I was 27 when I got her, I'm 43 now.... I am not ok but dealing the best way I can. My Condolences to anybody that has lost a fur baby, it's not easy.. I cry everyday & I don't feel I'm myself anymore... 💖🙏😔
I am so sorry.
Thank you 🙏😔
My rabbit of almost a year old died today, I watched the color drain from his eyes and his little heart stop beating while I held him in my arms. I still feel like I’m in a dream I just want to wake up and hold him again. RIP Bib, August 2018-July 28th 4:01pm 2019, the best little buddy I could ever have. I love you and I hope you’re last hours weren’t painful. You had the best life a rabbit could ever have, you were loved greatly and I will never forget you.
Beautifully said, Thomas Loydon.
My bunny had to get put to sleep today too she was 1.5 my heart feels so broken I'm so lost
My bunny’s 4.5 a motivate she is alive and my other one died but it’s a miracle for me
I don’t have a rabbit but a guinea pig that died at 3:29 this morning. He was four turning five in July. He was such a good guinea pig but he had to die a painful death because no vet near us could cater to “exotic” animals. I have his brother by me and I honestly don’t know what to do. Like I want to buy another Guinea pig and keep the brother happy but I don’t want to deal with the deaths of pets again - it’s a horrible feeling.
Earlier today my dear dog passed away. I hope I made her happy for the 12 years she was with me I wish the best for anyone else going through this right now and remember that I’m sure you made them happy.❤️
Ezra ;P, thank you for your positivity and compassion.
Thank you so much for this video. My cat has been missing for 3 days, its not normal for him at all, he is my soul mate, i am gutted, praying he will be home soon. My heart goes out to anyone reading this who is in pain over the loss of their precious pet. Truely. 💜💜💜🙏🏼🎇
Sorry to hear that. I hope he comes back.
Did he come home? :(
@@kcloud1186 cats usually leave home when they’re close to death, most likely so their owners don’t have to see them in that state. It’s actually a super interesting fact about house cats they’re pretty affectionate little creatures.
i cried all day today, i hope he’s up there with Jesus. He died on Resurrection day
iknowcharley, I am so sorry for your loss.
they are, lost my 13 year old labrador today
I hear you. My dog of 14+ years had to be put to sleep two days ago.i lost my wife to CoVid seven months ago and she's the one who made us get this dog! I like to think she's there greeting him into heaven!
My rabbit (Peter) died today and it was painful 😣
I lost my dog in summer of 2019, I soon lost my other dog in September 2020. I miss both of them and afraid of losing my other dogs. I cry almost everyday, sometimes I think if they even remember me. I suffered more when a person said “it’s just a dog.” I was torn because I knew they never knew what happiness pets bring. Pets bring the happiest days of our lives and the saddest days. Whoever is reading this and lost a pet, remember it’s okay to be sad for however long it’s been. I feel for you, I know your pain.
Janimal Plays, thank you for your compassion.
I’m sorry for your loss.
My sweet golden retriever Bodhi Bear, is dying in the next couple days.
I can’t stop crying.
I’m just having such a hard time.
I want more time with him so bad.
But we all know that just isn’t how life works. And these moments are here to teach us. My tears are filled with so many emotions, so many memories. An entire decade of my life was spent attached to this great spirit! Oh god now I’m crying.
Here comes the rain again
Falling on my head like a memory
Falling on my head like a new emotion.
~Annie Lennox
Animals bring so much peace and happiness us humans will never understand. They are our life. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thank you
My baby died this past September was so unexpected , she was only 3. I still cry everyday, I keep going over that day. Thinking I could have done more to save her
Thank you, very much, for sharing this. My husband and I lost our twelve year old black lab yesterday afternoon. We noticed the signs a few days ago, however, I think in some ways we were in denial. I was with him until his final breath. I hadn’t cried that much since I was a child. Dogs certainly have a lot to teach us humans about unconditional love. Anyone who is grieving right now over the loss of a pet, please know that we understand your pain. Again, thank you.
S A L, thank you for your words of comfort and understanding. Glad to have you at the channel.
I also lost my black lab there such good dogs
My 16 year old cat was put down 5 hours ago, he just had his eye out 2 weeks ago and he was back to being like a kitten now that he was free from the pain. I was so happy he was like himself again, 5 days ago he was diagnosed with kidney failure and now he’s gone. It was so sudden and I just need some help man.
