Insecurities/Embarrassed About Being Seen (looks, height, weight, etc.) - Tapping with Brad Yates

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 129

  • @camwilliams1
    @camwilliams1 4 роки тому +83

    When I was pretty young I would shop with my Mom at the mall, she was in the constant conversation of who looked bad, words like "why would they leave the house with that outfit on and think they look good," or their hair that way? Back then I was even uncomfortable. She of course must have been exposed to the same conversation in her life. The conclusion I came too, that this was normal that every person around me was thinking and speaking the same way as my Mom spoke about others they were talking about me that way. Great Tapping session and I like your hair before and after your haircut. You can see more of your face. Thank you for the session and all your sessions my life is improving greatly and daily

    • @sashek8451
      @sashek8451 2 роки тому +10

      my mother was and still is an appearance nitpicker (despite how much she had let herself go and was living thru me) but I set really firm boundaries a few years ago every time I found her making comments about my appearance, despite her calling me oversensitive, I held my ground and called her out on it until finally the behavior is now mostly extinguished. And now she is doing so much better incidentally 😂 and I feel I’ve kind of let myself go but I’m working on self love and various trauma recoveries from a shredded nervous system and know I’ll recup eventually and things will level out. And I’ll be able to accept how I look and show up in the world out of self love.

    • @FireflyFocus
      @FireflyFocus 4 місяці тому

      Wow, I didn't think many people went through the same thing as I did so it's so nice to read that I'm not alone in this. I've also started calling her out on it when she does comment and it feels very helpful. It's crazy how much those kind of words from people close to us can affect us that much! Sending everyone lots of love and light 💕✨

  • @thevirgingoddesss
    @thevirgingoddesss 2 роки тому +26

    I've always been a judgmental person. I judge others fiercely (altough I'm polite enough to never say anything) because I judge myself fiercely. I'm almost thirty now and it's time to let this old habit go. Thank you Brad, you're doing a great service to the world 🌟

  • @suzanne7704
    @suzanne7704 10 років тому +44

    Brad, my therapist connected me with your channel..and i have become a believer. Life Changing. Thank you. My nearly 16 year old daughter came home from school distraught and fearful of a tough school challenge tonight and tomorrow...we tapped about Fear...she swam like a duck to it...when finished she bolted out of the room and right off to her studies to "Do what she could Do..." You are actually saving our lives...

  • @marial8913
    @marial8913 Рік тому +11

    This one brought tears to my eyes. I have struggled with very severe body image issues almost my entire life, and have felt so much shame about being seen. Thank you for your compassion Brad. I love your channel :)

  • @KenyaWright
    @KenyaWright Рік тому +9

    I woke up super nervous today about a social engagement that I had been invited to. And I did four different tappings from your channel and now I feel amazing. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @100elija
    @100elija 8 років тому +39

    I wish you all the best Brad! You can be proud of yourself for changing many people lives:)
    And everyone who reads this have a nice day:)

  • @rafaeljoy7654
    @rafaeljoy7654 11 років тому +64

    This video made me laugh so much....loved the intro....the tragic haircut...love it...much blessings to you Brad.

  • @VisualMessiah
    @VisualMessiah 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this Brad, I have a very hypercritical mother and got bullied about my appearance and the way I walked and talked when I was younger, this is exactly what I need

  • @cosmoflower77
    @cosmoflower77 3 роки тому +8

    I totally needed this one... I started this new job a week ago. And I feel I am finding myself more and more self conscious around some of my new colleagues that havent introduced themselves to me... thinking why? Why is it always up to me? And wondering if they've been judging me... as I have kinda been judging myself (and pretty harshly at that).
    Anyways this made me feel loads better, kinda lost me toward the end there Brad, as I was distracted.
    THANKYOU for all you do.

  • @gabycam
    @gabycam Рік тому +2

    Just want I needed. All my life, have been thinking how embarrassed of myself I have been. The software running behind my mind has been feel ashamed of myself. Thank you Brad. This video will be my therapy for a month. You are the best!.

