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Don't Be a Donkey - Make a Decision
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- Опубліковано 28 тра 2019
- We are faced with decisions all the time. But even when choosing is not easy, choices must be made.
But the truth is, we can't really know which choice will be better, until we tried out one of them.
Also none of the decisions have to be permanent. We can always change our mind and switch. So don't be afraid of making the wrong choice.
The worst thing that could happen is that you learn something new about yourself and what you prefer.
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#donkey #decision
I used to be indecisive. Now, I’m not so sure.
How am I the only reply (as of April 2020)
rollvideo you getting better
We've been there
no pun intended? lol
@@Nick-ko1tw ye
Don’t be fooled.
Not all decisions are reversible.
Some decisions will follow you for the rest of your life.
Like?
"When there is a will there is a way."
Like deciding on if you want a kid or not. You can't change your mind :)
@@parenthesiscolon8706 This video is mainly focusing on career choices though
I guess if you buy a house and take a 20y long loan investing all your money in it, it's not that easy to reverse indeed.
" There are no wrong decisions.. (they are) just learning opportunities "
Unless you die in the process that is...
But that could be a lesson for others so maybe success should be shared with the community, no?
Like old rich countries did a lot of ill stuff, basically learned and gathered wealth on the expense of other nations viewed as poor and underdeveloped. Now when those countries grow they want to take the same roads, it's logical. But the rich countries want to stop them from various reasons, like protecting the environment or whatever. It's like wanting to impose playing on a leveled plain, the current one but one is in his underwear and the other has a mech suit. That's not really fair now... So it should be logical to stay away of help them to compete at your level, give them a mech suit.
But it's worse that old rich countries seem to become oligarchy ruled and the plain ground is kept as a gimmick, as it's ok only as long the mech guys keep their advantage. All is for profits. Stifle foreign advancements such as the case of Huawei and th 5G implementation and the rest of the nonsense with fake news and espionage accusations without any kind of proof. And care less about the environment, exporting trash, buying o2 in the form of planting forests while not doing something in actually decreasing their carbon imprint, turning decade old protected natural zones in to mining territories. And it seem the seed is unregulated capitalism all spread from the most proud capitalistic power, USA.
Deciding to go kill somebody is a bad decision my guy
This is dumb. because if you fail to big, your dead.. Lots of little failures are way better than 1 big failure.. Use your brain people
Wrong
🔥🔥🔥
Story of my life. I have been a donkey all my life, wasted years standing still unable to make decisions. Worse still, being an overanalyzer, overthinker and a major procrastinator has ruined my life.
the cool thing is... your life is not over, the ruining can only go for so long. You ruined it until now, fine. How about a little change. How about you man up, get out and get something done with your life. Good luck Halo!
@@johnpreston230 Thanks for your advice
@Steven Lee interesting, in fact.
Same bro. Same bro.
Pull et Together. Dont be the donkey! Be a magestic horse instead
"I don't believe in taking right decisions. I take decisions and make them right" - Ratan Tata
Ya ya I know a cellular company Tata DOCOMO
Money can make everything right
@@vysakkm3756 ohhhh.. do u know about TATA GROUP also..
@@jhingur7169 i think monney is great but like... idk man.
He mentioned, it was not said by him
When pocket is empty, every decision is good decision.
Don't let your analysis give you a paralysis cause it can be fatal!
You forgot that there is sometime a cost (not necessarily money) to switching. And other times the choices are exclusives.
Just pick one, it doesn't matter, whichever one you pick will be the wrong decision.
- Al Bundy
Alastor 😹
Words of wisdom.
I can't believe a 6 minute video can drastically change my life
Thanks
Having a child? You can’t go back on that decision 😅
You can.I like to call this highly sophisticated maneuver: "Yeetus the fetus".
Adoption exists, so you can put them up for adoption, the kid might not like that though
CookieCakeEater Can’t undo the act itself. Can only mitigate the damages.
@@fosterrico5546 lmfao
@@cookiecakeeater6340 its extremely hard to give up a child for adoption even if you have good reasons to do so. Even having an abortion can be really hard too, especially if you initially wanted the child them changed your mind.
Over Analysis can definitely cause paralysis. I’ve delayed deciding on a major for so long I hadn’t realized THREE years had passed 😥
I just have to pick one I’m interested in and then focus on it. If I change my mind later then that’s ok too.
