Widowed at 19 | A Young Couple's Story of Love and Grief

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  • @VeryLocal
    @VeryLocal  2 роки тому +48

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    • @Sherlock245
      @Sherlock245 3 місяці тому +2

      Have you look at melissa dogherty she not divorce but she gone through deep issues and you can benefit from listening to her. Nothing wrong being single.

  • @nataliegervais8809
    @nataliegervais8809 3 роки тому +52

    Most people never get that kind of love in a lifetime. You are blessed. God loves you

  • @zintakrakopa4492
    @zintakrakopa4492 3 роки тому +49

    I'm so sorry for your loss 💔. I'm a widow and I'm 39. I lost my husband after 12 years of marriage, 4 boys together under age of 15. He passed away only 9 months after being diagnosed with very aggressive type of cancer. I decided to take him home when we got news there's no treatment as it was important for him to be around family..me and boys. He was fighting till last breath.. he didn't want to die.. lot of pain, slow death of 5 days. He toke his last breath on my hands on 24th of July 2019 Time heals, but pain never goes away. You can't move on from loss, you can learn to live with that. I'm trying to focus on the positive..to our live together. Talking to boys about dad a lot, as youngest ones will barely remember him as they were too young. Focus on love we had and still had. Gone but never forgotten. His last words to me was how much he loves me even when he barely could talk.
    Courage ❤

  • @carlettaeastman5124
    @carlettaeastman5124 3 роки тому +658

    Some people live a lifetime and never experience a love like this. You were blessed and loved. God bless you.

    • @renaeremlap8633
      @renaeremlap8633 3 роки тому +16

      Amen

    • @karenperez8879
      @karenperez8879 3 роки тому +13

      EndLess Love! Beautiful! True Love, & God Given. Thank you Lord for Brady & Molly, the eternal Love you gave them. The Priceless Gift 💝

    • @dillon5387
      @dillon5387 3 роки тому +3

      @@renaeremlap8633 àà

    • @euneta
      @euneta 3 роки тому +8

      Young, beautiful and strong, dear life goes on and you will rise again, live each day as long as God lendeth you breadth. You will meet another love at the right time. Love your spirit.

    • @hasulfelt1
      @hasulfelt1 3 роки тому +1

      @@karenperez8879 What is the movies horsey moviesHorsey movies

  • @missionquestthing
    @missionquestthing 3 роки тому +222

    I was widowed at 25 unexpectedly and the things people say to young widows is terrible. This girl is strong and has an excellent support group. I want her to know that despite what people say, she isn’t obligated to marry again but also to know that if she does, she is not betraying her first husband nor her love for him.

    • @skygazer6898
      @skygazer6898 9 місяців тому +6

      People should not even be thinking nor mentioning this kind of thing to her or any other woman, who has lost their husband.

    • @otiliamanuelajurj
      @otiliamanuelajurj 3 місяці тому +4

      People forget about you when you become widowed

    • @yvonnerahui8729
      @yvonnerahui8729 Місяць тому

      ​​@@otiliamanuelajurj..consider to start a group for other woman in the same predicament. Go places together. Live live live..and trust in Jesus..He will make it all worthwhile & is our hope.
      My darling only daughter lost her husband suddenly 5 years ago..her 1st and only love. She is miles away & all I could do was be at the end of the phone line..it was 💔..anguishing. My 3 grandchildren have been through a tragic time..their dad was killed on his m/bike by someone who turned in front of him & actually showed no remorse. My daughter chose forgiveness which was better for her..she was so brave yet so lonely for her love & said she felt she had such the best love she didn't have a desire for another love. She never turned to drink or drugs/smoking..she would run into Jesus & keep looking to Him..and boy did He show Himself clear & strong to her.
      I hope you find comfort it other widows.
      God bless.

  • @suehounshell3027
    @suehounshell3027 3 роки тому +908

    I was widowed shortly after I turned 20 and after nine months of marriage. Thank you for sharing your story. Some times I feel like I need to talk about it but it’s not a topic that is easy to start a conversation about. I am now 70 years old and have been very happily married 47 years to my second husband. But I still miss my first love ❤️

    • @nataliemccabe3290
      @nataliemccabe3290 3 роки тому +75

      I hear you loud & clear Sue. I lost my sons Dad when we were both 18yrs & I’d just gave birth to our son Liam 3mnths prior to his Fathers death. 20years on & just now starting to feel a tad comfortable to talk about it. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @hayleybabe4905
      @hayleybabe4905 3 роки тому +9

      ♥️

    • @carolemuenzer5490
      @carolemuenzer5490 3 роки тому +65

      Sue your story is my story also, I was widowed at twenty after marrying my high school sweetheart, having our child 3 months before he died. We were only married nine months.
      I raised our son by myself for 4 yrs, I then met a wonderful guy who loved us both. We have been married 47yrs he has always been a real father to him. Life can really throw us curve balls. God has made my life complete.
      My healing came through talking about it. I am 69 and still can have some hard times when thinking about it. Good luck to you

    • @franketa76
      @franketa76 3 роки тому +6

    • @Alleynetaylor
      @Alleynetaylor 3 роки тому +28

      I feel the same. We we weren’t married - making plans and sorting out being young and in college. Because we weren’t married yet - it was swept under the carpet, never to spoken of really. Still not to be spoken of. It’s been 42 years, married and raised 3 boys. I miss him every single day. Also, my father was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer 18 months later. So in a little over two years, lost both. Sometimes I wonder if I married my husband because he is so different . If I lost him, it would hurt, but a very different kind of hurt. I will always be grateful for my family. So much to unpack here.