  • @kumartastic
    @kumartastic Рік тому +2

    Ooooh-y that was a good one! I’ve been tapping with you every day for nearly 6 months now and this one took me to a new level. Thank you for helping me clear so much! 💗🥰

  • @lapislazuliphoenix
    @lapislazuliphoenix 2 роки тому +2

    Oh my gosh, I couldn't stop yawning through this! I hope all the bad feelings about myself are leaving and their spaces being taken by self-esteem and love and acceptance of self and others! Thank you Brad!

  • @cmeasiam77
    @cmeasiam77 2 роки тому +3

    TEARS WITH THIS ONE! THANK You Brad…🙏🏽✨

  • @Maelu-op9gf
    @Maelu-op9gf 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you Brad! Your channel is a blessing to so many ♥️

  • @Bunni126
    @Bunni126 11 років тому +5

    That was beautiful,and so are you. Thank you.. I have spent most of my life criticizing myself+ others,and have only recently practiced being kind to myself,which in turn has allowed me to forgive and be less judgemental of those around me. Your words are very powerful. They took me back to childhood when I was always the new kid and felt out of place. I wish there had been someone like you around when I was struggling as a child. I'm so glad you are helping others now. Again,thank you for helping me to accept myself. :-)

  • @gooderprose
    @gooderprose 11 років тому +23

    Thanks for the video. You are making an impact in my life.

  • @oceanrealm
    @oceanrealm 11 років тому +3

    I feel so much better after this video. The yucky feeling that was lurking in the back of my mind has dissolved. Thank you so much!

  • @MyKrabi
    @MyKrabi 8 років тому +1

    LOL - the haircut is just fine. I really appreciate this video - spent years living with an eating disorder.
    Stopping our self-shaming is so helpful!

  • @miriamb.3078
    @miriamb.3078 7 років тому +2

    I'm not going to BS you, it's not the best cut I've seen on you so far, but it doesn't make you less of a person. You're a hero :). And the fact that you're very sensitive to this (and acutely aware of it) just goes to show how intelligent you are. Personal appearance is very important (especially for public figures and speakers).
    It's the first thing people notice and when something looks 'off' (as in; "imbalanced" it is visible, but it's also noticeable on an energetic level.
    The right haircut and the right attire makes us look and feel more balanced, more harmonious, and thus more at ease and at peace. And because of it, we feel (and exude) more confidence and we tend to do a better job altogether.
    Being aware of this (and being sensitive to this) is a form of intelligence.
    Despite all this, you're quite the man anyway.
    I am very grateful for all the videos, thank you for taking the time to guide us lovingly and patiently and helping us all heal and live a better life ♥

  • @TheExMuslima
    @TheExMuslima 10 років тому +4

    This is just what I needed! Thank you! You are such a bright light to us all, sharing your love and healing with these videos. Infinitely grateful

  • @Bradjodo
    @Bradjodo 6 років тому +4

    Thank you , Brad! You are such a gift!

  • @jenniewelsh7129
    @jenniewelsh7129 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, thank you so much for this video! I've just watched it twice and tapped along with you. I don't know how to explain it but I feel that something deep within me has really shifted already. I feel almost in shock. I think I really needed this video right now! Thank you again Brad, you are a shining star.

  • @smallsteps3801
    @smallsteps3801 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video, sir! If EFT is a world of magic and wizards, you'll be Harry Potter. The sessions just get me every single time!!