That is sudden. I am so sorry. Be grateful for the years you had and hold onto the positive memories.
today I lost my 13 yeard old cat, friend, love, he was my everything, i will miss him
Sorry about your beautiful cat. The vet claimed my cat was dying so she was put to sleep. I keep questioning if the vet was right or not. It's one of those free mobile vet clinics, for low income or no income. She had edema, and she couldn't eat just drink water. I just don't know. 🕊️
Maggie, my dog and best friend of 12 years, passed away yesterday morning. Thanks for this, it helped. I loved her like a sister. Unfortunately I was out of the country, but she passed in piece. Too anyone going through the same. God bless to you, your family and most of all, your wonderful pet who is resting happily in heaven.
Sorry for your loss, thank you for your kind words to others going through a loss.
My dog just passed away today, he was laying in my arms when he stopped breathing. Im gonna miss you bud hope you crossed the rainbow bridge safely..:)
Sammy, I am so sorry.
My pet bunny died 3 days ago, my heart has this burning feeling that just doesn't go away. I hope everyone else who's going through such a thing takes care of themselves.
Manga, I am so sorry. Thank you for reaching out to others.
I feel ur pain..
My dog passed away on Nov 2nd,2022 on my brothers birthday coming home from a fun day to a tragic horrible death... He was found deceased in the middle of the road from a car that didnt care how fast they were going in a 10-15mph street...I already see visuals of my little Buddy laying in his bed/barking/his toys.
I love/miss you soooo much [BUDDY]
So sorry for your loss.
It's been a month since I lost my rat and I still feel like I'm permanently being inside that vet clinic, looking at him, having him slowly falling asleep in my arms after the injection. I blame myself for his death. My friends and family keep saying it wasn't my fault but I know it actually was. This rat was the only creature that needed me and that I truly unconditionally loved and I let him die. I didn't do enough and now he is gone.
I'm sorry, baby. I'm so sorry.
baby ct, you are replaying events without giving yourself an end. It will be an eternal loop until you write the ending. Tell yourself you are fine, place your beloved pet in circumstances that are favorable to him and of the time you will be reunited.
He knows how much you loved him and he forgives you ❤️
My 1 year old dachshund, Lilly got hit by a car. She was just being her normal, curious, adventurous self, and she just didn’t notice the car until it hit her. I miss her so much.
That is very tragic, to lose a family member so young. My condolences.
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry. 😰😰🥺🥺
Same thing to my puppy he was 8 months I loved him so much.
How do you deal with it ?! Our dachshund got it by a car because she was being a little too adventurous. She somehow got to our neighbours place and the gate was open and aaaagh! Stupid dog. She was 11 months old.
My French bulldog just got hit by a car tonight - I’m devistated. She was only 15 months old and was attached to me at the hip. I looked forward and hoped to have her with me fit at least 10 more years. This is such a shock
Thank you for the advice. My cat passed this morning and I loved him very much. He gave nothing less than unconditional love. He was only two years old and his illness happened so suddenly and took him so quickly. I know that he’s found a place in heaven now. Ollie will forever live in my heart. Even if his presence in my life was brief, he helped me through so much in such critical years of my life.
Beautifully said, Snivy for SSBU.
Almost the same here, our beautiful boy just 1,5 half years old passed away yesterday. He helped my mom to get out of depression and we loved him so much. The pain is indescribable. Thank you very much for the video and the comments, now I feel less alone.
This happened to me this morning, I was at work when I had a call that my cat Links had just been killed outside our own house by a car, needless to say I’ve been In tears since this morning. He was 1.5 years old and has truly left an imprint on my heart, he gave nothing but true love and never expected anything back . What have you guys done to help remember your cats if you don’t mind me asking?
My cat (first cat ever) just died last night. Only about 6 months old🥺🥺😭 She came in our house bleeding and suffering and we had no idea why. I feel so bad for her even though we did what we could do to help her. She also made me feel happy and helped me and my mother out of depression... But right now I feel like my depression is coming right back😣😣😣😣😣 It’s so painful and I don’t know what to do with myself right now.
@@freyafugl3137 you will get over it. I promise.
I lost my cats 10 of them in a fire 2016. And now my rescued cat of 3 months, shes 5-6 months old is dying.
Its so hard. Her brother just ran away i cant find him coz its covid.
