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We moved my mom into a small retirement home with assisted living, in a private room with bathroom, when she was around stage 5. Best decision we ever made, my dad could not deal with her as he was older, and she actually thrived for another 4 years. She has now progressed rapidly to stage 7 but the home is willing to keep her there, we are with her daily and can spend time on caring for her just like you described. This also allowed her family members to still live their own lives and not get physically and emotionally burnt out. I think people underestimate the toll caregiving for a person with dementia can take, and that it is progressive and does not get better. My heart goes out to everyone who has the disease and to their caregivers to find strength to know when it’s time to move the person they love into a place that can care for them. There is no shame in that at all.
I'm glad that you all made the transition early and it proved to be beneficial. I agree, there is definitely no shame in setting up living arrangements that can best meet the needs of your person living with dementia. So many feel guilty about placing their person in a nursing home, care home, assisted living facility, or memory care facility. As you pointed out, it can often turn out to be a really good thing for everyone involved. I do, however, wish it was more affordable for people, but that's a whole other conversation. Thanks for watching and commenting. 💜
You have described the stages of dementia better than anyone I’ve listened to! You are awesome! Thank you so much. I now think my husband is in stage 6
I am caring for my husband with Young Onset Alzheimer’s. He was diagnosed at 55 and is now 59. He is mid stage 6 at present. I have been researching this awful disease for almost 4 years. Your video popped up tonight while I was looking at another video about Memory Care. You have done an OUTSTANDING job with this video in explaining this topic. I have not watched your other videos since we are already in mid stage 6. I am exhausted. I so want to put him in respite care just for a month 2 or 3 times a year but after a recent surgery, he had a bad experience 2 hours after coming out of surgery and anesthesia. He had to be restrained and is a retired law enforcement officer and a very big guy. I can’t imagine him going through this again. So, I’m doing my best to care for him at home. Of all the videos I have watched on this topic, yours was the most informative and succinct. Excellent job. You clearly seem to have picked the right career training!
Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate it! Yeah surgery and anesthesia...I mean hospital stays in general, can take such a huge toll on people living with dementia. I can definitely understand your desire to want to take a month long respite a few times a year. Maybe you could explore the option of in-home respite (possibly even through local community organization volunteers)....maybe for not as long, but he'd be cared for in a familiar place with the potential to keep a consistent routine and then you are the one who would leave the home to explore and take a break.
This is my first ever UA-cam comment - and you are worth it. As a lifelong educator, I am so impressed with your teaching ability. This is the most comprehensive explanation I have ever heard. And I have heard a lot! Thank you.
You have done a wonderful job explaining the stages of dementia! My mother seems to be in stage 6. I pray 🙏🏽 that she gets healed from this horrible disease!
This is depressing. i cant imagine how much empathy one must have to take care of someone with dementia knowing they are slowly turning i to a human sized baby who will eventually die. God bless all caregivers ❤️
Thank you I think my husband is on stage 6 due to his behavior You touched on some much of what's going on in this stage I can relate to so much the aggression lost track of time can be violent and Aggressive
She explained it better than ANY video I've watched so far. Moms going through this now and it's heartbreaking. 😪 When she said a person may call u by your name but then say no the other Amy, that hit home 🏡 for me. My mom said "Where's Linda" I told her "Im right here".... mom said "No the other Linda." This video helped me so much. Thank you.
Linda, my mother keeps asking and saying that her daughters aren't visiting her. She has 1, me, but she's wondering where the younger me is or the middle age me, I'm 64. She knows I'm Shelley, but is totally confused.
You’re breaking it down much easier than what I found others to do. Thank you. I now know what stage my husband is because of the way you’re breaking it down.
Thank you! From the sounds of this video …My mum is in early stage 6. My mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia 2019 at 69 years of age. I search daily for any information I can to prepare myself for what’s to come. I grieve everyday for the person I once knew…and just want to make things as comfortable as possible for however long she has with us. Thank you again, this video has been so helpful.
You are welcome! Your mom is lucky to have you as a part of your journey. It's definitely tough though. I can understand the grieving part. If you ever need more support or are looking for more information and resources you can always join us inside the Treehouse! 💜 letsbambu.com/treehouse
Thank you so much I finally understand what is going on with my mother. I just thought she was crazy and mean. Doctors do not give a good explanation of what is going on. Again thank you.
You are welcome! Yeah some doctors really don’t give you much information to work with. & you know some people are crazy and mean, but there’s usually more to the story! ❤️ Thanks for watching!
Bre’anna you are are an awesome educator. I watched so many videos while caring for my Mom who had Alzheimers, she passed a year ago. We are now caring for my mother-n-law that has vascular dementia. You are by far the best. Thank you so much and God bless you!
So sorry for your loss! I'm glad your mother-in-law has you and your family to help care for her through her journey. Please let me know if you ever have any questions. Thanks for all you do to care for those living with dementia. 💜
A very informative, explicit and simply worded explanation of the last two stages of dementia. The speaker’s explanations and descriptions of the progress in Stages 6 and 7 are clear, slow and well enunciated. A well presented Bambi Care Champions presentation. Thank you.
Thank you so much, Bre'anna. Your explanation of these Stages are much better and easier to understand than most videos I've listened to on UA-cam. I could "place" my mom easily in Stage 6 based on your description and examples, and you state clearly what is "normal" or to be expected at each stage of the disease. I am going to be sure to watch all your videos on Dementia. Your time and effort to make these videos is so appreciated!
You did an amazing job explaining these stages. We are presently, and unfortunately, going through stage 7, w/ our mom. The decline in eating, weight-loss, and fighting bedsores, are definitely the most challenging now. I was so proud of the fact that, although she started losing weight, I'd been able to keep bedsores at bay. But. Once she started sleeping more, it caught up w/us. Now, it's a daily, rotations game with her body, and, it is not easy, since she no longer has sufficient padding of her bony areas on her hips to fight it. You get one area healed, then another wants to break down. You feel like you're fighting windmills!!! But. I digress. Trying so hard to make sure she has the care, love & comfort that she so deserves. She certainly gave it to us, as long as she could. God bless you for all of the education you share on dementia. Your information is absolutely, invaluable!😘
Thank you so much! Yes, bed sores are such a booger even with frequent repositioning, extra pillows and padded repositioners, at a certain point, it can become really hard to keep bony prominences protected. I'm glad your mom has you to help care for you as she goes through her journey. I can tell you love and care for your mom very much! Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment! 💜
Can you give me tips and tricks, advice or anything. We are slowly entering this stage and I need to know what kinds of supplies I will need to continue to care for my mom at home.
There are so many reasons why a person may refuse to eat. Here’s a blog post where we discussed 10 reasons: www.letsbambu.com/post/10-reasons-a-person-with-dementia-may-refuse-to-eat So first we have to figure out why and then we can determine if there’s something we can do to address the issue.
Outstanding Job! My dad seems to be in a combined stage of late 6 and early 7. it is terribly heartbreaking to witness his decline but we are making memories.
Aww thank you! Yes, it is very heartbreaking - a very good word choice. It's definitely hard to watch, which why I think unfortunately, many people choose not to. I'm glad your hanging in there and doing your best to create joyful moments!
Thank you for filling me in on my mother’s Dementia. She is in 6-7 and sleeps a lot and doesn’t want to eat . She has UTI more than ever before. And barely talks at all anymore. It is so hard to see her struggling with this illness.
I'm so sorry to hear what you’re going through with your mother. Dementia, especially in the later stages, can be incredibly challenging to navigate, both emotionally and physically. Thank you for being there for your mother. I know it’s not easy! ❤️❤️❤️
My poor mom. Shes 96 and going through this now. She cries because she says everyone is gone. Shes scared and just seems so lost. I hate seeing her like this. It is indeed the long sad goodbye ❤
Thank you Brianna. I’m caring for my husband, who has dementia. It’s been a tough time figuring out where he is in the desire process. Your presentation was very helpful to me. Thank you.
Thank you for such a detailed description of the stages of dementia! You answered so many of my questions on what stage my mom is in! I now know why she acts the way she does and what to expect. It really helped me to decide what is best for her!!
