15 Things To Avoid If You Want To Grow

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  • @alux
    @alux  2 роки тому +15

    Hello Aluxers!
    Have you downloaded the Alux App yet?
    alux.com/app
    The ALUX App is Officially Here! | Alux Keynote 2022: ua-cam.com/video/bd4uVm2AYuY/v-deo.html

    • @zoeygodfrey
      @zoeygodfrey 2 роки тому

      Hey Alux! I really want to be a part of your team! Are there any opportunities available?

    • @Manuel-gu9ls
      @Manuel-gu9ls 2 роки тому +1

      There are people who are hypocrites and don’t follow up to their own principles and trying to keep you from growing...
      What they are? Losers

    • @nukhtube3752
      @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому

      @@Manuel-gu9ls
      Careful not to transfer responsibility though.

    • @nukhtube3752
      @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому

      Guess I'll download it today.

    • @nukhtube3752
      @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому

      The craziest thing is that my current anxiety of sorts is purely my fault literally due to 13.5 of the 15.
      So painful to realize there is no one to blame but myself.
      I noticed you guys did not say "future billionairs" part, which for some of could be unrealistic.

  • @winnersmakenoexcuses2360
    @winnersmakenoexcuses2360 2 роки тому +156

    1. Procrastination
    2. Comparison
    3. Chasing perfection
    4. Negative thinking
    5. Self-doubt
    6. Unrealistic expectations
    7. A fixed mindset
    8. Unnecessary distractions
    9. Living in the past
    10. Listening to other people too much
    11. An unwillingness to learn and unlearn
    12. Not appreciating yourself
    13. Toxic relationships
    14. Fear of failure
    15. Settling

  • @checkforme234
    @checkforme234 2 роки тому +182

    Too many people are out here living a lifestyle they can’t afford, to impress people that don’t care. Quit hustling backwards & start putting yourself ahead. Establish the right mindset, focus on making the best version of YOU, & invest in your future.

    • @kimyoung8414
      @kimyoung8414 2 роки тому +4

      All to impress broke folks while also putting themselves in debt to do so.

    • @erichkraetz2622
      @erichkraetz2622 2 роки тому +2

      every $1 you invest today is a little bit of time that you buy back in the future, the more you invest, the more free time you can afford in the future, having time and the freedom to choose what to do are the ultimate investing goals.

    • @joesphcu8975
      @joesphcu8975 2 роки тому +1

      @@alexyoung3126 Thank you for providing this information. I went to her website and sent her a message. I'm hoping for a quick response from her.

    • @shirlsshirls8594
      @shirlsshirls8594 2 роки тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @loriellajames6978
      @loriellajames6978 2 роки тому

      Right! Like those consumers that always have to buy the latest IPhone as soon as it comes out. Or those that have as many kids as they have fingers and toes by the same amount of people.

  • @pheladimokoena3006
    @pheladimokoena3006 2 роки тому +11

    As a creative person I enjoyed the 'chasing for perfection ' and 'self- doubt ' segments. I've been hearing these words a lot (understatement) but this was timely and I know it will steer me forward. Thank you, Alux! :)

  • @3silver702
    @3silver702 2 роки тому +3

    My biggest thing that's held me back is letting other people hold me back, for fear of losing their kinship. Living to their expectations has made me miss out on so much, family gatherings, monetary gains, personal growth. Don't live for someone else, live for yourself.

  • @reedbrian290
    @reedbrian290 2 роки тому +35

    *When it comes to investing, what's your say to anyone with over $100K looking for the best ways to invest it and as well make good earnings off it?*

    • @mooersproducts350
      @mooersproducts350 2 роки тому

      Good question. There's no shortcut to getting rich, but there are smart ways to go about it.

    • @reedbrian290
      @reedbrian290 2 роки тому +1

      @@mooersproducts350 I've always been fascinated with investing and I need to start now. Could you possibly give more information about the Investment Professional and how I can reach out?

    • @mooersproducts350
      @mooersproducts350 2 роки тому

      @@reedbrian290 As to get more details about any Investment Professional; (Hamilton Phoebe Zoe) easily do quick internet research where you can easily write her from, do your research with her full names mentioned.

    • @reedbrian290
      @reedbrian290 2 роки тому

      Great stuff! Thank you, got it.

    • @reedbrian290
      @reedbrian290 2 роки тому

      I'm delighted to engage in this opportunity, I just found the professional's web page and have already written her.