My dog collapsed this morning and couldn’t walk,my mum out her to sleep in my arms.We had a her for 13 years and i can’t bear a life without her
Will Evans, it is hard, but you can go on. Live in the grief right now and be sad for the loss. It will get better.
today my 6 month old sweet little girl tatanka died in an accident today. Sweetest thing i’ve ever come across and i’m so sorry for every negative thing I did to you and I hope you are happy in heaven now
Jason Sammis, I am so sorry.
Today my dog of 11 years Tilly, is being put down. She had cancer, and watching her suffer was enough for us to know that it was her time. My heart is completely broken, but I know that she is going to a better place. Rest in peace Tilly 💓
26/09/2020
x.elika_ x , sorry to hear.
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I understand you I lost mine as well hate cancer
Today our dog after 16 amazing years passed away. 😭😢 The true definition of unconditional love is from the dog towards you. The purest love. I am so happy I found this video.
David Lam, I am glad you found it also. Know you are not alone.
My dog just left us today on Christnas Eve at 13 years old. I loved him so much and can’t seem to imagine my future without him yet. He was the kindest dog in the world and it hurts so much. ❤️
I am so sorry, that is such a hard thing to go through, especially now. Be kind to yourself.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you!
mine to it’s the 25th of christmas but she passed away earlier
Almost a year in august i lost my 15 year old baby like it was yesterday. I still cry for her every day...i don't think this pain will ever go away
I am so sorry. The pain will lessen, but it doesn't ever go totally away.
Lost mine just yesterday, had him for 17 years, I i grew up with him and its rough, but he is in a better place
Chappel Chastain, thank you for sharing.
My dog died this morning a very important part of my heart broke
Georgia Brindley, thank you for sharing. Sorry for your loss. I remember how difficult it was to go through.
Georgia Brindley my pet dog died today..
My cat died yesterday and he was still 1 year; and 7 months.
Please stay on your healing journey and know that you remain in my prayers..sending you love & positive healing vibes right now...🙏💓
We got this😘
Mine also, today morning, in my house 😣
Lost my baby German Shepherd yesterday of 9 years. Gut wrenching feeling constantly, chest feels like it’s caving in at points. It’s literally the worst feeling I’ve ever experienced. I hope everyone here is staying strong. Much love ❤️
It is so difficult. Thank you for supporting our community.
My chihuahua Toby was with me for 7 years. He was the best friend I've ever had. I had to put him down so I spent 10 good minutes with him and was with him the entire time of his passing. The pain is worse than heartbreak. There is no better experience in life than unconditional love. To have a little buddy who just wants to spend every moment with you. They're just to good for this world.
jebusm86, honored to be on your team.
Hey my dog died today in a very bad way and to see that's how he died I can't. Everything hurts but this helped a lot.
Martha Soila, I am so sorry. Glad the video helps, take it easy and work through the grief.
Thank you for your video. I lost m 14 year old Italian Greyhound i raised from pup. It's just her and I and i'm 58. I lost my parents also within the scope of of past 8 years .... all 3 to cancer. This to me is by far the most horrible loss I have ever encountered being she was as your video states pure LOVE. It's been almost 2 weeks i had to make that decision to let her go and the visuals of that day haunt me. She was still happy but suffering. I seriously don't think i'll ever get over her she was my best friend. I've had many animals growing up but at this age and from a baby she was mine and i was hers. She taught me LOVE like no other human. I have to say i never gave thought to losing her ... which was living in the now i suppose but wow - i'm grateful for the time i had spending as her caretaker during cancer and loving her up and her loving me back as always. I cry constantly. I've lost work. I see therapist. It's awful roller coaster. That hug you speak of i so need but my friends seem to have nothing to say, they don't understand she WAS my family and always will be. I journal and I still talk to her. I bought some plants in her memory and also crystals to keep her safe. Yes i had her cremated she is here with me now. For anyone who feels as deeply as I do please reach out for support don't go it alone. xx
Pamela Perry, thank you for reaching out to others and being there for those who has experienced a loss similar to yours. I am glad you are journaling and working through your grief.
Hi Pamela I am so sorry for your loss, if you read my comment above , I am in a very similar position to you and I could sure use some support.
