Long-distance relationship difficulties are often linked to commitment, trust, and communication issues. Would you handle being in one? Let's dive into this conversation today with our lovely guest Joy Kezia Musisi, a wife and mum who has been in a long distance marriage for 3 years. Meanwhile....do you still have data???? Choose the available Airtel Xstream Wifi plans to find one that suits your needs. Plans vary based on speed, data limits, and pricing from as low as 130K Once you've selected a plan, you can place an order online by dialing *125# Thanks to Airtel ! We absolutely loved doing this show at the Golden Tulip Hotel, come and explore more of what this gorgeous hotel has to offer. Thank you to Zuri Hair, Shades of Beauty, Shoe Puzzle and Fashion Episode for our look today :) If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who needs to watch this and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
Hello bump love.. please advise me on the language issue that my babies should speak..i love it when they have good command of English but my husband and the people surrounding are into luganda so much and me I love English what can I do..?
You people I was in a long distance relationship for seven years and it's communication that kept us moving, we could talk about everything as in everything, we knew each onez day program even at work when the meeting like everything, we used to talk about his and my workmates and by names and some time he would call me and ask me to talk to the salon baber and tell him the hair cut I want him to cut . We could have the appropriate time that could favour both of us and we go out and we could have fun like on video call banange we had luganbo and the most memorable day is when he invited me to the country where he was leaving and reaching the airport guys! you know these guys that hold the charts with names at arrival my fiance was holding one with my name 😘 guys I was extremely happy. But guys I was there for three months I had to come back this year in February and he came back in May the same year But guys guess what we are now leaving together but we both miss long distance relationship. Thank you bump love you always make my Fridays colourful, love you ladies.
😂😂😂 for the first time I've heard Pumla ending a story of a relationship with a happy ever after 😂😂😂 at some point I thought she was going to say he disturbed my peace and I chased him... Besides the fun, such a sweet story our Pumla . I now have another reason to thank God for the lockdown.
When Pumla starts her story with "Me! Anyway, " just know the story is going to be interesting.😊 I think it's important for parents to explain to the children why Daddy is away. Children are sponges that absorb everything. The feeling of rejection sets in, so its important to keep assuring them about what dad is doing and how it is helping the family, and eventually, we will all be together. When kids hear this, they repeat those exact words. So thankful for social media platforms, internet, airtime wifi and smart phones.❤
I'm in a long distance relationship and we're now in the 3rd year, the 2nd year has been very hard where we would argue and even not talk for a week but our determination to make things work brought us back together. We are not yet married, no kids yet but hes working hard so that we can afford our dream life. And me myself I'm studying for my first degree and building my skincare brand so I use this time to fill in the holes in my life and prepare spiritually, emotionally and psychologically. We talk everyday and each day we talk like we've just met, tge stories get better and better we're just like besties now. We dont struggle with trust or dishonesty anymore and we make sure to communicate everyday when a have a chance. So i wish those in a LDR to have hope and pray.
Eeeh this topic .. me i cannot write a whole book about long distance relationships… i didnt know i could handle one because am an over thinker, the jealous type .. but eeeh you people i have been in a long distance marriage for almost 6years .. 🙌🙌🙌 but i think its all bout goals that makes it work .
My long distance relationship lasted longer than 5 years and when we finally lived together it lasted 6months.Sometime you may never know the other individual when you are far apart it's not until you live together you get to know that you really never knew each other.
@ahimbisibwegloria8660 Hmmm I tell you for more than 5yrs we were very compatible. To the best of my anyway but six months after our wedding we really hated each other,we couldn't stand each other and totally different,and then we separated and the separation was an ugly one.
I had an almost similar experience though mine was short and didn’t go on to marriage. The issue is starting out long distance and by the time you get to be in proximity, it’s already a relationship(even though you don’t know each other well enough)
Pumula 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you distress moi sweets always waiting to hear Pumula and Rosette's bu stories on the topics. All of you ladies are interesting in your own ways. Angie with your stress free soft voice humm mukyala Mulondo hand in hand with your sense of humour and my spiritual beauty Mukyala Mwine.I love you ladies.
