i do think younger generation malaysians are getting better and more respectable towards one appearance but not denying the fact that there are still a lot of malaysians who question someone’s skin….. and our media ‘awareness’ still has a loooooong way to go sbb semua macam tak berubah sngt daripada apa yang amirah highlighted. btw, love both of you!! cantik luar dan dalam ❤️
mananya x berubah if they keep using old gen casts instead of new ones. I don't want to ditch the old ones but it's time to change up those stereotypes definition of beauty
they really had a mature conversation when they started talking abt skin colours issue. I could relate to sabrina's sister as I have tan-skinned compared to my older sister so sometimes it offended me when society made me felt like those who have fair-skinned is pretty like no, everyone is pretty in their own skin colours. Gotta love ourselves bcs if not us then who else?
Exactly everyone is pretty in their own skin! Sadly everyone wants to look the way they don’t look, because we get those unrealistic beauty standards burned in our brains, so sad! Here in Europe completely different than Asia,you’re not ugly when you’re white, but soooo many ppl want to tan because they think they look prettier that way
totally agree with sabrina's sister about colorism in malay society .. during my primary school years ,, those relatives always come to my face and say " why ure tan skin ? look at ur sister very fair and pretty . are u somehow adopted ? " those moments i remembered and im 16 now learnt about skincare and when i went to my hometown they was like " omg so fair now ! u look prettier " some shit .. the products from public figure .. the objective of the products is always to achieve ' fair skin ' . kinda sad but its what we're living and growing up with
The way both you and your sister stunning af, do pretty genes just run in the family..?? Also loved that Amirah mentioned colorism in Malaysia, its still very much present in media and beauty commercials sadly..
i love amirah.. i cried when she said her mom apologized TT its terrible that dark skin tones are seen as ugly when in reality every skin tone is beautiful as it is. young girls being told that fair light skin is better is horrible. but thats asia beauty standards for you ig
Colourism is a big issue in all Asian communities, in other places in the world as well and I'm so glad I had a mother who loved her darker skin compared to the aunties who perpetuated the discrimination
I really relate when she said people compare her skin tone with you. I have 5 siblings and everyone is fair except me because I’m tan and dark af compare to them. Not only my family but my relatives, friends and coworkers also make fun of my tan skin. Sometimes they will ask if I’m really my parents child or if someone changed me after my mom gives birth to me and they also often says i was picked up from trash before thats why I’m dark. It’s frustrating and I always cried by myself.
It's so sad that this happens in a Southeast Asian country where you're SUPPOSED to be tanned. I learned that even among the Chinese, the fairer you are the prettier lol. I hope we stop normalising this view lah
Instantly in love with her sister as well once she mentioned abt skin colonization. It sad when ppl keep comparing you especially with ur siblings. But no worries, i love my siblings!!
i can totally understand and relate to your sister. My skin tone is indeed on the darker side and even till this day there are times where i just "why cant i be fairer?" and by that i mean, just a lighter tone and NOT WHITE. The majority of us just get into the brainwashing moment where white is beautiful. It's not even like a warm yellow/brown skin yknow. I'm talking about porcelain white. Like... why?? We are not of those races. I just wish to be fairer because i get sunburn easily even when im taught to wear sunscreen since i was a school kid.
I agreed with Sabrina's sister's statement. For me, I'm not tan and I don't have fair skin either. I'm stuck in the middle but I do want to say that the 'mak cik-mak cik bawang' didn't control their word choices. We living in the same country where we have various skin types and religions but the color of the skin is still an issue every single time. I was tanned when I was a kid for a while and I heard the same thing that Sabrina's sister heard. It hurts me deeply actually. I did get mad at the aunty but I was literally a kid and they might think that I can't fight back or they'll think I'm rude if I did fight back. Not to mention the other problems that occurred. There is a lot for me to mention here. I really wish I can move out cause I think that Malay society is somehow judgemental (it's from my point of view) No matter what skin type you are, what religion you are in, what body shape you built in, you're beautiful the way you are. Don't mind the other bashing on you. You're the queen and king. You make your own choice to live. If people are mocking your appearance, just ignore their existence. You're pretty, gorgeous, amazing and brilliant. Live your life the fullest, bestie.
I didn't expect to cry here, but I did 😅 About the colorism in malay society, it's so true. Since I was young until now, my relatives kept on comparing me to my cousins. I swear I hated that. Imagine being as young as 7 y/o, every time you meet your relatives during raya or something, the makciks keep on comparing you to your cousins. Not only just skin tone, they would compare me and my cousins in a lot of aspects. Siapa lagi putih, siapa lagi tinggi, siapa lagi pandai, siapa lagi kurus and so on. Sedih doo asyik kena compare je 😢
Ye dho. I'm also being compared to my same-aged cousin since we were child. Colorism, intelligence, beauty... What's wrong with their otak ek to compare2 ni? Ishhh I cried a lot back then but sembunyi2 la.
@@elishiayahaya5832 iya memang. Tu belum lagi parents compare dengan anak jiran la, anak member diorang la. Like, every time I got my exam results, they just need to compare me to this one friend of mine who is a daughter of my parents’ friends. Who got more A, who got more A+. Do they really need to compare every single thing? Do their parents also compare them when they were younger?
I feel you girl but now I didn't care anymore . Just ignore them they won't stop talking about you so just live your life and do what make you happy and stay safe.