I'm on day 1 and I'm heartbroken. I would love to just talk to somebody.... anybody. (my situation makes it hard for me to even have friends)
I’m here for exactly the same reason. We fostered an Italian greyhound, she sunk into inconsolable pain, we exhausted our funds just to find her illness was incurable bladder cancer. This was my first dog, I had her for four months, I wanted my dog my whole life. I’m 30 now, I waited until I was ready.
This was so unfair.
So sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my pet too. He was my baby. I feel broken and guilty
Pamela Perry I relate completely with how you feel . I had been with my boston for 10 years and he got i feel completely empty everything seems black the thought of him haunts me and my stomach hurts i cant eat or sleep . I miss him so much i cant stand it . Thank you for sharing and im sorry for your loss .
My pet bird died today, he loved me more than anything in the world, and so did I.
He would always chat with me, and everybody he met. He was friendly, little being of 3 months, who got along w Everybody that played w him. He was the most lovable being ever, may god bless him with the best. May he be in a better place.
Amen 🙏🏻😔
Parsh - vi, I am so sorry. It sounds like he will be missed by many.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I'm sure 🥺
I also lost my two pet birds in one day. And this is killing me. The pain is killing me. I couldn't sleep at night. My birds died due to an accident caused by a rope perch.
This helps me alot, even though my puppy passed away a month ago, I still have a broken heart, he was my best friend even though he was only 4 months old. For anyone who also lost their pet, just remember that their not meant to last your whole life, YOUR meant to be there for them their entire life.
Joan Historillo, what a great thought. Thank you for sharing.
I took a snip of my dogs coat hair days before his passing, 2 years later and i still open the pouch I have it in from time to time, it helps me as he had been with me my entire life. I miss you raider.
CHRONDS, what a great idea.
My pet of 6 years died today. Facing towards the corner of the cage, laying down. When I saw it, all the good memories I’ve had with him flashed before me as I saw he wasn’t breathing. I’ve been feeling sorry since I had not spent as much of my time as I should’ve with him. I could’ve done better for him.
Creative Title, I am sorry, take some time to work through your grief. If you have happy memories, cling to those.
Although mine may seem silly to most, but it has now made a scar in my mind. My hen who I have raised since she was a chick died today. I have a problem with bonding with animals to closely which causes me to be heartbroken for weeks. She was 3 years and she had been battling a illness for 2 weeks. We tried everything and went through many thoughts on what it could be. Just today we thought she had cancer or something similar. So I had kept her inside all day. At 1:00 she came to the edge of the box and sat on the towel. I took a picture and rubbed her. We had already concluded we were going to put her down, just not now. And she look at me then...
( MENTIONING SOME SAD STUFF BEYOND THIS POINT, BE WARNED )
Then she all of the sudden flopped down her head and spread her wings. I lifted her head and it flipped down. She started flapping around in panic. I called my mom. She rushed in and turned the box toward her. She started crying as I could here the little clucks from the hen until silence. She looked at me. And that was it. I’ve been crying every since. I just can’t get the picture of her eyes wide red in fear, how scared she looked. I didn’t see her ever since my mom turned the box around, I didn’t have the guts to. I’m sorry I’m explaining this but it feels good to explain what’s going on in my mind. Rest In Peace my sunshine, Dixie
I am sorry for your loss, That Animal Lover. It sounds traumatic. Give yourself an ending to the story with peaceful thoughts.
Our fifteen-and-a-half-year-old black goldendoodle just passed away Wednesday. We had her since I was four… so most of my life. I was gently hugging her up to her final heartbeats. She will forever be missed
GamerGurl36, sorry for you loss. Glad you were with her.
My sweet baby Ranger got hit by a car lastnight and he’s been on my mind ever since... this pain is unexplainable, he will be missed! Rest in peace baby.
Pamela Roman, it is so hard to lose a beloved pet. Peace.
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My dog sadly got put down today after 11 years and I’ve never lost someone before, and it’s horrible I already feel empty, Rip poppy 🙏😓
Jack Davidsen, it is very difficult. Allow yourself to grieve over this loss.
Yea I have to put my dog down this Friday and I literally never felt this sad and depressed
I understand. I put mine down last night. He was my heart and soul and he died while I held him. I am terribly sad and I think it will only get worse. I wish you all the best.
Same... She was on the way to home on stairs when it happened I was late to reach there. Every second is way too much pain to me and my family... How are you now?
