Niam tais e, koj zoo nkaus qhov khoom uas tsis tsim nqi es koj txiv liam ncua ua qab ke luag. Zoo kawg koj ntsib ib tug txiv neej uas yug tsis tau muaj tub ki thiaj khaws koj los cawm ciaj hu nws ua txiv hu nws poj niam ua niam, los loj hlob mus nrog luag yuav muaj txiv muaj ib tse tub ki. Ntawd ces twb tseem nqi tshaj nkawd tej nyiaj tseg rau nkawd tej tub yug thiab tshaj qhov nkawd cov tub yuav xam koj yog muam. Yog thaum ub nkawv ho rov koj rau koj txiv yug uas tseg koj tuag ua qab ke luag los koj yeej tsis tau kev hlub tshaj os. Koj txiv yuav poj niam tshiab ces muaj ntxhais tshiab, koj yeej yuav zoo tsis txawv ntsuag puab ntsa thiab poj qhev las ma. Pheej tseem yuav tu siab na. Twb tsis tau tuag ua qab ke luag li koj pog lawm mas. Luag ntxhi es tej nyuag neej tsa ob phab ces tso plhuav cia tom qab os. Koj niam qhov twb tu koj ciaj ces koj tu nws tuag los yeej yog lawm. Tsis thas yuav tos nyiaj li os
These old fashion hmong parent siab phem tshaj just because you are not their biological daughter, you did all the right things, but your mom still only worry about these unfaithful sons. 😢
I think it’s most people. Even today, I hear of those who cannot accept their nephews and nieces. I mean these boys can’t even take care of their mom. So unfortunately, peb siab me me. Not just the old fashioned Hmong parents.
That’s the mindset of the shamanism worldview. They don’t need to love someone that’s not their biological children over their own. If they did, it wouldn’t make sense in their worldview.
Tus Viv ncaus aw koj yeej siab zoo kawg lawm os tab sis yog yus twb txaus siab tu tus niam uas tsis yug yus thiab tsis hlub yus ces txhob tu siab... yog kuv no tej zaum kuv yuav tsis tu vim nws twb muaj nws 3 tug tub thiab 3 tug nyab tej hauj lwm ntawv yog lawv hauj lwm.
I feel so sad for u, sister. I don't understand how a parent could abandon their child. Tu siab tshaj. And what your adopted mom did was very selfish and mean too. I would be very tu siab to both sets of parents, but no matter what, think positive that bc of them u were still alive. Best wishes to u and may u receive the blessings u deserve. ❤
Nrog koj tu siab os me ntxhais aw, cov tub ces xav yuav nyiaj xwb tsis xav tu os, Hmoob ces ib txwm yeej hlub cov tub xwb txawm yog tej ntxhais lawv yug kiag los lawv yeej hlub txawv tej tub mog
You do it for yourself, sis! Luag twb txhob txwm tsis hlub yus es yus tseem siab ntev hlub lawv ces txhob tu siab nawb. Kaj tsij uv mus xwb es ua twj ywm. Tej zaum koj tshuav lawv nqi.
Sister, you do it to yourself. I know you’re looking for love but you will never be fully love until you love yourself. Be thankful to both side of your family and just love the family that you created with your husband!
Thanks for sharing your story sis. You're such an amazing person with a humongous heart. Wished we have more people like you. All I have to say is that "all of your step brothers are so cruel to you".
Thaum koj tau kev txonmyem koj twb tsis tau yug koj los nws twb khaws koj thiab cawm koj dim ntawm txoj kev tuag. Tsam nod nws ho tau kev txomnyem los koj yuav tau pab thiab cawm nws…peb ua tib neeg nyob dejsiab dejjws loj tshaj nyiajtxiag. Nej s/d txoj hmoov yeej los li ntawd…ib leeg cawm ibleeg rau ntu txomnyem. Thov Vajtswv Ntuj foom koob nchuav hmoov thiab txhawb koj lub dag lub zog pub rau koj nawd mog tus me vivncaus aw
Txhob tu siab os tsi muaj nkawv coj koj ce koj twb tsi muaj Hnub no txhob xav tia koj txiv yug koj yuav hlub koj os yog nw hlub koj ce cov nra xwb yeej tsi loj npaum koj os xum muab koj pog neb pov tseg es nim yog neeg zoo na koj pog yug koj txiv twb tseem muab tso nrog koj yog kv yog koj ma kv yeej tsi nug koj txiv yug koj moo li os
Txob tu siab mog me Niam laus aw tus neeg hlub koj ce yog koj txiv tu koj xwb os koj txiv tuag lawv ce tsi muaj leej twg hlub koj lawv os cov yuav hlub koj ce yog koj tus txiv thiab koj cov me nyuam lawm xwb mog
If the sons have no respect for me and just want to come n take all the money but still dnt want to care for their own mom, i say then and there at the party to take his mom with him, no exceptions. Its so sad they used her to care for their mom and then just come n empty her out. Karmas a b$%&@ to the sons. Since the mom made it clear her sons means more to her than i as a none bilogical daughter leave her to the sons do their way with her. Her sons problem if these tradional parents want to leave their life in their sons hands....so annoying.
Lub sijhawm nod yog lub sijhawm koj yuav pauj txiaj pauj jim uas nkawd cia li zoo siab hlo khaws koj tom kev los tu thiab tseem phij cuam rau koj mus ua koj lub neej. Tsis txhob muab tej nyiaj me me ntawd los ua kev tu siab. Koj ua koj part zoo lawm ces lub ntuj yeej yuav foom koob nchuav hmoov pub rau koj es cia li zoo siab rau yam uas koj ua tau pub rau koj tus niam ntawd kod
Ua siab ntev tu os viv ncaus aw!! Lawv tsis hlub koj los tej zaum lub ntuj kuj yuav pom koj txoj kev hlub es tom ntej no koj yuav tau ib txoj koob hmoov zoo mog, koj cov nus ces tom ntej tej zaum tsuas muaj qhov phem nkag lawv lub neej xwb os.
Sister don't be sad. Koj cov nus hais tias lawv yuav saib seb koj tus txiv neb muaj peev xwm npaum li cas. We know for sure you have more balls than all 3 of your brothers combined. Ua ib tug ntxhais Hmoob mas tu siab tshaj. Ntxawm cov laus twb mus tau ntau xyoo lawm los lawv yeej tseem nco ntsoov hlub cov tub dua.
Sister, you lucky! your adopted parent loves you 10X more than mine. My mom passed away with all my responsibles for the funeral and now my father living with me. It sad!!
Tu viv ncau aw nrog koj tu siab kawg os mog. Thov qhua koj tu txiv siab loj siab dav tseem kam tu niam tai thiab. Txawm koj hmoob phem ib qho lo koj kuj hmoov zoo ua tau tu txij kawm zoo os nawb
Yus txaus yus siab os viv ncaus aw. Koj niam ko twb tsis hlub koj los koj tseem yuav ua tus cawm seej tu nws es nws tseg nws tej nyiaj rau cov nws yug xwb los koj txaus koj siab ces tsis pom qab tu siab rau koj
There's no need to be saddened by your mother. The debt owed to them for saving you is enough as you've stated. Even amongst blood siblings, there will be unequal love poured out to them from their parents. It's just the reality of life. Every child is different and thus they require different things. Often times, they're are favorites. And those who need the most help will receive more for their parents. I do believe that what your brothers did are wrong. But you've done right for what you've done for your mother.
Sister, don’t worry about the money and all, those are just material things. Be grateful and blessed that they took you and loved you. Just think of taking care of your mother as a pay back for them taking care of you and loved you all those years. Some of us with parents still don’t get the love you got.
Ntxhaiv tau tia cov tsi muaj me nyuas e mu muab lwm tus los e yus ma muaj cev yog tus me nyuams tawv los theej ob niam txiv tawv lub ntxoj xb yig li na . Tus me niam lau aw koj niam koj txiv tus koj thb tau kev tshav ntuj ho nub no koj thb ntsaus ntuj os . Hlub koj heev os
It's such a sad story. I feel so bad for you. Even us daughters who have birth parents don't love us as much as the sons. You and your husband have a heart of gold. You should have just left after you found out what your mother did.
Tsis ntev tam nteb no koj lub neej yeej yuav zoo dua koj cov nus os nawj vim koj niam koj txiv muab kooj hmoov rau koj lawm koj cov nus ces yuav caum tsis cuag koj li nawj
It ok sister just be glad you're alive remember that you're already dead your real dad left you for dead but you're alive all this time when the time come you can onlybdonwhat you can you do you dont worries what they think of you
Txhob tu2 siab. Tim koj niam tsis ncaj es cov tub thiaj tsis zoo thiab. Koj los Txhob xav li cas vim koj niam twb khaws koj los tu2 ea thiaj li loj ea koj hlub koj niam pauj xwb mas. Sib pauv zog xwb mog
Coj koj niam mus nyib tsev laus es kom koj cov nus mus nug tim tsev laus seb lawv khaws tau koj niam cov nyiaj li cas lawm ma . Cas ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj tsis txaj muag li ntuj os teb aw😭
Tus Viv ncaus txhob tu siab nawb mog. Luag yeej tsis hlub koj los koj twb ua koj txoj hauj lawm zoo rau koj niam lawm Ces koj yuav tau koob hmoov zoo xwb os. Hos koj cov nus lawv ces tsuas xav tau nyiaj xwb. Lawv yeej tsis tau koob hmoov dab tsi li os. Lawv tsuas tau koj niam cov nyiaj tam sim no xwb. Lub neej pem suab lawv yeej tsis tau dab tsi li os. Hos koj ces tsis tau dab tsi tam sim no los mas tab sis lub neej tom n tej no koj yeej yuav tau koob hmoov xwb os. Qhov koob hmoov koj tau tom n tej no tsis yog koj niam muab rau koj os. Tab sis lub ntuj yawn saub pom koj txoj kev zoo ces nws yuav foom koob moov rau koj lub neej pluas Mias rov los rau koj xwb os. Txhob muab lawv txoj kev tsis hlub koj coj los ua kev nyuaj siab thiab TU siab. Xav Tias yus ua ib txoj kev zoo thiab hlub tus neeg cawm yus ib zaug nyob hauv nyiaj teb no xwb nawb
Don't be sad. My Siblings and I are all blood. My Mom and Dad had 8 of us, 4 boys and 4 girls. And My Brothers don't love me. My Parents always spoiled the boys and forget about the girls. My Mom would always give money to her sons but forget about her daughters. It's not about blood or not, it's about if the other people actually care about and love you. Blood doesn't mean much because The Hmong Community still puts boys before girls. So, txhob tu tu siab os.
You and your siblings only care about money. Regardless they raised you and treated you well and never asked for repayment. The least we can do for our parents is help take care of them when theyre old without expecting anything back. Whatever my parents choose to do with their money is up to them. Its their hard earn money. I dont rely on what they leave behind. Work hard for your own money so you dont have to worry about what they give you or not.
Let’s see you take care of your parents and expect nothing… in fact lets see you give out all their money to your siblings you keep none and you still take care of your parents until the day they die in your house. It’s not about the money, it’s about how unfair the mom treated the kids especially her whom brought them luck!
Kj tsis tau 1qho los kj twb tau 1qho, kv niam &kv txiv muaj wb 2 nus muag xwb los, kv twb tsis tau 1yam ab tsi li tiag, nkawv muab nkawv lub neej tag nro rau nkawv tus tub xwb.😢
Cas siab yuav phem ua luaj es xav tau nyiaj xwb tsis xav yuav leej niam es ho txawj ntshaws niam li nyiaj thiab lawv twb nqa nyiaj tas lawm ces kom lawv tuaj coj mus nrog lawv nyob mas lawv ua li cas cia ces yuav tau txais li rov qab xwb yeej khiav tsis dim
I don't know why you are sad when your parent don't give you any money.. is just money. They pick you from the street love you feed you as their own.. appreciate it and love them.. it's all about the money?. go make your own stop waiting to get free money. Love your parent no matter they give you money or not.. you want something to remeber them by.. well there clothes blanket other stuff.. WHY DOES IT ALWATS END UP WITH MONEY.. PEOPLE GO MAKE YOUR OWN..
You shouldn't feel sad taking care of your adopted mother because no one forces you to take care of her. You wanted to take care of her because you wanted her money when you already knew that she didn't love you. She only gives her money to her sons only. The reason you took your adopted mother in is because you are so desperate for her money but you have to realize that she have 3 sons who also wanted that money too. You think you going to get it? 😅. Don't pretend like you care due to her money.
Nobody forced the daughter to take the mother in & care for her but the daughter did it on her own free will cause the mother & father took her in when she had nobody. Just cause she took her mother in, doesn’t mean she was desperate for the money. If you’ve ever been a caretaker to an old person who can’t do anything but poop & pee themselves daily, you would know that that is hard work & the person caring for the old lady, is the one who should get paid. Yeah, she also took the mother in because none of her greedy sons wanted to take her & care for her. It’s not bout the money for the daughter. I’ve been in the daughter’s shoes & I understand where she’s coming from. For you to say she was desperate for the money, go check yourself & hope one day, u will experience wat the daughter experienced…and when the other people come asking for the money, I dare u to go ahead & give them the money & see how u feel. RUAM!!! 😡😡
@@LiaMoua-v9qwow you so smart 😂 I guess I don't know but to me I will never take care of her. She can give the money to her sons all she wants and look at the end she got nothing but shit right?. She took her in by thinking she's going to get her money. At the end one of her son came and took the money too. I think people who so desperate, deserve what she got. Her sons don't get a damn about her why she cares when she got nothing out of it but complained about how sad she was, If she really love her the way she took her in then don't complain how they don't love her. So yes to me she only do that because she wanted the money. I know why she keep saying she's sad because the mother didn't split the money with her. People like her think they are good but really she's not. Do it from the bottom of your heart not for something you want in return. You know nothing but bubbling your big mouth. Don't put her shoes in yours they're not the same. I can tell that you are not a smart person and besides you only hear her side of the story. We don't know the truth why her mother didn't split the money with her. Maybe she didn't even love her mother like she said.
This is so depressing. I have a feeling when your mum passes away, the brothers are going to ask you for more money. It's all going to fall on you, and then after the funeral, your brothers will take it all and forget that they ever had a sister like you. So many stories like this sis, you need to listen to your husband and just let your brothers take her. Even if it means letting them take her into a care home
One of the toughest decisions a father has to make during a live and death situation is painful and disappointment. Thaum Koj niam tuag ntshe koj peb niag nus dev no yuav tsis kam log tiag ces koj yuav tau txais khawv yaj khawv yws xwb.
Yus twb tsi yg lawv yug lawv twb tsi hlub yus twb ua kom ncaj rau sawvdaws tsi tsim nyog li nco ntsoov hais rau cov neej tya tias nyiaj lawv nqa tas lwm hnub lawv yuav tsum ntas tus laus no nb tsi li ces kj cv nus tyeem yv cia koj ntas thb ov
This is why daughters who have parents that loves sons only... stop taking your parents in. I understand its mean, but to save all the dramas and troubles for you and your husband. If they do not love you, just visit and take care of them as you can. To the brothers who doesn't want their mom, stop being greedy when it comes to money when you cannot even open your house to your own mom.
cov nug Dev nó ib nub tw yuav plua tuag vim phem e ntiaj teb foom nw niam xya nw .nw twb tsi yuav nw niam na e hai qhov khwv...... ntuj aw khwv ưa luaje tseem lo tseeb tej nyiaj ưa tsi na
No our old fashion parents not only because we're their biological daughter but we are their own daughter and they even treat us like we have no feeling like we an outsider how do I know because I live in that life os ib tsoom me phooj ywg aw tu2 siab tshaj plaws li os nej cov nyob lub neej zoo li no nej thiaj paub 😢kuv hais nej tias yog xaiv tau los es yuav los ua me nyuam ntsuag no ces kuv xum xaiv lub neej ua me nyuam ntsuag tuag txhob los yug ua me nyuam ntsuag ciaj nawb vim tias yug los ua me nyuam ntsuag tuag ces yus niam yus txiv tuag tag lawm ces ntsia qhov twg los yeej tsis muaj lawm ces tu2 siab los kuj puam chawj tab sis yog yus muaj niam muaj txiv es lawv tso yus mus nrog kwv tij nyob rau ib lub txawv teb chaws mas luag Haj yam tsis xav hlub yus niam txiv los txom2 nyem thiab mas luag Haj yam cem thiab tsis nyiam yus li mas yog ib qho tu siab tshaj plaws li os lawv aw.
Omg such a sad story. This one made me cry..I'm not sure a crybaby but for some reason this one hit me different. Tu siab heev li os. 😭😭😭
It only made my blood boil… I feel bad for this girl. Ungrateful mother, she don’t deserve this daughter and her luck she brought to them.
Niam tais e, koj zoo nkaus qhov khoom uas tsis tsim nqi es koj txiv liam ncua ua qab ke luag.
Zoo kawg koj ntsib ib tug txiv neej uas yug tsis tau muaj tub ki thiaj khaws koj los cawm ciaj hu nws ua txiv hu nws poj niam ua niam, los loj hlob mus nrog luag yuav muaj txiv muaj ib tse tub ki. Ntawd ces twb tseem nqi tshaj nkawd tej nyiaj tseg rau nkawd tej tub yug thiab tshaj qhov nkawd cov tub yuav xam koj yog muam.
Yog thaum ub nkawv ho rov koj rau koj txiv yug uas tseg koj tuag ua qab ke luag los koj yeej tsis tau kev hlub tshaj os. Koj txiv yuav poj niam tshiab ces muaj ntxhais tshiab, koj yeej yuav zoo tsis txawv ntsuag puab ntsa thiab poj qhev las ma.
Pheej tseem yuav tu siab na. Twb tsis tau tuag ua qab ke luag li koj pog lawm mas. Luag ntxhi es tej nyuag neej tsa ob phab ces tso plhuav cia tom qab os.
Koj niam qhov twb tu koj ciaj ces koj tu nws tuag los yeej yog lawm. Tsis thas yuav tos nyiaj li os
These old fashion hmong parent siab phem tshaj just because you are not their biological daughter, you did all the right things, but your mom still only worry about these unfaithful sons. 😢
No choice
I think it’s most people. Even today, I hear of those who cannot accept their nephews and nieces. I mean these boys can’t even take care of their mom. So unfortunately, peb siab me me. Not just the old fashioned Hmong parents.
That’s the mindset of the shamanism worldview. They don’t need to love someone that’s not their biological children over their own. If they did, it wouldn’t make sense in their worldview.
Just be grateful you were loved by two families and you were not left to die in the woods with your grandma.
Me vivncaus aw nrog koj tu siab os. Koj txawm hlub koj niam npaum cas los koj niam yeej hlub koj tsis ti txha vim koj tsis yog nws yug os. koj twb ua zoo them lub txiaj ntsim tas lawm es kav tsij coj koj niam rov qab mus nrog koj cov nus nyob mog. Cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim thiab foom koob hmoov rau koj mog. Muab nyiaj ces muab koj niam Nrog tib si lub ntuj yeej tsis npam os. Yog yuav npam ces twb npam koj cov nus lawm. Txog hnub koj niam tuag koj cov nus yeej tsis ntab ntws os. Tu siab tshaj.
😢let her son take her back and let them know how you feel
Zajj neej neeg no cas tu siab ua luaj oss tus mi niam tsev😢😢😢, hlub hlub koj oss mog 😢
Txob tu siab os mog. Peb cov niam txiv in plab yug kiag los twb zoo li koj thiab os.
Tus Viv ncaus aw koj yeej siab zoo kawg lawm os tab sis yog yus twb txaus siab tu tus niam uas tsis yug yus thiab tsis hlub yus ces txhob tu siab... yog kuv no tej zaum kuv yuav tsis tu vim nws twb muaj nws 3 tug tub thiab 3 tug nyab tej hauj lwm ntawv yog lawv hauj lwm.
You didn't have to take your mom in but you did so don't be sad it's your choice
Exactly!
Right. I would of acted like I wasn't home. 😂 why pick up the phone? The door? 🤷♀️
I feel so sad for u, sister. I don't understand how a parent could abandon their child. Tu siab tshaj. And what your adopted mom did was very selfish and mean too. I would be very tu siab to both sets of parents, but no matter what, think positive that bc of them u were still alive. Best wishes to u and may u receive the blessings u deserve. ❤
Nrog koj tu siab os me ntxhais aw, cov tub ces xav yuav nyiaj xwb tsis xav tu os, Hmoob ces ib txwm yeej hlub cov tub xwb txawm yog tej ntxhais lawv yug kiag los lawv yeej hlub txawv tej tub mog
Pab koj Tus siab kawg os
koj yog ib tus neeg kheej heev lawm os tus sister aw hlub2 koj os❤
You do it for yourself, sis! Luag twb txhob txwm tsis hlub yus es yus tseem siab ntev hlub lawv ces txhob tu siab nawb. Kaj tsij uv mus xwb es ua twj ywm. Tej zaum koj tshuav lawv nqi.
Leej niam no siab tsis ncaj thiab tsis zoo.
Xa lawv niam rov qab mus nrog lawv nyob. Lawv yuav sib nrauj los tsis care.
Pab niag tub no tsim nyog noj tshuaj. Tsis kam yuav lawv niam tabsis ho ntshaw pob nyiaj. Txaj muag dhau lawm.
Sister, you do it to yourself. I know you’re looking for love but you will never be fully love until you love yourself. Be thankful to both side of your family and just love the family that you created with your husband!
Thanks for sharing your story sis. You're such an amazing person with a humongous heart. Wished we have more people like you. All I have to say is that "all of your step brothers are so cruel to you".
Thaum koj tau kev txonmyem koj twb tsis tau yug koj los nws twb khaws koj thiab cawm koj dim ntawm txoj kev tuag. Tsam nod nws ho tau kev txomnyem los koj yuav tau pab thiab cawm nws…peb ua tib neeg nyob dejsiab dejjws loj tshaj nyiajtxiag. Nej s/d txoj hmoov yeej los li ntawd…ib leeg cawm ibleeg rau ntu txomnyem. Thov Vajtswv Ntuj foom koob nchuav hmoov thiab txhawb koj lub dag lub zog pub rau koj nawd mog tus me vivncaus aw
Omg kuv yeej tsis kam zov li lawm os ntuj es
Txhob tu siab phim nw cov tub coj nw mu nyob tsev lau xwb ca koj tsi kàv liàm nrog koj tu siab heev
Tu siab hv lí o
Txhob tu siab os tsi muaj nkawv coj koj ce koj twb tsi muaj Hnub no txhob xav tia koj txiv yug koj yuav hlub koj os yog nw hlub koj ce cov nra xwb yeej tsi loj npaum koj os xum muab koj pog neb pov tseg es nim yog neeg zoo na koj pog yug koj txiv twb tseem muab tso nrog koj yog kv yog koj ma kv yeej tsi nug koj txiv yug koj moo li os
Txob tu siab mog me Niam laus aw tus neeg hlub koj ce yog koj txiv tu koj xwb os koj txiv tuag lawv ce tsi muaj leej twg hlub koj lawv os cov yuav hlub koj ce yog koj tus txiv thiab koj cov me nyuam lawm xwb mog
Wow
If the sons have no respect for me and just want to come n take all the money but still dnt want to care for their own mom, i say then and there at the party to take his mom with him, no exceptions. Its so sad they used her to care for their mom and then just come n empty her out. Karmas a b$%&@ to the sons. Since the mom made it clear her sons means more to her than i as a none bilogical daughter leave her to the sons do their way with her. Her sons problem if these tradional parents want to leave their life in their sons hands....so annoying.
Cas nco txog nyiaj xwb os hmoob tsis nco txog txoj kev hlub li
Wow !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lub sijhawm nod yog lub sijhawm koj yuav pauj txiaj pauj jim uas nkawd cia li zoo siab hlo khaws koj tom kev los tu thiab tseem phij cuam rau koj mus ua koj lub neej. Tsis txhob muab tej nyiaj me me ntawd los ua kev tu siab. Koj ua koj part zoo lawm ces lub ntuj yeej yuav foom koob nchuav hmoov pub rau koj es cia li zoo siab rau yam uas koj ua tau pub rau koj tus niam ntawd kod
Txhob tu siab os txawm nej koom niam txiv ib plab los tus siab nqaim ces yeej yuav zoo ib yam ib ko ces koj hajyam yuav tu siab
Ua siab ntev tu os viv ncaus aw!! Lawv tsis hlub koj los tej zaum lub ntuj kuj yuav pom koj txoj kev hlub es tom ntej no koj yuav tau ib txoj koob hmoov zoo mog, koj cov nus ces tom ntej tej zaum tsuas muaj qhov phem nkag lawv lub neej xwb os.
Sister don't be sad. Koj cov nus hais tias lawv yuav saib seb koj tus txiv neb muaj peev xwm npaum li cas. We know for sure you have more balls than all 3 of your brothers combined. Ua ib tug ntxhais Hmoob mas tu siab tshaj. Ntxawm cov laus twb mus tau ntau xyoo lawm los lawv yeej tseem nco ntsoov hlub cov tub dua.
Yog tsis muaj lawv ces yeej tsis muaj koj lawm kav tsuj tug koj niam kom koj txhob tsuas lawv nqi lawm os sister aw
Sister, you lucky! your adopted parent loves you 10X more than mine. My mom passed away with all my responsibles for the funeral and now my father living with me. It sad!!
Tu viv ncau aw nrog koj tu siab kawg os mog. Thov qhua koj tu txiv siab loj siab dav tseem kam tu niam tai thiab. Txawm koj hmoob phem ib qho lo koj kuj hmoov zoo ua tau tu txij kawm zoo os nawb
Yus txaus yus siab os viv ncaus aw. Koj niam ko twb tsis hlub koj los koj tseem yuav ua tus cawm seej tu nws es nws tseg nws tej nyiaj rau cov nws yug xwb los koj txaus koj siab ces tsis pom qab tu siab rau koj
You should have left her with her own sons. You have no obligation to take care of her. You choose to do that on your own…😩!
Cas nim nrog kj tu2 siab li os
Oh yoh sister aw, cias nws nyob tsev laus es meskas mam tus os mog. Yus tsis tshuav nws nqis lawm mog.
This is so sad 😭
😢😢😢
Tu siab tshaj li os cov neeg laus coj li no😪💔
Cov nus coj tsis yog rau tu muam. Cov nus hlub pob nyiaj xwb.
Cas yuav pab hlub koj ua luaj os mog
There's no need to be saddened by your mother. The debt owed to them for saving you is enough as you've stated. Even amongst blood siblings, there will be unequal love poured out to them from their parents. It's just the reality of life. Every child is different and thus they require different things. Often times, they're are favorites. And those who need the most help will receive more for their parents. I do believe that what your brothers did are wrong. But you've done right for what you've done for your mother.
Sister, don’t worry about the money and all, those are just material things. Be grateful and blessed that they took you and loved you. Just think of taking care of your mother as a pay back for them taking care of you and loved you all those years. Some of us with parents still don’t get the love you got.
Nws yog niam nws yeej coj tsis ncaj lawm muab xa rov qab mog lwm hnub tsis muaj nws lawm tseem haj yam yuav nyuaj thiab
Txhob tu siab os koj twb tsis yog nws yug nws hlub li ko ces yeej ok lawm kuv niam twb yog tus yug kuv kuv niam twb tsis hlub kuv li ko mas
Xa rov qab rau cov nus mog. Luag tsis hlub yus txhob ua zoo lawm
You are lucky your husband is an understanding person.
Ntxhob nus lawn nog Tus viv ncau aw lawv yeej tsis hlub koj lawn os nog
Ntxhaiv tau tia cov tsi muaj me nyuas e mu muab lwm tus los e yus ma muaj cev yog tus me nyuams tawv los theej ob niam txiv tawv lub ntxoj xb yig li na .
Tus me niam lau aw koj niam koj txiv tus koj thb tau kev tshav ntuj ho nub no koj thb ntsaus ntuj os . Hlub koj heev os
Sister koj niam tsis Hlub koj os, tseem koj tsi tu koj niam los tsis npam koj li os
G yog luag yug ce luag yeej g hlub os
Sister muab koj niam rov qab rau koj cov nus nawb. Tsam lwm hnub koj niam mus ces lawv tso Lub ntees rau koj ces koj yuav txom nyem os
I hope your brothers come here n read some of our comments. These brothers have no shame!! Ib leeg tub quav dev!!
tu siab tiag2 li o😅😅😅😅😅😅
Omg your little boy is all grown up May!!
Es cov koj txiv tso tseg rau lawv ne..hos cov nyob ntawm koj..yog koj li..
Sister you do your best god bless you😢sister txhob tu siab mog Muaj tej cov twb koom niam koom txiv kiag twb tseem phem tshaj ko thiab os
It's such a sad story. I feel so bad for you. Even us daughters who have birth parents don't love us as much as the sons.
You and your husband have a heart of gold. You should have just left after you found out what your mother did.
Tsis ntev tam nteb no koj lub neej yeej yuav zoo dua koj cov nus os nawj vim koj niam koj txiv muab kooj hmoov rau koj lawm koj cov nus ces yuav caum tsis cuag koj li nawj
Cas zoo li koj ntshaw2 tu ib niag pojniam uas luag twb tsis nco koj txiajntsim tias koj hlub nws yog kuv ces tsis tu lawm os
It ok sister just be glad you're alive remember that you're already dead your real dad left you for dead but you're alive all this time when the time come you can onlybdonwhat you can you do you dont worries what they think of you
Niam Ntsuab teev! Tus Niam tsev ko nws twb paub tías lawv tsis hlub nws vim tsis yog Niam Txiv yug, Tab sis nws kuj ntaw lawv cov nyiaj kawg li nawb. Yog yus tsis ntsaw nyiaj ces yeej tsis ntsaw tu lawv li nawb.
Txhob tu2 siab. Tim koj niam tsis ncaj es cov tub thiaj tsis zoo thiab. Koj los Txhob xav li cas vim koj niam twb khaws koj los tu2 ea thiaj li loj ea koj hlub koj niam pauj xwb mas. Sib pauv zog xwb mog
Kj yeej ua yog lawm os kav tsij ua zoo ntxiv mus os thaum kawg ces kj yeej tau txais txoj kev zoo xwb os
Why does this sound so familiar? I saw a fb video of someone dropping off their mom at the door. So sad.
Coj koj niam mus nyib tsev laus es kom koj cov nus mus nug tim tsev laus seb lawv khaws tau koj niam cov nyiaj li cas lawm ma . Cas ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj tsis txaj muag li ntuj os teb aw😭
Tus Viv ncaus txhob tu siab nawb mog. Luag yeej tsis hlub koj los koj twb ua koj txoj hauj lawm zoo rau koj niam lawm Ces koj yuav tau koob hmoov zoo xwb os. Hos koj cov nus lawv ces tsuas xav tau nyiaj xwb. Lawv yeej tsis tau koob hmoov dab tsi li os. Lawv tsuas tau koj niam cov nyiaj tam sim no xwb. Lub neej pem suab lawv yeej tsis tau dab tsi li os. Hos koj ces tsis tau dab tsi tam sim no los mas tab sis lub neej tom n tej no koj yeej yuav tau koob hmoov xwb os. Qhov koob hmoov koj tau tom n tej no tsis yog koj niam muab rau koj os. Tab sis lub ntuj yawn saub pom koj txoj kev zoo ces nws yuav foom koob moov rau koj lub neej pluas Mias rov los rau koj xwb os. Txhob muab lawv txoj kev tsis hlub koj coj los ua kev nyuaj siab thiab TU siab. Xav Tias yus ua ib txoj kev zoo thiab hlub tus neeg cawm yus ib zaug nyob hauv nyiaj teb no xwb nawb
Don't be sad. My Siblings and I are all blood. My Mom and Dad had 8 of us, 4 boys and 4 girls. And My Brothers don't love me. My Parents always spoiled the boys and forget about the girls. My Mom would always give money to her sons but forget about her daughters. It's not about blood or not, it's about if the other people actually care about and love you. Blood doesn't mean much because The Hmong Community still puts boys before girls. So, txhob tu tu siab os.
You and your siblings only care about money. Regardless they raised you and treated you well and never asked for repayment. The least we can do for our parents is help take care of them when theyre old without expecting anything back. Whatever my parents choose to do with their money is up to them. Its their hard earn money. I dont rely on what they leave behind. Work hard for your own money so you dont have to worry about what they give you or not.
you must be the shameless brother with this mindset
Let’s see you take care of your parents and expect nothing… in fact lets see you give out all their money to your siblings you keep none and you still take care of your parents until the day they die in your house.
It’s not about the money, it’s about how unfair the mom treated the kids especially her whom brought them luck!
Ua li Koj ua tau xwb os sis, peb niam Los Twb nrog peb cov ntxhais nyob thiab xwb os
Kj tsis tau 1qho los kj twb tau 1qho, kv niam &kv txiv muaj wb 2 nus muag xwb los, kv twb tsis tau 1yam ab tsi li tiag, nkawv muab nkawv lub neej tag nro rau nkawv tus tub xwb.😢
Pab koj tu sb kawg li os niam laus aw yus tsis yog lawv yug ces lawv yeej tsis hlub yus hauv lawv nruab sb tuaj os mog peb twb yog niam txiv yug lawv twb hlub peb tsis sib luag os koj nc ntsoov tias cov niam txiv ib plab yug luag thiaj hlub yug xb os mog koj tsis cia koj niam nws mus nyob tsev laus ces twb tag plaub lawm mas koj hlub lawv luag yeej tsis hlub koj os nb
Cas siab yuav phem ua luaj es xav tau nyiaj xwb tsis xav yuav leej niam es ho txawj ntshaws niam li nyiaj thiab lawv twb nqa nyiaj tas lawm ces kom lawv tuaj coj mus nrog lawv nyob mas lawv ua li cas cia ces yuav tau txais li rov qab xwb yeej khiav tsis dim
I don't know why you are sad when your parent don't give you any money.. is just money. They pick you from the street love you feed you as their own.. appreciate it and love them.. it's all about the money?. go make your own stop waiting to get free money. Love your parent no matter they give you money or not.. you want something to remeber them by.. well there clothes blanket other stuff.. WHY DOES IT ALWATS END UP WITH MONEY.. PEOPLE GO MAKE YOUR OWN..
ntshe koj tshuav koj niam nqe xwb os nrog koj tu siab
Koj yog lub kaus roos koj 3 tug nus me nyuam tsaub, Lawv saib tsis taus koj ib hnub twg lawv lub kuamuag ntshav yuav los nawb mog. Uasiab loj2 nawb
You shouldn't feel sad taking care of your adopted mother because no one forces you to take care of her. You wanted to take care of her because you wanted her money when you already knew that she didn't love you. She only gives her money to her sons only. The reason you took your adopted mother in is because you are so desperate for her money but you have to realize that she have 3 sons who also wanted that money too. You think you going to get it? 😅. Don't pretend like you care due to her money.
Nobody forced the daughter to take the mother in & care for her but the daughter did it on her own free will cause the mother & father took her in when she had nobody. Just cause she took her mother in, doesn’t mean she was desperate for the money. If you’ve ever been a caretaker to an old person who can’t do anything but poop & pee themselves daily, you would know that that is hard work & the person caring for the old lady, is the one who should get paid. Yeah, she also took the mother in because none of her greedy sons wanted to take her & care for her. It’s not bout the money for the daughter. I’ve been in the daughter’s shoes & I understand where she’s coming from. For you to say she was desperate for the money, go check yourself & hope one day, u will experience wat the daughter experienced…and when the other people come asking for the money, I dare u to go ahead & give them the money & see how u feel. RUAM!!! 😡😡
@@LiaMoua-v9qwow you so smart 😂 I guess I don't know but to me I will never take care of her. She can give the money to her sons all she wants and look at the end she got nothing but shit right?. She took her in by thinking she's going to get her money. At the end one of her son came and took the money too. I think people who so desperate, deserve what she got. Her sons don't get a damn about her why she cares when she got nothing out of it but complained about how sad she was, If she really love her the way she took her in then don't complain how they don't love her. So yes to me she only do that because she wanted the money. I know why she keep saying she's sad because the mother didn't split the money with her. People like her think they are good but really she's not. Do it from the bottom of your heart not for something you want in return. You know nothing but bubbling your big mouth. Don't put her shoes in yours they're not the same. I can tell that you are not a smart person and besides you only hear her side of the story. We don't know the truth why her mother didn't split the money with her. Maybe she didn't even love her mother like she said.
Your brothers have no shame! Shame on them!
WOW, your father abandoned you and your grandmother, but he took your brother with him. Such cruel and heartless.
This is so depressing. I have a feeling when your mum passes away, the brothers are going to ask you for more money. It's all going to fall on you, and then after the funeral, your brothers will take it all and forget that they ever had a sister like you. So many stories like this sis, you need to listen to your husband and just let your brothers take her. Even if it means letting them take her into a care home
Mi sister aw lwm hnub ces txhua yam ces cia li muab pov kiag rov qab rau koj cov nus xwb nawj mog cov nus zoo li koj cov ko na
One of the toughest decisions a father has to make during a live and death situation is painful and disappointment. Thaum Koj niam tuag ntshe koj peb niag nus dev no yuav tsis kam log tiag ces koj yuav tau txais khawv yaj khawv yws xwb.
Yus twb tsi yg lawv yug lawv twb tsi hlub yus twb ua kom ncaj rau sawvdaws tsi tsim nyog li nco ntsoov hais rau cov neej tya tias nyiaj lawv nqa tas lwm hnub lawv yuav tsum ntas tus laus no nb tsi li ces kj cv nus tyeem yv cia koj ntas thb ov
Why are u complaining u chose to, you always know the outcome but chose it.
Txawm ib plab yug los yeej zoo li no thiab os.
Koj ntshaw ntshaw kev hlub es koj thiaj li ruam tas li lawm os.
Yus tsis yog luag yug ces luag yeej hlub tsis tas. Thank you for share your story. Hais tau zoo kawg.
This is why daughters who have parents that loves sons only... stop taking your parents in. I understand its mean, but to save all the dramas and troubles for you and your husband. If they do not love you, just visit and take care of them as you can.
To the brothers who doesn't want their mom, stop being greedy when it comes to money when you cannot even open your house to your own mom.
cov nug Dev nó ib nub tw yuav plua tuag vim phem e ntiaj teb foom nw niam xya nw .nw twb tsi yuav nw niam na e hai qhov khwv...... ntuj aw khwv ưa luaje tseem lo tseeb tej nyiaj ưa tsi na
Tsis txhob tusiab os tus viv ncaus. Koj muab xav kiag hais tias cav cuag cov uas yog niam thiab txiv yug es niam thiab txiv tseem xaiv hlub thiab xaiv pab es twb hlub tsis sib npaug no. Muaj ib txhia niam txiv Hmoob thaum lawv tseem noj taus hais taus ces lawv tsis nco qab hlub cov hlub lawv. Thaum lawv noj taus hais tsis taus li koj niam no lawm ces lawv mam li nco tias tsis muaj tus hlub lawv xwb no. Ua siab loj xav tias koj niam yog tus uas tu koj loj no xwb. Tsis tas li ntawv, hlub koj niam pauj rau koj niam uas yog tus yug koj no es koj thiaj li tsis qaug zog nawb.
Tus sib ua lua li os me nem 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Koj nus xav tau koj niam cov nyiaj xwb o tus viv ncaus. Lauv g hlub koj niam li o thiab g hlub koj o cov nus dev xwb o xav tau nyiaj xwb nawb
Tsis txhob tu siab os txhua yam koj cov nus tsua yog nyiaj xwb koj yuav tso lus rau tus thawj coj kom koj 3 tus yuav tsum faib cov nyiaj koj niam tau muab faib ua yam koj tsis tau ib kis peb neeg ntiaj teb pom thiab hnov tag
No our old fashion parents not only because we're their biological daughter but we are their own daughter and they even treat us like we have no feeling like we an outsider how do I know because I live in that life os ib tsoom me phooj ywg aw tu2 siab tshaj plaws li os nej cov nyob lub neej zoo li no nej thiaj paub 😢kuv hais nej tias yog xaiv tau los es yuav los ua me nyuam ntsuag no ces kuv xum xaiv lub neej ua me nyuam ntsuag tuag txhob los yug ua me nyuam ntsuag ciaj nawb vim tias yug los ua me nyuam ntsuag tuag ces yus niam yus txiv tuag tag lawm ces ntsia qhov twg los yeej tsis muaj lawm ces tu2 siab los kuj puam chawj tab sis yog yus muaj niam muaj txiv es lawv tso yus mus nrog kwv tij nyob rau ib lub txawv teb chaws mas luag Haj yam tsis xav hlub yus niam txiv los txom2 nyem thiab mas luag Haj yam cem thiab tsis nyiam yus li mas yog ib qho tu siab tshaj plaws li os lawv aw.
Nope koj pab 5 phav xwb kom lawv tuaj vim koj tu txaus dhau lawm cov tub hauj lwm nawb
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Koj niam siab phem thia koj cov nus tshuav koj txiv thiaj hlub koj xw cas tsis cia mus ngob tsev laus kom pau tab nas
Sister, when the time comes if your step brothers cause any problems let me know I’ll make sure they have nothing to say.
Kom nws cov tub tuaj coj nws mus rov qab mus.nrog koj me mus koom txiv os mog cov nus dev kom yeej yuav npam lawm xwb