Very mature of her. We have the right to criticize our parents in how they brought us up and treat us, but we also need to take responsibility for how we treat others. You can either try to break generational trauma or pass it along.
Damn this is some very insightful advise, bravo! I have the best mom in the world but she has a tendency to say some very hurtful words to me as a kid. As an adult I tried to tell her about the things she said to me as a child that hurt me mentally and she just brushes it off as me misremembering or that I need to grow up. As a parent I'm very careful on things I say to my kids.
@@NRV0this happened to me too. My mom treated me like this and it was abusive. Im still living with trauma and haven't adjusted well to adulthood. Unfortunately I don't talk to her anymore. She can say a few things and I get super angry so it's actually not safe. It's important for our generation to break the cycle. Or else we'll pass on that trauma to the next generation. It's up to us to be aware and make that choice.
Miyoung’s obviously thought about this a lot, and did her homework on her family tree’s history, so IMO how she interacts with her parents is nobody’s business or choice to make but hers. She’s very wise.
miyoung's the favorite child bro. she's said this before that her sister actually had the short end of the stick when it comes to how their parents treated them. she knows this that's why she can't really complain much on how her parents treat HER bc they've done a lot worst to her sister.
It's always important to remember that your parents lived a full existence before they had you. That doesn't excuse or forgive everything, or in some cases anything, but it does explain why they are how they are.
I think the patience part is in most families. it probably means you are closer, but as long as you love each other at the end of the day it's gonna be fine.
Sometimes they just guilt you and just use you and it times to get out of the environment. Like its not bad and you don't have to feel guilty for not helping your parents 24/7 and be at the beck and call. I feel bad but sometimes its just for the sake of peace in the mind to leave.
Honestly i feel like my parents definitely didnt do the best they could lol, I wouldve liked more effort. Thats something ill never exactly let go of in the back of my mind and depths of my heart, but im still pretty decent at giving patience and grace cuz I really like being better than them. In a petty way.
my dads mom leashed him to a tree in their yard bc he was too hyper. he did the best he could, but hes still shit. but also eff his parents too. he tried his best, was probably better than his parents, but i still wont forgive him for certain things
I find miyoung's "content" voice amazingly annoying but she is very insightful and mature and her normal voice is very soothing to listen to in this clip. I only ever saw her in other people's streams and never really wanted to watch her but after this i think i might actually like watching her stream more than anyone else in their friend group. She's her.
I personally don’t like when she repeats often (pet peeve of mine 😅) but as someone who used to never talk, she seems to have been bursting out her bubble recently and I love that for her. Also I don’t think it’s a “content” specific voice I think it just depends on her mood.
I feel like if you chatted in their friend group's chats you'd be one of those chatters who'd get banned after a while. You'd say someone is "amazingly annoying" and then they'll criticize your brutal online social skills before they ban or time you out 😆
Asian parents are strict , my parents force me to always help them from their small business , and always blame me and threaten to kick me out of the house or hurt me if i refuse , this kind of abuse goes on for some time but , when i tell them to just kill me now , because even school is hard for me , not just in the house , they stop , I dont know how they become aware of it , but these kind of parent is super narcissistic and they only care about money and status even not caring about their own son , a self centered parent
Very mature of her. We have the right to criticize our parents in how they brought us up and treat us, but we also need to take responsibility for how we treat others. You can either try to break generational trauma or pass it along.
Damn this is some very insightful advise, bravo! I have the best mom in the world but she has a tendency to say some very hurtful words to me as a kid. As an adult I tried to tell her about the things she said to me as a child that hurt me mentally and she just brushes it off as me misremembering or that I need to grow up. As a parent I'm very careful on things I say to my kids.
@@NRV0this happened to me too. My mom treated me like this and it was abusive. Im still living with trauma and haven't adjusted well to adulthood. Unfortunately I don't talk to her anymore. She can say a few things and I get super angry so it's actually not safe. It's important for our generation to break the cycle. Or else we'll pass on that trauma to the next generation. It's up to us to be aware and make that choice.