  • @blade8005
    @blade8005 2 роки тому +7

    Huge request. Can you make a video on developing "Thick Skin" so others won't belittle you or call you verbal abusive names etc? That makes them selves feel better about them selves by putting you down etc? Thanks Brad. :3 would appreciate if you could. Mom keeps telling me to develop thick skin because I'm sick of being bullied etc. Even as an adult. It still sucks. Especially if no one doesn't want anything to do with you because your different. :( I think we all need that in our life right now TBH. If your reading this comment Brad I'd appreciate it if you could make one similar to this topic. :3

    • @tapwithbrad
      @tapwithbrad  2 роки тому +1

      Any of the self-esteem videos (ua-cam.com/play/PLiRGbxLS41RaeExE_tqvsa4kHl2MLAXjI.html) should help build up your immunity - and maybe start with this: ua-cam.com/video/lNe5-2dCsQc/v-deo.html

  • @rebeccahatton291
    @rebeccahatton291 4 роки тому +1

    I absolutely love your short hair cut. Love it.

  • @sharonmmonteirro4450
    @sharonmmonteirro4450 7 років тому +1

    Thank you Brad. I have chosen this month to work on this issue as I am going to publish a book and need to be seen!!

  • @thebusybee7080
    @thebusybee7080 6 років тому +1

    These are great! I still tap with these videos every day.

  • @Charlottaa
    @Charlottaa 7 місяців тому

    I live for his little one liners at the end ❤ thank you

  • @PieraB
    @PieraB 10 років тому +4

    Thank you deeply and infinitely for this. My felt experience tonight transformed, after one of the toughest tappings I've done with your videos. This one truly tapped some raw spots.

  • @empressofawesome7099
    @empressofawesome7099 Рік тому +1

    I LOVE the topic & also I literally burst out laughing during the intro. I LOVE this video THANK YOU, Brad Yates!

  • @Kaz-fb9lz
    @Kaz-fb9lz Місяць тому

    Thank you, amazingly helpful video. Something a lot of us struggle with.

  • @michallee6037
    @michallee6037 Рік тому

    Glad I found this Brad....thank you, thank you, thank you....Calli in Canada

  • @EyesOnThais
    @EyesOnThais 3 роки тому +1

    Gosh - how did I miss this one? LOVE the hair!

  • @saras3519
    @saras3519 11 років тому +2

    Perfect video for me today. Thank you Brad.

  • @SvetlanaWinslowSimpson
    @SvetlanaWinslowSimpson 2 роки тому

    Thank join exactly what I needed. Sending much love for you and fast hair growth.

  • @G-rocks-70
    @G-rocks-70 19 днів тому

    Brad if ever I needed to laugh I need it this morning and I’m sorry for laughing at your haircut, but it gave me a great laugh. Very cute . We all have insecurities for sure. Have a great week.🌸🕊️🩵❄️

  • @77Clipper
    @77Clipper 8 років тому +1

    Love Carlos Castaneda luminous light! Great meditation. Thank you.

  • @dominikoorosz6892
    @dominikoorosz6892 2 роки тому

    Just came across your Channel, thank you! You gave me hope! But you know it for sure. Stay blessed!

  • @shamitakarnik9896
    @shamitakarnik9896 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for everything

  • @n1nburaot
    @n1nburaot 6 років тому +2

    i love you Brad! And the haircut looks sleek!

  • @chanth8594
    @chanth8594 6 років тому +1

    The haircut looks great Brad! Handsome as ever :-) Thank you for another wonderful video xo

  • @dj-tn6in
    @dj-tn6in 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Brad. This is very helpful for a body image.

  • @naomigobits6033
    @naomigobits6033 9 років тому +2

    Thank you so much for this it's a very deep clearing for me ...Gratitude ..xx

  • @ThriveWithLouise
    @ThriveWithLouise 10 років тому +13

    I really love your hair cut, i think it suits you. looks good!!

  • @Satrthere
    @Satrthere 10 років тому +5

    thank you for this brad. just what I needed! :)

  • @473551N4
    @473551N4 3 роки тому

    I already saw this and liked and loved it. I want to do it again!!!! There should be a youtube option....❤🙌

  • @chantellelandon85
    @chantellelandon85 2 роки тому

    Great video as always Brad. Very helpful indeed.
    And p.s your haircut is fine. You look good with it ☺️

  • @evadriessenhypnotherapie
    @evadriessenhypnotherapie 11 років тому +1

    I have my exams today, people wil judge me so I needed this

  • @hala2963
    @hala2963 3 роки тому +1

    Tapping starts 1:45

  • @treesforpeacenm
    @treesforpeacenm 11 років тому +1

    So right on, thank you and you look great! In time you will laugh at this time, as an older than work person. trust me.

