BTT #26 Passive Aggressive Women
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- We kick off today's episode on passive aggressive people, and why men should be cautious when it comes to getting into long term relationships, or marriages with women that are passive aggressive
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Rich you really need to do something on COVERT CONTRACTS..... this is the one factor that all mealy mouth excuse making nice guy has issue in recognize.... because no one points it out its hidden this ties in with FRAME Behavior (male/females). You can always point out that some is fat and there is a formula fix/correct that but this behavior (COVERT CONTRACT) you fool yourself.
just like the movie fight club ,....selling homemade soap
Some of these callers don't seem believable, especially the guy that's supposedly ex-military and doesn't know what a Jody is. The other half are sub 80 IQ individuals that can't talk their way out of a paperbag, yet claim to make 260k per year....
i guess Im kind of off topic but does anyone know a good website to watch new movies online?
@Nickolas Kamryn flixportal
I applaud your patience with some of these callers. Some people have a very difficult time asking a simple question, or making sense at all.
My heavens it's frustrating listening to peoples' slow meandering introductions, sputtering, stammering, mumbling, repeating "I have a question," several times, going over irrelevant minutia, and so forth for a good 45 seconds at each call...
The only guest that was aware and in charge was the military guy, all the others were completely clueless
I think "how to avoid being passive agressive" can be as helpful or more than "how to deal with passive agressive people", because we all do it to some degree, and it's quite annoying when you catch yourself doing it.
I can get a little bit passive aggressive if I have to work with a bunch of women that can't get to the point/ solution of the issue at hand and lose themselves in pointless arguing and back stabbing, like when I was in university
Actually, even before taking the red pill, I pretty much was always able to keep my frame with every women that was in my life (i.e., family, girlfriends, LTRs, wife, friends, acquaintances, etc) except with those with whom I had to work with, because I couldn't simply say "fuck this bullshit, I'm out" and had to put up with their bad behaviour
Anyway, have a great day men
I'm 53 now. I move out on my own when I was 22. Joined the navy and bought my own house when I was 31. I made the mistake of letting my mother and her broke boyfriend stay with me. Bad move on my part.
Consistently Keeping the cold hard truth up front and center. Rich you have many more souls to save my brother!
Hey,
Really enjoyed your material for about 3 years now. This Before The Train Wreck format is excellent and I congratulate you both on the success you've had and hope the success snowballs!
Keep up the great work, men need all the advice from any angle these days.
I especially appreciate how you are coaching to deal with women, but with full awareness of the rules of the game. Most MGTOW material just bashes on female behavior.
I survived a divorce (thank God), in hindsight mine was like a naive kid checklist for failure...
Fortunately there was you, my family and eventually a gal who defies the modern female role and really surprises me in every way.
Keep up the great work!
I wish they had hammered the 2nd-to-last guy a bit more. STOP APOLOGIZING. If you did NOT do anything wrong, or anything at all, DO NOT apologize. You have done nothing wrong, so why are you apologetic? And more importantly, if you do apologize, you are admitting guilt.
Rich and Sean, you guys do such an awsome job. Thanks for bringing these shows to us. I only wish you could have had this 30 years ago.
If you want to see someone’s true colours get them to use a computer with a slow internet connection.
Hilarious !
Yes Jody is the correct term for some man stealing your girl. I was drafted in 1968 and I went to fort Campbell Kentucky home with 101st airborne division and we used to sing the song ain't no use and looking back Jody's got your Cadillac and your girl too. So you are absolutely correct cuz Jody got my girl and I never went back to her and she today is 69 years old and she's never had any children and I married and I have six.
