I do that pretty often with people who disrespect me or I feel like I am wasting time. I just stopped texting that girl after I felt like she doesnt respect me when she responds 24+ hours later. I couldnt care less anymore.
I agree with this "chase mode" thing if u chasing sum u not gon enjoy the process, this why hella ppl got it messed up and are struggling its bc people are told to "set goals and chase them" but if u dont get to that goal u not gonna enjoy the process, this why u gotta jus do what u love and trust that its gonna work, like the floppity-sixers motto "trust the process" u gotta believe u gon make it and actually put the work in, even though sometimes it fails (like the sixers) u jus gotta keep going
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i bet most people clicked off the video 2:01 and didn't actually learn what he meant by absence, but for the people who did you got a chance in life
Basically less is more, patience is a virtue and absence makes the heart grow fonder. Plain and simple just chill let her come to you and let it happen naturally don’t force it.
Same thing with you being at your girlfriends house 24/7 if you are with your girlfriend 24/7 she’s slowly going to lose interest and she will not respect you in the long run if you don’t change that
31 years old, finally found someone after giving up on chasing and whatnot. He's speaking the truth. Love yourself first, and then the good things will come. That's how it will ALWAYS be. No exceptions.
Absence is key, I've had some experiences recently where taking a back seat for a while and just being gone has made certain people notice. One of the biggest things I've noticed is regaining respect.
@@game_theory2547 Maybe like a month or two, but people who curved me, disrespected me, etc in the past would come back around and be like "you've been so quiet we don't talk anymore" etc...I'm just like no shit, that was your decision not mine
That food comment is too true. I was in jail in Maricopa County and they fed us only twice a day barely anything. Any food commercials popping up on TV make you so hungry and when I got out 60 years later I really respected food
My dad always used to rely on people/family being with him all the time. Even if it was a small task like running simple errands that even he could do himself. Last year when he got a new job in Baltimore, he lives on his own and now he had to get used to doing simple tasks by himself!
Exactly self love is important if you love yourself people around you will love you for who you are, do things that satisfy you not whats satisfying other people.
Here’s the thing about attract mode: If you’re in chase mode, and you’re transitioning, it’s still gonna take time for women to take you seriously again. I think reputation matters way more than people think. And you’re in track mode for yourself, not the women. Let’s be honest bro, women respect guys who do things for themselves above all else, but they also respect guys who have respected themselves to the point of winning. If you’re in chase mode, you’re probably 3 years away at least from getting a girl. And that should be fine by you, the most successful person waits years.
YO I COULD LISTEN TO U speak for hours fam and ima “stand up business guy hood nicca” I love to see the black community speaking what need to be heard and this alot of shit I really need to hear famo u put me in another dimension wit dis video ima watch all your shi
Bro I'm from Germany, and I think the stuff you're postings are really true but also necessary for a lot of boys out there. I hope you will reach your goals in time, Only love from me bruv. Roman
You gained you a subscriber today I wish I could chop it up with u as a fanatic of your work but keep making these! And doing your thing , stay focuses
ima use my mom as an example. she wants me to go to school and become a doctor.(first of all school aint ma thing.) i will never succeed going to school cuz i dont like it. But i know ill suceed in this other thing im doing. and when i do, ill tell her.(i told you i would make it)
damn this video really made me think about my life , it really hit every aspect of it i know i got things to work on after watching this video highly respect you bro
Oh yeah I read something similar to this in mark manson’s book subtle art of not giving a f*ck. It’s called the backwards law. The more we pursue something the more we achieve the opposite.
it’s okay to take time to yourself and focus on God the right girls will respect you for that! then gonna want to be involved with what you building for yourself
This is a controversial topic ngl, some people think that if you are being too absent you attract only hoes, some people believe that being present lets the friend/relationship open up. I feel like the answer is being on the middke ground, not ghosting her for few days but not being too active either. And also, if she disrwspects you, doesnt value your time, then you shouldnt even be in contact with that mf
@@yaelk.8685 you said how do you disappear in school? you drop out You can’t hide from people they’re gonna see you, there’s no disappearing in school.
@@Broski1198fym every now and then?? 99% of his comments were weird, even Kam called him out 😭😭 it was funny at first, but bro quickly became corny and gay af
I hear you. No one ever listens to your problems, my problems are bigger then females. Discipline and constancy will always move you forward. Just like J.cole said… “Nah Man, the game is to get A bunch of paper just to change your fucking neighbors and shit I swear if men put half Of what they put in chasing ass into a craft By now you'd be famous and rich But I get it, you rather lay with a bitch” (Is she gone pop. - J.Cole) 🤝🏽
To all the brothers, kams is a great leader. But I also suggest lessoning to brother Kevin samuels (sadly he passed away…) but He gives great advice just like Brodie. We all want success.