This is the *best* video I’ve watched to date! I really appreciate you getting straight to the point and staying on task without over explaining. Your energy is so calming, centered and humble; that also makes it so much easier to learn what you’re teaching. I can’t wait to check out your other videos!
I feel, caring for a parent with dementia, almost like I’m learning how to take care of a newborn. Like, where’s the instruction manual? I need a roadmap to what to do care-wise at what stage. Your videos are the closest I’ve found to that.
I really appreciate you saying that! I highly recommend our book With Intent: A Practical Guide to Navigating Behaviors Along the Dementia Care Journey. It really simplifies the primary, major things you need to know to get through this journey in a productive, non-destructive way. If you want to check it out the link is: amzn.to/3TBw8Ms We also have what’s called the Treehouse which is essentially a dementia care library full of videos, podcasts, blogs, printable resources, activities, webinars, even product recommendations. ( letsbambu.com/treehouse ) And of course we have the Ultimate Resource Guide for Dementia Caregivers. It has over 100 resources that span across 20 important areas relevant to the dementia care journey. ( www.letsbambu.com/product/hidden-in-plain-sight-the-ultimate-resource-guide-for-dementia-caregivers ) I hope this information helps 💜 We also have a free support community if you want to join us there! ( letsbambu.com/champions ) Sorry, I know that was a lot! 😬✨
My husband is in 6 & 7. I thought stage 5 was going to kill me with “the long goodbye “. You definitely coined that phrase. So hard and so bittersweet indeed. So sorry you’re having to go through it as well.
This is excellent! Best presenter ever. I have found many professionals in this field won't help with discussing stages. Thank you. I realize my sister is now at stage 6. She is 61, with early onset Alzheimer's. Got diagnosed August 2018 at stage 4. I'm with her 24-7, gave up work 2 years ago to care for her. Am exhausted. She's stopped being affectionate which hurts a lot.
Thank you! Yes, many find that it's not helpful or relevant because the stages are not concrete and it can vary, but I personally think it's good to have some basic knowledge about the stages. I think it can be helpful in knowing what to expect and what's typical for the progression of dementia so that people can try to prepare. I can't imagine how tough that must be. I know finding help can be hard, especially now-a-days, but make sure you are prioritizing self-care!
Breanna, I finally understand the stages of alzheimer's. It's by far the best video & books that I have seen & read! Brilliant! Thank you ever so much! Continue the good work!
Your presentation is truly excellent. As a school psychologist during my working years I am now learning from your expertise how do better support a dear relative. Keep up you delightful teaching style. You're the best!
Aww that’s so sweet of you to say. Comments like you all’s is what keeps me going. My podcasts are much easier to keep up with than videos, but hopefully once I get settled again, It’ll be easier to put out more videos too! :) thank you 💜
My grandmother is 94 and is somewhere between 6 and 6.5 or very early 7. Her behavior is deplorable, but only with me and my mom (which is her daughter). We are her sole caregiver's and her level of resentment is on 100. Lol Anyway, thanks for this info, as her physicians seem like we should just take each day as it comes. Your info definitely resonates. Be blessed, Queen.
Yeah unfortunately it seems to work out that way sometimes. It’s kind of like that saying “we treat the ones we love (or the ones closest to us) the worst.” It’s usually because subconsciously or even consciously we know they will put up with it more than some random person you just met and can’t trust to know how they will respond. But, of course, it can also be because our loved ones have more opportunities to rub us the wrong way because we are around them the most. Hang in there 💜💙
I relived my sisters stage 1-7 with her dementia as I listened to you explain the symptoms. She passed away quietly one evening. She said many times she was ready to go home
Great video information on a long journey. My husband is in stage 5 with some of 6 happening. He is at home with a palliative care team from a local hospice MainStreet company in our community.
It’s definitely a tough journey. If you need support as you go through your journey with your mother, feel free to join our free support community at letsbambu.com/champions ; I’m more than happy to support you the best way I can and answer any questions you have as they come up! 💜
This was very informative, and well done. My mother in law is in stage 6 dementia. Plus last month she had a stroke because of her dementia. Her dementia meant she wasn't remembering to take care of herself. Pills for her AFIB. Bathing, many other things. So because of this she had a stroke. Now she's living g here as long as we can take care of her. Mostly me. It's a good thing I have experience in this field. I really appreciated your video.
Thank you so much Breanna…My husband is between 6-7 you are the best to help us…it is very sad to deal with , but so grateful for the time we have left…
Excellent presentation. ..I'm looking after my 90 year old father with various conditions including cancer and dimentia. I think we are in Stage 6 to 7 ...the worst to deal with is the' 'let me go home' episodes😧😩
Aww thank you! Yeah, that’s definitely challenging! Maybe you will find this podcast episode helpful: Podcast Ep: "I Want to Go Home" Reasons Why + How to Respond [Dementia] ua-cam.com/video/i6JhwyKIsTI/v-deo.html
You explain everything so well and are so easy to listen to. Your a blessing to someone going through the stages my mom is in. Very appreciative to you have listened to you explain things so well.
Most helpful, thank you so much. I'm a caregiver of a 95 year old Alzheimer's person. I think she's in stage 6-7. Her 75 year old daughter and I take care of her at home. Exhausting, but we love her. Much Love to you. ❤️
Yes, caring for someone living with dementia can be very demanding! Stay encouraged ❤️. Even if she doesn’t say it or show it I’m sure she’s very grateful for all the nurture and care she’s getting.
My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia in July 2022 but I think he started around 2018 with it. And now by watching this video. Thank you so much I know where my dad is at Stage 5 mid going on 6 😢 He just remembers mostly everything from the past. But has difficulty from present time. I have to tell him to take a shower, brush his teeth and shave. He fights with me cause he doesn’t want to do it and I have to go to the bathroom with him so he can wash his hands 😔 he’s 85 and my mom is 84 so me and my girlfriend who is a caregiver takes care of them. When my dad says he has to go pee he gets paper to wipe his but thinking he pooped and he didn’t 😔 He’s very repetitive saying things like where am I at and why do you got to leave and I would tell him I don’t live with you anymore and the more you tell him he doesn’t get it. Also I’ve taken him to my place lots of times and says things like I’ve never been here before who’s place is this etc.. It’s heartbreaking 💔 seeing my dad like this 😢
Thanks for sharing! It can definitely can be heartbreaking to witness. Your dad is lucky to have you to care for him as he goes through his journey though. Even you watching this video to understand more says a lot about you and shows that you care! 💜 Bambu Care ( letsbambu.com ) has tons of resources if you are ever needing more support along your journey caring for your dad - and we are always accepting requests :)
This series has clarified the stage my best friend is in, and it is Stage 5. I need to find a way to be with him more often and that is my current goal. TY so much for this easy to understand and valuable info!!!!
Thank you for the break down of the stages. Sounds like we are at stage 4 with my partner. The best I can do to care for her and thats what I am going to do. I have been trying to get her daughter involved. She has helped some. Have fun while you are young. The end comes and no stopping it.
Thank you! The is the BEST explanation. I watched every single step of this with my father-in-law, and now my mom 2dxd with Alzheimer's and she's probably around stage five. I hate this cruel disease.
You are welcome. Sorry it took me a couple of days to respond. But, yes, it really is such a tough disease. Let me know if you have any questions or need support Holly!
You are a gold mine, beautiful inside and outside, you are very informative and personal I was struggling with some issues but you really helped me I'm feeling much better keep up the great work, God Bless ❤
Oh Josie your comment just made my day! Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm always here to help! Let me know if you ever have any questions or topics you would like me to address! 💜
You are welcome! Thank you for sharing that. If your mother is in the last stage another video you may find informative is: Late Stage Dementia vs. End of Life ua-cam.com/video/q53h3vNqqps/v-deo.html Sending grace & peace your way! ❤️
Very informative. I wonder why caregivers and family often don't learn more about the disease. It makes caring for the patient so much easier to be knowledgeable.
