Ex Spa Worker interview-Tiye

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  • @miduv82
    @miduv82 4 роки тому +11656

    Most of these stories have one thing in common. The parents not doing their job and it pisses me off.

    • @jennerb7059
      @jennerb7059 4 роки тому +62

      Miduv82 your right, I want to say all it takes is strong positive roll models to show the children the way but maybe its not that simple but still someone is gonna meet the shit end of my stick if they ever try to get my kids to do anything!

    • @lonitakia4535
      @lonitakia4535 4 роки тому +13

      Right!!

    • @jennerb7059
      @jennerb7059 4 роки тому +11

      @NVSx16 your just smarter than everyone. Im 31 with no kids and Im starting to feel like I missed the train.

    • @islander959
      @islander959 4 роки тому +41

      In most situations and circumstances in life, theres always more than one element that affect the end results. What do you tell the parents that did their best, was there all way, and their kids still took the wrong path? What do you say to the kids whose parents was never the best, struggled to grow up, but they made it and are great people in society?

    • @hanshawybloc
      @hanshawybloc 4 роки тому +3

      Factssssssss

  • @shanemaple4582
    @shanemaple4582 4 роки тому +3635

    These men she speaks of are doctors, teachers , husbands , fathers. Crazy world

    • @zarianebo9217
      @zarianebo9217 4 роки тому +131

      george evans why did those men pay to cheat and pay to do lewd acts?.... and why don’t u mind ur business? All good questions

    • @christinescreationsespinos8062
      @christinescreationsespinos8062 4 роки тому +88

      @george evans I used to have a horrible drug habit and dealt with sexual abuse and trama during my upbringing, I've been clean for a few years now. Done a lot of things I'm not proud of but I'm not going to pretend like it never happened, made me the person I am today. I dont feed into drama so I'm not going to keep responding to negativity but this is my 1st and last comment have a nice night I got my kids and family to tend to goodnight:)

    • @zarianebo9217
      @zarianebo9217 4 роки тому +41

      george evans no it’s really not ur business ur just bored and feel like judging someone negatively. What she does has no affect on ur life in any way at all. But ur nosey and bored so here u are.

    • @zarianebo9217
      @zarianebo9217 4 роки тому +24

      george evans ur not perfect and I bet u do a lot of fucked up shit in ur life. And in gods eyes there’s no greater sin. So I bet you’ll be a lot happier if u mind ur business and not judge ppl.

    • @nini6794
      @nini6794 4 роки тому +22

      george evans have you owned your own shit?😂😂

  • @muxlimah786
    @muxlimah786 4 роки тому +10805

    I feel like fathers don't realise the impact their infidelity has on their daughters perception on men and relationships. It creates SUCH DEEP TRUST ISSUES.

    • @jokeur6996
      @jokeur6996 4 роки тому +279

      what about mothers'?

    • @hue008x
      @hue008x 4 роки тому +122

      They don't care.

    • @marvinhagler4721
      @marvinhagler4721 4 роки тому +112

      Some dont some do...The funny part is most guys i grew up with who used to play women ALL had daughters, hell my cousin had 4 and his oldest was just like he was but with males.Hes a grandfather now.I have a daughter ,it CERTAINLY keeps you in check.Shes a teen and watches me like a HAWK..LOL

    • @nicksterp2805
      @nicksterp2805 4 роки тому +11

      Very true

    • @waitwhat564
      @waitwhat564 4 роки тому +7

      Hear , hear

  • @seanoregan998
    @seanoregan998 Рік тому +375

    When she broke down speaking about how she missed her mom and seeing her father treating the other kids better than she was treated, it broke my heart. I could barely watch it. She hid her sadness pretty well up until that point. We never know how badly ppl are hurting. The loss of the close family unit is such a tragedy. God bless this woman.

    • @sleeplessentertainments
      @sleeplessentertainments Рік тому

      Delusional. This is her own version of the story. No one else is here to give there own version.
      Most of it sounds like a load of bullshit to avoid taking accountability for shity lifestyle and poor decisions.

    • @mrD66M
      @mrD66M Рік тому

      "The loss of the family unit" wtf you mean? Didn't you hear her saying her father was abusive?

    • @seanoregan998
      @seanoregan998 Рік тому +8

      @@mrD66M did you fail reading comprehension in school?

    • @mrD66M
      @mrD66M Рік тому +1

      @@seanoregan998 what you said does not fit the context of the video. If you're talking about something else then say so instead of insulting ppl

    • @itsallgravy7
      @itsallgravy7 8 місяців тому +1

      I agree with you. The mother probably had no means to support her children so she let them go with their father. It was probably the worst day of her whole life. The loss of a family unit that they all hoped for crushed by the father making thoughtless choices 😢

  • @totallyshannell5302
    @totallyshannell5302 4 роки тому +2172

    She needed to talk about this badly.. I'm crying

  • @myamontgomery7719
    @myamontgomery7719 4 роки тому +6008

    To a lot of y’all who keeps saying she’s a liar, doing this for attention, etc. Please leave your comments to yourself and leave with your close minded self. That’s my sister and I know the pain she went through. When she talked about her baby sister, that was me. Everything she went through with our father, I went through the same thing too and so did my oldest sister and brother. We all did differently on survival mode, but I understand every single thing and y’all should try too, but I guess some of y’all were so privileged, you can’t see the struggles some people go through.

    • @viscious_uv2
      @viscious_uv2 4 роки тому +358

      You and your siblings are SURVIVORS of Narcissistic Abuse! I am glad that all of you survived.

    • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
      @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  4 роки тому +1780

      None of my uploads are complete until some commenter says its a lie. There have been so many stories I know to be completely truthful that get comments accusing my interviewee of lying. I believe it’s just the nature of social media and anonymous commenting. Jealously, racism and hate are alive and well, at least on UA-cam.

    • @viscious_uv2
      @viscious_uv2 4 роки тому +292

      Americans have been programmed to think that ALL Sex Workers are dysfunctional and are victims of the sex industry.
      Some women enjoy sex work and have empowered themselves through it.
      The truth is sex work is mostly illegal because the men do not want women to be empowered without them...

    • @Fan-sl6de
      @Fan-sl6de 4 роки тому +53

      You’re making it up too

    • @therip660
      @therip660 4 роки тому +61

      @@SoftWhiteUnderbelly Very much alive on UA-cam, very.

  • @augustvirgo26
    @augustvirgo26 3 роки тому +3003

    Parents, PLEASE stop comparing your kids to other kids. It seems harmless at first, but it really messes with your kid. When she was talking about her father wishing she was like them, that broke my heart.

    • @ninjablack4347
      @ninjablack4347 3 роки тому +56

      My did it all the fucking time. "Your cousin is getting straight As. If you would try better you'd get that too"
      My cousin had parents who paid for tutors, took the time to go to counselors and ask what classes their son could take and paid attention when their son was depressed.

    • @Tibchy91
      @Tibchy91 3 роки тому +13

      @@ninjablack4347 Same here. I am strugling with anxiety disorder since primary school, been through some bad decissions and I blamed myself for it, just to realise some 20 years later, where my problems are rooted.

    • @ninjablack4347
      @ninjablack4347 3 роки тому +2

      @@Tibchy91 I gave GAD, which my family decided the best way to treat was by ignoring I had a problem. Fun times

    • @Tibchy91
      @Tibchy91 3 роки тому +5

      @@ninjablack4347 I feel you. I'm still going to therapies every 2-3 weeks, so... sweaty palms n feet, gagging... all that stuff still pop up at times, so yeah. I can relate

    • @lixinblade126
      @lixinblade126 3 роки тому +5

      my mom does that

  • @straightcashhomey1261
    @straightcashhomey1261 Рік тому +256

    I’m 45 years old now. Between this channel, dating some very damaged women, and certain shows on Netflix, etc…I have a whole new awareness of how truly screwed up and awful human beings can be to each other and, more specifically, to children. Very grateful for the childhood I had and the ability to provide for my children.

