So I agree with being very careful about who you decide to be with. But the reality of the situation is they aren't married. And also there are plenty of stories of men being an absolute fake character until the woman has a kid or they are married, and then doing a switch-a-roo. So you end up being with a completely different person than you started off with. It's kind of impossible to "choose well" when that's the case.
Sorry, I think i wasn't clear with my explanation. A person's *values* don't usually change - so her being a celebrity, being dressed by stylists, being sexy - if those things are important to her, they aren't likely to immediately change later on unless she really wants to. Values are more consistent. Regarding the switch-up of *behaviour* - I agree. It can switch very fast, it's scary. In my experience though, there are usually signs that are ignored. I've had a guy blatantly tell me "I'll get jealous if you do X" and we were not in any relationship, just talking. Red flag! Guys who make comments like "I prefer you to wear *this* type of clothing" on a first date is another example.
There is a certain way of carrying yourself when u are a woman an a woman with child. This was just not woman like what she did. And her guy didnt havent to publicize the situation. He should have discussed in private. Her child will see this one day. To each its own tho.
Can you clarify what woman-like means? No matter how she dresses, she's still a woman. She has always dressed this way, depending on the occasion. She is at least consistent, and he has also posted her in skimpy outfits on his page... he didn't have a problem with it then. I think he was honestly threatened by Usher 🤷🏾♀️ But I agree, the internet is not the place to air this. They could have dealt with this privately.
Part 1 here: ua-cam.com/video/K885diG8_l4/v-deo.html
Again, no lies told! Adjustments could be made but the essential person remains the same. Choose wisely! 🤲🏾🙏🏾💕
Absolutely!!
So I agree with being very careful about who you decide to be with. But the reality of the situation is they aren't married. And also there are plenty of stories of men being an absolute fake character until the woman has a kid or they are married, and then doing a switch-a-roo. So you end up being with a completely different person than you started off with. It's kind of impossible to "choose well" when that's the case.
Sorry, I think i wasn't clear with my explanation. A person's *values* don't usually change - so her being a celebrity, being dressed by stylists, being sexy - if those things are important to her, they aren't likely to immediately change later on unless she really wants to. Values are more consistent.
Regarding the switch-up of *behaviour* - I agree. It can switch very fast, it's scary. In my experience though, there are usually signs that are ignored. I've had a guy blatantly tell me "I'll get jealous if you do X" and we were not in any relationship, just talking. Red flag! Guys who make comments like "I prefer you to wear *this* type of clothing" on a first date is another example.
There is a certain way of carrying yourself when u are a woman an a woman with child. This was just not woman like what she did. And her guy didnt havent to publicize the situation. He should have discussed in private. Her child will see this one day. To each its own tho.
Can you clarify what woman-like means? No matter how she dresses, she's still a woman. She has always dressed this way, depending on the occasion. She is at least consistent, and he has also posted her in skimpy outfits on his page... he didn't have a problem with it then. I think he was honestly threatened by Usher 🤷🏾♀️ But I agree, the internet is not the place to air this. They could have dealt with this privately.