This comparison syndrome is not getting any better in Asian countries; be it colorism or intelligence or mannerism or you-know-what-else there may be. Loads of hearts have been broken and scarred for life, so yeah, i totally get this. Kudos to all ‘survivors’ out there. #Ganbatte
Yeap colourism is real guys. It started as soon as i was born! So im on the fairer side whereas my sis is more on the tanned side. Masa i baru lahir my aunty's husband commented to my mom "oh sorang lahir bulan terang, yang sulung lahir bulan gelap" like wadefak?! Why would you say that to a baby and a toddler ffs 🤦🏼♀ and the discrimination my sis had to face ever since we were young from people surround us, just because i look "prettier" (according to them). I didn't know back then, but as i get older, i understand more and the more i hate that
used to be insecure about my skin tone because i’m more in kuning-langsat skintone instead of light skintone like my sister. but soon i can accept it openly and in fact, i love it so much. i look healthy gitu. your sister is definitely beautiful, she looks radiant. insecurity sucks but i hope you guys know you both are so beautiful
I always insecure abt my skin tone. Pernah org tanya kenapa kulit you gelap, coklat ni sama colour dgn kulit you la. Paling takleh lupa someone told me kau pakai pape pun tetap tak lawa. I cried so hard. I tak mintak pun utk jadi tak lawa. I tried so hard to accept who i am. It hurts
just ignore those people ok ... our beauty is not determined by how fair our skin is ok? all the beauty standard the society cakp semua bs and unrealistic and last but not least pls remember you're beautiful just the way you are💗💗💗
I understand her sister so much .. cause i have kinda similar tone to her and it's so hard to find foundation that is your tone and not too fare .. and makcik makcik here always compare you to your siblings who have brighter skin tone than you .. at first that hurts but after getting older i learn to ignore people's opinion that wouldn't do any changes on me .. cause like I AM BORN with this tone of skin
talking about colourism remind me of my highschool memory. one of my male classmate used to call me and my fair-skinned friend as ‘oreo’ because we always stick together ( me as the biscuit since i’m a tanned person while my friend as the cream because she has fair skin). ++ sometimes my own closed friend also came out and say it loud about my big insecurities (my skin obviously). living in this society are tired af.
I’m so sorry that it happened to you and I do experienced the same thing as you. Other than oreo and tahi cicak, I got called bendera pahang, because bendera pahang is black and white and me as the black part and my bestie as the white part. Good thing is my bestie sticks with me no matter what untill now we’re in uni 🤣
I'm older brother of 11 siblings.. its only me got dark skin, the rest are fairer skin.. (maybe 1 or 2 other less fair but not by far from other - but im darkest one lol). when i was kids, few of my pak mak sedara mulut takdak inusran, will say im adopted lah, tertukar kat hospital la and so on. it s kinda hurt that time.. but dont care much later on.) Then my mum and pakcik makcik said, I look very similar to my late father now (except darker tone).
I have same experience as amira also. Since 7 years old back then on 1998. I experience Colourism for the whole primary school period. It's not good cause it really hit my confidence level hard. I guess this issue even more worse nowadays. I wish i could ever live in other country that can make feel more confident about my skin tone.
Ive been dealing with the same issues as her sister my entire life as I’m the only one in my family with darker skin tone.. and now i am used to it and the best part is I learned to appreciate myself even more :)
Totally agree with amirah.. My sister also got fair skin while me on the tan side. I've been bullied by the boys is my class during primary school because i'm so tan. But luckily, after grad from school, my skin getting bright a little but still tanned.. I guest its all about hormone changing..
Your sister named Amirah and being the tanned one is soooo relatable! Gurl! Same name, same situation! My brother is so fair and we often got compared too!!! And yes I realised it at a very young age because of people comparing us OUT LOUD 😌
i'm really glad that you guys talked about colorism as it's extremely common in Malaysia. as someone who's on the fairer skin tone side, i still face similar encounters not as bad as what happened to Amirah but i've been called a vampire by not only my schoolmates/friends but my own brother too who always say like 'you're so pale, you look like a vampire'. of course sometimes it's in a joking way but it didn't happen only once but multiple times. let's do our best to make sure this doesn't exist anymore
Amirah's story just same as mine , even my own family member did that to me , it hurts but i just smile in pain tho . When ppls make fun of me i just like dah lali with it . It hurts when your own fam make fun of you and for them it just casual talks or smthng but not for us . I even malu whenever i go out , the confident in me just gone bcs of them . Sending virtual hugs for who experienced this ❤
Ill continue here , the words that they said that hurts me in the spot is " kau dahlah tak cantik bodoh pulaktu " then i dont know how to express my react masatu bcs it just breaks my heart do , i endup watch sad movies and cry , not bcs of the movie , it bcs of them . Then they wont get sus la if i cry sebb movie .
Ok last even my own friend use budak kecik to tease me in front of many ppl masa tu dkt jamuan apa tah , and budak tu bfr this oky je but my own frenz yg suruh budak tu ckp " gelap , hitam and so on " and all the makcik there laughing including her And i join laugh sikit but only god know how i felt back then . Fikir la ur own frenz kot but know i avoid her . Pls if u have frenz then u like to tease ur frenz just shut ur mouth even ur frenz tu gelak but u dont even know what she feels . Stop .
Hey don’t listen to all those lies! You don’t need fair skin to be pretty. ‘Beauty’ standards in itself is toxic. so if these close-minded people think only a certain skin color is ‘pretty’ then shame on them. I hope you’re okay. and idk you but i’m sure you are beautiful! 🤍 *sends virtual hug*
Omg my name is sabrina and my sister name amirah too!, and we both have that colourism issues in our family like my mom used to compared my sister tan skin with my fair skin too,,, I really feel bad for my sister but glad we are all good now and no more colourism in our family 🥺👍🏻
Omg Sabrina! Thank you so so so so so so much to your sister bcs i literally felt the same way like she did. I hate the fact that we 'tan/ dark' skin tone ppl have to hold it back and just keep it to ourselves herer in MY. No hate or wtv but it does give a major impact to me, at least. Back in primary school the boys would always call me 'dark' (hitam to be precise) and each and everyday after school they would walk in front of my house and shout 'the word' out loud. I thought that was it but it continues till secondary school. Ugh i hate life. I'm the only siblings who have tan skin tone and even my sister would mock me. As if im her friend or wtv. At least once a month i would cry and reflect, asking myself why i was born dark. But adult life came and i met true ppl who appreciates me. But still, all those experiences doesn't give any confidence to me, yet. I need to gain more and ignore what other ppl said. Oh no! Im sorry it's too freaking long 😅 xx 🤍✨
I still remember during my primary school, im in choir team represented my school. Whenever we have competition, the teachers will do make up for the girls. I felt pretty at that time wearing beautiful uniform and all but the boys will said i look hideous and grey face. Really sad. And during playtime they always outcasted me just because im dark. Im living in flat and just sitting watch they play😢 even balik kampung my uncle will teased me and during high school as well the guy call my group as geng mamak just most of us dark skin. In conclusion, Guys are stupid. Those are dont is rare gem. And thanks to my hubby whom fell in love my dark skin and i felt blessed at the end. Alhamdulillah.