    • @anonymouszero9422
      @anonymouszero9422 Рік тому +7

      I'm the same age as yourself, but where you messing up is trying to date and have relationships with these women. You use and pay these women that's what they are about. Don't become a SIMP and have feelings. They for fun

    • @192OOIDJJ3
      @192OOIDJJ3 Рік тому +1

      ❤ All we can do as humans is keep pushing forward and also enjoy life

    • @SuperTooncesthecat
      @SuperTooncesthecat 3 місяці тому +3

      @@anonymouszero9422 You have no clue about mental illness. That's the problem. I suspect you have some past trauma.

    • @anonymouszero9422
      @anonymouszero9422 3 місяці тому +2

      @@SuperTooncesthecat Thats your opinion and respect you.

  • @karenflrz
    @karenflrz 4 роки тому +3051

    You barely had to ask her questions she does a great job at telling her story

  • @StephanieAjibola
    @StephanieAjibola 4 роки тому +3790

    It’s so crazy how normal she appears on the outside and then she starts talking about her trauma😨 people really do be going through some shit

    • @macthesmac
      @macthesmac 4 роки тому +165

      Same reason why we should approach each other with care

    • @Bubzietown
      @Bubzietown 4 роки тому +97

      Looks are deceiving. Learned that a long time ago.

    • @ajibolaalibaloye4497
      @ajibolaalibaloye4497 4 роки тому +4

      Hi same name

    • @kaba_me
      @kaba_me 4 роки тому +48

      This woman is perfectly normal... The people paying for these things are not.
      I'm a guy, and even I don't understand why so many men pay for sex... never mind all that weird stuff.

    • @armoriya
      @armoriya 4 роки тому +35

      My ex-girlfriend was like this. Beautiful and nice on the outside/Brokenness and trauma on the inside.

  • @xoxomyah
    @xoxomyah 4 роки тому +3778

    shes is SO beautiful and well articulate. praying she will stay strong, for LIFE. such an angel.

    • @aaronlynch4397
      @aaronlynch4397 4 роки тому +128

      That's kinda...if she was a white girl, would you ever use the word "articulate"? Nope...

    • @HH-gm9nz
      @HH-gm9nz 4 роки тому +41

      @@aaronlynch4397 your last name is lynch and you're the only one saying racist shit and accusations. You are the racist. You played yourself.

    • @HH-gm9nz
      @HH-gm9nz 4 роки тому +27

      @@aaronlynch4397 good job deleting your other racist comments. Let it be known that you're a racist. At least you know it's wrong, though.

    • @zinnagreene5102
      @zinnagreene5102 4 роки тому +41

      @@HH-gm9nz i don’t think he can control his last name bud

    • @zinnagreene5102
      @zinnagreene5102 4 роки тому +20

      @@aaronlynch4397 i think she was referring to the fact that being well articulate is somewhat rare on the channel

  • @gldflcn
    @gldflcn Рік тому +217

    Crazy that she’s been through everything she’s been through, yet still has that great personality and charisma about her! I hope she’s doing okay

    • @samuellp1146
      @samuellp1146 Рік тому +9

      yeah she's masking her feelings of pain to move forward.

    • @samuellp1146
      @samuellp1146 Рік тому +2

      ​@@panzerdriver I disagree with your take. They all are into it, money is the primary driving force. If they weren't into it or sold on doing what they were doing they would be out of business. She wasn't into after her daughter was born and she left the business. Delusions of telepathy? I don't see that in her.

    • @haczabim
      @haczabim Рік тому +3

      she's dead inside

    • @nefc2112
      @nefc2112 Рік тому +8

      On camera…. This chick is crazy trust me.

    • @real_exodus
      @real_exodus Рік тому +1

      @@haczabim EXACTLY!!!!

  • @cabr3ra
    @cabr3ra 4 роки тому +642

    It broke my heart when she said she wanted her mom. I worked in a crisis clinic and we had a 12 yr old who was suicidal with this exact same story and she said she would rather go to a foster home than with her dad. Same story! Is so sad. You wish you just take them home! 💔

    • @leeleemee
      @leeleemee 4 роки тому +8

      Ms Cabrera Yeah, that broke me down (into tears).

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 роки тому +2

      I know smh

    • @Hoodwaze
      @Hoodwaze 4 роки тому

      Well exactly 2 min before she said she wanted her mom, she said her dad used to ask her did she wanna go back to Durham with her mom. So....

  • @lifewnyy3777
    @lifewnyy3777 4 роки тому +2497

    Before any man could hurt a female their daddy be the main one that done all the damage to them

  • @heyhellohi_
    @heyhellohi_ 4 роки тому +2467

    A lot of people smile and laugh while talking about actual traumatic events. It’s often an unconscious defense mechanism.

    • @kiwipink6721
      @kiwipink6721 4 роки тому +22

      Facts

    • @bryantcrump4887
      @bryantcrump4887 4 роки тому +57

      That’s true I do it all the time when discussing traumatic events

    • @chrisg2662
      @chrisg2662 4 роки тому +6

      Bull shit that's called being a pussy trying to hide from the truth

    • @mikhelatuesday
      @mikhelatuesday 4 роки тому +41

      @@chrisg2662 i dont fully disagree but the way you said it is harsh ptsd is real

    • @SimpleManGuitars1973
      @SimpleManGuitars1973 4 роки тому +26

      This is extremely sad to hear a person just talk so nonchalantly about selling themselves for such debauchery.

  • @loolikmarco
    @loolikmarco 2 роки тому +102

    I think her childhood killed her faith in loyalty and that's the big "switch" that got her to be okay with all of that, and accepting it as normal. (People cheating, her boyfriend's cheating and she still calls him a good guy) and off course having such low standards for the way people and life treat her, and being ok with that. You deserve so much more Tiye, you too deserve to be treated as a princess

  • @IsaidwhatIsaid2222
    @IsaidwhatIsaid2222 4 роки тому +1350

    I can relate to her... I worked in a club...got addicted to coke... Sex... Money.. Dominatrix work... Omg
    I got out of it at the beginning of the pandemic after my sugar daddy paid for me to go to nursing school... I graduated ..now I'm out the club for good and i am now a full time nurse!! My calling... It is hope.. Trust me!! From the club to scrubs!!

    • @lani5287
      @lani5287 4 роки тому +34

      God bless!!!! Be safe out there!

    • @blaze031gshine
      @blaze031gshine 4 роки тому +305

      You finished nursing school in three months? 🤔

    • @serenityfreedom3096
      @serenityfreedom3096 4 роки тому +21

      Me 2...college gave me wings...I left stripping, abusers & now nursing is my jam. I have done the therapeutic work to give me understanding. I hope she takes classes & becomes free too. All the glam I had stripping is still mine now with the ocean & so much peace. I hope she joins us.

    • @2K23E
      @2K23E 4 роки тому +43

      That was quick

    • @waitwhat564
      @waitwhat564 4 роки тому +3

      @@blaze031gshine probably aged care. 3 months here in Australia. Maybe same in US?

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 4 роки тому +1851

    Childhood abuse is common denominator with all these people.

    • @dankmeee2730
      @dankmeee2730 4 роки тому +7

      And your ignorance is what makes this world burn

    • @Th3FuNkMan
      @Th3FuNkMan 4 роки тому +80

      DANK MEEE how is that ignorant that’s a fact?

    • @Princessusch
      @Princessusch 4 роки тому +21

      @@dankmeee2730 what

    • @OhHeyItsAlexx
      @OhHeyItsAlexx 4 роки тому +16

      @@dankmeee2730 You're right. Its not always an abusive childhood. That's like stereotyping. It is extremely likely. But I know people, including myself that got mixed up in some real bad shit, and had a NORMAL childhood. For some people you either had an outstanding childhood or you didn't have one at all... Its kinda sad that no matter what people find ways to generalize

    • @Carlos-nq7up
      @Carlos-nq7up 4 роки тому +11

      Emotional abuse also!