I do that pretty often with people who disrespect me or I feel like I am wasting time. I just stopped texting that girl after I felt like she doesnt respect me when she responds 24+ hours later. I couldnt care less anymore.
Did she come back?
@@TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunkit doesn't matter if she comes back
@@kamscott4862 true
@@TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunkI did it once b4 and she came back lol. Talking bout, “how you doing?” After leaving her on read lmao
@@TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunkit works if they’re interested in u tbh
This Might Be My Last Video ❤
Naw frrrr
I agree with this "chase mode" thing if u chasing sum u not gon enjoy the process, this why hella ppl got it messed up and are struggling its bc people are told to "set goals and chase them" but if u dont get to that goal u not gonna enjoy the process, this why u gotta jus do what u love and trust that its gonna work, like the floppity-sixers motto "trust the process" u gotta believe u gon make it and actually put the work in, even though sometimes it fails (like the sixers) u jus gotta keep going
i bet most people clicked off the video 2:01 and didn't actually learn what he meant by absence, but for the people who did you got a chance in life
Attraction and respect grows in distance, keep yourself busy, aloof, stop caring what others think, because familiarity breeds contempt,,,,, peace
I always hear older men saying 30 years old will be the worst years of your life.
I'll keep it one hundred, this might be one of your best videos yet. Absolute gold.
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Basically less is more, patience is a virtue and absence makes the heart grow fonder. Plain and simple just chill let her come to you and let it happen naturally don’t force it.
This is som the realist stuff that I’ve heard in a while, keep it up Kam fr fr
Who else doesn't really need this advice but more so listen to the videos because it's true shit?
gotta listen to some real shit sometimes just to keep my sanity in this world
Fr Fr
Absence is for self development
Same thing with you being at your girlfriends house 24/7 if you are with your girlfriend 24/7 she’s slowly going to lose interest and she will not respect you in the long run if you don’t change that
31 years old, finally found someone after giving up on chasing and whatnot. He's speaking the truth.
Love yourself first, and then the good things will come. That's how it will ALWAYS be. No exceptions.
Absence is key, I've had some experiences recently where taking a back seat for a while and just being gone has made certain people notice. One of the biggest things I've noticed is regaining respect.
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That's wassup!
U remember how long it took b4 u noticed a change?
@@game_theory2547 Maybe like a month or two, but people who curved me, disrespected me, etc in the past would come back around and be like "you've been so quiet we don't talk anymore" etc...I'm just like no shit, that was your decision not mine
"Do it right do it light, do it wrong do it long." Wise words, thank you for consistently putting out quality content 🙏
That food comment is too true. I was in jail in Maricopa County and they fed us only twice a day barely anything. Any food commercials popping up on TV make you so hungry and when I got out 60 years later I really respected food
Wtf bro 60 years how old are u or do u mean 6 years
This was a perfect time to watch since I just spent a lot of money on gambling and lost and this just makes full sense I just needed to hear this
Bro I need your spontaneous speaking ability I got a socratic seminar in 2 days😭😭
My dad always used to rely on people/family being with him all the time. Even if it was a small task like running simple errands that even he could do himself. Last year when he got a new job in Baltimore, he lives on his own and now he had to get used to doing simple tasks by himself!
My kids will understand that absence builds respect
Thank you, Kam. Your video really hit today
A man who loves himself and knows his worth does not need to chase a woman.
Stop looking for a girl to love you and yourself.
Facts
real
I’m not gay
@@ezxdray-jq3mh That’s not gay.
Exactly self love is important if you love yourself people around you will love you for who you are, do things that satisfy you not whats satisfying other people.
You did it. You’ve made arguably your BEST VIDEO! (So far)
That last bar you said 👍🏾
Here’s the thing about attract mode: If you’re in chase mode, and you’re transitioning, it’s still gonna take time for women to take you seriously again.
I think reputation matters way more than people think. And you’re in track mode for yourself, not the women. Let’s be honest bro, women respect guys who do things for themselves above all else, but they also respect guys who have respected themselves to the point of winning.
If you’re in chase mode, you’re probably 3 years away at least from getting a girl. And that should be fine by you, the most successful person waits years.
YO I COULD LISTEN TO U speak for hours fam and ima “stand up business guy hood nicca” I love to see the black community speaking what need to be heard and this alot of shit I really need to hear famo u put me in another dimension wit dis video ima watch all your shi
Bro I'm from Germany, and I think the stuff you're postings are really true but also necessary for a lot of boys out there.
I hope you will reach your goals in time, Only love from me bruv.
Roman
Stark mein Bruder
You gained you a subscriber today I wish I could chop it up with u as a fanatic of your work but keep making these! And doing your thing , stay focuses
Big facts youngin
Thank you man you really save lives ❤️🙏🏼
You help me get through the hard times rethink everything eith a positive midnset thank you for what you do bro 🙂
Honestly im seing life differently since I am watching your vids.
