Cozy Cabin Coffee and Catch-up || Mental health, sobriety struggles, and gratitude

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024

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  • @rnoodle3
    @rnoodle3 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi, Shug! We live in southwestern Virginia, in the Blue Ridge. We have white tail deer around our house in a residential neighborhood and we love them. One morning, I stepped out the front door to water the plants on our porch and heard a bunch of wood scratching in the direction of a large oak tree in our yard. It was a large beautiful black bear, backing down the tree. We both froze and our gazes locked for about 5 seconds. I stepped back into the house. The bear dropped to the ground and scurried away. Aren't they beautiful? Love your content! Thanks for what you do! Love you!

  • @Bajzer
    @Bajzer 2 місяці тому +1

    Glad to see that you found something that seems to work for you!
    I've realized after spending some months in the nature in my caravan with friends that being close to the nature is very helpful to bring us closer to our own true nature.
    It's much healthier to put focus on what to start with rather than what to quit with

  • @rnoodle3
    @rnoodle3 4 місяці тому +1

    All artists experience what you experience every so often. You make me smile!

  • @mikeunderwood7480
    @mikeunderwood7480 Місяць тому +1

    You bring smiles to me Everytime I see you Sugar britches ❤

  • @paulsavidge-t3e
    @paulsavidge-t3e 4 місяці тому +1

    Looks like a very good time love always Paul❤

  • @kennethnowell26
    @kennethnowell26 4 місяці тому +1

    Don’t let your demons get you. We all fight something. You know what it is and you can beat it! Wishing you the best!!

  • @mistywise2364
    @mistywise2364 4 місяці тому +1

    Loved the beginning of the video! Looked like the beginning of a movie! Also loved the cabin! Looks quiet and peaceful! Hope you enjoyed the weekend!

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Misty! I miss making artsy intros… it was fun to put this video together. Hope you’re doing well!!! ❤️

    • @mistywise2364
      @mistywise2364 4 місяці тому

      @@shugah_boogah I’m trying! Dealing with mental health issues.

  • @cmarti9781
    @cmarti9781 4 місяці тому +1

    what a great place to get away. love your content you just being real.

  • @Shim_Shack_Studio
    @Shim_Shack_Studio 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the update, seriously, it's good to see you. I'm glad you are doing well, some of us if not most of us are all struggling right there with ya.
    Change in environment will always be beneficial. I don't think you need go down the path of pills/ antidepressants. I have had the experience with some of my friends going down the pill route, for some it was short term, long-term they just end up being twice as more depressed taking antidepressants, some have gained a significant amount of weight as well. Good therapy and or life coach, if you find the the right matchup, does wonders.
    Keep doing what you are doing. You have a solid head on your shoulders. It's sounds like you are very well aware of your situations, battles, and struggles. You'll eventually overcome those obstacles.
    Also, from previous conversation/s, I hope you have been able to have time pop in your head phones and listen to music that moves you. Right now, just jamming out to Steve Winwood and up next is Peter Cetera, while I'm cleaning up the kitchen. 😅
    By the way, before I jet off here, I wanna say that your nose, when cold and red, is super adorable.

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for the kind words 😀❤️ I’ve been listening to a lot of music lately which has been helpful!!! Mostly dark rock but it takes me back to simpler times in highschool lol. Thanks for your support, always

  • @anthonytodd3408
    @anthonytodd3408 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi Shug’s 🎉 wow the cabin looks amazing, and you are looking great as well, good to see you looking so well. So proud of you loosing the booze. Tony ❤🇬🇧 xx

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому

      Yes! Thank you Tony… I keep chugging along!!!

  • @cavemanskates93
    @cavemanskates93 4 місяці тому +2

    Happy mental awareness month! I’m sorry I haven’t showing to reach you. It is what it is on my personal life, my relationship was done for me and I was messed up mentally and physically. It’s hard to get rid the good memories of what I spent with a person that I loved. I was so confused, angry and upset for what she did to me over 2.5 years with someone else. We were together 6 years but she’s with someone else during our time… it’s hard for me to let her go but I will rather focus on my own life, happiness and peace to bring back love that will be better and stronger. Like I want to disappear from her. So far, I’m healing from my own pain and I have friends and family that are there for me. I didn’t forget about you!!! Anyway, I send love to you and hope you have a wonderful day and keep in touch!!! ❤❤❤ from Robert who loves Stevie Nicks and pasta!!!

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +2

      Robert!!! ❤️❤️❤️ you deserve so much more. Healing is a journey worth taking, and it’s not an easy path but you’ll be all the better for it in the end. I’m so sorry for all you’ve been through. You’re always a warrior in my book 💪🏻Thank you always for the love and support! ❤️

  • @rnoodle3
    @rnoodle3 4 місяці тому +1

    You're special to me. You take care! Wish we were neighbors!

  • @jdwigg
    @jdwigg 4 місяці тому +1

    You rock. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @Voyager0707
    @Voyager0707 4 місяці тому +1

    Lovely video and you do look so great!! I bet the swing set is where one could find you most ;)

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому

      Not unless I take a Dramamine first 🤣 motherhood gave me permanent motion sickness lmao!

  • @paulsavidge-t3e
    @paulsavidge-t3e 4 місяці тому +1

    You are SPECIAL and I LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU’ll EVER KNOW Shugah❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TechnicallySpeaking
    @TechnicallySpeaking 4 місяці тому +2

    The edits in the beginning are 🔥. Really well done!