I agree with Racheal about growing coz me ,I hard an everyday husband and enjoyed it but when the marriage became long distance,I enjoy it more ,I love my space and I never wa to go back
I am in one, we have 2 children we'll be celebrating 5 years married next week. He's been out of the country since December 2021. It's not easy, but with God we are moving on. I don't encourage anyone to take that direction. We thought it would help coz we need the money naye bambi😒😒
Rosette looking so good. On my end it is me who moves a lot because of my nature of work. Thumbs up to women like me and a supporting husband. We have managed and are managing
It's today that i found out i need to get friends coz look my husband is my olny friend, imagine how depressed it can become if he left me. Thnx ladies av picked a leaf
i dated my now husband for 5years. we were staying in different cities. 5 to 6 hours drive. i liked it bcoz i was a busy person. i was working during the week and schooling over the weekend. so the phone relationship was doing it for me. then we got married and we got to be staying in the same house since he got transferred to my city. thats when i tasted the togetherness. with his job, he travels alot. but the longest he has been away is 3weeks so we are okay. BUT, we now have a year old daughter and she's the one who has a problem with his travelling. she cries and has moods whenever he travels. almost everynight she cries. and in those moments, we video call. its rly saving us soon after the call, she sleeps so well. when she wakes up again in the middle of the night, we call again. but when the dad is busy, sheeeyyyy, she'll not sleep
I have been in only long distance relationships and they have always worked just fine. The greatest lesson i have learned is to COMMUNICATE consistently. That was a common killer for all those relationships because the other gender never thinks it’s important to schedule and have communication channels in place.
My husband and I were in a long distance relationship for 3 years before getting married. Luckily for us, we used to see each other atleast 2 or 3 times a year and always planned our next meet before the end of the last one. The best part was the reunion sex and the worst part was all the goodbyes and staying up late in the night for calls. There were lots of tears, some fights where we wouldn't talk for about 2-3 days, and lots of beautiful experiences. Ever since Covid happened he's been working from home and i really miss those days when we had a chance to miss each other. Now we are stuck together everyday, the marriage is great but sometimes i need that space away from him for a few days atleast. All in all, i can testify that it works. Especially if there's a good friendship as the foundation of the relationship. It makes communication easy, there's no jealousy and theres always something to look forward to. Thanks for this episode, i find it quite relatable
Been 10yrs in it with 3 kids. tips :find urself..as in find joy in other things or just keep urself busy kubanga, ur heart might just explode when u concentrate on just the relationship. Plus ofcourse it gets easier when the love and feelings reduce then ur left with just the bond or something else to hold on to..perhaps kids
Long distance has been my cup,i dated in long distance 4years ,first 6 years of marriage in long distance.Now we have lived together married 4 years many many lessons.I have a story to tell. Thanks to Bump love for this episode.
Thank you for this episode. I am married to a pilot with 2 kids n we studied together so we moved from always together in flight sch to him traveling everywhere every day so yes here I am with strong experience n lessons in long distance marriage. It takes Christ because believe me human nature cannot stay in the marriage. 😅...
Rachael, I'm a Kenyan lady in a long distance relationship with a Ugandan man and we have an 8 month old baby......and my story of meeting is interesting, I travel a lot.......
Being IN the long distance relationship is the easy part, the hard part is when you start living together after being together apart for so long. I was in a LDR for 7 months and it was fantastic. We always looked forward to seeing each other every other weekend and talking about what we would do to each other was so hot lol. However, once we started living together we started seeing tiny little behaviours that were so annoying to each other. It took us over a year to get into a groove and now, 4 years later we are soo madly in love and are planning our wedding next year. All this to say that sometimes the long distance may be what keeps the spark, and once it’s gone, you may just find out that the person you thought you loved was a different person, and it takes commitment and dedication to reignite the flame
Me I was in a long distance relation in first year of campus. I was at mubs and him at muk. I was aon a boda every weekend to muk naye tebyali byangu. Even on weekends where I had courseworks,I would make sure I go after my papers. But after that relationship ended, I can assure you that it can never be me in a LDR again.