  • @brinrose6140
    @brinrose6140 4 роки тому +1651

    It hit me when she started crying for her mom. God forgive me for taking mine for granted

    • @brinrose6140
      @brinrose6140 4 роки тому +5

      La Chatelaine things can always turn around, that’s beautiful

    • @jasminethomas7128
      @jasminethomas7128 3 роки тому

      Boyyyyyyyy😂😂😂😂 @zert teyyy

    • @alegrasneed5163
      @alegrasneed5163 3 роки тому +20

      I lost my mom when I was 12 and I am now 29 and I still cry for my mom at times😕 it’s the worst growing up without a mom especially bc I have 3 daughters and wish she was here to see them grow😭😭 it’s very hard !!

    • @zzid9110
      @zzid9110 3 роки тому +3

      @@alegrasneed5163 same but i am 25 now. The worse for me is the feeling I never really knew her.

    • @doraymeandyou
      @doraymeandyou 3 роки тому

      I only started appreciating my mum when I became a mum. But she already had dementia by that time.

  • @Yo-yo-dt5ze
    @Yo-yo-dt5ze 2 роки тому +8

    These stories on soft white underbelly be having me crying because I can relate to some of them had a wild and crazy childhood a lot of the things I went thru I swept it under the rug because it was so hard for me to talk about it without being judged and now I’m 41 I sought out for help through a therapist to help me get through the most toughest areas in my life it’s definitely not easy opening up to a stranger I sought help before it was too late kudos to tiye for coming out and talking about her past it’s never easy

  • @PkUili31
    @PkUili31 3 роки тому +2244

    The fact that she didn’t blame her “step-siblings” becuase they didn’t know better. She so strong.

    • @lashayhunt3574
      @lashayhunt3574 3 роки тому +23

      @UMN Mode why does she has to be ashamed of being a sex worker ? desperate times causes desperate measures and just because she’s not miserable about having to what to do doesn’t make her not strong.

    • @shadowmoses5347
      @shadowmoses5347 3 роки тому +7

      @@lashayhunt3574 she also has a std

    • @lashayhunt3574
      @lashayhunt3574 3 роки тому +10

      @Cosmicty Randolph because desperate times cause for desperate measures. no one WANTS to be there. but mostly FORCED to. wether it’s money problems or they have a pimp.

    • @lashayhunt3574
      @lashayhunt3574 3 роки тому +18

      @JESUS IS LORD333.AMEN. JESUS333.AMEN. you have to stop using sins to shame people. for you will be judged the same way you judge people and all sins are equal. she’s doing no worse than you do everyday.

    • @lashayhunt3574
      @lashayhunt3574 3 роки тому +2

      @JESUS IS LORD333.AMEN. JESUS333.AMEN. i never said she should be proud of it i said stop shaming her. stop using the bible to benefit your point.

  • @sibahlemvuyana9089
    @sibahlemvuyana9089 3 роки тому +3311

    People should stop having kids period, have a kid when you emotionally and financially ready.

    • @zennaturalist2543
      @zennaturalist2543 3 роки тому +30

      THIS!!!!!

    • @PuffOfSmoke
      @PuffOfSmoke 3 роки тому +86

      I think you're in the wrong channel, bud. This is not Disney. This is real world TV.

    • @ericrobertson2595
      @ericrobertson2595 3 роки тому +27

      Amen. The world is so clueless especially in cultures like the Phillipines. Story after story of the men making babies and then deserting the woman and the kids they make. The culture has to be reprogrammed that this mindset wrong.

    • @sibahlemvuyana9089
      @sibahlemvuyana9089 3 роки тому +23

      @@PuffOfSmoke nope I am not, this happens in all countries. Drugs and people having unwanted babies is a common problem. I have watched a lot of stories in this channel many of the ladies have kids. I know that this one in particular has never mentioned one.

    • @PuffOfSmoke
      @PuffOfSmoke 3 роки тому +14

      @@sibahlemvuyana9089 I'm not sure if you're still clueless or dumb... People here in this channel represents the ills of society. Like how the creator of this channel says, it shows the destructive side of human beings. If these people live a Disney kind of existence, then they wouldn't be in channel, would they? You can't be so condescending and say, 'They should have kids until their financially and ready...' Duhhhhh....

  • @doraymeandyou
    @doraymeandyou 3 роки тому +2651

    The only reason her dad took her with him was to hurt her mom. This happens all the time and it makes my blood boil.

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 3 роки тому +100

      A classic narcissist

    • @radmilamilinkov
      @radmilamilinkov 3 роки тому +145

      Nah...guys do this to maintain the lie that they're not cheating because you have to be really low to take your child to your side bitches house. My own father did it and swore me to secrecy.

    • @michaelbentt3018
      @michaelbentt3018 3 роки тому +8

      Ummph.... Indeed, totally agree.
      It's all about "power and domination", something that society or Mom or Dad doesn't make they're children aware of.

    • @doraymeandyou
      @doraymeandyou 3 роки тому +13

      @@radmilamilinkov oh, that yeah. I was talking about after they split up and he moved to a different city with her.

    • @doraymeandyou
      @doraymeandyou 3 роки тому +17

      @@radmilamilinkov I’m sorry you had to go through that.

  • @danos5181
    @danos5181 2 роки тому +67

    She's great in everyway! Through her own personality, sense of humor, and resilience she'll finally break the cycle of family dysfunctional and abuse. lots of luck to her!

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird Рік тому +2

      *dysfunction

    • @danos5181
      @danos5181 Рік тому

      @@calisongbird Thanks for the correction :)

    • @timdark4733
      @timdark4733 Рік тому

      Great in everyway?! You idolize hoes?

  • @journey2zee
    @journey2zee 4 роки тому +2241

    If you read the comments sweety, please buy a good camera/phone, a ring light, and a computer. Start a UA-cam channel just talking about yourself and your life. You’re beautiful, charismatic, and intelligent. I promise you it will Blow up and you won’t have to work menial jobs ever again. I’ll be your first subscriber.

    • @toristory6597
      @toristory6597 4 роки тому +58

      I will sub too! She spoke volumes in this one interview...not pausing for a breath. She’s a strong young lady.

    • @erie3596
      @erie3596 4 роки тому +13

      I was thinking this the whole time

    • @kelcibee1648
      @kelcibee1648 4 роки тому +23

      Or only fans

    • @stacyyoust
      @stacyyoust 4 роки тому +1

      AND follow your passions

    • @teresaj.4103
      @teresaj.4103 4 роки тому +4

      Great advice and encouragement.

  • @bodhicittafoundation9473
    @bodhicittafoundation9473 4 роки тому +711

    I'm glad she got out and is not on drugs. She seems ok compared to alot of people in these interviews. Take care of you girl ox You are worth alot.

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 роки тому +11

      I know I hope well for her

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 4 роки тому +10

      Agree. She needs to dump that loser bf too

    • @emilycheek1899
      @emilycheek1899 4 роки тому +4

      So did amanda and she totally fell off. I hope this girl gets help quickly

  • @charlinehenderson4996
    @charlinehenderson4996 4 роки тому +891

    The current boyfriend needs to go. Anyone that talks down to you about your past doesn’t have your best in mind. Find someone that will respect your past struggles and how far you’ve come and. Not barked you for them

    • @iylenethibeaux8907
      @iylenethibeaux8907 4 роки тому +13

      Right i went through that bring you up then put you down and use your words and past against you.

    • @ChandlerWorthen
      @ChandlerWorthen 4 роки тому +18

      Yeah if it's that bad to him, he should just leave her be. Why beat down on someone?

    • @jlang7975
      @jlang7975 4 роки тому +2

      @Gus Bus exactly! His thirsty ass

    • @dandaddavi
      @dandaddavi 4 роки тому +13

      Sadly, women like this pass up on good men who will treat them right way too often because it's not normal for them.
      They find good men to be weird.