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks! Used iMovie which isn't my usual program... so I am glad I executed it well!

    • @TechnicallySpeaking
      @TechnicallySpeaking 4 місяці тому +1

      @@shugah_boogah it was right on the beat!

  • @anthonyhernandez3645
    @anthonyhernandez3645 4 місяці тому +1

    I think if you tackle your anxiety at all angles like diet, exercise, meditation, and even changing your environment at times like what your doing now will help you stay away from medication. For me I’m an emotional eater so it’s hard at times but, got to do what’s right.

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому

      I like this idea. Definitely requires more work and accountability on my part, but I think it will pay off in the end! Thank you for sharing your experience ❤️

  • @DonnyMusto
    @DonnyMusto 4 місяці тому +2

    Well, it’s good to see you. I’ve seen you on a few social media like Instagram and I always give you a heart up so know that we’re watching pulling for you. I’ve had multiple myeloma, which is a bone marrow cancer for 11 years and now I have MDS, which is a form of leukemia, which means my bone marrow does not making blood or platelets. So I go every Tuesday and Friday for transfusions. To say I’m having a tough time is a statement. I’ve been struggling with life for these 11 years and being sick just gets worse. But I’m strong and I’m hanging in there. I’m alone most of the time with my mom who helps me through it all. Both cancers are terminal and there’s no cure for them so when I run that through my mind, it makes me extremely upset. What can you do? I feel lousy every day mostly in bed just strong enough to watch TV and that’s the only thing I can do. Just know that we love you.

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +2

      Damn Donny I had no idea… 11 years is quite a chunk of time. You’re stronger than you know ❤️ I hope my content brings a little joy into your life. Keep trucking, xoxo

    • @DonnyMusto
      @DonnyMusto 4 місяці тому +1

      @@shugah_boogah thank you so much. You always give me a good smile and the music you play is all my music I was born in the 60s to be exact 1962. I love all my classic rock 80s 90s or I love it all. It also keeps me feeling good and down to earth.

  • @maxpurdy5319
    @maxpurdy5319 4 місяці тому +1

    I have a lot of those feelings you have taken care of my mother really stressed me out and was very hard on me and I started having anxiety and I felt like I was having a heart attack. I went to emergency one time and they couldn’t find anything wrong with me and I couldn’t believe it because I felt just horrible short of breath. Chest pains was all anxiety. It’s awful. You feel it a feeling dread but now that my mom is passed away and I’m not doing all the stressful things I was, it’s better but it’s still creeps in now and then but like you say if you stay busy, I don’t get anxiety. It’s when I have a lot of time to think and do do nothing and is good to talk about it. I would talk to my son and my daughter which have families of their own now, and that would help I could go on and on about it so keep talking about it. Get your help with your specialist and keep smiling. I love that smile.

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому

      Hi Max!! Yes the chest pain from anxiety is awful… it gets hard to convince yourself it’s anything not serious… I hope you’re doing better lately with finding more time for yourself I remember how well you cared for your mother ❤️ I’m proud of you!! I’m looking forward to getting stronger too

  • @paulsavidge-t3e
    @paulsavidge-t3e 4 місяці тому +1

    OMG IT must be me causing your anxiety I’m so sorry Shugah 😢😢😢😢

  • @ricksusor931
    @ricksusor931 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh I have a picture that my sister in law took in upper Wisconsin of a moose!!!

  • @CovertMediaConsultants
    @CovertMediaConsultants 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow! Did you produce this..? It is as perfect as it is beautiful... I've followed you for a while now and this was a great surprise. God bless you my friend.

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому

      Yes I did! Thank you!!! 😊

    • @CovertMediaConsultants
      @CovertMediaConsultants 4 місяці тому +1

      @@shugah_boogah It was great. All your UA-cams are great. I wish people knew the time, energy, and effort that goes into creating these UA-cams. 🙂

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +1

      @CovertMediaConsultants it’s definitely time consuming and doesn’t always pay off the way you envision it, but I really do enjoy the process of it. Just have to be in the right headspace!

  • @paulsavidge-t3e
    @paulsavidge-t3e 4 місяці тому +1

    Why are you the most Beautiful woman on earth ❤❤❤

  • @BLACKHOLEBBQ
    @BLACKHOLEBBQ 4 місяці тому +1

    We all get in that funk.... take time off to chill alone. I'm in Vegas & I have wife drop me off off highway in desert & I just hike, no destination I get dropped off & just start hiking... I see a mountain ridge & say "hey, that's where I'm going" avg about 10miles round trip. Something about being alone with just your thoughts is good. Time to reflect & see things in your life that you can improve on. No such thing as bad luck, we get where we are from our past decisions, only we can get ourselves out however we do it... just do it. No right or wrong answers.... just make sure you recognize your fk ups & fix them 😉. Good luck babe... I'll see ya on that special website 😉 keep them cum'n...

    • @shugah_boogah
      @shugah_boogah  4 місяці тому +1

      Man I admire you!!! I am not sure I’d be brave enough to hike alone… maybe on a trail so I don’t get lost.. I’d need some trail mix too 😂

  • @camaroman4070
    @camaroman4070 4 місяці тому +1

    Need some company? beautiful scenery