Starting the New Year Right
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- Опубліковано 30 січ 2025
- Hi everyone, in today’s video I talk about how I want to start the new year off right despite some challenges that I have been facing. I also take you guys along with me to the gym! If you enjoyed this video or relate to anything that I talked about, consider leaving a comment down below and subscribing. :)
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I don't usually leave comments, but I really wanted to let you know that there is so much wisdom in your video. It's really nice listening to you and even though I never met you in real life, I'm sure you must be such a nice person to be around. I'm also so sorry about your health condition. I'll pray for you and I'm sure that one day someone will be able to help.
This really means a lot to me to hear! Thank you so much! Prayers are very appreciated right now!
There will always be haters. Do your thing, and hope you get better and thanks for sharing!
Very true! Thank you, I hope I get better as well! And of course, I'm really glad you enjoyed the video! I appreciate you! :)
I went through the same thing when I turned 19 where I was experiencing chronic pain in my right eye and around my right eye all in my face. I also spent many years going to doctors trying to find a solution but no one could tell m exactly what was wrong nor did anything they prescribe help. A neurologist finally told me the same thing that I have trigeminal neuralgia and that they could possibly hit it with Botox but that seemed to drastic for me. I was depressed for a good 3-4 years before I finally accepted it. I'm 26 now and it still hasn't gone away but I've grown used to it and the pain has lessened as a result.
I just wanted to say this because I've never met someone else that has gone or is going through this same exact scenario I experienced years ago. I hope my words can provide some comfort and hope that someone else has gone through this and come out on the other side.
I'm an INTJ-T (MBTI) and 5 Wing 4 (Enneagram). I could tell that you are an INTJ. Your lexicon and demeanor show it, and I consider that to be a good thing. You are well spoken and is an anomaly compared to most women your age. I'm not putting you on a pedestal but you are visually attractive too! But overall, the world needs more INTJ women in the world, especially for us INTJ men. Respect!💯
Thank you so much! I'm actually really surprised that you were able to tell that I'm an INTJ! That is pretty awesome that you were able to pick up on that!
You keep doing what your doing don’t let anyone hate on you. I feel you on the gym I had to stop golf cause of my auto accident and I have learned that you just preserve and make the best. I am 45 and enjoying life to best
Thank you! I’m sorry to hear about your accident, but I feel the same way about just preserving and making the best.
Thank you, you have a very positive attitude and it inspires me to improve myself and keep going
Happy New Year, Del! Sorry to hear about the negative reactions you've gotten. Stay strong. Good luck with the new term at school, and good luck with the medical issues.
Thank you so much! Happy New Year to you as well!
I’m so glad I found your channel. It’s just so real and raw, that’s something that’s not so easily found these days. I love your channel and you def gained a new subscriber.
I'm really glad that you like my channel! Thank you so much for the kind words and for subscribing! It means a lot! :)
Time is flying so fast since I was born in 1989 and my sister was born in 1995. All generations struggle through good and bad things in life. Yes I had to separate from the gender war propaganda. I had to learn how to mature in my journey because 40 is coming right around the corner for me. I just got out of a relationship with my woman, I don't blame all women for what happened to me because she is her own individual person. I had to stop being so angry and frustrated like I did back in my 20s. I'm just gonna heal and enjoy my life. I was gonna ask her to marry me this year since we been platonic friends since the middle 2000s but she had other guys behind my back. My goal for 2025 is focusing on my health and fitness so I could stay in shape. Happy New Year's Del. I lack on gym myself.
I'm really sorry to hear about what she did to you, that is really crappy. I don't know how anyone is able to do that to another person. Good for you though for not being a part of the gender war propaganda. It is illogical and only just making things worse for everyone. We are all our own individual people. Good luck with your health and fitness goals! A bad breakup is actually what got me started going to the gym in the first place, it can really be a good motivator. Happy New Year to you as well! Wishing you the best! :)
your personality is so sweet to watch(as a ISFJ), you keep up the good work and interesting conversation and information, keep it up and I hope you have a good life
That really means a lot to me to hear, thank you!
