When a Man Says "I'm Alright" | Men Often Suffer in Silence
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Brothers, be sure to check on each other. And, pay attention. As men, we are not only responsible for learning how to properly articulate our thoughts but we should also learn how to recognize when another man is not "alright".
There is nothing wrong with asking another man what's on his mind.
Men often suffer in silence.
I watched my mum die two weeks ago and not a single person outside my family has contacted me to ask how I am. Luckily I'm alright.
I can’t imagine that pain, I wish the best for you, your mum would probably want you to try your best to stay positive and take care of yourself so make her proud
Oh so sorry for your loss Joe. Am sending you many hugs and lots of love. You are so strong ❤️ Much love. Those people are gonna come looking for you one day. You are a blessing am telling you.
Stay strong brother
I have been there.Its not alright but men and women would want you to contact them.
Im sorry for your loss...
Shes watching from above to let you know.
I'm all right, too, brothers!
I think what hits harder about this video is that the men watching it are very likely just silently nodding as he says it. The silent conversation we can all understand.
I'm embarrassed for him.
@karlgustov9648 why is that?
@@karlgustov9648why
I wait till I’m alone to cry usually at night and during the day I can’t tell anyone how I really feel because I’ll be seen as weak
Thank you
I feel you 2 brother
3 suicide attempts and still battling those demons. We can all get through it, just takes a lot of pain and suffering, but we eventually break free.
Oh dear..... I don't know who you are but please hold on to life. The enemy wants you gone so bad, he has failed to do it himself that he now wants you to do it to your self. Please choose life regardless, no situation lasts forever. As long as you are standing you are winning. Sending you many hugs and love. Hugs to you. You will be fine okay?. Dont forget. Love you.❤️
I feel you brother, went through a similar thing and I just wanna say I'm glad you're still with us here
Find something u want to live for 🙂🙂
Good luck Brother,we are stronger than we think!
If you haven't already gotten out of those times, you will. You are important and you have ppl who love you. You may not know me, and I may not know you. But you need to stay strong. Think about how other ppl's lives have been impacted by you. You are an important part of this world. Stay strong and stay alive. Love from a stranger. ❤
Felt this on a deeply personal level.
This hits hard! I have literally said "I'm alright" to hundreds if not thousands of people. Very few people really get it. But just so you know I'm alright as I'm right beside you.
Me too, hope your doing good
Mee too but after I say I’m alright I usually go alone and cry because I can’t cry in front of anyone else
@@Waltyworld it's difficult for me to cry but yea can't cry infront of anyone that would be showing weakness which they will exploite
Most men live quiet lives of suffering and desperation wishing they could escape.
I been living like this for 22 yrs
God bless u
I'm living in this phase from 2007 but every passing days is bringing more pain and dipression
@@Broken_Men I have also been suffering with depression for most of my life
@@Paragonscales Just because Mens don't cry, people, government always support women over men.
It sucks when your expected to take care of everything and when they need help they always expect you to bail them out but when you need help you’ve got no one to turn too but yourself so yeah I’m alright too
I feel this so deeply. I had a breakup with my ex and got tossed to the wolves for the first time in my life. I at least had a job lined up and have done everything i can do for myself to make my situation work. But when I started getting my "mess" together the most is when I noticed that I had the least support, and no one seems to care how I feel or what I have to go through daily except my spouse, who is also a male and been through the same. Only perk i've ever found in being gay is that at least I found someone who understand exactly how I feel, because they've been treated exactly the same.
Outside of that, no one, especially my family, seems to care if I lose my job tomorrow and have to sleep in the street. And although it pays well, I absolutely despise being micromanaged like a child by someone 10 years younger than me who is otherwise clueless about life, and have to obey everything he says, just to get a decent paycheck. I truly hate my job.
I feel both of these comments im currently struggling with getting lead on by a girl i thought was my world and she was perfect for me i mean perfect and she went back to her ex and even tho i sense regret on her end i still cant change it i hoping one day i can still marry her but for right now im crying over everything letting it all out over a poor paying job probably getting forced to move and also losing friends left and right. But im alright
I showed this too my dad(step dad that Raised me) and he just looked at me then said yep and I swear I saw a tear in his eye when he said it Olney seen him cry three times my whole life i can't Believe this got him that close.
This preaches. I can see real men response on here. Simps will never understand. Glad to see there is still real around. Love you brother’s. Keep on fighting!!!
Thanks, comrade!
To the core....just keep on keeping on....grind on.....this day then next
This cuts deep..."I'm alright..."
