I do agree with you. He should have been able to toss her out and go on without any issue. But think about the optics of a grown man. Throwing a woman out of a vehicle and driving off. She can definitely swing some kind of assault charges against him for that dude's not trying to go to jail and he's not trying to become the next woman hating internet pariah
Question for everyone, those who have the rayon ear buds already, is it true you can't use ask siri with them? Keep telling my dad to get some for work, and some ppl he works with said it doesn't work for siri. So super curious if anyone else knows. He has a newer IPhone and he keeps going through them like crazy. His job requires he have them so he is available for his customers. So he can't keep going without. Thanks in advance!
If her father had tried to drag her out of the car, I can guarantee that entitled brat would had called the police herself and have him arrested with assault. Personal experience I can attest.
@@LeonLush As soon as he touched her, she would have screamed assault, and he would have gone to jail, been there almost done that trying to stop my adult daughter from running away with a major medical issue.
@@SrslyNoz. Agree - and then when the cops have to control her they say cops are abusive. So the parents can't take charge and call the cops, and now the cops can't take charge. So the inmates run the asylum is the "right way" I guess.
She's the kind of person that would accuse someone of doing that just bc they didn't give into her demands. I wouldn't be surprised if she would accuse her father of it if he had tried to remove her from the car himself or while growing up if he ever told her no
@@gothgirl4evr881she’s actually using that word in a correct manner since when dealing with police it also means to pester but I’m sure she doesn’t know she used it in the right context
@@gothgirl4evr881 this is exactly what I was thinking. The dad totally did the right thing by not physically engaging with her at all. Her general attitude made me so mad - the complete arrogance and entitlement was driving me nuts. I don't know how cops stay so calm when dealing with individuals like this, I would have tazed her ass 🤭 which hopefully might have knocked some sense into her 🙄
Calling the cops was the best thing the father could do hearing her tell the cops "Dont molest me" "stop kidnapping me" she would of 100% claimed her father did something to her
Doesn’t matter, he let her dominate him her whole life and calling the cops on an abuser only temporarily stops them. Daddy-O should have filmed the interaction then grabbed the little brat by the back of her neck and forced her out physically.
@@davemccage7918 we have no context if she’s always been this way or if the drug habit is new. Calling the cops on my sister when she got addicted helped wayy more then the months just yelling at her to stop. You clearly care more about your stuff then the people in your life
@@Apolio69 who said anything about stuff? This girl is an abuser and people who harm their family rely on complicity to get their way. I have had plenty of friends and family members that turned to drug and I myself was an alcoholic. None of us ever acted even remotely close to how this brat did. Even in my worst intoxicated state I would never do anything like this to my father. Not only because I loved him, but also because I know he would have given me the ass whipping I deserved.
She’s definitely an addictive personality and if I had to guess, I’d say there’s borderline personality disorder mixed in there with a psychopathy kicker. I’m also going to guess she got to this point in her life due to enabling and encouraging this behavior when it was ‘adorable’ but once adolescence kicked in, and the behavior began to manifest itself into what we see here, it finally seeped into their skulls that *maybe* they’d allowed a monster to take over and by then it was way too late. So now it’s come to the point of being an addict, being such a miserable person that she’s kicked out of many rehab facilities, and police are called to pull her out of his vehicle because she’s a product of her environment. She’s not getting anything close to better until she is willing to admit a change is inevitable- either in a pine box or intense therapy, but one way or another, change is a’comin.
An addiction changes your personality, so it's kind of hard to make that distinction. At some point, an addict really is nothing but an addict. There's a chance to rebuild some of their former life, but there's nothing left of the person originally there.
"Dad, help me!" Honey, he IS helping you. He's finally letting you experience the consequences of your own actions. The sooner you hit rock bottom, the sooner you can finally get motivated to get better.
😂 Cop was so close to saying "Dude, come on. You are talking your way into a cell and papers. You can get out, and we can wag our finger at you, give you a ticket and all go home.:
I think the most disgusting thing is her trying to gaslight her dad and the cops about him having dementia just to get her way and thats so sick. Trying to make it out like someone has mental issues or diseases to warp their reality and confuse them and try to discredit her dad with others is so horrible.
My husband's sister is a drug addict. She has said the most vile and vicious things to him and her own daughter. The problem is that even when she wasn't on drugs, she still did the most disgusting things to hurt the family just because she's that entitled. She's a worthless pile of garbage.
@blackdragoness21 I'm sorry to hear your sister in law is a destructive force in the family. If you're comfortable sharing, what was her drug of choice?
The cop at 13:25 saying "You sound a lot like my brother used to sound before he burned my mom's house down." was the biggest missed gem of this whole thing!
Kind of like when my brother attempted to kill me in front of my dying dad in hospice care because he didn't like the way my parents had favored me in distribution of their assets upon death.
Exactly then she tries to turn it on her father like he is going through early onset dementia and it's him that has the problem and she is his caretaker. I mean just how much more heartache is she trying to cause this man. Then after it's all said and done and she is forcibly removed from the vehicle and is being handcuffed she has the audacity to cry out to daddy to help her like it wasn't him that called the cops and pressed charges and he would step in and help.
I do think teaching emotional control and respect is a parents job though…. And it starts really early. When the tantrums start. How you deal with that will dictate your future as a parent.
The dad knew how CooCoo she is & was smart to call the cops, this documents her behavior! It’s hard as a parent when their kids are on drugs, I feel for the guy.
I don't think the daughter's behavior is even because of drugs. Definitely things that have been untreated for a long time but that also require the person to be cooperative in the treatment for. But she chose drugs to self medicate instead. Her fault and choice still.
This sort of thing doesn’t just pop up like a rash overnight. He’s even admitted to enabling her. She might be an addict but he also had a hand in creating the monster. I think it’s funny that he’s finally waking up but I don’t feel bad for him.
My sister was a criminal defence lawyer for years. She had to have the talk with countless parents & friends of addicts - don’t let them back in the house, don’t give them money, don’t chauffeur them around. You have to cut them off. It’s absolutely heartbreaking.
And 99.999% of the time, they hear you but won’t listen to you. But if you have even a shred of hope for saving this person, you have to completely divorce yourself to the point of physical pain. Addicts are parasitic manipulators that are fully aware of their ability to prey upon those closest to them because it’s worked every single time previously, so they’ll just craft something a little more clever and go to the person that’s the most likely to respond. That’s the person that really needs to suck it up and stand up.
That's easier said then done though, that's the problem. Most people are well aware of that at some point, but addicts will pull every emotional string they can find. And when it's your kid, there's plenty of those for them to pull. They sink to levels you can't imagine. They will cry their heart out, tell you their regrets, beg for you to let them stay the night, make an appointment with rehab, swear to do everything they can to get clean, remind you of good times, only to slip out in the night with your credit card.
My sister had 4 young adults living in her home. One went to prison and then there were 3. Those all lived off her dime and she didn’t send them out the door. When she suddenly died they had no idea how to pay bills in a house they had lived for 20 years. They all were in their 30’s one with a child. The car was repo’d within the next month. They spent all the money in her accounts and tried to get their hands on her annuity. What horrible children. I’m sure the house also was lost to them as well. You don’t teach children anything if they don’t face consequesnces.
My mother (who is a recovering addict) told me at a early age that desperation is the best give that you can give an addict. They need to hit rock bottom, even though that is a really dangerous place to be, and they may not come back. It is the only chance they have for self reflection and to find the strength to make a change in their life.
Absolutely!! I have used basically any drug you can name throughout my life, and crucially was an addict (alcohol at one point, heroin at another) And the heroin addiction was while living with my parents - so I think I'm qualified to comment on her behavior! - at NO POINT did I EVER behave this way towards my parents or ANYONE!! No matter how high or intoxicated or mentally unwell I was! In fact I actually managed to hide my addiction entirely from them, and my dad is a high level addictions nurse :') and I did that because I didn't want my addiction to hurt the people around me that I love!! Not that Im insulting the many addicts who have struggled with it impacting their family, and their family noticing or being upset by it- but even in those cases, mostly every addict I've known even at worst, has never been as blatantly deliberately selfish and uncaring and spoiled as this girl was!!! Even when someone is so blackout wasted that they act out of character, say rude, blunt, selfish sounding stuff, you can tell they're basically not even conscious and running on the character randomizer essentially But this girl definitely both wasn't wasted enough to be completely out of control of herself, and you could tell from the way she spoke to people, even cops or superiors incl dad, that shes been spoiled and never told no properly, or FACED REAL CONSEQUENCES in her life!! It's not just the intoxicants It's clearly her upbringing and lifestyle
I do find it hilarious that she went from fighting to stay in a car, to fighting to not go in a car. Also love how hard and often she tried to UNO reverse them.
I laughed so hard when they caught her trying to bite the one women cop and her fellow officer just fucking shoved her ass in the vehicle they were done with her BS
She was expecting her father to drive her home despite also saying he was in the early stages of dementia. The cops missed an opportunity to poke a hole in her logic with that one.
This is the most dangerous adult child ever because in a slightly different scenario who knows, she could pull off the caregiver and Dementia game. She’s sitting there Visiting with the police lol. A drug addict is on a ladder in life, their goal is to climb each rung of the ladder while taking all they can before going up the next rung, gather, take, disappoint, hurt, humiliate and shame themselves and their families trying to get to the next fix. Once they get to the top of the ladder aka the end and they SEE the carnage they’ve left behind…sadly even then they might not SEE or even want to stop. What a horrible life and what a tragedy.
Damn, did you guys hear what that supervisor cop said?! "You sound alot like my brother did, right before he burned down my mom's house..." AND HE STILL TRIED TO HELP HER OUT! Thats a good dude who's been through some serious shit!... Great cop to have as a supervisor!
Yes at 13:25. My heart went out to him. He knew what mental illness looked like first hand, Ironic she reminds me of my mother, I to this day think the drugs ate my mothers brain. It is sad. You know they are sick, they are toxic and manipulative, but you want to help, but you are tired of the abuse. I understand the dad, I love my mom but when she is off her meds she is EVIL! Sometimes it is MORE than "Just entitlement" throw bipolar 3 or schizophrenia into the mix with drugs abuse it puts their illness in to over drive it is so destructive not only to the ill person but to everyone around them. It makes you feel helpless, especially as a child growing up around it. I am still in therapy at 40 because of trauma.
She may be an addict but she’s fully aware of her actions. That’s just her personality. Also, as a former drug addict myself, I approve of your addiction jokes Leon.
Me too. I saw nothing offensive in this video and this girl, even if struggling with addiction, deserved this exposure for her behavior. She's still an entitled brat and seriously needs to get her shit together. I'm sure dad just had enough. Anyway, congrats on your sobriety. It's hard to overcome but you're a true warrior for doing so. Former addict myself, so I understand. Take care.
Agreed lots of people get addicted for different reasons I ended up addicted to opiates after being prescribed them after a motorcycle accident….long story short I corrected that problem because I wanted too, you can only kick addiction if you want to, and I agree Leon she doesn’t look high in the video just entitled.
This behavior is of a spoiled brat, not of addiction per se. While addicts do do some fucked up shit to get their next fix, they typically do not feel entitled like that. They know when they do fucked up shit, and feel guilty about it, but ultimately, the addiction is in their ear justifying the actions.