Omg true!! i experienced the same thing your sister had.. My older sister is the fair one (following my mom's) & I'm more to the tan side (following my dad's) & yeah, some people said the same thing what your sister mentioned. I used to have that mindset that being fair is the beauty standard i have to reach but not anymore. I think i like me being me,,, in this skin tone i have. Maybe if i had fair skin, my skin prolly be sensitive or reddish or whatever lol So I've learned to love my skin & me basically! ❤️
Yessss colourism in Malaysia are so sucks especially when you born with natural tanned to brown skin, I used to hate myself at the young age because of people keep saying that I will look prettier if I had fair skin, being mocked until I questions god like why I was born with this skin color? some even asked me, why im darker than my other friends like how im supposed answer that?? After a decades of hating myself, I try my best to think positive, learn to appreciate myself more, dgaf what people said and finally, I love myself, I felt so good and happy.
i agree with Amirah. i am malay and i got first comment about my skin is when im 5. (but from my mum's story, since im born LOL) one of my tadika classmate call me 'hitam legam' but i never know the real meaning until im 7. then when im 11 a school teacher ask me "are you indian?" that hurt me. totally bcs she ask me infront of others and that time nak ambik hadiah anugerah cemerlang so that totally ruined my mood. even im 18 right now, i already received alot of bad comments sometimes from my own family. is that bad having dark skin? i keep asking that to myself. malaysian need to grow up about this. don't think all fair skin is pretty.
I'm always like that .. my cousin's skin is lighter than mine and my skin is a little darker and I'm kind of thrown out of the conversation when they talk because yeah I'm a little dark
I can relate to sabrina's sister since i have a tanned skin color as well. Ever since i was a kid, the family members of mine kept on mocking me for having a dark skin since they all are having fair skin color and everything. Even until today, some of them keep on mocking me which is sucks. During middle school too, my schoolmates always making fun of me. Of course i do feel insecure with my skin color like questioning my entire life why i was born like this but as i grow older, i start to think that "that's bullshit, nothing is wrong having a tanned skin" so yea life feel better ever since that eventho there's time i still feel very insecure
I have EXACTLY SIMILAR experience with her sister (I have skin tone like her sister and my sister have fair skin like Sabrina). Kena banding dan tegur pasal warna kulit dari kecik okay, ingat kita tak faham ke. Faham je cuma masa tu kita budak2 tak kisah pasal warna kulit ni kan. Fked me up really bad growing up, especially bila asyik kena sogok dengan supplement & whitening skincare. Zero confidence. Sekarang dah tua baru menyesal kenapa biarkan diri dengar sangat diorang sampai nak buat apa pun jadi insecure. Wish I was more confident since my school days but I guess at least now I finally start to embrace my hitam manis skin (although it's still hard for me. Masih tak ada keyakinan tapi tak seteruk dululah. At least now I dare to look at people face/eyes while talking lol) Kalau pengalaman sendiri, sama je yang tua ke generasi muda ke, berlambak je yang masih berfikiran, kulit gelap=hodoh. They're just not as loud, takut kena judge balik sebab pandang orang cantik based on warna kulit.
younger generation is better nowadays. my friends appreciate darker skin colour and they always complimenting them for having a healthy skin. i have a story tho.. zaman sklh my darker friends used to insult me for having pimples.. she said that the reason my pimples look so bad because my skin is bright.. she said darker skin like her is better. at that time i kinda shocked and sad tho, bcos i almost have no problem about skin colour. i appreciate all skin colour so i hope people will not make skin colour as a huge problem no matter it is bright or dark... bcos some people have differences insecurities, i am probably ok with my skin colour, my only insecurities is my pimples.. so i have people out there will be more cautious with their words.. 😊
I live in the Balkans, in Europe and here people want be more tanned.. Because I'm fairer, everyone always tells me that I need to tan and comment negatively on my skin. Which is so funny, because at the same time ppl in other countries are being mocked for darker skin. It's all so stupid. We are all very beautiful, every skin tone is beautiful. There is no point in listening to those people. Sorry for my English. I hope you got the point. ❤
Totally agree with ur sister cs im more on darker skin tone while my siblings more on fair skin tone. It was very heartbreaking when people joke about my skin tone around others. They would literally say, i’m not my parent’s daughter , i should be my uncle’s daughter instead because he’s more darker than my father??? i’m still struggling to move on from all the hurtful memories sksksksk
lol when i was little me and my lil sis went to a store near our house and the macik cashier have the audacity to ask 'kenapa yang ni cerah yg ni gelap?' macam bodo apa macik tu, mmg kenapa if i hv dark skin, cantik apa btw what camera are you using sabrina?
Not gonna lie bout everything amira’s said. Skin tone discrimination is like part of culture in our country & i really hate that. All my life I witnessed LOT of indirect discrimination towards my younger siblings who has tan skin & people compared them to me cause I have fair skin but I really feel guilty & sad for my younger siblings. Having through all of that at the age of 7-10. It’s so sad to hear 10 yrs old kid asking how to be fair. So, i always compliment my younger sis, saying she’s so pretty, it’s nothing wrong for having any colour of skin. I don’t want her to lose her confidence due to sh1tty mouth from other person.
I totally agree with Sabrina's sister with colorism especially in south east asia. I never really thought that the color of my skin matters that much when i was a kid until people, usually from older generations, "joked" about it and tell me i could be prettier if my skin were lighter. And not to mention how my hair is really curly ever since i was a kid so i look totally different from my family and other kids obviously. And they would say that i was probably adopted or my parents brought the wrong baby from the hospital, etc. I was like maybe 5 or 6 when i was in kindergarten, and ever since then i have always been feeling insecure because not only i don't fit in the beauty standard, i don't even fit in any standard because somehow being curly and dark skin means you're not "normal/standard looking" and different from everybody else. So instead of loving and accepting myself, i have always felt the need to change myself to fit into these people's standard.
