How To Do Hard Things.

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  • @glamglam8347
    @glamglam8347 2 роки тому +5

    you are the best self improvement youtuber... like ever. you're actually giving great and helpful tips. not just "drink water" or "wake up at 3 am " thank you

  • @camb1314
    @camb1314 2 роки тому +118

    Ok Muchelle, you're just awesome. Your choice of inclusive stock footage just increased my respect for you even more. As a hijabi, I just feel so touched to see me represented. You're just the epitome of awesomeness.

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 2 роки тому +83

    *“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”*
    *―C. S. Lewis*

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 2 роки тому +76

    *To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible...*

  • @blaklena
    @blaklena Рік тому +1

    Thank you! Just found your channel! Your content is so Valuable and even More so for ADHD!!! Also called Executive Functions Deficit, meaning that all or even only one executive functions of the brain are in deficit. One of this functions is the ability to start a project. Because of the difficulty to switch from one task to another. Another is the overwhelm when doing multi steps projects to remember all the steps, and another the capacity to breakdown a project into actionable steps and organize them in order of priority. Thank you ❤

  • @bumblebee_ms
    @bumblebee_ms 2 роки тому +6

    As a recovered people-pleaser I always found it hard to do anything for me. Until I woke up one day to the reality that no-one ever bothered to do anything for me, so I stopped.

  • @Becksnnc
    @Becksnnc 2 роки тому +4

    The breaking down big tasks into small tasks is genius and I realise I kind of do it subconsciously. Especially when Im washing the dishes lol. I'll break them down into categories.
    So instead of "i have to wash the dishes" its "im gonna wash the cutlery first, then the cups, then the plates etc." And before I know it, it's all done and it didn't feel as overwhelming because each set of dishes was a task that I had completed instead of the whole of the dish washing being the task.

  • @charcharchar2806
    @charcharchar2806 2 роки тому +18

    MuchelleB: Show empathy
    Me: nods
    MuchelleB: ... for your future self
    Me: errrrrrrr

  • @hannahsauer7734
    @hannahsauer7734 2 роки тому +13

    I love that you included all types of people and backgrounds in the short clips! It is rare to see that especially in the self development field and really refreshing♥️

  • @alessia9328
    @alessia9328 2 роки тому +8

    This is one of those videos that are so good you just HAVE to take notes.
    I wrote it all down!
    Seriously, nobody else talks about this, Michelle really answers the REAL questions.
    How To Do Hard Things.

  • @sarahk.7932
    @sarahk.7932 2 роки тому +29

    your channel consistently has the most actionable and specific tips for productivity - this video was so helpful!

  • @MariaLuiza-oq7le
    @MariaLuiza-oq7le 2 роки тому +18

    I absolutely love you talking about the tasks bursts! I love the pomodoro technique but when I'm feeling super down I procrastinate even starting a pomodoro, and doing five minute intervals and changing the tasks really helps me a lot. I never saw someone talking about this and it felt very validating! Also I really needed this video, thank you so much!

  • @bhsprinkle
    @bhsprinkle Рік тому

    I've found this video so interesting. I've built up so much resistance. Especially after the same repetitive and inherently boring life I lead. After a while of living the exact same way that I've had no decision over, I have become resistant to it.
    I'll try sprinting my way through tasks again. I really wish meetings were a regular thing around here and could be had with listening, understanding, and no getting shut down. But I fear any attempt at a meeting to express current feelings would be a mistake. Nobody communicates around here and for good reason.
    It's so nice that you can have that level of communication.

  • @macayla2695
    @macayla2695 2 роки тому

    As a new behavior technician, but a long time MuchelleB subscriber, I confirm this video! We chunk tasks into smaller tasks for the kiddos at work all the time. Why I haven't thought of doing this for myself, not sure why. Its amazing how many detailed steps you can get out of a simple task.
    Thank you Muchelle ❤.