@@24fretsoffury I agree... this isn't a personality. Being a spoiled brat is not a personality. Unfortunate the father knows he is responsible for creating this monster but now it's too late for him to correct and he feels awful. I guess this is probably the best thing he could do, he seems to be finally standing up to her. Much harder to train her out of the terrible 2's phase now she's hit 20 lmao
We haven't even seen ANY evidence for her being a drug addict. If something comes out I'll stand corrected but I've been around narcissists with sociopathic tendencies before and this is exactly how they are. Drugs or not
I love how the dad admits that he spoiled her rotten and now he’s suffering the consequences but the daughter saying that he has dementia and that she is his caregiver yeah no
@@marloncebo242I wouldn't be so sure about that. She definitely acts like it. I had a younger aunt that behaved exactly like this woman. She displays irrational behaviors like she is on some kind of substance.
What’s worse is that he held this little girl from birth. He provided, raised her, laughed, loved, snuggled, and her regular betrayal of his love, weaponizing that love, must be literal hell.
As one who's lived through 60s and 70s and had friends who were addicts, drugs isn't what causes all this behavior. Never had my friends been mean or disrespectful of anyone, including police. She's spoiled brats to begin with. It's deeper than just substance.
Yeah my boyfriend's mom is addicted to alcohol and was addicted to cocaine a few years ago. She has always been very kind to me (and my boyfriend) even when she was going through some crazy stuff.
@@tvh369 No. You are talking about DEPENDANCE not addiction. No one with an opiate addiction will say no to more opiates. Being dependant means that you will go thru physical withdrawal if you dont have them, but you dont abuse them and take them as prescribed and such. You dont manifest the behaviors associated with addiction. And addict on the other hand, uses them to get high, and will never say no to more. Most if not all of their money will be used to support the habit, and most behaviors of theirs also are directed to supporting the habit in one form or another.
Everyone is different just because you knew addicts that were decent doesn't mean much. Depending on person, substance, length of time using. So many factors to how people act and what they could do.
I watched this before. His daughter is all over the place. Trying to claim her dad is suffering from mental illness etc. like she is acting caregiver or something. The dad wants to help her but now he realizes he can’t do anything for her. I’m a recovering addict and I put my family through so much. I hope this young lady gets her life together and makes amends with her family. I was lucky and snapped out of it after lots of bad. I hurt many people. Never got arrested for anything like this or for anything at all actually.
I’m a caregiver and if this little girl knew what a person has to do to help care for another human being that has disabilities I’ll eat my hat. She couldn’t assist anyone in living an independent life as possible of her life depended on it.
Ey, stay strong. Just been to rehab home, 3-4 months out of that now. Still haven’t kicked it 100%, my vice was and still is hash and weed. Just got a new chance at a job working at a hotel in the city. I felt your story, thank you.
Tough love is the only way. Ultimately you have to get to such a low horrible place some just can't do it, why the recovery rate is so low 2 to 5% sad honestly. I'm talking from 20 years of that hell on earth. I'm well now after the battle of my life. I'm strong mentally and I only just made it out. Got some very heavy croses to bear.
As a recovering addict I know thinking in absolutes such as "never", "always" and "can't" can be destructive to one's own recovery. If someone had a peek into your worse day as an active user, what do you think they'd think about you? Just food for thought... I wish you well on your path my friend.
The way she is so comfortable refusing the police officers’ orders and labelling her dad as mentally ill for the crime of asking her to get out is staggering, She is a disgusting human being, and I hope she stubbed her toe on every step on her way to the cell.
You are a disgusting human being. You do realize that this girl is sick and suffering! So I don't know who you think you are to. Just make it seem like she's just entitled. And this has absolutely nothing to do with the father who made his child this way huh?? Most people who have addiction problems also have mental illness as well! And obviously she does as well. So to sit here and make it seem like this is just a laughing matter. Is disgusting!!!
And there is nothing wrong with refusing a police officer's orders. The only thing they are supposed to uphold is the Constitution of the United States of America and now and nowadays, they do not pull that so I have little to no sympathy for police officers. They should have never even been called to the scene. For the fact that the father called the police on his daughter He's disgusting especially he knows that his daughter is sick and suffering
@@mz.yumyum1461 Pfft what? Sick and suffering how? That was a womanchild. The fact that the father had to call the cops on her is a stellar reflection of your society. Your society abhor authority so much but somehow expecting a disciplined society. You guys will cry 'abuse' when anyone tried to discipline you, but then cry for help when things got out of hand. Clearly words wouldn't get through that thick skull of a womanchild, the next step would be physically disciplining her, which you would also disagree.
@@mz.yumyum1461 I sincerely wish you're trolling because I refuse to believe that somebody as delusional can exist. I'm scared for anyone that relies on you for anything.
This girl has been allowed to talk her way out of punishments for years. She's an example of why parents shouldn't allow their kids to distract with word games. You can tell her mom and dad failed to give her consequences.
Keep in mind though, some people are really good at using technicalities that when another individual holds them accountable, the paint a picture making them LEGALLY looking like the bad guy.
@@jason200912 a. Mental illness is not an excuse. b. Learning how to manage your big emotions as a kid comes from your parents or adult figures. The adults teach you how to interact, apologize, deal with consequences and react through past experiences as a child and adult. While I do feel bad for the family of drug addicts who want their family safe and happy, there are some who have played a part in that lifestyle continuing and how it plays out. Some families are great and it is simply a function of access and friend groups. Others are either less attentive, or the home life is not the best and all others in between. It is not the family's fault unless they introduce them to drugs mostly but in my opinion home life can make things more difficult for all involved
@@Iera_Thaumaturgy true. However, there’s some situations that obvious as to what’s going on, like this one. The power dynamic is thrown off scale IMMENSELY, the father has absolutely no control, he even admitted it, and you gotta be very oblivious to not see that. He shouldn’t have said “yes” her whole life and got her out of trouble at every turn, or else this wouldn’t happen. As a parent, I know some of these things.
I know this is an older video, but wow... I've watched it several times now and am still just completely floored by this girl's response to the officer asking her what "taking care of her father" would actually entail. She obviously can't come up with an answer because she literally has no clue how to actually care for someone in any way. As someone who actually does provide care for my elderly grandparents (and could therefore list the things I do to care for them with ease), it is just incredibly astounding.
What's even worse is the entire time of the addiction you can see and hear yourself doing and saying some of the dumbest and most hurtful shit to those you love but you can't stop yourself so after whatever scene or fight you just had with a family member you get hit with the guilt and self loathing that only fuels the addiction even more. It is a vicious cycle that I've been trying to get out of for a long time. Congrats to those who have been able to stay clean and sober one day I really hope to be able to say I have years clean without relapses, it really is the hardest thing anyone would ever have to do and I don't wish it on my worst enemy
I have had drug problems my entire adult life never stole for them and would never pull shit like this but I was never on the needle it really twists people up but I feel her behavior is because he has never put his foot down
As a former 2 yr old myself, I can completely understand her mindset! 😂 On a serious note, my life had been effected by addiction. The one I love got to where she loved the drugs more. I've been in the father's shoes and can't tell you how bad I feel for him. It's the hardest thing a man will ever deal with
We've been through addiction with our daughter too. Tough love is the hardest love, but for us it worked. She just celebrated 10 years of sobriety. She's an amazing single mom of 3 (6, 5 & 3) having to walk away from an abusive husband who refused to get clean. We're so proud of her!❤
Ive never seen a more calm and understanding cop. He was even explaining why he didnt want to have to force her out and gave her way too many chances to do so.
Forcibly removing her in front of her dad would be very distressing to her dad, so I appreciate (even though a sense of schadenfreude exists) them not doing that.
That statement and sometimes horrible acting of “I can’t breathe” is a slap in the face to those few whom actually lost their lives while being arrested cause they could not breathe. Sickens me
Cops probably are trained now with "Yiu may hear anything while making an arrest, threats, begging, even that the subject cannot breathe or is having a medical problem. In that case, you have to-:
While I agree that this is most likely the case, not everyone's addiction is the same. Please, stop thinking like this. Every person is unique and some of them are just flat spoiled bitches. This way of thinking "I know a guy whos different than that, so it can't possibly be the case"...that is how you lead to very very stupid ideals. Basically the exact argument anyone on Fox News ever touts. "Well I know 1 guy who isn't like that, so this guy is obviously lying!" That is not how reality works. Even if you personally knew 1000 addicts, that doesn't make this situation not an addiction situation. Again, I agree with you, but pull your head out of your ass about the way you use logic to attain a conclusion.
@@rRekko I think that in this case the parents started too lenient and the little shrew… ahem, child learned how to manipulate them, probably to the point of despair. Once the kid is in the driver’s seat and learning how to better control her parental units, it becomes an ever greater problem until the authorities or the parents step up and put a stop to it.
She is a bratt, that was told she was a PRINCESS all her life, all things were made easy for her, and given to her. Depending on what her mental illness is*more than likely there is some....then you have the addictions*coping of whatever.
There’s a point where you realize you’ve been enabling and it’s not the right thing to do. When you stop, usually a tantrum ensues. Or, they attempt to blame the parent, or start a fight, flip out, or worse. Kudos to Dad for setting boundaries. I hope the hard road she goes through helps her to ‘grow up.’ Police did a wonderful job.
You’re cutting her too much slack Leon, I’ve been sober for 7 years now and I’ve never acted like that, nor have I met any addicts who acted like this. I hate people giving people passes for acting horrible bc of addiction, people who act like this are just shitty and entitled and they would act like this on or off drugs.
Same here, of course I feel for her as I've been there but I have seen this in real life where drugs just brings out the worst of people but you have to have it in you. Some addicts never steal, some never manipulate, some never become narcissistic or lose touch with reality, really the only thing all addicts have in common is that they do drugs so I hate when people see addicts like this and think that all or most are like that
Yea sober for 2 years here. Got sober after 10 years because my wife and I were caught by police. Didn’t act this way at all. Followed their directions and things actually worked in our favor. Went to treatment 2 days later and have never looked back.
They would pay the dad to take her back! Seriously she’s so exhausting! The dad probably always spoiled her because she exhausted him until he gave up & gave in to her just to be done with it! She seems the type that if the cops told her to stay in the car then she would’ve jumped out cause she has to be the one in control! 🙄
Given the estimated age of the daughter I wouldn't be surprised if the parents had followed the parenting fad of "not telling your child 'NO'" way back when. I remember seeing that on the news and TV cause I thought "must be nice to be one of those kids." All my momma needed was a wooden spoon or a shoe to whoop my ass for acting up. And I didn't dare go crying to my dad about it. Though to be fair my dad would respect mom's punishments and wouldn't punish me twice for the same act.
absolutely right... a child doesnt fully understand the concept of boundaries and consequences until they are about 6-8 years of age. Moral reasoning until then is based heavily on rewards and consequences of actions. If most of their actions are deemed "cute", then the child continues to do that and therefore it is important that boundaries and consequences for 'undesirable' behaviour are placed at an early age and this remains consistent during their early years of development.
Guarantee if the father had physically removed her from his car she would have filed assault charges on him. Addicts will ruin your life if you don’t cover all your bases. He played the situation correctly. Props to him for keeping a cool head and doing the right thing. Hope he changes the locks.
He needs to stop enabling her and bailing it out when she fucks up. He’s just exacerbating the situation by giving in to her. Not only would she have filed assault charges. She probably would’ve accused him of much worse.
Tf does that have to do with addiction? Dude im a recovered heroin addict and I would have never done this to my parents ever. Wtf? She’s a shitty person, probably bad parenting… I don’t see how any of this specific police situation has to do with addiction. Sure addicts manipulate… but that’s to acquire drugs, they usually hate dealing with police and comply as much as possible… Not all drug addicts are spoiled and privileged.
This is not just dr¿gs. This is who she actually is. I have a couple of family members like this. And all I can say is that my heart goes out to the father. What's he's having to put up with is a lot worse than most people probably realise.