  • @lisabrown1578
    @lisabrown1578 3 роки тому +110

    My Husband Glen passed away in 2019 due to compromised lungs from cancer treatments. He was 29. I became a widow at 28 we were only married 9 months. He battled cancer for 18 months before he passed. He was my best friend. Miss him and think about him every day. Coming up to 2 years in a couple of weeks.

    • @bobs1356
      @bobs1356 2 роки тому +5

      So sorry for your loss. You'll get through it in time. It will he a bit easier.

    • @lisabrown1578
      @lisabrown1578 2 роки тому +6

      @@bobs1356 It's been over 3 years now I still miss him everyday but it's definitely a lot easier now. But thankyou

    • @naomisgram1
      @naomisgram1 Рік тому +4

      😢

  • @cathy5070
    @cathy5070 27 днів тому +3

    A love story for the ages. Yet i must exspress my sympathy for loosing Brady. KNOW HE LIVES ON.❤

  • @KimbaLoveAdams
    @KimbaLoveAdams 3 роки тому +177

    Some people live a lifetime looking for this kind of love.

  • @ginay4878
    @ginay4878 4 місяці тому +40

    Glad to read that Molly has found love again and is married

    • @Angela-vy5ok
      @Angela-vy5ok 3 місяці тому +9

      That is so nice to hear.

  • @jdemola55
    @jdemola55 3 роки тому +551

    I married my husband at 19... he was 23. I just lost him after almost 46 years. I can’t imagine losing him when I was 19. I am so sorry for this young woman of God. Because of her faith, just like mine, she can see the light... it is Jesus! God bless you always!

    • @afropurplemallu5618
      @afropurplemallu5618 3 роки тому +10

      Then you were a widow for 46 years don't you think about a new family.......... My mom widowed at 35 she is still a widow...... I am scared that she will became alone after I am capable to stay on my own legs.... She need to begin a new life don't she?........... 😞😞😞

    • @BLOGBOSSJA
      @BLOGBOSSJA 3 роки тому +9

      sorry for your lost 😞

    • @diamondleigh7280
      @diamondleigh7280 3 роки тому +26

      @@afropurplemallu5618 She's saying her and her husband spent 46 yrs together.... She's recently became a widow ( to my understanding). However as far as your mom, she may be content with being alone. As long as she's happy that's all that matters.... If she doesn't want to move on then don't force it, I know you're concerned about her however just love and pray for her... Sending positive energy and loving prayers for you and your family 💗💜💗

    • @afropurplemallu5618
      @afropurplemallu5618 3 роки тому +11

      @@diamondleigh7280 You r correct my meaning twisted in a fast reading or typing 😂. Your words r really matured and thanks for your merciful mind to pray for my family 🙏. Now I am on my knees for U ✨️😘💖💜

    • @diamondleigh7280
      @diamondleigh7280 3 роки тому +8

      @@afropurplemallu5618 Aw thank you, that was sweet..... 🦋 Take care

  • @shannimarie1857
    @shannimarie1857 3 місяці тому +6

    These two had more love in a short time than most have in a lifetime.

  • @sarahmiller5700
    @sarahmiller5700 3 роки тому +336

    Mollie goes to the same college that I do- it is truly incredible hearing her story and then watching her live her life to the fullest.

  • @mistyessinger5090
    @mistyessinger5090 Рік тому +69

    No one knows what a widow goes through except other widows! From a widow, thank you for this! 🙏💚🌻

    • @SuperGigi06
      @SuperGigi06 Рік тому +5

      Yes only other widows understand and it doesn't matter what your age is when you go through it. Hasn't even been one year since I lost my husband.

    • @rosemagyar1207
      @rosemagyar1207 Рік тому +1

      Amen to that

    • @expo1706
      @expo1706 Рік тому +2

      True. My sister was widowed at 41 years old with 5 children, ranging from 1 to 16 years old. My brother in law was seemingly healthy and just died suddenly from a massive heart attack over night. He was only 48. He lived a healthy lifestyle. Never smoked, didn't take drugs or drink ever, but his job for the type of engineering he did required frequent traveling.

    • @geraldkneeland1498
      @geraldkneeland1498 Рік тому +2

      Praying for the Lord Jesus Christ to comforts all widows and meet all their needs 🙏🙏.

  • @JanineRupp697
    @JanineRupp697 3 роки тому +37

    I lost the love of my life to testicular cancer when I was 20 and he was 26..losing someone that young changes ones perspective forever..never take loved ones for granted..we never know how much time we are given with them..

  • @parrotsandmore7446
    @parrotsandmore7446 3 роки тому +58

    Your story is very similar too mine, except I was 21 when he passed and I had his 3yr old daughter who didn’t understand and she thought he was coming back for a few years. It was sooo hard to stay strong and explain to her that he was in heaven and he will live in our hearts. ❤️ She is now 23 (older than her dad was when he passed) and she is pregnant! So Even though Gary is gone, we are about to become grandparents!! I love that he is still alive through my daughter who looks very much like him!! The pain never goes away, and you will randomly break down in tears, even 20yrs from now. But you will always have the true love story to look back on. In the end, we were very lucky to have that one of a kind love once upon a time! 💞

  • @cynthiat6505
    @cynthiat6505 3 місяці тому +10

    Jesus is so sweet! He is so gentle for our soul and understands all our tears. More than anyone can. Bless you dear girl!

