Taking A Break From Trying | Cole and Charisma

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  • @coleandcharisma
    @coleandcharisma  3 роки тому +1023

    Thanks for watching everyone! We appreciate all of your support! ❤

    • @lovepassion5913
      @lovepassion5913 3 роки тому +7

      @Rollwithcole&charisma thanks for the heart reaction for my comment.. I hv been waiting for that.. very happy.. my jaws r hurting 😁😁. ❤✌n stay positive

    • @deannawalsh6215
      @deannawalsh6215 3 роки тому +10

      Thanks for sharing and always being so open with your lives :) And Charisma, you take those alone bath times lady! :D

    • @consuelacovington8169
      @consuelacovington8169 3 роки тому +6

      Don't worry Charisma, your fans know how dedicated you are to Cole! This was a great educational experience.

    • @IAI369
      @IAI369 3 роки тому +5

      Try watching the 'Lauren and Ari' video about what they did to have twins. They had a lot of good advice. Good Luck. You'll be great parents when the time comes!!

    • @rbroxton3068
      @rbroxton3068 3 роки тому +6

      Just enjoy trying because the less schedule almost it will happen....and even with upcoming appointment and whatever way you both go down your make fantastic parents when the time comes. Xx

  • @deebo5475
    @deebo5475 3 роки тому +2530

    Can we just take a moment to commend and acknowledge Charisma for all that she does...a strong Queen indeed💖

  • @PorshaLaVieBelle
    @PorshaLaVieBelle 3 роки тому +422

    He’s so handsome and she’s so beautiful. Beautiful couple

  • @stelas9307
    @stelas9307 3 роки тому +262

    This girl is a champion. So positive and light, even though she is working so hard.

    • @Usapatriette
      @Usapatriette 3 роки тому +13

      Charisma is a bundle of joy and light! Cole too!! I can't get enough of these two; they make my day.

  • @daphnet7078
    @daphnet7078 3 роки тому +435

    Okay so this might be one of the weird comments you guys get, but watching your relationship has made me feel better about my break up. I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 5 years, and just seeing how nice you are to each other and how well you work to communicate and be mutually caring, it gives me hope and understanding that I wasn't in the right kind of relationship, and that it's going to be fine. Thanks guys.

    • @ramatoulietouray2729
      @ramatoulietouray2729 3 роки тому +9

      That’s tough, hope you’re good❤️

    • @mercedesQ
      @mercedesQ 3 роки тому +6

      You will have an amazing rest of your life. Hold on to hope and trust that the best is yet to come for you 💜

    • @wunmikeji
      @wunmikeji 3 роки тому +6

      May the Lord be with you. Stay positive. Your own person will find you

    • @oratuwe8114
      @oratuwe8114 3 роки тому +8

      Stay in God's love. Break ups aren't easy but you deserve the right love for you❤️❤️

    • @julietchristman1389
      @julietchristman1389 3 роки тому

      @@oratuwe8114 there not breaking up. They are taking a break from getting pregnant.watch the video

  • @stewart0721
    @stewart0721 3 роки тому +252

    Hey guys! We are the Chavanas. We are an interracial and inter-abled couple as well. My husband has a c5-c6 incomplete SI. I love watching your videos because it reminds me of us when we were younger. We were going through the process to grow our family 3 years ago. If you ever need a community of people who are going through similar situations we are out here. Good luck to you all!!

  • @lesliecrawford5517
    @lesliecrawford5517 3 роки тому +173

    As a spinal cord nurse for 4yrs, I think yall are doing a fabulous job!!! keep up the positive vibes!

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 роки тому +1

      Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️😀😀

    • @chaoswilliams9037
      @chaoswilliams9037 Рік тому

      They do a great job as a couple and educating viewers as well.

  • @priscillaarredondo9680
    @priscillaarredondo9680 3 роки тому +111

    After 3 losses my husband and I stopped trying and just decided to enjoy the holidays. I was having a blast not worrying and just enjoying some holiday drinks this past December. Come January 5th, I found out We’re pregnant. I walked in egg eggshells until the 2nd trimester due to my losses but thank God here we are at 22 weeks. And every day with this little girls in my tummy is a blessing 💕
    I would say don’t stress and don’t listen to negativity. God has a way of finding the right time for everyone.