Yes I definitely agree with you. She's just a gaslighting manipulative Harpy who has acted this way her entire life who just so HAPPENS to be on drugs. She's very calculated with her words and the things that she says. "STOP MOLESTING ME!" " YOU TOUCHED MY BOOBS!" "YOU'RE A PERVERT LET ME OUT!" . She'll do anything and say anything to make herself a victim while trying to get you to doubt yourself so she can get what she wants.
@@shadowsonshadowson3929 My best friends brother was/is an addict and lived with their Mother because he was not able to hold a job. Their Mother tried on several occasions to throw him out, gave him money to leave etc. He is the middle child of three with two highly successful siblings which might have something to do with it as I think he thought he couldn't measure up. When it came down to it, she couldn't keep making him leave or leave him homeless. She used to say "I know what people think of me and what I should do, but this is my child and I can't help myself". I think it is easier said than done and easier still for others to judge. She was a wonderful woman, miss you Jean!
I'm a recovering addict and now a drug and alcohol counselor. You are on point with everything you said about addicts and addiction! And I agree with you a thousand percent. It was infuriating to watch this. I lost brain cells listening to her.
That is so freakin cool I'm a recovering addict too and recently paralyzed I'd love to provide counseling for addicts and ppl with spinal cord injuries how long did you have to go to school ?
@@Barbieinawheelchair most states require a masters degree but there are other things you can do to help you that require less like becoming a RADT etc. Just look up what's required in your state or this your state offers to help towards becoming a licensed addiction counselor
REmember when the COPS would come in, you moved away, you answered yes sir, no sir...and if you didnt comply after the 2nd time, they either tazed you, grabbed you, cuffed you, and stuffed you.....
lmfao Leon brother, as a former addict I do not take offense to your jokes. You are very spot on with your takes. Not all addicts are this high strung and dysfunctional however, thankfully.
Dude, I agree with you a thousand percent, man!!! I'll be 38 in January, and I've been clean from heroin since 2013, and literally everything you said was fact check true, my friend, lol!! I did not listen to either of my parents, until I went to jail for the first time for 33 days, and it was the worst time of my life and when I got out, I checked myself into a small rehab and completed it in 30 days and I've never been happier!!!!!
Yea, having to detox in a jail cell was one of the worst times of my life. I have been clean for 17 years now and have things I never thought I could obtain. Stay strong
From one recovering addict to another, I am so frelling proud of you! Every sober breath is worth it, every sober day is another hard-won battle. Please take care of yourself, because you are worth it and deserve it. Even if you relapse, you are still worthy of love, because recovery is not a linear journey. In case you haven't heard this today, You are loved, wanted, valid, beautiful, strong and amazing, not for what you can or cannot do or be, but for you, yourself, and what you can become.
@@KayPrescesky thank you so much!! And no relapse for me!! Shoot, I'd be too scared to do any kind of drugs today, because of that fentanol crap!!! I'm very happy in my life right now though, I never thought I'd be married with a 4yo daughter, yet here I am, lol!! And thank you so much for all the kind words!!!! I truly appreciate it!! And you are so amazing for being so kind!!! We definitely could use some more of it in this world today!!!!! Love y'all!!!!
I was just raised in a different time. My father never put a hand on me but he could put the fear of GOD in me with one look. I wouldn’t dare disrespect that man.
I also have respect for their endurance, but this is the result of getting screwed over by slimy lawyers for so many years. You also have the fact that the moment someone gets arrested, the costs skyrocket.
people like this are so impossible to reason with. The self righteous entitled brat behavior clearly worked for her in the past. once she gets into the real world she will realize she has absolutely no skills to cope with reality.
I bet if somebody slapped the shit out of her she wouldn't be talking so much lol she wouldn't be so rude and lie to and on others to get what she wants if she felt she could pay for what she says, especially about her own family. Her father was to easy on her obviously, or maybe her mother, idk but somebody should have disciplined her because now the government got to do it and they don't love her.
@@kevinleewilliams5119I keep hearing there’s evidence that spanking kids have bad results but I can’t see it. The kids today are terrors. They have no healthy fear or respect for anyone.
Sometimes you just need a good punch in the face to put a bitch (man or woman) in their place. This dumb ass probably drained her family of empathy. Brat..
I used to engage in this behavior. What you witnessed in this video is the daughter has had all of the power in the relationship with her dad. She manipulates and controls him and gets him to do whatever she wants out of fear. He walks on eggshells around her and she keeps it that way and when he fights back or stands up for himself she feels her grasps of control being threatened so she has to remind him of whatever he fears from her to put him back in his place. So at this point he’s had enough he’s challenging her again and she knows she loses the power game if she gets out of the car and submits that he won this battle in the power struggle. So on principle as she calls it if she concedes he wins. Notice how she makes eye contact with him while she talks down on him because she knows he’s standing up to her. She mentions he’s not acting normal meaning he’s not letting her control the situation.This is a very exhausting game of mental warfare and it’s hard way to live life and ruins many relationships makes it quite difficult actually not to mention the drug addiction adds another dynamic to this. I’ve sought out help for this because I want to one day start a family and leading a household out of fear isn’t something I want for my family. If I catch myself slipping into this I try to pull myself back. This was a weird one for me I’ve never come across a video of someone who also engaged in this behavior. And yes she does realize All she has to do is step out of the car and she understands what the cops are saying all of this information is registering with her and she also understands how childish and ridiculous this makes her look it’s all there but like I said it’s the power struggle with her dad fortunately for him the law was on his side and in this particular situation she wasn’t able to force him into submission because the laws we adhere to as citizens are more powerful than relationship dynamics.
I noticed that, when she said he's not acting normally like he usually does. I thought right, he's standing up to you for once. That must be different.
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My mother was a drug addict and alcoholic most of my life and she sounded JUST like this chick. It took her over twenty years, but I’m happy to say she’s been six years sober. I just wish we could be a little closer, but there are things that can’t be mended and this girl is going to learn that the hardest way.
I've been both the child of an addict & the mother of one. Both me & my mother have more than 15 years clean. That being said I can attest to the strain addiction puts on the mother, child relationship. There are things that can't be mended, that will never go back to how it was, but that doesn't mean that you guys can't be close. Your relationship will never be what it was, but it can be different & different isn't necessarily bad. Sometimes our relationships just need to evolve. You can be close again. Good luck & God bless you
Both myself and a handful of my close friends struggled with addiction for years and I can promise you she left rehab and came home to sob story daddy for money and he offered to take her out and when he got her gift cards instead of cash thats when the psycho switch flipped. I can also tell the fact that dad knows to give her gift cards and buy her food directly instead of giving cash that this has been going on for a while.
I love the free association she does at 23:57 Youre not cooperating, you are not cooperative, were not a corporation, you're not a Co-Op, you're not a cop, you're a robber. Pure poetry.
I’m in recovery and the best thing my mom ever did for me was shut my phone off and not give me a dime. From that point forward I told myself I would never be in that situation again. I had to take accountability. Now, I’m paying for my parents phone clean and sober. The best thing that I gave myself and them was peace of mind. I put them through hell for years.
He actually did the right thing by not taking him out of the car himself. She is the type to say, "stop touching me! He beat me up officer!" Then dad would go to jail. So calling the cops was probably him knowing his daughter would pull some bs like that!
Her tugging at his heartstrings as she's getting into the car with the, "Dad, help" line was awful. She knew what she was doing there, but not once did she even feign an apology
Aaand we learn exactly why the dad called the cops. He knew exactly what was going to happen of he tried to remove her himself. The delusions of kids these days is absolutely unbelievable.
@@worldman3218 i do and as a dad my role in the family is to make sure my kids have DISCIPLINE, learn to EARN things they get, make sure they know they they WILL NOT get everything they want in life and should be PREPARED for it, and yes to show them that when they do something that is NOT ACCEPTABLE they will suffer the CONSEQUENCES. If you are not teaching your children this you are a terrible parent.
"Can't you just give me a verbal warning or something?" That's the first thing they did. They didn't bring up the option of pressing charges until well into the confrontation.
"You sound a lot like my brother used to sound before he my moms house down." This poor officer has seen a lot. Honestly what officer hasnt? You know seeing his brother like that fuels him to not want others ever to be like that.
As a recovering addict for over 7 years, I give you, Loen, permission to call it like you see it with out feeling like you have to explain and play devils advocate. I know what I did as an active addict and I didn't deserve to be placated or have my behavior excused. I'm behind your assessment 100%.
I agree. True addicts don’t care to be called addicts. This whole trying to make addiction politically correct is fucking stupid. I was an alcoholic. I wasn’t “struggling with alcohol” I was an alcoholic. People shouldn’t be afraid to call it like they see it. I am sober now for a little over 3. Congratulations on your sobriety!
Props to all of you who have overcame your addiction or even know someone currently fighting it. That said I can offer a little devil's advocate for Leon here. Perhaps he may have gotten comments calling him out in other videos from friends/family members, who have dealt with someone close to them going through a rough time and maybe didn't appreciate their comments. So from there, he maybe thinks it to not walk on eggshells with a particular and specifically difficult life "thing" that affects more ppl than perhaps even want to admit 🤔 Not saying you're wrong at all, 100% this behavior of the girl is out of control. But I suppose for people who haven't maybe dealt with episodes like this or know someone who has, like myself, it's an argument over: walking on eggshells vs not wanting to even crack the eggs to make eggshells in the first place, because he doesn't even like the yolk that comes from it to begin with.
Her father could have dragged her out... but from her actions and accusations, you just know she would have accused her father of assult if he tried to get her out of the car.
What you said about drug addiction is very true. I have a family member that has turned into a creature. Her selfishness and narcissism knows no bounds. Accountability is not even remotely in her vocabulary. And trust me, her pops sounds like he does everything for her, whether it’s something he shouldn’t is one thing but a father just wants to do anything for his daughter to get better. It’s truly a hopeless situation. She doesn’t even care about getting better because she only thinks about herself. I also doubt she comes from a troubled home, so many addicts actually come from good homes but have been raised to get everything they ever wanted so go thru thinking law and decency doesn’t apply to them.
“He’s mentally ill and demented but I have no problem asking him to drive me where I want and he can turn into a superhero to rescue me from police officers…”
11:30 The exact reason dad didn't just drag her out himself. She loves to be the victim, and we all know the dad would end up in jail on a family domestic violence charge.
@@mixmastermurphywhen the video started, I was thinking what’s up with dad, can’t he handle this? Then I saw first couple of minutes I have total respect for the dad. He did the right thing.
This is exactly how my sister is. She wonders why nobody outside of her very small clique of screws up and malcontents wants to be within 10 miles of her horrible behind.
John, keep doing the right thing. Your sister isn’t learning to get better, you have every right to not have a relationship with her or talking to her. Hope you’re doing GREAT, man. I been there too! People causing me problems for no reason. Cutted them off. Never interacted with them ever AGAIN.
Wanted to add my two cents too: my sister is just like this too. She’s my older sister . Has gotten away with everything because my family completely enables her addiction. Already lost my mother to addiction and my sister is making the SAME mistakes. I’m the ONLY one in my family that sees the issue. I’m the one who won’t live in the fantasy world that they live in where everything is fine and she is fine . She’s not. She’s sick. Now she’s continuing the dysfunction with her own son, still addicted.. So now I’m estranged from my family . I don’t talk to my sister , grandparents , uncle. It hurts me deeply , but I’ve been so much happier after I just cut them off. YOUR mental health matters. Your feelings and perception matter. Family or not, no one has the right to steal your joy. I now bear the responsibility of breaking this fucking curse in my family. I’ve accepted the fact that I will never meet my nephew , and my own children will probably never meet their aunt. I refuse to expose them to that kind of filth. Stay strong bro.
