5 Ways To DOUBLE Your Attractiveness Without Changing Your Appearance (Any guy can do this)

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  • @the1337fleet
    @the1337fleet 4 роки тому +149

    1. Own your flaws. Marni talks about a gratitude exercise you can do; watch the video!
    2. Raise your enthusiasm (5:10). 10% more energy.
    3. Be more decisive (7:43). Overcome indecisiveness by turning fear into excitement; turn your decisions into a bet and see what happens. Or reframe and wonder if choices will matter in a year.
    4. Be the mingler (10:50). Engage with many people. Introduce people to each other. Quantity > quality here.
    5. Be more playful (13:24). Confidence and playfulness are top two attractive traits.
    Marni, I believe adding these timestamps to the description will increase engagement in the video (and in the description where you have links to your other content) and sharing (since people want to share useful and convenient content). You also get to control the summary instead of people like me putting their own spin on it.

    • @honestreviews2787
      @honestreviews2787 4 роки тому +4

      Very 👍 😀

    • @ravimatthews3442
      @ravimatthews3442 4 роки тому +3

      👍

    • @brandonschatz2504
      @brandonschatz2504 3 роки тому +2

      Right on. :)

    • @ioanniskalmanidis8578
      @ioanniskalmanidis8578 3 роки тому +4

      Lol you know this is bull.. A woman needs to be physically attracted to the men of their not they won't give him a chance I don't care what you guys say I know because I've been through it

    • @bobcat24
      @bobcat24 3 роки тому

      Simp....

  • @saent21
    @saent21 3 роки тому +7

    I just love you, Marni! Thank you! I'm someone who is into self improvement, meditation, etc, etc.. And I've seen this content before... But this time, it finally clicked... Too often those of us who are in the self-improvement movement forget about self acceptance. You're wonderful! Thanks again!

  • @davidkaye8712
    @davidkaye8712 4 роки тому +8

    In regards to flaws, I had a relaxed conversation with a lady recently, we talked about flaws (tested hehe) we agreed we should learn from them and see them as a strength good or bad. Her flirting after this became almost mesmerising.

    • @davidt1621
      @davidt1621 3 роки тому +1

      So how'd that shake out?

  • @michaelloucks4448
    @michaelloucks4448 3 роки тому +3

    Dear Marni I'm a man with depression and you have helped me feel better about myself thanks again Michael

    • @davidt1621
      @davidt1621 3 роки тому

      Robert Cooper. Look him up.

    • @bobcat24
      @bobcat24 3 роки тому +1

      Simp

    • @davidt1621
      @davidt1621 3 роки тому

      @@bobcat24 🤣 no chill with this guy. Redpill ain't supposed to be an enema bro 😆

    • @samcrubish3734
      @samcrubish3734 3 роки тому

      @@davidt1621 Stop it. You're getting him excited. 🤣

  • @fleep9008
    @fleep9008 4 роки тому +36

    Basically, LOVE yourself before TRYING to Love someone else.

    • @marnikinrys
      @marnikinrys  4 роки тому +11

      Yes!

    • @fleep9008
      @fleep9008 4 роки тому

      @@marnikinrys I really wish you coaches would at least direct others to personality trates like(Narcissism). I understand you and others in your profession are not psychologists but, it would give great insights into self and red flags. Thank You, And Much Love to you and ALL.

    • @fleep9008
      @fleep9008 4 роки тому +1

      @@wothg others. People come here for improvement yes? Think about it.

    • @fleep9008
      @fleep9008 4 роки тому +1

      @@wothg thank you. Hopefully you are not missing my point. Make it a Great Day.

    • @MenMovement
      @MenMovement 4 роки тому +2

      Indeed👏🏻

  • @tomdunlap3244
    @tomdunlap3244 3 роки тому +2

    Love you, Marni. I needed to hear this so bad. I've been rather worried about a particular flaw. Your first point is brilliant.

  • @tod3msn
    @tod3msn 4 роки тому +9

    Always good advice. Every bit of information is worth considering. Owning your flaws is outstanding advice.

  • @wilhelmspeck8272
    @wilhelmspeck8272 3 роки тому

    Insanely insightful from a woman's view, not lacking confidence nor self esteem, combatting the pandemic hysteria, based on non-science, amongst other causes, u have me even more excited as a beaut inside & out Wybo.