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 роки тому +3

      Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️

    • @tayperine8473
      @tayperine8473 3 роки тому +3

      I hope your baby is so healthy and growing like a wild flower

    • @priscillaarredondo9680
      @priscillaarredondo9680 3 роки тому +8

      @@tayperine8473 hello! I’m 31 weeks I’ll be 32 on Sunday. I’m so happy I get to feel my baby girl move and kick and although I get a good 3 hours of solid sleep at night I’m just so grateful I get to carry my baby 💝

    • @tayperine8473
      @tayperine8473 3 роки тому +1

      @@priscillaarredondo9680 I'm so happy for you mama! And so glad your baby girl is doing well. I'm praying for your safe delivery. I had a few losses too before my son was born. I share the pain and the joy, it makes us cherish every moment with our baby. Rainbow babies are special. And Rainbow mamas are warriors ❤ lol sad to say you'll never sleep again but its alllll worth it 🤣

    • @io1681
      @io1681 2 роки тому

      ❤️👍🤗💐👋🇮🇹

  • @Frecks
    @Frecks 3 роки тому +635

    "People think they know everything" lol that's unfortunately the problem with society

    • @sheilan6959
      @sheilan6959 3 роки тому +9

      That struck me. So true.

    • @gabrielavilla7308
      @gabrielavilla7308 3 роки тому

      Theres always at least one person who tries to find something negative to be edgy

    • @Mike_Jones281
      @Mike_Jones281 3 роки тому +1

      Unfortunately, society often teaches us to pretend to know things we don't know, or can not possibly know.

    • @gabrielavilla7308
      @gabrielavilla7308 3 роки тому

      @@Mike_Jones281 that's true but for this kind of thing I think it just makes people feel safer to jump to conclusions because they don't like the feeling of uncertainty. makes them feel a loss of power so to regain it they jump to a conclusion

    • @micheiiefire4778
      @micheiiefire4778 3 роки тому

      Micheiie LisBy 😇🦉🐬

  • @connievandenbroek7369
    @connievandenbroek7369 3 роки тому +882

    Trying for a baby can be so stressful. My husband and I went through that, I said lets stop. Two months late I was pregnant, that guy is now 18 and heading to University. Don't Worry

    • @lawreenmkado8307
      @lawreenmkado8307 3 роки тому +15

      I had the same experience when we stopped moved on....then buummmmm pregnant. I am now 6months ofter trying for 3 years.

    • @dianne-maeburgess2650
      @dianne-maeburgess2650 3 роки тому +7

      Same with me too! I was ready to tie tunes..and at the appointment only did test and he will be 19 this year! It will happen when you least expect it..stress and worry can inhibit results...enjoy each other..you two are a gem!!

    • @jackiecolbert3915
      @jackiecolbert3915 3 роки тому +2

      Congrats

    • @mon6745
      @mon6745 3 роки тому +2

      Omg.. do sweet

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 3 роки тому

      That was us. Except we 7 months when we found out. Lol

  • @natashaletourneau5368
    @natashaletourneau5368 3 роки тому +154

    Holding my 5 month old son makes me so proud that I waited 13 years for him!!!
    IT WILL HAPPEN 💙💙💙

    • @arianedavis4309
      @arianedavis4309 2 роки тому +3

      Congratulations! 13 years waiting for my son, as well!! God comes thru!

    • @natashaletourneau5368
      @natashaletourneau5368 2 роки тому +4

      @@arianedavis4309 awww!!!
      That’s so awesome & yes GODS TIMING!!!!
      My boy is 16 months old now 😭

  • @andrealucia4916
    @andrealucia4916 3 роки тому +76

    Charisma is just one of the sweetes women in this world. Her heart is just too big

  • @celicamiller8643
    @celicamiller8643 3 роки тому +156

    Charisma body = goals 😍

  • @mimilaure5774
    @mimilaure5774 3 роки тому +743

    Charisma, trying to conceive can be mentally and physically exhausting. I have been through that path. In fact, I have been trying since 2010 to be pregnant without any luck. From Oct 2015 to Nov 2016, I went thru two rounds of IVF, got pregnant but lost my babies (embryos). When I lost my baby or embryo for the second time, I was mentally and physically exhausted. I decided that being a mother wasn't for me until God decided otherwise. In July 2017, I realized that I was pregnant. I became pregnant naturally and now, my little man is turning 3 tomorrow. This to say that, I sincerely hope that the IUI works for you both as the steps for the IVF are hard due the hormonal changes that you will go thru. I'm hoping that the IUI works or that you naturally get blessed with a little baby. Blessings and wishing you both the best.

    • @tinafox1229
      @tinafox1229 3 роки тому +30

      Charisma, I agree with@Mimi. I, too, went through failed IVF. Not trying to discourage you, at all, trying to encourage you to take your time. You are newlyweds, enjoy each other first then let the babies come. My son is 7 yrs old now and a joy. They will come at the right time.