I feel like actually some relationships are standing because they are long distance. But Rosette and Pumla's dresses are lovely exactly my style i wish i was in Uganda i could visit that shop 😍
I am in a long distance relationship; I have managed this through prayers and I also enrolled for school to keep busy- most importantly in this relationship we talk 2 hours everyday so as to keep it going 😊thanks for the session though ….
Thanks Pretty Brain Lady for sharing… we are in the same pot and true it’s personality… & please be positive, God is the protector & God can’t give you why you can’t handle. I had to leave the country with my two kids after one year of our wedding… with my daughter was 2 years & my son was just months …. But yes God is protecting and yes we shall win🙏.. this is so Encouraging & Wooh I am happy that their are people who think like me 🤣
Am in a long distance relationship now 3 years and we doing okay.The only thing that doesn't make me ever think or even have insecurities is because he took a flight to where i am to ask me for a relationship.That keeps me because people says lots but this is the person i have been friends with for like 6 years .and relationship 3 years. Communication is key:my love language is acts of love..he celebrates my birthday even from a distance i get delivery tgose special days its well.he pays his tickets when he is to come. As for horn like the guest said. Work ,home laundry etc keeps you busy even to think of infidelity... Yes its tough but its possible
Timely episode....This morning i just talked to my bf who mentioned sth about flying out the country. (Greener pastures) I told him, " if u ever go, the relationship is done. Because i dont do long distance relationships"
Wow,the Lord is good I almost asked about how to handle long distance relationships in your DM but the good Lord who sees in our hearts decided to let you answer me before I asked wow❤💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Long distance relationship is not for the weak,sometimes you feel like crying on video calls.overthinking wen you dont know wether your partner is busy or just ignoring you
I think am also like Pumla, he left me in kampala and went to work in Mbarara but in a month I had asked for a transfer and followed him but also he would over complain about me not being with him so its just to know who your person is, then also discovering yourself like you said is key so that you are not only thinking of feelings. Thanks ladies.
LDR is not for a soft ones. 😂😂 communication is the most important factor in LDR. Trust and being patient ❤❤❤. On the road but am enjoying myself. Sometimes i need that space solely.
Huh.not watched yet but this has been the story of my life for the rest of the adult life I've so far lived. I can say I handle long distance relationships really well but it's the people I dated that could not handle. But thankfully I got married to a one very supportive partner who understood the whole long distance thing easily. I can't even travel monthly, like 4weekly, bcz it's extremely far, hectic, tiring and draining. But this amazing soul puts in the time to travel and spend some days with me when I can't travel home. So managing the whole thing starts with an individual, if you can't deal with it as a person, if you can't trust your partner n be trustworthy, faithful and honest, then it's the beginning of failure of that relationship. As for communication, face time and phone calls must be the order of the day
😂😂 I guess that's why I throw up until the day I gave birth. I hated everything about him, but unfortunately , oba, fortunately, we were staying together. Thanks, ladies, for sharing though for me, my first prayer to God is never to get into distance relationships. I love my hubby each day beside me❤
Long distance tests one's patience and love towards their partner. As for me, it got me the love of my life. No regrets.It has worked/will always for me.
Be it a long-distance relationship, but there is something sexy about a lady who knows herself and knows what she is about. Big up Mrs Musisi, pretty sure Mr Musisi misses the Kids but he is sure you and the Fam are in good hands May God continue to bless your Marriage
Bambi Pumla, I can never forget that lockdown mate of yours! Nga we ggeyad the guy on Facebook , nga you're always updating us😊😊 Glad it turned out into a beautiful relationship. Wow! Looking lovely ladies! Thanks for this episode.
Aww! The long distance times of our relationship were the best, we would look forward to seeing each other all the time and the important thing that kept us together was communication. However i can only take that for a few months....not more than 3. If it requires going beyond 3 months and doesnt have a specified time frame i cant manage that one.