  • @pedritow
    @pedritow 4 роки тому +1

    Marni, you rock, ive been using your f formula and watching videos for like a month and men it took me 2 days to bring a girl to my house without asking her phone!

  • @batstar4212
    @batstar4212 4 роки тому +6

    Perfect timing Marni! Blind date this weekend. Haven't really felt attractive in a long while (year three post divorce). Love your videos, they really put stuff into perspective. Thank you🤘❤

  • @dashlaru2
    @dashlaru2 3 місяці тому

    Marni, this is just great advice for people to be more awesome! Everybody wants to be more awesome! I would love to see more one on this! Men and women being awesome!

  • @boneheadxxl1
    @boneheadxxl1 2 роки тому

    This is really true. Just be yourself, have a blast and carry a open posture. People will come up to you and interact. Men and woman.

  • @CryptoDailyIndia
    @CryptoDailyIndia 4 роки тому +2

    I have worked hard for turning myself from an introvert to where I am today. Still a long way to go. Working on transformation. These tips are really valuable and helpful. Will surely work on them. Thank you Marni!

    • @JFCotman
      @JFCotman 4 роки тому

      You don’t have to stop being an introvert to apply her teachings.

    • @jfruitt65
      @jfruitt65 Рік тому

      Introversion is a genetic trait. It's the type of brain you have.

    • @RubinAllen
      @RubinAllen Рік тому

      ​@@jfruitt65so being a introvert is built in

    • @RubinAllen
      @RubinAllen Рік тому

      ​@@jfruitt65?

  • @stevecrane8763
    @stevecrane8763 4 роки тому +3

    I have learned a lot from your videos! You have helped me out! I have been eating on a caloric deficit and I notice the difference in my appearance! Better and younger girls have been checking me out!

    • @JFCotman
      @JFCotman 4 роки тому

      Wait till you start lifting though.
      They’ll come RUNNING!

  • @jeffgagen3561
    @jeffgagen3561 3 роки тому

    Marni said so many great & simple things in this video. I have written down heaps quotes, I am now using in my life & one of them is. "The only thing worse than a bad decision, is no decision at all." So, I'd rather make a bad decision with a lady than be standing there with no idea & if I do make a bad decision, I will own it . Thanks Marni.

  • @footlongsubzero1128
    @footlongsubzero1128 4 роки тому +12

    The mingler effect 🤔 hmmmm.... very interesting. I'm a pretty Lazy guy. Last gathering, I found a spot and camped and hardly ever moved except to go to eat or use the bathroom. I'll mingle more next time. And being playful, I'm like that to all my guy buddies, I'll have to spill it over to the ladies. Thanks Marni, every to time I watch one of your videos, I feel better as man. Thank you so much for this 🙏

  • @5523pine
    @5523pine 3 роки тому

    I really like your videos. Lot of great info. And your mic is is a very tantalizing location.

  • @stevenwelch1540
    @stevenwelch1540 3 роки тому

    Great audio, the microphone was well placed. Good advice.

  • @aimaction7393
    @aimaction7393 2 роки тому

    FANTASTIC ADVICE,
    WELL PRESENTED AND INTELLIGENT.

  • @marksflores2533
    @marksflores2533 4 роки тому +15

    So true, Marni. I've been out of the dating scene 4 a while now while I focused on becoming a better man. I remember the best experiences I had was when I was relaxed yet playful. It's like when we were kids, teasing the girls... they got all giggly and started chasing us around. I'm pretty sure when a man does that it brings back those memories from adolescence:p great video

    • @Viewable11
      @Viewable11 2 роки тому

      Yes. All women want their man to make them feel like being 14 year old again. Treat a woman as a 14 y/o brat and she will adore you for it.

  • @joejett3995
    @joejett3995 4 роки тому +9

    Marni, in the short time I've know you, I'm watching you grow, and I can tell you're working on yourself. Can't be insecure and grateful at the same time is deep wisdom! Keep up the great work! We Love You!