I remember when I was 8,I got bullied by my classmates for having slightly dark skin.They'd say something like "omg hitamnya" "kau hitam taknak kawan" ?? I mean I understand that they were kids too but who taught you that lol..I go through this everyday from the age of 8 until 12 I'm 13 now
Doa yg baik2 je utk mrk berdua. They are still young. Mak2 dara zmn dulu lagi seksi tau. Bila dah kawin, dah berumur baru diorg berhijrah. Lagi2 dua bradik ni kat negara asing yg non-muslim majority. Tp lagi cepat berhijrah lagi bagus…. Kita taktau umur kita panjang mana kan… Aamiin.
Sbb eng movie tu native speaker so accent dorang sgt sharp mcm tu la kan .klau kita malaysia walaupun guna american/british/aussie accent still boleh faham sbb kite still ade tèlo2 malaysia tu 😅
i think being the youngest and having a bigger build than the rest of my sisters hurt more than having a tanned skin, in fact im tall and thin, but i play softbol and field sport ( javelin throw) i have wide shoulder.. my sister being a bit short and small build, i look like a fucking giant beside her.. thats where the comparison start, fortunately im not tanned, i cant imagine, malaysian being this and judge someone being bigger than the other and tanned skin tone. i will get it even harder if im tanned right? tanned is not dirty, for those whose having a tanned skin, be confident.. you're pretty!
let me tell you this one thing, idk why some people told that they are NOT colourism. BUT the fact they would make a whitening product and always make comparison between before and after which is obviously fairier than before. Yk what product im talking about those shitty lotion, cream, pills and whatsoever🙄 They said its to repair dark skin problem and sunburn, DARK SKIN IS NOT A PROBLEM. ITS A FREAKING NORMAL HUMAN BEING. It doesnt need to be change or repair?! That is literally undirectly COLOURISM. like why? whats wrong with us having a dark skin? Do we need to be fair to look pretty? That product should never exist and people should also stop buying/supporting it and realize how much its a big deal for us
For me, people can judge but it's not their right to judge. Like... it's ur body, you can do whatever you want with them coz the decision is at the palm of ur hand. Just choose it, rockin it and go with the flow gurlsss🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 YOU ARE PRETTY THE WAY YOU ARE ❤❤❤❤❤❤
" we both ended up in the countries where we're feel more confident " i wish that it was me ;)
i do think younger generation malaysians are getting better and more respectable towards one appearance but not denying the fact that there are still a lot of malaysians who question someone’s skin….. and our media ‘awareness’ still has a loooooong way to go sbb semua macam tak berubah sngt daripada apa yang amirah highlighted. btw, love both of you!! cantik luar dan dalam ❤️
mananya x berubah if they keep using old gen casts instead of new ones. I don't want to ditch the old ones but it's time to change up those stereotypes definition of beauty
Dia mmng kak kepada kak sabrina kea?
@@captainkaizo3824 ha ah. dia ada kata dlm video, tu kakak dia???😅
@@captainkaizo3824 iya, kan dlm video tu die dah bgtau
they really had a mature conversation when they started talking abt skin colours issue. I could relate to sabrina's sister as I have tan-skinned compared to my older sister so sometimes it offended me when society made me felt like those who have fair-skinned is pretty like no, everyone is pretty in their own skin colours. Gotta love ourselves bcs if not us then who else?
Exactly everyone is pretty in their own skin! Sadly everyone wants to look the way they don’t look, because we get those unrealistic beauty standards burned in our brains, so sad! Here in Europe completely different than Asia,you’re not ugly when you’re white, but soooo many ppl want to tan because they think they look prettier that way
totally agree with sabrina's sister about colorism in malay society .. during my primary school years ,, those relatives always come to my face and say " why ure tan skin ? look at ur sister very fair and pretty . are u somehow adopted ? " those moments i remembered and im 16 now learnt about skincare and when i went to my hometown they was like " omg so fair now ! u look prettier " some shit .. the products from public figure .. the objective of the products is always to achieve ' fair skin ' . kinda sad but its what we're living and growing up with
Totally agree 😢😢
its sad that it happens in malay society when our ancestors are born tanned, and now they tryna white wash everything
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Yup, everytime i go back to malaysia my aunties are always talking about my dark skin and suggesting me whitening products T_T
Dia mmng kak kepada kak sabrina kea?
@@captainkaizo3824 yup
The way both you and your sister stunning af, do pretty genes just run in the family..?? Also loved that Amirah mentioned colorism in Malaysia, its still very much present in media and beauty commercials sadly..
pretty and intelligent genes😭
Totally agree.. I'm a tan skin myself and it's really hard to find suitable foundation for my skin
Hello I just love your name. I do not know its meaning but pronouncing might be beautiful. Have a nice day!
When girl call other girl pretty l just assume it's a lie
Kak, saya nak tanya sikit pasal baju pengantin korea yg kak sabrina pakai tu. Nak tanya kedai tapi malu
i love amirah.. i cried when she said her mom apologized TT its terrible that dark skin tones are seen as ugly when in reality every skin tone is beautiful as it is. young girls being told that fair light skin is better is horrible. but thats asia beauty standards for you ig
dah stop cry belum?
@@arifxsuhaimi lu siape dah
But, in Korea, netz judge more with skin colour. More in msia, in my opinion 🤔,
Colourism is a big issue in all Asian communities, in other places in the world as well and I'm so glad I had a mother who loved her darker skin compared to the aunties who perpetuated the discrimination
u can tell that azhar's family is ✨ pretty with brain ✨
Sabrina’s sister seems so fun and chill to hangout with. She’s so pretty and well-spoken too✨
I really relate when she said people compare her skin tone with you. I have 5 siblings and everyone is fair except me because I’m tan and dark af compare to them. Not only my family but my relatives, friends and coworkers also make fun of my tan skin. Sometimes they will ask if I’m really my parents child or if someone changed me after my mom gives birth to me and they also often says i was picked up from trash before thats why I’m dark. It’s frustrating and I always cried by myself.
