Reacting To Dating Profiles With My Single Friend | Courtney & Hallee React

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  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 2 роки тому +259

    Had my first ever date last week, 3 hour chat over coffee that I think went superbly!! So thankful for your channel :)

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +19

      Wow! 3hrs? How long between meeting in person/online until you met up? Take your time bro

    • @moolis
      @moolis 2 роки тому +29

      @Admir Barucija Congrats man. But leave her with wanting more. 3 hrs is way too long. Leave the date on a cliffhanger/high and setup the next date after if you two were really into each other. Hope you left with a kiss as well

    • @admirbarucija2018
      @admirbarucija2018 2 роки тому +16

      @@LatimusChadimus About 2 days or so between scheduling the meet-up and it taking place! We are extremely compatible in terms of personality/worldview, but I certainly didn’t expect it to go on that long haha. Will definitely take my time :)

    • @admirbarucija2018
      @admirbarucija2018 2 роки тому +10

      @@moolis It was long, but I enjoyed it and thought it was a good start. Because of my work schedule and such I don’t have many chances to go out so I have to make the most of them

    • @jonkybeats
      @jonkybeats 2 роки тому +6

      Courtney has the great dating advice, but you should definitely check out Corey wayne!

  • @terryah2136
    @terryah2136 2 роки тому +69

    I met my current girlfriend on Tinder, after many years of failure. I just took some of Courtney’s tips on how to make a good profile, as well as some of her fashion tips. Been going strong for over a month now and I’ve never been happier. Online dating does work if you do it right

  • @jacegallagher8589
    @jacegallagher8589 2 роки тому +18

    @CourtneyRyan I went on a 4th date with a woman yesterday. Your videos helped me identify red flags I would have missed in the past. It sucks that this relationship did not work out, but at least I was able to cut my losses before any real emotional attachment happened.

  • @Snowkone81
    @Snowkone81 2 роки тому +34

    Absolutely love the profile feedback from both of you. While not using a dating app, it’s good to hear the girl perspective in things.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +1

      UA-cam's favorite big sis!

    • @sucram1018
      @sucram1018 Рік тому +1

      A million other women will say the opposite. Focus on one woman that likes you and isn't petty as fuck over everything on your profile. Or just don't waste time on dating apps and do it in person.

  • @jeffmast2068
    @jeffmast2068 2 роки тому +85

    I will probably never use a dating app but if I ever do will definitely use your advice. As for Hallee 😍

  • @dukeonwheels
    @dukeonwheels 2 роки тому +56

    FYI ladies "no ONS attitude" means "no one night stand attitude." He was talking about himself. Basically saying he isn't a fuckboy.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому +12

      Thank you for letting us know! Appreciate it

    • @mrbejam
      @mrbejam 2 роки тому +1

      I assumed he missed the comma - “no ons, attitude…etc”

    • @MendarCz
      @MendarCz 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks @Duke on Wheels for explanation :) exactly as you said I must forgot that comma there

  • @devnotes00
    @devnotes00 2 роки тому +21

    I took some tips from these videos and changed up my photos and bios now the matches won't stop! Thanks ladies 🥰

  • @Tim_Worldly
    @Tim_Worldly 2 роки тому +130

    To the guys out here watching this, you can have the perfect profile that checks all the boxes these ladies tell you to check and they’ll still keep scrolling if you aren’t attractive enough.

    • @thecommenter9267
      @thecommenter9267 2 роки тому +26

      True, you should really only be on dating apps if you're above average in physical attractiveness. At a certain point, personality will kick in, but if you're below that point, like you said they'll just swipe left before reading anyways.

    • @Tim_Worldly
      @Tim_Worldly 2 роки тому +19

      @@thecommenter9267 Chris Rock said it best.. If you’re fat, you’d better be rich and if you’re broke, you’d better have a six pack.

    • @geekiepooh
      @geekiepooh 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah. You're better off networking with people in general. Go out and have fun doing things. Expose yourself so they know you are a down to earth fun loving/likeable person. Online, you can't display vibe, tonality, energy and behavior.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +6

      Well keep trying to level up because women only swipe right on 20% or less of guys and their area. Some may come back after they don't find what they're looking for the first go-around which if you aren't her first choice, she might not be worth choosing (if you're seeking something long term)

    • @mikolajsarbinowski3493
      @mikolajsarbinowski3493 2 роки тому +2

      FACT.

  • @josefeliciano1077
    @josefeliciano1077 2 роки тому +10

    Love your channel!Your friend has a gorgeous smile!