Manuela on n off 😮 I quit my previous relationship due to long distance coupled with poor communication. My next relationship has been and is long distant but perfect because the fine man is really a good communicator 😊. I think communication is a game changer and ideal to navigate distant relationships.
Ladies thanks for the show I really liked t they way i like staying alone 😂😂 men creat alot ov jobs at home like cooking on a daily basis washing clothes 😢 banange. pumla high five❤
Long-distance relationship difficulties are often linked to commitment, trust, and communication issues. Would you handle being in one?
Let's dive into this conversation today with our lovely guest Joy Kezia Musisi, a wife and mum who has been in a long distance marriage for 3 years.
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Hello bump love.. please advise me on the language issue that my babies should speak..i love it when they have good command of English but my husband and the people surrounding are into luganda so much and me I love English what can I do..?
Yes yes
You people I was in a long distance relationship for seven years and it's communication that kept us moving, we could talk about everything as in everything, we knew each onez day program even at work when the meeting like everything, we used to talk about his and my workmates and by names and some time he would call me and ask me to talk to the salon baber and tell him the hair cut I want him to cut . We could have the appropriate time that could favour both of us and we go out and we could have fun like on video call banange we had luganbo and the most memorable day is when he invited me to the country where he was leaving and reaching the airport guys! you know these guys that hold the charts with names at arrival my fiance was holding one with my name 😘 guys I was extremely happy. But guys I was there for three months I had to come back this year in February and he came back in May the same year But guys guess what we are now leaving together but we both miss long distance relationship. Thank you bump love you always make my Fridays colourful, love you ladies.
😂😂😂 for the first time I've heard Pumla ending a story of a relationship with a happy ever after 😂😂😂 at some point I thought she was going to say he disturbed my peace and I chased him...
Besides the fun, such a sweet story our Pumla . I now have another reason to thank God for the lockdown.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Era he disturbed ko my peace and yes I tried to chase him but nga bwomanyi - it seems life had other plans 😅
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@pumlanabachwa8668 my favourite person, uo screwing a hell out of me😂😂😂😂
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When Pumla starts her story with "Me! Anyway, " just know the story is going to be interesting.😊 I think it's important for parents to explain to the children why Daddy is away. Children are sponges that absorb everything. The feeling of rejection sets in, so its important to keep assuring them about what dad is doing and how it is helping the family, and eventually, we will all be together. When kids hear this, they repeat those exact words. So thankful for social media platforms, internet, airtime wifi and smart phones.❤
So true. Communication should extend to the children as well.
When she mentions anyways 😂😂😂😂😂 it’s never a dull moment
@Flourish_today
You nailed it!!
I'm in a long distance relationship and we're now in the 3rd year, the 2nd year has been very hard where we would argue and even not talk for a week but our determination to make things work brought us back together. We are not yet married, no kids yet but hes working hard so that we can afford our dream life. And me myself I'm studying for my first degree and building my skincare brand so I use this time to fill in the holes in my life and prepare spiritually, emotionally and psychologically. We talk everyday and each day we talk like we've just met, tge stories get better and better we're just like besties now. We dont struggle with trust or dishonesty anymore and we make sure to communicate everyday when a have a chance. So i wish those in a LDR to have hope and pray.
Sorry Angie about the leg. May God heal you
Eeeh this topic .. me i cannot write a whole book about long distance relationships… i didnt know i could handle one because am an over thinker, the jealous type .. but eeeh you people i have been in a long distance marriage for almost 6years .. 🙌🙌🙌 but i think its all bout goals that makes it work .
My long distance relationship lasted longer than 5 years and when we finally lived together it lasted 6months.Sometime you may never know the other individual when you are far apart it's not until you live together you get to know that you really never knew each other.
😂😂😂 am sorry to laugh but hahaha hahaha 6 months, btw everyone is a good person until u live together
@ahimbisibwegloria8660 Hmmm I tell you for more than 5yrs we were very compatible. To the best of my anyway but six months after our wedding we really hated each other,we couldn't stand each other and totally different,and then we separated and the separation was an ugly one.