Man youre right about the whole consumerism thing and living a more minimalistic life. Ive been doing that for a while and its so good. Stepping back gives you a new perspective and shows how crazy and greedy people can be too
I completely agree!
Hi Del, this is how the social media works, it doesn't matter what you do or say there will always be haters, there are people around the world that just love to hate on everything, I know when you are probably in bed reading comments you may smile at some and then find a hate one and it turns you down but is like with anything in life you will get used to it just continue being yourself ignore those comments and do what you love ✌🏻 also hope your health gets better soon, even a flu may feel like nothing for some people but for others may feel like dying, we are all different nobody knows you better than yourself so just stay strong, and maybe you are too much on screens there are some special glasses to help you rest/protect your eyes. Also the zone you mention may be related to alergy, lastly maybe check your guts like your inmune system and the most important: drink enough water, take lil sunbaths like even 10 mins is enough, sleep well, touch grass/earth with your bare feet for a few mins. And if you end up going to multiple doctors and nobody finds out exactly what you have, and just make you take this or that pill that ends up messing up other parts of your body then there I think the only person that can guide you is a Psychologist, anxiety, depression and stress are real and they really get you physically sick all the time sometimes we dont even know we are going under those but the sooner you find out and start working on it, the better, and being on ur situation im pretty sure you are under any of the 3 if not all the 3 i mentioned, I really hope you get better soon and find all the support you need from friends, family or even random people in your comments around the world, hugs.
Its feel so refreshing to hear your positive attitude towards *everything*. It puts a smile on my face :). I hope you can keep your good attitude and improve your health well-being (and keep making this videos lol).
I hope I can focus more on my well-being too, but didnt manage to go the gym yet. So I guess I'll have to add to that now.
Hey Del, Happy New Year's to you! Just found your channel from your previous video, and absolutely loved this vlog! Subscribed haha. As a content creator, I found your thoughts on haters profoundly wise and deeply helpful to me. Its also so cool you code and play piano, same here. I was heartbroken to hear about your current health situation and the pain you are going through on a regular basis because of it.. I wish so incredibly badly that there is a resolution to your health problem soon, and that your meeting with the specialist in February goes well and sheds some light on whats happening. Your message about not taking things in life for granted could not be more true, especially when it comes to health. Stay strong Del, you are truly amazing!!
Hi, I’m really glad that my video was able to help you! Thank you so much for subscribing and for the kind words, it means a lot to me! I appreciate you! :)
I admire your ambition and strive to succeed despite your health issues holding you back. I hope that you're able to find a diagnosis this year and eventually find a cure. You are a motivation to thousands of people!
This means a lot to me, thank you! :)
Lots of wisdom right out of the gate. Congrats on your early success.
Thank you!
Happy new year! It's great to hear your balanced, positive approach to things, especially the dating scene and being grateful for what you have. There will always be those that don't like what you say, and some will be cruel. But just keep being yourself! I pray this year brings you health, happiness and hopefully an awesome guy for you too. God bless!
That means a lot to me, thank you! :)
Happy New Year! Hope you feel better soon. Eye opening year comparison, yes. Thank you for your warm welcome to us newbies!
The negative comments will be there…try and focus on the positive ones.
Happy new year wishes from finland!
Thank you so much! Happy new year wishes from Wisconsin! :)
I liked your dating video because it gave me a new perspective. It validated what I had already been feeling regarding dating apps. I stay away from that stuff now and just focus on my studies, passions, and meeting women my age in-person. I also try to focus less on searching for romance and more on just getting to know people as friends. Laughing with people, sharing stories, sharing interests, etc. I feel like this is how it's always been done, but with the lockdowns and social media our generation has felt really pressured to snag a partner as soon as possible, which leads to dysfunction and skepticism.
I think it's better to make friends and communicate your interest to people once some time has passed to get to know each other better, rather than swiping on an app like we're shopping for a product on Amazon. For thousands of years humans did not date that way. It's really no wonder why we're struggling so much with this new digitized dating fad. It's just not natural for us as people. We communicate through verbal language, body language, and physical connection. None of that translates well through photos and reels on a screen.