  • @MendarCz
    @MendarCz 2 роки тому +14

    Hey Courtney! Thank you for the review (1st profile was mine). Definatelly some good points there :)

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you for participating! ❤️

    • @Laura-Yu
      @Laura-Yu 2 роки тому

      Damn that must’ve been surreal…

  • @disadadi8958
    @disadadi8958 2 роки тому +4

    2:50 he's saying "no ONS attitude" == he doesn't look for one-night stands. I don't think that's even remotely the same as saying he doesn't want a girl with attitude.

  • @mrcrhartman
    @mrcrhartman 2 роки тому +3

    19:18 "Cute...you have a friend..." 😆 aka "someone can stand being in the same room with you...". Unintentionally hilarious.

  • @janpauledwarddedios5366
    @janpauledwarddedios5366 2 роки тому +16

    Thanks for the tips ladies. My close female friend/ big sister is encouraging me to try online dating.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому

      Well design a good profile and let them come to you, so it will be more comfortable for her because if she doesn't pursue you, she doesn't have genuine desire and you don't want to have to negotiate attention because that will lead to torture and even heartbreak

    • @Laura-Yu
      @Laura-Yu 2 роки тому

      Definitely try it, it can be fun as long as you don’t take it too seriously too fast. And there always will be people who are shitty conversationalists, please don’t become bitter because of them because once you find the good ones it’s great

  • @jessesparzza9019
    @jessesparzza9019 2 роки тому +1

    Cadid Photos work well, a visual of how the subject felt opposed to how they looked captures a genuine essence. Keep it real guys!!

  • @jameshumphries5059
    @jameshumphries5059 2 роки тому +39

    Best online dating advice is to not use online dating and approach women throughout your day to day life.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +2

      That is the better option, because you have to be more comfortable and confident talking with anybody, especially women. Who knows how many of these guys that need to work on themselves will even want to be patient enough to do the work and then show the market they are available

    • @jameshumphries5059
      @jameshumphries5059 2 роки тому +3

      @@LatimusChadimus - It doesn’t matter if your comfortable talking to new people I’m not. I’m very introverted I barley said a word to anyone in school because I was too scared to speak up. But when I see a girl I like for example at the grocery store. I simply go up to her and say something like this.
      Me- Excuse my I think your cute I wanted to say hi
      Me- I’m James (shake hands)exchange names
      Then ask about her day, what she planned for the weekend, ask her what she does for fun, flirt a little and then say
      Listen I’ve got to go but let me get your number and we’ll hang out sometime. Most of the time I get a yes it’s really not that hard. It’s not about being shy or having no experience men are so weak they are scared of rejection and care what others think about them.

    • @primeobjective5469
      @primeobjective5469 2 роки тому +1

      95% of women want the top 5% of men with online dating. Stay away from online dating, for your own mental health.

    • @jameshumphries5059
      @jameshumphries5059 2 роки тому

      @@primeobjective5469 - True

    • @TheCryptidEncounters
      @TheCryptidEncounters 2 роки тому +5

      Hard for guys like me that work a trade job that is 99% men, other than going to the grocery store theres really no other opportunities.

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 2 роки тому +10

    I have done online dating in the past with Plenty of Fish, and Bumble. I had an overall good experience with Plenty of Fish but I found Bumble as a waste of time as women are suppose to initiate conversation and if they messaged me, the conversation was jaded

    • @thecommenter9267
      @thecommenter9267 2 роки тому +7

      Bumble fundamentally misunderstands female nature. Women don't like doing the approaching, they like being approached.
      Women may complain about how they get so many messages on dating apps, but it's really more of a flex than a complaint.
      Bumble founders took that feedback way too literally and then made an app where only women can initiate. Shows complete lack of understanding. It's no wonder why it's a poorly rated app with declining subscriber numbers.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому +10

      Bumble is a total waste of time in my opinion lol online dating is hard enough, let alone when a woman is required to send the first message 😅

    • @LandofLit
      @LandofLit 2 роки тому

      @@CourtneyRyan On one hand that makes sense...on the other hand...most of my matches and convos lately i've gotten from bumble lol

    • @SystematicMechanic
      @SystematicMechanic 2 роки тому +5

      @@CourtneyRyan hey Women wanted equality so here is their chance to start asking guys out.

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra 2 роки тому +5

    Love your videos! You’ve helped me improve a lot in my personal life. Thank you and keep it going🙏🏽💯

  • @macstewart409
    @macstewart409 2 роки тому +1

    I have been watching your channel for a while and picked up alot of good tips. I like Hallee too, she seems like a kind person.