  • @camarogirl1369
    @camarogirl1369 3 місяці тому +15

    These two are so amazing!!
    I met my husband when I was 16, he was 19. We were engaged 3 months after we met. We got the typical “you’re too young” and “it won’t last”. This October we will be celebrating our 30 year anniversary and have been together for 32 years.

  • @katiejurado2265
    @katiejurado2265 Рік тому +4

    What a beautiful love story! Every woman wishes to be loved as you were loved. Every man wishes to be loved as you loved Brady. You and he were grounded in Christ and so you knew true love.

  • @hillarylopes7557
    @hillarylopes7557 3 роки тому +429

    The Lord chose you to go on this journey together. The Lord trusted you to fulfill Brady's short life. I don't see cancer I see Brady's smile and it's because of you.

  • @ALanLovesJesus
    @ALanLovesJesus 5 місяців тому +12

    Knowing he is in Heaven must bring great peace. He loved the Lord and was on that narrow path. So comforting.

  • @beverlyononye
    @beverlyononye 3 роки тому +107

    Next Thursday will make it a year since i lost my husband and even though a lot of people dont get it, i thank the Lord daily for the opportunity to have been married to him for 10yrs. Its hard but to live is CHRIST.❤

    • @rachelbass7914
      @rachelbass7914 3 роки тому +1

      💜

    • @cherylwebb8340
      @cherylwebb8340 3 роки тому +2

      💞🙏😔

    • @beverlyononye
      @beverlyononye 3 роки тому +4

      @@DaisyandJesus116 oh you will sis. The love of the Father is real and if you focus on giving Him all the love He's put in you, you'll be amazed❤

    • @shaz8486
      @shaz8486 3 роки тому +4

      Sorry for your loss, I understand, though I haven’t lost my husband, we have lost our 18 yrs young son.
      Until people experience a true loss of someone so close, they just don’t get it, and yes it’s so hard to live each day. You just learn to live each day without them in it. Some days I want to give up and it’s been 16 years now. It’s something that’s always there, it never goes away.
      I pray you find peace and happiness and remember the wonderful years and memories you had together, that’s what gets me through some days. 🙏🏻❤️

    • @beverlyononye
      @beverlyononye 3 роки тому +1

      @@shaz8486 thank you so much!

  • @jennieemrich2168
    @jennieemrich2168 Місяць тому +2

    You made the rest of his life the BEST of his life!!!❤

  • @AS-yz2iz
    @AS-yz2iz 3 роки тому +56

    I'm so sorry that you lost the love of your life so young. You were a true blessing to Brady.
    My son was diagnosed with leukemia just after he turned 19. He had a girlfriend who visited him several times a week as he spent 6 1/2 months in the hospital receiving intense chemotherapy. He is in remission now, and they're still together, 3 years later. She's been such a blessing to him.

  • @rosegarrison5268
    @rosegarrison5268 3 роки тому +122

    A true love story ❤. You found true love that most couples only dream about. I am sure Brady is smiling down on you and remember one day soon you will join him in heaven for all eternity. May God bless and keep you in His care always.

    • @mpdoriscar
      @mpdoriscar 3 роки тому +6

      According to Scripture "the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not anything, neither have they any more a reward: for the memory of them is forgotten. Their love, hatred , envy is perished...Ecc. 9:5,6. The Lord shall descend from heaven with a shout...and the dead in Christ shall rise first.1Thess. 4:16 Brady will be resurrected to receive an immortal sinless body; this will be the fulfillment of his faith. He's still in the grave.

  • @crystalmasters8582
    @crystalmasters8582 3 роки тому +37

    I’m so sorry baby girl. I was widowed at 18, 6 months in. It’s so horrible. But now I’m 20 years in, I love you and you’ll love again too. I hope. We all need to be held. I’m so happy you had so many years together.

  • @semihomemade3293
    @semihomemade3293 3 роки тому +137

    I just found your story molly and it's very similair to my own. I met my husband when we were 12. He came to visit his uncle and left to go back to NC. He came back at 16 and we just connected from the moment he said "yeah you can" when I said very rudely can I help you 🤣. While he was in NC those 4 years they discovered his tumor. I knew how this could all end, but he had my heart from 12 years old. We were together 8 years and friends for 12 years. We went through so many surgeries, financial instability, but we had 2 beautiful children, married for 15 months and had amazing family support. It's been almost 9 years now and it took me a while to come to terms that maybe he saved me from my high school immaturity and I gave him a family before he passed. I miss him every day, but I wouldn't change it even if I knew the end result would be the same. I'm very sorry for your loss, but I didn't want you to think your alone ❤

    • @bonnienelson7373
      @bonnienelson7373 3 роки тому +22

      I think this is so kind of you to message Molly. If it were me, I would love to talk to someone who went through the same kind of story. God bless both of you & your children. ❤

    • @bobshaw4063
      @bobshaw4063 3 роки тому +13

      I;m so sorry for your losss . May your dear husband RIP .

    • @myrnalacsamana234
      @myrnalacsamana234 3 роки тому +5

      @@bonnienelson7373 o

  • @katiedubuque7481
    @katiedubuque7481 3 роки тому +34

    He's waiting for you in Heaven Mollie you'll see him again one day🥰 thank you so much for sharing Brady's story with us. Your love for each other will last for eternity and his legacy lives on through you❤️

  • @rainerscharfenberg5374
    @rainerscharfenberg5374 3 роки тому +53

    Mollie you are absolutely right, people who have never lost someone have no idea what grief is. I lost my oldest son on January 2020 and it is a very hard journey to go through. The pain will never go away, but I’m told by someone who went through the same that it does slowly get easier. It’s going to be a long and rough journey.