@@Ambelica Good for you my guy! I’m very self-aware, just like my mom. The only family members I don’t like is my main uncle and grandmother. They give me lots of reasons not to talk to them or call them as much. I’m still around them, but once I get myself ready for my future, that’s when I’ll stay away from them for good as much as possible. I got rid lots of fake friends. Keep being you, man. Don’t let anybody change that. Wish you nothing but positivity, love, and abundance.
Lets be real, he caused that situation over 30 years of being a shit parent. Starting at age 2 when he gave her whatever she wanted because he couldn't handle a toddler being upset with him.
Leon, as a father of an addicted son, whom passed away a year ago March, the commentary you say at the 19 minute mark is exactly what I struggled with. Ironically he had turned away from drugs, was engaged to his childhood sweetheart & had a great job he really enjoyed. Unfortunately, his past sins caught up with him in the form of endocarditis & severe edema. He had the biggest ❤ & I still miss him. My sympathies are for the girl’s dad.
Addiction - we have all kinds of it but the worse is drugs in the human body. My brother passed away recently - same thing the drugs caught up. He survived covid but with so much medication and not wanting to change diet , it just compounded the conditions. So, though the body can recover, it cannot recover everything without personal effort and takes a real commitment to cleanse and let the body recover fully. Is there more that I could've, should've and woul've done? Absolutely but would it have changed the outcome of his fate? Perhaps....or perhaps not.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've lost dozens and dozens of friends from overdoses over the last 10 years. I had one of my best friends overdosed and almost died in my arms. I had to perform CPR on her for a long time and by the grace of God she started breathing again. But what a horrible epidemic in this country with fentanyl specifically and things laced with it it's heartbreaking😢
@@sarasweightlossjourney1432 Thank you for your kind words. So many have died. God bless you. I pray the burden of your grief is assuaged by our Lord’s comforting hand.
She obviously was raised this way, but we all have to grow up at a certain point. Her behavior makes me sick, and I’m glad the dad finally decided to stop enabling her behavior. She was kicked out of rehab (the eviction mentioned in the clip) and he gives her gift cards - not cash, as she’ll spend the money on substances. It’s a sad state this woman is in, but she’ll have to hit rock bottom before she starts to improve, I fear.
As someone who used opiates for 12 years, and now have a year clean and NEVER want to touch that sh*t again, you are 100% right about addiction, Leon. Sadly, dad cant do anything except for not enable her. She has to want it for her to get clean. I was insufferable when i was using, but thank god i wasnt like this. I learned long ago that being respectful is the best way to get what you want. Shes got a lot to learn if shes gonna throw her entire life away on drugs
"The organism does what makes the organism successful." Basically meaning she's never had to learn other behavior to get what she wants. I feel so bad for whoever had to share a cell with her.
@@1WEareBUFO1 I (jokingly) pray for whoever her cellie is. Just imagine a poor Jill Weekend, who got pulled in for not paying a ticket, then has to spend all weekend with THAT bag of bullshit bitch. I hope whoever it is, has a strong nap game to make it through without getting another charge for hitting her. 🙏
My sister managed to get herself addicted to meth a couple of years ago and became schizophrenic as a result. Our whole family and all of her friends did everything we could to try and help her understand that she was addicted and mentally ill so we could get her help. She refused to come around and her antics wore everyone down, to the point my father had a breakdown. We finally had to cut ties with her entirely for the sake of our own well being. The guilt is always there, but at the same time the stress involved was even worse. We all hope she will come around, but I know the longer this goes on the less likely she will be able to recover. I very much feel this father's pain, and know why he had to call the police. She could have got violent, or more likely tried pressing charges on him if he touched her.
That’s my little brother (not so little anymore tho, he’s 44 now), he’d addicted to f3ntanyl and m3th. A couple years after he got involved in m3th he was diagnosed with drug induced schizophrenia. 10 yrs later, and he’s just not mentally reachable. He’s been on the streets for years now, constantly being arrested and almost immediately released. We’ve all had to get restraining orders against him and move away from all the places he knows bcuz of his bizarre, erratic and violent behavior. Every once in a while one of us would get an extremely long rambling text from him going on and on about how he’s the messiah and that he has to save us, just a ton of crazy religious stuff, but no one has heard anything from him in over 2 years, we don’t even know if he’s still alive. It’s all just so horribly sad. We tried absolutely everything we could, my dad paid for rehab 3 times, but there just comes a point when you have break away for your own sanity.
As an alcoholic, I want to send my condolences to you and yours. Your family deserves the peace to know she is okay, but always have to question if she is. Its hard to try to get someone help, but someone who doesnt want help... thats harder to deal with.
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I do agree with you. He should have been able to toss her out and go on without any issue. But think about the optics of a grown man. Throwing a woman out of a vehicle and driving off. She can definitely swing some kind of assault charges against him for that dude's not trying to go to jail and he's not trying to become the next woman hating internet pariah
Question for everyone, those who have the rayon ear buds already, is it true you can't use ask siri with them? Keep telling my dad to get some for work, and some ppl he works with said it doesn't work for siri. So super curious if anyone else knows. He has a newer IPhone and he keeps going through them like crazy. His job requires he have them so he is available for his customers. So he can't keep going without. Thanks in advance!
Lol great
The father's face was blacked out until 20:45. Don't know if it was you Leon or original video.
If her father had tried to drag her out of the car, I can guarantee that entitled brat would had called the police herself and have him arrested with assault. Personal experience I can attest.
probably correct actuall yea
That, or rage and destroy his car. This was the best way imo
@@LeonLush As soon as he touched her, she would have screamed assault, and he would have gone to jail, been there almost done that trying to stop my adult daughter from running away with a major medical issue.
@@SrslyNoz.omg I’m so sorry. So hard as a parent to see our kids like that.
@@SrslyNoz. Agree - and then when the cops have to control her they say cops are abusive. So the parents can't take charge and call the cops, and now the cops can't take charge. So the inmates run the asylum is the "right way" I guess.
When she said "Don't molest me". I knew the dad made the right move.
She's the kind of person that would accuse someone of doing that just bc they didn't give into her demands. I wouldn't be surprised if she would accuse her father of it if he had tried to remove her from the car himself or while growing up if he ever told her no
As a woman, a wife and a mother, I agree.. In me too era, let the police handles this situation.. we dont want false accusation.
She do got some nice thighs though. That's all im saying.
@@gothgirl4evr881she’s actually using that word in a correct manner since when dealing with police it also means to pester but I’m sure she doesn’t know she used it in the right context
@@gothgirl4evr881 this is exactly what I was thinking. The dad totally did the right thing by not physically engaging with her at all. Her general attitude made me so mad - the complete arrogance and entitlement was driving me nuts. I don't know how cops stay so calm when dealing with individuals like this, I would have tazed her ass 🤭 which hopefully might have knocked some sense into her 🙄
Calling the cops was the best thing the father could do hearing her tell the cops "Dont molest me" "stop kidnapping me" she would of 100% claimed her father did something to her
She would HAVE totally done that.
Doesn’t matter, he let her dominate him her whole life and calling the cops on an abuser only temporarily stops them. Daddy-O should have filmed the interaction then grabbed the little brat by the back of her neck and forced her out physically.
@@davemccage7918 we have no context if she’s always been this way or if the drug habit is new. Calling the cops on my sister when she got addicted helped wayy more then the months just yelling at her to stop. You clearly care more about your stuff then the people in your life
@@Apolio69 who said anything about stuff? This girl is an abuser and people who harm their family rely on complicity to get their way. I have had plenty of friends and family members that turned to drug and I myself was an alcoholic. None of us ever acted even remotely close to how this brat did. Even in my worst intoxicated state I would never do anything like this to my father. Not only because I loved him, but also because I know he would have given me the ass whipping I deserved.
Maybe she already did this . Dad is keeping himself safe.
The fact that she got kicked out of rehab, tells me it's simply her personality, not the drug addiction, that has her so insufferable.
She’s definitely an addictive personality and if I had to guess, I’d say there’s borderline personality disorder mixed in there with a psychopathy kicker.
I’m also going to guess she got to this point in her life due to enabling and encouraging this behavior when it was ‘adorable’ but once adolescence kicked in, and the behavior began to manifest itself into what we see here, it finally seeped into their skulls that *maybe* they’d allowed a monster to take over and by then it was way too late. So now it’s come to the point of being an addict, being such a miserable person that she’s kicked out of many rehab facilities, and police are called to pull her out of his vehicle because she’s a product of her environment. She’s not getting anything close to better until she is willing to admit a change is inevitable- either in a pine box or intense therapy, but one way or another, change is a’comin.
HiTechDiver: Kicked out of rehab is about the lowest on the list of social interactions, isn't it ??
An addiction changes your personality, so it's kind of hard to make that distinction. At some point, an addict really is nothing but an addict. There's a chance to rebuild some of their former life, but there's nothing left of the person originally there.
I agree 1000%
Getting kicked out of rehab? That fact is because it is boredom. She is just annoying and most of in rehab are can please be quiet?
"Dad, help me!"
Honey, he IS helping you. He's finally letting you experience the consequences of your own actions. The sooner you hit rock bottom, the sooner you can finally get motivated to get better.
This is 100% accurate
True facts
Facts omg say it again
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She’ll still be a shitty person!
The cop being like “this is the stupidest reason to get arrested” is the realist thing a cop has ever said.
😂 Cop was so close to saying "Dude, come on. You are talking your way into a cell and papers. You can get out, and we can wag our finger at you, give you a ticket and all go home.:
I think the most disgusting thing is her trying to gaslight her dad and the cops about him having dementia just to get her way and thats so sick. Trying to make it out like someone has mental issues or diseases to warp their reality and confuse them and try to discredit her dad with others is so horrible.
My husband's sister is a drug addict. She has said the most vile and vicious things to him and her own daughter. The problem is that even when she wasn't on drugs, she still did the most disgusting things to hurt the family just because she's that entitled. She's a worthless pile of garbage.
@blackdragoness21 I'm sorry to hear your sister in law is a destructive force in the family.
If you're comfortable sharing, what was her drug of choice?
@@blackdragoness21I don’t think that’s the drugs. That sounds like a shitty person issue.
@@Kunfucious577 The drugs certainly didn't help.
@@FahadofBrooklynEspecially after he took her out and bought her gift cards! What a total psychotic bitch! Totally disgusting behavior.
I 100% understand the exhaustion that brought the dad to call the police. I hope she gets the help she needs.
The cop at 13:25 saying "You sound a lot like my brother used to sound before he burned my mom's house down." was the biggest missed gem of this whole thing!
That's hysterical 😂😂😂
I wouldn't say the biggest missed gem. More like the biggest missed "holy shit" moment.
Kind of like when my brother attempted to kill me in front of my dying dad in hospice care because he didn't like the way my parents had favored me in distribution of their assets upon death.
i cackled at that
@@lisas8244 ...Holy shit, dude.
I feel sorry for her dad. He is heartbroken and betrayed. You can say he "enabled" her. But he probably kept hoping and just gave up.
Exactly then she tries to turn it on her father like he is going through early onset dementia and it's him that has the problem and she is his caretaker. I mean just how much more heartache is she trying to cause this man. Then after it's all said and done and she is forcibly removed from the vehicle and is being handcuffed she has the audacity to cry out to daddy to help her like it wasn't him that called the cops and pressed charges and he would step in and help.
I feel like it’s usually a mixture of both enablement and just generally hoping things will get better. But it always comes from a place of love.
@@mariac4127 Road to hell is always paved by good intentions; it is better to be hard on the kid then to breed weakness and dumb behaviors in them.
I do think teaching emotional control and respect is a parents job though…. And it starts really early. When the tantrums start. How you deal with that will dictate your future as a parent.