Picked up from trash? What a nonsense
Tf??? They said dat for skin color??
These people.. Their words and attitudes are never right. Please ignore them okay?😊
It's so sad that this happens in a Southeast Asian country where you're SUPPOSED to be tanned. I learned that even among the Chinese, the fairer you are the prettier lol. I hope we stop normalising this view lah
That's why we should proud who we are and love yourself and respect to other people
Instantly in love with her sister as well once she mentioned abt skin colonization. It sad when ppl keep comparing you especially with ur siblings. But no worries, i love my siblings!!
I appreciate their mom apologizing to Amirah for hearing that aunt nonsense 🥺
Thank you Amirah and Sabrina mom.
i can totally understand and relate to your sister. My skin tone is indeed on the darker side and even till this day there are times where i just "why cant i be fairer?" and by that i mean, just a lighter tone and NOT WHITE. The majority of us just get into the brainwashing moment where white is beautiful. It's not even like a warm yellow/brown skin yknow. I'm talking about porcelain white. Like... why?? We are not of those races. I just wish to be fairer because i get sunburn easily even when im taught to wear sunscreen since i was a school kid.
I like ur fam allows u ladies to be confident and brave to work/live outside Malaysia. Let u see the world 🌎
I agreed with Sabrina's sister's statement. For me, I'm not tan and I don't have fair skin either. I'm stuck in the middle but I do want to say that the 'mak cik-mak cik bawang' didn't control their word choices. We living in the same country where we have various skin types and religions but the color of the skin is still an issue every single time. I was tanned when I was a kid for a while and I heard the same thing that Sabrina's sister heard. It hurts me deeply actually. I did get mad at the aunty but I was literally a kid and they might think that I can't fight back or they'll think I'm rude if I did fight back. Not to mention the other problems that occurred. There is a lot for me to mention here. I really wish I can move out cause I think that Malay society is somehow judgemental (it's from my point of view) No matter what skin type you are, what religion you are in, what body shape you built in, you're beautiful the way you are. Don't mind the other bashing on you. You're the queen and king. You make your own choice to live. If people are mocking your appearance, just ignore their existence. You're pretty, gorgeous, amazing and brilliant. Live your life the fullest, bestie.
I didn't expect to cry here, but I did 😅 About the colorism in malay society, it's so true. Since I was young until now, my relatives kept on comparing me to my cousins. I swear I hated that. Imagine being as young as 7 y/o, every time you meet your relatives during raya or something, the makciks keep on comparing you to your cousins. Not only just skin tone, they would compare me and my cousins in a lot of aspects. Siapa lagi putih, siapa lagi tinggi, siapa lagi pandai, siapa lagi kurus and so on. Sedih doo asyik kena compare je 😢
Ye dho. I'm also being compared to my same-aged cousin since we were child. Colorism, intelligence, beauty... What's wrong with their otak ek to compare2 ni? Ishhh I cried a lot back then but sembunyi2 la.
@@elishiayahaya5832 iya memang. Tu belum lagi parents compare dengan anak jiran la, anak member diorang la. Like, every time I got my exam results, they just need to compare me to this one friend of mine who is a daughter of my parents’ friends. Who got more A, who got more A+. Do they really need to compare every single thing? Do their parents also compare them when they were younger?
@@kkuralyn itula tu. Ha x suka laaaa. Nyirap rasa. Nasib dorg lg tua. Kalau tak, mmg saya sound la sorg2.djdjdjdjdjsj
I feel you girl but now I didn't care anymore . Just ignore them they won't stop talking about you so just live your life and do what make you happy and stay safe.
This comparison syndrome is not getting any better in Asian countries; be it colorism or intelligence or mannerism or you-know-what-else there may be. Loads of hearts have been broken and scarred for life, so yeah, i totally get this. Kudos to all ‘survivors’ out there. #Ganbatte
Yeap colourism is real guys. It started as soon as i was born! So im on the fairer side whereas my sis is more on the tanned side. Masa i baru lahir my aunty's husband commented to my mom "oh sorang lahir bulan terang, yang sulung lahir bulan gelap" like wadefak?! Why would you say that to a baby and a toddler ffs 🤦🏼♀ and the discrimination my sis had to face ever since we were young from people surround us, just because i look "prettier" (according to them). I didn't know back then, but as i get older, i understand more and the more i hate that
the way i can relate to sabrina sister a lot makes me feel like oh im not the only one going through this so happy and how amirah talked about it
used to be insecure about my skin tone because i’m more in kuning-langsat skintone instead of light skintone like my sister. but soon i can accept it openly and in fact, i love it so much. i look healthy gitu. your sister is definitely beautiful, she looks radiant. insecurity sucks but i hope you guys know you both are so beautiful
I always insecure abt my skin tone. Pernah org tanya kenapa kulit you gelap, coklat ni sama colour dgn kulit you la. Paling takleh lupa someone told me kau pakai pape pun tetap tak lawa. I cried so hard. I tak mintak pun utk jadi tak lawa. I tried so hard to accept who i am. It hurts
just ignore those people ok ... our beauty is not determined by how fair our skin is ok? all the beauty standard the society cakp semua bs and unrealistic and last but not least pls remember you're beautiful just the way you are💗💗💗
im tanned. and i feel you. its hurt af when peoples keep comparing me with others sibs.
Feel you to sis.
I understand her sister so much .. cause i have kinda similar tone to her and it's so hard to find foundation that is your tone and not too fare .. and makcik makcik here always compare you to your siblings who have brighter skin tone than you .. at first that hurts but after getting older i learn to ignore people's opinion that wouldn't do any changes on me .. cause like I AM BORN with this tone of skin
her sister opinion about drama is reallyyyyyy gooddd
talking about colourism remind me of my highschool memory. one of my male classmate used to call me and my fair-skinned friend as ‘oreo’ because we always stick together ( me as the biscuit since i’m a tanned person while my friend as the cream because she has fair skin). ++ sometimes my own closed friend also came out and say it loud about my big insecurities (my skin obviously). living in this society are tired af.
I’m so sorry that it happened to you and I do experienced the same thing as you. Other than oreo and tahi cicak, I got called bendera pahang, because bendera pahang is black and white and me as the black part and my bestie as the white part. Good thing is my bestie sticks with me no matter what untill now we’re in uni 🤣
I'm older brother of 11 siblings.. its only me got dark skin, the rest are fairer skin.. (maybe 1 or 2 other less fair but not by far from other - but im darkest one lol). when i was kids, few of my pak mak sedara mulut takdak inusran, will say im adopted lah, tertukar kat hospital la and so on. it s kinda hurt that time.. but dont care much later on.) Then my mum and pakcik makcik said, I look very similar to my late father now (except darker tone).
Normally guys wouldn't worry about complexion then again i don't know what ideal in your country
I have same experience as amira also. Since 7 years old back then on 1998. I experience Colourism for the whole primary school period. It's not good cause it really hit my confidence level hard. I guess this issue even more worse nowadays. I wish i could ever live in other country that can make feel more confident about my skin tone.
Your sister Amirah is so beautiful😍 and I loveeee this type of content where you talk about serious issues like colorism 💯
Ive been dealing with the same issues as her sister my entire life as I’m the only one in my family with darker skin tone.. and now i am used to it and the best part is I learned to appreciate myself even more :)
Totally agree with amirah.. My sister also got fair skin while me on the tan side. I've been bullied by the boys is my class during primary school because i'm so tan. But luckily, after grad from school, my skin getting bright a little but still tanned.. I guest its all about hormone changing..
Your sister named Amirah and being the tanned one is soooo relatable! Gurl! Same name, same situation! My brother is so fair and we often got compared too!!! And yes I realised it at a very young age because of people comparing us OUT LOUD 😌
Sabrina you should get Amirah here more often!! I love the deep talk you guys discuss about. ❤❤❤
Your sister look like Dayang Nurfaizah💕.You both so beautiful with a your style makeup.
YOU BOTH ARE SO PRETTY IN YOUR OWN UNIQUE WAY
You both can make a podcast, this conversation was so gooddd! Make more deep talk like this ♥
I like the way they converse to each other. Just very respectful and understanding. My sisters could never haha 😂
do more video like this in the future this is so therapeutically calming it's like talking to a friend ❤️❤️
Good for amirah to talk about it knowing they have a platform
I can DEFINITELY guess which country they’re living in just by seeing their make up look ..
i'm really glad that you guys talked about colorism as it's extremely common in Malaysia. as someone who's on the fairer skin tone side, i still face similar encounters not as bad as what happened to Amirah but i've been called a vampire by not only my schoolmates/friends but my own brother too who always say like 'you're so pale, you look like a vampire'. of course sometimes it's in a joking way but it didn't happen only once but multiple times. let's do our best to make sure this doesn't exist anymore
6:20 that's the problem , the problem is there's only one Nabila Huda
exactly
Hannesya hani? Ziana zain?
malay makciks really need to watch this
both of them are so pretty 😭
Love this kind of discussion honestly
Totally agree with amirah some ppl in malaysia think having dark skin is a shame and need to be treated . Completely crap
Both of yall is so pretty!! And yeah i relate to Amirah as a dark skinned Malaysians, but im trying to be more confident about my self:)
Amirah's story just same as mine , even my own family member did that to me , it hurts but i just smile in pain tho . When ppls make fun of me i just like dah lali with it . It hurts when your own fam make fun of you and for them it just casual talks or smthng but not for us . I even malu whenever i go out , the confident in me just gone bcs of them . Sending virtual hugs for who experienced this ❤
Ill continue here , the words that they said that hurts me in the spot is " kau dahlah tak cantik bodoh pulaktu " then i dont know how to express my react masatu bcs it just breaks my heart do , i endup watch sad movies and cry , not bcs of the movie , it bcs of them . Then they wont get sus la if i cry sebb movie .
Ok last even my own friend use budak kecik to tease me in front of many ppl masa tu dkt jamuan apa tah , and budak tu bfr this oky je but my own frenz yg suruh budak tu ckp " gelap , hitam and so on " and all the makcik there laughing including her And i join laugh sikit but only god know how i felt back then . Fikir la ur own frenz kot but know i avoid her . Pls if u have frenz then u like to tease ur frenz just shut ur mouth even ur frenz tu gelak but u dont even know what she feels . Stop .
Hey don’t listen to all those lies! You don’t need fair skin to be pretty. ‘Beauty’ standards in itself is toxic. so if these close-minded people think only a certain skin color is ‘pretty’ then shame on them. I hope you’re okay. and idk you but i’m sure you are beautiful! 🤍 *sends virtual hug*
@@whoisthis6094 thankyou really appreciate it ❤
Omg she has such a strong ish Belizean accent... if you told be that your sis was from the Caribbean- I would believe you!
Hyy darling
Tbh ik everyone knows that if u wanna wear tudung its REALLY a womens own opinion so yall have no rights to blame them...no offense , just telling 😊
Wajib itu wajib. Xde maknanye "opinion"
tu je nk ckp, ko reply ape pun aku xkan layan
@@muhammadfarhan581 ye la bang tapi jangan la sampai kutuk yg x pakai tudung sampai dia dah menjauh daripada kebenaran. Nah chill pill aku belanja 💊
@@muhammadfarhan581 sama ada kau tak tau opinion tu ape ataupun kau tak tau yang perempuan takpe kalau tak pakai tudung
@@muhammadfarhan581 tapi kena tanggung..dan jangan terlalu tunjuk aurat
Omg my name is sabrina and my sister name amirah too!, and we both have that colourism issues in our family like my mom used to compared my sister tan skin with my fair skin too,,, I really feel bad for my sister but glad we are all good now and no more colourism in our family 🥺👍🏻
as a person w tan skin , i couldn't agree more
Omg Sabrina! Thank you so so so so so so much to your sister bcs i literally felt the same way like she did. I hate the fact that we 'tan/ dark' skin tone ppl have to hold it back and just keep it to ourselves herer in MY. No hate or wtv but it does give a major impact to me, at least. Back in primary school the boys would always call me 'dark' (hitam to be precise) and each and everyday after school they would walk in front of my house and shout 'the word' out loud. I thought that was it but it continues till secondary school. Ugh i hate life. I'm the only siblings who have tan skin tone and even my sister would mock me. As if im her friend or wtv. At least once a month i would cry and reflect, asking myself why i was born dark. But adult life came and i met true ppl who appreciates me. But still, all those experiences doesn't give any confidence to me, yet. I need to gain more and ignore what other ppl said. Oh no! Im sorry it's too freaking long 😅 xx 🤍✨
I still remember during my primary school, im in choir team represented my school. Whenever we have competition, the teachers will do make up for the girls. I felt pretty at that time wearing beautiful uniform and all but the boys will said i look hideous and grey face. Really sad. And during playtime they always outcasted me just because im dark. Im living in flat and just sitting watch they play😢 even balik kampung my uncle will teased me and during high school as well the guy call my group as geng mamak just most of us dark skin. In conclusion, Guys are stupid. Those are dont is rare gem. And thanks to my hubby whom fell in love my dark skin and i felt blessed at the end. Alhamdulillah.
i love this. im so invested in the experiences yall went through
Pls tell your sister she is so pretty too!! 😭💜
Hyyyy
How r u
Omg her skin color is so stunning 😍 in Belgium we pay to get your skin color sis 😗✌🏼
Omg true!! i experienced the same thing your sister had.. My older sister is the fair one (following my mom's) & I'm more to the tan side (following my dad's) & yeah, some people said the same thing what your sister mentioned. I used to have that mindset that being fair is the beauty standard i have to reach but not anymore. I think i like me being me,,, in this skin tone i have. Maybe if i had fair skin, my skin prolly be sensitive or reddish or whatever lol
So I've learned to love my skin & me basically! ❤️
Yessss colourism in Malaysia are so sucks especially when you born with natural tanned to brown skin, I used to hate myself at the young age because of people keep saying that I will look prettier if I had fair skin, being mocked until I questions god like why I was born with this skin color? some even asked me, why im darker than my other friends like how im supposed answer that?? After a decades of hating myself, I try my best to think positive, learn to appreciate myself more, dgaf what people said and finally, I love myself, I felt so good and happy.
10:17 the fans and sabrina 😠🔪🔪🔪...why would someone say that..lets all pray for her sis 😌
eventho you guys have different skin tone but anyone can tell you are obviously sisters 😍 i wish me & my siblings have the bond that you guys have
i agree with Amirah. i am malay and i got first comment about my skin is when im 5. (but from my mum's story, since im born LOL) one of my tadika classmate call me 'hitam legam' but i never know the real meaning until im 7. then when im 11 a school teacher ask me "are you indian?" that hurt me. totally bcs she ask me infront of others and that time nak ambik hadiah anugerah cemerlang so that totally ruined my mood. even im 18 right now, i already received alot of bad comments sometimes from my own family. is that bad having dark skin? i keep asking that to myself. malaysian need to grow up about this. don't think all fair skin is pretty.
You guys just like a twin.
nooo but for real your sister is suuuper prettyyyy.
literally like me and my sibs also got compared cause of our different skin tones 🥲✋🏼
samaa 🥲
Sama 😢😢
Both of them are so pretty omg 😩
I'm always like that .. my cousin's skin is lighter than mine and my skin is a little darker and I'm kind of thrown out of the conversation when they talk because yeah I'm a little dark
i'm totally agree with sabrina's sister!!
I can relate to sabrina's sister since i have a tanned skin color as well. Ever since i was a kid, the family members of mine kept on mocking me for having a dark skin since they all are having fair skin color and everything. Even until today, some of them keep on mocking me which is sucks. During middle school too, my schoolmates always making fun of me. Of course i do feel insecure with my skin color like questioning my entire life why i was born like this but as i grow older, i start to think that "that's bullshit, nothing is wrong having a tanned skin" so yea life feel better ever since that eventho there's time i still feel very insecure
I have EXACTLY SIMILAR experience with her sister (I have skin tone like her sister and my sister have fair skin like Sabrina). Kena banding dan tegur pasal warna kulit dari kecik okay, ingat kita tak faham ke. Faham je cuma masa tu kita budak2 tak kisah pasal warna kulit ni kan. Fked me up really bad growing up, especially bila asyik kena sogok dengan supplement & whitening skincare. Zero confidence. Sekarang dah tua baru menyesal kenapa biarkan diri dengar sangat diorang sampai nak buat apa pun jadi insecure. Wish I was more confident since my school days but I guess at least now I finally start to embrace my hitam manis skin (although it's still hard for me. Masih tak ada keyakinan tapi tak seteruk dululah. At least now I dare to look at people face/eyes while talking lol)
Kalau pengalaman sendiri, sama je yang tua ke generasi muda ke, berlambak je yang masih berfikiran, kulit gelap=hodoh. They're just not as loud, takut kena judge balik sebab pandang orang cantik based on warna kulit.
younger generation is better nowadays. my friends appreciate darker skin colour and they always complimenting them for having a healthy skin. i have a story tho.. zaman sklh my darker friends used to insult me for having pimples.. she said that the reason my pimples look so bad because my skin is bright.. she said darker skin like her is better. at that time i kinda shocked and sad tho, bcos i almost have no problem about skin colour. i appreciate all skin colour so i hope people will not make skin colour as a huge problem no matter it is bright or dark... bcos some people have differences insecurities, i am probably ok with my skin colour, my only insecurities is my pimples.. so i have people out there will be more cautious with their words.. 😊
I live in the Balkans, in Europe and here people want be more tanned.. Because I'm fairer, everyone always tells me that I need to tan and comment negatively on my skin. Which is so funny, because at the same time ppl in other countries are being mocked for darker skin. It's all so stupid. We are all very beautiful, every skin tone is beautiful. There is no point in listening to those people. Sorry for my English. I hope you got the point. ❤
Totally agree with ur sister cs im more on darker skin tone while my siblings more on fair skin tone. It was very heartbreaking when people joke about my skin tone around others. They would literally say, i’m not my parent’s daughter , i should be my uncle’s daughter instead because he’s more darker than my father??? i’m still struggling to move on from all the hurtful memories sksksksk
lol when i was little me and my lil sis went to a store near our house and the macik cashier have the audacity to ask 'kenapa yang ni cerah yg ni gelap?' macam bodo apa macik tu, mmg kenapa if i hv dark skin, cantik apa
btw what camera are you using sabrina?