It definitely does. I think it’s because a lot of health care professionals including doctors aren’t knowledgeable unless it’s their specialty and so they don’t set up family members with resources. It’s unfortunate. I hope to be able to do more work in the community soon
Hi the message was so powerful to me my mum was diagnosed in June 2023 I'm taking care of her. Thanks for the message now she's between stage 6-7 as you explained the behaviors of different staged.
You are very authentic Bre'anna---love this video. My father is in Stage 6 and very hungry, all the time--but losing muscle mass. He has fallen several times so far without bone breaks thank goodness. The wound care is needed now, I bought bed floor pads for him. I plan to eventually rent a hospital bed when the time comes.
Aww that’s very sweet of you! I definitely strive for authenticity! I’m glad your dad hasn’t broken anything! Falls can be tough. Let me know if you ever have any questions. Wishing you well on your care journey! 💜
I’m glad you mentioned your dad being hungry all the time. I’m glad my loved one is eating but I’m trying to understand this constant hunger. I don’t know if the cues to her brain isn’t letting her know that she isn’t hungry. It’s very confusing to me.
Mom has dementia and she is so mean, and she yells and kicks me out of her house after driving 2 1/2 hours to her house. She likes to yell and kick me out in front of family members!! I hate it!! My stepfather goes along with it!!! She kicked my out of the hospital because I bought her flowers from the grocery store instead of the gift shop!! The gift shop was closed, because it was a sunday!!
I responded to your other comment with this message. I try to respond to all my comments so even if you post your comment just once I will still see it :) Message: I'm sorry your mother is being mean to you and that your interactions with your mom and stepfather haven't been so pleasant. There are number of reasons why your mother could be being mean to you and it would be hard as an outsider looking in to say exactly why this could be as I would have to have a better understanding of the situation and the family dynamics. There also may be some boundaries that need to be set with your stepfather, but that's a whole other situation. Since you said she starts out nice and then becomes mean and agitated I would take note of what's happened leading up the point of her becoming that way. What triggers the change? How long are you there before things turn sour? Is it 15 minutes. Is it 30? Is it longer? When she asks you to leave, what does she say? Does she give a reason; What is her reason? Do you acknowledge the request, say your goodbyes and just leave or do you say something else? What do you say and does this make the situation better or worse? One thing we have to keep in mind is that when someone becomes agitated, regardless of the reason why, we can either add water to the fire or add fuel to the fire. Water will tame it out and fuel will of course make it worse. In all cases of agitation, we always want to add water (whatever that may look like for the given situation). Water could look like acknowledging what they've said, validating their feelings, giving space, and honoring requests. Fuel would like arguing, trying to defend ourselves, pointing out the inaccuracies in what they are saying, refusing to honor requests because it doesn't make sense to us, continuing to do something another person clearly doesn't like - things that are pretty natural to do, but may not be helpful. Also, if you want to continue to visit your mom but are worried about driving a long way just for a short visit, consider making other plans in the area. That way, your trip won't feel wasted even if the visit is short. You can still enjoy the mini road trip and make the most of it.
Thank you.Your presentation was the most simple and understandable of anything I've seen.We have been having a hard time getting a grasp on where my mom is in terms of the different stages.This gave me a very clear sense that she is moving from stage 5 into 6 and what to be prepared for and to watch out for.
Excellent overview. My mom in law is in between stage 6 and 7. Very nasty disease. I agree the feet gets overlooked. My mom loves the massages and stroking. Thank you, again.
Thank you for this video. I’m new to knowing about dementia (mom is likely 6/7 and can’t speak but is somewhat mobile and in a care home). Your voice is perfect and the way you speak to, for informative videos. You conveyed this information in a way that was pleasant/neutral enough and not in a dreary way like some dementia videos are.
I agree, this is the best description, with examples, that I've ever come across. It's helpful to recognize where they are on the dementia timeliness and to know what to expect in the next phase. Thank you.
thank you for a very detailed account of the 6 and 7 stages of dementia. My husband is now in stage 6 going thru 7. He is constantly exhausted and will have to sit down after a brief situation involving simple motions like getting dressed. He has a hard time breathing and does have a heart problem. He sleeps long hours and I wonder if I should wake him.
You are welcome! It’s not uncommon for people with dementia to sleep more as their condition progresses. He is likely exerting more energy whether physically or cognitively (especially if the environment is overstimulating), than his body and brain are able to handle and thus finds himself fatigued and in need of sleep. One of the main reasons we recommend balancing activity and rest and adapting the environment to reduce cognitive fatigue. Another big reason people with dementia sleep a lot is lack of stimulation and/or boredom. So it can really depend on what’s going on.
When I found out, I invested in talking, listening and loving my Uncle, He spent all of his life learning, teaching and working. So it is painful to know that he can’t even speak anymore. He always placed a huge emphasis on having money and protecting his money and now; he doesn’t even know what money is. After crying so much and getting depressed; the Holy Spirit told me to appreciate and thank father Yah for the 56 years that I enjoyed with him. So now I smile when I think of home and am so grateful to The Father that he allowed me to be his niece and how much I benefited as a result of listening and learning from him. I retired at 40yrs old with 5 significant degrees and have read two books a month for 30yrs. I know know that I must cherish each day that I am “clothe my right mind”.
You are welcome. I’m proud of you for being proactive along your sister’s journey. You may find this podcast episode we did helpful regarding Lewy body dementia: anchor.fm/whatthedementia/episodes/042--Lewy-Body-Dementia--Those-Darn-Lewy-bodies-eni71b
The descriptions are very clear. I accompany my loved one to visit her doctors, but they haven't given me as good an appreciation of the stages. In addition, this video has encouraged me to let the loved one do more on her own or by the two of us together.
My grandmother lived with Alzheimer’s for 25 years, she remained mobile, could still feed herself and talk, she was this way until she passed at 93. I am currently caring for my 83-year-old mother who has Alzheimer’s most likely stage six, in the later stage of it. Nothing she says makes any sense, she talks all the time, especially in her sleep, she is very mobile and can feed herself. She does not sleep at night, up every hour, sometimes every half hour, she takes a 30 minute nap during the day. I don’t know how she can keep going on so little sleep! I know it’s exhausting me to try to care for her when I only get 3 to 4 hours of sleep a night because my Mom is constantly getting out of bed at night!
Yeah unfortunately, different people can progress through the course of dementia at different rates and misdiagnosis is also common when it comes to doctors identifying the right type of dementia because it is still very misunderstood (not to say this is the case, but it does happen quite often). But, in the regards to your mother and her not sleeping much at night, there could be a number of things going on. First, has she always had trouble sleeping as an adult or is this new?, could it be a medication she’s on?, when she gets up, what is she getting up to do? When she takes a 30 minute nap during the day what time is she taking the nap? What does the rest of her day look like?
What stage is hearing noises , my Mom complains of her doorbell ringing all night and she called the police as she said she was baby sitting a child went upstairs and came back down and he was gone. The police called me and they immediately knew she had dementia after I told her she wasn’t baby sitting a child . While she can carry a great conversation with you she has these moments along with having to be prompted to care for herself .
Hi Gwen, hearing noises that aren't actually there (auditory hallucination) or seeing a child when there actually isn't one (visual hallucination) are not associated with any particular stage. People with dementia can experience auditory and visual hallucinations at any stage, although it's more common in the middle or later stages of dementia. Also, hallucinations are more common in some dementias than others. For example, visual hallucinations in Lewy Body dementia is particularly common and can sometimes even be one of the first signs. If she has to be prompted to care for herself, but can still do those care tasks herself after the prompting, she's likely around stage 5. Of course that can depend on the type of dementia she has as the 7 stage model is most accurate to Alzheimer's disease. You can learn more here (Stages of Dementia: 4 & 5 ua-cam.com/video/zkKi9_-tYbQ/v-deo.html ) Stage 5 starts at 8:24. Knowing the exact stage is not particularly important in many cases, though it can be helpful. I hope that answers your question. :)
Only just found you, you have been wonderful in presenting all this information so clearly. It will help so many people to understand and deal with all the steps you've talked about. Thank you so much.