So I think your video has value. It helped me. I'm an introvert, but I'm also understanding more about what that means. I feel like at this point it's not that I'm shy. I'm really good at talking to people. It's that I need time alone to find my peace again. But I think it's definitely possible for introverts to date and make friends. We just need more time to trust people before attempting to build those connections, and we also need to balance that effort with time alone in our thoughts and hobbies.
You're not abnormal. Introspection is good. Sharing your thoughts is beneficial. You're on the right track. You'll figure this out.
Your eyes are very pretty btw.
Hi! I agree that starting out with friends is the right way to go about things. I’m so happy to hear that my video helped you! Thank you so much for the kind words, it means a lot to me!
@diaryofdelilah No problem! Good luck to you with everything, and I hope you find some relief from your symptoms. I know how it is to deal with long-term medical issues. Keep fighting! You're worth it.
Activity is definitely crucial. That's always been a key thing to sanity for me, thankfully I kindof had a fitness-centric upbringing. I have serious sinus issues myself. It honestly is a whole ordeal. Do you drink plenty of water? I apparently had not been. It's no magic bullet but it helps.
Sinus issues are no joke! And I try to drink enough water, but I probably do need to be drinking more.
I know you don’t worry about those negative people but I just want to say don’t worry about those people lol. You rock!! Keep doing what you’re doing and good for you on cutting back shopping addiction 😁 I’m sorry to about your sinus infection. Sounds painful. Stay strong. You got this! Keep us posted about the specialist. Cute doggy 😊 peace ✌️
Thank you so much! :)
Your struggles don’t invalidate others and viceversa.
Haters need to remember that.
Exactly!
Hi Del
I'm a new subscriber and you are truly, truly an aspiring young woman!! You give so much positivity and compassion that most people do not have!! Don't listen to hateful people because they are miserable or going through something and they take it out on others! You keep holding your beautiful head up high and continue your journey!! I pray for your health and I'm certain the doctors will find something to help you!!
Happy New Year
God bless you Del
This really means a lot to me! Thank you so much for the kind words, the prayers and for subscribing! I appreciate you! :)
Hey I hope you have a very positive year!
Thank you so much! Same to you!
Happy New Years!!!! 🎉 Stay strong and keep going. I hope that you get better soon.
Thank you so much! Happy New Year to you as well! :)
Congrats on dealing with your spending! I need to do the same😅. And wishing you the best on your coding and learning music.
Yeah it's really easy to get into the habit of spending too much money lol but I refuse to keep doing this. Hopefully you can overcome this too! It's not easy! And thank you so much!
I actually had a nerve issue in my face last year... different from yours but holy shit the pain was intense. It causes severe ear pain and for weeks it felt like needles in my ear and all over my head. It also causes loss of facial function on one side of the face. I'm starting to get it back after a year and a half but it will never be the same. Nerve pain extremely painful. I feel for you. Look into red light therapy for your condition. Get your own panel and see if it helps.
I'm really sorry to hear that, that sounds awful! Quite a few of the doctors that I've seen believe that I have developed some type of nerve issue from the bad infection that I had, but they're not for sure what exactly. I'm really hoping that the specialist that I'm seeing will be able to piece it together. And I'll look into that, thank you!
I had the same shopping problem 😅 happy new year I hope you're channel grows but grows or not I'm staying
I'm glad I'm not the only one! 😅 Happy new year to you as well! Thank you so much, I appreciate you! :)
You know Im glad you were randomly thrown into my youtube algorithm youre just absurdly cute and its always nice just listening to people voice their thoughts.
I'm glad that you were randomly thrown here too haha. Thank you, it means a lot to me that you watch my videos! :)
Hey just wanted to say that I hope you get better soon and that you shouldnt worry about losing muscle, because your body has memory so its easier to recover the lost muscle if you start training again.
Thank you!
Happy New Year!!!!!
Happy New Year to you as well!
Your videos are like hearing from a good friend.