Me2....just keep going ...❤
I'm alright too, there are very few women in this world who will understand your emotions so be careful with whom you share your feelings.
True words
I'm alright too
Legit tried to open up to my mother and she threw it back in my face the first chance she got never will I ever open up to that dumb bitch ever again.
@@wxlfgangfree_sx_sadd4469 I once opened up to my mom about a very painful incident of my life she didn't even try to console me.
@@drakecliff8378 sorry for you brother same happened with me.
As an 18 year old man who is struggling financially, stressed over College, and battling addictions, I'm alright as well.
Keep on going when you cry, alone and dont let them see you got this god loves you bro i prayed for you ❤
Keep....on keeping on....❤
Hey
This hit hard!! Very true!
Especially when you're a big dude. Nobody f***ing cares!!!
Bro....keep...on....keeping on......
my heart broke since i was a kid,and i hide it till now im 20s
Makes it hard when kids are involved. I’m constantly hiding it from my 9 year old son.
@@georgesrassi9327 I know,we don't want they feel the same
I lost my grandma when I was about to turn 9 on Sunday I'm about to turn 22
You ain’t the only one. I hide my shit 24/7
@@redneckjohn117maeby9 it can't be heal, you just being cold and ruthless to hide your pain
And strangely enough, that’s where I’m comfortable.
In the last year and a 1/2 I've watched this video several 100 times
Me2....❤.....just keep on keeping on........day after day...❤
I’m alright too brother…
Me too mate
Tell this to a woman and watch her get offended af. She'll lecture you on how women have it harder blah blah blah
Man. My mom told me this. She said she had a harder life growing up and I have no excuse.
@@rsolo9294 if she says that she had a harder life because she is a woman, she is a misandrist.
You're exactly right about that. Which is why a man LEARNS to INTERNALIZE his World.
For real
I love what he is doing.. We as women think that men don’t have the same problem ❤❤ stay strong ❤
My wife left me after 25 years. Said she didn't love me anymore. I hurt every day and I don't trust anyone now.
I hate to say this brother but usually whenever a woman hits you with those words that usually means that she's been seeing somebody else behind your back. But all good though, she did you a favor and time will eventually heal your wounds. Stay strong brother 💪
I feel you bro. Recently found out my wife of 17 years had a 2 year affair with my daughters ex boyfriend. Shit hits harder than a ton of bricks.....but....I'm alright.
I'm going through it right now !! Trying to cope!
@@drzoidberg7310thats terrible brother im sorry for you keep pushing hard do not lose it. Dont forget that there are guys like you still keep going forward
"Cast all Your care upon CHRIST JESUS, because HE Cares for You All. Be strong and of good Courage ". It is written. "He who endures to the end shall be saved". AMan.
Literally what i say when anyone's bothered to ask how i am
Honestly needed this after the year I had.. lost two cousins and feels like nobody cares and I just try to shut down any feeling.
I’m sorry for your losses and I hope you keep on going with your life
@@lonewolf-gd5wg thanks man maybe this year might get better.
Hopefully
We’re all brought up to feel we are special by our parents, and we are to them. But really we aren’t special in the bigger picture, unless we do something special.
In few words the message penetrates deepest of heart.
I come back to this video often, because of the truth in the message. In a few days, I face the day where, 2 years ago, I lost one of my very best friends to cancer. For those of us who knew and loved him, we each take on a little bit of pain so he no longer has to. I miss him dearly every day, but I'm alright.
Sorry for your loss brother
So true, and I'm alright.
Keep it up brothers, cause the only things that left for us are each other, and our invincible soul.
Wahhh wahhh wahhh
@@HKona7Shut it.
Only many men are dealing with their own problems, so they don't often have the time.
I'm alright too. Can't be anything but alright.
This video hits sooo hard. I recently discovered my wife of 17 years.... mother of my 2 youngest daughters.....had a 2 year affair with my oldest daughters ex boyfriend. Now....I live with this realization....my choices are lose my kids and financial stability and divorce or stay with a woman I'll never love or trust again. I did nothing to deserve this....I try my best to be a good husband and father. I work 40-50 hours a week to support my family and provide them with everything they need. I go to work then come home.....every day. Not chasing bitches....not playing video games...not being a drunk or addict. Even after working a long hard day...(I work construction) I find the time to help around the house, spend time with the kids, plus fix the cars or things around the house that need it. And she does THIS to me.....now I'll admit our communication wasn't as good as it could of been....but par communication in a marriage so NOT a reason to fuck your husbands daughters ex boyfriend. That is so disrespectful, out of line, biggest f$#k you you could hand a man that did nothing but loved you and tried his best to provide....but hey.....I'm alright.