My wife is 56 with early onset Alzheimer’s, and seems to fit exactly into stage 6. You described some of her behaviors and abilities exactly. She is happy and totally healthy now (not even a cavity), but I dread the next stage. I assume that is when a nursing home becomes the best option. Thank you!
I hope your wife is still happy and healthy! For some a nursing home will be the best option, but for others with the right home setup and support, potentially from outside caregivers to lessen the demand on the family, people tend to do better at home, especially if agitation or aggression isn’t an issue. It all depends!
Stephen... So sorry. So young. My husband is in early stage 7. I have just started having a nursing assistant come in 3 days a week for a couple of hours each day. 2-3 hours. I have had him evaluated twice for hospice. I was told they can take him on in 2-3 months. I hope to keep him at home.
My`hubby is at stage 6..easing into stage 7. I have researched this disease and am involved with spousal support weekly sessions with the local Alzheimer's Group. I am also a participant is several UA-cam dementia groups. Your presentations are the most informative and succinct! Your examples are on point and I found myself nodding throughout. I am his sole caretaker as there is no one else. I have to have long-delayed surgery and will need him in a facility for a two-month respite. Based on your experience, do these late-stage dementia patients decline if they undergo a change of venue?? I won't be able to drive but I can visit digitally.
Thank you so much for your kind words, and I'm glad you found our channel helpful! It's wonderful to hear that the examples resonated with you. Unfortunately, what you’re asking is something we do often see with dementia. Any change in environment can lead to a decline in function, especially in the later stages. For some, the decline is temporary, and once they settle in and adjust or the facility can better meet any unmet needs, their function may stabilize or improve back to their normal baseline. However, for others, the change can be more permanent, and they may experience a decline to a new, lower baseline. I wish you all the best with your surgery and hope it goes smoothly and you have a speedy recovery! Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have more questions. 💜
Thank you thank you thank you for your insights.... i feel like my mum is def level 6 . $ome days she's ok other days she thinks I'm her husband and my nephew is her baby
Aww you are welcome! If you ever need a support community along your care journey you are more than welcome to join us in the Bambu Care Champions community - it’s free! We’d love to have you! 💜 letsbambu.com/champions
Breanna, you are doing a fantastic job detailing the different stages of dementia. I truly appreciate how you point out that each patient has a different base line and how important it is to let them do as much as possible for themselves so they don't lose those functions even faster. You are truly a great educator the way you are describing what to expect at each stage and how you also point out those moments when patients suddenly appear totally lucid. Thank you for everything you are doing! P.S.: Are you familiar with chicken therapy for people with dementia?
Aww thank you for your comment! I really appreciate your kind words! ❤ If you are talking about when they bring different farm animals like chickens and goats then yes! Such a neat experience. At care facilities some will bring actually bring some of the animals inside and then others will set up a "petting zoo" like experience outside for the residents and bring them out in their wheelchairs or whatever they are using for mobility! Do you have experience with chicken therapy? Some care facilities even have small farms on their property that residents will tend to and care for! So awesome!
@@BambuCare I mean every single word I wrote! You are not just a pretty person on the outside, you also have a beautiful soul and personality! I have chickens myself and can vouch for their soothing and calming effect but have not personally seen them brought into care facilities like they do with the HenPower projects in the UK (where they actually have their own chicken coops) here in the US (however, you just mentioned that some care facilities have their own farms so I might have to stand corrected 😉). There was a study done on these projects by the University of Northumbria revealing that hen keeping wasn’t simply a pleasurable, social activity for people with dementia (many of whom had kept chickens as children and handling them brings back some familiarity), their clucking noises (mine even purr when I pet them) could also have a calming effect, helped lower blood pressure and heart rate, and reduced the use of anti-psychotic drugs for aggression. It's amazing how Mother Nature sometimes provides us with the very best of medicines! Again, thank you for your detailed presentation. Allow me to send you a lot of good vibes as well as tons of energy to support your strength to be somebody's caring angel💖💖Just make sure you take good care of yourself as well - it's one of the toughest jobs you are tackling!
@@andreamortimer2610 "It's amazing how Mother Nature sometimes provides us with the very best of medicines!" You said that perfectly and yes, it is amazing. So many amazing things provided by mother nature are often looked over as therapeutic, even healing remedies! That's so cool that you care for and raise chickens! And yes, there are some care facilities in the US that have a farm on the property as well, but it's definitely not a widespread thing, unfortunately. I hope that over the years the predominant model of care we currently see will change and look more like what we see in many other countries that are very progressive in their care models! & thank you! I will definitely try to take good care of myself. Thank you for caring about my well-being! 💜
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We moved my mom into a small retirement home with assisted living, in a private room with bathroom, when she was around stage 5. Best decision we ever made, my dad could not deal with her as he was older, and she actually thrived for another 4 years. She has now progressed rapidly to stage 7 but the home is willing to keep her there, we are with her daily and can spend time on caring for her just like you described. This also allowed her family members to still live their own lives and not get physically and emotionally burnt out. I think people underestimate the toll caregiving for a person with dementia can take, and that it is progressive and does not get better. My heart goes out to everyone who has the disease and to their caregivers to find strength to know when it’s time to move the person they love into a place that can care for them. There is no shame in that at all.
I'm glad that you all made the transition early and it proved to be beneficial. I agree, there is definitely no shame in setting up living arrangements that can best meet the needs of your person living with dementia. So many feel guilty about placing their person in a nursing home, care home, assisted living facility, or memory care facility. As you pointed out, it can often turn out to be a really good thing for everyone involved. I do, however, wish it was more affordable for people, but that's a whole other conversation.
Thanks for watching and commenting. 💜
Your presentation is the most articulate explanation of this topic I have ever heard. Thank you. Keep up the good work!
Thank you! That is very sweet of you to say ❤
You have described the stages of dementia better than anyone I’ve listened to! You are awesome! Thank you so much. I now think my husband is in stage 6
Thank you! I'm glad you found the video helpful in figuring out what stage your husband may be in. 💜
I am caring for my husband with Young Onset Alzheimer’s. He was diagnosed at 55 and is now 59. He is mid stage 6 at present. I have been researching this awful disease for almost 4 years. Your video popped up tonight while I was looking at another video about Memory Care. You have done an OUTSTANDING job with this video in explaining this topic. I have not watched your other videos since we are already in mid stage 6. I am exhausted. I so want to put him in respite care just for a month 2 or 3 times a year but after a recent surgery, he had a bad experience 2 hours after coming out of surgery and anesthesia. He had to be restrained and is a retired law enforcement officer and a very big guy. I can’t imagine him going through this again. So, I’m doing my best to care for him at home. Of all the videos I have watched on this topic, yours was the most informative and succinct. Excellent job. You clearly seem to have picked the right career training!
Thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate it! Yeah surgery and anesthesia...I mean hospital stays in general, can take such a huge toll on people living with dementia.
I can definitely understand your desire to want to take a month long respite a few times a year. Maybe you could explore the option of in-home respite (possibly even through local community organization volunteers)....maybe for not as long, but he'd be cared for in a familiar place with the potential to keep a consistent routine and then you are the one who would leave the home to explore and take a break.
This is my first ever UA-cam comment - and you are worth it. As a lifelong educator, I am so impressed with your teaching ability. This is the most comprehensive explanation I have ever heard. And I have heard a lot! Thank you.
Aww that is very sweet of you. Thank you so much for your comment! ❤️
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I agree! She is explains very simply what to expect. Her explanation is short and concise.
You have done a wonderful job explaining the stages of dementia! My mother seems to be in stage 6. I pray 🙏🏽 that she gets healed from this horrible disease!
Thank you! I'm glad your mom has you there to be a part of her journey.
This is depressing.
i cant imagine how much empathy one must have to take care of someone with dementia knowing they are slowly turning i to a human sized baby who will eventually die.
God bless all caregivers ❤️
Yes, being a dementia care partner is definitely a super tough role! It really is heartbreaking.
