Ways women self-sabotage their dream life + how to stop (self-doubt) (dream job) (patriarchy)

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024

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  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 8 місяців тому +24

    “Nice girls don’t get a nice life.”🎤 I felt that!

  • @mei-xe6fi
    @mei-xe6fi 7 місяців тому +4

    Now i'll shout out to everyone that i'm an artist!!!!

  • @andeeverse
    @andeeverse 8 місяців тому +6

    The video came on time as always... i'm getting through a Hard time... right now I'm pursuing a dream(singing, dancing, video creation...) but I gave the best years of my life to a man that didn't love me and now here I am, 9 years later, 34 years old and I dont know why I feel too old for everything.. i really feel the social pressure to be perfect and I've always cared too much about others opinion... even when I look younger I know that a woman with certain age is normally judged , I don't think that men know that kind of pressure... grey hair is beautiful on men! Wrinkles mean wisdom on men, but on women? Im so silly because I look young but I'm an extremely sensitive person and now I have this dream that I want to fight for but I'm too scared

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  8 місяців тому +2

      I am sorry you are going through a difficult time my lovely. 💗 Thank you for sharing with me so openly - you're clearly brave and self-aware to post a comment! I believe this awareness and ability to share with others will help you navigate through the fear. Keep being honest about your feelings, especially with those you feel comfortable with. Sharing somehow diminishes the scariness of things; they seem less daunting when not kept to oneself.
      It's understandable why you might fear getting old; there are countless negative messages out there, instilling fear in women and urging them to purchase anti-aging creams before it's "too late." But I assure you, your worth doesn't diminish with age; if anything, you're becoming more self-aware, more grounded, and, I believe, more beautiful! ❤

    • @andeeverse
      @andeeverse 8 місяців тому +2

      @@alessiasutherberry thank you so much for your words Alessia. It means so much to me... Women supporting women is the most beautiful thing. Hugs and love from Venezuela 💜

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  8 місяців тому +1

      @@andeeverse Aw sending love and hugs to you in Venezuela 💗💘🥰😘

  • @marciafab7
    @marciafab7 8 місяців тому +18

    I love that we have so much in common. I am lucky to have such an amazing woman like you in my life. I'm so proud of you. I hope I meet you in person one day. 💜

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  8 місяців тому +2

      Aw my lovely, I am so proud of you! This comment has made my day! 💗 Thank you for being such a light in this UA-cam community. I will have to do a visit to New York soon! 😘🤗

  • @omotayoa5889
    @omotayoa5889 8 місяців тому +12

    Thank you for your content, a lot of your videos really have helped me reflect on how negatively I usually think and ways to be more positive.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  8 місяців тому

      Aw that makes me so happy ~ thank you for watching my love 💗💗

  • @amirahazhar4192
    @amirahazhar4192 8 місяців тому +13

    love the new hair!! what alessia said about being the love of your life really struck me...thank you alessia! spent uni getting in my own way about male validation and needed this channel when i was going through that.

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  8 місяців тому +1

      Aw thank you for your kind words my lovely 💗💗! I appreciate you!

  • @Jenna-vj2ju
    @Jenna-vj2ju 8 місяців тому +4

    Getting my daily dose of Alessia Sutherberry🌺

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 8 місяців тому +5

    Love this video on self doubt

  • @angeleeshaw
    @angeleeshaw 8 місяців тому +5

    Such a beautiful and much needed video. I have struggled with these doubts all my life and definitely need this reminder regularly.

  • @humaira2347
    @humaira2347 8 місяців тому +7

    love love love this video

  • @UNAMIAMUSIC
    @UNAMIAMUSIC 4 місяці тому +1

    Appreciate you sm!!

  • @Mysteriesandmountains
    @Mysteriesandmountains 7 місяців тому +1

    Wonderful video. I needed this so much. So tired of caring what other people think. ❤

  • @sinaw2844
    @sinaw2844 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for the video. It actually made me a bit cry when I realized that it is so true what you’re saying. Women are so much more than what they usually think, and it’s sad that we have to remind ourselves of that. Much love to all women out there 💗💗💗

  • @elisamina
    @elisamina 7 місяців тому

    tysm i watched your video while walking in nature hugging trees and sitting in front of the river i feel good now i love your content

  • @CatalinaRivero-fd3vb
    @CatalinaRivero-fd3vb 8 місяців тому +3

    Your vídeos are heart warming 💗

  • @aria8463
    @aria8463 8 місяців тому +2

    Loved this video as usual ❤ really needed this

  • @TanviOjha125
    @TanviOjha125 8 місяців тому +4

    I really love and appreciate your videos...lots of happiness and love from my side...i need a suggestion i really liked a guy and he too but we never talked i don't know why but i feel maybe i am fat thats why idk ....any suggestions???

  • @Zhr-hj3dn
    @Zhr-hj3dn 5 місяців тому +1

    soooooo good

  • @maravilleva
    @maravilleva 7 місяців тому +1

    I loved this one so much! Really resonated with your words! Will come back every time I feel low. Thanks, Alessia 💛

    • @alessiasutherberry
      @alessiasutherberry  7 місяців тому

      Aw thank you for letting me know lovely! Sending you a big hug xx💗💘🥰😘

  • @abbierichardson4916
    @abbierichardson4916 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you ❤️ such a beautiful video, rivers of wisdom flowing from you!Needed to hear all of that. loved those calming visual scenes too - helped me to feel what you said land in my body

  • @Cherrypopppp
    @Cherrypopppp 7 місяців тому +1

    Yes queen ❤

  • @yuliyasakai
    @yuliyasakai 8 місяців тому

    Such a good vibe :) Definitely feeding off positive energy haha

  • @banermorales8197
    @banermorales8197 8 місяців тому +2

    I Love it the accent

  • @UNAMIAMUSIC
    @UNAMIAMUSIC 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @findmewherethefairylightsare
    @findmewherethefairylightsare 8 місяців тому +3

    Love 💕❤

  • @Notyourgirl-nv7lt
    @Notyourgirl-nv7lt 8 місяців тому +5

    💜