Miyoung on Being Called Ugly by Her Parents
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The more I watch Miyoung, the more I realize how much I relate to her. She played online games with friends to escape, so did I. Her parents called her ugly for wearing makeup, mine fat shamed me. I need to watch her streams more often
The part about the "learned" distance from the parents in adult life is really on point. Back when we could've used some guidance and bonding they had better things to do but now it's convenient.. Kinda funny because i'm 30 year old russian guy relating way to much lol
Asian parent trauma is passed on from generation to generation and its heart breaking
I never really liked make up and in the past I've told people they didn't need it because they are prettier without it... but then I started watching Sykkuno. And there is one thing he has said that still sticks with me, "It takes a lot of time and effort to put make up on. So why tell someone they look better without it if it makes them feel better wearing it." Something along those lines. And it completely changed the way I look at make up. I still don't agree with parents beautifying their children at a very young age just so they can have the credit for the best looking child. But you should never call someone ugly. And when you say they look better without make up, it tells them they look ugly with it.
Yes, exactly this, we all have our own opinions, but there’s no need to make someone else feel bad about their effort putting into.
Yeah I agree. It takes a lot of time, pain and money to get boob job, filler lips, BBL, buccaneers fat removal and more cosmetic surgery. So why tell someone they don’t look good with all their surgeries if it makes them feel better?
I dunno bruh, if you are their friend, telling them the truth is better than lying to them to make them feel good. Somethings just hurt ya know.
Growing up in an Asian family it is safe to say that my self-esteem is non-existent. I'm 30, female and hella depressed.
I got from this is that they can make you feel bad but you can't make them feel bad
thats literally what a parent is tho haha
Miyoung was spittin this entire segment
3:30 That's really unfortunate having parents who discourage communicating intentionally or unintentionally...
Them: *make you feel bad*
You: This is how I'm feeling
Them: Why would you say that and make us feel bad?
and then parents get surprised if they child end up in an abusive or manipulative relationship
Oof that hit home too hard. It took you the courage to even open up to them when you know they aren’t really supportive but having them say that back to you made you see another toxic perspective of how even your emotions are wrong. But here i am ranting on a raw wound
My parents were like this too. It's important to set boundaries with them on the matter and enforce them properly. If I got backhanded comments from my family then I always made a comment back that I really didn't see a point in saying something like that and asking them what they are trying to do. Make them self aware about it. Be properly firm without being malicious. That's how I prefer to stand up for myself.
Yeah... asian parents don't care...
My home isn’t my home so relatable
I don’t ever really leave comments but this reminded me of when I was 14/15, when other girls started to wear makeup and care more about looks, I started doing the same things, and my mom said I looked like a prostitute..
Even now I’m in my late 20s and no longer rely on them for anything, she still constantly calls me fat and ugly, it’s just I’ve learned how to live with it now.
I'm really lucky I worked things out with my Parents. Took a lot of communicating to sort everything out.
I just want to say to parents, your children are people too, as such, treat them like people, and to the children, your parents are people too, again, treat them like people. Each have their own thoughts, their own experiences, what you feel doesn't make the what the other feel invalid.
i wrote a short story in middle school about my home life and how my parents were shitty and had a two hour conversation with my counselor. thankfully they never said anything to my parents
I was so much conditioned to lie and make it seem like I wasn't in an abusive situation. I accepted it too because I didn't want to have confrontations. At least we all knew it was a lie, or so I thought. Now they're hard-gaslighting me about every little thing in past n present and tryna paint the lies as truth. I did the it for them and this is how they repay me😶
It seems like you are feeling more comfortable in your own skin …… we hold in so much and that’s not good to do, when you find a good group of friends who you feel comfortable sharing this stuff with do it, I have found that the people you trust enough to share this stuff with is a one way relationship , they are happy to let you unload it and give you their opinion about what you tell them , and you’ll be that person to someone else , it’s just not the person you had … I don’t know why that is this way it’s just what I found to be true ,…… it’s Ok Miyoung things will get better just keep letting it out , feelings don’t always make sense and it’s important to let the feeling flow when they come with the words …. Just be kind to the person you are sharing this with ….. be kind to everyone is the best way to be …… treat people the way you want to be treated . Take care of the people who take care of you …… try n stay positive and don’t hold onto the hurt …. I hope this helps
thats ok, my parents thought I was gay until I was 25, never did and never will I be gay.
It's the Korean parent way....
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Idk. Maybe it's Asian parents got their own unique triggers? As if makeup would be gateway drug for you to be obsessed with looks or w/e
Mine was "gambling" - in my early 20s some family & friends went to Atlantic City and as a meme, one of us spent like $5 on slots just to say we gambled something. My usually "sweet" mom blew up on alllllll of us and then ignored us with exception of death glare for rest of trip.
Hey, everyone here is fucking beautiful, and asian parents be mean af LOL Keep it pushing.
Is maybe the way they grew up and dint knew another way
My grandparents also told me I looked/dressed like shit
Yeah asian parents.. my mom too she's like 1/4 chinese and she tells me I'm gonna get murdered If I ever became a cop so she shat on my dreams now I've got no direction in life LMAO
@PepeLaugh you mean the rogue cops? I'm familiar with those people they're like viruses in society and doesn't function as they should you know if I was incharged I will probably make the job more desirable but very difficult to enter cause I'd put a lot of test to filter possibly inducting these scums..
That's Asian parents man Sadge.
I think there is just a lot of misunderstanding between parents and children. Kids are in an environment of high insecurity due to their age and their peers, so they want to do what they can to fit in the most. Parents don't want their children to blindly follow stupid trends, or believe all their self worth is based on the physical image they are portraying. But as you get older you understand why your parents said/did things that upset you because they were always trying to look out for you, and your future. I had tough parents, my mom would hit me when I misbehaved and I don't fault them a bit, because it was their intentions that matter the most. Also this younger generation is lost when it comes to accountability, they want to blame all their problems on everyone else but themselves. You will never grow if you can't see your own mistakes and the role that they play in your problems.
Wtf..
@@skylardesmire9585 what?
Could’ve stopped at “most” monkaW
@lin8654 whats wrong with the rest of what I wrote?
@@TheMoistBanana saying specifically younger generation might feel targeting, its realistically literally a problem with every age theres idiots everywhere who never grew up. Facts tho this is something that pple don't teach properly
🧐 you sound like a millennial 😎👍 welcome to the club🍾 🍰🍹🍨🍕
Soft generation
you're literally in that same generation 💀💀
@@Regent192 triggerd much?
Being able to adress your feelings instead of hiding them is a sign of strength and not weakness. Supressing your feelings and/or hide them doesnt make you strong but messes you up over time. Vulnerability also is a sign of courage. We become more resilient and brave when we embrace who we truly are and what we are feeling. But some people just dont get it i think.
@Chicken Park nah
more like, laughing at your self-hating self
@@user-xo3tw8zb7l at least they're out of our hair then