By far the most physically, emotionally and mentally exhausting job I have ever done
Thank you
I think my husband is on stage 6 due to his behavior
You touched on some much of what's going on in this stage
I can relate to so much the aggression lost track of time can be violent and Aggressive
She explained it better than ANY video I've watched so far. Moms going through this now and it's heartbreaking. 😪 When she said a person may call u by your name but then say no the other Amy, that hit home 🏡 for me. My mom said "Where's Linda" I told her "Im right here".... mom said "No the other Linda." This video helped me so much. Thank you.
You are welcome! Stay strong 💜💙💜
Linda, my mother keeps asking and saying that her daughters aren't visiting her. She has 1, me, but she's wondering where the younger me is or the middle age me, I'm 64. She knows I'm Shelley, but is totally confused.
You’re breaking it down much easier than what I found others to do. Thank you. I now know what stage my husband is because of the way you’re breaking it down.
Great to hear! ❤️
Thank you! From the sounds of this video …My mum is in early stage 6. My mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia 2019 at 69 years of age. I search daily for any information I can to prepare myself for what’s to come. I grieve everyday for the person I once knew…and just want to make things as comfortable as possible for however long she has with us. Thank you again, this video has been so helpful.
You are welcome! Your mom is lucky to have you as a part of your journey. It's definitely tough though. I can understand the grieving part. If you ever need more support or are looking for more information and resources you can always join us inside the Treehouse! 💜 letsbambu.com/treehouse
This is one of the most complete series that explains in detail all behaviors that come along ..
I'm glad to hear so! Let me know if you have any other questions! :)
My husband is definitely in stage 6. Everything your telling us is so true. It’s getting so much harder. This is definitely the long goodbye.
💜💜💜 sending grace and peace your way!
Thank you so much I finally understand what is going on with my mother. I just thought she was crazy and mean. Doctors do not give a good explanation of what is going on. Again thank you.
You are welcome! Yeah some doctors really don’t give you much information to work with.
& you know some people are crazy and mean, but there’s usually more to the story! ❤️
Thanks for watching!
Bre’anna you are are an awesome educator. I watched so many videos while caring for my Mom who had Alzheimers, she passed a year ago. We are now caring for my mother-n-law that has vascular dementia. You are by far the best. Thank you so much and God bless you!
So sorry for your loss! I'm glad your mother-in-law has you and your family to help care for her through her journey. Please let me know if you ever have any questions. Thanks for all you do to care for those living with dementia. 💜
A very informative, explicit and simply worded explanation of the last two stages of dementia. The speaker’s explanations and descriptions of the progress in Stages 6 and 7 are clear, slow and well enunciated. A well presented Bambi Care Champions presentation. Thank you.
Thank you Margaret! 💜
Thank you so much, Bre'anna. Your explanation of these Stages are much better and easier to understand than most videos I've listened to on UA-cam. I could "place" my mom easily in Stage 6 based on your description and examples, and you state clearly what is "normal" or to be expected at each stage of the disease. I am going to be sure to watch all your videos on Dementia. Your time and effort to make these videos is so appreciated!
Aww you are welcome! Thank you so much for your comment 🥰
You did an amazing job explaining these stages. We are presently, and unfortunately, going through stage 7, w/ our mom. The decline in eating, weight-loss, and fighting bedsores, are definitely the most challenging now. I was so proud of the fact that, although she started losing weight, I'd been able to keep bedsores at bay. But. Once she started sleeping more, it caught up w/us. Now, it's a daily, rotations game with her body, and, it is not easy, since she no longer has sufficient padding of her bony areas on her hips to fight it. You get one area healed, then another wants to break down. You feel like you're fighting windmills!!! But. I digress. Trying so hard to make sure she has the care, love & comfort that she so deserves. She certainly gave it to us, as long as she could. God bless you for all of the education you share on dementia. Your information is absolutely, invaluable!😘
Thank you so much! Yes, bed sores are such a booger even with frequent repositioning, extra pillows and padded repositioners, at a certain point, it can become really hard to keep bony prominences protected. I'm glad your mom has you to help care for you as she goes through her journey. I can tell you love and care for your mom very much! Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment! 💜
Can you give me tips and tricks, advice or anything. We are slowly entering this stage and I need to know what kinds of supplies I will need to continue to care for my mom at home.
@@antoinettebartkowicz3634 Were you asking us or Chynnadoll1999?
When they refuse food do you let them be
There are so many reasons why a person may refuse to eat. Here’s a blog post where we discussed 10 reasons: www.letsbambu.com/post/10-reasons-a-person-with-dementia-may-refuse-to-eat
So first we have to figure out why and then we can determine if there’s something we can do to address the issue.
Outstanding Job! My dad seems to be in a combined stage of late 6 and early 7.
it is terribly heartbreaking to witness his decline but we are making memories.
Aww thank you! Yes, it is very heartbreaking - a very good word choice. It's definitely hard to watch, which why I think unfortunately, many people choose not to. I'm glad your hanging in there and doing your best to create joyful moments!
@@BambuCare
Thank You for your encouragement!!! 🌹
They may be resistant at first but car trips are fun for them.
Thank you for filling me in on my mother’s Dementia. She is in 6-7 and sleeps a lot and doesn’t want to eat . She has UTI more than ever before. And barely talks at all anymore. It is so hard to see her struggling with this illness.
I'm so sorry to hear what you’re going through with your mother. Dementia, especially in the later stages, can be incredibly challenging to navigate, both emotionally and physically. Thank you for being there for your mother. I know it’s not easy! ❤️❤️❤️
My poor mom. Shes 96 and going through this now. She cries because she says everyone is gone. Shes scared and just seems so lost.
I hate seeing her like this. It is indeed the long sad goodbye ❤
It can definitely be hard to witness! I'm sorry your mom is so scared ❤
Thank you Brianna. I’m caring for my husband, who has dementia. It’s been a tough time figuring out where he is in the desire process. Your presentation was very helpful to me. Thank you.
You are welcome! Glad to help!
Thank you for such a detailed description of the stages of dementia! You answered so many of my questions on what stage my mom is in! I now know why she acts the way she does and what to expect. It really helped me to decide what is best for her!!
You are so welcome!
You have taught me so much. Thank you so much.
The best explanation of this awful disease Ive ever seen..explained simply so easy to understand..
Thankyou for this..
You are incredibly good at communicating this difficult topic. Thank you!!!!
Aww thank you! You are welcome!
This is the *best* video I’ve watched to date! I really appreciate you getting straight to the point and staying on task without over explaining. Your energy is so calming, centered and humble; that also makes it so much easier to learn what you’re teaching. I can’t wait to check out your other videos!
Aww, I appreciate your kind words! Let me know if you ever have any questions!
@@BambuCare thank you ~ I will! 🥰
I feel, caring for a parent with dementia, almost like I’m learning how to take care of a newborn. Like, where’s the instruction manual? I need a roadmap to what to do care-wise at what stage. Your videos are the closest I’ve found to that.
I really appreciate you saying that!
I highly recommend our book With Intent: A Practical Guide to Navigating Behaviors Along the Dementia Care Journey. It really simplifies the primary, major things you need to know to get through this journey in a productive, non-destructive way.
If you want to check it out the link is: amzn.to/3TBw8Ms
We also have what’s called the Treehouse which is essentially a dementia care library full of videos, podcasts, blogs, printable resources, activities, webinars, even product recommendations. ( letsbambu.com/treehouse )
And of course we have the Ultimate Resource Guide for Dementia Caregivers. It has over 100 resources that span across 20 important areas relevant to the dementia care journey. ( www.letsbambu.com/product/hidden-in-plain-sight-the-ultimate-resource-guide-for-dementia-caregivers )
I hope this information helps 💜
We also have a free support community if you want to join us there! ( letsbambu.com/champions )
Sorry, I know that was a lot! 😬✨
Oh Bre’anna, you are a jewel! Thanks so much for these videos.
You are so welcome! 💜
You’ve been very helpful. I’m going through this right now with my husband. He’s in stage five right now. It’s definitely the long goodbye.
You are welcome! It can be very hard. Let me know if you ever have any questions!