    • @ugandansdeservebetter7550
      @ugandansdeservebetter7550 3 роки тому +9

      Hallelujah 🙏❤️❤️❤️

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 3 роки тому +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kijuanageer3036
      @kijuanageer3036 3 роки тому +8

      I feel if u stop trying and stop thinking bout it u get pregnant I had three miscarriage n was like I guess being a mother is not for me then boom a baby now I’m a mother of 5 thank you god

    • @mslonie2844
      @mslonie2844 3 роки тому

      God Bless and Happy 3rd Birthday little one 💖

  • @FrancyDesir
    @FrancyDesir 3 роки тому +211

    My wife just got pregnant we started trying on june 2019 I'm so happy about it🤩

  • @BeeChance
    @BeeChance 3 роки тому +299

    To the people who are always passing judgment, criticizing, and being negative, keep your mouth close and put yourself in Charisma's shoes. I just can't stand people sometimes.

    • @lavallarogers7685
      @lavallarogers7685 3 роки тому +3

      Yes I agree keep your uneducated rud comments to yourself shame on you

    • @jujuandwamwams165
      @jujuandwamwams165 3 роки тому

      💯💯💯

    • @lovingmayberry2000
      @lovingmayberry2000 2 роки тому +2

      Am I missing something, or are they just delating certain comments, cause I haven't seen a single negative comment! Love you C and C! 💙

    • @savannahtucker7936
      @savannahtucker7936 2 роки тому +3

      @@lovingmayberry2000 theyre talking about the people on TikTok that kept telling Charisma to put him in the bath tub and lift him (which obviously didnt work). They mean that those people should relax because they dont know the situation

    • @jay248thekingcrepper3
      @jay248thekingcrepper3 Рік тому

      Foh real

  • @clboymom9467
    @clboymom9467 3 роки тому +183

    Not a fail. Just a learning experience for everybody. I can’t believe anyone would come at Charisma for that. Super rude and unfair.

    • @janazezulova2669
      @janazezulova2669 3 роки тому +2

      I agree, this is not a fail. And you don´t have to prove to anybody neither, so look at this challenge as an exercise check for yourself only. Still I appreciate you did this bath tub part to teach us all something. Thank you. Lots of love from me and my baby Fíbo (york) - he says hi to Sophie :-)

  • @beckagrace7499
    @beckagrace7499 3 роки тому +420

    Off topic but charisma outfit is awesome!!

    • @shawnschillerstrom337
      @shawnschillerstrom337 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed!!

    • @JRockkk1
      @JRockkk1 3 роки тому +4

      100%😍🔥

    • @Hricks008
      @Hricks008 3 роки тому +13

      And, SHE wears it well!👗

    • @marqueshamoore2135
      @marqueshamoore2135 3 роки тому +2

      🥰🥰🥰

    • @zg8878
      @zg8878 3 роки тому +5

      I was thinking the same thing. And she is so fit. People don’t realize how much she does for Cole. You can tell she loves him a lot.

  • @brenlandrum7321
    @brenlandrum7321 3 роки тому +112

    Don't have to prove anything to anyone.Dont get caught up in social media and what they think .I took care my mother and work in the healthcare industry.Bless You Charisma for really loving him and taking care of him. Old Fan!

  • @kristaparks191
    @kristaparks191 3 роки тому +23

    I love how respectful you guys are of each other when the other is talking, taking turns and not interrupting ♥️

  • @PattyCakeCrafts
    @PattyCakeCrafts 3 роки тому +141

    I know that praying is a great way to guide you guys, give yourself time. I have faith that everything will work out for you guys.

  • @karendeakin9628
    @karendeakin9628 3 роки тому +69

    I retired from nursing here in uk 12 years ago amazed to see the old hoist is the same nice to see charisma having same nightmare I used to have!! Swinging patients !

    • @siouxgirl2703
      @siouxgirl2703 3 роки тому +4

      I used a hoyer many years. I was getting a little nervous there with him sideways. I always turned it so the person's legs were straddling the vertical bar. It can get a little tipsy when moving with the hoyers legs closed. 😉 wish yous the best 💜

  • @StaceMase06
    @StaceMase06 3 роки тому +16

    I just want you to know, after trying for 5 years, a miscarriage, then failed IUI, 2 failed IVF we finally stopped trying and I gave up and enjoyed life we then got pregnant naturally 2 months later!!!!! She is now 14 months and a blessing!!!

  • @Its_just_Dave.
    @Its_just_Dave. 3 роки тому +43

    My wife and I tried for 7 years. Then finally we had our first son born June 17, 2020. He’s almost a year old now. Don’t give up trying just because it’s not happening as fast as you want it to.

  • @karengilman8903
    @karengilman8903 3 роки тому +176

    My daughter is due in June from IUI, after trying for a year, fingers crossed for you sweet folks

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 роки тому +14

      Congrats!! ❤️❤️

    • @CROSSTATT
      @CROSSTATT 3 роки тому +3

      Way to go!

    • @beverlylatimore3923
      @beverlylatimore3923 3 роки тому +1

      Alrighty now!!