"I just want her to love me for me, man." 😆
Happy birthday Canada! Yes, your partnership is a gift...good balance of energy and personality
Good job guys, love the different perspectives in this one
Jodi...you got the term right Rich. Dont know why that guy didnt know term must be a "pogue"
That Jody came off as really insecure to me. Look at me I’m getting with a married woman. Who cares. Get back to chasing excellence
And to the guy where his ex-GF was on the phone all the time… don’t feel bad. The last girl that I was dating over X-mas & broke up with around Valentine’s day did the same thing to me. She was 26-27… I’m 43… & she’d spend 4-5 hours a day fiddling with her phone. In my case it could be an age difference… yeah… but it’s also a change in social values & what you’re willing to put up with. You just want something different than what she’s willing to give. So don’t feel bad. Or put up with it either man. When a woman breaks up with a man… she wants to be the 1 that’s the victim. Not the 1 that she was the problem. Me personally I wouldn’t even continue talking to her because in my experience girls like that try to change the situation where YOU’RE the reason/problem to why you broke up by trying to ‘pestering’ you. I might be focusing on the worse here, but that’s just something that I’m used to. With a ‘bad’ break up… the best thing that you can do with a woman is pin her to the wall of shame because they don’t want to be the guilty party. I wouldn’t even answer phone calls. But that’s me. Just chuck it up to bad chemistry & move on. That’s my 2 cents worth.
Is there an encyclopedia or dictionary when it comes to all these "red pill" terms and definitions? If not one should be made.
Love the podcast. Keep them coming 👍
Not only do men do more research in buying a vehicle v vetting a wife, but to buy a vehicle, you have to fill out more forms and read more legalese than what it takes to get a marriage license. It’s sad.
Mannn... that moment at 40m05s made me laugh for 5 mins. Priceless. Great handling by “Pokerface” Rich 😂😂😂
Topic suggestion. Does red pill mindset influence how you view your own potential infidelity? Is it ok if you're getting no love in the bedroom, or should you then just call off the relationship?
That duck was probably a Drake and was stressed in his previous relationship
He ate the red seeds
Pickling the ''right'' woman is only half the problem...you need to be a mature masculine man also to make a marriage work. Anything less and it won't work. Men have to take responsibility. If you ain't masculine a good portion of the time, avoid marriage
It makes no sense to get married for a man anymore anyway. It’s not in his interests.
As to men living at home… I also think that it has to do with the location & the finances of the area. I remember that I couldn’t move out until I was 26… & I was only able to do that because my Oma (grandma) was helping me out financially. I think that things have gotten a little better… but 18-19 years ago it was very common for most guys that I knew to to work 2 or 3 jobs just to pay a basic rent. An apartment around here (the SFO area) can easily cost you $2000 a month… & these are apartments that are a step up from a studio. My cousin & his wife live in a dinky hole in the wall up in the city, & I think that they pay $3,000-4,000 for what they got. In many ways it makes more sense (here) to sometimes live with family than on your own & pay those amounts.
Now if you are talking about a guy that has a low paying job & has no drive to do much with his life… that’s a different story. But it sometimes depends on the sociology of where you live.
Most women in my area kind of expect you to live alone… but I can’t tell you how many women who have lectured me about not having my own place when they were 20,000-30,000 in debt. So it depends on how you frame it.
No way it was much easier to purchase a home and rent was cheaper than it is now. Where have you been? Lol income hasn't kept up with inflation as far as increasing consumer prices go. If someone didn't move out back then it was because they were a Mama's boy
There is a anger hidden behind.
Comunication its always nice,but there is no support and direct comunication
Have a child with a woman is legally the same thing as marrying her. Skipping marriage but still having children doesn't save men from divorce rape.
How did Jody find the time to call in?
I am passive aggressive. When things are good I am passive. But when things are bad I do become more upset. If I feel I am being taken advantage of or manipulated. I'm not one-dimensional. But for the most part I am easy going. And I try to see the brighter side and I go to God. But there's times I do over react and feel hurt.
The man with his new girl sounds like he is preparing himself for what may happen
Why do callers have SUCH problems asking a clear, concise question??? They just can’t get them out.
The subject material is a factor.
Haha, when I still lived at home, I'd meet girls and they would make an issue out of it. Which was fair. Looking back, I stayed way too long. But the girls who had issue with it often times also lived with their parents. And of course they always had crazy justifications for it.
Don't compare you or any man with girls.
@@MrBirgerB Right! Egalitarianism is rampant.