Same here, why are we this undecisive..
Same here.
true but i also read a quote that said do you really want your 19 year old self picking your career path ? basically its just as bad to rush into it too if your not sure! I'm glad i waited as i probably would of majored in something i would regret and wasted even more time...
10 years later I'm still trying to decide what to get my Master's in. 😩
Hope you made a decision! It took me more than 15 years to realize what to do with my life.... And now I'm picking up where I left off at 36 years old
Always go for the water 1st it's mostly what we are comprised of as biological entities. Next after hydrating you will be better suited to intake the dry food.
@No Name Especially if it's hay
r/thankscaptainobvious
Specifically when you are about to die
First go for the water, then go for the pussy.
yea eh? why would u feel like eating hay if your throat is dry. of course water!
(Out of topic) whenever I see your videos my headache completely vanishes without me knowing and every time I see your videos it helps me a lot believe me I don't usually comment like this but I am being honest this is one of the best youtube channel in this category
HAHAHAHAHA "Who you want to date" as if i had a choice between multiple girls XDDDD nice joke man
U do i don't know why people think they can't
I don't even have one
Value yourself and aim toward your goals, and then gils will fight for you!
Once you don't look for a girl they will flock to you
Trust me, it's actually the worst when you have to choose
Bob Proctor says a lot of times that "successful people make their decisions very fast and change them very slowly, if and when they change them". It is written in Think and Grow Rich as well, by Napoleon Hill.
When you made so many bad decisions that you are to afraid to make any more.
You'll never have enough information in decision making.... This is the Crux.
Exactly - if you have enough information, then really there is no decision to make. You need to realize that in deciding, the choices will never be less uncertain, so just pick one.
Wow! Thank you so much for the video! This was exactly what I needed to hear right now.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤
Laws of serendipity...
me: taking 20min to decide ice cream flavor
better than yesterday: "we can always change our mind and switch"
me: oh
*Gets refund
Just when I needed, I was anxious about my career and this video made me feel High. Thank you keep up the good work
well I still don't think you can have a change in career so easily compare to other decision. So do take your time.
high on weed i hope
I couldn't agree with you on the subject of time. Time is precious! Try changing your career at 45! I'm 32 and back at school for the third time, trying to find a suitable career path and, trust me, it's not as easy as it was 10 years ago. As an adult and eventually as a parent you have waaaay more responsibilities and dropping everything so that you can chase a dream is nearly impossible. So, NO! You don't have an eternity to make mistakes and learn whan you don't want! Focus on your strengths and find a path that utilizes them. Get a professional help if needed.. Or available because it's hard to find where I'm from.
Well said
Indecision can better be overcome by discussing options with those you trust to help you make decisions. The reason we stall on decisions is deep down were looking for a sort of social approval.
What if we lack those with whom to talk to?
That becomes another challenge. You got to find your herd. We are a social creature, we need tightly nit social structures for our health and well being.
The challenge is we have systematically removed this in our Western Societies. We don't socialize like we used too. And the Cellphone Epidemic cements that problem ever further as people are having harder times socializing outside of an App.
@@chrisklugh true that. I'll try to find some new peers...
"one at a time and not at the same time" 🙃
I feel like a different person after watching this one video. I don't know how to describe what I feel right now but all I wana say to you is that thanks for letting me know that I still have 50 years to experiment, learn and find out what I wana do in my life.
50 years ..
💛 your attitude .... “50yrs to find out what I wanna do ....” So true. Such a great perspective. Thank you 🌈👌🏽
"50 more years" is definatley not a guarantee. Choose wisely or you may have wasted your time and resources. Something done have the luxury of a do over. Once the opportunity is gone, is may never be back.
@@abcxyz6606 I know that the opportunity might never come back but there are equal chances that we may get the opportunity also. For now, I've decided to live to my fullest in the present moment and if I happen to get my lost opportunities ever again in the next 50 years I'm sure I'm gonna grab onto it. 😉
Edit: I will continue to hope and try my best to make my dreams come true.
@@tejaswinisingh6645 wish there were more people like you! love it!
I was a donkey for so long till I started feeling that I am running out of time!!!!
How have you been lately?
