Shawn Bolz Interviews Dru Hammer: Overcoming Divorce, Spiritual Battles & Family Restoration

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  • @AjaMcClahanan
    @AjaMcClahanan Місяць тому +10

    I went through something similar. I was married for 17 years & clueless as to what was happening. I loved God and cherished my time as a wife & mother. One day, the Holy Spirit showed me his phone code. When I confronted him, he became violent and spent the next few years trying to destroy me in every way possible. Now, He’s not around the kids much by his choice, but I praise God for delivering me. If I had to do it again, I would not marry someone I helped initiate into the faith. They should have their own walk & own convictions & own track record of faithfulness. I too left pretty much all that was due to me being a SAHM. It didn’t matter because God is still my source. Also, forgiveness is PARAMOUNT….Praise God for deliverance! Praise God for his mercy & provision!

  • @flordevida7
    @flordevida7 2 місяці тому +33

    I can relate to this so much. Thank you for this interview. I feel very lost after finding out my husband was unfaithful. We lost our ministry, friends, vehicles, and land. Trying to pick up the broken pieces. This was encouraging although I still feel very lost with how to financially provide and make it on my own.

    • @SRose-vp6ew
      @SRose-vp6ew 2 місяці тому +5

      Father God, we thank you for the beautiful healing you are doing in this woman who is focused on you more than the problems caused by others chosen evil. God we give him and the situation over to you whose ways are higher than our ways. Please restore what the locus has stolen in Jesus name and may all equal yolks and any ramifications from unequal yolking be broken off in Jesus name and may your holy restoration and guidance of each individual, may it take place. Forgive us for any lust, anger, hate, unforgiveness, jealously, or lack of faith. Help us to see that you give us great value and that the devil is a liar. May we hear your wisdom and ways above all else. Please give full freedom and healing both from any sexual trauma or demonic lies in Jesus name, heal and restore, amen.

    • @SRose-vp6ew
      @SRose-vp6ew 2 місяці тому

      Father God, we also pray for creative solutions. Reveal to this woman whatever gifting you have given her, be at working with children, food, organization, or nature and show her how to turn what she loves into a way to make money. I don’t know where you live or if you have a thriving Park And Rec program but sometimes you have a gift from God and it’s OK to charge per person to use that gift and it’s OK to use the government to do the advertising for you for free. If you own your own business, instead of being an employee, you’ll have the flexibility and opportunities that might be required of you right now. It will probably mean, creating a website, creating business cards, creating referrals by starting for free while you work, a more humble job, and most of all probably caring insurance and an LLC, but you can do this. If you were in ministry, you probably have incredible talents. There was a job opportunity in my area that was asking for someone with three years of experience, volunteer organization and no college required, but they would pay for you to take classes. It was a government paid position and it paid over 200,000 a year to work with the poor and the whole thing was a woke mess that needed lots of fixing, personally I think so much of what they did was wrong, but if someone is going to get the job why not a person like you? Some of the most incredible people I know, hold themselves back assuming others must be more deserving or places of influence couldn’t possibly need their help or that the pay is too big for someone like them. When you’re going for a job, especially an incredible job, part of getting that job is convincing people, even if they’re asking for a slightly different direction, you might be more of what they were looking for than what they even thought they needed. The first person to convince is yourself. I don’t know if many people would understanding what I’m saying, but I feel like you get it. You may have been humbly living before, but that doesn’t mean that it has to stay that way. The strength you exhibit and the skills you’ve learned can get you far more than a humble position. Make a list of your strengths, accomplishments, skills learned, and obstacles you have over come and if you really need help consider prayerfully seeking out someone who can basically job couch you so you don’t wrongfully limit yourself. I know I previously mentioned a humble job, but you can get a humble job while you figure out what God’s way is for getting you into a dream job. When I looked for my dream job, it wasn’t about getting more than my most basic needs because I had kids, so I looked for a job that had the most flexibility where I could charge to teach per person all at once and make a lot of money in a very short amount of time. Every situation is different, so pray for God’s creative solutions. He made everything, he can make sure you are providing for as long as you don’t doubt him or doubt the ability he put into you, you are made in his image and you’re the daughter of a king who owns all the wealth and we just pray give us our daily bread, remember that, remember you’re loved!