Long distance relationships are a big scam... Ladies don't be tempted to go for one.... You are wasting your youthful time
Wow in Manuela's voice 😯
I had an almost similar experience though mine was short and didn’t go on to marriage. The issue is starting out long distance and by the time you get to be in proximity, it’s already a relationship(even though you don’t know each other well enough)
Since 2020,I've never missed any episode of bump love.
I'm so proud of ladies.
We love that you've journeyed with us. Much love. ❤
Me I keep watching the ones that took place when I was in school😂😂😂
Not amother but I love u guys thanks for showing us the way, u know sometimes we get scared of marriage
same boat, sometimes I check before they shoot nga there's nothing unwatched....
Pumula 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you distress moi sweets always waiting to hear Pumula and Rosette's bu stories on the topics. All of you ladies are interesting in your own ways. Angie with your stress free soft voice humm mukyala Mulondo hand in hand with your sense of humour and my spiritual beauty Mukyala Mwine.I love you ladies.
Era we are here for you. Thanks Roselyn
The joy that radiates off Racheal is sooo contagious. You look at her talk and you can't help buh smile. All ya ladies look amazing 😊
yes bambi
Sooooo.. true. She's very radiant. 🐿️🌨️🍃
Mukyala Mulondo we missed you today hope everything is well dear ❤
I agree with Racheal about growing coz me ,I hard an everyday husband and enjoyed it but when the marriage became long distance,I enjoy it more ,I love my space and I never wa to go back
Loving Rosette's new hairdo!! Frames her face perfectly and the color looks great on her!
I am in one, we have 2 children we'll be celebrating 5 years married next week. He's been out of the country since December 2021. It's not easy, but with God we are moving on. I don't encourage anyone to take that direction. We thought it would help coz we need the money naye bambi😒😒
Pumla always makes these episodes hilarious!! Love it!
Hahahaahaha! Life is for laughing bambi. We must keep young 😅
@@pumlanabachwa8668obviously 😂😂😂😂😂
Rosette looking so good. On my end it is me who moves a lot because of my nature of work. Thumbs up to women like me and a supporting husband. We have managed and are managing
We thank God surely
It's today that i found out i need to get friends coz look my husband is my olny friend, imagine how depressed it can become if he left me. Thnx ladies av picked a leaf
i dated my now husband for 5years. we were staying in different cities. 5 to 6 hours drive. i liked it bcoz i was a busy person. i was working during the week and schooling over the weekend. so the phone relationship was doing it for me. then we got married and we got to be staying in the same house since he got transferred to my city. thats when i tasted the togetherness. with his job, he travels alot. but the longest he has been away is 3weeks so we are okay. BUT, we now have a year old daughter and she's the one who has a problem with his travelling. she cries and has moods whenever he travels. almost everynight she cries. and in those moments, we video call. its rly saving us soon after the call, she sleeps so well. when she wakes up again in the middle of the night, we call again. but when the dad is busy, sheeeyyyy, she'll not sleep
Ohh my God😮😮😮😮😮
Heheh i love this dad-daughter bond
I have been in only long distance relationships and they have always worked just fine. The greatest lesson i have learned is to COMMUNICATE consistently. That was a common killer for all those relationships because the other gender never thinks it’s important to schedule and have communication channels in place.
Naye banange I love you women,pumla.i enjoy your personality coz you represent exactly me
Bump love please I beg bring back Mrs Musisi joy Kezia. Very informative lady. Thank you Joy
The ladies of Bump Love must really hv a fan whatsapp chat group. Omg how i am envious 😅
Hahahaha create the grup and add me😂😂
My husband and I were in a long distance relationship for 3 years before getting married. Luckily for us, we used to see each other atleast 2 or 3 times a year and always planned our next meet before the end of the last one. The best part was the reunion sex and the worst part was all the goodbyes and staying up late in the night for calls. There were lots of tears, some fights where we wouldn't talk for about 2-3 days, and lots of beautiful experiences. Ever since Covid happened he's been working from home and i really miss those days when we had a chance to miss each other. Now we are stuck together everyday, the marriage is great but sometimes i need that space away from him for a few days atleast. All in all, i can testify that it works. Especially if there's a good friendship as the foundation of the relationship. It makes communication easy, there's no jealousy and theres always something to look forward to.