    • @logo9470
      @logo9470 Рік тому +9

      I pray you are continuing to heal. Sending you love and hugs ❤🫶

    • @cherry-annfrancis-lau3392
      @cherry-annfrancis-lau3392 Рік тому +6

      No it never goes away, some says it gets easier but for me it is getting harder as I reflect upon her life and illness there is so much I began to realise I could have done differently. She was only 25, 16 years ago, yet she scarificed her life so her baby can have life, a baby who she hardly knew. The baby, now a teenager had a mom whom he too never knew. It breaks my heart everyday, she was my daughter and I loved her.

  • @Hurricane-nv1yx
    @Hurricane-nv1yx 3 роки тому +369

    She is so articulate she should most definitely have a UA-cam channel. I'd love to watch and support her even more.

  • @melaniejonker8828
    @melaniejonker8828 3 роки тому +23

    And she told this heart sore story with a beautiful smile on her face .... Ironically their smiles on every picture make this even more touching. Hats off for you my sweetheart, you are one wise, beautiful and strong woman.

  • @paulastrong7571
    @paulastrong7571 3 роки тому +42

    What a heartbreaking story. She is so articulate and thoughtful than many people I know, many years older. Bless you!

  • @tracibuckley9314
    @tracibuckley9314 3 місяці тому +7

    You’re an old soul and a beautiful writer! I am almost 44 years old and have never had that kind of love! You are blessed, while also heartbroken. I dare to say that the only love I’ve even remotely experienced is the love I have for my daughter. This too can be bittersweet at times, as she is 7.5 years old with autism. She is nonverbal and still in diapers. And although I’ve never heard the words “I love you Mommy”, I have felt her love. Gratitude. Seeing what we have rather than what we don’t have or what we’ve lost, is the only way to keep smiling. You’re going to do great things! With Brady’s love and positivity right there with you through it all! ✌🏼❤️

  • @debraholz9756
    @debraholz9756 3 роки тому +7

    so. i found the love of my life at 64. He's now 60. I treasure every moment because at our respective ages, I don't know how much time we have left. thank you for your story.

  • @roseguzmanchin
    @roseguzmanchin 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you Father/Abba for your saints.

  • @kathyferrara4444
    @kathyferrara4444 Рік тому +17

    My first marriage ended in divorce but not because we did not love each other but because of alcoholism. He was the absolute love of my life and my soul mate. But sadly it was not meant to be. I began to date again and found a wonderful who I eventually married in 2007. In 2009 my first husband passed away from cirrhosis of the liver. It gutted me and I grieved for a long time. My current husband was so kind and understanding. He asked me questions about my first love and even now I find myself thinking about him and the life we planned together. Love does come again. It is different but just as beautiful. Brady will always be your first everything and you will remember and tell your story over and over. May God bless you and give you comfort and peace n

  • @darrenkarena6569
    @darrenkarena6569 Рік тому +55

    I married my soulmate at 54 he passed away 23 days later. Your story helps me so much to know he is in gods kingdom ❤

    • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
      @JodiLeaSnakeQueen Рік тому +1

      Oh no. I'm so sorry. May I ask what happened?

    • @DaisyandJesus116
      @DaisyandJesus116 Рік тому +1

      I'm 45 and never been married. 😢 I thought I was in love but different religions tore us apart. I doubt I'll find love.

    • @elizabethalvarez4819
      @elizabethalvarez4819 4 місяці тому +1

      Mine: married him at 49, lost him 4 days before my 50th

    • @elizabethalvarez4819
      @elizabethalvarez4819 4 місяці тому +1

      Of pancreatic cancer

  • @tessah1730
    @tessah1730 2 місяці тому +3

    love that youre vocal about your love for Jesus

  • @jengarc77
    @jengarc77 3 роки тому +105

    Omg......my chest, head and throat are hurting from crying so much. Such a heartwrenching story. The world could learn some lessons in faith from these young people

    • @ShanaLawson
      @ShanaLawson 3 роки тому +2

      The throat burn is real.

    • @aywa1578
      @aywa1578 3 роки тому

      I shed some tears. She is a very brave person.

  • @davidpeterman8471
    @davidpeterman8471 Рік тому +6

    I lost my wife the same year. She had just turned 45. We had almost 22 years of marriage. I concur, many don't understand grief. I was one that didn't understand before I was personally introduced.

  • @jlongino51823
    @jlongino51823 Місяць тому +2

    May God bless everyone of y’all in these comments. Y’all got me crying. ❤

  • @kathyranne1799
    @kathyranne1799 3 роки тому +33

    Molly please keep us updated on your life and what goes on. The man you do meet will be the luckiest man alive

  • @raleighmann3368
    @raleighmann3368 3 роки тому +39

    I became a widow at 22yr and we were married 6yr. he's now gone 47yr, I met him when I was 14yr. He too was my everything, we had 1 son who was 4yr when he died

    • @kjones3748
      @kjones3748 3 роки тому +5

      Im so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what it would be like to lose someone like that and that young♥️ also you got married at 16??

    • @beachbetty2060
      @beachbetty2060 3 роки тому +2

      I am so very sorry for your losses. Sending you love, light and prayers. They’ll both be waiting for you in Heaven, of that I’m sure. I hope it gives you comfort to know that.