macik terlebih budu ti
samee my teacher literally said that to me in front of everyone in the bilik guru
Can relate
That jendullll girlll detected!!! Pweettttyyy 💕 it’s okayy Amirah you’re prettyy as long as you accept yourself dearlyy
Not gonna lie bout everything amira’s said. Skin tone discrimination is like part of culture in our country & i really hate that. All my life I witnessed LOT of indirect discrimination towards my younger siblings who has tan skin & people compared them to me cause I have fair skin but I really feel guilty & sad for my younger siblings. Having through all of that at the age of 7-10. It’s so sad to hear 10 yrs old kid asking how to be fair. So, i always compliment my younger sis, saying she’s so pretty, it’s nothing wrong for having any colour of skin. I don’t want her to lose her confidence due to sh1tty mouth from other person.
Sabrina face like princess Ari from Last Empress for me la😂...when she didn't wear make up
Yes, I noticed too 😌😌
I totally agree with Sabrina's sister with colorism especially in south east asia. I never really thought that the color of my skin matters that much when i was a kid until people, usually from older generations, "joked" about it and tell me i could be prettier if my skin were lighter. And not to mention how my hair is really curly ever since i was a kid so i look totally different from my family and other kids obviously. And they would say that i was probably adopted or my parents brought the wrong baby from the hospital, etc. I was like maybe 5 or 6 when i was in kindergarten, and ever since then i have always been feeling insecure because not only i don't fit in the beauty standard, i don't even fit in any standard because somehow being curly and dark skin means you're not "normal/standard looking" and different from everybody else. So instead of loving and accepting myself, i have always felt the need to change myself to fit into these people's standard.
its impressive how you can converse like that with your sis,,, i could never like we would just keep quiet or laughing with each other 😂
I love who they look beautiful in their own way 💕💕
I love her sister laugh
I remember when I was 8,I got bullied by my classmates for having slightly dark skin.They'd say something like "omg hitamnya" "kau hitam taknak kawan" ?? I mean I understand that they were kids too but who taught you that lol..I go through this everyday from the age of 8 until 12 I'm 13 now
Assalamualaikum,saya nk tegur yg leher pun aurat tau,saya hrp kak Sabrina dpt pkai tudung dgn sempurna,fans kak Sabrina jgn marah ya,saya tegur untuk kebaikan☺️❤️sma2 tegur dan perbetulkan diri...saya doakan kak Sabrina sentiasa istiqomah🥰✨HWAITINGG
Aminnnn
betul, harusnya tertutup tapi mungkin shabrina masih belajar. so mari doakan untuk shabrina yg lebih baik ✨
@@selene5728 yes betul❤️
Betul.. setuju
Doa yg baik2 je utk mrk berdua. They are still young. Mak2 dara zmn dulu lagi seksi tau. Bila dah kawin, dah berumur baru diorg berhijrah. Lagi2 dua bradik ni kat negara asing yg non-muslim majority. Tp lagi cepat berhijrah lagi bagus…. Kita taktau umur kita panjang mana kan… Aamiin.
I can relate to her sister , lol I'm crying 😢
kenapa aku faham eh bila dorg yg speaking , bila tgk movie eng , berbelit kepala aku nak translate , tapi ni senang je aku paham 😭😭😭
Sbb eng movie tu native speaker so accent dorang sgt sharp mcm tu la kan
.klau kita malaysia walaupun guna american/british/aussie accent still boleh faham sbb kite still ade tèlo2 malaysia tu 😅
Kan haha
Klu English slang Malay auto fhm..
Diorang tak guna ayat proper English. Byk slang.
Sibs goal
i think being the youngest and having a bigger build than the rest of my sisters hurt more than having a tanned skin, in fact im tall and thin, but i play softbol and field sport ( javelin throw) i have wide shoulder.. my sister being a bit short and small build, i look like a fucking giant beside her.. thats where the comparison start, fortunately im not tanned, i cant imagine, malaysian being this and judge someone being bigger than the other and tanned skin tone. i will get it even harder if im tanned right? tanned is not dirty, for those whose having a tanned skin, be confident.. you're pretty!
im still waiting for boyf reveal! omaigaddd i cant wait for that to happen
Me ang my sister can’t even have this matured conv cuz it’s either me or her end up making jokes
Seriously, your sister is really pretty!! ngl she's so pretty thoo
Omg i love this collaboration
YOU'RE BOTH CUTE❤️🔥🧸
please do this with cilibling too sabrina !!!!
first? aw you’re so pretty ❤️🔥😭
let me tell you this one thing, idk why some people told that they are NOT colourism. BUT the fact they would make a whitening product and always make comparison between before and after which is obviously fairier than before. Yk what product im talking about those shitty lotion, cream, pills and whatsoever🙄 They said its to repair dark skin problem and sunburn, DARK SKIN IS NOT A PROBLEM. ITS A FREAKING NORMAL HUMAN BEING. It doesnt need to be change or repair?! That is literally undirectly COLOURISM. like why? whats wrong with us having a dark skin? Do we need to be fair to look pretty? That product should never exist and people should also stop buying/supporting it and realize how much its a big deal for us
I AM IN LOVE WITH YOUR SISTER AAAAAAAAAAAAAA love yall both
Alaaa ingat brina letak gambar kakak dia masa last part with full makeup. She’s pwetty 😍
I’ve experienced that a lots. When I’m in school and even at works. I just ignored and move on with my life.
both of you are soooo pretty!!
For me, people can judge but it's not their right to judge. Like... it's ur body, you can do whatever you want with them coz the decision is at the palm of ur hand. Just choose it, rockin it and go with the flow gurlsss🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 YOU ARE PRETTY THE WAY YOU ARE ❤❤❤❤❤❤