  • @Awesome_Force
    @Awesome_Force 2 роки тому +3

    No ONS attitude means they don't want someone that participates on casual sex (one night stands = ONS). It is important to make expectations like that clear from the beginning.

  • @Ironman4u
    @Ironman4u 2 роки тому +1

    The " best" dating profile you can have is a ....smile!....it's free...honest...welcoming & shows that you love living life & genuinely "care". It can make anybodys day! Always put your best foot forward, Not in your mouth!

  • @michaelangus2206
    @michaelangus2206 2 роки тому +7

    ONS = One Night Stand
    Joel is into FPV drone flying. the VR lets him see the POV of the drone.

    • @kadukashi
      @kadukashi 2 роки тому +2

      I am fpv guy too. Was a bit funny to see her saying "oh you are a drone guy" cause it sounded like she got turned off a bit

  • @robtraughber1628
    @robtraughber1628 2 роки тому +9

    Really love your advice Courtney. Yes Hailey always kicks it out of thé park style wise.
    Speaking of kick one of the profiles had
    1 Dan - first degree black belt
    TKD - Tae Kwon Do
    WTF - World Taekowndo Federation

  • @jimmymcwatters4182
    @jimmymcwatters4182 2 роки тому +7

    Dating apps for the most part are a waste of time. It's crazy how people are simply judged by physical appearance. How more shallow can you be? I get it, you want to be with someone you're attracted to but looks isn't everything. Dating apps is like checking what's on the menu at a restaurant and if you're not a 9 or 10, girls won't give you the time of day....You have a higher chance of getting struck by lightning twice then finding a girl on a dating app!

    • @25-8
      @25-8 2 роки тому +2

      Big fax

    • @jimmymcwatters4182
      @jimmymcwatters4182 2 роки тому

      @dflowers30 right bro, but what are the chances of attracting women you want to date if most women are shallow and won't give you the time of day? It's pointless

  • @FahimusAlimus
    @FahimusAlimus 2 роки тому +1

    14:08, appreciate the review. I've always liked my bio and had trouble picking the right pictures.

  • @mbrsart
    @mbrsart 2 роки тому +1

    6:10 Not virtual reality per se. You were right the first time, it's drone stuff, just not the kind of drone stuff most people are used to. He's basically sitting in the drone "cockpit," but it's not 3D. It'd probably be better to have a photo with him holding the drone, with the goggles around his neck, and the controller hanging on the lanyard.

  • @Chryslerdealership
    @Chryslerdealership 2 роки тому +12

    Maybe it’s just me PMS-ing, but reading that quote about love made me actually want to cry. 😭 If I stumbled upon that while on Tinder I would stop in my tracks. That is so cute.

  • @zakkhetfield1963
    @zakkhetfield1963 2 роки тому +4

    Appreciate getting the passing grade for my profile, thanks for the feature ☺️

  • @Big4damGaming
    @Big4damGaming 2 роки тому +4

    Just 2 absolutely stunning women giving advice to us hopeless individuals! 😍❤️

    • @jleano609
      @jleano609 2 роки тому +8

      Speak for yourself, Sunshine. You’ve managed to give free validation AND disparage yourself all in one sentence. You should think about that.

    • @thecommenter9267
      @thecommenter9267 2 роки тому +3

      I wouldn't paint your own gender as "hopeless" ... how about just two people making content for many other people?

  • @Chettabob07
    @Chettabob07 2 роки тому +3

    Hey Courtney, love the content! I have one ask, though. Could you possibly get some perspectives from women of color as well? I would love to see if there are any slight cultural differences in how black, asian, hispanic women, etc, become attracted to men.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому +7

      Absolutely I can! ❤️

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому

      I love me some chocolate
      Brings me back to my teen years 😅

  • @trudgemankPhD
    @trudgemankPhD 2 роки тому +1

    ooo I like Hallee's shirt and how her hair goes with it 👌🏼

  • @Naveena-Mala642
    @Naveena-Mala642 Рік тому

    Good luck out there guys, youre gonna need it!

  • @AnonymousProPublicaHakr
    @AnonymousProPublicaHakr Рік тому

    Its so refreshing to see and listen to REAL women that do not have an “agenda” against men. These women are so Beautiful and honest. Women, need to take note. Men are more receptive and understanding when women are not hostile and hating men.

  • @bradleycooper5436
    @bradleycooper5436 2 роки тому

    I how to use a mirror pic because I don't have any pictures of myself

  • @Nbafan2000
    @Nbafan2000 2 роки тому

    Hey Courtney! Do you do private teachings? Thank you for this vid. Helped SO much.