I hope he washes his hand of her. Either she will learn to straighten her life out or end dead in an ally somewhere.
The dad knew how CooCoo she is & was smart to call the cops, this documents her behavior! It’s hard as a parent when their kids are on drugs, I feel for the guy.
I don't think the daughter's behavior is even because of drugs. Definitely things that have been untreated for a long time but that also require the person to be cooperative in the treatment for. But she chose drugs to self medicate instead. Her fault and choice still.
This sort of thing doesn’t just pop up like a rash overnight. He’s even admitted to enabling her. She might be an addict but he also had a hand in creating the monster. I think it’s funny that he’s finally waking up but I don’t feel bad for him.
“Never argue with a crazy person, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience”
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if he’d have put hands on her who knows what she would’ve told the cops
My sister was a criminal defence lawyer for years. She had to have the talk with countless parents & friends of addicts - don’t let them back in the house, don’t give them money, don’t chauffeur them around. You have to cut them off. It’s absolutely heartbreaking.
And 99.999% of the time, they hear you but won’t listen to you. But if you have even a shred of hope for saving this person, you have to completely divorce yourself to the point of physical pain. Addicts are parasitic manipulators that are fully aware of their ability to prey upon those closest to them because it’s worked every single time previously, so they’ll just craft something a little more clever and go to the person that’s the most likely to respond. That’s the person that really needs to suck it up and stand up.
And unnecessary.
That's easier said then done though, that's the problem. Most people are well aware of that at some point, but addicts will pull every emotional string they can find. And when it's your kid, there's plenty of those for them to pull. They sink to levels you can't imagine. They will cry their heart out, tell you their regrets, beg for you to let them stay the night, make an appointment with rehab, swear to do everything they can to get clean, remind you of good times, only to slip out in the night with your credit card.
My sister had 4 young adults living in her home. One went to prison and then there were 3. Those all lived off her dime and she didn’t send them out the door. When she suddenly died they had no idea how to pay bills in a house they had lived for 20 years. They all were in their 30’s one with a child. The car was repo’d within the next month. They spent all the money in her accounts and tried to get their hands on her annuity. What horrible children. I’m sure the house also was lost to them as well. You don’t teach children anything if they don’t face consequesnces.
My mother (who is a recovering addict) told me at a early age that desperation is the best give that you can give an addict. They need to hit rock bottom, even though that is a really dangerous place to be, and they may not come back. It is the only chance they have for self reflection and to find the strength to make a change in their life.
The dad was actually smart to do this in public. I can imagine having her in his home would have been way worse.
As a recovering addicted I can safely say that being a drug addict is not a free pass for disrespecting your parents.
As someone who also has had problems with drugs, I respect and concur with this statement
I've do e a lot of drugs but none made me act like that. She's gotta be scitophremic
@@kristis4147nope not schizophrenia at all
That's insulting to schizophrenics
She's just a spoiled brat who's never faced consequences
Absolutely!! I have used basically any drug you can name throughout my life, and crucially was an addict (alcohol at one point, heroin at another)
And the heroin addiction was while living with my parents - so I think I'm qualified to comment on her behavior! - at NO POINT did I EVER behave this way towards my parents or ANYONE!! No matter how high or intoxicated or mentally unwell I was! In fact I actually managed to hide my addiction entirely from them, and my dad is a high level addictions nurse :') and I did that because I didn't want my addiction to hurt the people around me that I love!!
Not that Im insulting the many addicts who have struggled with it impacting their family, and their family noticing or being upset by it- but even in those cases, mostly every addict I've known even at worst, has never been as blatantly deliberately selfish and uncaring and spoiled as this girl was!!! Even when someone is so blackout wasted that they act out of character, say rude, blunt, selfish sounding stuff, you can tell they're basically not even conscious and running on the character randomizer essentially
But this girl definitely both wasn't wasted enough to be completely out of control of herself, and you could tell from the way she spoke to people, even cops or superiors incl dad, that shes been spoiled and never told no properly, or FACED REAL CONSEQUENCES in her life!!
It's not just the intoxicants
It's clearly her upbringing and lifestyle
In fact, I’d say it’s quite the opposite.
I do find it hilarious that she went from fighting to stay in a car, to fighting to not go in a car. Also love how hard and often she tried to UNO reverse them.
She was trying to use the force. 🤣
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I laughed so hard when they caught her trying to bite the one women cop and her fellow officer just fucking shoved her ass in the vehicle they were done with her BS
She accuses her own father, who called for police assistance, of having early dimentia... this chick is crazy
She is wildly verbally abusive to her father and to the cops. She is use to bossing and bullying her way through life. She needed this.
She was expecting her father to drive her home despite also saying he was in the early stages of dementia. The cops missed an opportunity to poke a hole in her logic with that one.
This is the most dangerous adult child ever because in a slightly different scenario who knows, she could pull off the caregiver and Dementia game. She’s sitting there Visiting with the police lol. A drug addict is on a ladder in life, their goal is to climb each rung of the ladder while taking all they can before going up the next rung, gather, take, disappoint, hurt, humiliate and shame themselves and their families trying to get to the next fix. Once they get to the top of the ladder aka the end and they SEE the carnage they’ve left behind…sadly even then they might not SEE or even want to stop. What a horrible life and what a tragedy.
She has 100% falsely accused someone before, and deserved this 100%
You know she's yet another kid who learned all about how to fight the cops online.
Damn, did you guys hear what that supervisor cop said?! "You sound alot like my brother did, right before he burned down my mom's house..." AND HE STILL TRIED TO HELP HER OUT! Thats a good dude who's been through some serious shit!... Great cop to have as a supervisor!
Yes at 13:25. My heart went out to him. He knew what mental illness looked like first hand, Ironic she reminds me of my mother, I to this day think the drugs ate my mothers brain. It is sad. You know they are sick, they are toxic and manipulative, but you want to help, but you are tired of the abuse. I understand the dad, I love my mom but when she is off her meds she is EVIL! Sometimes it is MORE than "Just entitlement" throw bipolar 3 or schizophrenia into the mix with drugs abuse it puts their illness in to over drive it is so destructive not only to the ill person but to everyone around them. It makes you feel helpless, especially as a child growing up around it. I am still in therapy at 40 because of trauma.
She may be an addict but she’s fully aware of her actions. That’s just her personality. Also, as a former drug addict myself, I approve of your addiction jokes Leon.
Me too. I saw nothing offensive in this video and this girl, even if struggling with addiction, deserved this exposure for her behavior. She's still an entitled brat and seriously needs to get her shit together. I'm sure dad just had enough. Anyway, congrats on your sobriety. It's hard to overcome but you're a true warrior for doing so. Former addict myself, so I understand. Take care.
Agreed lots of people get addicted for different reasons I ended up addicted to opiates after being prescribed them after a motorcycle accident….long story short I corrected that problem because I wanted too, you can only kick addiction if you want to, and I agree Leon she doesn’t look high in the video just entitled.
This behavior is of a spoiled brat, not of addiction per se.
While addicts do do some fucked up shit to get their next fix, they typically do not feel entitled like that. They know when they do fucked up shit, and feel guilty about it, but ultimately, the addiction is in their ear justifying the actions.
@@24fretsoffury I agree... this isn't a personality. Being a spoiled brat is not a personality. Unfortunate the father knows he is responsible for creating this monster but now it's too late for him to correct and he feels awful. I guess this is probably the best thing he could do, he seems to be finally standing up to her. Much harder to train her out of the terrible 2's phase now she's hit 20 lmao
We haven't even seen ANY evidence for her being a drug addict. If something comes out I'll stand corrected but I've been around narcissists with sociopathic tendencies before and this is exactly how they are. Drugs or not
Imagine the dad reminiscing all the sweet memories he had with his daughter and it all goes down the drain.
I love how the dad admits that he spoiled her rotten and now he’s suffering the consequences but the daughter saying that he has dementia and that she is his caregiver yeah no
Kids like this really vindicate my decision to get a vasectomy
But spoiled or not, depending on how far gone she is, the effects from drug addiction is going to override all of that.
I don't think so. Drug addicts will lie. But this kind of disrespect comes from bring spoilt.
@@SarthorSthis was not a drug issue at all.
@@marloncebo242I wouldn't be so sure about that. She definitely acts like it. I had a younger aunt that behaved exactly like this woman. She displays irrational behaviors like she is on some kind of substance.
What’s worse is that he held this little girl from birth. He provided, raised her, laughed, loved, snuggled, and her regular betrayal of his love, weaponizing that love, must be literal hell.
Don't make me cry.
Or maybe he is shitty father
Why are you tryna make it sound like a movie 😭😭 “the betrayal of his love 😔😔” I’m not tryna be rude or side w her at all just thought it was funny
Why has she ended up like that? Because of bad parenting most likely, so yeah, your comment doesn’t actually work.
@@MrHaydnHarry are you a parent?
As one who's lived through 60s and 70s and had friends who were addicts, drugs isn't what causes all this behavior. Never had my friends been mean or disrespectful of anyone, including police. She's spoiled brats to begin with. It's deeper than just substance.
Yeah my boyfriend's mom is addicted to alcohol and was addicted to cocaine a few years ago. She has always been very kind to me (and my boyfriend) even when she was going through some crazy stuff.
Agreed. She’s got some kind of personality disorder. Maybe spoiledbitchitis. But something other than drugs.
@@tvh369 No. You are talking about DEPENDANCE not addiction. No one with an opiate addiction will say no to more opiates. Being dependant means that you will go thru physical withdrawal if you dont have them, but you dont abuse them and take them as prescribed and such. You dont manifest the behaviors associated with addiction. And addict on the other hand, uses them to get high, and will never say no to more. Most if not all of their money will be used to support the habit, and most behaviors of theirs also are directed to supporting the habit in one form or another.
@@morrnmanderson7376dudes right. People can be functional addicts. There are levels and not all people are there same.
Everyone is different just because you knew addicts that were decent doesn't mean much. Depending on person, substance, length of time using. So many factors to how people act and what they could do.
As a an addict in recovery, I give you full permission to make fun of drug addiction.
I said the same thing! If we can’t joke about it how can we ever get better
True. Get better, human, U CAN do anything!
That cop that said "you know this is a really stupid reason to go to jail" I lost it. I love his honesty & bluntness here while also being hilarious
Maybe if she stops in jail for a while she can get clean, maybe
If he would've thrown her out of the car I have no doubt she would've called the cops and made some stuff up. Dude made the right call
I watched this before. His daughter is all over the place. Trying to claim her dad is suffering from mental illness etc. like she is acting caregiver or something. The dad wants to help her but now he realizes he can’t do anything for her. I’m a recovering addict and I put my family through so much. I hope this young lady gets her life together and makes amends with her family. I was lucky and snapped out of it after lots of bad. I hurt many people. Never got arrested for anything like this or for anything at all actually.
I’m a caregiver and if this little girl knew what a person has to do to help care for another human being that has disabilities I’ll eat my hat. She couldn’t assist anyone in living an independent life as possible of her life depended on it.
All that avocado toast and expensive starbucks coffee he was paying for went right to her head
Thank you for the insight… congratulations on snapping out of it, addiction is horrific, I wish you nothing but success and happiness
Ey, stay strong. Just been to rehab home, 3-4 months out of that now. Still haven’t kicked it 100%, my vice was and still is hash and weed. Just got a new chance at a job working at a hotel in the city. I felt your story, thank you.
Tough love is the only way. Ultimately you have to get to such a low horrible place some just can't do it, why the recovery rate is so low 2 to 5% sad honestly. I'm talking from 20 years of that hell on earth. I'm well now after the battle of my life. I'm strong mentally and I only just made it out. Got some very heavy croses to bear.