    • @HildaMcDonald-e6f
      @HildaMcDonald-e6f Місяць тому +5

      Remember the enemy wants to divide kill steal and destroy. Pray for your husband. Gus can heal and deliver your ex husband he is doing that right now with my ex . Our prayers are hear
      He says not to look at the former things he is doing a new thing. He has been speaking this to me repeatedly he is working In his heart. He is seeking God. And pray for God to heal your heart we are called to forgive or we are not forgiven. God can do that too in us

    • @em77775
      @em77775 Місяць тому +4

      I will pray for you. I'm a divorced mom of 2 and when my ex first said he was divorcing me I had just been laid off from my job. I was far too broken to even work let alone figure out how to be a divorced single mom. God has been near to me through it all and He provided every single thing I was going to need going forward as a single divorced mom, and He can do the same for you. Connect with every resource you can, friends, family, your church, to see how they can help. Accept all the help you can get, as it will be your lifeline. You can do it.

    • @amaldonado8641
      @amaldonado8641 Місяць тому +1

      What does not kill you... It will get you stronger.
      I went through a divorce, and learned not to depend in anyone. Depend only in Jesus.
      The only one that loves you completly.
      Events happened for a reason... maybe that situation saved you from losing your soul.
      🙏

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan Місяць тому +13

    I love the fire on this woman! What a force for God!!!🔥💥🔥💥🔥
    Can’t wait for you to host Dru again.

    • @shawnbolzofficial
      @shawnbolzofficial  Місяць тому +2

      I agree she is amazing. We are becoming friends outside of the interview and she is a force for sure.

    • @JuliaShalomJordan
      @JuliaShalomJordan Місяць тому +2

      @@shawnbolzofficial that’s amazing!!! Can’t wait for more!

  • @jordanruth0809
    @jordanruth0809 29 днів тому +2

    It was if I was listening to my own story. About two months ago I went to the hospital and was told my anemia was very bad to the point I was turning pale, losing weight rapidly, seems like organs was about to shut down lost my appetite, couldn’t stomach food and found out that my husband was very sexually unfaithful. I almost had to get a blood transfusion, but God caused my blood count to improve. Mind you I have not ever been a sickly person, but it came rapidly. Today, All is well, after contending in the faith and declaring His promises, but I too prayed to the Father earlier this morning. He caused our children and I to lose a home and be reduced to now live in an apartment. Continuing in adultery and not financially being responsible now. But to have come across this, I mean woman of God from the no sleep in years, sweating all over in my bed, etc. And we’ve been married this year 23 years, 6 sons and 3 daughters all by him. I will be sure to buy the book, but I also believe God has answered. To hear your compassionate heart for Jesus and family, I mean all glory be to God🎉 Thank you for being brave to share❤

  • @SherryONeill
    @SherryONeill Місяць тому +10

    I am Sobbing Thru This
    I Believe I Have Been Deluding myself About my Situation,...
    I am Crying Out To Abba For Deliverance Now- I am Not Biblically Required To Endure,.
    No Matter What The Other Side Of All This Looks Like, I am Ready
    I CanNot Thank you Enough For This Video
    It Has Put A Resolution In my Heart To Let Abba Do What He Wants And To Lead me In The Right Way If I Need To Take Action

  • @sunshine56968
    @sunshine56968 2 місяці тому +14

    Wow!!! This is so powerful!!! The lady that was talking is actually what I was going thru and I wasn't even yet married. Thank God that I didn't because I had dealt with domestic Violence and God saved me from it all and my children too.