    • @biglarry6183
      @biglarry6183 4 роки тому +10

      Charlie henderson a womans past has everything to do with her future he has every right to bring up past on a beta male would not bring that up

  • @rachelrr3963
    @rachelrr3963 Рік тому +6

    Very brave and strong minded to share her story like this. Struggles teach you life lessons and I give a lot of respect to people that are vulnerable like this. Having a voice matters and I am happy she uses hers from going through what she has been through. We need more videos like this to bring awareness on these topics. You definitely can learn from listening to this channel. Very proud of what she has overcome and thank you for sharing.

  • @championredd
    @championredd 4 роки тому +5172

    Watching these interviews makes me realize how evil the world is

    • @SymphonyTaylor
      @SymphonyTaylor 4 роки тому +29

      I swear 💯💯💯

    • @youwatch2muchtv
      @youwatch2muchtv 4 роки тому +190

      The world isn’t evil, people are

    • @tjdetroittheysaythetruthhu6190
      @tjdetroittheysaythetruthhu6190 4 роки тому +28

      I lived with a lot of people with very similar backgrounds. Everything is so real.

    • @Warsign01
      @Warsign01 4 роки тому +51

      There are more good people than bad.

    • @mrcoolmilli5724
      @mrcoolmilli5724 4 роки тому +53

      World is good. For the love of money some people do evil things. Demons.

  • @estarateta
    @estarateta 4 роки тому +747

    Girl I was dating told me she had sex with her psychologist when she was in her teens. If I ever had kids I hope I can be a good father so they can avoid predators like that.

    • @KidsWithGuns1992
      @KidsWithGuns1992 4 роки тому +113

      That’s severe man, a therapist is a highly trusted person. Abusing that is beyond psychotic

    • @SO01j20
      @SO01j20 4 роки тому +28

      sasholsuma are you okay

    • @billybrown8919
      @billybrown8919 4 роки тому +33

      That psychologist should lose his license!

    • @pashon4percushon
      @pashon4percushon 4 роки тому +8

      girl i was dating told me she had sex with the military priest while she worked at the building as a cleaner. she said she led him on and loved it. this was after we started dating and she didn't work there no more.

    • @milascave2
      @milascave2 4 роки тому +6

      @sasholsuma Probably not only did he not pay her, but her parents paid HIM a lot.

  • @farrasmit5486
    @farrasmit5486 3 роки тому +848

    She never let herself be a victim, even though circumstances totally made her one. She's a truly beautiful person. She's got some serious strength.

    • @josepacman1
      @josepacman1 2 роки тому +10

      A victim in what sense..cause it sounded like she willingly did all those things and not forced..

    • @nnhk0056
      @nnhk0056 2 роки тому +3

      She has antisocial personality disorder. As charismatic as she is, she's probably a pretty bad person.

    • @viorelrusu3321
      @viorelrusu3321 2 роки тому

      She likes what she does... :)))

    • @bellissimabombshell
      @bellissimabombshell 2 роки тому

      She never let herself “be a victim” but decided infact to work for a FEMALE pimp.. you feminazis have to stop pulling shit out of your ass and deeming everybody with this “amazing strength”. I have been binge watching Soft White Underbelly for the past two days and this girl was one of the one’s that showed the LEAST amount of strength in comparison to some of the other actual warriors on the channel. Yall are some
      pansies and it shows stfu.

  • @rojbalc77
    @rojbalc77 2 роки тому +33

    I'm in awe of how bright and bubbly Tiye is, considering everything she's been through. To deal with all those years of trauma phsychologically and emotionally is an incredible feat. I hope her sense of self worth continues to grow.

  • @simplynessa15
    @simplynessa15 4 роки тому +2389

    So many of these girls have such similar backgrounds/experiences that I’ve had (father /mental health). It’s so heartbreaking to watch. I hope you post an update on her

  • @mike12345807
    @mike12345807 3 роки тому +1319

    The part when she said and cried about "she just wanted her mom". Some kids are really struggling. Some kids cries about a ps5 or material things but some kids cries about the absence of love or a parent

    • @MeTreesndirt
      @MeTreesndirt 3 роки тому

      Efucational. I figured just happy endings via skilled hands.

    • @dreammachine5014
      @dreammachine5014 2 роки тому +7

      Maybe some kids want material things because of the absence of love of a parent.

    • @sonanvatsal900
      @sonanvatsal900 2 роки тому +1

      Some people shouldn't bother bearing children at all. Like if you gonna physically your child or emotionally abuse her, taking her to meet another woman and kiss that lady in front of your child, that's fked up. That dad was crazy as hell, prolly sadistic too.

    • @dusan5012
      @dusan5012 2 роки тому +1

      Yes, but the kid that wants PS5 maybe doesn't know what suffering is, mom and dad are there and the kid has no idea...so unless the kid is exposed and introduced to emotional abuse or material crisis how the hell would he know to say..oh I don't need anything I'll just cherish minimalism

    • @richmoroz9704
      @richmoroz9704 2 роки тому

      Sometimes you wish you never knew your parents..

  • @babesway4559
    @babesway4559 4 роки тому +492

    you never know what people go through man, if I saw this women I would’ve never guessed her life

    • @marjorie_muiruri
      @marjorie_muiruri 4 роки тому +15

      You would have thought she's from a privileged family and went to the best of schools.

    • @dominicbrogsdale3348
      @dominicbrogsdale3348 4 роки тому +2

      Never no thats why we cant judge. There people who i thought that where happy and next i hear the kill themsleves. My friend of the counselor and he tells me some super crazy stories and he even wondered if you people can be healed people asking crazy lies a lot of it starts from childhood

    • @jasminethomas7128
      @jasminethomas7128 3 роки тому +3

      THATS WHY U NEVER EVER EVER EVER JUDGE CUZ YOU REALLY DON’T KNOW.

    • @rainbowafrica3897
      @rainbowafrica3897 2 роки тому

      Dont mention it , it is impossible to accept the truth that life had installed in many of us!But by Gods grace! we are victors

    • @MsFlamingFlamer
      @MsFlamingFlamer 2 роки тому

      Yeah, just by looking at her I would just assume she was a college girl with great parents.

  • @BeyerEfendi
    @BeyerEfendi Рік тому +4

    Love how unfiltered and raw and real this channel is. No posturing, no attempt to make reality seem more palatable or Twitter-mob friendly, just straight life.

  • @estherhastime777
    @estherhastime777 4 роки тому +235

    This interview had me engaged the whole time. She is intelligent and can articulate her story very well.

    • @solidice242
      @solidice242 4 роки тому +6

      This is the first one that I ever watched to the end

    • @DEMediaDrive
      @DEMediaDrive 4 роки тому +2

      She's ok. I wouldn't say award winning.

    • @K25-c1d
      @K25-c1d 4 роки тому +1

      Because she doesn’t use drugs

    • @dontblameme6328
      @dontblameme6328 3 місяці тому

      Yes articulate with vulgarities. You have low standards.

  • @JennyT101
    @JennyT101 3 роки тому +1290

    It is impossible not to like this woman. She seems really smart and emotionally mature for her age, and she hasn't allowed life to grind her down after all that. I wish her all the best.

    • @TruthOverFact
      @TruthOverFact 3 роки тому +42

      I dont agree with your first sentence... she is accepting of her past and thankful for it. She smiles as she describes such gross, deplorable, disgusting acts that shes committed. I saw NO shame or disgust in her eyes. I do however agree with your last sentence.

    • @larkaiio3376
      @larkaiio3376 2 роки тому +22

      @@TruthOverFact ew, literally she was coping and trying to survive, you dont know if she was disgusted and even if she wasn't she didn't really know any other way. Right now she is telling this story from a much further perspective, but you dont know how it was like for her. How dare you judge someone like that? Arent those interviews meant to help us see how hard life sometimes can be and most of the times people who we like to judge just had really hard situation to go through?

    • @TruthOverFact
      @TruthOverFact 2 роки тому +17

      @@larkaiio3376 we'll just agree to disagree...

    • @Spartan-Of-Truth
      @Spartan-Of-Truth 2 роки тому +4

      @Unknown Herd mentality EVERYWHERE. So many useless souls.