  • @adipratapsinghaps
    @adipratapsinghaps 2 роки тому +1

    Number #1 thing to avoid is hopes and expectations. It keeps you waiting. I interviewed with my dream companies and it has been a week since my last round of interview and I am still waiting for the feedback. They are too slow. And I keep expecting that tomorrow I will hear back. But nobody calls. We need to focus only on things we have. I have a good job. But I am still thinking about hearing back from them. Which is not letting me focus on my current job. I am procastinating, day dreaming, and what not.

  • @andreclayton8035
    @andreclayton8035 2 роки тому +89

    The stock market has been a really tough one this past months, but I watched an interview on CNBC where the anchor ‘Jim Cramer’ kept mentioning "...KARINA MATTIS...". This prompted me to get in touch with her, and from October 2021 till now we have been working together, and I can now boast of $540k in my trading portfolio.

    • @oliviablake2442
      @oliviablake2442 2 роки тому

      Good one, working with her also helped accumulate up to 350k in my trading portfolio.

    • @eleanorarthur2651
      @eleanorarthur2651 2 роки тому

      I am a beginner and I am hoping to start with $93,000. I hope this is not too small to start with because my dream is to attain my financial goals within a short period of time.

    • @richardwalker7574
      @richardwalker7574 2 роки тому

      Sure you can start with that amount and even less. With a proper financial guidance, you can build a small amount to a larger sum.

    • @hannahbradley1584
      @hannahbradley1584 2 роки тому

      Seeing the name Karina Mattis made me stop to read your comment. I can attest to the fact that getting in touch with Ms. Karina during the pandemic was how I was able to scale through the crazy stock downtrend and this helped saved my finance

  • @samursamur9246
    @samursamur9246 2 роки тому +5

    “Living in the past” is the number one that shouldn’t exist in your mind for your personal growth, it doesn’t affect me at all but the key to apply all of the rest listed here

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es 2 роки тому +6

    My father asked me a while ago "Why don't I do things that he expects of me?"
    My response was "We live in different times and I can't just settle because I like to keep an open mind and learn." BTW, I am 61.

  • @nukhtube3752
    @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому +1

    Wow it took me most of the day to watch the video, but I got around to it.
    The problem was, I was sure I'd be guilty 100% of all 15.
    It turns out that I am not guilty for 7, and half of 11, let me explain.
    For 7, Fixed mindset, I have always thought and seen big, out of the box. I swear I have seen my desires accomplished by people other than myself. Most of my life I have had realistic and open minded ideas, due to suffering from the other 13.5 issues have been literally enough to stop growth for myself.
    For 11 is unlearning something the reason being is most of what I needed to unlearn was restricted by doing certain things so long, like a bad habit that it has become like muscle memory of and not limited to the 13.5 things which unknowingly arrested my development over the years. Up to 43 years old now.
    Now here comes that fear in regard to stopping the 13.5 that matters the most.
    This is real deal constructive criticism 😔, I'll give you all that much.
    So thanks......
    IIIIIIII.... guess.....
    I painfully know.

  • @fence29
    @fence29 2 роки тому +9

    I can definitely relate to the issue of comparing myself to persons that appear to be doing better than I am. It really can make you depressed and want to give up because you feel like you can never get to that level. All the while ignoring all the advantages you actually have. I try to put a spin on it and think that you can use it as a catalyst to push you forward to achieve more and you should never get comfortable and settle where you are, but I really don't like the feeling of feeling less than....

  • @ShitTot
    @ShitTot 2 роки тому +7

    2:41 "Never strive for perfection. You'll wear yourself out trying to reach it. Instead you should strive for higher and higher levels of excellence." -My 97 yo grandmother.

    • @letsgetit90
      @letsgetit90 2 роки тому +1

      Your grandmother is a G!

  • @yungkreuz7986
    @yungkreuz7986 2 роки тому +2

    In my view, Procrastinating is our biggest enemy. It empedes us to build discipline, which is the most important ingredient of success.

  • @noelsolo61
    @noelsolo61 2 роки тому

    Settling. I stop settling when I turned 58 years old. I'm happier with my life. It's never too late to change. But I also don't have kids which made life easier when I needed to make changes. I knew I never wanted to have kids.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +37

    Prioritize what matter most to you and say NO to things that don’t aligned with your priorities. You’ll make far more money and get things done faster! 🔥

  • @benniecampbell3973
    @benniecampbell3973 2 роки тому +1

    I have a problem with living in the past because it has become all that I know and believe in!!! And so I have a lot to unlearn if I’m going to move forward!!!