  • @ruthreuter9813
    @ruthreuter9813 2 місяці тому +13

    What a wonderful, authentic woman. Thank you for this testimony!

  • @31januarie
    @31januarie 2 місяці тому +10

    What a beautiful heart, so inspiring ❤️❤️❤️ It’s so beautiful to see each other walk such huge things out with Jesus. Very encouraging and uplifting. ‘This man has never been your source, I am’, wow!!!

  • @TendaSithole
    @TendaSithole Місяць тому +3

    WOW! I’ve been thru this. The picture-perfect relationship but unexplained sickness, the husband who didn’t know how to be a family but the opportunity for me to bring the love of God into a difficult place, the revelations thru dreams of secret sins. Unfortunately, because we didn’t have access to the right tools such as deliverance divorce. But there was forgiveness and the opportunity to minister to the man who had so many regrets. I’m still expecting God to finish the restoration process the way, He wants to, to the praise and glory of His grace.

  • @odeah883
    @odeah883 2 місяці тому +15

    Where can I connect with this beautiful & powerful woman of God? This is so much like my story including ex-husband’s affair being revealed once my kids were of age, ex also hadn’t dealt with his childhood sexual trauma etc. I was married 25 years also. My settlement was not fair at all. Thank you for this amazing testimony!

    • @SRose-vp6ew
      @SRose-vp6ew 2 місяці тому +5

      Pray Joel 2, but also Acts 16, pray that your ex comes to the Lord and the chains and all the snares of the Devil trying to bind you from the good God has for you and your family falls off of you.

    • @angelagrant2943
      @angelagrant2943 Місяць тому

      ​@@SRose-vp6ew Amen. In agreement for healing for our sister in Jesus name 🙏🏼❤️🔥

    • @PhyllisBurris
      @PhyllisBurris Місяць тому

      Shawn shut up. I didn't watch your channel to hear I speak.

  • @focm888
    @focm888 Місяць тому +9

    Divorce is horrible. It destroys the emotions. But, the Cross can restore. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🔥

  • @ruthkoning6036
    @ruthkoning6036 Місяць тому +10

    I can so relate to this. My husband lived a secret life for 31 years and was extremely abusive. It's not a journey I would choose but God is leading me 😭.

  • @WhollyYou
    @WhollyYou 2 місяці тому +3

    Powerful testimony! Thank you for this interview. To God be the glory!

  • @LaunchLearnEntrepreneurship
    @LaunchLearnEntrepreneurship 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for this perfectly timed interview. I was struggling with my faith walk. Asking God why...and I run into this video. The way she handled betrayal and divorce, continuing to trust God. Submitting to Jesus. Wow. Thank you Dru for sharing your inspiring testimony and showing us how to walk out our faith through the trial.❤

  • @margielvanbrocklin3586
    @margielvanbrocklin3586 2 місяці тому +7

    This interview was incredibly impactful. Thankyou very much! ❤

  • @heavenlyempress8095
    @heavenlyempress8095 Місяць тому +2

    I am speechless, what an encouraging and inspirational interview. "This man has never been your source, I am your source" Thank you so much for the reminder ❤

  • @jeremiahkabod4233
    @jeremiahkabod4233 Місяць тому

    It’s blessing to hear her start with she didn’t write a book for book sales, even told her staff don’t tell her about how many books she sold . Many people that have influence in ministry, a great majority write books only for big sales because they know they have influence to profit from it. So this woman of God has not over motive but to see people bless by what the Lord brought her through.

  • @JesseHansen-oh4bh
    @JesseHansen-oh4bh Місяць тому +5

    You are a strong and godly woman! Smart too! I learned a lot from your testimony today!!!!! Keep on trusting and obeying God….. Godis using you for his glory!

  • @Texan_Gal
    @Texan_Gal Місяць тому +4

    That’s why we as spouses have THE right to go into each others phone and social media. Better yet, share social media. It’s accountability. You’re upset about sharing because you’re hiding something. A spouse should be honored, respected and your best friend. Why hide?