    • @JustHereToWreck
      @JustHereToWreck 2 роки тому

      @@larkaiio3376 lmao shut up

  • @connerross612
    @connerross612 4 роки тому +313

    This is the kind of interview where I listen, and it changes me. For the better. Thank you Tiye for making me a better dad, because I listen and I hear the things I've done as a father and reflect and resolve that I Will do better. Thank you

    • @mistervertigo678
      @mistervertigo678 3 роки тому +2

      Puke.

    • @kpeezyforsheezy
      @kpeezyforsheezy 3 роки тому +14

      @@mistervertigo678 yeah! Fuck people who assess their own shortcomings and are trying to change for the better! Losers.

  • @ronleblanc4518
    @ronleblanc4518 Рік тому +5

    She is a beautiful lady who has been through some major trauma. I hope she finds happiness and heals 💗

  • @Jessicuh214
    @Jessicuh214 3 роки тому +1098

    She’s beautiful, smart, and strong. She’s very admirable. She left the system and didn’t let it ruin her completely. I’m so glad for her, I wish the best for her and her daughter.

    • @liggmabawls5634
      @liggmabawls5634 3 роки тому +14

      lol you said smart. She almost got raped at the job then went back for more. Cant make this up

    • @morganzoeclanthem2847
      @morganzoeclanthem2847 3 роки тому +7

      @@liggmabawls5634 She has an ATM...

    • @liggmabawls5634
      @liggmabawls5634 3 роки тому

      @@morganzoeclanthem2847 what?

    • @morganzoeclanthem2847
      @morganzoeclanthem2847 3 роки тому +5

      @@liggmabawls5634 She said she has an ATM between...

    • @y.k.9705
      @y.k.9705 3 роки тому +5

      We don't know how ruined she is from these 10 minutes. Most damage comes years later. Will manifest in so many different ways. For all we know she may start doing heavy drugs or start drinking. We just can't tell. How do I know? I've met many women like that in my life.

  • @georgiawalker4320
    @georgiawalker4320 4 роки тому +251

    This is one of your best interviews. This girl is a good communicator and young enough to still have a zest for life. Good luck to her. Hopefully she will stay out of demeaning relationships and jobs for the rest of her life.

    • @harlonda40
      @harlonda40 4 роки тому +4

      She so good she did her own interview .. I’ve never seen someone command his interviews

  • @Beiskraft
    @Beiskraft 4 роки тому +466

    Hope she's ok mentally. She's obviously very charming.

    • @citytrees1752
      @citytrees1752 3 роки тому +18

      She seems like she is on the verge of cray-cray.

    • @jarektank4415
      @jarektank4415 3 роки тому +5

      Probably not but it looks like she talks about it enough that it comes out fluently for her. But since she’s young money is the only thing she likes but she has to live with this for the rest of her life while the money is only temporary

    • @pheemer
      @pheemer 3 роки тому +6

      She obviously functions better than 99% of the people I encounter on a daily basis.

    • @Beiskraft
      @Beiskraft 3 роки тому +2

      @@pheemer Yeah, a being in true nirvana right there, giving and taking, it's all good for her.

    • @dontblameme6328
      @dontblameme6328 3 місяці тому

      Yea... The vulgarities are very charming.

  • @elle_aye112
    @elle_aye112 Рік тому +2

    I relate to her story. I'm glad she's in a different chapter. She is so bright and smart. I wish her nothing but success.

  • @timzhou3650
    @timzhou3650 2 роки тому +802

    I went to middle and high school with her. Shes such a genuine person. Full of life. Hope youre doing well Tiye

    • @thisperson2505
      @thisperson2505 2 роки тому +59

      That’s cap

    • @saiikou9300
      @saiikou9300 2 роки тому +14

      @@thisperson2505 😂

    • @Mo_Real_Official
      @Mo_Real_Official 2 роки тому +6

      What a cap

    • @turtleneckferret
      @turtleneckferret 2 роки тому

      Bullshit

    • @korerima6585
      @korerima6585 2 роки тому

      I dont get ppl like this, how much of a loser do you have to be to take a time oit of your day and comment that you went to school with a bunch of girls on here. I have seen 3 already smh

  • @SpcyYt
    @SpcyYt 4 роки тому +204

    This is one of the few videos on this channel that didn't make me feel totally like shit after watching the whole thing because a strong, intelligent, beautiful black woman actually turned her life around against all odds. Thank you ma'am for the inspiration and I hope you are able to climb even higher on life's mountain.

    • @deidramartin6762
      @deidramartin6762 4 роки тому +4

      How did she turn her life around?

    • @RobertRoach808
      @RobertRoach808 3 роки тому +6

      @@deidramartin6762 she works at golden coral and has a kid. Sounds like she turned her life around to me. Lol

    • @deidramartin6762
      @deidramartin6762 3 роки тому +1

      @@RobertRoach808 oh ok 👌🏾

    • @angelicadickson8666
      @angelicadickson8666 3 роки тому +2

      @@RobertRoach808 Sarcasm right?

    • @jamesw9250
      @jamesw9250 3 роки тому

      @@angelicadickson8666 bro right I can’t tell.... like if they payin decent shit it’s a pandemic !

  • @infotheballlastonline8139
    @infotheballlastonline8139 2 роки тому +572

    Every time I watch the videos on this channel it makes me reflect on the immense priviledge and good fortune I was born into. It's a weird feeling of gratitude for my own situation and sadness for the people in these videos. I hope Tiye has peace and happiness.

    • @sportsdaily6036
      @sportsdaily6036 2 роки тому +3

      Sadism

    • @sportsdaily6036
      @sportsdaily6036 2 роки тому +6

      You feel happy because of someone else’s pain

    • @infotheballlastonline8139
      @infotheballlastonline8139 2 роки тому +28

      @@sportsdaily6036 my comment in no way indicated what you interpreted it as. In fact, if you reread, it is quite the opposite.

    • @wge621
      @wge621 2 роки тому +17

      @@sportsdaily6036 you clearly don't know what that word means if you think gratitude for your own situation is sadistic. I don't think (nearly) anyone here wants people on this channel to go through what they've been through

    • @DH-uw3us
      @DH-uw3us 2 роки тому +21

      @@sportsdaily6036 Reading is fundamental. Comprehension is even better.

  • @michelleselman8004
    @michelleselman8004 2 роки тому +44

    Tiye, your insight and honesty was courageous and so inspiring, I pray that you continue to heal.

  • @mirandabisnou1307
    @mirandabisnou1307 4 роки тому +1505

    Judging her???? WHAT ABOUT THESE MEN THAT WERE WITH HER??? PROFESSIONALS!!! Doctors, teachers, MARRIED MEN, ECT. Yeah, these are the PEOPLE we look up to!! SHM. How about judging them????

    • @GardenfRedRoses777
      @GardenfRedRoses777 4 роки тому +33

      PREACH IT!!!!!

    • @RTRRT
      @RTRRT 4 роки тому +22

      Best comment! #FACTS

    • @brandiphillips5775
      @brandiphillips5775 4 роки тому +21

      I feel disgusting by her clientele and pity for her. She is so low that she accepts this.

    • @AhChoua
      @AhChoua 4 роки тому +20

      Who’s judging her? I wouldn’t..shoot she’s been through a lot but still seem so nice and down to earth ❤️

    • @deeperthengrafftv
      @deeperthengrafftv 4 роки тому +2

      Right

  • @01sapphireGTS
    @01sapphireGTS 4 роки тому +742

    Lemons into lemonade? Twenty four, crazy attractive, drug free, employed, understands money management, not letting her past ruin her future. Great job.

    • @BEE-od3li
      @BEE-od3li 4 роки тому +11

      Yes it is all about your mind if doing this is keeping her mind free if it is supporting her and allowing her to do the things that she needs to do in her life to better herself providing opportunity for herself she wasn't dealt much of a choice

    • @nejm612
      @nejm612 4 роки тому +1

      Just needs better folks

    • @bostonbrills6126
      @bostonbrills6126 4 роки тому +1

      Is she biracial ?