  • @hussainshahid5
    @hussainshahid5 2 роки тому +5

    Hats off for the most valuable advices received time to time thur your channel which enabling hundred and thousands of people around the globe lead a successful life. Thanks a lot team ALUX

  • @israelkolly8565
    @israelkolly8565 2 роки тому

    procrastination has been my major obstacle for myself growth. fight it with breath you have

  • @wlady4000
    @wlady4000 3 місяці тому

    I think the worse on is to settle for less and at once I was stuck because I didn't want to grow but Thank God I made the decision to run after my dreams.

  • @amsthe3rd
    @amsthe3rd 2 роки тому +3

    Valuable beyond immediate recognition! Truth be told: Man-made barriers are our greatest challenges, internally and externally. Being aware and proactive takes us from survival to success! Fight on, ALUXers!!

  • @christineedgehill7533
    @christineedgehill7533 Рік тому

    I want her to be acquainted with things and events what we plan to build ALUX. Arousing and being entice by someone who adores you physically and mentally is a plus. Doing grown stuff in private places and opportunities to create is a win win for both of us. Won't you love to know your voice isn't waisted coming on youtube every morning to assist us as a financial trait which unites employees over world who visits your channel to a better life on a daily. Your the boss but we're slow and we're ready but first we have make a decision to be committed in helping each other as a oath which cannot be broken. ALUXER lets growth be evidence of our efforts and experience to grow the ALUX enterprise for more development in the community and internationally.

  • @catasstrophie
    @catasstrophie 2 роки тому +1

    Hey ALUX , could you please turn these videos into podcasts in spotify? Not all these videos are available there. I love the content and the ALUX team has been providing me with so much on self development. Thank you so much for being my mentor ALUX

  • @TheAlpha...
    @TheAlpha... 2 роки тому +1

    Ooh! Thank you so much,
    Both of them are on the first but settling is the most 🤦‍♂️

  • @nukhtube3752
    @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому +1

    I get it........I need this to be perfect, and if you can't get done perfectly you could never get it done. As said.

  • @SilentWarrior88
    @SilentWarrior88 2 роки тому +1

    Alux! First, I ❤️ and am always excited that I found your channel. Keeps me in some kind of self motivated state. Thank you! Second besides 3 and 8, this whole ass list is my problem. I’m aware and working on them one at a time. Hard pills to swallow recognizing and accepting these are my problems.
    Furthermore, 3 hasn’t ever been an issue for me; I don’t believe in it. I’ve recently come to terms and cultivated a self healing positive understanding to help progress me forward.

  • @thebookwasbetter3650
    @thebookwasbetter3650 2 роки тому +1

    "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky" ~ Michael Scott

  • @CheshireShade
    @CheshireShade 2 роки тому +1

    Great Video!
    To work off of 14. Getting over the fear of failing. I heard a wonderful acronym for the world Fail. Frequent Adaption Inspires Learning.

  • @mariemac5347
    @mariemac5347 2 роки тому +1

    I needed this, thank you!
    I’m off to Uni soon and I’m 45 and I’m dreading it, listening to this video has helped me a lot! Thank you so much.

  • @vichupb
    @vichupb 2 роки тому +5

    Much needed topic for me😅 !!!

  • @codemonk1999
    @codemonk1999 2 роки тому

    Feels like someone just pointed out all of me. I don't know if I will be able to fix all of these for me, I don't know if I am even trying hard to do so.

  • @pauljensen4773
    @pauljensen4773 Рік тому

    12 How do I appreciate myself without getting arrogant about what I've accomplished? There is a fine line between them.

  • @applepie3701
    @applepie3701 2 роки тому +1

    I think not settling and not having unrealistic expectations is kind of contradicting. Could you explain that please?

  • @drzafarullah76
    @drzafarullah76 2 роки тому

    Great work indeed. The speaker should also be visible. How do you prepare all?

  • @lochan8180
    @lochan8180 2 роки тому

    "And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
    The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works.
    Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone NOT FOUND written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV)
    Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.
    "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him
    should not perish but have everlasting life.
    For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV)
    By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely.