I'm a junkie in recovery and can 100% assure you she will never get clean because she has no humility
Stay strong bro
As a recovering addict I know thinking in absolutes such as "never", "always" and "can't" can be destructive to one's own recovery. If someone had a peek into your worse day as an active user, what do you think they'd think about you? Just food for thought... I wish you well on your path my friend.
The way she is so comfortable refusing the police officers’ orders and labelling her dad as mentally ill for the crime of asking her to get out is staggering, She is a disgusting human being, and I hope she stubbed her toe on every step on her way to the cell.
Remember, these people vote and soon will be completely running the US.
You are a disgusting human being. You do realize that this girl is sick and suffering! So I don't know who you think you are to. Just make it seem like she's just entitled. And this has absolutely nothing to do with the father who made his child this way huh?? Most people who have addiction problems also have mental illness as well! And obviously she does as well. So to sit here and make it seem like this is just a laughing matter. Is disgusting!!!
And there is nothing wrong with refusing a police officer's orders. The only thing they are supposed to uphold is the Constitution of the United States of America and now and nowadays, they do not pull that so I have little to no sympathy for police officers. They should have never even been called to the scene. For the fact that the father called the police on his daughter He's disgusting especially he knows that his daughter is sick and suffering
@@mz.yumyum1461 Pfft what? Sick and suffering how? That was a womanchild. The fact that the father had to call the cops on her is a stellar reflection of your society. Your society abhor authority so much but somehow expecting a disciplined society. You guys will cry 'abuse' when anyone tried to discipline you, but then cry for help when things got out of hand.
Clearly words wouldn't get through that thick skull of a womanchild, the next step would be physically disciplining her, which you would also disagree.
@@mz.yumyum1461 I sincerely wish you're trolling because I refuse to believe that somebody as delusional can exist. I'm scared for anyone that relies on you for anything.
This girl has been allowed to talk her way out of punishments for years. She's an example of why parents shouldn't allow their kids to distract with word games. You can tell her mom and dad failed to give her consequences.
Keep in mind though, some people are really good at using technicalities that when another individual holds them accountable, the paint a picture making them LEGALLY looking like the bad guy.
It's because they have learned to exhaust other people's patience so they give up. Parents can not give up, otherwise this happens
@@danachristie7106 I completely agree. It is ironic that the kids who get away with word games are often unhappy and angry.
Mental illness is begins at birth but only begins showing symptoms at young adulthood
@@jason200912 a. Mental illness is not an excuse. b. Learning how to manage your big emotions as a kid comes from your parents or adult figures. The adults teach you how to interact, apologize, deal with consequences and react through past experiences as a child and adult. While I do feel bad for the family of drug addicts who want their family safe and happy, there are some who have played a part in that lifestyle continuing and how it plays out. Some families are great and it is simply a function of access and friend groups. Others are either less attentive, or the home life is not the best and all others in between. It is not the family's fault unless they introduce them to drugs mostly but in my opinion home life can make things more difficult for all involved
Don’t feel sorry for her.She knows exactly what she’s doing.When she’s released she’s going to guilt dad like never before
i don't feel bad for her. i feel so bad for her dad tho.
@@MissElleHerselfit’s kinda hard to feel bad for him too… he enabled this behavior her entire life.
@@Ma.f7kxI feel like we shouldn’t be quick to judge as we don’t know the home situation
@@Iera_Thaumaturgy true. However, there’s some situations that obvious as to what’s going on, like this one. The power dynamic is thrown off scale IMMENSELY, the father has absolutely no control, he even admitted it, and you gotta be very oblivious to not see that. He shouldn’t have said “yes” her whole life and got her out of trouble at every turn, or else this wouldn’t happen. As a parent, I know some of these things.
This girl needs a female boot camp. Take her clothes, give her a uniform that she must iron, and teach her discipline.
I know this is an older video, but wow... I've watched it several times now and am still just completely floored by this girl's response to the officer asking her what "taking care of her father" would actually entail.
She obviously can't come up with an answer because she literally has no clue how to actually care for someone in any way.
As someone who actually does provide care for my elderly grandparents (and could therefore list the things I do to care for them with ease), it is just incredibly astounding.
As an ex addict I 100 percent agree w your description of us. No need to sugar coat that selfish ass part of my life.
I was thinking this exact comment about myself.... from one ex addict to another, hope you're doing good and congrats on the recovery...
Absolutely.
What's even worse is the entire time of the addiction you can see and hear yourself doing and saying some of the dumbest and most hurtful shit to those you love but you can't stop yourself so after whatever scene or fight you just had with a family member you get hit with the guilt and self loathing that only fuels the addiction even more. It is a vicious cycle that I've been trying to get out of for a long time. Congrats to those who have been able to stay clean and sober one day I really hope to be able to say I have years clean without relapses, it really is the hardest thing anyone would ever have to do and I don't wish it on my worst enemy
Facts
I have had drug problems my entire adult life never stole for them and would never pull shit like this but I was never on the needle it really twists people up but I feel her behavior is because he has never put his foot down
As a former 2 yr old myself, I can completely understand her mindset! 😂
On a serious note, my life had been effected by addiction. The one I love got to where she loved the drugs more. I've been in the father's shoes and can't tell you how bad I feel for him. It's the hardest thing a man will ever deal with
Sorry you had to deal with that. Those officers were ridiculously respectful & gave her so many chances.
My mom is the same way. She was adopted and loved and raised by a fairly well off family. But she chose dr*gs over her kids, parents, everyone.
We've been through addiction with our daughter too. Tough love is the hardest love, but for us it worked. She just celebrated 10 years of sobriety. She's an amazing single mom of 3 (6, 5 & 3) having to walk away from an abusive husband who refused to get clean. We're so proud of her!❤
@@mcm0324 that's great! I'm proud of her too! It's possible, but it has to be their choice. So glad she made the right one!
Ha ha that's funny.
Ive never seen a more calm and understanding cop. He was even explaining why he didnt want to have to force her out and gave her way too many chances to do so.
This kind if thing happens every day in the course of police duties. We never see these things on TV because they are not news worthy.
Would they waste so much time chit chating if it was a man?
Forcibly removing her in front of her dad would be very distressing to her dad, so I appreciate (even though a sense of schadenfreude exists) them not doing that.
That statement and sometimes horrible acting of “I can’t breathe” is a slap in the face to those few whom actually lost their lives while being arrested cause they could not breathe. Sickens me
Cops probably are trained now with "Yiu may hear anything while making an arrest, threats, begging, even that the subject cannot breathe or is having a medical problem. In that case, you have to-:
I love when she tells the policemen to stop policing her
I know someone who's been recovering from a serious addiction for about 20 years.
This isn't addiction, this is literally who she is naturally.
While I agree that this is most likely the case, not everyone's addiction is the same. Please, stop thinking like this. Every person is unique and some of them are just flat spoiled bitches. This way of thinking "I know a guy whos different than that, so it can't possibly be the case"...that is how you lead to very very stupid ideals. Basically the exact argument anyone on Fox News ever touts. "Well I know 1 guy who isn't like that, so this guy is obviously lying!" That is not how reality works. Even if you personally knew 1000 addicts, that doesn't make this situation not an addiction situation. Again, I agree with you, but pull your head out of your ass about the way you use logic to attain a conclusion.
I too know people in recovery and they don’t sound like that. She’s just a spoiled little twit who is about to get a shocking wake up call. I hope.
Combine drugs, probably low self-esteem, deppression, wrong friends choice and being badly raised and you get this kind of mental health issues.
@@rRekko I think that in this case the parents started too lenient and the little shrew… ahem, child learned how to manipulate them, probably to the point of despair. Once the kid is in the driver’s seat and learning how to better control her parental units, it becomes an ever greater problem until the authorities or the parents step up and put a stop to it.
@@markvincent5992 For sure.
As a former addict, i don't think this is just addiction. She's a brat & i think she'd be that way sober
As a recovering alcoholic I couldn’t have said it better
She needs help. The Father needs more help.
She is a bratt, that was told she was a PRINCESS all her life, all things were made easy for her, and given to her.
Depending on what her mental illness is*more than likely there is some....then you have the addictions*coping of whatever.
She acts and talks like she's schizophrenic. And if she's not schizophrenic, then it's truly impressive how unlikeable she is.
@@tmas47 yes I know that and you are correct, I should have worded by comment better ( recovering addict) but wasn't thinking.
There’s a point where you realize you’ve been enabling and it’s not the right thing to do. When you stop, usually a tantrum ensues. Or, they attempt to blame the parent, or start a fight, flip out, or worse. Kudos to Dad for setting boundaries. I hope the hard road she goes through helps her to ‘grow up.’ Police did a wonderful job.
You’re cutting her too much slack Leon, I’ve been sober for 7 years now and I’ve never acted like that, nor have I met any addicts who acted like this. I hate people giving people passes for acting horrible bc of addiction, people who act like this are just shitty and entitled and they would act like this on or off drugs.
Same here, of course I feel for her as I've been there but I have seen this in real life where drugs just brings out the worst of people but you have to have it in you. Some addicts never steal, some never manipulate, some never become narcissistic or lose touch with reality, really the only thing all addicts have in common is that they do drugs so I hate when people see addicts like this and think that all or most are like that
Yea sober for 2 years here. Got sober after 10 years because my wife and I were caught by police. Didn’t act this way at all. Followed their directions and things actually worked in our favor. Went to treatment 2 days later and have never looked back.
At least she never has to worry about actually being kidnapped! The kidnappers would get sick of her and drop her off in 5 minutes 😂
More like knock her out and have their fun lol
They may drop her off but getting her out of car....well um
😂😂😂
@@cafe88racer53 More like knock her off.
They would pay the dad to take her back! Seriously she’s so exhausting! The dad probably always spoiled her because she exhausted him until he gave up & gave in to her just to be done with it! She seems the type that if the cops told her to stay in the car then she would’ve jumped out cause she has to be the one in control! 🙄
This is why you tell your kids "NO" from a very young age. This lady obviously got her own way for her whole life, and dad never put his foot down.
Given the estimated age of the daughter I wouldn't be surprised if the parents had followed the parenting fad of "not telling your child 'NO'" way back when. I remember seeing that on the news and TV cause I thought "must be nice to be one of those kids." All my momma needed was a wooden spoon or a shoe to whoop my ass for acting up. And I didn't dare go crying to my dad about it. Though to be fair my dad would respect mom's punishments and wouldn't punish me twice for the same act.
Probably how she got hooked on drugs as well.
I'm willing to net that there is a divorce and years of parenting restricted to paying alimony in the background.
NO to everything ist wrong.
But NO is setting boundaries. Kids dont know the boundaries. Thats why parents need to set them from the beginning on.
absolutely right... a child doesnt fully understand the concept of boundaries and consequences until they are about 6-8 years of age. Moral reasoning until then is based heavily on rewards and consequences of actions. If most of their actions are deemed "cute", then the child continues to do that and therefore it is important that boundaries and consequences for 'undesirable' behaviour are placed at an early age and this remains consistent during their early years of development.
Cop takes a sip and keeps driving. Priceless!
Guarantee if the father had physically removed her from his car she would have filed assault charges on him. Addicts will ruin your life if you don’t cover all your bases. He played the situation correctly. Props to him for keeping a cool head and doing the right thing. Hope he changes the locks.
He needs to stop enabling her and bailing it out when she fucks up. He’s just exacerbating the situation by giving in to her. Not only would she have filed assault charges. She probably would’ve accused him of much worse.
Tf does that have to do with addiction?
Dude im a recovered heroin addict and I would have never done this to my parents ever. Wtf?