  • @sudikshask1411
    @sudikshask1411 Рік тому

    Watching your videos always calm me down. I had been feeling anxious and overwhelmed and your video has really helped me. Thank you❤

  • @ultravioletpisces3666
    @ultravioletpisces3666 Рік тому +1

    0:30 create empathy for future you
    1:46 sink in to gratitude
    1:56 cut up task
    3:18 create empathy for beneficiary
    (How will this help others ?)

  • @Wpopurple
    @Wpopurple 2 роки тому

    This is genius because I always do things for others not for me but thinking of future me as another person just might be the trick! Thank you

  • @procrastimania
    @procrastimania 2 роки тому +11

    Avoidance in relationships is so huge! Very relatable thank you for the practical advice as always!

  • @zai.m4a
    @zai.m4a 2 роки тому

    i love how this vid went straight to the point and i was so happy to see the 5 min rule here i always use it and it's literally foolproof

  • @17meows
    @17meows 2 роки тому +2

    I'm new here and just two videos in, I would just like to say that your videos and advices are GOLD! Thank you so much for sharing everything 😍🙏🏻 More power!

  • @valentinaperez1391
    @valentinaperez1391 2 роки тому +7

    Your videos are SO inspiring and motivating 🙌🏼🌼✨

  • @Natalie-ng5wt
    @Natalie-ng5wt 2 роки тому +4

    Obsessssssed with this video and the tips. So helpful for me ADHD self 🤣

  • @edrickmasilang1404
    @edrickmasilang1404 2 роки тому

    That tip about doing it for someone else is so valuable. As dumb as it may sound, I find it easier to do stuff for other people rather than doing it for myself. Lol thanks

  • @victoriamartinotti7364
    @victoriamartinotti7364 2 роки тому

    I'm very supportive of your new hair color. Dark warm brown really suits you.

  • @champangel_
    @champangel_ 2 роки тому

    Prep first work later literally helps me so much

  • @ultravioletpisces3666
    @ultravioletpisces3666 Рік тому

    5:22 task seitching (5 min)
    6:06 prep first work later, let your mind work for you

  • @Isha-bh5tz
    @Isha-bh5tz 2 роки тому

    Your videos are the best. They are so well thought out, helpful and unique, you always have a new and refreshing take on topics. Your tips are helping me more than you could ever imagine!

  • @terabryant5080
    @terabryant5080 2 роки тому

    So helpful! I have to keep rewatching to really drill it in, would love more content on this from your perspecitve!

  • @cataholic_hooman
    @cataholic_hooman 2 роки тому +5

    ...you always come with different and wonderful content...I needed this one ... thanks M

  • @rahelehfarhadi952
    @rahelehfarhadi952 2 роки тому

    I just found your videos and you are amazing! Thank you.

  • @chidiogoezeugwu8501
    @chidiogoezeugwu8501 2 роки тому +1

    This video was incredibly helpful thank you so much Muchelle

  • @elysedunn6409
    @elysedunn6409 2 роки тому +4

    Great, well thought out content as always - thanks lady!

  • @kubriela
    @kubriela 2 роки тому +1

    the motivation I needed.✨

  • @kayleemarihugh9319
    @kayleemarihugh9319 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for always being so research based ❤️

  • @selvaduronay8910
    @selvaduronay8910 2 роки тому

    The idea of doing stuff for your future self is a great push for me to finish those chapters haha. Also seriously you never fail at presenting new ideas in an aesthetically pleasing way in every single video. Love your channel

  • @freesiajasmine534
    @freesiajasmine534 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks so much Michelle, you always have great tips! I never thought of the 5 minute rule before, interesting. I'm doing the pomodoro method at the moment for tasks, thanks very much for the reminder - had forgotten all about it! It's very effective

  • @kelsorose9236
    @kelsorose9236 2 роки тому

    I really thoroughly enjoy your content. Just wanted to say thank you

  • @Becky44-e7g
    @Becky44-e7g 2 роки тому

    I bought the planner a few weeks ago.
    I love it so far so I’m looking forward to checking out your app!

  • @biblioghoul5589
    @biblioghoul5589 2 роки тому +2

    Wow!! This video popped up as I was struggling with getting through a task. So helpful, thank you :)

  • @haaniyahshad3919
    @haaniyahshad3919 2 роки тому

    I recently found your channel and I love ur vids, they are so helpful! 😊💕

  •  2 роки тому

    Loved the editing in this video 😍
    And it gave me motivation to work on my term paper today ♥️

  • @rajeshwarihemmadi3229
    @rajeshwarihemmadi3229 2 роки тому

    One of the most helpful videos....I have bought ur planner but resistant as new to digital planning & life is very stressful currently 🙈

  • @inbetweenworlds
    @inbetweenworlds 2 роки тому

    This is powerful! Thank you for this!!!!

  • @Arer-3
    @Arer-3 2 роки тому

    Omg I love you and your videos , how can one person be so amazing her vids r the highlight of my day 🥳

  • @bibikhan8055
    @bibikhan8055 2 роки тому

    I love the relationship meetings! So inspired and curious how it works.

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman 2 роки тому

    when our lives improve. The initial and the most difficult risk that we need to take is to become honest. Sharing some love with ya all, keep smashing xx

  • @jmsl910
    @jmsl910 2 роки тому +1

    you have grit!!
    (& style & grace)

  • @elaniesnyman2693
    @elaniesnyman2693 2 роки тому

    this helps alot🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @theresahagedorn4213
    @theresahagedorn4213 2 роки тому +1

    it is amazing how you always make the exact videos that i need in each given moment! thank you so much!

  • @Peace_hae
    @Peace_hae 2 роки тому +1

    I love your content 💗

  • @mysti_calmagicnyy29246
    @mysti_calmagicnyy29246 2 роки тому

    2:33, I like that method

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 2 роки тому +2

    Self care Tip: The less you want, the more you have.

  • @fknhippieschick
    @fknhippieschick Рік тому

    So I have an issue with the working in 5 mintue bursts. I can't do that. I would never get anything complete. I already clean in a scratter brained mind. Picking somethingup and going to put it away only to find soemthing else that needs put away and so on. If I don't stayin one room on one task I end up pooped and nothing really to show for it. I make a list of the things I need to get done and then just pick at random. Once it's done it gets marked off, I take a bresk and thenpick the next one I want to get done.

  • @asthaverma6859
    @asthaverma6859 2 роки тому

    Thanks a lot 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

  • @ItsPippin
    @ItsPippin 2 роки тому +2

    The hard little things are harder for me than the hard big things for some reason lol

  • @eaw2nf
    @eaw2nf 2 роки тому

    I’m totally an obliger!!

  • @GorgieClarissa
    @GorgieClarissa 2 роки тому +1

    HOW TO DO HARD THINGS: Wait until the very last minute because then the pressure is on. That's how I wrote all my college papers. Some... got A's. some... did not.

  • @aviliasway8238
    @aviliasway8238 2 роки тому +6

    I really like your videos and the content you provide but you speak so fast and the video moves so fast, I have a hard time following. Anybody else or is it just me?

    • @myriamneggah6726
      @myriamneggah6726 2 роки тому

      Yes i feel the Same . But you can slow the vidéo 🙂

    • @alessia9328
      @alessia9328 2 роки тому +1

      for videos this information-dense i sometimes take notes. Like, write it down in my journal. Stop the video to write down and reflect.

    • @MFV77
      @MFV77 2 роки тому +1

      I speed the video up, then pause if I want to take a note.

  • @procrastimania
    @procrastimania 2 роки тому

    Extra early crew 🤙

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy 2 роки тому

    ❤️🥀

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy 2 роки тому

  • @shesoutofthecontinent4906
    @shesoutofthecontinent4906 2 роки тому

    First 💓

  • @Arer-3
    @Arer-3 2 роки тому

    2nf

  • @shamirapo2105
    @shamirapo2105 2 роки тому

    Why shi is speaking so fast ))?

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy 2 роки тому

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy 2 роки тому