  • @allenbillings4319
    @allenbillings4319 Рік тому

    Thanks for the message and you are in the Zone with your knowledge is amazing i lost out in attracting this women because of fears of not being good enough..l can now see she picked up my vibration of that fear and you you are so right😎😎😎❣❣❣❣

  • @deslocc124
    @deslocc124 3 роки тому

    I'm comfortable with 'who I am'.. true.. I don't make a lot.. but then I don't drink/smoke.. and I would say I would not 'tell a lie'.. but sometimes I consider the possible gain or hurt by speaking too quickly.. I just 'be myself'.. :-) Have a great day Marni...

  • @robertboath7080
    @robertboath7080 4 роки тому

    I had to subscribe 😂 this lass is telling the truth. She's absolutely bang on the button. Fair play to you!

  • @lordquas4525
    @lordquas4525 3 роки тому

    Geez Louise, you are so smart - I would love to have a professional, healthy, adult conversation with you - I would love to have some intelligent dialogue with you on a human level. Thank you for being you, honestly.

  • @treemanzoneskullyajan711
    @treemanzoneskullyajan711 3 роки тому

    SHE INCOURAGING IMPRISONING HER OWN FREINDS MINDS INTO ACTING LIKE THEY BETTER..

  • @bg2817
    @bg2817 3 роки тому

    #1 sounds lie the serenity prayer! Love your vids Marni

  • @andreabarone4964
    @andreabarone4964 4 роки тому +28

    I’ve been binge watching your videos for a week now, the girl that was rejecting me for being s nice guy is now begging me for a date, so gg thanks wing girl

    • @bobcat24
      @bobcat24 4 роки тому

      What a simp...

    • @jasonmackay9133
      @jasonmackay9133 4 роки тому +5

      dude me too and it works any guy on here that says it dont ,wasnt trying at all. im like so in deep with a woman i like , i feell like a teenager !

    • @Mm-br8vp
      @Mm-br8vp 4 роки тому +2

      Love this! Keep up the amazing work

    • @KingoftheJuice18
      @KingoftheJuice18 4 роки тому +1

      @@bobcat24 Desiring and pursuing a girl (or boy, as the case may be) is not "being a simp." It's the natural order of things.

    • @samcrubish3734
      @samcrubish3734 3 роки тому +1

      @@bobcat24 What a loser...

  • @djtdawg87
    @djtdawg87 4 роки тому +5

    Awesome, awesome video Marni keep up the great work your doing ;)

  • @DomDeVille
    @DomDeVille 3 роки тому +35

    It’s the women on dating apps who specifically state that they do not wish to date men under 6 ft. I am 5’5, but I have been going to the gym to get taller 🤣

    • @southerncrosshempoil
      @southerncrosshempoil 3 роки тому +1

      Children grow based on father’s height. No one wants munchin size offspring 🤣

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 роки тому +1

      You can grow taller. Type in maitreya fields “grow taller” on UA-cam, read the successfully reviews, become awestruck that our world is actually magic and then listen to the audio. Voter 6 months you will be this magnetic 6’3 man. ;)))

    • @theyoungchevalier
      @theyoungchevalier 3 роки тому +1

      Funniest thing I’ve read so far this early Sunday morning !!

    • @grumblesa10
      @grumblesa10 3 роки тому

      Avoid online dating. Two peer-reviewed studies in the US and UK, concurred that dating sites use "unsubstantiated criteria" in the matching-alogrithms. Both studies concluded that, there's MUCH more to attraction than common-views/interests. Oh, the odds of you actually getting to more than 1 date is over 525:1. Better odds drawing to four-of-a-kind holding a pair....

    • @SGTUSMCVET269
      @SGTUSMCVET269 3 роки тому +1

      Dude, no sweat, just be who you are. There are plenty of women who are 4’ 11” or 5’ range, and I love them. Short little gals are the greatest. Just be confident and manly.

  • @endometriosisexplained1799
    @endometriosisexplained1799 3 роки тому

    Happy Xmas coach, Great work - so good on the biology !

  • @JamesPicco-n6l
    @JamesPicco-n6l Рік тому +1

    It’s tru I’m in a wheelchair for 20 years now on disability no money my fieonce still says she loves me and wants to get married

  • @tallchris4075
    @tallchris4075 3 роки тому

    I barely realized you where the one blowing me kisses. Wow. You really are good. Thank you so much cause i was going through alot then.So sweet 😘

  • @guyh.4553
    @guyh.4553 4 роки тому +3

    The insecurity side can be hard to overcome. As far as being ok about the flaws part is easy. Being joyful and enthusiastic goes hand in hand with the insecurities portion. #3: I can easily do that until it comes to figuring out where to go for dinner AND what to order! Ha ha ha ha.