    • @jesuslovesme7440
      @jesuslovesme7440 3 роки тому +1

      What is IUI?

    • @dorothywest6963
      @dorothywest6963 3 роки тому +2

      I think this topic should be kept private. when she concieve she can surprise us with the announcement , there will be 4 of us. Don't tell us how you all been trying. Only God knows when this actually will happen, fully rely on his timing.

  • @robinnicole4649
    @robinnicole4649 3 роки тому +170

    Whenever y’all start trying again, Don’t fix your mind on getting pregnant so much, just focus on enjoying each other and don’t think about it. I swear when you least expect, it will happen. My daughter turned 3 in Jan. 😂😂😂😂😂 I understand. After 6 months of trying I was soo burned out, and I just let it go and then bam, I got preggers. Y’all are gonna be awesome parents when the time comes. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @thepursuitofhappiness2126
      @thepursuitofhappiness2126 3 роки тому +6

      Sadly, it doesn't always happen for many women. I do hope it happens for them

    • @sarahamos8783
      @sarahamos8783 3 роки тому +6

      7 years ttc here. Relaxing and not thinking about it doesn’t always work for everyone. The average time I’m for a normal couple to get pregnant is 6-12 months x

    • @girlfromsouth214
      @girlfromsouth214 3 роки тому +5

      I battled infertility for over a decade before having my second. Respectfully, telling people who are trying to conceive not to think about it, can be offensive. It's similar to telling people with any other issue, "Meh, don't worry about it." I know this wasn't your intention, but I think it's important for people who are unaware to know how some people facing infertility may feel. The truth is, whether they relax or not has no impact on whether a couple conceives. That's why even some people who are assaulted, who are under immense stress, might get pregnant.

    • @rosanagutierrez1640
      @rosanagutierrez1640 3 роки тому +2

      @@girlfromsouth214 I believe they just meant not to stress about it as some things happen when you least expect it.

  • @LailahLynnTV
    @LailahLynnTV 3 роки тому +298

    💖💖💖 y’all are so Blessed 💞💞💞

  • @plaidpaisley5918
    @plaidpaisley5918 3 роки тому +8

    These two are two beautiful people. Inside & out.

  • @lorrainekleingunther5632
    @lorrainekleingunther5632 3 роки тому +72

    The words are easy to say, stop trying but it is difficult. However I have to agree with others, just keep it between the two of you and it will happen sooner than you know, especially when you're trying so hard. Six months is a lot of trying. All your followers are so focused on you guys and watch your every move so just take it away and try to stop sharing with everything you do, and do only what suits the two of you. Go away for a weekend or week to a relaxing place and just take it as it comes. There are times that you just need that ME-TIME and shut off the cameras besides, the two of you keep everyone entertained all the time. So much pressure on you guys. Two wonderful individuals. God bless you both!

  • @SuZQ4361
    @SuZQ4361 3 роки тому +145

    Do what is best for you guys.

  • @wjbii872
    @wjbii872 3 роки тому +27

    I love how Charisma looks at Cole with total love in her eyes and vice versa! You guys rock!

  • @florias7807
    @florias7807 3 роки тому +16

    Charisma, love that you kept your desire to get dressed up even if you're just in the house. You look GREAT!

  • @kaitlyn6485
    @kaitlyn6485 3 роки тому +33

    The best piece of advice I ever heard was from my mom. I heard her tell all of my aunt's and uncles, so I took it when I was trying for my baby. She always says to stop trying. Don't track, don't worry about temps or anything, don't pee on a stick until you're late. Because like you said, it gets to be very stressful and doing the baby dance becomes too much of a chore, rather than something fun you do as a couple. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. The only thing I did was made sure I paid attention to my ovulation dates by looking at my period tracker on my phone. Good luck you guys, it'll happen.

    • @wwashington270
      @wwashington270 3 роки тому

      Kaitlyn you have a wise mother, mom's the good ones are great

  • @lornabarker1983
    @lornabarker1983 3 роки тому +252

    Take it from the old school don t stress out about all the temperatures and watching this and that. Go back to the old ways and just have fun and enjoy being together. It will happen when you don't stress out. Have fun guys

    • @angko-pe
      @angko-pe 3 роки тому +26

      I wish that was true for everyone. I would not have my 2 beautiful girls had it not been for science as both me and my husband have fertility issues.
      If I had a dollar for every time someone said to just relax and have fun, don't stress it, I'd be a childless millionaire.

    • @nobuhlendlangamandla4943
      @nobuhlendlangamandla4943 3 роки тому +2

      True, when least expected.