    • @puttinGod1st
      @puttinGod1st 4 роки тому +5

      Boston Brills she said she’s black

    • @richardcranium5862
      @richardcranium5862 4 роки тому +5

      Don't believe everything you hear.

  • @cherisewilson1577
    @cherisewilson1577 4 роки тому +283

    such a gorgeous woman , with a gorgeous spirit having to deal with life’s bullshit .. I wish her, her daughter , & family the best!! hopefully she reconnect with her mother .

  • @Malachiasz1983
    @Malachiasz1983 Рік тому +10

    It was absolute pleasure seeing and listening to Tiye. She has such positive energy to her that it is almost magnetic. Im rally glad that she is not traumatized but rather empowered by her experience in those SPAs.

    • @yanicyoda4762
      @yanicyoda4762 5 місяців тому

      Yes .She has Angels protecting her.

  • @amberleitao4727
    @amberleitao4727 3 роки тому +553

    She got me when she was crying about wanting her mom after the divorce. Got me right in the GUT ... and then for dad to treat her that way and favor the other woman’s kids.

    • @berniee7858
      @berniee7858 2 роки тому

      I Went through the same…

    • @tanie3543
      @tanie3543 2 роки тому +5

      @African Stories don't ask for anyone's age on the Internet, that's creepy af

    • @meaty220
      @meaty220 2 роки тому

      It hit me hard, as well. You could tell it's still very fresh in her mind.

    • @user-lr9cw9bb3k
      @user-lr9cw9bb3k 2 роки тому

      Everyone has a sad story. Does that make it ok for everyone to turn to a life of sin?

    • @pamgyang803
      @pamgyang803 2 роки тому

      That treatment by the dad, it's a terrible experience.
      She's still strong and joyful with spirit, stay strong girl.

  • @politexchangeofbullets8494
    @politexchangeofbullets8494 4 роки тому +201

    After watching this video, I went and gave my daughter a huge hug.....she is 5.

  • @anthonytucker9922
    @anthonytucker9922 4 роки тому +136

    She remembers sooo much from her childhood and is deeply affected. I hope she can heal

  • @DonjiKong
    @DonjiKong Рік тому +8

    The people who get on this stage and tell their story, their truth, are so brave

  • @SmallGirlBigWorld_
    @SmallGirlBigWorld_ 3 роки тому +127

    This has to be one of my favorite interviews so far. What a bright soul. I'm glad she turned her life around. This was very wholesome and bittersweet.

  • @s.w.1512
    @s.w.1512 4 роки тому +227

    So intelligent, well spoken and has a innocent elegance. Sooo much potential.

    • @tdog1983-v6c
      @tdog1983-v6c 4 роки тому +1

      Fuck off!

    • @manfredieboyd2071
      @manfredieboyd2071 4 роки тому +3

      T-bone right she don’t want to be saved 😂😂

    • @tdog1983-v6c
      @tdog1983-v6c 4 роки тому +2

      Manfredie Boyd the bitch was shitting and pissing on ppl! Gimme a break

    • @hihhgdfg6224
      @hihhgdfg6224 4 роки тому +2

      Ain’t nothing innocent about this women bless her though

    • @tdog1983-v6c
      @tdog1983-v6c 4 роки тому

      Joe hahahahahaha!!!!!! U damn right

  • @rikkisolovely6263
    @rikkisolovely6263 4 роки тому +2048

    When she cries about wanting her Mom... Every mom watching this had a moment.

  • @keithingram3428
    @keithingram3428 2 роки тому +5

    Such a great example of how important it is for parents to be there for their children wake up mom and dad somebody needs u

  • @Sigma2HisAlpha
    @Sigma2HisAlpha 4 роки тому +1504

    Sidebar: her saying that the boyfriend she has now makes comments about her being less of a woman for working there in the past? Girl, get rid of him. They will definitely creep back up in the future

    • @Gunny713
      @Gunny713 4 роки тому +61

      she is less of a woman..

    • @swappedoutZ71
      @swappedoutZ71 4 роки тому +79

      He dumb for wifing her if he has that opinion of her its kinda ass backwards on his behalf and dumb on her behalf to take that shit as well

    • @j.rlouis3756
      @j.rlouis3756 4 роки тому +78

      Shes no less of a woman but her experiences as a sex worker are going to clash with "square" men who have never lived anything close to that lifestyle.

    • @swappedoutZ71
      @swappedoutZ71 4 роки тому +18

      @@j.rlouis3756 women will have an opinion of her too, not just men. Women DO bash other women ya know. Just tired of the context that only men will speak negatively on her.

    • @j.rlouis3756
      @j.rlouis3756 4 роки тому +17

      @@swappedoutZ71 Women do do that but that wouldnt be a relevant reply to the original comment made.

  • @oni.one_simone
    @oni.one_simone 3 роки тому +243

    At first I felt like...is she for real, because she’s literally the girl next door type, natural beauty and a sunny disposition. But as the interview went on I felt her; especially the love she has for her daughter. We want to give them the world and shield them from all the shit we were not protected from. Wish you peace Tiye 🌻

  • @scv1
    @scv1 2 роки тому +572

    she has it all. dealt with the rough stuff, sheds a tear when she needs too, then is as pleasant as the day is long. awesome human.

    • @rustyvessel5086
      @rustyvessel5086 2 роки тому

      What are you talking about? She was a prostitute

    • @afellowamericanafellowamer5317
      @afellowamericanafellowamer5317 2 роки тому

      $pencer crypto:
      She exploits her body being a whore.
      I'm not sure id call her awesome.
      Guys always like the idea they might have a chance to hit that so she gets a lot of mileage out of that.

    • @DannySullivanMusic
      @DannySullivanMusic 2 роки тому

      you're right. 1000% true man

    • @AdamJWM
      @AdamJWM 2 роки тому +2

      “As pleasant as the day is long.” That statement is incredibly Relative . Most small business owners complain about how short the day is. So not sure what was meant but this statement?

    • @Mr.Oct___
      @Mr.Oct___ Рік тому +9

      The total package huh....

  • @thewatcher4552
    @thewatcher4552 Рік тому +78

    I don't know how to feel disturbed, sad, sickening, or just plain compassion. She is so broken. All I know is I'm going to hug my daughter a little closer tonight! 😭❤️😢

    • @coolmix44
      @coolmix44 Рік тому +1

      Amen!💯

    • @gamedog7236
      @gamedog7236 Рік тому +1

      Your daughter ain't her.shes beautiful!not saying your daughter isn't but everyone is different

    • @jeffgray6291
      @jeffgray6291 Рік тому +4

      She's not broken she's involved with consent. She likes it.

    • @markrobby7136
      @markrobby7136 Рік тому +2

      yes she's lost her value and her dignity

    • @lidiagizaw3828
      @lidiagizaw3828 Рік тому

      fuck outta here . u just mad coz she's strong and got all her money and got out of it

  • @MiracleIsMyName
    @MiracleIsMyName 3 роки тому +516

    It’s crazy how mindful and aware she is about herself... “Mind you I come from an abusive father and abusive relationship- so I’m used to this.” Crazy! She’s a sweetheart, and I’m going to cover her in prayer and love.

    • @devaughnchristopher
      @devaughnchristopher 3 роки тому +1

      EVERYTHING you said is 100% spot on.

    • @dgillian183
      @dgillian183 3 роки тому +1

      I’d like to cover her in “love”!
      The offer stands for you as well! ❤️

    • @y.k.9705
      @y.k.9705 3 роки тому +1

      @@dgillian183 Ewww. After a million dirty dudes? Never I would touch her.

    • @dgillian183
      @dgillian183 3 роки тому +1

      @@y.k.9705 lol I was joking

    • @kratosjunior817
      @kratosjunior817 2 роки тому +1

      @@dgillian183 Lmao you're nasty but..... I came

  • @rialee9789
    @rialee9789 4 роки тому +760

    All who say her stories are outlandish have to live under a rock. There is a whole sexual world out there full of your darkest and wildest dreams that people indulge in wholeheartedly.