  • @orlandoflores72
    @orlandoflores72 4 роки тому +2

    Well, dress nice, look good and be positive is a plus in this business, always help.

  • @wesselvandyk4623
    @wesselvandyk4623 3 роки тому

    Great video I really enjoyed it …. Very true and I agree with it👌👍

  • @justingarfield2663
    @justingarfield2663 4 роки тому +2

    Love this video, Marni! Great job

  • @SGTUSMCVET269
    @SGTUSMCVET269 3 роки тому

    Actually, I watch these videos because I think you are adorable and I love your voice. I have been extremely successful attracting women my whole life. I am a pieces lol. Very intuitive, empathic, and a hopeless romantic. 6 ft tall, veteran, former USMC SGT, I have enormous hands, rugged looks, and I have a deep voice. God is good.

  • @kennyparsons4820
    @kennyparsons4820 2 роки тому

    I never have left any comments on anything, but there's a first for everything. I can't help myself. Your probably not even going to see it but here goes anyway. Your one of the most desirable women in the universe! ( You know this already, still I needed to express my thoughts) your content is on point, helpful and genuinely from the heart) Thank you!!! PS are you married? I can only imagine in person how captivating you must be! Thru a video you steal every person's heart and attention. Where are you from? What's your background? Just need to know where there might possibly be or even close to any females with some of your reedming quality's!?

  • @marcob5549
    @marcob5549 Рік тому

    gratitude changes our lives

  • @rexfoster9629
    @rexfoster9629 4 роки тому +1

    Thank You Miss. Marni! Excellent video and content!!

  • @wesleykalor5267
    @wesleykalor5267 4 роки тому +2

    I like what your telling me, Marni. Thanks.

  • @nashslayer
    @nashslayer 3 роки тому

    Amazing. Putting this to work.

  • @craigsatchell1080
    @craigsatchell1080 Рік тому

    Very good advice always!😅

  • @channel21111
    @channel21111 2 роки тому

    This is so good needed these

  • @MrTim1731
    @MrTim1731 Рік тому

    thank you i am very shy and youre tips are extremely helpful

  • @hump1953
    @hump1953 3 роки тому

    Great advice... I’ll start following your recommendations immediately...I’m 68 so gotta hurry...

  • @sean-xm9661
    @sean-xm9661 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Marni....hope to meet ya sometime soon ! Great vid tips..!

  • @nelsneumann9779
    @nelsneumann9779 4 роки тому +1

    Great stuff. Thanks Marni.

  • @Parkmanpranks
    @Parkmanpranks 4 роки тому

    This is way better than your last video.

  • @cliffcollier6031
    @cliffcollier6031 18 днів тому

    These work and the playfulness my woman likes, she said she never met anyone like me. I also have a reputation from law enforcement and she heard stories and about my time in the army. I am confident and do not care what others think. All these and I have found my perfect future wife. This video is good and correct.

  • @robert23jordan23
    @robert23jordan23 3 роки тому

    Thank you Marin. Great advice I heard to get myself going. 🙏😊

  • @jonbon7948
    @jonbon7948 3 роки тому +1

    How do you be more enthusiastic

  • @leonidas7692
    @leonidas7692 3 роки тому

    100% approved message!

  • @bobcat24
    @bobcat24 4 роки тому +43

    Women view flaws as weaknesses, and will do everything to see how long it takes to make him break. That’s why men rarely open up to women.

    • @jamesrawlings5781
      @jamesrawlings5781 4 роки тому +9

      No, I don't think so. Women view men worrying about their flaws as weakness. That ain't the same thing.

    • @KingoftheJuice18
      @KingoftheJuice18 4 роки тому +1

      I'm guessing your sample size of knowing different women intimately is pretty small (because everyone's is). These kinds of generalizations say more about the one who makes them.

    • @leonidas7692
      @leonidas7692 3 роки тому

      It's the hyper-obsession we tend to have with those flaws. Marnie is right. Think about it. But if this has happened to you, maybe provide an example as it could help us understand, and maybe there is something else at play...