  • @jo5595
    @jo5595 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for this, some excellent wording !

  • @marieclara1744
    @marieclara1744 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this tapping Brad.

  • @sukindiamuzik
    @sukindiamuzik 6 років тому +1

    Currently in a binge purge episode... ill use these mantras one day and they will work!!!

  • @sashek8451
    @sashek8451 2 роки тому +1

    I didn’t even think about your hair until you said tragic and I was like what!? and then totally relate because people have always looked at me as crazy for so many things I’m insecure about and I look back in photos and go OMG I looked amazing whyyyy was I so insecure about that!? And then have a few minutes of grief for the blech energy realizing being self conscious held me back from the full joy of (fill in the blank), and send love to it, and thankfully now I can tap on it, and have all these amazing breakthroughs and hopefully finally experience some decent freedom from self loathing and dysphorias before I leave this earth plane 🙏💛🙏 thank you for all you do

  • @aksobha2015
    @aksobha2015 7 днів тому

    Thank you ❤🎉

  • @humanmovement79
    @humanmovement79 4 місяці тому

    Thank You Brad 🙏🏼❤️🌺

  • @bubbles.stu26
    @bubbles.stu26 5 місяців тому

    Thanks. That was powerful.

  • @joyliu9527
    @joyliu9527 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video, I felt such panic before the video and then after I felt it being reduced by half!

  • @cuanamar
    @cuanamar 10 років тому +2

    awesome!!!thank you!!! very helpful!!!

  • @HiThereImFootloose
    @HiThereImFootloose 7 років тому +3

    Dude you are awesome. You are doing God's work. Your hair is just fine, and so are you.

  • @olgamckay276
    @olgamckay276 11 років тому +1

    Thank Brad. Olga

  • @rheaj7372
    @rheaj7372 3 роки тому

    aww Brad you're so awesome.

  • @angelprince7125
    @angelprince7125 10 років тому +3

    Thank you so much

  • @judypowers1634
    @judypowers1634 3 роки тому

    You are wonderful and I love you just the way you are !

  • @PaintLooseWatercolors
    @PaintLooseWatercolors 7 місяців тому

    I believe the haircut makes you look younger and hotter. But you are the one that has to feel it. No one can convince you of anything unless you believe it yourself. Thankyou for teaching me how to tap.

  • @marinamadeleine
    @marinamadeleine 3 місяці тому

    Thank you!❤

  • @creative45630
    @creative45630 Рік тому

    Thank you Brad 🙏

  • @aristar333
    @aristar333 Рік тому

    Thie was absolutely amazing!!!!

  • @DarkLuminosityHI
    @DarkLuminosityHI 2 роки тому

    Thank you Brad.

  • @elninoz-jt6vi
    @elninoz-jt6vi 5 років тому +1

    I think it looks great

  • @kerriebooth3524
    @kerriebooth3524 7 років тому +1

    I love the haircut!

  • @rdem06
    @rdem06 7 років тому +3

    you are adorable in and out love your hair and everyithing about our soul

  • @trueopinion1775
    @trueopinion1775 3 роки тому

    I really liked this one, thanks!

  • @cosmicsea7
    @cosmicsea7 8 років тому +2

    This was really helpful! Thank you!

  • @letgo1064
    @letgo1064 5 років тому +1

    🌹 Thanks @1:52

  • @BrendaKirk003
    @BrendaKirk003 Рік тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @hollys4664
    @hollys4664 7 років тому +2

    Brad, you made me laugh, and then you made me cry! thank you.