My husband is in 6 & 7. I thought stage 5 was going to kill me with “the long goodbye “. You definitely coined that phrase. So hard and so bittersweet indeed. So sorry you’re having to go through it as well.
I recommend everywhere at the end of time for those who want a musical representation of dementia
Thank you!
@@BambuCare can cats get dementia
@@cat_the_real actually and unfortunately, yes
@@BambuCare my cat is really old and I think that he will get it
This hits home. Thank you! Just learning the stages.
You are welcome! Be sure to check out our website at letsbambu.com if you are seeking more support! ❤
This is excellent! Best presenter ever. I have found many professionals in this field won't help with discussing stages. Thank you. I realize my sister is now at stage 6. She is 61, with early onset Alzheimer's. Got diagnosed August 2018 at stage 4. I'm with her 24-7, gave up work 2 years ago to care for her. Am exhausted. She's stopped being affectionate which hurts a lot.
Thank you! Yes, many find that it's not helpful or relevant because the stages are not concrete and it can vary, but I personally think it's good to have some basic knowledge about the stages. I think it can be helpful in knowing what to expect and what's typical for the progression of dementia so that people can try to prepare.
I can't imagine how tough that must be. I know finding help can be hard, especially now-a-days, but make sure you are prioritizing self-care!
Breanna, I finally understand the stages of alzheimer's. It's by far the best video & books that I have seen & read! Brilliant! Thank you ever so much! Continue the good work!
That’s so sweet of you! Thank you and you are welcome!
The specific examples are so helpful in identifying stages. Best explanation I've heard.
Yay! I'm glad it was helpful!
Your presentation is truly excellent. As a school psychologist during my working years I am now learning from your expertise how do better support a dear relative.
Keep up you delightful teaching style. You're the best!
Wow, that is so kind of you to say! I'm glad I can be of some help along your care journey as you support your relative! That makes me feel good!
I wish i found this video a couple years ago but even now, what a HUGE help this was for me. Thank you.
Aww! Well, i'm glad you still found it helpful!
Thank you so much Breanna. God bless you. By watching your videos, I now know that my MIL has stage 6 dementia. You explain everything so thoroughly.
You are very welcome! Glad to help!
I agree with Alice Lafferty you are amazing at teaching. What a gift! God bless you more and more.
Aww that’s so sweet of you to say. Comments like you all’s is what keeps me going. My podcasts are much easier to keep up with than videos, but hopefully once I get settled again, It’ll be easier to put out more videos too! :) thank you 💜
My grandmother is 94 and is somewhere between 6 and 6.5 or very early 7. Her behavior is deplorable, but only with me and my mom (which is her daughter). We are her sole caregiver's and her level of resentment is on 100. Lol Anyway, thanks for this info, as her physicians seem like we should just take each day as it comes. Your info definitely resonates. Be blessed, Queen.
Yeah unfortunately it seems to work out that way sometimes. It’s kind of like that saying “we treat the ones we love (or the ones closest to us) the worst.” It’s usually because subconsciously or even consciously we know they will put up with it more than some random person you just met and can’t trust to know how they will respond. But, of course, it can also be because our loved ones have more opportunities to rub us the wrong way because we are around them the most.
Hang in there 💜💙
I relived my sisters stage 1-7 with her dementia as I listened to you explain the symptoms. She passed away quietly one evening. She said many times she was ready to go home
Thank you for sharing. Rest in peace to your sister ❤️
Great video information on a long journey. My husband is in stage 5 with some of 6 happening. He is at home with a palliative care team from a local hospice MainStreet company in our community.
@@annlietz-workman7837 Thank you and thank you for sharing. I'm glad your husband is able to be home with a palliative care team involved!
Thank you for sharing. I'm so scared. I went through it with my father. Now it's my mother. I fear her death. I'm crying all the time.
It’s definitely a tough journey. If you need support as you go through your journey with your mother, feel free to join our free support community at letsbambu.com/champions ; I’m more than happy to support you the best way I can and answer any questions you have as they come up! 💜
Bless you...😊
This was very informative, and well done. My mother in law is in stage 6 dementia. Plus last month she had a stroke because of her dementia. Her dementia meant she wasn't remembering to take care of herself. Pills for her AFIB. Bathing, many other things. So because of this she had a stroke. Now she's living g here as long as we can take care of her. Mostly me. It's a good thing I have experience in this field. I really appreciated your video.
I’m sorry your mom had a stroke. She’s lucky to have you to care and support her as she goes through her journey. 💜
Thanks for watching!
Great información and very profetional 🙏🏻
Thank you ❤
Thank you so much Breanna…My husband is between 6-7 you are the best to help us…it is very sad to deal with , but so grateful for the time we have left…
You are more than welcome!
Excellent presentation. ..I'm looking after my 90 year old father with various conditions including cancer and dimentia. I think we are in Stage 6 to 7 ...the worst to deal with is the' 'let me go home' episodes😧😩
Aww thank you! Yeah, that’s definitely challenging! Maybe you will find this podcast episode helpful: Podcast Ep: "I Want to Go Home" Reasons Why + How to Respond [Dementia]
ua-cam.com/video/i6JhwyKIsTI/v-deo.html
You explain everything so well and are so easy to listen to. Your a blessing to someone going through the stages my mom is in. Very appreciative to you have listened to you explain things so well.
Thank you so much! That’s very sweet of you to say! ❤️
Most helpful, thank you so much. I'm a caregiver of a 95 year old Alzheimer's person. I think she's in stage 6-7. Her 75 year old daughter and I take care of her at home. Exhausting, but we love her. Much Love to you. ❤️
Yes, caring for someone living with dementia can be very demanding! Stay encouraged ❤️. Even if she doesn’t say it or show it I’m sure she’s very grateful for all the nurture and care she’s getting.
My Dad was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia in July 2022 but I think he started around 2018 with it. And now by watching this video. Thank you so much I know where my dad is at Stage 5 mid going on 6 😢 He just remembers mostly everything from the past. But has difficulty from present time. I have to tell him to take a shower, brush his teeth and shave. He fights with me cause he doesn’t want to do it and I have to go to the bathroom with him so he can wash his hands 😔 he’s 85 and my mom is 84 so me and my girlfriend who is a caregiver takes care of them. When my dad says he has to go pee he gets paper to wipe his but thinking he pooped and he didn’t 😔 He’s very repetitive saying things like where am I at and why do you got to leave and I would tell him I don’t live with you anymore and the more you tell him he doesn’t get it. Also I’ve taken him to my place lots of times and says things like I’ve never been here before who’s place is this etc.. It’s heartbreaking 💔 seeing my dad like this 😢
Thanks for sharing! It can definitely can be heartbreaking to witness. Your dad is lucky to have you to care for him as he goes through his journey though. Even you watching this video to understand more says a lot about you and shows that you care! 💜 Bambu Care ( letsbambu.com ) has tons of resources if you are ever needing more support along your journey caring for your dad - and we are always accepting requests :)
Bless you...😊
This series has clarified the stage my best friend is in, and it is Stage 5. I need to find a way to be with him more often and that is my current goal. TY so much for this easy to understand and valuable info!!!!
You are very welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. Thanks for being there for your friend in any way you can! 💜
Thank you for the break down of the stages. Sounds like we are at stage 4 with my partner. The best I can do to care for her and thats what I am going to do. I have been trying to get her daughter involved. She has helped some. Have fun while you are young. The end comes and no stopping it.
You are welcome! & yes the best you can do is to care for her and keep learning! ❤️
Thank you! The is the BEST explanation. I watched every single step of this with my father-in-law, and now my mom 2dxd with Alzheimer's and she's probably around stage five. I hate this cruel disease.
You are welcome. Sorry it took me a couple of days to respond. But, yes, it really is such a tough disease. Let me know if you have any questions or need support Holly!
This is excellent information. I just shared it with a friend.
Thank you and thanks for sharing!
