Alhamdulilaaah i hv never been touched by any non mahram but it was only the mercy of Allaah that He saved me from falling into sin....But one thing i would like to suggest all....irrespective of gender...Plz make a habit of praying daily and read Quran daily ,one rukuh everyday...+ focus on ur career...as when one remains busy in studies etc, there is no futile time for such mean things.. When u balance deen and dunya,Allaah will definitely protect u frm such sins.. no dbt we are humans and might err but He is gafoor u raheem...He forgives..❤
my brother is in a haram relationship and today i realised he is still young and the girl is making him to lose his future and time he will go out siently and lie about where he was, i feel bad and i don't want him to lose his mind and be in a bad way but i don't know what to do. May allah forgive and help him
You can pray and talk to Allah that if he's good for your dunya and akira to reunite you and do istkharah don't do duaah and ask Allah to bring him back because you'll be going in an endless cycle..the other option is to turn it into a halal relationship if it can't be done then get away from haram relationships lesson learned it's less haram and what Allah has is better and lastst longer (وما عند الله خير وابقى) ...with that been said Whosoever leaves something for the sake of Allah or gives for the sake of Allah..even half a date..Allah will reward him with something even better.. may Allah forgive us and bless us and grant us ease and contentment and guide us the straight path 🤲🏽 amen
As Salamu Alaikum... Brother/Sister it's not at all easy task to move on from a haram relationship, it takes guts to leave it completely, to break it and be away from it for the sake of Allah...But remember, Allah has promised us that, whatever we leave to please Allah, for his sake, he will definitely replace it with something more amazing than what we lost, Subhan Allah! Our only goal in this life is to please Allah, and Allah will test us with what we love, he will test us with the things that r so close to us, so at that time we have to do what Allah wants us to do, we have to obay his commands, we need to please him and this requires sacrifice, patience and faith in Allah. Answering your question.. To move on from a relationship, You have to first tell the boy/girl about your decision, it's okay to have a last and final talk with him/her, if they understand, it's good but if they don't, leave it to Allah then... After that, try to talk more and more with Allah..Tell Allah each and every thing that you feel..Pray Tahajjud, pray our daily prayers, do lot of zikr, keep yourself busy with Islamic lectures, Make a lot of Dua.. And remember, you r not alone! not at all, Allah is always with you ❤ Talk more with him, ask him to give you strength... So it's tough but it's worth it! Be a warrior! Fight your Nafs! Ask Allah to help you in this tough path.. Insha Allah.. Keep me in your Duas..
Just stop talking to them.. Dont abuse or scold like i did and regret forever as you love them it is gonna hurt you later. make it halal or cut it immediately and keep yourself busy salah work career..
I always pray for my haram relationship to become halal and I tell him to get married but he's so much excuses.but I'm so inlove with him I'm always begging him I'm always cry for him I want to die with him.what I will do
If a heart becomes attached to anything other than Allah, Allah makes him dependent on what he is attached to. And he will be betrayed by it - Ibn qayyim al jawzziya. Sister always remember this what I just mentioned. Never think you will die without someone or you wont be able to live. Allah does not like when you depend on anyone like that or you beg anyone other than him and he takes away people from your life to show you that you can live without them. Secondly, if hes giving excuses to marry you then thats a hugeee red flag. Leave him for the sake of Allah, and Allah will replace it with something better, thats Allahs promise. Have tawakkul and end it. If he was sincere with you then you wouldnt have to beg him to marry you, this behaviour probably means he does not want to marry you and you will be more hurt in future. Trust Allah, be strong and end it. I am just giving you an advice as a muslim sister.
Alhamdulilaaah i hv never been touched by any non mahram but it was only the mercy of Allaah that He saved me from falling into sin....But one thing i would like to suggest all....irrespective of gender...Plz make a habit of praying daily and read Quran daily ,one rukuh everyday...+ focus on ur career...as when one remains busy in studies etc, there is no futile time for such mean things..