Thanks for this episode, i find it quite relatable
Oh nice! Such a real story. I totally get the "we need space" part. Glad that yours worked out.
What a lovely comment!!! Truly enjoyed reading it. Thanks for sharing. 🐿️🌨️🍃
Thanks for sharing your story I have learnt a lot from it
Can relate so closely
I have literally watched all Bump love shows from 2019. i love you ladies
Me2😂
Where z our Mukyala mulondo.,, I pray she has morning sicknesses 😍😍🥰🥰🥰
Been 10yrs in it with 3 kids. tips :find urself..as in find joy in other things or just keep urself busy kubanga, ur heart might just explode when u concentrate on just the relationship. Plus ofcourse it gets easier when the love and feelings reduce then ur left with just the bond or something else to hold on to..perhaps kids
Long distance has been my cup,i dated in long distance 4years ,first 6 years of marriage in long distance.Now we have lived together married 4 years many many lessons.I have a story to tell. Thanks to Bump love for this episode.
We kindly need Mariam Nagujja on this show for sure please. To navigate this long distance conversation further
"come on now"in Manuela's voice. Thanks Pumla for holding us in such high regard. No judgement here.
Tubagala nnyo ba Bump Lovers ❤
Quick recovery our Aggie may the Almighty God heal
Thank you for this episode. I am married to a pilot with 2 kids n we studied together so we moved from always together in flight sch to him traveling everywhere every day so yes here I am with strong experience n lessons in long distance marriage. It takes Christ because believe me human nature cannot stay in the marriage. 😅...
Forsure 😂😂
I am literally crying from I think the 36th minute😢😢😢. I hope God never makes this my lot because I have always failed this paper intentionally...
Thanks superwomen for always helping other ladies become better
Oooh, my gosh! I love Pumla's story about her current partner. How sweet ❤.
Everything has been discussed
My ladies mulinga byakulya u look mwaaaaa🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Gwe funa Airtel Xtreme WiFi osilike.
Rachael, I'm a Kenyan lady in a long distance relationship with a Ugandan man and we have an 8 month old baby......and my story of meeting is interesting, I travel a lot.......
Eh! Just come home to us diya.
@@pumlanabachwa8668, Thank you Pumla, at the LORD's appointed time I will come home to Uganda, I know the Ugandan people are so warm and welcoming
Being IN the long distance relationship is the easy part, the hard part is when you start living together after being together apart for so long. I was in a LDR for 7 months and it was fantastic. We always looked forward to seeing each other every other weekend and talking about what we would do to each other was so hot lol. However, once we started living together we started seeing tiny little behaviours that were so annoying to each other. It took us over a year to get into a groove and now, 4 years later we are soo madly in love and are planning our wedding next year.
All this to say that sometimes the long distance may be what keeps the spark, and once it’s gone, you may just find out that the person you thought you loved was a different person, and it takes commitment and dedication to reignite the flame
Definitely
Me I was in a long distance relation in first year of campus. I was at mubs and him at muk. I was aon a boda every weekend to muk naye tebyali byangu. Even on weekends where I had courseworks,I would make sure I go after my papers. But after that relationship ended, I can assure you that it can never be me in a LDR again.
Oh Angie you mean the nose bridge when I got mine pierced and the Tragus on my ear my sis gave me an earfull but love my piercing ❤ it looks great
That hair looks great on Rosette.. ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
I feel like actually some relationships are standing because they are long distance. But Rosette and Pumla's dresses are lovely exactly my style i wish i was in Uganda i could visit that shop 😍
Thank you Barbara. I'm sure one day you'll come and you can visit Fashion Episode.😊
I am in a long distance relationship; I have managed this through prayers and I also enrolled for school to keep busy- most importantly in this relationship we talk 2 hours everyday so as to keep it going 😊thanks for the session though ….