The weird comments you have to deal with....that's one reason I don't feel like posting on YT, until I feel absolutely compelled to. And sorry to hear about your health issues. When things get that persistent and difficult I find no other option but to cry out to God. Thanks for reminding me of everything I should be so grateful for. JJ's best bread around 😄
Hmm, something something pick me?
She knows exactly what she's doing, and seriously, it's not directed at 90% of men... She feels repulsed by us, only wants the top men, and use the average men as an emotional tampon and/or laugh at them for giving her attention.
Girl? Software development? Learning guitar? Health issues? Wow, so unique so relatable, am I right? At this point, she should just shut tf up and use the privilege that she has in the world, not putting it on a display.
She has the right to do that ofc, but then don't expect for all men to be empathetic or kind because we have the same hobbies/struggles/outlook on life, the only difference is that nobody gives a fk about us. 1000% that she has a guy in her DMs who looks 10x better than the average man, yet she still holds him on line, because she thinks she can do better.
But sure, continue to pray to God, and dismiss reality. :) Not like that affects anything.
Good vibes! Happy new year Del
Happy new year to you as well!
Thank you for the update, love your content.
I'm really glad to hear that, thank you! :)
Not sure why I am watching your videos. 🤔😁 You have a good presence and I like your honesty.
It means a lot to me that you watch my videos! I appreciate you and am glad to have you here, thank you! :)
Happy new year. Pain and burning sensation behind your eyes is usually one of the symptoms of a sinus infection. If that's the case you might need another round of antibiotics. I hope the specialist will find out what is wrong
Yeah it def seems like it could be sinus related, especially since a sinus infection is what started all of this. Thank you!
Have all of your doctors been "conventional" doctors? About 2 years ago, I was having vertigo episodes. A conventional doctor told me that it was probably caused by those crystals that break off in your ear canal. He said there was nothing he could suggest to prevent it; he could only offer to do the Epley maneuver if I was in the middle of a vertigo episode. But then one of those alternative doctors on UA-cam said that caffeine can cause vertigo in some people. I was drinking up to 3 cups of coffee a day at the time. So I totally cut out coffee for a year (and now only 1 cup on Friday and 1 cup on Sunday). The vertigo went away and hasn't come back. Until this happened, I never knew that coffee could cause vertigo. The conventional doctor never even asked me anything about my dietary habits.
Happy New Year Delilah! x 😃👍🙌🎉🎆
Happy New Year to you as well!
Here's an internet hug. You're a fighter, you got this!
Thank you, that means a lot! :)
@@diaryofdelilah Glad I could help :)
Happy New Year
Happy New Year to you as well!
imagine all the people on earth talk a gentle as you even if one is hot headed.
Hopefully you get better! I had a nasty cold/flu 2 weeks ago
I really hope so! And that sounds awful! Are you feeling better now?
@diaryofdelilah im at 100% finally haha your a stronger person then me 😅 when I was sick I didn't make any videos tbh lol
Your more then an Introvert. There's so much more to you. Beautiful eyes and a beautiful Soul.
Thank you so much!
Don't let the haters stop you living your life. Hating online is cheap, and they are probably insecure and weak themselves.
It really is cheap and clearly they have something going on in their lives
Dang, time is going by too fast because my wife and I gonna be 25 this year. My birthday is in April and hers in May. My sister would be 23 in June.
Hey there Delilah! 😃 I wish you well with your health. Your videos are great. 🙂
Thank you so much! That means a lot to me!
Sorry about your pain
Thank you! I'm trying my best to keep hanging in there.
I like this channel it's good vibes
I'm glad you're here! :)
Hey Del, new subscriber here. Maybe explore the possibility of an allergy which is causing your issue. I don't know for sure of course, but to me it sounds like it could be sinus or similar issue due to possible food or environment allergy such as lactose / celiac or dust / mold allergy.
Hi, thank you so much for subscribing! I appreciate you! And I will have to look into those.
Man did you know that the new year was in the belly of the past year
Just started listening to sleep token and knocked loose based off your recommendations! Have you heard of Kublai kahn tx? I just started listening to them too
That is awesome! Do you like them? And I have heard of them but i haven't listened to them yet, I'll have to check them out!