    • @Rebecca-nx5ec
      @Rebecca-nx5ec 4 місяці тому

      I hope your still living your best life,maybe a daughter in law and maybe grand babies too, 💕🙏🕊️

  • @ginaseale8590
    @ginaseale8590 3 роки тому +4

    Wow he died on my birthday 😞November 25, such a heartbreaking story I pray that she will find love again and God will give her peace🙏

  • @samhead2127
    @samhead2127 3 роки тому +104

    I wept so much watching this. What an incredible couple. I married my husband when I was 19. Many thought we were mad. I am blessed to have had 18 years of marriage, hopefully many more ahead of us. My heart breaks for Mollie 😔❤️

    • @kordorkongri3068
      @kordorkongri3068 3 роки тому +7

      Wishing you decades more of love happiness and togetherness. God bless

    • @terryclish6177
      @terryclish6177 3 роки тому +11

      My husband and I married right out of high school. (18yrs-19yrs). Many said we'd never make it. We will be celebrating our 45th anniversary this year. It depends on the individual person not the age. You will make it. Have a Happy long marriage dear. ❤

    • @Kaigirl27
      @Kaigirl27 3 роки тому +7

      Congratulations on your marriage :) wish you more decades to come.

  • @debrahall699
    @debrahall699 3 роки тому +20

    I was 21 when my fiancé was killed in a plane crash..we were 3 months from getting married...that was 44 years ago..I am a grandma now and have had a full life..but the event seems like yesterday..and the time we spent together molded who I became. ❤️

    • @debrahall699
      @debrahall699 Рік тому

      @davidgreg5590 life is a gift David..it’s a beautiful World, right?

  • @seemasen5211
    @seemasen5211 3 роки тому +149

    It makes me remember " A Walk to Remember " . It's magically beautiful that even pain doesn't feel that much if get to feel it with the love of our life. It's Inspiringly how one's determination to love and not to leave their side whatsoever happens. It is just a blessing to have someone no matter what their life span is.

  • @bonnienelson7373
    @bonnienelson7373 3 роки тому +177

    Beautiful love story...all the more beautiful to me because of their love for Jesus. 🙂

    • @DScott-bp4vu
      @DScott-bp4vu 3 роки тому +6

      Amen!

    • @maryelias3685
      @maryelias3685 3 роки тому +3

      Amen

    • @anthonynettleton8346
      @anthonynettleton8346 3 роки тому +2

      I think through christ we can be with family forever .. I love christ and je is my saviour and big brother.. I am lds Mormon and I believe christ will bring us all back to our own family's

    • @karenlindakostin2153
      @karenlindakostin2153 3 роки тому +1

      Amen to this!

  • @mommaof3_1983
    @mommaof3_1983 3 роки тому +52

    Omg Molly, YOU are so BEAUTIFUL INSIDE and OUT! I'll pray for YOU ❤️🙏 MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH 🕊️ PEACE IN YOUR LIFE! AND HE WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU!

  • @shelleyforsythe5898
    @shelleyforsythe5898 3 роки тому +33

    I’m 51 and have never had a love like this. ❤️😢

    • @kimkramer3973
      @kimkramer3973 3 роки тому +2

      I'm 55. Me neither.

    • @donnaedelen1199
      @donnaedelen1199 3 роки тому +1

      I'm 59, my fiance' died suddenly. 4 months before our wedding. I knew him two and a half years.. We were cheated.. He died in 2007 at 51 years of age.. It sucks to lose your Soulmate.. God bless Molly. And hang in there, you will eventually meet "the one"..

    • @lulamamie8524
      @lulamamie8524 3 місяці тому

      Same here. Married now for 46 years, but have never had that type of love 😑😵‍💫😢

    • @sarazimmerman713
      @sarazimmerman713 3 місяці тому

      I’m 77, me neither.

    • @amyhuss5834
      @amyhuss5834 2 місяці тому

      Me either and I was married once.

  • @jamster0777
    @jamster0777 3 роки тому +163

    Extraordinarily touching,beautiful and sad. If more young people lived and loved like this we would be much happier.

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 3 роки тому +2

      How did he pass??

    • @bobshaw4063
      @bobshaw4063 3 роки тому +1

      @@freedom4063 He died from cancer

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 3 роки тому +2

      @@bobshaw4063 😖😭😭😭😭😭

    • @marthawarrington7748
      @marthawarrington7748 3 роки тому +5

      It was possible because God was the center of their lives

    • @karenlindakostin2153
      @karenlindakostin2153 3 роки тому +1

      Indeed! What a better place this world would be if Jesus was the sure foundation of everyone's life.

  • @Honeybunny974-k7h
    @Honeybunny974-k7h 3 роки тому +66

    Beautiful story. My husband got cancer years ago but went into remission. I admire your courage to speak about this. May the universe bless you.

    • @elizabethbertrand2590
      @elizabethbertrand2590 3 роки тому +4

      You will see him again in the new world right here on earth The righteous will inherit the earth and they will live on it forever

  • @Ridersonthestorm321
    @Ridersonthestorm321 3 роки тому +148

    Molly you are an incredible person and extremely courageous! I’m so sorry for your loss. You’ll see Brady again in heaven. 😀

    • @adhilahassan2602
      @adhilahassan2602 3 роки тому +1

      Only if he worshipped Allah

    • @TheFallLover
      @TheFallLover 3 роки тому +15

      @@adhilahassan2602 they didn't believe in your god. They believed in theirs. They don't have to believe in "Allah" to go to heaven and see each other.
      You're rude asf honestly.