I just wanted to say thank you... Lost my dog after she just turned 14. I knew they day was coming but there is no escaping the feeling of loss. To greive her feels not only necessary but also a way to give her respect. She was a very deer friend, so clever and in tune with her family. I will take my best photo of her and put it on the wall along with the rest of my family photos. Thank you again for this video.
I don't think we can prepare for the huge loss and emotions. Beautiful tribute to a wonderful friend.
My Dog just passed away earlier today. All the great memories I’ve had with her…May she Rest In Peace.R.I.P Camelia🤍
FerniPlayz, I wish you the best. Be kind to yourself as you grieve.
my best friend of the last 10 years passed today. i’m broken.
Jeppe Fjellerad, I am so sorry, it is such a tough thing to go through.
I feel you. I hope it gets better
Mine just passed today its been just me and her the last 14 years stay strong brother I am devastated she not next to me anymore.
I’m so sorry for you
God bless you sir. I grieve with you.
Thank you, I just found my cat dead outside today and i’ve been crying for hours straight. he was my best friend🥺
Cy4, I am so sorry.
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i love how you choose your words carefully, saying things that are true but hard to deal with or accept. when I was younger i never thought my cat would die, but i started to realize that over those 20 years.
Djddh Bdbd, thank you for watching, I wish you the best.
Lost my childhood dog today. It was so peaceful and I’m beyond thankful, but at the same time it hurts so much. Rest in peace Jenna, I love you so damn much ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
andres marking, I wish you the best as you adjust to your new circumstances.
I personally couldn’t be part of the drive to the vet today because someone had to be home for my nephews and I’m the most emotional so me driving wouldn’t be safe. Every part of me wishes I could be there for Bobby cat. So my sister and mom are gone right now and I’m here watching this and bawling my eyes out. We had him since we had to hand feed the litter just over 12 years ago. He doesn’t know starvation or abuse. All he knew was warm beds, love, full belly, and so so so many purrs. I’ll miss him so hard.
Becca H, I am so sorry. I know it will take some time, but you will feel peace as you did everything you could for Bobby cat.
July 3rd, my dog of 14 years went suddenly yet peacefully. I’m 31 now and she was with me since high school. Needless to say, I’m going to miss having her here to greet me any time I come home. I’ll miss the walks. I’ll miss her begging for my food any time I eat. But when I decide to get a new dog, whenever that may be, it will be a rescue from a shelter. So in some way, my old dog’s passing will be helping another dog to live and I think that’s one of the best ways to honor her.
My pet rabbit of 7 years also passed away on the 3rd. He went in for a routine bladder stone removal but ended up having an infection and didnt pull through post op. Stay strong. Death is not the end but only the begining. Hopefully time heals
That sounds like a great way to honor her, Bloody Persistent. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for your words of comfort, Dr Diablo.
Our poor pup passed over the weekend. In such a short 6 months of life, he was able to fill our hearts with such great memories. We’ll forever miss you Blue. You’re my boy Blue. 😢
J.R. Sandoval, I am so sorry. I hope the video is helpful.
I just lost my rabbit. He was so loving, he was small but he had such a presence and role in my family. I’ve never felt so heartbroken 💔 It’s hard to think about him, see his things still set up and around. I’m so many ways he acted like a person. I’m finding it hard to be at home without him. I wish we had done something earlier, maybe he could have been saved. My mind can’t accept that he is gone forever. It’s difficult.
I am so sorry. You are grieving, it can be physically painful, along with emotionally. Be aware of how you are feeling and be kind to yourself as you go through this emotional time. It will get better. Believe that.
Lost my cat who was my bff on tuesday the 30tg of july 2019, he is in a better place right now and i can’t wait till i see him, his absolute heart of gold has saved my life and i will get a sucessor for him today. I don’t know how long it will be untill we meet at the rainbow bridge but when we do i will be the happiest man in heaven and he will be the happiest cat. I will spend the whole day cuddling with him and the whole night sleepingnext to him, he allways slept next to me becuse i brought him the comfort he needed and he brought the love i needed to be happy.
I love you Tusse and we shal meet again. Ps i will make some chicken for you!
Beautifully said, A fat cat from sweden.
I just lost my cat yesterday too. I am still grieving.
I've lost some important people in my life, but loosing my dog last week was the most painful thing I've ever been through. Please don't compare those losses.
Tena Fistonic, I hear you and am sorry for your loss.