When u balance deen and dunya,Allaah will definitely protect u frm such sins.. no dbt we are humans and might err but He is gafoor u raheem...He forgives..❤
my brother is in a haram relationship and today i realised he is still young and the girl is making him to lose his future and time he will go out siently and lie about where he was, i feel bad and i don't want him to lose his mind and be in a bad way but i don't know what to do.
May allah forgive and help him
I were in a love but now i weren't.....but can i pray for him??is it halal or haram??
You can pray and talk to Allah that if he's good for your dunya and akira to reunite you and do istkharah don't do duaah and ask Allah to bring him back because you'll be going in an endless cycle..the other option is to turn it into a halal relationship if it can't be done then get away from haram relationships lesson learned it's less haram and what Allah has is better and lastst longer (وما عند الله خير وابقى) ...with that been said Whosoever leaves something for the sake of Allah or gives for the sake of Allah..even half a date..Allah will reward him with something even better.. may Allah forgive us and bless us and grant us ease and contentment and guide us the straight path 🤲🏽 amen
@@muhammedq9109 aameen
You can always pray for them, ask Allah to guide them to the right path. That is perfectly permissible.
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How can I move on from Haram Relationship?
As Salamu Alaikum...
Brother/Sister it's not at all easy task to move on from a haram relationship, it takes guts to leave it completely, to break it and be away from it for the sake of Allah...But remember, Allah has promised us that, whatever we leave to please Allah, for his sake, he will definitely replace it with something more amazing than what we lost, Subhan Allah!
Our only goal in this life is to please Allah, and Allah will test us with what we love, he will test us with the things that r so close to us, so at that time we have to do what Allah wants us to do, we have to obay his commands, we need to please him and this requires sacrifice, patience and faith in Allah.
Answering your question..
To move on from a relationship, You have to first tell the boy/girl about your decision, it's okay to have a last and final talk with him/her, if they understand, it's good but if they don't, leave it to Allah then...
After that, try to talk more and more with Allah..Tell Allah each and every thing that you feel..Pray Tahajjud, pray our daily prayers, do lot of zikr, keep yourself busy with Islamic lectures, Make a lot of Dua..
And remember, you r not alone! not at all, Allah is always with you ❤
Talk more with him, ask him to give you strength...
So it's tough but it's worth it! Be a warrior! Fight your Nafs! Ask Allah to help you in this tough path..
Insha Allah..
Keep me in your Duas..
Just stop talking to them.. Dont abuse or scold like i did and regret forever as you love them it is gonna hurt you later. make it halal or cut it immediately and keep yourself busy salah work career..
@@Ksyed7124 how long u were in relationship? Does Abusing and Scolding really hurts after sometime?
@@shahrukh5925 yes it hurts just stop talking to them is an easy way to go I was in a relationship for 1.5 years.
@@Ksyed7124 Thanks Bro, btw how did you deal with the memories?
I always pray for my haram relationship to become halal and I tell him to get married but he's so much excuses.but I'm so inlove with him I'm always begging him I'm always cry for him I want to die with him.what I will do
If a heart becomes attached to anything other than Allah, Allah makes him dependent on what he is attached to. And he will be betrayed by it - Ibn qayyim al jawzziya. Sister always remember this what I just mentioned. Never think you will die without someone or you wont be able to live. Allah does not like when you depend on anyone like that or you beg anyone other than him and he takes away people from your life to show you that you can live without them. Secondly, if hes giving excuses to marry you then thats a hugeee red flag. Leave him for the sake of Allah, and Allah will replace it with something better, thats Allahs promise. Have tawakkul and end it. If he was sincere with you then you wouldnt have to beg him to marry you, this behaviour probably means he does not want to marry you and you will be more hurt in future. Trust Allah, be strong and end it. I am just giving you an advice as a muslim sister.
@@haniyaalvi6734 thank you so much 💔💔💔💔💔