Was there in my darkest time was in a toxic relationship with a crazy bipolar mess, financially fucked, living in an old rv that broke down all the time and had no where to legally park it and no car, if it broke down that was is it and could barely afford to keep going for two years my life was chaos. And I survived that. Alone, no one there for me but myself and I had to give all I had just to keep myself from falling off the edge. I survived that and now I'm doing what I love everyday god damn day, and thank God and thank myself for getting through to be where I am now. The grass is greener on the other side. Never give up. Never slow down. Never stop learning, struggling to get better. Never settle for less. Don't let anyone hold you back. There's no shame in taking a few steps back so you can take several steps forward. You got this. You deserve it. You're worth it. Get after it.
These years have gotten the best of me every time but 22 years after being born I’ve been alright and I’m still alright 💯💯 I think this is just what I needed to hear thank you so much for this!!!
The struggle is real. I'm alright too brother
It may not only be because nobody cares. It may be a big part of it, but it may not always be the sole reason. We say that we are all right because we do not wish to burden others with our own problems.
This man speaks 100% truth and it hit every man that is falling apart and... I am alright too
"I'm alright, too." This hit hard
Yes, its true.
My daughter Azriel was killed at a birthday party a few houses away. I still look at a picture, I can't... I'm alright
Keep on going my brother's life is unforgiving for a man but we will persevere I'm 2days sober from alcohol an drugs all I know is my purpose is to love the stranger I once saw as myself I want to quit but we must keep going much love to all you guys suffering in silence nothing stays bad forever fellas you can do this
still sober my bro?
I have a bunch of mental problems I was abused I have repressed memories and this man spoke 100% facts
I feel you I’m alright too
My dad was in the military and he gets messages all of the time about his buddies dying from suicide... He once pulled a little girls head out of a drainpipe...
Amen, wish I could have shown this to my brother before he lost that fight…
Men should be able to be in touch with their emotions and have support, without it seeming like they're any less than a man. Women don't understand the difficulty that men have because of the dumbass society that has been built. Women are pampered when men are treated like shit. This is unfair, but the world is used to it unfortunately.
Not a man claiming the world is unfair. Give us equal wages, then we’ll talk about your fragile little feelings
@@HKona7 What are you even talking about?
@Liberal Canki77themselvs wasn't this wage gap myth debunked already?
@@shaunvoges4820 Frequently but society at large refuses to acknowledge this, let alone spread the information.
@@HKona7 common courtesy precludes me from telling you what sex act you can perform on yourself with a cactus.
I’m alright too brothers….
I’m alright too.
Romans 8:18
: "The Pain that you're been feeling can't compare to the joy that's coming."
Im allright too.
Someone finally said it, thank you.
I’m alright
Me too brother, me too
@@cannonf0dder927 I hope you feel better
I'm alright too brother 😅
Therapy really needs to be free or at least more affordable. I feel sorry for a lot of men ❤
Straight like that!
I'm ok , I'm alright brothers....
Most of the men gets their first flower at their funeral 🥀
It's a sad reality that we live in guys , keep pushing 🫂🫡
This is so true. I feel like I don't even matter to anyone anymore. Society has made me feel like complete garbage. Just because someone says something doesn't mean that they always mean it.
I feel ya all brothers, I am alright too.
CHEERS to the those that are alright
I've been married for 17 years with three kids just found out she was cheating on me. I'm okay.
I completely understand bro.....I too have been married 17 years.....two kids..... recently found out that she had a 2 year affair with my daughters ex boyfriend. Now the choice is have my kids and financial stability taken from me even though I did nothing wrong and don't deserve it..or stay with a woman I'll never love or trust again just to keep my kids....but I'm alright.
I've been telling myself what's the point for so long
Likewise but don’t ever give up
🥺.. Thanks, I'm blessed.
This video resonates to my core, especially now. I sure can connect with it. I'm alrght too bro...
35:23 🙌💙💯 Luv this message
Damn this video hit me. Spot on!
Amen brother
When my uncle died, it was so hard to focus on anything else so whenever someone ask me anything, I always said I’m all right, and they always believe me
I have bipolar depression....and I'm alrigjt...not right at all....every hour of every day is beyond a struggle and never know how my day goes
Prayers brother.
It’s called ✨therapy ✨
@@HKona7ah, you again. Take your misandry and go find a feminist video to comment on where you will be in good company. This is a space for men to talk about stuff that affect them, and if you can't be respectful of that, then fucking leave.