  • @boozoochamp
    @boozoochamp 3 роки тому +79

    Just remember you don’t owe the internet every answer to your lives. I feel like this is a more private topic, which if you wanted to share it that’s awesome, I just hope you didn’t feel pressure to share it with the internet. You guys are an awesome couple and trying for a baby can be extremely stressful and emotional, don’t feel like you need to take your followers along with that ride.

  • @ugochijesus6862
    @ugochijesus6862 3 роки тому +176

    My dear as I was watching this video I’m actually registered nurse, have been in the healthcare for longest, I really suggest you ask for a better Hoyer lift, I’m talking about the lift that is less manual for you, It has the buttons and you don’t have to manually do it, it is actually covered by most insurance but all you need to do is ask for it, I think you guys are doing a good job and are a great couple and team💗

    • @jackiehagler3321
      @jackiehagler3321 3 роки тому +8

      My thoughts , also, she should have a better hour lift, push button

    • @mmgurlthatshott
      @mmgurlthatshott 3 роки тому +13

      They do have that one, but they needed the manual to try to get him in the tub. That’s why they went out to their garage where it’s stored.

    • @lal.6984
      @lal.6984 3 роки тому +4

      Yes this is def the old model but I think this one takes up a little less space and easier to put away

    • @blackbutterflywiings
      @blackbutterflywiings 3 роки тому +5

      There's better floor hoists out there that are automated, for sure. Preference is a big motivator though

    • @oldwomanranting
      @oldwomanranting 3 роки тому +2

      I agree the electronic one was used at the NH where I worked. No way would that life been used on a daily basis.

  • @koopnut
    @koopnut 3 роки тому +367

    Hey guys, get rid of the word trying. Just love each other and keep things normal and B4 ya know it, TWINS!!!!!!!! God has already blessed you with each other.
    How ya say, BEEEEEEEEE Positive and keep looking at each other the way you do. Wobble Charisma Wobble

  • @trenicejohnson15
    @trenicejohnson15 3 роки тому +63

    I get so annoyed when I’m taking a self care bath and my husband insists on getting in lol

  • @MrsChildOfGod
    @MrsChildOfGod 3 роки тому +10

    Don't be discouraged!! My husband and I prayed every single day for 5 YEARS before I got pregnant. Always hold on to hope. Sometimes thats all we have, and thats enough. Y'all will be great parents no matter how you get there.

  • @uvee1015
    @uvee1015 3 роки тому +84

    “Be still and know that I am God!”
    “When the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen”
    Just thought i should share these with you today ♥️

    • @dellriat9026
      @dellriat9026 3 роки тому +1

      I’m very happy seeing Cole and Charisma together and it’s their desire to have a baby , but at the same time you have to think that it would be too stressful for her to take care of the baby and Cole . So don’t be disappointed because it didn’t work ,because God knows everything and whatever he does it’s all good and perfect and sometimes we are not to be too anxious for something so badly ,you just have to wait and if it is God’s will he will give it to you in due time .

  • @Sudique1
    @Sudique1 3 роки тому +31

    You two - don't worry about the baby. The stress alone can wreak havoc! I'm willing to bet that once you both give yourselves a break about this, you'll be delivering the good news to your followers. In the meantime, enjoy this time together. Once you have a baby, your life will not be your own for MANY years.

    • @patriceduncan4892
      @patriceduncan4892 3 роки тому

      Forget about trying and just enjoy your selves it will happen in time by the grace of God

  • @theambershon673
    @theambershon673 3 роки тому +5

    Charisma is beautiful inside and out...COLE IS SO BLESSED TO HAVE HER💞

  • @heatherfreeman5220
    @heatherfreeman5220 3 роки тому +22

    I have a cycle every month on time as well, so I was under the impression that everything was “okay on my end” as well. But after seeing a fertility specialist I found out I have a blocked tube. For sure worth seeing someone but if Cole is normal I would def wait to see a specialist until you’ve tried for a year. I was so nervous to see a specialist but now I am super glad I did.

  • @keishagardner1318
    @keishagardner1318 3 роки тому +3

    I just love the way you cared for each other. Blessings

  • @onelove5367
    @onelove5367 3 роки тому +14

    OK I'm sure Cole is stressed too, he didn't look like himself in this video. Not just one of them. Trying makes things stressful, love each other, no time line, nothing and it'll happen. You guys are going to make such wonderful parents and I am praying for you both.

  • @sunshinesunny5074
    @sunshinesunny5074 3 роки тому +102

    When you’re not even thinking about it is when it will happen trust me mother of three❤️

    • @missgulliver4621
      @missgulliver4621 3 роки тому +7

      That's so true, prayer changes things

    • @raisingthemsimply
      @raisingthemsimply 3 роки тому +11

      As someone who suffers from infertility this isn’t true for everyone and can be a hurtful comment. Just FYI, not everyone would take this comment kindly.