The women will kill mi with laughter's ,"kwata ku sekkoko"
Rachel's and Pumla's lipsticks 💄💋 poppin ✨
🙏🏾
I have learnt to start finding myself
we the watchmen of the channel are here...waiting to learn
Thanks Pretty Brain Lady for sharing… we are in the same pot and true it’s personality… & please be positive, God is the protector & God can’t give you why you can’t handle. I had to leave the country with my two kids after one year of our wedding… with my daughter was 2 years & my son was just months …. But yes God is protecting and yes we shall win🙏.. this is so Encouraging & Wooh I am happy that their are people who think like me 🤣
I like the "find yourself..make friends and understand that though you are married...you are two people" ...Thank you Bump Love.
Exactly ur point
I did choose the long distance relationship and i pray ot ends soon😢
Thank You Rosette and Joy for talking about prayer
Friiiiiidayyyy plot. Pumla killed me on the long distance between Africa and lumumba😂😂😂😂😂. Seriously gal😂😂😂😂
Child. It can never be me 😅
Hahahah😂😂😂
Thanks ladies, but I miss Manuela 😢
The ladies shoes are 👌👌👌❤ .you all looked beautiful
Happy to see my namesake keziah♥️
I love you ladies, I miss Manuella. I have been waiting for this episode with Joy
Meanwhile, y’all are looking goooooood.
Am in a long distance relationship now 3 years and we doing okay.The only thing that doesn't make me ever think or even have insecurities is because he took a flight to where i am to ask me for a relationship.That keeps me because people says lots but this is the person i have been friends with for like 6 years .and relationship 3 years.
Communication is key:my love language is acts of love..he celebrates my birthday even from a distance i get delivery tgose special days its well.he pays his tickets when he is to come.
As for horn like the guest said.
Work ,home laundry etc keeps you busy even to think of infidelity...
Yes its tough but its possible
Timely episode....This morning i just talked to my bf who mentioned sth about flying out the country. (Greener pastures) I told him, " if u ever go, the relationship is done. Because i dont do long distance relationships"
I totally hear you
But bump love committee....... You should think about a live show... With a live audience, red carpet experience toooo....
Since 2019 i haven't missed any episodes
i have no way i can explain how much love these ladies but shout out to you guys much love for you
Joy Kezia is a strong woman, keep going with your marriage my dear, I hope you reunite soon!!
This gal pumla makes my day..I just love her
Hehe! Here for it
Wow,the Lord is good I almost asked about how to handle long distance relationships in your DM but the good Lord who sees in our hearts decided to let you answer me before I asked wow❤💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
We have missed Manuela's story on this.... She was in a long distance relationship before Brian.... Yiii we have missed
Long distance relationship is not for the weak,sometimes you feel like crying on video calls.overthinking wen you dont know wether your partner is busy or just ignoring you
If you feel like he is ignoring you, it's true that he is 😂
Nze banage Pumla,nkwagala nnyo,Joy thank you for your wonderful words,thank you Joy.
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Wow thanks ladies, I am in a LDR but am enjoying it thou it comes with its own challenges thou with God all things are possible 🙏
If honesty was a person .Pumla you rrrrr 🥰love it
Love it ❤
Correct
I love love love you ladies💥💓 , thanks for changing my perception about life 😍 Much love from Rwanda
I will never be in along distance relationship I want to be seeing my partner around
I think am also like Pumla, he left me in kampala and went to work in Mbarara but in a month I had asked for a transfer and followed him but also he would over complain about me not being with him so its just to know who your person is, then also discovering yourself like you said is key so that you are not only thinking of feelings.
Thanks ladies.
Ha! Me I can never follow anyone anywhere 😅. So unless there is a career opportunity for me where you have gone, I'm not moving 😎
I was in a long distance relationship when dating my boyfriend then who is now my husband of soon 7 great years. I could speak heaps about this topic.