Thanks a lot kam
Ay kam im ghost mode rn bro when i come back they aint gon be ready trustt💯
Very powerful message💪🏾💯
ima use my mom as an example.
she wants me to go to school and become a doctor.(first of all school aint ma thing.)
i will never succeed going to school cuz i dont like it.
But i know ill suceed in this other thing im doing. and when i do, ill tell her.(i told you i would make it)
I already got so much from your channel, a fountain of knowledge that I'm still working on applying.
The timing is impeccable on this one. Thanks Kam you helped me so much
We just have to take it easy stop trying too hard, our health matters our happiness matters, we must put ourselves first
When I'm alone I start thinking about myself and get in a very Bad mental state bro
damn this video really made me think about my life , it really hit every aspect of it i know i got things to work on after watching this video highly respect you bro
I do it with writing and mixing songs. That’s my verses never miss, my hooks godly and the sound 🔥
This message this 💎 came right on time I needed this ‼️
This video is Crazy good!!! 💯💯 the messege was deep fr fr straigt FAXXX!
This the realest vid u ever dropped frfr
I've become so callous, yet good minded, it ain't gonna bother who dips out or who I dip out on.
Oh yeah I read something similar to this in mark manson’s book subtle art of not giving a f*ck. It’s called the backwards law. The more we pursue something the more we achieve the opposite.
Bros my guardian angel 👼🏾
Starting the vid aggressive! Love that 💪🏻
this was the realist shit ive heard in a while that i needed to hear keep it up kam
So if chico lachowski or Damian kater disappeared they’ll become even more attractive?
My favorite yapper 🙏🏼💯
Real shit big up Kam. GGs
it’s okay to take time to yourself and focus on God the right girls will respect you for that! then gonna want to be involved with what you building for yourself
You just Opened my eyes, Thank you from the bottom of my heart Kam.
perfect video i love this coming from you, thank you
The more I look at kam I think he was what I wanted all along 😳
one of your best videos ever, maybe even the best imo
Dudes a real one
Gotta put ur self in position as well
I have a feeling He warned me through your videos and before this i was checking her on too much
i want to and i need to get to the next level because it just me that takes care of myself
W Kam W vid 🙏🏾🙏🏾💯🔥
FACTS
You'll always be my favorite UA-camr..
I admire you so much...
thanks kam
thank you for this
Real talk
This is a controversial topic ngl, some people think that if you are being too absent you attract only hoes, some people believe that being present lets the friend/relationship open up. I feel like the answer is being on the middke ground, not ghosting her for few days but not being too active either. And also, if she disrwspects you, doesnt value your time, then you shouldnt even be in contact with that mf
amma finna try this
I could have used this video a year and a half ago SOBS IN CORNER
bruhhhh, resonated.
Good wisdom
WoldHeartWam
Yo kam what you be using when you dye your hair
Burnt Cheeto dust
How can I love myself?
W Kam
All facts
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🙏🏾💯
W kam bro
Who els got a video video warning i bearly comment threatening shut down my account
💯💯💯
Bruh how do I grow my hair my hair not growing
How do I disappear while in school?
@@GuyVickno man what
@@yaelk.8685 you said how do you disappear in school? you drop out You can’t hide from people they’re gonna see you, there’s no disappearing in school.
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Good!
Where is PatBat? Is he safe? Is he alright?
Who is patbat
@@jjcox Finally someone who has the same question as me.
@@jjcoxanother watcher who comments something funny and weird every now and then
@@Broski1198fym every now and then?? 99% of his comments were weird, even Kam called him out 😭😭 it was funny at first, but bro quickly became corny and gay af
Bussin
Comparing womens attention to being fed and kept alive in a 3rd world country is crazy.
Chocolate man might have made his last video😢
Damn that intro hit hard
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Chocolate man clickbaits us for views
Patbat has a gang huh?
Well it's a good static
The clickbait was worth it
Ayoooooo pause
Bro changed the title 😅
I hear you. No one ever listens to your problems, my problems are bigger then females. Discipline and constancy will always move you forward.
Just like J.cole said…
“Nah Man, the game is to get
A bunch of paper just to change your fucking neighbors and shit
I swear if men put half
Of what they put in chasing ass into a craft
By now you'd be famous and rich
But I get it, you rather lay with a bitch”
(Is she gone pop. - J.Cole)
🤝🏽
To all the brothers, kams is a great leader. But I also suggest lessoning to brother Kevin samuels (sadly he passed away…) but He gives great advice just like Brodie.
We all want success.
No it ain't
Hell na i dont like that !
Saving lives out here