Miyoung’s obviously thought about this a lot, and did her homework on her family tree’s history, so IMO how she interacts with her parents is nobody’s business or choice to make but hers. She’s very wise.
miyoung's the favorite child bro. she's said this before that her sister actually had the short end of the stick when it comes to how their parents treated them. she knows this that's why she can't really complain much on how her parents treat HER bc they've done a lot worst to her sister.
Abe was not expecting what was behind the doors he opened with that question.
Lmao Abe was probably like damn i didnt mean to bring up the trauma.
i relate to the patience part
It's always important to remember that your parents lived a full existence before they had you. That doesn't excuse or forgive everything, or in some cases anything, but it does explain why they are how they are.
I will say this til other day I die. Miyoung is one of the realest content creators with her friends and chat and I respect her so much for it 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
she understands the circumstances of her parents. that's good.
asian parenting man 😣 i tell you, everyone treats each other like npc
I think the patience part is in most families. it probably means you are closer, but as long as you love each other at the end of the day it's gonna be fine.
Bro why am i hearing the damn Suika bgm on a minecraft vid GET OUT OF MY HEAD
Accept it bro
😂😂😂
lmao abe jokingly ask that but miyoung answered personally
Sometimes they just guilt you and just use you and it times to get out of the environment. Like its not bad and you don't have to feel guilty for not helping your parents 24/7 and be at the beck and call. I feel bad but sometimes its just for the sake of peace in the mind to leave.
This reminds me of my dad kept saying im spoiled and then both my grandparents whispered to me that he was even more spoiled than me.....
Love miyoung's take, parents aren't perfect but you still should be grateful for the thing they did do for you
Honestly i feel like my parents definitely didnt do the best they could lol, I wouldve liked more effort.
Thats something ill never exactly let go of in the back of my mind and depths of my heart, but im still pretty decent at giving patience and grace cuz I really like being better than them.
In a petty way.
Omg I have like zero patience with my parents too and I consider myself a patient person.
Damn, peak asian parenting right there. Glad Miyoung is level headed but her Dad talking to her only when he needs money is so.. that's rough buddy.
I can't even fathom being such a failure at life to where I would be asking my kids for money. Holy sad.
Damn meyoung's real mature 😅
relatable but its our parents first times living as well
I can relate to it
my dads mom leashed him to a tree in their yard bc he was too hyper.
he did the best he could, but hes still shit. but also eff his parents too. he tried his best, was probably better than his parents, but i still wont forgive him for certain things
Damn thts ruff
Every asian family😢
i relate to abe on the sister part
typical asian family dynamics. or what you call, tell me you're asia without telling me you're asian
My dad tries to call me once a year (on my birthday)....I wish he could call me one less time a year 🤣
my dad didnt even wish me on my birthday haha sadge
@@elfalfaf my dad needs to learn from your dad 😁
It's Abe fault isn't it? smh
Is that why she stoped talking to toast?
You are more attractive lately
I find miyoung's "content" voice amazingly annoying but she is very insightful and mature and her normal voice is very soothing to listen to in this clip. I only ever saw her in other people's streams and never really wanted to watch her but after this i think i might actually like watching her stream more than anyone else in their friend group. She's her.
How do you go from insulting someone for their voice to complimenting them…. You need help.
@@Jaeguso it's called character development.
I personally don’t like when she repeats often (pet peeve of mine 😅) but as someone who used to never talk, she seems to have been bursting out her bubble recently and I love that for her. Also I don’t think it’s a “content” specific voice I think it just depends on her mood.
@@Jaegusoits their personal opinion. you can like one part of someone and not other parts. sounds like you need help cause its common as hell
I feel like if you chatted in their friend group's chats you'd be one of those chatters who'd get banned after a while. You'd say someone is "amazingly annoying" and then they'll criticize your brutal online social skills before they ban or time you out 😆
Bro she looks like Toast in this haircut.
copying Sykkuno's personality and streaming style and now copying Lily"s pity farming with "my parents are bad" stories.
get a job
Asian parents are strict , my parents force me to always help them from their small business , and always blame me and threaten to kick me out of the house or hurt me if i refuse , this kind of abuse goes on for some time but , when i tell them to just kill me now , because even school is hard for me , not just in the house , they stop ,
I dont know how they become aware of it , but these kind of parent is super narcissistic and they only care about money and status even not caring about their own son , a self centered parent