    • @Queen.AnneBoleyn
      @Queen.AnneBoleyn 4 роки тому +2

      You better know it! 👏👏👏

    • @scottfulps2065
      @scottfulps2065 4 роки тому +54

      NO. People aren’t living under a rock, they are making choices to live their best life, away from darkness. It’s the rest of you who are living under rocks.

    • @chrisfillmore1193
      @chrisfillmore1193 4 роки тому +21

      In this case Ria, I’d rather live under a rock.

    • @4knewt505
      @4knewt505 4 роки тому +6

      @@scottfulps2065 some of us don't want to know but it's thrown into our path. Fathers and husbands that are selfish

    • @rialee9789
      @rialee9789 4 роки тому +10

      Scott Fulps keep your judgements to yourself. What’s right for you isn’t right for someone else. Ie: Its right for someone to eat pork and wrong for someone else.

  • @lk6380
    @lk6380 4 роки тому +154

    Her honesty is really refreshing. You can never predict the path that will lead you to empowerment and I'm happy it seems she achieved that for herself. All love xo

    • @omararreola5449
      @omararreola5449 4 роки тому

      Huy Nguyen empowerment nahh that fake confidence real confidence is hard not easy built from the inside out not from outside in from appearance

    • @KidsWithGuns1992
      @KidsWithGuns1992 4 роки тому +1

      Omar Arreola wtf you on about

  • @diyakhan3126
    @diyakhan3126 Рік тому

    She is so charismatic....i loved her honesty...she dint advice other young girls to do what she is doing...she is very articulate in processing the difference between normal and traumatic situation...you brave girl..i wish you best of luck

  • @shay2467
    @shay2467 4 роки тому +232

    She’s a very good speaker. She could do TED Talks. She’s so brilliant and beautiful. I wish her the best in life ♥️

    • @Imfrommars444
      @Imfrommars444 4 роки тому +3

      I don't

    • @shay2467
      @shay2467 4 роки тому +5

      @@Imfrommars444 so get off the page? bye

    • @shay2467
      @shay2467 4 роки тому +4

      og haha a feminist with 3 University degrees you mean :)

    • @adamgomes538
      @adamgomes538 4 роки тому

      Heres another example of people wanting to be perceived in greater way. But what's gets me is it UA-cam not the real world.

  • @medinagusalic8515
    @medinagusalic8515 4 роки тому +64

    I’ve watched this interview so many times.. she’s so strong. Taking her pain and flipping it into power, the best that she can. I admire you. For having the courage to go through all of that, and stand proudly and speak of your story. Fathers will never realize the impact and role their presence/absences and actions take on their daughters... all of them seem to think “I can’t raise a woman” or “I don’t have the tools to teach her what she needs to know” but in reality, they are the key and foundation to the woman that girl will grow to be. What she will accept. And take. Kudos to you babygirl. You flipped it to something so much better. And she didn’t let it consumer her... so much strength.

  • @jarrelelston7484
    @jarrelelston7484 4 роки тому +882

    She should go into social services herself since she'll be able to easily identify young women dealing with trauma and sexual abuse.

    • @francesmechelle2206
      @francesmechelle2206 4 роки тому +13

      I didn’t even think of that but you’re 100% right.

    • @indiredbanks1031
      @indiredbanks1031 4 роки тому +8

      Yesss so true! I don’t know the purpose of this interview in terms of if they provide counseling or a life coach but hopefully an angel is watching and can help. I wish I had the financial means bc I would sponsor her in a heart beat. Tyler Perry and Oprah are you watching???

    • @ryanjofre
      @ryanjofre 4 роки тому +3

      Amen.

    • @eliezeretecap
      @eliezeretecap 4 роки тому +12

      But women like her are too addicted to money to give up the lifestyle like that. She said herself she has 2 cars, and I guess she probably supports a loser of a boyfriend who still criticises her for her past. It would be to hard for someone like her to go to a career that don't make as much money.

    • @jarrelelston7484
      @jarrelelston7484 4 роки тому +1

      @@eliezeretecap that's an interesting perspective. I guess if she's happy there's nothing we could do to change it.

  • @Morganical222
    @Morganical222 3 місяці тому +1

    Shoutout to her for realizing that the sw wasn’t doing anything for her spiritually, I hope she can find so much abundance and healing moving forward🥺

  • @EasternAsia
    @EasternAsia 4 роки тому +41

    This young lady is someone you want to see win in life. Her self awareness gives her perspective and insight. I'm pulling for her definitely.

  • @srgreen1021
    @srgreen1021 4 роки тому +153

    When she was talking about her going to different women's houses with her dad and all the women having kids, I caught myself smiling remembering those memories with my dad. That stuff does affect a young mind. I used to think all dad's did that but we just couldn't talk about it, fortunately I grew up alright and now that's all they are... memories.

  • @winglesswanderer9667
    @winglesswanderer9667 2 роки тому +65

    She is so strong yet only broke down when she said that she needed her mom. I felt that

    • @trinex3332
      @trinex3332 10 місяців тому

      That is not strong, is called shady

    • @anarmustafayev1555
      @anarmustafayev1555 9 місяців тому

      She is strong for considering her pussy to be an ATM and objectifying herself and not treating herself like an actual human being?

  • @M3GRSD
    @M3GRSD 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow. That is an incredible story. How this occupation gave her a voice, and taught her to speak up for herself. I am incredibly happy that she made it through, and is stronger today because of it.

  • @DJ-em5ux
    @DJ-em5ux 3 роки тому +271

    She’s still hurting. It’s good she can talk about it. If you see this post, I see you. Stay strong. Love is real. You will find it.

    • @kameeleon32
      @kameeleon32 3 роки тому +1

      Feel that too.
      Great observation. 👍🏼

  • @Romenet310
    @Romenet310 4 роки тому +137

    She is really an impressive person. Highly articulate. I hope this doesn’t damage her future job prospects.

  • @SuperTharika
    @SuperTharika 4 роки тому +80

    This girl is so eloquent. She needs to write a book about her experiences. She'd definitely make alot of money.

  • @shanbraz6011
    @shanbraz6011 Рік тому +33

    This is sad. She said she was upset that her boyfriend wanted other prostitutes and not her but at the same time she was sleeping with other women’s husbands. It’s a vicious cycle. What’s even worse is how she was treated growing up though. We can’t be shocked that people do certain things when their parents put them through hell. I pray for her healing, salvation and success. I’m so glad she is transitioning into a healthier phase of life 💕

    • @edobwoy
      @edobwoy 4 місяці тому +1

      We have a choice to do good or bad. It's not an excuse to do drugs or prostitution because of a bad upbringing. Do you know how many people grow up in bad situations but choose not to.

    • @Jmac50-k2h
      @Jmac50-k2h 3 місяці тому

      I thought she was a virgin 😮my bad

  • @kayesnix
    @kayesnix 4 роки тому +36

    She has such a captivating energy. She literally took me with her down memory lane.

  • @miapdx503
    @miapdx503 4 роки тому +231

    "I just remember I wanted my mom so bad!" This is where she broke down. My therapist calls it "mother hunger." Moms, please, put your children first. They only get one childhood...

    • @savetrump1088
      @savetrump1088 4 роки тому +10

      Her dad took her away from her mom.

  • @DeeBest4Eva
    @DeeBest4Eva 3 роки тому +494

    She has talent far beyond that which she has even explored. Her confidence in expressing herself without being even prompted by the interviewer tells me she may very well have innate acting skills. Going back to school and acquiring skills she may have not gotten the first time round would be highly recommended and this would also help in her passing on positive attributes to her daughter,

    • @karmaking1263
      @karmaking1263 3 роки тому +21

      That’s exactly what I thought: she is not only very beautiful and intelligent but has an amazing charisma. She definitely could make a good actress, she’s very natural

    • @agneslabyselberg6756
      @agneslabyselberg6756 2 роки тому +3

      Best comment ever!!