  • @BoldogAngyal
    @BoldogAngyal 11 років тому +1

    Thank you, Brad. :)

  • @kat_1_1_1
    @kat_1_1_1 5 років тому +1

    Thank You Brad ❤️ i like your hair:)

  • @heathersybil
    @heathersybil 5 років тому +1

    i like the hair cut

  • @sashek8451
    @sashek8451 2 роки тому

    Interestingly, I have been experiencing mysterious diffuse hair loss and thought it was from a medication or some other reason..and maybe it was in some part in the physical, but my guidance was that at the metaphysical level, it’s manifesting because of my recent reclusiveness and deep fears of being seen. So it will be interesting to see what happens with my hair after I dedicate the inner work to this. Will try to remember to report back.

  • @erickiszely9317
    @erickiszely9317 11 років тому +1

    You're handsome! Your feelings are valid...

  • @NM-fu9zt
    @NM-fu9zt 8 років тому +1

    On bad hair days..or when I don't have the right outfit..I don't go out...we are programmed to appear in a great way when meeting people. This was a ha..ha video by the way😅 😂👌I am surprised what all I have written to you!

  • @ryanjescobedo6162
    @ryanjescobedo6162 3 роки тому +1

    Which Castaneda book were you referring to?

  • @smallsteps3801
    @smallsteps3801 Рік тому

    AHAHAHAHA the haircut isn't tragic, i laughed so hard during the intro lol okay, back to tapping ahahhaa

  • @jaemaxx
    @jaemaxx Рік тому

    DAY 1 ✅

  • @webj4
    @webj4 11 років тому +1

    Thank you very much! :-)

  • @pelinarbel
    @pelinarbel 5 років тому +1

    Is it related to moving energy thus healing, when tears come out of eyes during the session?

    • @tapwithbrad
      @tapwithbrad  5 років тому +2

      That's one of the common physical manifestations of energy shifting while tapping. :)

  • @TheRainbonus
    @TheRainbonus 10 років тому +3

    I can SO relate. I am a hair dresser. It GROWS BACK! YAY! You actually have a nice head shape, so enjoy the "buzzy" feel of it. I want to know if YOU did that to yourself, or if someone buzzed it for you?

  • @requinremembers
    @requinremembers 7 років тому +1

    5/24/17 1:55 start

  • @kat_1_1_1
    @kat_1_1_1 11 місяців тому

    Brad ❤❤❤🫂🙏

  • @walikhan8541
    @walikhan8541 9 років тому +1

    I wish i had this Tapping course of yours.But ?

  • @ellenmary8075
    @ellenmary8075 Рік тому +1

    Why do i start yawning while tapping.. Can someone please tell me

    • @tapwithbrad
      @tapwithbrad  Рік тому +1

      It's one of the physical signs of energy shifting - the most common one we see with tapping. :)

  • @angelaskabelund6327
    @angelaskabelund6327 9 років тому +1

    It doesn't look that bad... :) just need to get used to it. I think it looks good...it is just something new to get used to.

  • @tashinashi6699
    @tashinashi6699 11 років тому

    Brad Yates you are a beautiful man!

  • @alexandraantfolk5613
    @alexandraantfolk5613 5 років тому +1

    Hahha thank you for the laughs😘😂

  • @pinkifloyd7867
    @pinkifloyd7867 Рік тому

    ❤.... Actually you looked kind of cute with that hair cut Brad 😅🤣😂

  • @ebrug.u.6044
    @ebrug.u.6044 10 років тому +15

    Are you kidding me? Love the hair cut!!!

    • @talkingpens
      @talkingpens 7 років тому +1

      I think Brad looks pretty sharp even with the haircut.

  • @amarasunflower6914
    @amarasunflower6914 3 роки тому +1

    1:30

  • @aliddle07
    @aliddle07 11 років тому +3

    I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but I actually think your "terrible" hair cut looks better, haha. There was nothing wrong with the old one, but I actually think the short one makes you look younger.