  • @lasvegasauditor4508
    @lasvegasauditor4508 2 роки тому +5

    Guys, read this a hundred times! " Online dating sites are a waste of your time..."

  • @98DEB
    @98DEB 2 роки тому +21

    “Single” I would give her $100K if I could go through her phone and not find 1 man she’s currently talking to/ seeing.

    • @thecommenter9267
      @thecommenter9267 2 роки тому +11

      She doesn't strike me as the promiscuous type, more like just hyper-selective. That's my biggest piece of feedback for these RP channels, they always show these hypersexual promiscuous types when in reality there are tons of quality women out there who are nothing like those women.
      The problem is those quality women are almost asexual. They're really focused more on their careers and education. If a good guy just somehow plops into their lives, then they will consider the notion of having a partner, but otherwise it would never even cross their minds.
      My girlfriend was like that too. If we hadn't met the way we did (pure coincidence), you would never see her on a dating app, looking at guys, talking about guys, or even thinking about guys. Was just a low/non-priority for her.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +5

      Single does mean non exclusive
      Save your cash bro and relax

    • @98DEB
      @98DEB 2 роки тому +1

      @@LatimusChadimus Single means only one (no partner). Exclusive means limited to one (one partner).
      So, non-exclusive would have to mean NOT limited to one OR (multiple partners). This is my point, we all know is what it means.

    • @yme3267
      @yme3267 2 роки тому +3

      @@thecommenter9267 So.... she's f*cking dudes on the side and just not in a relationship. Got it 👍
      She's selective for that relationship status...... meaning she enjoys using dudes and wants to be alone till she's "ready" (about to begin her decline)

    • @vlajster
      @vlajster 2 роки тому +3

      I'll double that,they're all full of shit

  • @itzarcade5141
    @itzarcade5141 2 роки тому

    How to move on it has been more than a year still i feel about her what to do and how to do now?

  • @mattflub
    @mattflub Рік тому

    Why did you tell the guy with car to keep it of its his interests but the guy witht the vr headset on to get rid of that photo ? Dosnt that show interests? Can there be wrong interests?

  • @Brians_World81
    @Brians_World81 2 роки тому +14

    So these girls have some decent advice in regard to the style of the pictures, but you have to take their advice with a grain of salt. Post your picture on photofeelers and get the REAL rating. Like a abercrombie & fitch male model taking a selfie with his shirt off WILL get way more results on tinder than an average looking dude with a great picture. Dont delude yourself.

    • @Marcus_009
      @Marcus_009 2 роки тому +1

      Good to see way more guys accepting the black pill in a non nihilistic way

    • @Brians_World81
      @Brians_World81 2 роки тому +1

      @@Marcus_009 Dont get me wrong. Confident and game does matters. To get result, you need both looks and confidents. But a fat confident dude isnt going to be pulling models. A shy male model is going to get ignored as well.

    • @Marcus_009
      @Marcus_009 2 роки тому +2

      @@Brians_World81 completely agree, its just being realistic and honest enough to know what level of looks you can attract based on genuine desire, only a small percentile of men can attract and maintain model looking women but these UA-camrs push the idea of ‘oh just have good fashion sense, grooming etc etc and you can too’ look of course that’ll help but you’ll still hit a threshold you can’t pass and that’s ok it’s normal

    • @Brians_World81
      @Brians_World81 2 роки тому +1

      @@Marcus_009 still, looks are largely within your control though. If you hit the gym and get shredded, you can at least get yourself to a 7.5 to an 8. Combine the 8th in looks plus extremely good game can get you far with girls. If that fails, you can change environments lol. When i traveled to Colombia, I dated girls hotter than any girls I’ve even seen in America. It’s because the country has way hotter women. In an environment that has abundance supplies of beautiful women, dating is exponentially easier.

  • @DallasSniper
    @DallasSniper 2 роки тому +8

    ONS means One Night Stand

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +3

      Overly Nordic-curl Strong
      Over Night Sleeper
      Oncology Nursing Staff
      None of these are right. You, Dallas are correct. Mine are funny tho

    • @johngonzalez4298
      @johngonzalez4298 2 роки тому +4

      Old North State (just throwing some humor 😆)

  • @Motymott99
    @Motymott99 Рік тому +1

    Must say that Hallee is absolutely gorgeous!

  • @LandofLit
    @LandofLit 2 роки тому +1

    Yoooo...that shower prompt when i read it at first i'm like "wait,what?" Then i read it a 2nd time and burst out laughing. