I had this happen with my most recent ex and he turned it around on me and made me seem like the bad guy, he was out all night DRINKING with his friends and I didn’t hear from him until the next morning. of course I’m gonna worry about the worst case scenario 🤦🏻♀️ cheating crossed my mind too but my main concern was that something happened to him.
the clarity in her voice, no stuttering, and simply blank expression you can tell she’s hurting and being completely raw right now. I believe you, im with you, and i feel for you. so proud of you for standing up for yourself ❤️
That's why I love Emma she's always been 100 percent real and if its bothering her she will always address it before its taken to far or blown out of portion I know she's hurt and I feel for her
hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
@@adivinity-425 hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
The fact that you're able to realize that he's the one in the wrong and not putting the blame on yourself is a sign of strength. Probably the hardest thing to do after the breakup or even right before.
you can tell she has a good support system because a lot of people lose themselves in relationships to the point where they have no one to talk to. and when something goes wrong people often times blame themselves even if it’s the other person’s fault
girl don't worry about who's on his side. you got 1.41 million of of rooting for you always!! so proud of you for standing up for yourself. stay strong emma!!!💕💕
as someone who's been cheated on, without the physical aspect as well, it hurts. you're so strong, props to you for handling everything like a champ. you don't deserve this
This video was so painful to watch. You can hear the pain in her voice as she explains everything that went wrong. No one should ever have to experience the emotional turmoil & manipulation that you have gone through Em. Nothing anyone says will cure the hurt you’re feeling, but we want you to know that you did nothing wrong!! You will get through this & end up being so much stronger, with new boundaries to look for in your next relationship.
Oh girl your in the right. I would flip shit if my boyfriend went to a different state w another girl and her family. You are the sweetest most genuine person I’ve came across on here, and hearing the timeline make me think back to watching your videos and him in it, what you were going through and you still put on a happy face. Hope you can find peace and spend some time with your self and find your self again!
14:27 no one deserves to be looked at like that by their partner. emma u are an angel, thank you for speaking your truth, you deserve everything and more.
I can't imagine how insecure and betrayed you felt during these moments. You did not overreact at all and you are so strong by handling all of this maturely and saying nothing but the truth.
hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
i am in shock emma. you don’t deserve that. that’s not fair for such a sweet and kind person like you. He is completely in the wrong, there is no excuse for what he did.
see this has made me gain so much respect for emma. the way she expresses herself in this video shows how much it hurt her but here she is still being able to articulate the situation and show her side.
Once a cheater, always a cheater! Thank goodness it was only 8 months. I was with a guy who cheated on me for 5 years. You deserve so much better and I am beyond proud you stood up for yourself. We love you Emma, be strong!!
don’t ever let anyone gaslight you into thinking this isn’t cheating. that is absolutely ridiculous. i’m so sorry this happened to you but you need to know that you deserve someone SO much better.
I’m slightly older than you, and I had this exact situation right out of high school. Do not let anybody gaslight you that this is not cheating, it broke a boundary you had in a relationship which therefore is cheating. Nobody else’s opinion matters. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this.
I'm SO SO sorry This happens to You. Nobody deserves to be treated this way. Hope everything is great with You I don't usually comment like this. God Bless 🙏🙏🙏
Yes! Cheating for sure. My husband didnthis. He asked another girl on a dinner date after months of talking to her behind my back. He didn't end up going out to eat but the fact he talked to her for konths and then asked her out is cheating. I was home with our toddlers whole all this was happening. He would yell at me and telk.me he never cheated on me cuz it wasn't physical. He was full of crap.
I’m so proud of you for sticking up for yourself, you deserve the world, he’s been basically gaslighting you, pretty much your whole relationship & it makes me uncomfy because you are so sweet and you don’t deserve any of that.
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I hope everyone in your home town is watching this and is embarrassed that your telling the truth and your showing proof! We love you Emma you have so many supporters !!!! I hope the people who belived in your ex bf feel life shit rn
The fact that he immediately felt the need to say he never had feelings for her shows him covering up the fact that he did. My heart breaks for you 🤍 You are so strong and are onto bigger and better things E!
All of that is cheating to me. There’s different types of cheating. Good for you for sticking up for yourself!! Everyone is proud of you and has your back. Just remember you are beautiful and deserve so much more.
The soo many lies, manipulation girl he’s gonna do that to every other girl he goes with. I’m so glad you got away from the toxicity of that boy, at least you can grow from this experience and heal though it will be hard but trust me loving yourself Is the best love you can ever have ! Makes u not settle for anything less than u deserve:) and u deserve a lot more 💕
This is a good one Doing charity 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are right She does deserves better She Will get the one for her So this is not a Lost Cause is obvious This guy was for everyone else. She deserves better than this trash
Girl this is sick. You deserve so much better and one day you’ll find someone who is not toxic and someone that respects you and deserves you. It’ll get better I promise.
I will never understand this pattern especially in small towns where the man’s side is almost always taken. Any all excuses are made to cover their butts. You’re 100% in the right girl. What boyfriend goes on a trip with another WITHOUT telling his girlfriend? For people saying nothing went on, please. He’s a serial cheater.
@@raskolnikov6443 Regardless if we know them or not, Emma has screenshots to back up every single one of her points. Mr Jeffery is in another state hiding with his side piece. Be fr🤣
i completely understand how it affects her and how hurt she feels and stuff but on the level of swearing she’s an adult and she isn’t the same person we once watched like age 11. i’m not trying to hate on you in any way just that she changed and she can swear or whatever
@@nessareadav Yeah I know she's grown and I figured she probably cusses when she's not on camera. I just noticed how now she's not hiding it and that shows me how real she's being with us.
this broke my heart… and just seeing how genuinely happy she was not knowing that he was with the one girl from the get go of the relationship just goes to show how much she truly loved him. you’re way too good for him Emma!!! his loss 💕
Emma, we as your subscribers didn’t expect you to make a “the truth/ your side of the story” video, but I guess this is a good video given the video being published. Emma, you are absolutely amazing and beautiful and you didn’t deserve to have this happen to you, you show us as subscribers, your beautiful and given personality. You’re beautiful within and out Emma. I hope you’re taking this time to heal and learn yourself all over again. I hope you be kind to yourself and focus on your true happiness and feelings. Friends help a lot too, they help to get your mind off of the hurt you went through since it happened. I know how you feel seeing as I got broken up with 7 going on 8 months ago, and really it does hurt but truly all I can say, Emma, you deserve the world.
I use Snapchat including my moms friends but I literally have no drama on there at all it’s peaceful actually which is strange. Like a lot of people I know have a lot of drama on Snapchat and Instagram but I literally have no drama on either platform which is good cause I hate drama and toxic people cause I choose people very carefully.
My advice to you, as someone older and who’s been through this more than once: Stop giving him any of your energy. He’s not worth worrying about, talking about, defending yourself over. The people who matter will know you well enough to know the truth of the situation. As for the others, they aren’t anyone. Literal strangers or people you shouldn’t want in your life anyway. Sounds like this guy is a real piece of work- and like he’s enjoying the attention and power he feels in the situation. Don’t give him the satisfaction of even acknowledging him. Move on with your life. Focus on yourself and finding your happiness as a single individual. That will bother him more profoundly than he’ll ever admit. Best of luck to you.
Unfortunately most people always take the man’s side and find any way to blame the woman for any situation. Regardless of your town being against you, you have all of us. I’ve been a supporter since 2015 and I’m so proud of the woman you have become, so beautiful and strong. Hang in there
Yes omg when my bf and I had a big disagreement my friends since year 7 (basically family) were making sure he was ok when I needed them. Most always take the man’s side :( Been watching her for so long hope she’ll feel better soon
@@peoplethesedaysberetarded How is she to blame ?? the person that cheats is in the wrong, and it’s very true, whenever a man cheat people always take the man side and tell the women how it’s her fault and everything, but whenever a women cheats, women get called all types of name and everything and they tell the man to leave her and every thing,( as they should because cheating isn’t love), but it should go both ways, the same way how people bash women for cheating they need to bash mean for cheating as well, and it shouldn’t matter what gender you are cheating is wrong.
The people in your hometown, high school… that keep defending him are just jealous of you! They envy most things about you because they can’t have it or be YOU! So any little things that goes wrong they will always have something to say. So I’d just advice to not let them bring you down. I know it can be annoying and bothersome but never let them be the cause to hurt you where you believe them. YOU are special and all ur social media fans will support you 💯!
So true. I’ve heard multiple stories of influencers and celebrities having to leave their home town or do homeschooling due to the bullying and harassment they get from their peers. :/
The same thing happened to me when I was 18! All I can say is run as fast as you can and never look back to him! He will never stop doing this shit. Someone else will come along, and won’t treat you like this. You got this! Stay strong!
i’m really sorry emma. you’re so strong and better off without him. this story is so familiar to me and the gaslighting is unreal. take time for yourself and spending time with your family and friends ❤️ your fans love you
hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
In my opinion it's a good thing you posted this because your saving future girls from all his lies,manipulation,secrets, and a heart break. He knows he's in the wrong hence why not one word has came out of his mouth. you did the right thing and you deserve way more than what was given to you the last 8/9 months.
I just got out of a relationship in a very similar situation as yours. I felt completely disrespected during the end of the relationship it took a big mental toll on me. Now that I'm out of it and ended it I feel like I can be myself and focus on myself. You did the right thing! Believe me none of this was your fault.
completely cheating no matter what. And I can’t believe a guy would ever cheat on you, you are the complete package. Gorgeous, amazing personality, beautiful smile, perfect body, hair, and everything. You truly deserve the world
@@maddiechimienti4402 Exactly! Emma is sweet, honest, caring and trusting. But apparently Jeffery wanted a loose girl with no morals. He didn't deserve someone like Emma.
@@BB-gl8em I think it was more than his looks. Lets face it Emma could get any guy she wants. I think he made himself seem like someone he actually wasn't. I think this experience has taught her a lot about about what to look out for. Like she said she is done with being treated badly.
@@joycereece5420 he could have cheated on her w a very nice girl & lied to the other girl … just cause Jeffrey acted like a jerk doesn’t mean the other girl is a villain!
I'm 25, and let me tell you how calm you are being. It's amazing! You absolutely did not deserve any of this. And for the people who think that you are "blasting " him online, you're not. His choice was to do this to you, and he knew he was on videos on this public platform. You are allowed to tell your side, and you are telling it with all honesty. We are so proud of you Emma. Standing up for yourself and how you are and how you deserve to be treated. 👏
on another note, i feel like coaching and getting back into cheer and having ellie, elisabeth and your family around is really gonna help. i see a whole new chapter starting for you! we all love and support you no matter what!
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i’m so sorry em… you truly don’t deserve this, just know that your fans, friends, & family loves you so much and will continue to support every step of your way! ❤️
i feel sick for you, I'm so sorry you went through this :( it was absolutely cheating regardless of what anyone says because you set boundaries and he didn't respect them, several times! i hope you're doing okay now and can heal from what he put you through
it breaks my heart to see you like this emma. im so sorry this happened. just because you know you deserve BETTER doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. we are all here for you baby
Do not question your gut. Even if some people don't think that is "cheating" (which it is), that still DOES NOT make it OK! Lying and hiding things and being distant are grounds to break up with someone.
He consented to being on your videos you have every right to explain what happened just like you had the right to keep it to yourself if you wanted too. People need to stop trying to defend that shitty behaviour. Cheating starts with hiding things. As a 21 year old who’s been dating since she’s was 13 I’ve learned a lot. You classify it as cheating if that’s how you felt about it.
you have every right to be mad and feel betrayed by him. even if he didn't physically cheat (which honestly i doubt that he hadn't) going on a trip with a girl without letting you know is wrong on so many levels. you deserve so much better. don't listen to people of your school or your town if they stay on his side. what really matters is that you (and your loved ones) know how things actually happened. 💕
This video has been getting recommended to me pretty much daily. I didn’t have any context so I was not going to watch it, but you know, I was just bored. I’m glad I decided to watch it. There’s always comfort in not being alone. 🧡
im so sorry emma.. you deserve so much better than that. i’m glad you shared your side of the story and didn’t allow yourself to be manipulated and put through any more pain than he already caused you. you are so strong and i pray for you to over come this in the best way possible, and to find the right person some day who will treat you with the respect you deserve 🤍
Who in their right mind would cheat on Emma?! Absolutely disgusting. It is 100% cheating and the fact that you gave him so much love through it all shows how compassionate you are. I’m so glad that you finally chose yourself. You will find someone who treats you amazingly because you are so beyond worthy of love. Take care Emma❤️
i am so proud of you girl. you speak your truth and you say it loud. you deserve the world and he can get pushed in a bush. not okay what so ever. don’t think one thought about who might believe you and who won’t. the people you are close to will have your back no matter what. you have so many people (fans), more like family on your side. by the end of this you will be so happy you said your side and he will have no one left. good for you emma
at least you have shared these to save other girls to go through it w him , ur such a sweet soul and handled it WAY better than i could’ve , stay strong em!
the people defending him don’t see the behind the scenes. they don’t see what it’s like to be in a relationship with him. they should have no say if they’ve never experienced it for themselves
your gold my girl, don’t expect you out of anyone else, it’s gonna break you when you see they won’t give you the same in return! im proud of you! people may think it’s stupid but it takes a strong individual to leave someone they have so much love for!
Don’t even trip about him girl, focus on yourself and your goals. That’s the most important thing you can do and you have your family by your side as well. This will all take time but I’m positive enough you will get through this 🤍
emma, im very sorry you have to go through this, you are such a kind and heart warming person. i don’t know you personally but i can tell. you deserve nothing but love & happiness. what he did was genuinely terrible. sending lots of love
Oh my heck, the same exact thing that you are describing within the first minute of the video is what I am going through. It’s so tough. I’m so happy for you. I’m trying to get comfortable with sharing my side and story with people as well.
oh my gosh. when i read the HANDWRITTEN NOTE that he wrote that just made me so upset - he lied to you completely and pretended that he cared when he was talking to so many other girls. i can't believe people don't believe you, but we do. i'm SO sorry this happened to you & also that this isn't the first guy to do so - you deserve WORLDS better and i pray that you will find someone who loves you genuinely and deserves you.
i had to pause this video. you are genuine, you are pretty you’ll find someone one day who will make you feel loved and happy . jeffery did not deserve you . you don’t annoy us when you talk , it’s completely brings light to our days when you talk . i’m so sorry you went through this i understand how you feel . i love you emma
i said this on emma and ellie. and i’ll say it on this channel too. i genuinely don’t understand how parents can sit back and watch their child do this and not call them out on their bullshit. call your child out on their bullshit. as a parent, that is your JOB. to raise your children right.
Emma, I am so freaking proud of u! Im in a similar mindset where im so over everyone and am tired of staying silent so if u were in the wrong I will let u know. It feels so good lol. Im 20 and im so glad I NEVER got involved with guys in hs. The best advice I can give younger people is guys r freaking immature and do not deal with them in hs. I waited until 19 and it didn’t last long but he was mature ab it and told me straight up he has a lot going on and he didn’t want to drag me along. No dramatic break up just complete honesty. Im so glad he did cuz we r still in each others lives and when we do see each other its not awkward in any way
She didn’t have to explain anything but I appreciate her for doing so and trying to stay strong! She didn’t deserve what happened to her and he’ll get his karma from it we’re all here for you Emma 🥰
this was honestly so hard to hear. Everything you guys posted together was always so cute it just shows that relationships aren't as perfect as they seem. I'm so sorry you had to go through this Emma. I can't wait till you find the perfect boy someday. You're so strong and it's difficult to go through but he's not worth it.
it’s so crazy how much we don’t know what’s going on behind camera. i admit it’s easy to judge someone else’s life that you absolutely know nothing about and it takes a lot of courage to choose to address it even when you don’t have to. so so SO proud of you making this video emma and sticking up for yourself. it sucks that everyone always puts the blame on you when they don’t know the other side of the story. wishing you nothing but the best and that you come out of this situation stronger. 💗
sending you so much love and support girl. you know whats true and what happens in your life, not random people on the internet and old schoolmates, never forget that💗
Glad you're standing up for yourself! The people on his side has nothing on your over 1 million subscribers we will always have your back. You deserve way better don't forget your worth you are so strong you deserve way more than someone who treats you as less than you are, you deserve the world and to be treated like a queen and the only girl in the world for someone
@@raskolnikov6443 you're right we don't know them but we follow her and go through the good and bad and support her I've been subscribed to her channel for a long time so in a way I do know her and there's nothing wrong with supporting someone you following and help them through good and bad just like any friend would you don't need to personally know someone to be friends and support them Just saying
I’m so sorry you had to go through this, you’re so strong for being so raw about everything. Now is the time where you treat yourself right and work on yourself so others can see how you deserve to be treated
i’m sorry this happened but this is so badass of you & i love you. don’t ever let anyone walk over you, can’t believe how much you changed & grew. this will end up being so good for you, i promise. ❤️❤️❤️
You’re not being over dramatic at all!! And I don’t think you’re in the wrong going through his phone after everything that’s happened! I’m glad you put yourself first! I’ve been through this as well more than once and it is emotionally draining and exhausting
I’m just a little past halfway of the vid and nah girl yeah that’s cheating and you have every right to be upset and have the mindset you have about it, literally same thing happened to me smh but it all gets better and you’re so strong for taking that time for yourself In June I always have a problem with constantly putting other people above me. we’re all here for you tho Emma and I hope you have a Goodnight and you keep that strength and confidence it looks the best on you!!!
Oh, Emma, the hurt in your eyes tells the story on its own. I’ve never doubted you or your story for a minute. The people that do are not worth your time. He’s not worth your time. Your so strong to come out and tell ur story! Much love
girl i’m shaking and crying for you that is absolutely disgusting of him to do that to you and lie to you like that. I hope you are doing better now you deserve the world
I know this was probably one of the hardest things you’ve had to have gone through relationship wise and I’m extremely sorry.. this truly sucks. But I know you can find so much positivity in this experience. It teaches you what you love about love and what you hate about it. It shows you how strong of individual you are to not only bounce back, but use what you have learned and apply that to future relationships. Take time to heal for yourself sister.. you should never allow someone to drain your happiness and light you bring into the world. There are so many people out there that are way more worth your time and joyful personality!
girl you are so strong for posting this, you don’t need him at all!! he is definitely not worth your time. know your worth girl, you’ll find soo much better💗💗 we are here for you to bring you up and cheer you up you don’t need no man to manipulate, cheat, and lie to you!! We love you em keep your chin high!!💗💗💗
POP OFF SIS!!! literally was sitting here crying watching this bc i'm going through some guy crap too. you have so many supporters who love you. do not let people get under your skin with the negative comments. i know its hard not to listen bc trust me that is one of my biggest flaws (and also a girl flaw in general lol), but you are strong and will get through it!!
the part where she literally searched to see if he got in a car accident broke my heart.. she put her heart and soul into this boy.
@Elizabeth Dugger I’m happy you found someone who is worth your time & energy . You deserve to be happy❤️
I had this happen with my most recent ex and he turned it around on me and made me seem like the bad guy, he was out all night DRINKING with his friends and I didn’t hear from him until the next morning. of course I’m gonna worry about the worst case scenario 🤦🏻♀️ cheating crossed my mind too but my main concern was that something happened to him.
You don’t need him Emma
@@outroseok Guys will always have the audacity , so sorry love !
Me everytime my bf goes out
the clarity in her voice, no stuttering, and simply blank expression you can tell she’s hurting and being completely raw right now. I believe you, im with you, and i feel for you. so proud of you for standing up for yourself ❤️
That's why I love Emma she's always been 100 percent real and if its bothering her she will always address it before its taken to far or blown out of portion I know she's hurt and I feel for her
She’s not fake and she just knows how to express herself in a humble way
amen, so so proud of her. she deserves the world, and she'll get it one day.
hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
@@adivinity-425 hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
The fact that you're able to realize that he's the one in the wrong and not putting the blame on yourself is a sign of strength. Probably the hardest thing to do after the breakup or even right before.
you can tell she has a good support system because a lot of people lose themselves in relationships to the point where they have no one to talk to. and when something goes wrong people often times blame themselves even if it’s the other person’s fault
girl don't worry about who's on his side. you got 1.41 million of of rooting for you always!! so proud of you for standing up for yourself. stay strong emma!!!💕💕
wait what happen I jus saw this
@@sanlian7913 he cheated on her, so she broke up with him. Everyone thinks shes the problem but she isnt.
I love you so much what shoes do you like to wear dress shoes black flats
Amen forget who’s on his side he was wrong and we love you emme
@isha nah she's not the ones that are on his side are just scared cause she's speaking the truth
he may has a town on his side but you have 1 million of us on ur side emma we are standing by you we love you emma!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Fax 💕💕💕💕
Agreed 💯
agreed
@Iiz did u not watch the vid?
We’ve got your back emma
as someone who's been cheated on, without the physical aspect as well, it hurts. you're so strong, props to you for handling everything like a champ. you don't deserve this
Girl you're so strong ❤️ i hope you're doing amazing now
@@jagyaaseni i’m doing better. the girl and i are actually good friends now so that’s a bonus :)
I just found out I got cheated on, on thursday totally unexpected i don’t even know how to move on with my life right now
This video was so painful to watch. You can hear the pain in her voice as she explains everything that went wrong. No one should ever have to experience the emotional turmoil & manipulation that you have gone through Em. Nothing anyone says will cure the hurt you’re feeling, but we want you to know that you did nothing wrong!! You will get through this & end up being so much stronger, with new boundaries to look for in your next relationship.
What happened?
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your videos. I hope you are well🥺
@@Justwanna2958 he cheated on her and everyone took his side and blamed her about it
Oh girl your in the right. I would flip shit if my boyfriend went to a different state w another girl and her family. You are the sweetest most genuine person I’ve came across on here, and hearing the timeline make me think back to watching your videos and him in it, what you were going through and you still put on a happy face. Hope you can find peace and spend some time with your self and find your self again!
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Amennnnn
ESPECIALLY after seeing that letter she wrote to him, talking about at night you will get horn** I would flip shit there!
14:27 no one deserves to be looked at like that by their partner. emma u are an angel, thank you for speaking your truth, you deserve everything and more.
that made me tear up..
Fr he was literally looking at her with disgust as if she was the one who’s broke his trust time and time again🙄
I can't imagine how insecure and betrayed you felt during these moments. You did not overreact at all and you are so strong by handling all of this maturely and saying nothing but the truth.
hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
@@sfhhgrfvbhjuhh Amen🙏
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i am in shock emma. you don’t deserve that. that’s not fair for such a sweet and kind person like you. He is completely in the wrong, there is no excuse for what he did.
see this has made me gain so much respect for emma. the way she expresses herself in this video shows how much it hurt her but here she is still being able to articulate the situation and show her side.
Once a cheater, always a cheater! Thank goodness it was only 8 months. I was with a guy who cheated on me for 5 years. You deserve so much better and I am beyond proud you stood up for yourself. We love you Emma, be strong!!
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don’t ever let anyone gaslight you into thinking this isn’t cheating. that is absolutely ridiculous. i’m so sorry this happened to you but you need to know that you deserve someone SO much better.
I’m slightly older than you, and I had this exact situation right out of high school. Do not let anybody gaslight you that this is not cheating, it broke a boundary you had in a relationship which therefore is cheating. Nobody else’s opinion matters. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this.
I'm SO SO sorry
This happens to You.
Nobody deserves to be treated this way.
Hope everything is great with You
I don't usually comment like this.
God Bless 🙏🙏🙏
you are 100% right
Yes! Cheating for sure. My husband didnthis. He asked another girl on a dinner date after months of talking to her behind my back. He didn't end up going out to eat but the fact he talked to her for konths and then asked her out is cheating. I was home with our toddlers whole all this was happening. He would yell at me and telk.me he never cheated on me cuz it wasn't physical. He was full of crap.
I’m so proud of you for sticking up for yourself, you deserve the world, he’s been basically gaslighting you, pretty much your whole relationship & it makes me uncomfy because you are so sweet and you don’t deserve any of that.
Facts
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Exactly
I hope everyone in your home town is watching this and is embarrassed that your telling the truth and your showing proof! We love you Emma you have so many supporters !!!! I hope the people who belived in your ex bf feel life shit rn
PLEASE KNOW, you’re completely right
The fact that he immediately felt the need to say he never had feelings for her shows him covering up the fact that he did. My heart breaks for you 🤍 You are so strong and are onto bigger and better things E!
who is the guy she’s talking about lol, I’m lost
Omg wait when did he say say ?!!
All of that is cheating to me. There’s different types of cheating. Good for you for sticking up for yourself!! Everyone is proud of you and has your back. Just remember you are beautiful and deserve so much more.
@Tornadochaserchick33 I know that’s what I said
Yup if you have to hide it say the girl was nothing its cheating
The soo many lies, manipulation girl he’s gonna do that to every other girl he goes with. I’m so glad you got away from the toxicity of that boy, at least you can grow from this experience and heal though it will be hard but trust me loving yourself Is the best love you can ever have ! Makes u not settle for anything less than u deserve:) and u deserve a lot more 💕
u were doing charity emma tbh. u deserve so fucking better, don’t worry, everything and everyone its gonna be in the place they deserve
This is fantastic! She was doing charity! Haaaha!! Love it! And so true!
This is a good one
Doing charity 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are right
She does deserves better
She Will get the one for her
So this is not a Lost
Cause is obvious
This guy was for everyone else.
She deserves better than this trash
That’s 100% cheating. Anyone who doesn’t see how wrong he is has never been in a relationship with someone they truly loved.
Girl this is sick. You deserve so much better and one day you’ll find someone who is not toxic and someone that respects you and deserves you. It’ll get better I promise.
i’m genuinely so sorry emma. your such a sweet soul and deserve so much better. sending all love ❤️
I agree Emma has the sweetest soul and a heart of gold, That’s why we love her so much, She’s the sister I wished I could have had.
Sorry Emma
I will never understand this pattern especially in small towns where the man’s side is almost always taken. Any all excuses are made to cover their butts. You’re 100% in the right girl. What boyfriend goes on a trip with another WITHOUT telling his girlfriend? For people saying nothing went on, please. He’s a serial cheater.
Cereal 😭😭 I know you meant serial* but that just sent me lmfao
@@rebeccawilde8975 the fact that I didn't even notice 😭😭🥣
Exactly why would a guy want to go on a trip with a girl who isn’t his girlfriend!
Yup small towns always back up the [frat looking]boys. 💀always doing the girls/women dirty
@@lyndsaysrebornnurseryoffib4241 yea it’s fckn weird and he was probably entertaining her instead bc Emma would leave him on read for a few days smh
It honestly scares me sooo much that someone you love can lie straight to your face right through their teeth
He's just a lost cause
WOW. I never expected this from him. How disgusting. Stay strong emma you’re worth so much more than this
Stop believing any party in this case. You don’t know them.
@@raskolnikov6443 do you? there’s literally multiple sources of proof
@@raskolnikov6443 Regardless if we know them or not, Emma has screenshots to back up every single one of her points. Mr Jeffery is in another state hiding with his side piece. Be fr🤣
Jeffrey must be really scared right now that's if he even saw the video cause he's to busy with his side atm
I've literally never heard Emma cuss before. Just goes to show how much this is affecting her and how real she's being with us.
i completely understand how it affects her and how hurt she feels and stuff but on the level of swearing she’s an adult and she isn’t the same person we once watched like age 11. i’m not trying to hate on you in any way just that she changed and she can swear or whatever
@@nessareadav Yeah I know she's grown and I figured she probably cusses when she's not on camera. I just noticed how now she's not hiding it and that shows me how real she's being with us.
@@savannahromero6771 exactly! like she really said i’ve hid enough and now it’s time for people to actually see my side
She literally even said before that she didn’t cuss because she didn’t find it necessary, must make that video even more true
I LOVE HER GROWTH! EMMA IS MATURE NOW! LOL
this broke my heart… and just seeing how genuinely happy she was not knowing that he was with the one girl from the get go of the relationship just goes to show how much she truly loved him. you’re way too good for him Emma!!! his loss 💕
Emma, we as your subscribers didn’t expect you to make a “the truth/ your side of the story” video, but I guess this is a good video given the video being published.
Emma, you are absolutely amazing and beautiful and you didn’t deserve to have this happen to you, you show us as subscribers, your beautiful and given personality.
You’re beautiful within and out Emma. I hope you’re taking this time to heal and learn yourself all over again. I hope you be kind to yourself and focus on your true happiness and feelings.
Friends help a lot too, they help to get your mind off of the hurt you went through since it happened.
I know how you feel seeing as I got broken up with 7 going on 8 months ago, and really it does hurt but truly all I can say, Emma, you deserve the world.
she was making it for his friends and ppl they went to school with. she knows her followers dont need this.
first of all, if someone uses snapchat as a form of communication. HELL NO
I use Snapchat including my moms friends but I literally have no drama on there at all it’s peaceful actually which is strange. Like a lot of people I know have a lot of drama on Snapchat and Instagram but I literally have no drama on either platform which is good cause I hate drama and toxic people cause I choose people very carefully.
My advice to you, as someone older and who’s been through this more than once: Stop giving him any of your energy. He’s not worth worrying about, talking about, defending yourself over. The people who matter will know you well enough to know the truth of the situation. As for the others, they aren’t anyone. Literal strangers or people you shouldn’t want in your life anyway. Sounds like this guy is a real piece of work- and like he’s enjoying the attention and power he feels in the situation. Don’t give him the satisfaction of even acknowledging him. Move on with your life. Focus on yourself and finding your happiness as a single individual. That will bother him more profoundly than he’ll ever admit. Best of luck to you.
Unfortunately most people always take the man’s side and find any way to blame the woman for any situation. Regardless of your town being against you, you have all of us. I’ve been a supporter since 2015 and I’m so proud of the woman you have become, so beautiful and strong. Hang in there
Yes omg when my bf and I had a big disagreement my friends since year 7 (basically family) were making sure he was ok when I needed them. Most always take the man’s side :(
Been watching her for so long hope she’ll feel better soon
Not true
@@Unknown2345girl out of personal experience it’s very true, according to almost 400 other people it’s true too :)
@@peoplethesedaysberetarded How is she to blame ?? the person that cheats is in the wrong, and it’s very true, whenever a man cheat people always take the man side and tell the women how it’s her fault and everything, but whenever a women cheats, women get called all types of name and everything and they tell the man to leave her and every thing,( as they should because cheating isn’t love), but it should go both ways, the same way how people bash women for cheating they need to bash mean for cheating as well, and it shouldn’t matter what gender you are cheating is wrong.
everyone takes the guys side 🥹
I AM SO PROUD THAT YOU FINALLY SAID UR SIDE OF STORY! YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE, AND PEOPLE KEEP WALKING OVER YOU
Thank you for being so raw and honest. I'm sorry your having to go through this
The people in your hometown, high school… that keep defending him are just jealous of you! They envy most things about you because they can’t have it or be YOU! So any little things that goes wrong they will always have something to say. So I’d just advice to not let them bring you down. I know it can be annoying and bothersome but never let them be the cause to hurt you where you believe them. YOU are special and all ur social media fans will support you 💯!
Facts
THISS!!!!!
Yep! ^^^ You deserve so much better than him.
facts
So true. I’ve heard multiple stories of influencers and celebrities having to leave their home town or do homeschooling due to the bullying and harassment they get from their peers. :/
I'm so sorry Emma, no girl should ever go through this. We are all here for you.
The same thing happened to me when I was 18! All I can say is run as fast as you can and never look back to him! He will never stop doing this shit. Someone else will come along, and won’t treat you like this. You got this! Stay strong!
i’m really sorry emma. you’re so strong and better off without him. this story is so familiar to me and the gaslighting is unreal. take time for yourself and spending time with your family and friends ❤️ your fans love you
hi just a reminder i pray your having a blessed day! Jesus loves and is with you all and God has a wonderful plan for you all! Don’t fear for the Lord is with you all! Joshua 1:9!❤️
In my opinion it's a good thing you posted this because your saving future girls from all his lies,manipulation,secrets, and a heart break. He knows he's in the wrong hence why not one word has came out of his mouth. you did the right thing and you deserve way more than what was given to you the last 8/9 months.
I just got out of a relationship in a very similar situation as yours. I felt completely disrespected during the end of the relationship it took a big mental toll on me. Now that I'm out of it and ended it I feel like I can be myself and focus on myself. You did the right thing! Believe me none of this was your fault.
I literally felt like I could relate to a lot of what Emma went through
completely cheating no matter what. And I can’t believe a guy would ever cheat on you, you are the complete package. Gorgeous, amazing personality, beautiful smile, perfect body, hair, and everything. You truly deserve the world
You could be the prettiest girl ever and a guy would stilll cheat on you. It has nothing to do with looks.
@@maddiechimienti4402 Exactly! Emma is sweet, honest, caring and trusting. But apparently Jeffery wanted a loose girl with no morals. He didn't deserve someone like Emma.
@@BB-gl8em I think it was more than his looks. Lets face it Emma could get any guy she wants. I think he made himself seem like someone he actually wasn't. I think this experience has taught her a lot about about what to look out for. Like she said she is done with being treated badly.
Yassss praying for you emma!!!! Jesus loves YOU!!! Cast your burdens on HIM, HE CARES❤️❤️
@@joycereece5420 he could have cheated on her w a very nice girl & lied to the other girl … just cause Jeffrey acted like a jerk doesn’t mean the other girl is a villain!
I'm 25, and let me tell you how calm you are being. It's amazing! You absolutely did not deserve any of this. And for the people who think that you are "blasting " him online, you're not. His choice was to do this to you, and he knew he was on videos on this public platform. You are allowed to tell your side, and you are telling it with all honesty. We are so proud of you Emma. Standing up for yourself and how you are and how you deserve to be treated. 👏
is it the bf she posted 2 weeks ago?
@@madiacosta7994 I’m not sure, but I know there are videos with him still up on her channel.
I'm so sorry you were treated like this. Take this time to focus on yourself and your career!
the way you stayed calm throughout this and said exactly what you needed to say- so proud of you
on another note, i feel like coaching and getting back into cheer and having ellie, elisabeth and your family around is really gonna help. i see a whole new chapter starting for you! we all love and support you no matter what!
she’s getting back into cheer??
@@taytengraef2479 yes! shes coaching and taking tumbling classes. she mentioned it in her update video
No one should ever have to go through what you were put through. You are strong for putting out your story.💕
I’m so sorry Emma. You deserve the best and shouldn’t be treated like this. We love you stay strong❤️
Wait what happened im lost🥲
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i’m so sorry em… you truly don’t deserve this, just know that your fans, friends, & family loves you so much and will continue to support every step of your way! ❤️
Yes that is so true. Love you like a sister💗
i feel sick for you, I'm so sorry you went through this :( it was absolutely cheating regardless of what anyone says because you set boundaries and he didn't respect them, several times! i hope you're doing okay now and can heal from what he put you through
go you for sticking up for yourself, this is definitely cheating. you aren't in the wrong. love you!!!
it breaks my heart to see you like this emma. im so sorry this happened. just because you know you deserve BETTER doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. we are all here for you baby
Do not question your gut. Even if some people don't think that is "cheating" (which it is), that still DOES NOT make it OK! Lying and hiding things and being distant are grounds to break up with someone.
He consented to being on your videos you have every right to explain what happened just like you had the right to keep it to yourself if you wanted too. People need to stop trying to defend that shitty behaviour. Cheating starts with hiding things. As a 21 year old who’s been dating since she’s was 13 I’ve learned a lot.
You classify it as cheating if that’s how you felt about it.
This ^
Exactly. He knew what he was doing. No one should feel bad for him EVER!
Girl that fuglying things cheated on her multiple times idk what he’s trying to lie abt.
@@akshijay1775 fr bestie
@@akshijay1775 and the fact that he’s done this to multiple girls? Disgusting. Grow up or disappear man child 🫡
you have every right to be mad and feel betrayed by him. even if he didn't physically cheat (which honestly i doubt that he hadn't) going on a trip with a girl without letting you know is wrong on so many levels. you deserve so much better. don't listen to people of your school or your town if they stay on his side. what really matters is that you (and your loved ones) know how things actually happened. 💕
This video has been getting recommended to me pretty much daily. I didn’t have any context so I was not going to watch it, but you know, I was just bored. I’m glad I decided to watch it. There’s always comfort in not being alone. 🧡
girl your gorgeous and you don’t deserve this! im proud of you for knowing your worth
im so sorry emma.. you deserve so much better than that. i’m glad you shared your side of the story and didn’t allow yourself to be manipulated and put through any more pain than he already caused you. you are so strong and i pray for you to over come this in the best way possible, and to find the right person some day who will treat you with the respect you deserve 🤍
Who in their right mind would cheat on Emma?! Absolutely disgusting. It is 100% cheating and the fact that you gave him so much love through it all shows how compassionate you are. I’m so glad that you finally chose yourself. You will find someone who treats you amazingly because you are so beyond worthy of love. Take care Emma❤️
i am so proud of you girl. you speak your truth and you say it loud. you deserve the world and he can get pushed in a bush. not okay what so ever. don’t think one thought about who might believe you and who won’t. the people you are close to will have your back no matter what. you have so many people (fans), more like family on your side. by the end of this you will be so happy you said your side and he will have no one left. good for you emma
at least you have shared these to save other girls to go through it w him , ur such a sweet soul and handled it WAY better than i could’ve , stay strong em!
The fact that Emma even had to explain herself is Heartbreaking
the people defending him don’t see the behind the scenes. they don’t see what it’s like to be in a relationship with him. they should have no say if they’ve never experienced it for themselves
Her town is also full of terrible boys who get away with lots of stuff. Venice High had soooo many SA and bullying cases they just cover it all up
@@theresabeenhere5059 that’s so disgusting.
your gold my girl, don’t expect you out of anyone else, it’s gonna break you when you see they won’t give you the same in return! im proud of you! people may think it’s stupid but it takes a strong individual to leave someone they have so much love for!
Don’t even trip about him girl, focus on yourself and your goals. That’s the most important thing you can do and you have your family by your side as well. This will all take time but I’m positive enough you will get through this 🤍
emma, im very sorry you have to go through this, you are such a kind and heart warming person. i don’t know you personally but i can tell. you deserve nothing but love & happiness. what he did was genuinely terrible. sending lots of love
We are on your side Emma! You have millions of supporters and we are all here for you ❤️
Oh my heck, the same exact thing that you are describing within the first minute of the video is what I am going through. It’s so tough. I’m so happy for you. I’m trying to get comfortable with sharing my side and story with people as well.
The first girl he was with is a real one for helping you out and giving you details about the other girl he ran away with
I clicked immediately, I'm really happy you're talking about this and being the bigger person, you got this bae 💕💕
agreed
agreed
Yeah you do
oh my gosh. when i read the HANDWRITTEN NOTE that he wrote that just made me so upset - he lied to you completely and pretended that he cared when he was talking to so many other girls. i can't believe people don't believe you, but we do. i'm SO sorry this happened to you & also that this isn't the first guy to do so - you deserve WORLDS better and i pray that you will find someone who loves you genuinely and deserves you.
i had to pause this video. you are genuine, you are pretty you’ll find someone one day who will make you feel loved and happy . jeffery did not deserve you . you don’t annoy us when you talk , it’s completely brings light to our days when you talk . i’m so sorry you went through this i understand how you feel . i love you emma
very true sis
i said this on emma and ellie. and i’ll say it on this channel too. i genuinely don’t understand how parents can sit back and watch their child do this and not call them out on their bullshit. call your child out on their bullshit. as a parent, that is your JOB. to raise your children right.
right! 🤷♀️
THANK YOU for saying this. I see way too often parents who have their kids side in every situation EVEN if they are wrong, and it blows my mind.
THIS
@@adivinity-425 it drives me CRAZY. call your child out when they’re wrong. that’s not raising a child right. they learn from mistakes
Wow I am so so sorry. That is genuinely THE WORST pain next to loosing someone to death. Like no one understands that pain until you go through it wow
Emma, I am so freaking proud of u! Im in a similar mindset where im so over everyone and am tired of staying silent so if u were in the wrong I will let u know. It feels so good lol. Im 20 and im so glad I NEVER got involved with guys in hs. The best advice I can give younger people is guys r freaking immature and do not deal with them in hs. I waited until 19 and it didn’t last long but he was mature ab it and told me straight up he has a lot going on and he didn’t want to drag me along. No dramatic break up just complete honesty. Im so glad he did cuz we r still in each others lives and when we do see each other its not awkward in any way
Same here
She didn’t have to explain anything but I appreciate her for doing so and trying to stay strong! She didn’t deserve what happened to her and he’ll get his karma from it we’re all here for you Emma 🥰
I’m sorry girl. You’re beautiful inside and out and he doesn’t deserve you. You’ll find someone a whole hell of a lot better! Stay awesome
the way she got treated and how mature she is acting is amazing so proud i love you emma 💕
this was honestly so hard to hear. Everything you guys posted together was always so cute it just shows that relationships aren't as perfect as they seem. I'm so sorry you had to go through this Emma. I can't wait till you find the perfect boy someday. You're so strong and it's difficult to go through but he's not worth it.
Even when people say these things are not a big deal its still more than enough to not want to spend the rest of your life with.
this is disgusting. what he did to you was so messed up i’m so sorry em you deserve sm better we love you we are here for you
it’s so crazy how much we don’t know what’s going on behind camera. i admit it’s easy to judge someone else’s life that you absolutely know nothing about and it takes a lot of courage to choose to address it even when you don’t have to. so so SO proud of you making this video emma and sticking up for yourself. it sucks that everyone always puts the blame on you when they don’t know the other side of the story. wishing you nothing but the best and that you come out of this situation stronger. 💗
sending you so much love and support girl. you know whats true and what happens in your life, not random people on the internet and old schoolmates, never forget that💗
One day you will find a guy that will love you as much as you love them. So sad that he treated you like that. He did not deserve you
Glad you're standing up for yourself! The people on his side has nothing on your over 1 million subscribers we will always have your back. You deserve way better don't forget your worth you are so strong you deserve way more than someone who treats you as less than you are, you deserve the world and to be treated like a queen and the only girl in the world for someone
You people are nuts. Stop taking a side. You don’t know these people.
@@raskolnikov6443 you're right we don't know them but we follow her and go through the good and bad and support her I've been subscribed to her channel for a long time so in a way I do know her and there's nothing wrong with supporting someone you following and help them through good and bad just like any friend would you don't need to personally know someone to be friends and support them Just saying
I’m so sorry you had to go through this, you’re so strong for being so raw about everything. Now is the time where you treat yourself right and work on yourself so others can see how you deserve to be treated
proud that you are strong enough to talk about the truth, and your side of the story. you're not alone love you and stay strong emma💞
i’m so sorry this happened. i’m proud of you for listening to your gut & standing up for yourself. sending love
I don’t know how anyone could be on his side wtf! This is most definitely cheating. We are all here for you and love you ❤️
They’re just kiss a**es cause even a mother would see the wrong in his actions
someone please protect this girl from any more heartbreak, she deserves so much more than this 🥺
i’m sorry this happened but this is so badass of you & i love you. don’t ever let anyone walk over you, can’t believe how much you changed & grew. this will end up being so good for you, i promise. ❤️❤️❤️
You’re not being over dramatic at all!! And I don’t think you’re in the wrong going through his phone after everything that’s happened! I’m glad you put yourself first! I’ve been through this as well more than once and it is emotionally draining and exhausting
In my opinion he cheated
I’m just a little past halfway of the vid and nah girl yeah that’s cheating and you have every right to be upset and have the mindset you have about it, literally same thing happened to me smh but it all gets better and you’re so strong for taking that time for yourself In June I always have a problem with constantly putting other people above me. we’re all here for you tho Emma and I hope you have a Goodnight and you keep that strength and confidence it looks the best on you!!!
Oh, Emma, the hurt in your eyes tells the story on its own. I’ve never doubted you or your story for a minute. The people that do are not worth your time. He’s not worth your time. Your so strong to come out and tell ur story! Much love
girl i’m shaking and crying for you that is absolutely disgusting of him to do that to you and lie to you like that. I hope you are doing better now you deserve the world
I know this was probably one of the hardest things you’ve had to have gone through relationship wise and I’m extremely sorry.. this truly sucks. But I know you can find so much positivity in this experience. It teaches you what you love about love and what you hate about it. It shows you how strong of individual you are to not only bounce back, but use what you have learned and apply that to future relationships. Take time to heal for yourself sister.. you should never allow someone to drain your happiness and light you bring into the world. There are so many people out there that are way more worth your time and joyful personality!
girl you are so strong for posting this, you don’t need him at all!! he is definitely not worth your time. know your worth girl, you’ll find soo much better💗💗 we are here for you to bring you up and cheer you up you don’t need no man to manipulate, cheat, and lie to you!! We love you em keep your chin high!!💗💗💗
only breakup video I’ve sat through the whole video without skipping & you can tell she’s hurts, who wouldn’t be ? here to support you💕💕
It was a facade it wasn’t real, like she said don’t ask me to hang around with your bf if you’re dating or talking and then act surprised
It’s your responsibility
POP OFF SIS!!! literally was sitting here crying watching this bc i'm going through some guy crap too. you have so many supporters who love you. do not let people get under your skin with the negative comments. i know its hard not to listen bc trust me that is one of my biggest flaws (and also a girl flaw in general lol), but you are strong and will get through it!!