@diaryofdelilah I do like them! I'm liking sleep token a bit more than knocked loose but both are great. What are your favorite albums or tracks from them?
I'm almost certain you'll like Kublai Kahn tx! If you check them out soon let me know what you think
Never apologize for having a cold lol. W video 🫡
Good point! Thank you! I'm glad you liked it!
Hey all the best with your health! My daughter had something similar, and it ended up something that "sort of" went away, and "sort of" needed ongoing management. But you need to get properly diagnosed of course. Also - why don't you add a "buy me a coffee link"? You have a reasonable amount of viewers and subscribers to get a little bit of support / encouragement to keep the videos coming.
Your health is the most important thing you have so I can fully understand why your health issues are getting you down. I really hope you manage to get a diagnosis and get better in 2025. :)
Well, my thoughts on the matter is when someone hates on me, it tells me to turn around and become a frothy hater myself. And I’ve gotten good at it! Like saying, “hey,” and “you,” and “I don’t like you.” See! :D I’ve gotten better at it! I’m kidding of course, but I could do it if I wanted to! My goals are already in place, and have been for years now! But I would like to get male pattern baldness this year, or at least get some gray hairs! Or maybe get a little tubby and wear a red cape! THAT would be awesome!
Okay but a red cape would be pretty awesome I'll admit
Your health issue is a strange one. You said it feels like burning kinda behind your eyes, and above your nose. Is there an actual temperature difference that you can measure and make note of? If so, that might help the docs figure stuff out. Noting down times, dates, and metrics when things happen is better than going in with nothing except the complaint and your best recollection of when things happen. Because sometimes you remember exactly right, and sometimes, not so much.
It sounds like you still have some sinus infections. If you have recurring/ongoing sinus infections it can be also caused by allergies. Have you tried taking allergy med like Claritin for a few weeks to see if that solves your health problem?
I agree that it does seem to be sinus related. I haven't tried Claritin, thank you for recommending that! I'll have to give that a try!
Hopefully you can get your health issues figured out soon. Another great video!
I really hope so! And thank you!
Happy New Year 2025 :) Wishing you the best!!!
Happy New Year to you as well! Thank you! :)
how long were u going to the gym for?
About two years.
You must be doing something right if you got haters already lol. Screw them people. Keep up your good work
Thank you so much! :)
Have you looked into your diet ? The Gut plays a HUGE role in our overall health.
I haven’t! But it would be a good idea for me to do that!
hey del, if you ever built alot of muscle in your life there is a such thing as muscle memory. if you ever get back into the gym then your muscles will grow back to the same strength and size in a much shorter time.
That is a good point!
@@diaryofdelilah also im no overpaid and miseducated doctor but doing a fruit/veggie juice fast could help your body/sinus the break it needs to recover. I had sinus issues before (not as bad as yours probably but still) and i went on a fruit/veggie juice fast and it went away. i dont know if it was that or just time but im pretty sure it going away coincided.
Leave this girl alone!
Niezły dress z jakiej firmy ?
It's actually not a dress. The shirt is from Hot Topic and the pants are Adidas.
@diaryofdelilah Jedno s za dużo sorry
I hate to be one of those guys... But I think you are super pretty 🙃 seems like you could do with a confidence boost.
Thank you!
🙃 Anytime
This year I'm basically just going to be miserable again
Awe I hope not! :(
2024 was the worst year for me it had me so stressed out
*Song recommendations* There's a cool video on UA-cam: *Wolf Alice "Moaning Lisa Smile"* Also, the *Dandy Warhols* have a lot of great songs and videos. "Bohemian Like You" is a fun video.
I'll have to look them up, thanks!
Ah yes, a fellow Sleep Token listener, a woman of culture! What's your favourite song? Stay strong and remember: "A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor a person perfected without trials." - Seneca.
Very true! And yes, Sleep Token is my favorite band! Choosing a favorite song is hard because I love them all, but I'd have to go with Ascensionism, what's yours?
When you say you are only going to buy what you truly need you mean coffee right? Also do you have guitar?