She’s a shitty person, probably bad parenting… I don’t see how any of this specific police situation has to do with addiction.
Sure addicts manipulate… but that’s to acquire drugs, they usually hate dealing with police and comply as much as possible…
Not all drug addicts are spoiled and privileged.
Nope, Even in California, that would not be grounds for assault.
This is not just dr¿gs. This is who she actually is. I have a couple of family members like this. And all I can say is that my heart goes out to the father. What's he's having to put up with is a lot worse than most people probably realise.
Yes I definitely agree with you. She's just a gaslighting manipulative Harpy who has acted this way her entire life who just so HAPPENS to be on drugs. She's very calculated with her words and the things that she says. "STOP MOLESTING ME!" " YOU TOUCHED MY BOOBS!" "YOU'RE A PERVERT LET ME OUT!" . She'll do anything and say anything to make herself a victim while trying to get you to doubt yourself so she can get what she wants.
Well, to be fair, the father probably has a lot to do with how she’s behaving…so let’s not feel too bad for him.
Its drugs too 16 year heroin habbit here , clean for 8 years , seen these ppl all the time
I think she probably has Oppositional Defiant Disorder.
@@shadowsonshadowson3929 My best friends brother was/is an addict and lived with their Mother because he was not able to hold a job. Their Mother tried on several occasions to throw him out, gave him money to leave etc. He is the middle child of three with two highly successful siblings which might have something to do with it as I think he thought he couldn't measure up. When it came down to it, she couldn't keep making him leave or leave him homeless. She used to say "I know what people think of me and what I should do, but this is my child and I can't help myself". I think it is easier said than done and easier still for others to judge. She was a wonderful woman, miss you Jean!
I'm a recovering addict and now a drug and alcohol counselor. You are on point with everything you said about addicts and addiction! And I agree with you a thousand percent. It was infuriating to watch this. I lost brain cells listening to her.
That is so freakin cool I'm a recovering addict too and recently paralyzed I'd love to provide counseling for addicts and ppl with spinal cord injuries how long did you have to go to school ?
@@Barbieinawheelchairmost drug counselors are former drug/ alcohol addicts
@@Barbieinawheelchair most states require a masters degree but there are other things you can do to help you that require less like becoming a RADT etc. Just look up what's required in your state or this your state offers to help towards becoming a licensed addiction counselor
The cops went above and beyond on this woman, I'm so sorry Dad, not only was I an addict but my daughter became one too 😔..
REmember when the COPS would come in, you moved away, you answered yes sir, no sir...and if you didnt comply after the 2nd time, they either tazed you, grabbed you, cuffed you, and stuffed you.....
@@who346fucking oath mate
That's
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Some cops may hate bodycams but dear lord they probably saved all their careers with the amount accusations she was throwing at them
lmfao Leon brother, as a former addict I do not take offense to your jokes. You are very spot on with your takes. Not all addicts are this high strung and dysfunctional however, thankfully.
I once knew a person like this.
It took years for his parents to make a full disconnect and he wasn't even an addict.
Dude, I agree with you a thousand percent, man!!! I'll be 38 in January, and I've been clean from heroin since 2013, and literally everything you said was fact check true, my friend, lol!! I did not listen to either of my parents, until I went to jail for the first time for 33 days, and it was the worst time of my life and when I got out, I checked myself into a small rehab and completed it in 30 days and I've never been happier!!!!!
Yea, having to detox in a jail cell was one of the worst times of my life. I have been clean for 17 years now and have things I never thought I could obtain. Stay strong
Congrats on your sobriety. One day at a time. I wish you all the best!
Amazing
From one recovering addict to another, I am so frelling proud of you! Every sober breath is worth it, every sober day is another hard-won battle. Please take care of yourself, because you are worth it and deserve it. Even if you relapse, you are still worthy of love, because recovery is not a linear journey. In case you haven't heard this today, You are loved, wanted, valid, beautiful, strong and amazing, not for what you can or cannot do or be, but for you, yourself, and what you can become.
@@KayPrescesky thank you so much!! And no relapse for me!! Shoot, I'd be too scared to do any kind of drugs today, because of that fentanol crap!!! I'm very happy in my life right now though, I never thought I'd be married with a 4yo daughter, yet here I am, lol!! And thank you so much for all the kind words!!!! I truly appreciate it!! And you are so amazing for being so kind!!! We definitely could use some more of it in this world today!!!!! Love y'all!!!!
I was just raised in a different time. My father never put a hand on me but he could put the fear of GOD in me with one look. I wouldn’t dare disrespect that man.
That's good parenting right there!
Same here but it was my mother who had the “look”.
Literally lmfao
Same. That stare that could stop you at a hundred paces
@@williepearl278oh yea dude. My moms look was 30 times worse, but my dad was the one I didn’t want disciplining me 🤣
Those officers stayed SO calm. I couldn’t stay that calm just watching her. I’m very impressed by them
What are you saying? You'd go 900 on her ass from the get-go, put some slugs in her? What the fuck does this mean?
By being cops and doing their job?
What do you think would have happened if it was a dude?
I also have respect for their endurance, but this is the result of getting screwed over by slimy lawyers for so many years. You also have the fact that the moment someone gets arrested, the costs skyrocket.
i would have shown her what #metoo is all about. do it infornt of the other cops
The fact she know so much about the medical clearings at jail & "her rights" makes me think this isn't her first rodeo
WOW the cops were so patient.
people like this are so impossible to reason with. The self righteous entitled brat behavior clearly worked for her in the past. once she gets into the real world she will realize she has absolutely no skills to cope with reality.
The entitlement wafting off this girl is mind numbing.
I bet if somebody slapped the shit out of her she wouldn't be talking so much lol she wouldn't be so rude and lie to and on others to get what she wants if she felt she could pay for what she says, especially about her own family. Her father was to easy on her obviously, or maybe her mother, idk but somebody should have disciplined her because now the government got to do it and they don't love her.
@@kevinleewilliams5119I keep hearing there’s evidence that spanking kids have bad results but I can’t see it. The kids today are terrors. They have no healthy fear or respect for anyone.
Sometimes you just need a good punch in the face to put a bitch (man or woman) in their place. This dumb ass probably drained her family of empathy. Brat..
It was physically painful to watch by the end 😂
@@kevinleewilliams5119I'm sure she's the type to call the cops if slapped
I used to engage in this behavior. What you witnessed in this video is the daughter has had all of the power in the relationship with her dad. She manipulates and controls him and gets him to do whatever she wants out of fear. He walks on eggshells around her and she keeps it that way and when he fights back or stands up for himself she feels her grasps of control being threatened so she has to remind him of whatever he fears from her to put him back in his place. So at this point he’s had enough he’s challenging her again and she knows she loses the power game if she gets out of the car and submits that he won this battle in the power struggle. So on principle as she calls it if she concedes he wins. Notice how she makes eye contact with him while she talks down on him because she knows he’s standing up to her. She mentions he’s not acting normal meaning he’s not letting her control the situation.This is a very exhausting game of mental warfare and it’s hard way to live life and ruins many relationships makes it quite difficult actually not to mention the drug addiction adds another dynamic to this. I’ve sought out help for this because I want to one day start a family and leading a household out of fear isn’t something I want for my family. If I catch myself slipping into this I try to pull myself back. This was a weird one for me I’ve never come across a video of someone who also engaged in this behavior. And yes she does realize All she has to do is step out of the car and she understands what the cops are saying all of this information is registering with her and she also understands how childish and ridiculous this makes her look it’s all there but like I said it’s the power struggle with her dad fortunately for him the law was on his side and in this particular situation she wasn’t able to force him into submission because the laws we adhere to as citizens are more powerful than relationship dynamics.
I noticed that, when she said he's not acting normally like he usually does. I thought right, he's standing up to you for once. That must be different.
I used to be like this as well.
@@stevendotterer1543
Congratulations on your personal growth. I'm sure it was a tough road, but you perservered.
The hardest part to overcoming your struggles is admitting you have issues/struggles to begin with, then to carry on and heal and become better screams the measure of your strength you have...
You're strong and hopefully more read this and see it's possible to do better with effort... ❤❤ Thank you for sharing your story
Thank you for such an interesting comment. Kudos to you for realising your behaviour & trying to change.
Props to those officers for handling that so well.
In the words of Jurassic Park.
And here we are, back in the car again.
She should be happy. Isn't that what she wanted?
My mother was a drug addict and alcoholic most of my life and she sounded JUST like this chick. It took her over twenty years, but I’m happy to say she’s been six years sober. I just wish we could be a little closer, but there are things that can’t be mended and this girl is going to learn that the hardest way.
Yeah some things can’t be mended.
Man that's rough. Wish my dad would get sober..
I've been both the child of an addict & the mother of one.
Both me & my mother have more than 15 years clean.
That being said I can attest to the strain addiction puts on the mother, child relationship. There are things that can't be mended, that will never go back to how it was, but that doesn't mean that you guys can't be close. Your relationship will never be what it was, but it can be different & different isn't necessarily bad. Sometimes our relationships just need to evolve.
You can be close again.
Good luck & God bless you
I would be genuinely surprised if she has 1 single living real human that enjoys her company.
Don't underestimate men, it only takes 1 that wants that cat
If I knew her I'd be in jail already.
@@TheTweetybird1122 this chick is way off the crazy/hot scale. There's so much crazy that it overshadows the hot. They would totally pump and dump.
@@TheTweetybird1122Christ there’s no amount of alcohol they could make me want that!!
@@kurtbarlow5408alcohol no. But some nice ear plugs might make here a solid 6-8/10
Both myself and a handful of my close friends struggled with addiction for years and I can promise you she left rehab and came home to sob story daddy for money and he offered to take her out and when he got her gift cards instead of cash thats when the psycho switch flipped. I can also tell the fact that dad knows to give her gift cards and buy her food directly instead of giving cash that this has been going on for a while.
PREACH...
And she didn't wanna get out the vehicle, probably wanted to go get drugs
Spot on
Everyone around her is probably so happy when she falls asleep.
I love the free association she does at 23:57 Youre not cooperating, you are not cooperative, were not a corporation, you're not a Co-Op, you're not a cop, you're a robber. Pure poetry.
Proving she wasn't that high at all. Just being bitchy for self-entertainment.
She has potential for a spoken word artist!
She probably does feminist slam poetry
I’m in recovery and the best thing my mom ever did for me was shut my phone off and not give me a dime. From that point forward I told myself I would never be in that situation again. I had to take accountability. Now, I’m paying for my parents phone clean and sober. The best thing that I gave myself and them was peace of mind. I put them through hell for years.
Peace of mind is priceless. Be well today.
A clear conscience is better than happiness.
I wish you nothing but the best on your sobriety journey❤️
@@markfirek3800 💯 because that gives you happiness.
@@traceycolbert3635 ❤️❤️❤️
Funny how she went from "i dont want to leave the car"
To
"Let me out of the car" all in 1 video, they were way more patient than she deserved
He actually did the right thing by not taking him out of the car himself. She is the type to say, "stop touching me! He beat me up officer!" Then dad would go to jail. So calling the cops was probably him knowing his daughter would pull some bs like that!
Exactly!
Man, I feel so bad for the dad. Watching your kid get arrested like this has gotta be so hard
Her tugging at his heartstrings as she's getting into the car with the, "Dad, help" line was awful. She knew what she was doing there, but not once did she even feign an apology
It is very hard but you're doing what's best for them and letting them know you aren't putting up with the bs anymore.
Absolute respect to this man. Pity it's public (for her)
I mean, he called the cops. I would have dragged her ass out by her hair.
Aaand we learn exactly why the dad called the cops. He knew exactly what was going to happen of he tried to remove her himself. The delusions of kids these days is absolutely unbelievable.