My amazing Bernese Mountain Dog passed away while I was on vacation. We had 8 amazing years with her. She was the most loving, caring, and sweet dog I've ever known.
I am so sorry to hear that. Hope the video is helpful.
My kittten just died today , I'm glad I can held her with my hands , I'll miss her rest in peace mio❤️
I am so sorry.
Thank you for this video. We had to make the difficult decision to put down our precious family cat of 11 years. He helped me raise my four kids. Our hearts are split in two.
Oh, Norma James. Sorry for your loss. Mend your hearts together.
I just lost my dog of 11 years two days ago. I’m at such a low point... my heart is aching. That was my baby 🥺
Rissa Koch, I believe that your dog was your baby. Pets have a way of working themselves into our hearts like that. I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Eleven years is a long time to love someone; s/he must of felt your love immensely.
My dog passed away today and it's my first time experiencing loss and I never realised how hard it is. I've never cried more in my life.
I am so sorry.
I had to put my friend down a few days ago. The pain has been unbearable but i know I'd be selfish to not let him go and make him suffer with the pain he was going through. I know he's in a safe place now and i know he will be waiting for me when I get there someday. I hope I see him when I get there someday. I miss you boy.
I am so sorry, Piggy & Owl.
My cat died yesterday. I dont think he died peacefully, he died while he was awake. His eyes werent blinking, his body was cold. I felt so sad, i cried the whole day. He was a good cat to my family and me. He didnt deserve to die.
e e, I am sorry you are going through this now. I hope your family is there for one another.
My dog was put down today. She had congestive heart failure and could barely breath anymore.
Rest now Bella. You’ll always hold a place in my heart.😭
RIP to your dog Bella :( My dog had the exact samething, heart failure and couldn't breath and passed away Monday. So difficult to deal with the pain. I hope you are doing well and healing.
Ethan Nelson, it is so hard, but I am glad she isn't suffering now. Take care.
Both of my dogs died 5 weeks apart. The older one was 17 years old. Today is the third day since he passed away. I’m devastated and heart broken. It hurts as much as when my family members passed away.
I am so sorry. How difficult for you.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you, I found that talking with other people helps.
to everyone who lost their pets, i promise you my baby girl and your pet will be best friends in heaven and my baby will take care of your baby
had to put my baby (17 year old cat so not exactly baby but still baby in my heart) to sleep and this comment made me feel happy. thank you so much, your baby will be the first friend she will make after life!
@@forestings i promise you it'll get better with time. your pet was so lucky to have you 🥺🧣
Thank you for your positivity and helping others.
I think one important aspect is that when pets get elderly, we can't keep bringing them to the vet for life-prolonging treatments, because we're then just trying to postpone our own inevitable sadness.
Know when it's time to say goodbye.
Thank you for commenting, Hi Point C9. This is a hard thing to know sometimes. I am thankful for a great vet that is able to talk to us about our animals and help us understand what is going on.
What if theyll get better?
@@mightyobserver12 I recently lost my dog, and I think I'm switching between the denial and the bargaining stage of grief, I hope someone who reached the acceptance stage answers this.
@@noroutine5752 i also am in between denial and bargaining .how are you now?
Thank You so much for this video.. I don't know why I'm hurting myself like this. I just lost my dog a few hours ago and I feel like my heart's been ripped out. It hurts like shht and I cannot stop crying until now. I don't know what to do without him 💔
He's my best friend 😭
Rubyxcuby, you are never wrong about the way you feel and losing your dog is a huge loss. Take time and be patient with yourself. Find a way to remember your friend.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you so much .. My tears will never stop from falling but I want to help myself to move on slowly
My cat passed away the other day and I've searched for this.. it really breaks my heart.. i cried in the morning and in the night.. every memories flashed back.. i really miss him..
Xerxes Sia, I'm so sorry. You are grieving so be kind to yourself as you have these emotions. It will get better.
My dog just died yesterday, He has been with me through joy and sadness, ups and downs, and the dog loves you unconditionally. Then all of a sudden died. The feeling is unbelievably painful, I don't want to eat and can't sleep, I always cry when I remember him😭.... I will just go through the process, create a season for the loss to memorialize and remember him.
I miss him a lot.🧡 Thanks for the advice to "feel whatever you are going to feel". Thanks Dr. Paul.
I am so sorry. The hurt is real and you are not wrong with how you feel.