Yes coffee is something that I cannot live without! And I don't have one of my own but my mom has one that I can practice on. I def want to get my own in the future though!
@@diaryofdelilah If you don't care if its used people are always selling guitars on facebook marketplace
Share your story!
I know it’s easier said than done but just try to ignore the hater attacks. Like why would you lie about it? Even if you were, how does that impact my life; it really only impacts you. So I just take your word at face value and if you’re cool with it, I’ll say a prayer for you. I’ve enjoyed watching your videos! Not sure why you popped up in my feed but I’m digging it. Speaking of feed, I think your dog is wanting a bite lol.
Prayers would be appreciated! thank you for watching my videos, it means a lot! And lol yes Ollie wanted my food.
Interesting, one moment I'm in the car with a pretty girl, and it must have been her eyes because when I blinked the next thing I knew I was walking with her at the gym, and then we end up at some place called Jimmy John's, and after that she went to do her HW, and then I woke up lol, anyways I never heard of Jimmy John's but I just found out they have one in my town, I can't wait to try it
Nice to get rid of 2024 baggage and start the new year fresh. Have you ever done a food sensitivity test?
It really is! And I actually haven't ever done a food sensitivity test, but I probably should.
Sorry about the health problems. Wish I had words of wisdom for you.😢
Thank you! I am trying my best to keep hanging in there!
I want to do at least 50 push ups everyday
That is a great goal! You got this!
@@diaryofdelilah I'm actually up to 70 per day now :)
success breeds envy
That is very true!
Yeah mate, she’s presenting a video rambling in a car. I’m totes envious 😂
Hey 👋 I will say a prayer for you that God will help you heal and help with other struggles you may have. Don't forget to pray for me too I need prayers too 🙏 amen 😇 I'm going through other struggles in my life but I Don't give up😊
Thank you so much!
See my comment under your first video... "The Current State of My Health"... I think you will find it interesting and perhaps helpful. Wishing you and your family a healthy New Year...
I will check it out! Thank you! Same to you!
Mmm. Try Jersey Mike's, it's better
Not sure if you are planning on making content still for your other channel but I did send out an idea for you if you are interested in checking it out.
Yes, I do want to make content for that channel again soon! I’ll have to go and look at what you said there, thanks! Ideas are always appreciated!
@@diaryofdelilah Its in the "An explanation" vid. It is a reaction idea which with dealing with copyrights i can understand wanting to avoid.
Someone said you're not ugly enough? Idk. You are indeed pretty ugly. You're absolutely positively horrifying to see. It's too much. I can't do it. I need to be away from you for a while....
What am I kidding?!!!
You're 💯 % derpy & precious!
My poor eyes! cuteness overload.🥰😅😅
first comment!
Hi! :)
@ Happy cuz it’s a new year! Also I’m new to this channel, haven’t been disappointed thus far 👍
@@nathanpedroza1598 That means a lot to hear, thank you! I appreciate you!
Just a pick me girl who wants to get with Chad, what's new honestly
I think I know what it is, but I don't want to share what it is with some of the mean people that might be reading this comment.
You can dm me on instagram if you want. I have my insta in my description on all of my videos.
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Who says you have no struggles in life? You live in Wisconsin.
Right? That alone is a struggle haha.
@@diaryofdelilah That is from a movie called Dogma.
Two rogue angels fucked up and
- Were they sent to Hell?
- Worse. Wisconsin.
@@evgeniytsarkov5679 I haven't seen that movie! That is so hilarious! 😂 I'll have to watch it
People who were “hating” were being realists. Your struggles in dating are very minor compared to the average man. You’re in denial with not much self awareness and won’t admit that you’re just looking for attention. Did you get in touch with the guys that asked you out on dates?
Are you single? 😏 anyway happy new year!
I am single yes. Happy new year to you as well!
@@TheBPMonk1 Please be kind on the comment section of my video's. You guys can say whatever you want to about me, but I really don't want any negativity spread towards others here.
Yeah she is mate. She left her Instagram link in the description box if you want to DM her