    • @MorticiaAttoms
      @MorticiaAttoms 3 роки тому +2

      This isn't always true.

    • @Craftitup64
      @Craftitup64 3 роки тому +3

      Agree, not a comment taken lightly. Im a mom of two adopted children whom I love with all my heart but the path of infertility was very difficult.

  • @marylabelle803
    @marylabelle803 3 роки тому +4

    I love you guys so much and im rooting for all your dreams to come true ,but relax for a while and dont ever change! You bring a smile to me as i worked with disabled individuals who were unable to communicate with me ,but how chill is cole when the hoyer lift had a malfunction! Oh my god! Love you two crazy kids!

  • @gabbygabby386
    @gabbygabby386 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! The love and admiration in her eyes are real!
    God bless you both!

  • @muhddhihh1744
    @muhddhihh1744 3 роки тому +8

    I’ve been trying for 5 years now. I don’t even think about it anymore. I try to enjoy my life and wait on God’s timing. Have fun trying, don’t let it consume you. Enjoy your life and it’ll happen. 💕

  • @Woohchaiell
    @Woohchaiell 3 роки тому +12

    Charisma gives me body goals! Dang gurllll!

  • @cannabis1490
    @cannabis1490 3 роки тому +2

    Look at the way she looks at him when he's speaking... all that love for him just pours out in her expression...You're both so blessed to have each other!

  • @yvettemorant1493
    @yvettemorant1493 3 роки тому +1

    Will keep you both in prayer, for rest, peace of mind and continued love and joy. Thank you for sharing your life with us. 💗

  • @m.samuel6350
    @m.samuel6350 3 роки тому +21

    “Each day brings new opportunities, allowing you to constantly live with love - be there for others - bring a little light into someone's day. Be grateful and live each day to the fullest.”
    Happy Sunday Cole and Charisma,
    Enjoyed watching this great vlog.
    You guys are so open and honest about your lives.
    Thank you for sharing this with us.
    Sending positive vibes your way.
    Stay safe and positive.
    You guys are such a warm and loving couple.✌🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @shantanaredman
    @shantanaredman 3 роки тому +13

    I love to see you guys showing person in similar position like cole, that no matter your condition you are NOT LIMITED TO ANYTHING in this world. #staypositive

  • @jasonlang9074
    @jasonlang9074 3 роки тому

    Love your positivity and laughter yall! I wish you both the best of luck and keep your head up!

  • @Ally-qu7cw
    @Ally-qu7cw 3 роки тому +1

    All the best you guys in trying to start your family, hope things work out for you, and you get your sweet little bundle of joy.😊

  • @laurie29google.comlaurence69
    @laurie29google.comlaurence69 3 роки тому +9

    When I saw the beginning, I was like "what on earth???? 😂😂😂 I laughed so hard.... always funny 👍🏼

  • @vernarosenblum1190
    @vernarosenblum1190 3 роки тому +3

    That is most definitely NOT A FAIL- the laughter, fun, respect and care you show each other makes every experience a joy to see¡

  • @RCMama05
    @RCMama05 2 роки тому

    I love this video and how open you guys are. Its so encouraging. Love ur spirit!

  • @willowluna5618
    @willowluna5618 3 роки тому +5

    You two crack me up all the time! 🤣 Love your energy, sense of humor and team work! ♥️

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 3 роки тому +26

    God bless you both. Sometimes when you can relax a little bit, you get the results you want.

  • @jalynnneely5111
    @jalynnneely5111 3 роки тому +7

    God will bless you two with a beautiful healthy baby!! Like you guys always tell us. STAY POSITIVE !! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jemimanabalayo225
    @jemimanabalayo225 3 роки тому

    Bless you people. I wish you nothing but the best in that journey.

  • @aceace2921
    @aceace2921 2 роки тому +1

    You guys are so funny. I find myself watching every second I can. Can't get enough of the two of you. LOL, I'm hooked.

  • @livaarrestad3555
    @livaarrestad3555 3 роки тому +15

    Hey Cole and Christina! I never comment on videos, but I hope you see this comment.
    My husband and I started trying right after our wedding. We were both 22. After a few months of trying, I just KNEW something was wrong, but all the doctors told us we were just young and it would happen.
    Fast forward 3 years later, and it never happened. They did the semen analysis at 1 year trying to conceive, and they found out that my husband’s swimmers had 0.01% motility-so they weren’t moving at all, and you needed at least 10% for IUI. He told us there is a 0% chance we would conceive on our own, and we’re told IVF was our only option. We were devastated.
    The year to follow would be the hardest for both of us. Not sure how to move forward, we completely stopped trying to conceive naturally. This actually took a big stressor off of our relationship, but also made us feel so impatient in the waiting game trying to figure out what the “next step” was.
    After considering IVF, foster to adopt, and traditional adoption, we came across embryo donation. Basically, you adopt remaining embryos from a couple who did IVF already and are done growing their family. Instead of discarding them, they choose life for them and allow couples to adopt them. It’s INCREDIBLE. And about $15,000 cheaper than IVF. I’m currently 3 months pregnant with our single babe that we transferred in January❤️ I could have never been a momma if that family didn’t choose us to be their biological children’s parents. It’s truly the biggest honor and biggest gift. Oh, and another thing! Even though our children won’t have our genetics, they will all be fully genetically related to each other. How amazing is that??? I’m glad they will have each other on this unique journey and start to life❤️
    I just want you to know this is an incredible option that most people don’t know about. Let me know if you want to connect about it for more information! Our website is broganandlivadopt.com.
    And lastly, nobody really understands how infertility affects you unless they’ve walked through it. Not saying that’s what you guys have, but just know that you’re free to grieve and feel all the feelings in any way you want. There’s no way to quite describe the feeling of empty arms after monthly disappointment and devastation. Yes you’re arms are empty, but the burden feels so heavy at the same time. It’s honesty the most excruciating journey I’ve ever walked through. And unfortunately, you will hear a lot of ignorant people say “oh just stop stressing it will happen”, “you’re young still, you don’t have to worry”, “I know a friend who......fill in the blank.... and it happened for them!”
    Those can be some of the most hurtful words. You just so desperately want people to truly understand what you’re going through, because then they would understand how deep those words can cut. Anyways, I just want you to give you the freedom to grieve in whatever way feels right. This journey is not for the faint at heart, and I commend you for being so open about it on this channel.
    Best of luck to you two!💕
    -Liv

    • @Escalated401
      @Escalated401 2 роки тому +1

      Commenting so this goes a little bit higher

  • @deborahswett3508
    @deborahswett3508 3 роки тому +5

    I am now exhausted, I cannot imagine how you do it. Just take it easy. You are both wonderful, I feel so for you and I give you so much credit!!!!!!!!!!

  • @petalblossom96
    @petalblossom96 3 роки тому

    I am amazed at how open you're being about such a personal matter. That takes such courage - thank you!
    Just wanna add that I had my little boy naturally at 41 after 20 months of trying. Do whatever works for you and go at your own pace. But whatever you do, please know patience will be essential. God bless and all the best 🙏🏾

  • @marissah3125
    @marissah3125 2 роки тому +1

    My sister tried for several years before conceiving! She now has 4 beautiful daughters. Don’t lose hope! Pray! Pray! Pray! The Lord loves blessing his children! I’ll be praying for you too!

  • @becauza
    @becauza 3 роки тому +126

    We weren’t lucky enough to have a child, but we never called it trying. My husband always said we were practicing and we would just keep practicing until we got it right. So, when you’re ready, practice a little. 😉

    • @jarritos257
      @jarritos257 3 роки тому +2

      Beautiful comment ❤️

  • @reginaroth2543
    @reginaroth2543 3 роки тому +8

    When little charisma or a little Cole the time will be right no fuss no mush go with the flow luv ya guys

  • @lanettewilliams1734
    @lanettewilliams1734 2 роки тому

    I like the love joy and support you have for one another. Very inspiring.

  • @franzzzzeska
    @franzzzzeska 3 роки тому

    Omg how beautiful they both are. jaw dropping beautiful both. Great content as well. Thank you for sharing!

  • @glindaconard3554
    @glindaconard3554 3 роки тому +3

    Yes take a break and relax, it may happen when you guys aren’t even thinking about it. Just keep having Fun the three of you ❤️❤️

  • @loveisall5520
    @loveisall5520 3 роки тому +8

    Charisma has done an amazing job at turning your house into a home.

  • @karatheriault6715
    @karatheriault6715 3 роки тому +2

    You're Amazing girl!!! We love you two and wish you both the best as you make your way. I wish I naturally had your disposition.

  • @richs6205
    @richs6205 3 роки тому

    You both are so open and straight talking on this topic, learned a lot. Awesome!

  • @brendah4689
    @brendah4689 3 роки тому +8

    I worked in nursing for years. I know how hard it is! ❤️

  • @lovepassion5913
    @lovepassion5913 3 роки тому +5

    U guys r unbelievably awesome

  • @kaiel9z
    @kaiel9z 3 роки тому +2

    Just love you guys. So very exciting and really made for one another. You are a wonderful couple.

  • @angelavillanueva7568
    @angelavillanueva7568 3 роки тому

    Love you guys, just seen your SBSK episode and immediately subscribed to your channel. You always find things when you stop looking! I can’t wait to see your beautiful twins!

  • @claireisacamel
    @claireisacamel 3 роки тому +160

    If only these people would have watched your “how to get Cole off the ground” video they’d know... it’s ain’t that easy to get Cole in the bath with Charisma hahah

    • @amethyst1226
      @amethyst1226 3 роки тому +9

      Yea I was like “sure let’s just lift 6’ tall Cole into the small bath with Charisma...makes perfect sense” 😂

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 3 роки тому +1

      LOL

  • @jassantos7703
    @jassantos7703 3 роки тому +20

    Sometimes people need to watch the video without all the negative. Stay blessed😍

  • @helenmokom1569
    @helenmokom1569 Рік тому

    Beautiful couple in and out.A shout out for both families for bringing them up in a nice way.

  • @mummyrose9139
    @mummyrose9139 Рік тому

    I commend you both so much!!! You teach us what true love really means. You guys do not have to prove anything to anyone, your love is pure to each other and that’s all that matters. People will always talk😊

  • @dancer1time
    @dancer1time 3 роки тому +5

    You guys are so beautiful and blessed! Your babies are on the way, definitely within God’s timing and especially for two amazing parents like you both! Just breathe and believe...❤️🥰😉

  • @tonijones4018
    @tonijones4018 3 роки тому +11

    I’m here for y’all. 🥰🥰

  • @plaidpaisley5918
    @plaidpaisley5918 3 роки тому +1

    Health issues here...married at 31.5 started trying around 33, IVF 2x at 36. Baby Girl 2nd IVF. Then SURPRISE natural at 39, a son. So Thankful. Bless you on your journey. I was ancient.

  • @tequillalopez9976
    @tequillalopez9976 3 роки тому

    I've loved watching your journey over the years. I've always felt that babies come when they're ready 😊. Yours will come in their own time, and I'm sure you'll be blessed.

  • @karlylynn4676
    @karlylynn4676 3 роки тому +30

    Babies are hard work, conceiving when you’re ready is the hardest part. I’m sending you sticky baby dust!!

  • @rebalynn3117
    @rebalynn3117 3 роки тому +5

    I have a tremendous amount of respect for you putting such personal aspects of your life out there for everyone. Take your break and do what you have to do to stay healthy, mentally and phyically.
    On another note. Y'all showed how much more independent Cole's nighttime routine has become. Has his morning routine changed since any since the last one you posted?

  • @CrisCesco
    @CrisCesco 3 роки тому +1

    Your pure love inspires a lot. God bless you both tremendously. 💗

  • @karleymurphy
    @karleymurphy 3 роки тому +2

    Super excited to hear youre filming for a doc! Also it'll probably happen when you least expect it! My parents had both their kids when they stopped trying!

  • @That_girly_idk
    @That_girly_idk 3 роки тому +67

    I know it sound strange but can't wait to know about how the little swimmers are swimming 😂 we basically want you to have this baby as much as you do 🤣

  • @LadyY2U
    @LadyY2U 3 роки тому +6

    OMG! I was rolling when Charisma was talking about how people were talking ab her not wanting Cole to take a bath with her lol. God will Bless this Union, Trust In Him!

  • @charmainelowrie-davis4023
    @charmainelowrie-davis4023 2 роки тому

    I’m a new subscriber. Started watching out of curiosity and now I’m literally hooked. It’s such a pleasure to see the love and care you show to each other. Kudos to you both. I have no doubt that God brought you both together so continue to follow as He leads. God will grant you the desire of your heart ( to have children) in His own time. Just continue enjoying your lives and when you least expect, the “swimmers” will meet the egg. All the very best. My prayers are with you. Peace and Love and continue to “stay positive!”

  • @LauraCastillo-ow9yu
    @LauraCastillo-ow9yu 3 роки тому

    It’s amazing how perfect y’all are together. You’re so in sync with each other. Beautiful couple. Bless y’all ,

  • @traceyjones9685
    @traceyjones9685 3 роки тому +141

    Yes the break will be good and before you know it Cadence,Christian,Caleb,Christine,and Christopher will be on their way lol👍👼🙏🤗💙😷

    • @LydiLa222
      @LydiLa222 3 роки тому +2

      😂 I LOVE those names!

    • @calypso7636
      @calypso7636 3 роки тому

      Don't forget Carmen, Camille, and Cameron!

  • @ade3050
    @ade3050 3 роки тому +4

    This video teaches one never to judge others when you don't really know anything about them. There is a lot that goes in to making videos on UA-cam. Goodness!!

  • @kolaved
    @kolaved 3 роки тому

    Loved the interview I saw you two do. What a great couple you are. May you continue to enjoy great blessings in your journey together.

  • @suzannehudson5080
    @suzannehudson5080 3 роки тому

    Awwww, i so luv u guys. God Bless you.