  • @karirawaweru7897
    @karirawaweru7897 2 місяці тому +3

    Powerful reminder that God is our source!

  • @veronicar1589
    @veronicar1589 Місяць тому +1

    What a story! She's amazing!!! Thank you. To God be the Glory.🙏💕

  • @margaretowuadey
    @margaretowuadey Місяць тому +2

    What an amazing testimony. Dru is a powerhouse! I'd love to hear more of her story. God bless her.

  • @stephiegrissom0
    @stephiegrissom0 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you Shawn, this was so powerful and encouraging.

  • @leilanigathings7314
    @leilanigathings7314 Місяць тому

    Thank You dear God for encouraging me today through Ms. Dru Hammer’s testimony. I believe that I will overcome my trials because You are with me 🕊.

  • @preachermangeorge2644
    @preachermangeorge2644 2 місяці тому +3

    This is an amazing incredible testimony.
    Jesus Christ be praised

  • @loiseochido9146
    @loiseochido9146 Місяць тому +2

    Trully inspirational - " That man has never been your source. I AM your source. I will restore " Wow ❤

  • @EVOLr
    @EVOLr Місяць тому +6

    It is so vital to know and understand and how to seperate the demon from the person.

    • @SherryONeill
      @SherryONeill Місяць тому

      That Is The Only Way I Have Survived To Now

  • @EVOLr
    @EVOLr Місяць тому +3

    I Love This Woman❤!! GOD is Amazing!!

  • @Staci.Godsgirl
    @Staci.Godsgirl Місяць тому +1

    I am divorced. We were divorced in 2018. In 2020, the Lord brought me into a wilderness season where He really worked on me. I’d been a believer but never yielded but I have been since 2020. I have been completely healed by Jesus regarding trauma and my relationship. It was only after being completely healed that he revealed that my ex had affairs. All I can say is, consecration is tough, healing is uncomfortable but He really will do it for you. And you’ll be left knowing that the Lord protected you, you just didn’t see it at the time… and you can be complete free of all pain and anger, resentment. Peace is worth the work that the Lord will do in you. And now, I await my kingdom marriage, completely baggage free. God bless!

  • @lyndashimoda3628
    @lyndashimoda3628 2 місяці тому +3

    Awesome thanks for sharing!
    Side note! We had exact tiles in our kitchen and dark cupboards! Lol

  • @manukumorake8570
    @manukumorake8570 Місяць тому +1

    This is a beautiful testimony..
    How to share the gospel to the "powerful"...evangelize where u are ....
    This is what I got

  • @franceshampton8767
    @franceshampton8767 Місяць тому +2

    Wow! Dru Hammer is an amazing and awesome warrior! Her testimony speaks to women of ALL socioeconomic classes. Those of us that experienced the same aren't immune from the immoral choices our partners/spouses made, BUT, with Christ and our trust in Him, we WILL PREVAIL! I loved when He told her in the elevator that HE is her source...not her cheating spouse! LOVED this interview and cannot wait to read her book😇

  • @patricebeauty
    @patricebeauty Місяць тому +1

    Excellent Interview!

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 Місяць тому

    Great testimony!🌟🌟

  • @AlmaHernandez-vs2uf
    @AlmaHernandez-vs2uf Місяць тому

    Thank you for your awesome testimony. God bless you. Thank you for helping other women..❤

  • @freidaali8863
    @freidaali8863 Місяць тому

    The power of God 🙏🏾 thank you for sharing

  • @apriljohnson2441
    @apriljohnson2441 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much very encouraging ❤️

  • @Smilealot62
    @Smilealot62 Місяць тому

    WOW WOW WOW !!! Glory to GOD testimony up in here 😭😭😭💛💛💛 Thank you Dru for sharing this !