  • @adrianmukarati6419
    @adrianmukarati6419 2 роки тому

    Alux can u do how to deal with loneliness.
    i hv been single for 7 years n its starting to eat me slowly. im 28 now

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation 2 роки тому +2

    🌧🌧🌧🌧🌧🌧
    I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear
    🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @brandonr737
    @brandonr737 2 роки тому +4

    To Sum It Up: A Focused, Flexible, and Positive Mindset that is based in the Present Moment and Love for Others.

  • @sum6903
    @sum6903 2 роки тому

    It's not always about wealth n money, conscious matters and having strong morals is a goodwill asset .. financially speaking

  • @avinashkhopade4708
    @avinashkhopade4708 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks a million times for creating such immensely valuable videos! 🙏

  • @luxuryhub1323
    @luxuryhub1323 2 роки тому +1

    masturbation , unhealthy foods , bad credit , low cash flow , promiscuity

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 2 роки тому +1

    alux narrator could have said watch 15 videos from alux channel, which must not be avoided, daily to grow

  • @IceColdProfessional
    @IceColdProfessional Рік тому

    I would put SR at the top of this list. All these habits listed in the video cannot happen until one understands the power of Semen Retention.

  • @nandeshbarai1326
    @nandeshbarai1326 2 роки тому +2

    I needed this today. Thanks for this content.

  • @supermichaelssecondchannel4342
    @supermichaelssecondchannel4342 2 роки тому +1

    I love The Alux voice.

  • @elhar5966
    @elhar5966 2 роки тому +1

    I had to stop drinking liquor. Best choice I’ve made in a long time. Very effective

  • @minookalantari
    @minookalantari 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @l.rohitrohit3918
    @l.rohitrohit3918 2 роки тому +1

    Which is the best video in your channel that used to make money

  • @muneebkhan7465
    @muneebkhan7465 2 роки тому

    15( Fifteen)...Why alwaaaays 15?????Your channel uploads nice information.The only thing i couldn't understand is:- Why it should be alwaaaays 15 ( Fifteen)????Why not 14 or 16 or 9 or 19????And if 15 is your lucky number then it's a mockery of the stuff you upload in your videos

  • @BubbaSmurft
    @BubbaSmurft 2 роки тому

    I like how you showed a dood sharing his frustration with buying a Citroen in the FoF section.

  • @jotibasavagaonkar6993
    @jotibasavagaonkar6993 2 роки тому +1

    THANKYOU Team ALUX !!!

  • @antoniodossantos5960
    @antoniodossantos5960 2 роки тому

    Thanks ALUX 🌎 Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan immigrant writer 🇻🇪

  • @nukhtube3752
    @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому

    High realistic expectations....got it.

  • @TechieDishant
    @TechieDishant 2 роки тому

    one more point - exercise daily
    btw great video

  • @balwantsinghdhannawat9870
    @balwantsinghdhannawat9870 2 роки тому +1

    Hi, alux, highly motivating talk. Keep it up. Your suggestions to keep one on growth trajectory are commendable. My appreciation. Thanks

  • @xenariajackson2955
    @xenariajackson2955 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video!

  • @AmolEdm
    @AmolEdm 2 роки тому +1

    Why you guyz never gives the subtitles 🙄

  • @raunakjain3091
    @raunakjain3091 2 роки тому

    You missed one of the most important lesson which is "pick your battles"

  • @LifeAsYulia
    @LifeAsYulia 2 роки тому +3

    Such an inspiration!

  • @ntgroup1571
    @ntgroup1571 2 роки тому +1

    TEAM ALUX,
    I CANT DESCRIBE IN WORDS HOW MUCH U CHANGE MY LIFE. I FEEL WHEN I 1ST TIME SEE UR VIDEO IS MY LIFE MOST CHANGING MOMMENT FOR ALL POSITIVE THINGS IN EVEN COVID AND BUSINESS LOSSES. U GUYS GIVE ME VISION FOR LIFE, BUSINESS & DREAMS.
    REGARD'S
    NT GROUP
    HIMANSHU NIRWAN
    NEW DELHI, INDIA.

  • @towandaallen4739
    @towandaallen4739 2 роки тому +1

    Settling is dangerous, don't do it ever! 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @luyimaronald7222
    @luyimaronald7222 2 роки тому +1

    This is the best video full of brilliant advices , thanks alux🤝

  • @jkovert
    @jkovert 2 роки тому +3

    Most people are on a self-improvement journey? I must not know many of these "most people." And my own self-improvement project has served to alienate me from people I know because most of them SUCK. Good riddance. I'll do this alone if need be.