I feel you
love you dude. you make the best videos. this is a realization i made a few years ago but this was a nice reminder, especially the part "you still have 50 years to do what it is you want to do"
i would often beat myself up for not getting anywhere in life and i made mistakes but its ok. all that matters is everything happening from now on. i am almost 30 and finally know what i want and what im gonna do to get there. and im not ashamed of not "achieving" anything yet. life is not a race. i used to compare myself to my high school friends. i like that quote "you should only compare yourself to yourself from yesterday"
I get the point of this video, but for anyone worried about the donkey, rest assured that it would go for the water first if it is thirsty - even if the water is farther away. I say this as someone who has three sweet little donkeys. ❤
Great. The points hit home and I believe I will be more decisive now. Thanks.
Same
There was this multimillionaire who I liked at our little meetings, and he said,
"The only difference between you and me, is that I've accumulated more Failures than you have!" 🤣
I've remembered that, and have been having remarkable experiences accumulating small, manageable failures ever since.
Makes me happy in my successes and my choices. Good luck! 👍
"We will almost never have all the information we need to make the perfect decision; however we must do our best to find out what we can, and then just pick one thing.' 4:45
thats how school work...
it teach you to pick best answer and don't give you damn excuses to pick wrong one.... it will blames you and gives you bad scores for your wrong decision....
Great I was a donkey before watching this video, thank you very much.
I am a donkey even after wstching this 😥
I was a donkey, now I’m an ass 😂
@@MaryShelleysNib hold my cow milk 😂😂
I think had the donkey been honest with himself he would have known that deep down he wanted one of those things more than the other.
Thank you so much! That totally is what I need to hear every once in a while because I really tend to overthink almost everything... Thank you for your great content!!
This reminds of the time I had acted like the Donkey. In terms of deciding between two topics on which to learn, I ended up learning neither one of them. 😢
Dude, it's like you opened a door to my soul and peered in. Amazing stuff, thanks!
This video has helped me immensely...being a dreamer who constantly generates new ideas, ive always had trouble choosing a path, but this video makes sense. Thanks, you've got new loyal subscriber.
Best advice I have heard in a long time
Same here
@@jamiuomoniyi9579 good advice right?
@@tabithacharanza2263 yeah...you are correct.
Your “stocks, real estate, online store” example is so timely for me because I’ve literally been trying to choose between those options myself recently. 😅
Thank you so much! You are the life changer... I thought about this but never got this good and short conclusion
In most decisions, there is also the choice to do nothing, which is usually safe (and valid), but then there's no chance of your life becoming better than yesterday.
This video helped me a lot, thank you. Now I appreciate the meaning of my friend's advice on non-straightforward decisions:
Ready, fire. . Aim better based on first shot. . Aim better. . 2 misses but 1 hit.
or
Ready, aim, keep aiming, aim some more... no misses, but no hits.
“Yes there are two paths you can go by but in the long run, there’s still time to change the road you’re on“.
What if someone is on Covid-19 road? 😊
Amazing video. Thank you for breaking down such a stressful topic ♡
I started college for biology, changed to early childhood, quit college to get a percussion degree, opened a coffee shop, taught drum lessons, and ultimately quit all of that and became a farrier. Lots of trial and error went into finding a job that I love. Now the investing or real estate example... that hit home.
I am as indecisive as that donkey rn in my life
I'm glad I just decided to pick one of those recommended videos and watch it.
It looks like youtube knows exactly what I want to see, I am struggling to choose between animation as career or just going with science in college, and youtube showed me this 😙.
Helpful message with a good example
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this :)
Thank you sir for making me not be afraid of making some important decisions
Many choices don’t allow for changing course once a decision is made. Some of my deepest regrets are found in these types of choices.
"I do not believe in a wrong decisions. I take a decision and make it right".
- Muhammad Ali Jinnah
Love your page, well done!
Thanks fir this video. I was having difficulty making decisions lately and searched for an answer and i found this video.
Nice video.. Keep inspiring and motivating
This channel is so fruitful. Thank you
Thank You for a short motivational video clip!💞❤
I love your videos! Thank you for sharing them with us! ☺️💛
Thanks for watching!
Fantastic video👏
Thanks for advice.
Thank you so much. Excellent video.