Bruh the fact that you compared and bitterly stated the fact that they lived at home is weak. You're a man act like one LOL
@Redrustyhill men and women aren't equal lol it's a double standard because men are suppose to be adults and lead
Yeah guys don't care if they live at home nearly as much, the luxury of being a beauty object
There are some great lol moments in this episode 1:07:48 had me dying ... “oh, sweet man!”
These callers are funny but man are they troubled
Just throwing this out there::
My roommates mother lives with us...
I'm not big on it but it's nice to have someone who cleans -- but she could not afford to live on her own -- I think it's polite but I understand the situation
We each respectively do well & are fine
But his mother is on a fixed income and could not afford to live in the City we live in
Who cares. She’s an adult she should live on her own. I would hate that
@@redevous Selfish and bad financial planner.
... "I have 3 cats" ... Awwwwkward. lol
Can somebody, like, Richard or Shawn, like, do a like video like instructing young like men like to sound like grown MEN??? Which like means like to stop like Saying “LIKE” every two words!!!!! It’s so painful to listen to and really makes these people sound very childish and unintelligent; not too mention very distracting. Aside from that, It makes the story extremely hard to follow. Your manner of speaking is part of your behavior and how you present yourself to the world. How does anyone expect to be taken seriously in adult matters who comes across as though they are a teenager?!
**And NEVER apologize for something you DID NOT DO! An apology is an admission of guilt**
Very high energy today!
Bought me some of that soap! 2 bars!
I’m so screwed
Can someone please remind me how that Richard Cooper women like to create INDIGNATION as it happens quote goes? Thanks
Suprised Rich didn't ask if he could eat the duck:)
Thanks for talking about subscribing. I glanced at it and thought I was always subscribed but I must of unsubscribed on accident sometime! 🙄 All fixed ❤
40:53 Jody= Sancho
Please tell these callers to Actually talk in the phone or mike
First caller needs to get it together. His encounter with the last woman are changing his entire state of mind. This will become an issue of self doubt within himself and lead to him creating the red flags he is terrified of running into. This sounds like he has no individual purpose, and he is basing his value on them. I can hear it in his voice. That was me a half decade ago.
Some of the English, on the first of the month, try to have their first statement to another person be “Rabbits,” which is supposed to confer good luck.
Don't take female callers. Hang up on them as soon as they call in. Tell them not to call. They ruin these discussions with their solipsism.
I find they ad perspective.
nah, they don't. They join groups to find the alpha not to help you and the other betas haha. They disintegrate mens groups by having men compete for them, a real sausage fest for them with no competition it's perfect. Admit it, they make you horny that's your perspective. The last person you should listen to about women is a woman. Point me to a channel like this on this subject matter that is run by a woman? Doesn't exist. @@MrBirgerB
You can get married and keep everything separated ? Omg 🙄😂
A good lawyer can beat a prenup, but a good woman will seek legal and financial advise at least 12 months prior to divorce and learn how to siphon funds prior to asking for the divorce. Typically a man is blindsided with a domestic violence order, forcing him out of his home and pathing the way for the female to get full custody of the kids.
what's the full title of that 'beast' book in the background?
That poor kid (2nd caller)...all he has to do to watch the freight train come a'barrelin is marry her, buy a house, and have some puppies. That fucking thing will come down the tracks like its going downhill with no brakes....
@29:00 It's RED ... pill, sweetness.
Never met a Mexican guy named Jody before haha.
Did the second caller seemed set up after rich asked about any issues during traveling?
Wow, the patience dealing with these callers. My heavens it's frustrating listening to peoples' slow meandering introductions, sputtering, stammering, mumbling, repeating "I have a question," several times, going over irrelevant minutia, and so forth for a good 45 seconds at each call...
Kanada is 152 years old.
@@robbie_rohm88 That was obviously sarcasm. Read his name again, fast.
That guy that hosts jeopardy, Alex, he lived with his mom for quite awhile and is very successful hosting his own show
Oh and have a happy Canada day
@Dean McAndrew how is Alex a beta Male? And even if he is, Alex is a good guy and successful
He is also overcoming his pancreatic cancer
There’s a difference of taking care of your parents instead of parents taking care of you.
@@robpeters4284 yea I know thank you very much for educational moment on Vh1
I believe his mom needed some help and what good son would not be there
Even my dad is sick and lives almost 2 hours away from me, he has a skin infection inside of his skin and a blood clot in his leg all the way up to his groin, thinking about moving up there to help him
There is nothing wrong being a little weak in caring about your parents
@Christaps maybe keep your mind frame away from whats beta and alpha for just split second
All these standards you guys are putting or placing on yourselves
And on top of that your fucking pride
I believe that is what is hurting men the most these days and jump off bridges cause of society pressure of being and living your lives a certain way
Stop seeing help as an attack and just shut the fuck up
Just take care of yourselves for once and stop being in jobs that makes you fucking tired and that you hate being in
You'll never be happy that way
And fuck those standards
Just look out for you and your happiness
Be around people who care about you
Lacey Schwindt your probably going to get riddled with insults about your smv now that you’ve shown your not a lady with your potty mouth. Nobody is going to care what a -2 has to say.
she's not going to run off you if you are on your purpose but there's always someone bigger and better than yourself that she will run to and that's a fact. so you don't allow her to take the biscuit. say no to long term relationships. for me it's about choosing the right woman from the right atmosphere with her parent's traditional values and a good attitude. it's simple just don't choose a bitch!
God that is the most cringey shirt he's wearing. i mean shirts with a snarky saying are cringe in general but this takes it to another level. And it's passive aggressive too.
Do you have a podcast?
Rich were can i buy the shirt?
The Rally you're going is with Saturn?
I think that marriage doesn't make sense even if todays world was friendly with men
It makes sense for women. Not as much for us men.
@@keithbarbaro7590 exactly
It wasnt necessarily designed for men to begin with. Back in the biblical times and even 50 years ago, women NEEDED it for stability. Men pretty much never needed it but was nice to have.
There are no morals in this world anymore. That’s why my trust is in God alone.
Can you do a video on woman with implants? Not sure what your take on that is.
@Gabriela Martinyuk
Psalm 118:8 It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.
The lesson at 1:03:00....
Your comment is underrated. Thank you, brother.
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Jody call is starting to fall in love, not good. It's amazing how many times adults use "Basically, like" "like", "like" seriously stop it.
Great show. But I think a girl with three cats shouldn’t be written off a priori.
Let's say two is the limit.
Exactly its nothin to fuss over. Buddy needs to speak for himself and not speak for all men.
I need to figure out a way to win a certain girls heart. I'm not ready to give up on her I feel like I'm so close but I don't know what to do next. I've had a crush on her since middle school and it's clear she's the type of girl I'd like to grow old with. But I've been unknowingly hanging out in the friend zone for many years. I'm naturally very kind however for over a year now I've been reconfiguring my brain to instinctively act less than nice, I don't think it's fair that I should have to change myself like that at such a core level; but hey what other option do I have. We live 2500 miles from each other right now due to my career taking me all the way to LA, however I suspect being able to move back to my hometown soon which is near her. I came to town for vacation and we were supposed to go on a date yesterday and once she found out we were going dancing she wanted to back out and change what we were doing because she thought it was too promiscuous because she's trying to work things out with her ex-boyfriend. But she said she still wanted to hang out just as friends as to not fault loyalty to her ex and every part of me wanted to say yes because I miss her a lot I rarely ever get to see her anymore. However instead I told her I won't hang out with her as just friends she could never be just a friend to me. I don't have much experience with dating so I'm unsure whether or not what I did was a good move or if I just burned one of the most important bridges I have ever built. Currently chatting with other women but I don't really care much for them definitely not as much as I care for her. The last thing I said to her was to sort things out with her ex and call me if things change but I wish her the best of luck.
What should I do next?
You should give the fuck up lol, forget about her
SUBJECT , SHE'S NOT YOURS , WITH ALL DO RESPECT TO ALL FATHERS THAT ARE RED PILL AWARE, THEIIR OWN DAUGHTERS ARE CAPABLE OF DOING THIS , EVEN IF THEIR RAISED BY RED PILL DADS?