You are a gold mine, beautiful inside and outside, you are very informative and personal I was struggling with some issues but you really helped me I'm feeling much better keep up the great work, God Bless ❤
Oh Josie your comment just made my day! Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm always here to help! Let me know if you ever have any questions or topics you would like me to address! 💜
Thank you for explaining it so clearly. With the symptoms my mother is in last stage.
You are welcome! Thank you for sharing that. If your mother is in the last stage another video you may find informative is: Late Stage Dementia vs. End of Life
ua-cam.com/video/q53h3vNqqps/v-deo.html
Sending grace & peace your way! ❤️
Thank you thank GOD for you
@@juanitaedwards5516 that is very sweet of you to say ❤️
Very informative. I wonder why caregivers and family often don't learn more about the disease. It makes caring for the patient so much easier to be knowledgeable.
It definitely does. I think it’s because a lot of health care professionals including doctors aren’t knowledgeable unless it’s their specialty and so they don’t set up family members with resources. It’s unfortunate. I hope to be able to do more work in the community soon
Hi the message was so powerful to me my mum was diagnosed in June 2023 I'm taking care of her.
Thanks for the message now she's between stage 6-7 as you explained the behaviors of different staged.
Thank you for watching, I’m glad it was helpful. & thank you for sharing! 💜
You are very authentic Bre'anna---love this video. My father is in Stage 6 and very hungry, all the time--but losing muscle mass. He has fallen several times so far without bone breaks thank goodness. The wound care is needed now, I bought bed floor pads for him. I plan to eventually rent a hospital bed when the time comes.
Aww that’s very sweet of you! I definitely strive for authenticity!
I’m glad your dad hasn’t broken anything! Falls can be tough.
Let me know if you ever have any questions.
Wishing you well on your care journey! 💜
I’m glad you mentioned your dad being hungry all the time. I’m glad my loved one is eating but I’m trying to understand this constant hunger. I don’t know if the cues to her brain isn’t letting her know that she isn’t hungry. It’s very confusing to me.
Mom has dementia and she is so mean, and she yells and kicks me out of her house after driving 2 1/2 hours to her house. She likes to yell and kick me out in front of family members!! I hate it!! My stepfather goes along with it!!! She kicked my out of the hospital because I bought her flowers from the grocery store instead of the gift shop!! The gift shop was closed, because it was a sunday!!
I responded to your other comment with this message. I try to respond to all my comments so even if you post your comment just once I will still see it :)
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I'm sorry your mother is being mean to you and that your interactions with your mom and stepfather haven't been so pleasant.
There are number of reasons why your mother could be being mean to you and it would be hard as an outsider looking in to say exactly why this could be as I would have to have a better understanding of the situation and the family dynamics. There also may be some boundaries that need to be set with your stepfather, but that's a whole other situation.
Since you said she starts out nice and then becomes mean and agitated I would take note of what's happened leading up the point of her becoming that way. What triggers the change? How long are you there before things turn sour? Is it 15 minutes. Is it 30? Is it longer?
When she asks you to leave, what does she say? Does she give a reason; What is her reason? Do you acknowledge the request, say your goodbyes and just leave or do you say something else? What do you say and does this make the situation better or worse?
One thing we have to keep in mind is that when someone becomes agitated, regardless of the reason why, we can either add water to the fire or add fuel to the fire. Water will tame it out and fuel will of course make it worse.
In all cases of agitation, we always want to add water (whatever that may look like for the given situation). Water could look like acknowledging what they've said, validating their feelings, giving space, and honoring requests. Fuel would like arguing, trying to defend ourselves, pointing out the inaccuracies in what they are saying, refusing to honor requests because it doesn't make sense to us, continuing to do something another person clearly doesn't like - things that are pretty natural to do, but may not be helpful.
Also, if you want to continue to visit your mom but are worried about driving a long way just for a short visit, consider making other plans in the area. That way, your trip won't feel wasted even if the visit is short. You can still enjoy the mini road trip and make the most of it.
This helps so much! Thank you Brianna!!!
You're so welcome! ❤️
I have learned so much from you and Dr Tam Cummings. Thank you for sharing you knowledge xx
That’s so wonderful to hear!!
Thank you.Your presentation was the most simple and understandable of anything I've seen.We have been having a hard time getting a grasp on where my mom is in terms of the different stages.This gave me a very clear sense that she is moving from stage 5 into 6 and what to be prepared for and to watch out for.
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Thank you so much for your video. You explained this better than anyone I have ever heard. God bless you,
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Excellent overview. My mom in law is in between stage 6 and 7. Very nasty disease. I agree the feet gets overlooked. My mom loves the massages and stroking. Thank you, again.
Yes, yes I agree. Thank you for sharing and thank you for taking the time to comment! 💜
Thank you for this video. I’m new to knowing about dementia (mom is likely 6/7 and can’t speak but is somewhat mobile and in a care home). Your voice is perfect and the way you speak to, for informative videos. You conveyed this information in a way that was pleasant/neutral enough and not in a dreary way like some dementia videos are.
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Definitely informative. Thank you!
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Thank you for such a good and compassionate teaching.
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Thank you so much, this is the most thorough video I have come across and I really appreciate the information.
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I agree, this is the best description, with examples, that I've ever come across. It's helpful to recognize where they are on the dementia timeliness and to know what to expect in the next phase. Thank you.
thank you for a very detailed account of the 6 and 7 stages of dementia. My husband is now in stage 6 going thru 7. He is constantly exhausted and will have to sit down after a brief
situation involving simple motions like getting dressed. He has a hard time breathing and
does have a heart problem. He sleeps long hours and I wonder if I should wake him.
You are welcome! It’s not uncommon for people with dementia to sleep more as their condition progresses.
He is likely exerting more energy whether physically or cognitively (especially if the environment is overstimulating), than his body and brain are able to handle and thus finds himself fatigued and in need of sleep. One of the main reasons we recommend balancing activity and rest and adapting the environment to reduce cognitive fatigue.
Another big reason people with dementia sleep a lot is lack of stimulation and/or boredom. So it can really depend on what’s going on.
When I found out, I invested in talking, listening and loving my Uncle, He spent all of his life learning, teaching and working. So it is painful to know that he can’t even speak anymore. He always placed a huge emphasis on having money and protecting his money and now; he doesn’t even know what money is.
After crying so much and getting depressed; the Holy Spirit told me to appreciate and thank father Yah for the 56 years that I enjoyed with him. So now I smile when I think of home and am so grateful to The Father that he allowed me to be his niece and how much I benefited as a result of listening and learning from him. I retired at 40yrs old with 5 significant degrees and have read two books a month for 30yrs. I know know that I must cherish each day that I am “clothe my right mind”.
I’m glad that the message you received from the Holy Spirit offered some guidance and solace. Your uncle is lucky to have you a part of his life!
Thank you. I am researching my sisters “journey” with Lewy body dementia. Well done videos.
You are welcome. I’m proud of you for being proactive along your sister’s journey. You may find this podcast episode we did helpful regarding Lewy body dementia: anchor.fm/whatthedementia/episodes/042--Lewy-Body-Dementia--Those-Darn-Lewy-bodies-eni71b
This is very practical! It is much appreciated, it shows how much direct experience you have..
Thank you! I appreciate your response!
The descriptions are very clear. I accompany my loved one to visit her doctors, but they haven't given me as good an appreciation of the stages. In addition, this video has encouraged me to let the loved one do more on her own or by the two of us together.
Yay! I'm glad to hear that!
My grandmother lived with Alzheimer’s for 25 years, she remained mobile, could still feed herself and talk, she was this way until she passed at 93. I am currently caring for my 83-year-old mother who has Alzheimer’s most likely stage six, in the later stage of it. Nothing she says makes any sense, she talks all the time, especially in her sleep, she is very mobile and can feed herself. She does not sleep at night, up every hour, sometimes every half hour, she takes a 30 minute nap during the day. I don’t know how she can keep going on so little sleep! I know it’s exhausting me to try to care for her when I only get 3 to 4 hours of sleep a night because my Mom is constantly getting out of bed at night!
Yeah unfortunately, different people can progress through the course of dementia at different rates and misdiagnosis is also common when it comes to doctors identifying the right type of dementia because it is still very misunderstood (not to say this is the case, but it does happen quite often).
But, in the regards to your mother and her not sleeping much at night, there could be a number of things going on. First, has she always had trouble sleeping as an adult or is this new?, could it be a medication she’s on?, when she gets up, what is she getting up to do? When she takes a 30 minute nap during the day what time is she taking the nap? What does the rest of her day look like?
Your videos are PERFECT!!!!!!
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Great job. Clear, concise and comprehensive.
Thanks! Glad to hear!
What stage is hearing noises , my Mom complains of her doorbell ringing all night and she called the police as she said she was baby sitting a child went upstairs and came back down and he was gone. The police called me and they immediately knew she had dementia after I told her she wasn’t baby sitting a child . While she can carry a great conversation with you she has these moments along with having to be prompted to care for herself .
Hi Gwen, hearing noises that aren't actually there (auditory hallucination) or seeing a child when there actually isn't one (visual hallucination) are not associated with any particular stage. People with dementia can experience auditory and visual hallucinations at any stage, although it's more common in the middle or later stages of dementia. Also, hallucinations are more common in some dementias than others. For example, visual hallucinations in Lewy Body dementia is particularly common and can sometimes even be one of the first signs.
If she has to be prompted to care for herself, but can still do those care tasks herself after the prompting, she's likely around stage 5. Of course that can depend on the type of dementia she has as the 7 stage model is most accurate to Alzheimer's disease. You can learn more here (Stages of Dementia: 4 & 5 ua-cam.com/video/zkKi9_-tYbQ/v-deo.html ) Stage 5 starts at 8:24.
Knowing the exact stage is not particularly important in many cases, though it can be helpful.
I hope that answers your question. :)
Only just found you, you have been wonderful in presenting all this information so clearly. It will help so many people to understand and deal with all the steps you've talked about. Thank you so much.
You are more than welcome!
Wish I could give more than 1 👍 thumps up, you are a treasure and thank you tremendously for sharing your personal hands on knowledge with us!! 🙏🙏🙏
Aww that it so sweet of you to say! I’m happy to help! 💜
My wife is 56 with early onset Alzheimer’s, and seems to fit exactly into stage 6. You described some of her behaviors and abilities exactly. She is happy and totally healthy now (not even a cavity), but I dread the next stage. I assume that is when a nursing home becomes the best option. Thank you!
I hope your wife is still happy and healthy! For some a nursing home will be the best option, but for others with the right home setup and support, potentially from outside caregivers to lessen the demand on the family, people tend to do better at home, especially if agitation or aggression isn’t an issue. It all depends!
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So sorry. So young. My husband is in early stage 7. I have just started having a nursing assistant come in 3 days a week for a couple of hours each day. 2-3 hours. I have had him evaluated twice for hospice. I was told they can take him on in 2-3 months. I hope to keep him at home.
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My`hubby is at stage 6..easing into stage 7. I have researched this disease and am involved with spousal support weekly sessions with the local Alzheimer's Group. I am also a participant is several UA-cam dementia groups. Your presentations are the most informative and succinct! Your examples are on point and I found myself nodding throughout. I am his sole caretaker as there is no one else. I have to have long-delayed surgery and will need him in a facility for a two-month respite. Based on your experience, do these late-stage dementia patients decline if they undergo a change of venue?? I won't be able to drive but I can visit digitally.
Thank you so much for your kind words, and I'm glad you found our channel helpful! It's wonderful to hear that the examples resonated with you.
Unfortunately, what you’re asking is something we do often see with dementia. Any change in environment can lead to a decline in function, especially in the later stages. For some, the decline is temporary, and once they settle in and adjust or the facility can better meet any unmet needs, their function may stabilize or improve back to their normal baseline. However, for others, the change can be more permanent, and they may experience a decline to a new, lower baseline.
I wish you all the best with your surgery and hope it goes smoothly and you have a speedy recovery!
Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have more questions. 💜
Very good communicator. Easy to understand. Thank you.
Thank you!!💜
Very informative, and this from a heath care worker...thank you, keep up the good work, this disease is so often misunderstand .
Very glad to hear! Thank you, will do! :)
Well presented breanna. Learnt so much from your presentation
Thank you! So glad to hear!
I Love this very much, of how the stages are presented. Thanks 🇦🇺❤
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Thank you thank you thank you for your insights.... i feel like my mum is def level 6 . $ome days she's ok other days she thinks I'm her husband and my nephew is her baby
You are welcome and thank you for sharing! Yes, seeing fluctuations is very common!
Excellent Presentation! Very Informative and Well Done! Bless You for Blessing us!
Thank you for your kind words!
Good information. Thank you. We are dealing with stage 5 at present. Again, thank you.
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Thanks for a Great presentation of the Dementia stages 6 and 7.🇦🇺🙏🌏🌍🌎❤🇱🇰
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Most informative! Thank you and I do hope to see you again at a later date!!🤗
Thank you!!
Your videos have helped me so much. God bless you. You are amazing!
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Well done Bre'anna. Thanks!
You are welcome! Thanks for watching!
This is a really clear video. Thank you for sharing this great information
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Excellent thank you
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Thank you so very much! You have made this very clear!
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Breanna, you are doing a fantastic job detailing the different stages of dementia. I truly appreciate how you point out that each patient has a different base line and how important it is to let them do as much as possible for themselves so they don't lose those functions even faster. You are truly a great educator the way you are describing what to expect at each stage and how you also point out those moments when patients suddenly appear totally lucid. Thank you for everything you are doing!
P.S.: Are you familiar with chicken therapy for people with dementia?
Aww thank you for your comment! I really appreciate your kind words! ❤ If you are talking about when they bring different farm animals like chickens and goats then yes! Such a neat experience. At care facilities some will bring actually bring some of the animals inside and then others will set up a "petting zoo" like experience outside for the residents and bring them out in their wheelchairs or whatever they are using for mobility! Do you have experience with chicken therapy?
Some care facilities even have small farms on their property that residents will tend to and care for! So awesome!
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I mean every single word I wrote! You are not just a pretty person on the outside, you also have a beautiful soul and personality!
I have chickens myself and can vouch for their soothing and calming effect but have not personally seen them brought into care facilities like they do with the HenPower projects in the UK (where they actually have their own chicken coops) here in the US (however, you just mentioned that some care facilities have their own farms so I might have to stand corrected 😉). There was a study done on these projects by the University of Northumbria revealing that hen keeping wasn’t simply a pleasurable, social activity for people with dementia (many of whom had kept chickens as children and handling them brings back some familiarity), their clucking noises (mine even purr when I pet them) could also have a calming effect, helped lower blood pressure and heart rate, and reduced the use of anti-psychotic drugs for aggression. It's amazing how Mother Nature sometimes provides us with the very best of medicines!
Again, thank you for your detailed presentation. Allow me to send you a lot of good vibes as well as tons of energy to support your strength to be somebody's caring angel💖💖Just make sure you take good care of yourself as well - it's one of the toughest jobs you are tackling!
@@andreamortimer2610 "It's amazing how Mother Nature sometimes provides us with the very best of medicines!" You said that perfectly and yes, it is amazing. So many amazing things provided by mother nature are often looked over as therapeutic, even healing remedies!
That's so cool that you care for and raise chickens!
And yes, there are some care facilities in the US that have a farm on the property as well, but it's definitely not a widespread thing, unfortunately. I hope that over the years the predominant model of care we currently see will change and look more like what we see in many other countries that are very progressive in their care models!
& thank you! I will definitely try to take good care of myself. Thank you for caring about my well-being! 💜
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I think I'm only at Stage 3 or4 but read everything I find in preparation.
Excellent!! My HWA is definitely in stage 6!!
I'm glad it was helpful. Thanks for sharing Jeanne!
This video is so helpful . Thank you
I'm so glad! ❤️
Thank you for explaining these different stages so well. It was very helpful and I am sharing this video with my family members
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🙏🏾❤️👏🏾 Wonderful video. 👏🏾❤️🙏🏾
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Thankyou, this is helpful
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