Loved ur video
It really help me
Thank you 😊
It is better to make the right decision, choose the right option from the beginning.
It will save you time, you will succeed right away.
If you choose trading stock, after one year you know it is not for you.
Then you choose online business, after one year you know it is not for you.
Now you go for real estate, and you succeed finally. But you have wasted 2 years doing other things.
If you could do a good analysis from the beginning and find out real estate was the best option for you, you would work in real estate and start making money 2 years ago.
Thanks a lot for sharing this video ❤❤❤❤!!!!
Thanks so much for this video!
Very good example..! Thanks 🙏
I've been such a donkey. Thank you! best video for me right now
Thank you.
Very reassuring. Thank you.
WOW. This is actually helpful advice to me. I nostalgically think I wish I knew then what I know now. I got helped by many older people when I was young, but attracted people who meant me harm, wanted to hold me back. I wish I'd listened to the right people. Plus it's painful when I witness younger people doing similar. Getting older lets you see history repeat itself, a wisdom only long living brings.
Today in UK the headlines are about nearly 40 Chinese people found dead from suffocation in the back of a lorry. There was a near identical tragedy some decades back. Their deaths were unnecessary. There was an air vent in the cargo hold where the desperate people were sent to. The driver though generally closed the vent. When they went in it was open. But before setting off out of habit the driver closed it. The contempt for the human cargo as sickening as trying to think of the distress inside, and of the one survivor who apparently lived from eating tomatoes. I've worked out why but am already aware this is the wrong place to post this.
Great video thank you.
This is exactly what I need right now.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS 💖
Thank you 😊
Excellent!, love this video.
As good as the advice is, it is important to consider that opportunities come at specific times.
Thx you for this video.
thank you for this wonderful video.
Thank you so much
_If you have multiple equally good choices and you cannot decide which one to choose, then it is important for you to know that the choice of not choosing anything is far worse than choosing either of those choices._
Just realized this a few days ago. I was a donkey for a year. And finally, after I had realized my mistake UA-cam decided to recommend me this video.
thankyou.. this was helpful
Thanks buddy for this info...
Thanx alot
Best social media outlet...simple
I'm glad i came across this, i didn't realise but i overthink every decision, even going to the beach for 2 hours i overthink/Analyse.
Awesome one... I needed this
Thank you Sir
Thanks for this!
Best video ever.. Thank you for this video
this is a very good one. thanks
Thank you very much
This is amazing
"The worst thing that could happen is that you learn something new about yourself":
"Yes sir, the house you invested in burned down and you will have to declare bankruptcy"
"Aww man i guess real estate just isnt for me, can i get another loan for an online store?"
Thats just pure bad luck .
Yea and you still be owing the bank for years to come for the house u dont own
@@alisami3704 not bad luck tho
That's what really happens in real life.
Story was beautiful and analysis shouldn't be paralysis but example here was bad.
Investment from poor people isn't like investment from rich guys.
If poor guys lose money, they will go to the point that he can't even stand again while rich lose money, he can invest on different project again so he will take back all money he wasted.
@Fire Within "I'm sorry sir, this fire was caused by vandalism and our insurance doesn't cover that, you will not receive any financial compensations for this"
@Fire Within most insurance companies want the money not the bills, acts of god, war, terrorism, civil unrest, etc are not covered (basically the things that are assured to cause damage), including events where you were involved, e.g. trying to defend your house from vandals causes the vandals to damage the house, then you pay you should have not got involved, well, maybe if you are rich, I believe the towers guy did get a nice payout
Thank you sir for sharing this with us
nice video , it really changed how i think ... keep the good work
Thanks for this
"I saw my life branching out before me like the green fig tree in the story. From the tip of every branch, like a fat purple fig, a wonderful future beckoned and winked. One fig was a husband and a happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and another fig was a brilliant professor,...and beyond and above these figs were many more figs I couldn't quite make out. I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree, starving to death, just because I couldn't make up my mind which of the figs I would choose. I wanted each and every one of them, but choosing one meant losing all the rest, and, as I sat there, unable to decide, the figs began to wrinkle and go black, and, one by one, they plopped to the ground at my feet."
Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar
Thank you
thanks man... for this story... i often get confused...
THANK YOU
At perfect timing i am listening this 😊 thankx !!!