  • @Smilealot62
    @Smilealot62 Місяць тому +1

    It should be a movie 🎥 😭

  • @shannoncook9915
    @shannoncook9915 Місяць тому

    O needed to see this tonight, thank you!

  • @casandrawalcott
    @casandrawalcott Місяць тому

    Amen power testimony thanks for sharing.

  • @danaehernandez2074
    @danaehernandez2074 Місяць тому

    What a beautiful soul. The power of God. He used her for his glory.. god is so good.🙏🏼

  • @cynthiamay2255
    @cynthiamay2255 12 днів тому +1

    My Maker is my Husband, the Lord of Hosts is His Name!🙏🤗❤️

  • @kristinebrown7185
    @kristinebrown7185 Місяць тому

    Oh my.. The most incredible testimony I have ever heard!! Truly a women of GOD!!

  • @ericaarmendariz8125
    @ericaarmendariz8125 Місяць тому

    Thank you
    For sharing

  • @msdee2905
    @msdee2905 Місяць тому +1

    What a testimony. I have been through betrayal and divorce it’s so horrible. Thanks for sharing that Jesus/God can be our husband. 😊

  • @AbiNomac
    @AbiNomac Місяць тому +1

    I had know idea Armie’s mother is this amazing, intelligent woman of God.

  • @fransvandenheever8387
    @fransvandenheever8387 Місяць тому +1

    A lady in a similiar situation also prayed - God help. She herd God's voice (John 10:4) in daylight what to do. Remember Jeremia 17: 5 -8.

  • @BetseyChavis
    @BetseyChavis Місяць тому

    I Love This 👏 Thank You So Much For sharing this! True Words for me

  • @LorenasChesed1beads
    @LorenasChesed1beads Місяць тому +1

    My husband left me 12 times, filed for divorce twice . They were short separations. I kept taking him back. I never stopped praying for him. Then the 12th time he left we were separated 6 years. Then he showed up at my door, homeless. no money, no job, no friends again. I let him back in my life. why did I go back to that because of God's grace and love towards me. It's not about me. My husband had a secret

  • @debbievermunt1617
    @debbievermunt1617 Місяць тому

    Can so relate to this .

  • @rosepetal2784
    @rosepetal2784 Місяць тому +1

    This story is epic

  • @susannecromwell3461
    @susannecromwell3461 2 місяці тому

    Thank you!

  • @zufantesfaye7975
    @zufantesfaye7975 Місяць тому

    Thank you Shawn, for an amazing interview. Go$ bless you

  • @desormais22
    @desormais22 Місяць тому

    So good!!!

  • @curtisnjodyderonde4814
    @curtisnjodyderonde4814 Місяць тому +1

    The people need realize God can heal marriages if we put God first , Amen ,

  • @kellydecamp3656
    @kellydecamp3656 2 місяці тому +1

    Amazing story! Wonderful to know that a family with so much darkness is being redeemed by God!
    I just found this online for more context:
    Armie’s great-great grandfather Dr. Julius Hammer was convicted of first-degree manslaughter after the wife of a Russian diplomat he gave an abortion to died, and Julian, the son of Armand Hammer - a wealthy industrialist with ties to the Soviet Union who palled around with Prince Charles - killed a man inside his Los Angeles home over a gambling debt.
    Casey Hammer, in her self-published 2015 book Surviving My Birthright, alleges that Julian also sexually abused her when she was a child, and that Julian was abusive to others in the family.

  • @debradoerksen5815
    @debradoerksen5815 Місяць тому

    Thanks!

  • @is5488
    @is5488 2 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @biblewomen77
    @biblewomen77 Місяць тому

    Awesome 🙌🙌

  • @ritacarlton6557
    @ritacarlton6557 Місяць тому

    So many similarities in my life💜

  • @musicmakeuplover3025
    @musicmakeuplover3025 Місяць тому

    Wow wow wow i commend her true example of a follower of christ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jenniestorie1567
    @jenniestorie1567 Місяць тому +1

    Is the title of her book in this interview? I can’t seem to hear it or find it in the transcript. ;)😂❤

  • @Gerald-k7k
    @Gerald-k7k Місяць тому +2

    The kind of woman that would be a blessing to a man.

  • @fortune704
    @fortune704 Місяць тому +1

    Amazing woooooooooow

  • @judyD.
    @judyD. 2 місяці тому

    This was so me. Sometimes it was just help me. Help! Jesus I need you.
    I'm not as far into on the other side of it yet but I wanna be.
    Single, need $ but I know God is using me so He will provide the way! I literally say it outloud every day so not to slip backwards.

  • @chrissykats9216
    @chrissykats9216 Місяць тому

    This sounds like my story.

  • @gracekim8680
    @gracekim8680 2 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @gerrivita455
    @gerrivita455 Місяць тому

    Married How about most people not marring but living together , looks Ike statistics on that are higher God help us!

  • @deborahclidy3877
    @deborahclidy3877 13 днів тому

    As she is explaining who Arm & Hammer is I am in the garage pulling out Arm & Hammer extra strength carpet odor eliminator 🤪

  • @Peonia-Melbourne
    @Peonia-Melbourne Місяць тому

    I did same, asked God to reveal what was happening in my marriage and God gave me a dream that my ex was sleeping with many different women, in different coloured satin short skirts, not showing their faces

  • @dianac1411
    @dianac1411 Місяць тому

    I am a mother of 5 adult children. All have spouses, girlfriends etc. only one of my children’s spouse parents are still married. 1 out of 5😢

    • @shawnbolzofficial
      @shawnbolzofficial  Місяць тому

      so sorry! Those are hard facts about your children but I pray for redemption in each of their stories!

  • @newdaynow9581
    @newdaynow9581 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @ErikaFlores-px9gs
    @ErikaFlores-px9gs 2 місяці тому

    26:40
    Forgive .. or God can not forgive you

  • @jilllisa5724
    @jilllisa5724 Місяць тому +1

    It's because of all the women putting up naked pics and all the dating sites popping up on peoples phones. Too much temptation its over whelming.

    • @sewnfolkco.8450
      @sewnfolkco.8450 Місяць тому

      @@jilllisa5724 It’s literally like a weapon of mass destruction, and unfortunately I found many many pictures/websites of that nature on my guy’s phone and computer, no we’re not married but we have 4 children, 3 biological 1 from a previous marriage and I doubt we will ever be married, I know he still looks at all that crap online but I don’t bother to check anymore…God definitely reveals these things though, he has shown me many times what is really going on but still stuck with this person…

  • @PhyllisBurris
    @PhyllisBurris Місяць тому

    1st time to your channel Shawn....stop talking talking talking & let your guest speak.

    • @shawnbolzofficial
      @shawnbolzofficial  Місяць тому

      Thanks for being here, even if you don't like my style glad you are here.

    • @PhyllisBurris
      @PhyllisBurris Місяць тому

      @@shawnbolzofficial If u want to have guests then let them tell their story not you. Let them talk about the book they wrote no need for you to talk talk talk otherwise why interview or have guests?

  • @pamelabrown7772
    @pamelabrown7772 Місяць тому

    I cringe when I hear the names Oral Roberts and Kenneth Hagen as they are false teachers

  • @Brandon.S.412
    @Brandon.S.412 Місяць тому +6

    GOD THE FATHER in the name of JESUS CHRIST I repent of all my sins LORD I pray for my salvation and deliverance and healing, I pray for the baptism of the HOLY GHOST with FIRE to guide me and help me and teach me LORD to do your will to be done not my will but your will LORD in the name of JESUS CHRIST of Nazareth I pray for help LORD in seeking your Heavenly Kingdom Amen

  • @debradoerksen5815
    @debradoerksen5815 Місяць тому

    Thanks!