    • @catherinekabasiita9800
      @catherinekabasiita9800 3 роки тому +3

      Amen

  • @camarojai6832
    @camarojai6832 3 роки тому +39

    This is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen. Sad, but so wonderfully beautiful. He had the best smile, his love for her, faith...no words. She’s so strong...thanks to her for sharing this beautiful story

  • @ceciliagarcia9712
    @ceciliagarcia9712 3 роки тому +3

    My Dad died on September 27th 2019 a month before your husband. We never forget the persons that we love, now they are Angel’s ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @nurtenkocaman1699
      @nurtenkocaman1699 3 роки тому

      Sorry for your loss my dad died 2016 & mum 8 months ago miss them sooo much

    • @ceciliagarcia9712
      @ceciliagarcia9712 3 роки тому

      @@nurtenkocaman1699 sorry for your loss my mom died on 12/22/2014. I know how you feel. I miss my parents house, I miss to visit them and eat together. It’s really hard don’t having them. I want to say be very strong because now you have two Angels watching and caring you every day. 🙏🏻💟

  • @janetd4862
    @janetd4862 3 роки тому +86

    When you said others know nothing about grief...you are so right! I was 31 when my daughter died, and that’s how I learned. The people I appreciated the most in the aftermath were people who had also experienced grief, and understood. Grief is one of those things you can only truly understand through experience.

    • @nataliemccabe3290
      @nataliemccabe3290 3 роки тому +5

      AMEN! 🙏 I’m so sorry for the loss of your Daughter Janet 💖💖💖💖

    • @shaz8486
      @shaz8486 3 роки тому +7

      100% true, the club no one wants to be a member of, the parents who have lost their child .....a parents worst nightmare 💔💔💔
      So sorry for the loss of your daughter, it’s a completely different kind of grief it’s like loosing part of your soul, I understand completely, we lost our son age 18 years young. You just learn to get through the days without them in it .... 💔💔💔🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @karenlindakostin2153
      @karenlindakostin2153 3 роки тому +1

      So true.

  • @cynthiasisk2798
    @cynthiasisk2798 3 роки тому +74

    I was married at 18 the day after I graduated from highschool. We have been married for 37 years and had two children. Our 35 year old son just passed from colon cancer with a side of leptomeningeal disease. Except for our son's death I wouldn't have missed a moment. You both are wonderful. I hate cancer.

  • @katecarroll1692
    @katecarroll1692 3 роки тому +41

    Thank you Molly for telling your story no matter how many emotions you have had. This is a beautiful story of your love despite all the sadness you had in your journey together. The pictures and videos of time you spent with Brady are a joy to watch. You will always have those memories with you.

  • @RealityChick77
    @RealityChick77 3 роки тому +35

    The most beautiful love story I’ve ever heard. It may have been short but this kind of love is what we all dream of. Rest with God Brady

  • @nanadiana6408
    @nanadiana6408 3 роки тому +192

    I’m so glad you got married! So glad that Brady got to experience that. So glad that you both were able to see the give and take of marriage. I’m so blessed by your story. I’m 65 married for 41 years living with a husband going through esophageal cancer. It’s hard, now he has an incurable blood disorder that causes cancer in the blood and the first hit is the kidneys. Last month we spent four days in the hospital and he lost 35 pounds all of it due to kidney function. We’re now in year four of cancer and he’s still here. Thank you for sharing your story. It has meant the world to me. An old lady afraid to lose her husband. If you have any words for me...I’m open to hear them. Oh yea...my mom was Mollie.

    • @bobshaw4063
      @bobshaw4063 3 роки тому +9

      I'm so sorry that your husband has cancer .

    • @mirandamay301
      @mirandamay301 3 роки тому +25

      I am so sorry that you, your husband and family are going through such suffering. Dearest friend, when my 20-year-old son was battling cancer, fear had a tight grip on my heart. I said to God that if He was not going to give our boy, Stefan a miracle, as a mother I was willing to give him back, just not able. God did call our son home. I know what Molly means when she talks about experiencing contrasting emotions...I had never known such peace, I told God that I was wrong; I was willing and I was able. But my heart was soooo very broken. What carried me through? All I can say, it was Jesus. I have been involved in support groups too, and now I am a facilitator...it has been amazing, but the material has all been Bible-based. The Lord really is your Shepherd, dearest friend. Just reach out and take your Shepherd's hand. 💙💚💙💚

    • @nanadiana6408
      @nanadiana6408 3 роки тому +4

      @@mirandamay301 thank you.

    • @mvp1839
      @mvp1839 3 роки тому +6

      Praying for hope and healing your husband, and for strength and wisdom for you as his wife and support system. I can’t imagine what you’re going through ♥️

    • @janeforst5973
      @janeforst5973 3 роки тому +9

      @@mirandamay301 My heart goes out to you with the loss of your son. There's nothing more difficult and painful for a mother than to lose her child. I've lost both of my sons and the pain is indescribable. The years pass by and you still feel the emptiness of your child being gone. Even though I know they live on in eternity, it doesn't stop me from missing them every day of my life. I know they're with God and that they'll always be in my heart, just as your son is in yours.
      I just had to respond to your comment to let you know that you're not alone and that I care. God bless you and peace be with you. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @ktimmons50
    @ktimmons50 3 роки тому +12

    What a gift to have experienced a love like that. No matter how little time they had how very worth it it was.