    • @davidt1621
      @davidt1621 3 роки тому +1

      @@leonidas7692 The only part of a man's character she is interested in learning is in finding out where he stands against the other men in her life through discovering his insecurities and areas of confidence. Problematically, once she's knows a man that well, she can manipulate him almost effortlessly. At that point in their relationship, she loses attraction, because she has incidentally (or by design) dominated him. Then she gets bored and loses respect for him, all while he cluelessly continues to love and support her.

    • @leonidas7692
      @leonidas7692 3 роки тому

      @@davidt1621 Would you say this applies to all women in general, or women with a certain social and psychological profile?

  • @Girsh15
    @Girsh15 4 роки тому +1

    rock solid advice as usual, thanks again Marni!!!

  • @mustaphadoaa1024
    @mustaphadoaa1024 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you, Marni. Great advice.

  • @nuggets5787
    @nuggets5787 4 роки тому +3

    Yesss. This is GOLD!! 💪

  • @amirabedi9429
    @amirabedi9429 4 роки тому

    Thanks for your guide Marni keep going

  • @lonniemathis4492
    @lonniemathis4492 Рік тому

    Love your site, do you have a podcast?

  • @siphesihlemthethwa3712
    @siphesihlemthethwa3712 4 роки тому +7

    Marni can you make a video on the type of mindsets girls find attractive??

    • @bobcat24
      @bobcat24 3 роки тому +1

      What a simp 🤣

    • @samcrubish3734
      @samcrubish3734 3 роки тому

      @@bobcat24 I can see why mindsets don't interest you. You don't have a mind.

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 роки тому

      @@bobcat24 bro, I understand from where you are coming from. But even though you didn’t mean in malicious towards him, let him hear it. Just because it seems common sense to you, doesn’t make it so for everyone. And please keep in mind that it’s not enough if he stops caring what she thinks. Coolness is a social talent, it takes more to be cool than just detachment of outcome. So, be so kind and let him hear it like he wants to.

  • @ruskinjetter5799
    @ruskinjetter5799 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you cuteness ( You sweet little baby you. Marni !!!! )

  • @benjaminclement8437
    @benjaminclement8437 2 роки тому

    A lot of this explains a lot about my job/hobby I am a futsal ref and do mixed, men's, women's and I am surprised by some of the attention and looks I get from the girls. however in this video you seem to go through almost everything I do naturally.
    I am always happy to see the players, enthusiastic when talking to them, I am a little flirty but not to much as I am the official, I like to use player management which entails looking into their eyes and asking questions to see why they are acting the way they are which has a good effect, I am fair but firm, I'm always confident when making decision, this is all being done in a playful environment, and to top it of I am in a nice looking sports uniform.
    ps As a ref of over 15 years and a player for 30 odd I can tell you the women are the most cunning and dirty players when it's just women's teams.

  • @backyardrailroader
    @backyardrailroader 3 роки тому

    The first three I can do.
    Being a mingler may take some work for me.
    Being playful one has to know the person one is talking to, but I believe I can do it. Just gotta watch tgat I do not overdo it, though.....

  • @Gavriel92
    @Gavriel92 4 роки тому +54

    tbh, this seems like just good life advice lol

    • @zatiticherry3421
      @zatiticherry3421 4 роки тому +8

      Dealings between Men and Women are predicated by things like applying life advice.

    • @user-sh2mk8ew4c
      @user-sh2mk8ew4c 4 роки тому +5

      @@zatiticherry3421 that’s deep. To deep
      For most men. Lol.

    • @davidt1621
      @davidt1621 3 роки тому

      @@user-sh2mk8ew4c T.W.S.S.

    • @samcrubish3734
      @samcrubish3734 3 роки тому +1

      @@user-sh2mk8ew4c
      Agreed. Here's exhibit A (David T)

    • @jgrab1
      @jgrab1 3 роки тому +1

      Most men know "too" from "to." Lol.