  • @divyanshusharma5357
    @divyanshusharma5357 2 роки тому +1

    Hello sir plz make video on manage time.

  • @peteradams6798
    @peteradams6798 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing and insightful video.

  • @ashudesmond3050
    @ashudesmond3050 2 роки тому

    Procrastination is the#1

  • @anikakana798
    @anikakana798 2 роки тому

    perfection does exist.

  • @TGREAT1
    @TGREAT1 2 роки тому +1

    15:00 this one needs to be 1st priority! Then expect doing something like #nikolatesla did!

  • @KingAlphaOmega
    @KingAlphaOmega 2 роки тому +1

    Morality destroys all those points you just mentioned.

  • @belvillej
    @belvillej 2 роки тому

    Keep focus on only one thing.

  • @veloraptor712
    @veloraptor712 2 роки тому

    I love this video. Really helpful.

    • @veloraptor712
      @veloraptor712 2 роки тому

      What code goes infront that number?

  • @errolm8313
    @errolm8313 2 роки тому

    Don't marry someone that you're not compatible with. If your goal is personal growth and self improvement and life's freedom.... Don't marry someone that values family. One of you are bound to be miserable.

  • @nukhtube3752
    @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому

    Wow...required confidence.

  • @GVChannel
    @GVChannel 2 роки тому

    Awesome ideas 👍 🥰!

  • @jay_2423
    @jay_2423 Рік тому

    Also avoid the unhappy and the unlucky

  • @colinchandler6516
    @colinchandler6516 2 роки тому

    thank you

  • @lanalove2780
    @lanalove2780 Рік тому

    Outstanding information 👏🏾 👍🏿 🙌🏾 complete facts

  • @mariemohan2383
    @mariemohan2383 2 роки тому

    Thanks!

  • @paulamichelleintoku
    @paulamichelleintoku 2 роки тому

    This worst about this video is the fact that your saying perfection doesn’t exist. It does becsue you cannot have imperfection with out first having perfection unless you were born imperfect with issues there are a lot of people that don’t have issues.
    Perfection does exist and no it’s not normal to have issues the issues are there because perfect was interrupted by an issue.

  • @clementifangblog8583
    @clementifangblog8583 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @nukhtube3752
    @nukhtube3752 2 роки тому

    Self doubt go crazy.

  • @hergenesilva7566
    @hergenesilva7566 2 роки тому

    Bunos is always worth waiting for

  • @pankajprasoon9610
    @pankajprasoon9610 2 роки тому

    Do not settle for less.

  • @doriancid6937
    @doriancid6937 2 роки тому

    Thank you!

  • @ibrahimmustafa9665
    @ibrahimmustafa9665 2 роки тому

    I am Grow step by step

  • @hugh009
    @hugh009 2 роки тому

    I have been guilty of all except Number 15!

  • @irenelopez8745
    @irenelopez8745 2 роки тому +1

    Go for ALL OF IT, DON’T LEAVE ANYTHING BEHIND🙏🙋🏻‍♀️💯NO REGRETS 🙏🙋🏻‍♀️💕🙌🏼💯

  • @thakurtimmy8624
    @thakurtimmy8624 2 роки тому

    Thanks alotes aluxes 👌✌👍

  • @b.p.m.5136
    @b.p.m.5136 2 роки тому

    Best to get up early for growth

  • @alitar9330
    @alitar9330 2 роки тому

    Negative patterns or habits

  • @siddharth001
    @siddharth001 2 роки тому +1

    Not taking actions

  • @MsMaxinejoy
    @MsMaxinejoy 2 роки тому

    Anyone that talks down to you, kick them to the curb.

  • @romeoromarick2710
    @romeoromarick2710 Рік тому

    Living in the past instead of reminiscing about it

  • @hugh009
    @hugh009 2 роки тому

    I now keep FROGGY right beside me to remind me NOT to procrastinate!

  • @ryantata6694
    @ryantata6694 Рік тому

    I believe 8:42 sat down in a wheelchair

  • @nalazhouse5185
    @nalazhouse5185 2 роки тому

    ALL!!!

  • @cherylphillips8054
    @cherylphillips8054 2 роки тому

    Procrastination

  • @nister261
    @nister261 Рік тому

    Comparison

  • @amadudeboizbhah2353
    @amadudeboizbhah2353 2 роки тому

    You guys are the best

  • @hppluslife4998
    @hppluslife4998 2 роки тому

    procrastination