  • @mercyetgracerealtors7996
    @mercyetgracerealtors7996 3 роки тому +8

    May his soul rest in peace, he's an handsome man with a beautiful smile.

  • @rongillespie71
    @rongillespie71 2 місяці тому +1

    amazing. heartbreaking. heartwarming. what a touching true story. we married as widows. Loss changes everything & makes appreciation practically automatic. God bless your future! amen

  • @Bold4Christ
    @Bold4Christ 3 роки тому +61

    This is such a beautiful love story despite the loss. To live for Christ is gain as His children have eternal life. God bless you for sharing 💞💕

  • @rhiannancaraway
    @rhiannancaraway 3 місяці тому +1

    In those short months and years they got to experience something that I never will. They lived more life than I ever will. God bless them for getting to experience life's truest joys, if even for a brief time.

  • @phyllismagunde5844
    @phyllismagunde5844 3 роки тому +43

    I pray that God gives you a life partner who will love you the way Brad did. You deserve to be happy. You really have a good heart.

    • @tinabranch321
      @tinabranch321 3 роки тому +2

      And when she meets that man brad sent him to her.

  • @gabbyrut4398
    @gabbyrut4398 3 місяці тому +1

    I went through the same thing with my first husband. He was young so was I. I lost him and had to raise our children on my own. I'm happily remarried. But I always think of my first husband and how cancer stole him.

  • @cathy5070
    @cathy5070 3 роки тому +33

    The most beautiful love story. I have been blessed by just viewing this video.Molly, I wish you the best in life as you move forward. Thank you so much for showing what a true love looks like. Rip Brady. Your time here was short,but not your legacy.

  • @maricogan2903
    @maricogan2903 3 роки тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. It breaks my heart. I am a Hospice nurse & would like to share this with all of the administrators and board of director for every Hospice in the U.S. They have forgotten our mission. The nurses and other bedside care staff have NOT forgotten why we go to work.

  • @bevmutch4310
    @bevmutch4310 3 роки тому +15

    I feel your pain I lost my husband from sarcoma cancer. I feel so lost without him. When he passed he took half my heart. What's left is a broken one now. Everyday is a struggle to get through. I try to enjoy the little things in life. My prayers that you can heal. ❤

  • @maetay1256
    @maetay1256 Місяць тому +1

    Bro, the tears😭💔...a beautiful yet heartbreaking love story❤

  • @Alyrulz421
    @Alyrulz421 3 роки тому +16

    Such a sweet and heartbreaking story 😭 I met the love of my life at 13 and we just turned 21 & 22. I cannot imagine how painful it would be to lose him this young, I don't even think I'd physically be able to handle it. She's a more resilient woman than I, she must be very strong in her faith. God bless her

  • @verdabaerg2246
    @verdabaerg2246 3 роки тому +2

    Awe you have had quiet a journey of grief.....Lean on Jesus...He cares He understands each an every tear that falls...an each an every tear that can't fall down your cheek...God Bless You....as you lean on Him....

  • @soonzach4017
    @soonzach4017 3 роки тому +33

    My heart is hurting for Mollie, so very sorry. I am going to pray for you.

  • @hdb80
    @hdb80 Рік тому

    It takes a very strong woman to live this willingly. May your heart hold all the love you shared and see place you on a path of healing and future happiness. God bless you.

  • @synthiacoplin462
    @synthiacoplin462 3 роки тому +46

    What a Beautiful Love Story. I'm so sorry for your loss,Molly,but you had something so very special,that some couples never have. Thank you for sharing with us. Brady is so proud of you,I'm sure. God bless you,Molly.

  • @jeannelederman8992
    @jeannelederman8992 3 місяці тому +2

    What a beautiful love story. Most people live a lifetime and never find the kind of love you & Brady share… ❤

  • @michelleparadis7284
    @michelleparadis7284 3 роки тому +42

    I'm so glad I watched this. What a beautiful story. They were both lucky to have each other.

    • @chengjaifu7510
      @chengjaifu7510 3 роки тому +2

      hello Michelle, how are you today?

    • @priscilladavies2270
      @priscilladavies2270 3 роки тому +3

      This is the second time I’ve watched this, and it breaks my heart all over again. Tears and goose bumps like it did a few months ago. I’m eighty and still miss my husband of forty three years who passed nineteen years ago. May They Rest In Peace.

  • @Yepitsme111
    @Yepitsme111 3 роки тому +24

    Unbelievably wise in love and life..you got it right and I’m glad you guys did it your way..may God bless you in your new journey through life and we all can learn a lot from the two of you. Thank you for reminding this 49 yr old of the important things

  • @heidiho5179
    @heidiho5179 3 роки тому +10

    I know a girl who was widowed at 18....except that she didn’t get the chance to get married first. They were still engaged when he was killed in an accident at work. She had no family, having grown up in foster care, and his family wouldn’t help her but they did petition to take their baby, and did. She ended up addicted to heroin, in prostitution, and in prison, last I heard. I knew her through the whole process and she was definitely a victim of circumstance. I knew her through the whole thing, and her addiction happened later...it wasn’t the cause of all that. I wanted to help her more but didn’t have a place of my own, myself, at the time. I’m always glad when people are able to get through a tragedy without it multiplying. I’m sure this young lady was helped by her faith. This video is a beautiful tribute to her husband. The story just reminded me there are those who don’t fare as well. A reminder to take care of ourselves and our loved ones in times of mourning.

    • @anne-marielouiserey4244
      @anne-marielouiserey4244 3 роки тому +1

      Heidi Ho how did that happen? How could they take the baby like that? So sad! Life is full of tragedy!♥️🌷🌷

    • @michelleruffin6903
      @michelleruffin6903 3 дні тому

      Some people are so evil. Took away from her the only piece that she had of her beloved. Heartbreaking 💔 😢

  • @ginybrown8738
    @ginybrown8738 3 роки тому +20

    I have never seen such love like this before. They wanted it, their family and friends wanted it but mostly God wanted this to happen. Two beautiful people deeply in love, a love that will never die. I am so glad I found this video it gladdened my heart and soul. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story, personal yes but love is at every age. This was the truest love I have ever seen. God Bless you!

  • @gaynorberry5759
    @gaynorberry5759 3 роки тому +9

    R.I.P. Brady. What a gorgeous young couple and a beautiful yet sad love story ❤️❤️🙏🏻

  • @bronialovell7109
    @bronialovell7109 3 місяці тому +1

    Life chañges when a
    Cancer diagnosis is proclaimed. So sorry Brady lost his life, soo young. His maturity and strength of Character. Love it. Treasure each and every memory.

  • @patriciasutherland7390
    @patriciasutherland7390 3 роки тому +29

    What an amazing strong young woman you Molly. I'm so happy you were able to experience such a pure true love. You deserved it. So many people could learn so many lessons from you. God Bless you.

  • @youronlybabygirl25
    @youronlybabygirl25 3 роки тому +27

    I feel your pain and sadness.I'm a widow at 32 .lost my husband last year he took his last breath in my arms on march 25th 2020 . I'll never forget it

  • @mirjamweibel9678
    @mirjamweibel9678 3 роки тому +55

    You are such a wonderful person. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers 🙏🏼

  • @outlookesp
    @outlookesp 3 роки тому +1

    What a touchign story. My wife of 33 years has terminal cancer. When she was first diagnosed the haemotologist told us that she had a maximum of five years, and we are now in borrowed time. She was in remission for four yrears before it returned in different places Treatment seems to be keeping it under control but we have been told that if this treatment stops working there is at the moment no other treatment, but we, like Bardy and Mollie, trust God, since He is in control.

  • @maryj560
    @maryj560 3 роки тому +23

    Tears are flowing for sure . What a beautiful love story. Thank you God for bringing them together. God bless Mollie and be with her going forward with the rest of her life. God is love

  • @kathykelly6045
    @kathykelly6045 4 місяці тому +1

    I lost my husband to cancer two years ago this month. We were married for 3 months shy of two years. Your story is very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your life story with us.

  • @graceythompson5528
    @graceythompson5528 3 роки тому +23

    This is such a beautiful love story, your love story is one most people would only dream of, so forever cherish the beautiful memories knowing your precious love didn't leave you, he's just with you in a different way and loving you even more.

  • @nunyabizniz1983
    @nunyabizniz1983 3 роки тому +37

    This is beautiful. I cant stop crying. Such young and beautiful people. Life is so unfair at times ❤ RIP Brady and Mollie you are such a Brave and beautiful person. What a solid and supportive soul you were for Brady while he was going through cancer. I wish you a very happy future xx

  • @loriscook5231
    @loriscook5231 3 роки тому +18

    I’ve never seen a couple who looked so alike, what a beautiful young couple. They packed more love onto their short marriage than many do in many decades. So sorry it didn’t last for70 yrs

  • @suzannesultan4083
    @suzannesultan4083 3 роки тому +10

    You’re such an inspiration and so was your lovely husband. God bless you and give you strength🙏🏼

  • @shildebrandt13
    @shildebrandt13 Рік тому +3

    I’m so sad for you. My husband passed away suddenly after 17 months of marriage I was 48 and he was 54. I still miss him but am thankful for the short time we had together. Looking forward to seeing him again in heaven.

  • @PamelaGrave-f3m
    @PamelaGrave-f3m Рік тому +2

    Molly -
    It is so nice to read about you and Brady and the real love you share(d). This is the kind of love all married people hope for. God has blessed you so very much! God's continued blessings for you.

  • @chmael55
    @chmael55 3 роки тому +21

    You were so blessed to have had him in your life for so many years as your best friend. And, at the end, you were losing his physical presence not his spiritual presence, which continued to love you, always!
    What I learned while witnessing my father's painful death, was the greatest gift you can give is to love him and let him go. After that lesson, I became a Hospice CNA. When people asked what I did, I replied that I had the honor of being able to love people to death!!!
    Thank you so much for sharing your experience and faith. It's truly amazing and the greatest story ever told!
    I'm not trying to compare the loss of my father to the loss of your husband. Just sharing the lesson God taught me.

  • @aprilmapp3140
    @aprilmapp3140 3 місяці тому +1

    I wish her god blessing and stay strong in every thing you do.Always no that you husband is near you.

  • @ZionetteEsther
    @ZionetteEsther 3 роки тому +8

    The story of Mollie and Brady is so touching, their love is so beautiful. I just couldn't stop crying after hearing this.
    If there is one thing that I learned from them, it will be "living in the moment and live it to the fullest"..
    Thank you Mollie and Brady ❤️

  • @carolhardwicke9421
    @carolhardwicke9421 3 роки тому +34

    I lost my love of my life in apeil 2019. I totally understand that good bye. God bless

  • @LAVirgo67
    @LAVirgo67 3 роки тому +7

    Their love was pure & beautiful. No one will ever be able to fill his shoes. I would not be surprised if she never marries or waits for years before she dates again.