Therapy is wonderful. I am a man and have done lots of therapy. But therapy isn't easily accessible for some people. The cost is prohibitive for some people, even with insurance. Availability of therapists is becoming a worsening issue (I am a social worker and I know these things), especially in rural areas. Also, talk therapy is much more suited for women because women tend to interact more through talking whereas men tend to interact more through doing. It's why men will gather around the grill, or a car they are working on, or on a boat while fishing and talk then. I used to be a skills worker for teenage boys, and getting them to open up and talk about things was damn near impossible unless we were playing video games or playing basketball or a board game or card game, in which case they would talk nonstop! But talk therapy doesn't take that approach. Also, talk therapy tends to be more geared towards validating people's feelings and less on practical problem-solving. Men don't often need their feelings validated, rather they often are dealing with feeling powerless and stuck and need help solving a problem in their life. Women, on the other hand, far too often can't learn how to develop confidence and security in themselves, so they become dependent on others validating their feelings instead of validating themselves.
Women too often through out these dumbass solutions to men's problems, but they don't know what the average male experience is and thus are speaking in egotistical arrogance.
thanks man, Needed this today.
He’s right: Nobody cares anyway! So, I just keep going!
100 percent, I’m alright….
Solid. This really hit home. I'm alright aswell
Im all right brother
Yeah bro.. im alright
Sometimes, when a man says he's alright, he's alright.
Be a reason to keep going tell your Bois your there
I’m alright too brother.
I absolutely needed to hear this.
Right now, I'm alright too.
Bro this hits me sooo deep down I can't even
I am alright also my brothers. And it's ok. We are in this together.
I always thought that our family felt that family came first. That we were close. I'm alright
Can't stop, won't stop being alright!
"Some silence...can be the loudest noise in the world" -grandpa...
I'm alright too.
Im also alright brother even when darkness consume us we have god who he show the light for the heavens to guide us
Yeah, I'm alright too.
At my jobs I'm the hardworking one who makes others laugh to mask my inner conflicts. I feel I can't tell anyone about the thoughts I wrestle with. If I tell my wife, it's ammo. Sad. But true. I've accepted it and I'd just much rather keep it that way and get through day after day until I breathe my dying breath. Best I can do is not fuck anything up too much, make sure I am a good dad to my kids and a good husband to my wife.
It bugs me that you are concerned about being a good husband to your wife when she isn't being a good wife to you. If she uses your feelings as ammo, she is being a bad wife. Period.
I don't know all the details of your situation, and I don't know if you have already tried bringing up the issue with your wife, so do what you want with this information: she needs to know that you don't feel comfortable talking to her because it will end up being used against you later on. She needs to know that she is being toxic and a bad partner and emotionally neglectful. If she can't learn to be a safe space for you, and you don't want to divorce, then you need to start putting up walls to protect yourself until she finally learns. I am speaking from experience, if you couldn't tell......
To all men that read this! Hold it down for yourselves and remember God loves us and tests our strength ❤️💪🫶🏼
As a man we have to be the foundation of the house and be strong for our family and to make sure that we raise our kids the right way...
And yes nobody cares how we feel.....
Stay strong my brothers, and let's stay alive
Because life is beautiful!!
Agreed! My own father doesn't care either... Whether I'm present or not, he simply doesn't care...
Agreed, it’s so much pressure. Especially if you’re the sole earner in the household. Though I would 1000% work three full time jobs to be able to continue to see that look on my wife’s face when she gets the boys up for the day. But, it definitely wears on ya…
I'M ALL RIGHT TOO, but I'm use to it!!!
I don’t even say I’m fine or I’m alright anymore. I say “I’m here” because I’m tired of lying.
My dad is about to die of cancer and i don't have memories with him so i sit with him and make jokes to pass time
Thanks you for telling people that brother I’m also alright
So true, thanks
im alright too. im always gonna be
Soon to be 50 and honestly it never gets easy, just how it is to be a man, its not a day job.
"If the true is cruel, than lies must be kind, that's why kindness is a lie".
It makes me happy. I'm not alone❤
This man is speaking facts. When he said at the end i just wanna let you know I’m alright too that ment alot 🥲
I cried! 😟
This cracked my bottle of emotion
Man ive lost two friends to suicide its taken such a toll on my life i hear the word demons and i cry so hard rest in peace boys look after my dog and bamp for me love you jasper and Ralph
Homeless and living with a friend. Lonely and constantly feeling exhausted. But, I’m alright too.