Congratulations joy ,i can't believe i am watching u on bump love.🎉🎉
The turkey story cracked my ribs thank u ladies 4 sharing however am more like Pumla
The turkey story floored me 😅
LDR is not for a soft ones. 😂😂 communication is the most important factor in LDR. Trust and being patient ❤❤❤. On the road but am enjoying myself. Sometimes i need that space solely.
Huh.not watched yet but this has been the story of my life for the rest of the adult life I've so far lived.
I can say I handle long distance relationships really well but it's the people I dated that could not handle.
But thankfully I got married to a one very supportive partner who understood the whole long distance thing easily. I can't even travel monthly, like 4weekly, bcz it's extremely far, hectic, tiring and draining. But this amazing soul puts in the time to travel and spend some days with me when I can't travel home.
So managing the whole thing starts with an individual, if you can't deal with it as a person, if you can't trust your partner n be trustworthy, faithful and honest, then it's the beginning of failure of that relationship.
As for communication, face time and phone calls must be the order of the day
😂😂 I guess that's why I throw up until the day I gave birth. I hated everything about him, but unfortunately , oba, fortunately, we were staying together. Thanks, ladies, for sharing though for me, my first prayer to God is never to get into distance relationships. I love my hubby each day beside me❤
Long distance marriage can work if both feel strong about their goals but definitely hard for kids. Raising kids alone must be hard.
Rosette looks beautiful ❤️😊
In one and I am enjoying. All I can say is communicate and be as open as you don’t want to imagine.
Hey mamas you really look amazing🥰🥰🥰.. Angie sorry for the injury, get better soon❤️🩹
Long distance tests one's patience and love towards their partner. As for me, it got me the love of my life. No regrets.It has worked/will always for me.
i tap on your blessing dear🥰
Very nice ❤
Wooow
@Angie, could you please share details about Airtel Extreme wifi? Thanks in advance
Be it a long-distance relationship, but there is something sexy about a lady who knows herself and knows what she is about. Big up Mrs Musisi, pretty sure Mr Musisi misses the Kids but he is sure you and the Fam are in good hands May God continue to bless your Marriage
Thank you of Lugave 😊
growth has worked for me. And the conversations on the struggle when we get to talk. Long distance a.ka Safari. Well done Joy Musisi Keziah.
Bambi Pumla, I can never forget that lockdown mate of yours! Nga we ggeyad the guy on Facebook , nga you're always updating us😊😊 Glad it turned out into a beautiful relationship. Wow! Looking lovely ladies! Thanks for this episode.
Hahahaa! Wabula lock down mate became lock down mate 😂
Thank you so much ladies I really enjoyed the show but staying in a long distance relationships 😢
To Joy thank you for sharing,are you planning to come back together in one space
Wama thank u pumla..for assuring our mugenyi👏👏👏byebikunjagaza
Sis. She had to know
Bwahaha, I just knew Long distance could not be for Pumla. Woman understood Self Love! Love you
I truly cannot manage 😅
Was also waiting for Pumla
I even don't know how many times I have watched this, thanks ba dia
Aww! The long distance times of our relationship were the best, we would look forward to seeing each other all the time and the important thing that kept us together was communication. However i can only take that for a few months....not more than 3. If it requires going beyond 3 months and doesnt have a specified time frame i cant manage that one.
Manuela on n off 😮
I quit my previous relationship due to long distance coupled with poor communication. My next relationship has been and is long distant but perfect because the fine man is really a good communicator 😊. I think communication is a game changer and ideal to navigate distant relationships.
Manuela is on vacation abroad
@@jenniejenny2135 She's back though these Episodes are recorded
@@dianahnattabi9472ur so wise ❤️
I really like Ur words dears
This has been helpful, especially knowing that I have people in this journey of long-distance
Relationship together.
Yes, driving in Kampala is a storm of life
Ladies thanks for the show I really liked t they way i like staying alone 😂😂 men creat alot ov jobs at home like cooking on a daily basis washing clothes 😢 banange. pumla high five❤
You've said it. Men nga can create work 😓