  • @shappybirthdaylau7611
    @shappybirthdaylau7611 4 роки тому

    Confidence I do have, I may have flaws but I don't sweat it, I need a gorgeous wing girl like you, and all is well baby girl

  • @colinm1325
    @colinm1325 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks M.
    Great vid.
    👍🙂🌈🌏💞

  • @joejones9520
    @joejones9520 3 роки тому

    I am 55 and am letting my teeth fall out partly because I dont have dental but also Im doing it to keep women from being attracted to me so I dont get involved in nitemare relationship stuff ever again.

  • @mache3984
    @mache3984 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you for the great advice! Unfortunately I've found that being enthusiastic doesn't work for every woman lol. Some of them are just grumpy and angry regardless.

  • @FRZELION
    @FRZELION 4 роки тому

    Marni you always post great content. Thank you for all the help. You are the real mvp!

  • @michaelstephenson8266
    @michaelstephenson8266 4 роки тому

    Marni if there is any video that would cause me to invest in your products it's this video. I promise when I have the money I will buy your f formula.

  • @et2petty
    @et2petty 3 роки тому

    be alert and talkative.... honest and smiling.......clean smell nice etc of course..... do not compliment looks

  • @nickhawthorne7740
    @nickhawthorne7740 4 роки тому

    Number 5 is the most important but also the hardest.

  • @michaelj.mccall6530
    @michaelj.mccall6530 4 роки тому

    Cannot help but notice a few of Dale Carnegie, Frank Bettger, and Napoleon Hill concepts

  • @rogerreynolds5822
    @rogerreynolds5822 4 роки тому

    But I’ll admit. This is one of your best videos yet.

  • @ChuckerA
    @ChuckerA 4 роки тому +8

    I know I'm a very attractive man to but I just don't have it in me no more. I've been divorced 20 years man I wish I could find somebody to be with how do I find a girl that's a doll and bored like me

    • @russ9921
      @russ9921 4 роки тому

      Get a hobby, mingle, be less anxious about it. It’ll happen if you relax.

  • @swamijeevanpromod1657
    @swamijeevanpromod1657 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks love 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @benergy100k2
    @benergy100k2 4 роки тому +1

    Marni, this is one of your most most important important master pieces for anyone who is a good listener and willing to put your words in action.

  • @realistic.optimist
    @realistic.optimist 3 роки тому

    I love your posts and would like to give a bit of feedback if I may. Keep them under 10 minutes. If you have to break them into chapters or several posts.

  • @Gave-rf1hr
    @Gave-rf1hr 4 роки тому

    Yes thats true about the Flaws .
    Just last week I gifted a wine to a girl due to a favor she did to me . I just told her I was no expert in the wine world but I hoped to have picked one nicely ......turned out she is a Enologist! Imagine if I had acted all know it all without being true !
    She just appreciated and was actually exited to meet up again .

  • @cercle.masculin
    @cercle.masculin 4 роки тому

    How to raise enthusiasm ?

  • @BrickByBrickVets
    @BrickByBrickVets 4 роки тому +4

    Tip: Make these things natural. If you are shy, then practice solo on cashiers, and waitresses etc. Try to refer to them always by name, smile genuinely, ask how their day is before conducting business. Once you realize how much strangers, appreciate being appreciated, the rest will come naturally. Before you know it you’ll have a girl at the bars phone number and the bartenders 😂

  • @dr.k.eliassummerel8143
    @dr.k.eliassummerel8143 2 роки тому

    Where is the link to the 90 second video??

  • @danruhl8538
    @danruhl8538 Рік тому

    Thank you so very much ❤❤lol always Coolcat dan

  • @paulromansr5850
    @paulromansr5850 3 роки тому

    Hello Marni, I have a question for you, but first allow me express my appreciation for your videos, which I've currently happened to stumble upon. I like your videos they are very informative and helpful. There's only one video of yours that I haven't found yet by which leads to my question for you. Here goes my question for YOU...what tips do have to offer to attract and obtain a woman like YOU? I await your response patiently with eagerness.
    Respectfully yours, ( but not yet, until I received your tips) Pablo
    Tengo Buen Dia

  • @adryarends7237
    @adryarends7237 3 роки тому

    True, I like when a guy is decisive 😍

  • @slydale
    @slydale 3 роки тому

    Be decisive. Hmmm. Being a leader will attract women. Well...I'm not much of a leader in the sense that I'm not much of a guy's guy. However, in my past recent experiences, if I work the decisive angle early and maintain it, I find attraction that much easier to maintain. Am I overcompensating? Maybe. But less something else works better, I'll keep this up. Js.