    • @bmoregorillas828
      @bmoregorillas828 2 роки тому +2

      @@agneslabyselberg6756 facts

    • @markmcdonald1663
      @markmcdonald1663 Рік тому

      I concur with Karmaking1263!

  • @nikkivivian3502
    @nikkivivian3502 Рік тому

    Wow this one has really struck something in me. Tiye is such an amazing, strong, clever woman with so much self awareness. To go through that childhood, work in that industry and come out so determined and level headed is incredible. Tiye you will go far with your outlook and you will teach your daughter to do the same.

  • @ivylewis6926
    @ivylewis6926 4 роки тому +1480

    I noticed he was mostly listening to her. Hardly any interruptions

    • @veronicaglouster1713
      @veronicaglouster1713 3 роки тому +83

      she pretty and her story just seems unbelieveable for the way she looks...she looks like a girl i went to school with..simple and quite

    • @Ms.Delphine1204
      @Ms.Delphine1204 3 роки тому +137

      Because she wasn’t drunk or tweaking like most are. She just spoke non stop while following the timeline of her life without pausing for him to need to ask for details.

    • @snakecat586
      @snakecat586 3 роки тому +20

      Yeah this guy is good. I guess subscribing and word of mouth is how we get real journalism out.

    • @waynewayne8419
      @waynewayne8419 3 роки тому +6

      @@veronicaglouster1713 what’s wrong with you?

    • @veronicaglouster1713
      @veronicaglouster1713 3 роки тому +3

      @@waynewayne8419 like you seems to know..whats wrong with me...

  • @Pjay135th
    @Pjay135th 3 роки тому +157

    The fact that she still has a sense of humor after all that she's been through... I wish her well!

  • @Holden_Nature
    @Holden_Nature 3 роки тому +122

    I don’t judge her journey, I think she learned a lot about herself. The end was inspiring because having and finding your voice mean so much.

  • @JacksonCaesar
    @JacksonCaesar Рік тому +8

    My mother was a stripper, in fact she was one of the best in the area. My mother was so open with me, when I got older, she told me so many stories about people being into so many weird things... To be honest it did spark my curiosity and then my career (as a musician) led me into that world but it was a bit late and I had too many good morals to allow it to take over. But I can see how vulnerable people are. I believe everything she's said.

  • @alexangel4758
    @alexangel4758 4 роки тому +715

    Women don’t really realize the power they have. It’s sad that most of us end up enduring years of abuse before we figure out our own worth.

    • @cMercedesb
      @cMercedesb 4 роки тому +31

      What’s also sad is women pimping out other women, like the owner of La Fleur did to her

    • @alexangel4758
      @alexangel4758 4 роки тому +17

      CMercyy right. Hurt people will ultimately hurt other people.

    • @jv-ep2tc
      @jv-ep2tc 4 роки тому +11

      speak for yourself. MOST of us do not put up with years of abuse.

    • @alexangel4758
      @alexangel4758 4 роки тому +18

      j v oh yes because children and teens being abused and trafficked are weak for not standing up for themselves

    • @deborahwey4183
      @deborahwey4183 4 роки тому +8

      alexangel that’s not always true. lots of ppl who suffer abuse end up making sure that others don’t suffer the same fate. they either break the cycle or continue it

  • @kevDOTzxc
    @kevDOTzxc 4 роки тому +1202

    If you muted the video, you'd think she was talking about something wholesome and happy, wtf

    • @user1927
      @user1927 4 роки тому +58

      It's common, people are numb

    • @johnytawanamaker4169
      @johnytawanamaker4169 4 роки тому +16

      @@SonDeku-y5x then don't. Why watch someone's story to judge the validity of it? You weren't there and you do not know her coping mechanisms. Gross af to judge someone you don't even know.

    • @khoneyy4637
      @khoneyy4637 4 роки тому +49

      Trauma doesn't have a look....

    • @tyannajanae8805
      @tyannajanae8805 4 роки тому +7

      @@khoneyy4637 yeah they’re just saying how it’s crazy how people can hide it

    • @Dannniellleee
      @Dannniellleee 4 роки тому +29

      Dissociation. I’m sure she still doesn’t understand the level of trauma she’s experienced 😔

  • @Abi_Joyy
    @Abi_Joyy 4 роки тому +82

    My heart broke when she spoke about missing her mom.

  • @Vic_The_Hitman
    @Vic_The_Hitman 2 роки тому +100

    Her story is CRAZY & she’s a good story teller

    • @NoLineNoWait123AbC
      @NoLineNoWait123AbC Рік тому +7

      She knew exactly what she was doing. Trying to blame it on the drugs.

    • @Clairedog12
      @Clairedog12 Рік тому

      Really articulate and Psychologically perceptive, a new take on sex work. Great ideas like shutting off, new name,new person etc
      I just do not understand what she gains by doing the vid?
      Do they give you 50 grand or something?

    • @caramelkimmiekim8272
      @caramelkimmiekim8272 10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly she's trying to sound so perfect

    • @slideforsanrio3629
      @slideforsanrio3629 5 місяців тому

      @@NoLineNoWait123AbC are you insane

    • @NoLineNoWait123AbC
      @NoLineNoWait123AbC 5 місяців тому

      @@slideforsanrio3629 , would u ask a stranger that in person? Now go look at urself in the mirror and ask u what u asked me.

  • @dirkfukushima7773
    @dirkfukushima7773 3 роки тому +61

    Best one yet, the honesty is wonderful. Tiye is a great communicator, the lessons she learned from those experiences is heart wrenching and so heroic. I hope you win an award for this episode, congratulations.

  • @shaabosqueezy6599
    @shaabosqueezy6599 3 роки тому +340

    Didn't think I would've been so locked in during this interview. Her Transparency, allowed me to reflect on the many decisions I make as a father

    • @harrietnakalembe3861
      @harrietnakalembe3861 3 роки тому +1

      You are an incredible father

    • @cinthialopez9970
      @cinthialopez9970 2 роки тому +10

      Exactly, it made me realized how many of us could have ended doing something like that just because of the trauma. Now that I have children this is an eye opener to pay more attention in the way we raise them...

    • @jaws2210
      @jaws2210 2 роки тому +14

      @Dave N she works in a spa not the fucking opera

    • @sonanvatsal900
      @sonanvatsal900 2 роки тому +1

      I'm glad u think positive.

    • @vfgoditachyyy8446
      @vfgoditachyyy8446 2 роки тому +8

      @Dave N whut

  • @silk510
    @silk510 4 роки тому +61

    I just want to hug her... she’s been through so much that’s why it’s important to always treat people right because you never no the pain people carry.

  • @euclid47pha
    @euclid47pha 6 місяців тому

    I'm born and raised in Durham NC and live in Charlotte NC. This story hits home. Beautiful woman. I hope her life is on the right track.

  • @jimjimgl3
    @jimjimgl3 4 роки тому +336

    That was like a TED talk on sex work.

  • @EugeneTheDesigner
    @EugeneTheDesigner 4 роки тому +219

    Every future parent needs to watch this channel

  • @GoodVibes-mi4ew
    @GoodVibes-mi4ew 4 роки тому +33

    This made me really emotional , she is so beautiful and I want everybody to remember that your parents break your heart first.

    • @NashvilleSaint
      @NashvilleSaint 4 роки тому +2

      Damn this is so true!! "parents break your heart first" wow never saw it from this prospective but so so true.

  • @lani5287
    @lani5287 4 роки тому +204

    It's so sad how many of us probably had/have fathers and exes just like the ones she described. I hope she finds the means to heal

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 4 роки тому

      98%

    • @marrriiee
      @marrriiee 4 роки тому +2

      tbh energy vampires

    • @dramanot
      @dramanot 4 роки тому +3

      And mothers

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 4 роки тому +5

      @punchout statistically there are more deadbeat dads than moms. Calm yourself. Just cause you have issues with your mom doesnt mean everyone does. The story was about her father. Not someone mother. Why do men always need to insert unrelated information into every discussion about men needing to DO BETTER.

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 4 роки тому +1

      @punchout you're not very bright, are you?