Our government and her parents didn't do her any favors and not becoming a complete pile of shit, just saying.
I guarantee you that even though the father called them his heart broke when his daughter said “Dad help me”.
For sure, for multiple reasons.
It’s like arresting a thesaurus!!! 😂😂😂
Love the 3rd no-nonsense officer👍🏼❣️😂
😂
Respect for the father's strength and the officers' patience.
"You don't love me!"along with the cry. The manipulation right there. She does that every time to get her father on her side.
the police woman was patient then had enuf
Cuz the dad was obviously a wimp her entire life
@@MrVivi0001You clearly don't have family if you honestly believe that.
@@worldman3218 i do and as a dad my role in the family is to make sure my kids have DISCIPLINE, learn to EARN things they get, make sure they know they they WILL NOT get everything they want in life and should be PREPARED for it, and yes to show them that when they do something that is NOT ACCEPTABLE they will suffer the CONSEQUENCES. If you are not teaching your children this you are a terrible parent.
@@MrVivi0001 Setting boundaries is critical. This child clearly does not understand what a boundarie is.
I hope she watches this when she's sober.
She is sober.
@@terrra_2024 mmmmmmmmmmm.... mmmmm....
I think there should be a time limit that cops can follow (like 5 minutes) for this kind of bs before they just end it with an arrest.
"Can't you just give me a verbal warning or something?" That's the first thing they did. They didn't bring up the option of pressing charges until well into the confrontation.
"Stop policing me" - has to be one of the best lines I've heard in quite some time LOL
"You sound a lot like my brother used to sound before he my moms house down." This poor officer has seen a lot. Honestly what officer hasnt? You know seeing his brother like that fuels him to not want others ever to be like that.
I too have daughters. When I feel like I can't take it anymore I just watch this video to make me feel better about what I got. Love them to bits.
As a recovering addict for over 7 years, I give you, Loen, permission to call it like you see it with out feeling like you have to explain and play devils advocate. I know what I did as an active addict and I didn't deserve to be placated or have my behavior excused. I'm behind your assessment 100%.
I agree. True addicts don’t care to be called addicts. This whole trying to make addiction politically correct is fucking stupid. I was an alcoholic. I wasn’t “struggling with alcohol” I was an alcoholic. People shouldn’t be afraid to call it like they see it. I am sober now for a little over 3. Congratulations on your sobriety!
Same
Props to all of you who have overcame your addiction or even know someone currently fighting it.
That said I can offer a little devil's advocate for Leon here.
Perhaps he may have gotten comments calling him out in other videos from friends/family members, who have dealt with someone close to them going through a rough time and maybe didn't appreciate their comments. So from there, he maybe thinks it to not walk on eggshells with a particular and specifically difficult life "thing" that affects more ppl than perhaps even want to admit 🤔
Not saying you're wrong at all, 100% this behavior of the girl is out of control. But I suppose for people who haven't maybe dealt with episodes like this or know someone who has, like myself, it's an argument over: walking on eggshells vs not wanting to even crack the eggs to make eggshells in the first place, because he doesn't even like the yolk that comes from it to begin with.
Gay
You give him permission? Ughh
Her father could have dragged her out... but from her actions and accusations, you just know she would have accused her father of assult if he tried to get her out of the car.
Yh he probably knew that ,that’s why he called the cops
What you said about drug addiction is very true. I have a family member that has turned into a creature. Her selfishness and narcissism knows no bounds. Accountability is not even remotely in her vocabulary. And trust me, her pops sounds like he does everything for her, whether it’s something he shouldn’t is one thing but a father just wants to do anything for his daughter to get better. It’s truly a hopeless situation. She doesn’t even care about getting better because she only thinks about herself. I also doubt she comes from a troubled home, so many addicts actually come from good homes but have been raised to get everything they ever wanted so go thru thinking law and decency doesn’t apply to them.
You're absolutely right about drug addiction and what addicts do to everyone around them. It anything, you were incredibly nice about it💁🏻♀️
“He’s mentally ill and demented but I have no problem asking him to drive me where I want and he can turn into a superhero to rescue me from police officers…”
THIS
11:30 The exact reason dad didn't just drag her out himself. She loves to be the victim, and we all know the dad would end up in jail on a family domestic violence charge.
Exactly. Dad knew what would happen.
@@mixmastermurphywhen the video started, I was thinking what’s up with dad, can’t he handle this? Then I saw first couple of minutes I have total respect for the dad.
He did the right thing.
They gave her SOOOOO many chances to just get out and she still refused. Just wow
This wasn’t addiction behavior, this was a personality disorder under distress
This is exactly how my sister is.
She wonders why nobody outside of her very small clique of screws up and malcontents wants to be within 10 miles of her horrible behind.
John, keep doing the right thing. Your sister isn’t learning to get better, you have every right to not have a relationship with her or talking to her. Hope you’re doing GREAT, man. I been there too! People causing me problems for no reason. Cutted them off. Never interacted with them ever AGAIN.
@BigCarris_53_64 I appreciate your kind words, thanks.
@@John-or9ccUndauntedRaceCars you’re welcome, bro. ANYTIME!
Wanted to add my two cents too: my sister is just like this too. She’s my older sister . Has gotten away with everything because my family completely enables her addiction. Already lost my mother to addiction and my sister is making the SAME mistakes. I’m the ONLY one in my family that sees the issue. I’m the one who won’t live in the fantasy world that they live in where everything is fine and she is fine . She’s not. She’s sick. Now she’s continuing the dysfunction with her own son, still addicted.. So now I’m estranged from my family . I don’t talk to my sister , grandparents , uncle. It hurts me deeply , but I’ve been so much happier after I just cut them off.
YOUR mental health matters. Your feelings and perception matter.
Family or not, no one has the right to steal your joy.
I now bear the responsibility of breaking this fucking curse in my family. I’ve accepted the fact that I will never meet my nephew , and my own children will probably never meet their aunt. I refuse to expose them to that kind of filth.
Stay strong bro.
@@Ambelica Good for you my guy! I’m very self-aware, just like my mom. The only family members I don’t like is my main uncle and grandmother. They give me lots of reasons not to talk to them or call them as much. I’m still around them, but once I get myself ready for my future, that’s when I’ll stay away from them for good as much as possible. I got rid lots of fake friends. Keep being you, man. Don’t let anybody change that. Wish you nothing but positivity, love, and abundance.
The way shes speaks about her father i can only imagine how she speaks to him alone. She had to know this wasnt going to go her way
Lets be real, he caused that situation over 30 years of being a shit parent. Starting at age 2 when he gave her whatever she wanted because he couldn't handle a toddler being upset with him.
As a recovering alcoholic/addict this behavior is nothing but an entitled brat, not addiction.
Absolutely
Thats what I'm sayin. This is way more than just addiction.
"He's got some sort of early dementia. We came down here for.... I don't remember why..."
Leon, as a father of an addicted son, whom passed away a year ago March, the commentary you say at the 19 minute mark is exactly what I struggled with. Ironically he had turned away from drugs, was engaged to his childhood sweetheart & had a great job he really enjoyed. Unfortunately, his past sins caught up with him in the form of endocarditis & severe edema. He had the biggest ❤ & I still miss him. My sympathies are for the girl’s dad.
Addiction - we have all kinds of it but the worse is drugs in the human body. My brother passed away recently - same thing the drugs caught up. He survived covid but with so much medication and not wanting to change diet , it just compounded the conditions. So, though the body can recover, it cannot recover everything without personal effort and takes a real commitment to cleanse and let the body recover fully. Is there more that I could've, should've and woul've done? Absolutely but would it have changed the outcome of his fate? Perhaps....or perhaps not.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've lost dozens and dozens of friends from overdoses over the last 10 years. I had one of my best friends overdosed and almost died in my arms. I had to perform CPR on her for a long time and by the grace of God she started breathing again. But what a horrible epidemic in this country with fentanyl specifically and things laced with it it's heartbreaking😢
@@sarasweightlossjourney1432 Thank you for your kind words. So many have died. God bless you. I pray the burden of your grief is assuaged by our Lord’s comforting hand.
She obviously was raised this way, but we all have to grow up at a certain point. Her behavior makes me sick, and I’m glad the dad finally decided to stop enabling her behavior. She was kicked out of rehab (the eviction mentioned in the clip) and he gives her gift cards - not cash, as she’ll spend the money on substances. It’s a sad state this woman is in, but she’ll have to hit rock bottom before she starts to improve, I fear.
so that wasnt rock bottom? smh
lmao
Gift cards can be sold for cash, which I guarantee she is doing. She needs to be completely cut off.
As someone who used opiates for 12 years, and now have a year clean and NEVER want to touch that sh*t again, you are 100% right about addiction, Leon.
Sadly, dad cant do anything except for not enable her. She has to want it for her to get clean.
I was insufferable when i was using, but thank god i wasnt like this. I learned long ago that being respectful is the best way to get what you want. Shes got a lot to learn if shes gonna throw her entire life away on drugs
"The organism does what makes the organism successful."
Basically meaning she's never had to learn other behavior to get what she wants. I feel so bad for whoever had to share a cell with her.
@TheChryystal Don't feel too bad for 'em. 😅 I'm sure she wasn't talking back so much once she got to the cell and Dad wasn't there.
@@1WEareBUFO1 I (jokingly) pray for whoever her cellie is. Just imagine a poor Jill Weekend, who got pulled in for not paying a ticket, then has to spend all weekend with THAT bag of bullshit bitch.
I hope whoever it is, has a strong nap game to make it through without getting another charge for hitting her. 🙏
How many people are saying I can’t breathe? Yet they never acknowledge that drug use and respiratory depression go hand in hand.
I love how the female officer throws her attitude and tone right back at her
Wow, she really thinks shes gonna psychologize these cops away from her. Like shes got the force. 🤣
Cocaine is a hell of a drug!
LMAO!
Everyone knows that the place to fight a cops decision is wen they're trying to arrest u and not in court, plus it always works! 😂
@@reptarcar Nobody musta gave her the memo. 🤷🏼♂️
My sister managed to get herself addicted to meth a couple of years ago and became schizophrenic as a result. Our whole family and all of her friends did everything we could to try and help her understand that she was addicted and mentally ill so we could get her help. She refused to come around and her antics wore everyone down, to the point my father had a breakdown. We finally had to cut ties with her entirely for the sake of our own well being. The guilt is always there, but at the same time the stress involved was even worse. We all hope she will come around, but I know the longer this goes on the less likely she will be able to recover. I very much feel this father's pain, and know why he had to call the police. She could have got violent, or more likely tried pressing charges on him if he touched her.
That’s my little brother (not so little anymore tho, he’s 44 now), he’d addicted to f3ntanyl and m3th. A couple years after he got involved in m3th he was diagnosed with drug induced schizophrenia. 10 yrs later, and he’s just not mentally reachable. He’s been on the streets for years now, constantly being arrested and almost immediately released. We’ve all had to get restraining orders against him and move away from all the places he knows bcuz of his bizarre, erratic and violent behavior. Every once in a while one of us would get an extremely long rambling text from him going on and on about how he’s the messiah and that he has to save us, just a ton of crazy religious stuff, but no one has heard anything from him in over 2 years, we don’t even know if he’s still alive. It’s all just so horribly sad. We tried absolutely everything we could, my dad paid for rehab 3 times, but there just comes a point when you have break away for your own sanity.
I'm sorry to hear that. This is a problem that I wish no other family ever had to experience.@@teridoster5840
As an alcoholic, I want to send my condolences to you and yours. Your family deserves the peace to know she is okay, but always have to question if she is. Its hard to try to get someone help, but someone who doesnt want help... thats harder to deal with.