  • @danielhayes955
    @danielhayes955 4 роки тому

    Im trying your things, i let you know if they work

  • @j.scenes
    @j.scenes 4 роки тому

    Watching from Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @efrag41988
    @efrag41988 3 роки тому

    Thank you your amazing

  • @terratombsie3986
    @terratombsie3986 3 роки тому

    your on about self hypnoses aka affirmations kinda :)

  • @samster888
    @samster888 4 роки тому

    Double zero attractiveness is... Zero attractiveness!
    Just kidding, thanks for your great content Marni 💝

  • @dwdwone
    @dwdwone 4 роки тому +1

    Most women I know think Craig is at least a solid 7. But I've watched him for years and fact is, he's a really cool guy.

  • @Kyleology
    @Kyleology 4 роки тому +4

    I really wonder what Freud would say about how much you play with your hair.

  • @volkfidde4269
    @volkfidde4269 3 роки тому

    It is quite a challenge to own the flaw of being flawless, but I manage it :).

  • @DEMETRIUSblaze
    @DEMETRIUSblaze 4 роки тому

    Marni love the 411 it's life breaking knowledge. And you have a cool natural beauty and mind. #1 the flaws only two too stop giving light too the last one being an introvert that mingling is hard st times I'm unsure of people at times. But like a challenge I was scared of Star Bucks 3 years ago now I'm not

    • @samcrubish3734
      @samcrubish3734 3 роки тому +1

      Why were you scared of Starbucks?

    • @DEMETRIUSblaze
      @DEMETRIUSblaze 3 роки тому

      @@samcrubish3734 Didn't know prices or hot or ice tea was so good, and being Introverted and creature of habit going outside my comfort zone not easy at times

  • @jerrykitich3318
    @jerrykitich3318 3 роки тому

    A graduate student friend of mine and I were enthusiastic Shogi players. The first time we played he told me that a lot of beautiful girls would come up to us and ask what we were doing, in the coffee shops or bars we played in. I was like, sure sure. We were both average looking guys. Yet, sure enough this is exactly what happened at least 2 or 3 times a session. At first I thought it was because the Shogi board looks exotic but now I'm thinking it was our intensity and enthusiasm.

  • @stanj85
    @stanj85 4 роки тому +3

    I can't speak to all of her tips, but I definitely agree with being decisive and playful. Just being able to mix these two makes a huge difference in how people in general, not just women, think of me. Now if only I could be thankful for my height...
    But what I am thankful for is Marni. I may not have many female prospects now because of the pandemic, but I feel like when society opens up, she will have prepared me to be a far more attractive bachelor. Guys, you HAVE to sign up with her. She's an incredible resource.

  • @initiatorhater0688
    @initiatorhater0688 4 роки тому +1

    Basically, it's a reminder that I get very annoyed, irritated, when people call it a skillset or learnable skill, and when when people say that women need skills in order to succeed with men or to attract men, makes me laugh and cringe, like I want to say "what skills?
    she just has to be attractive and she already has a couple of dates lined up already, already has plenty of options", guys need to learn or know all of these damn social behaviors, certain social skills or talk right or sit right and stand right and walk right, breathe right, think right, be a perfect or almost perfect conversationalist, etc.
    It's a reminder that I got a response to that that was
    "Well, everything depends on how you look at things. And you can complain about how the world works, or you can adapt to it and make the most of your situation!" The comment did piss me off, got me enraged, because it's a cold harsh reminder that sadly we can't do anything about, as in, the Dynamics of dating, attraction, etc. Yet people think we guys, men, have the better end of the stuck.
    And people will respond to comments like that saying, "theres no point in thinking about who has it better or worse, a better mindset is to take or accept responsibility for your life", and obviously, taking, accepting responsibility is gonna fall on mens shoulders mainly

  • @imatakeyobiscuitlaugh1695
    @imatakeyobiscuitlaugh1695 10 місяців тому

    What if you don't think you got any flaws ? Cause I live for God and as yea I'm not perfect but I don't do anything he doesn't want me to do so I don't know if I have any flaws well besides cussing and vaping and dipping that's the only thing I know.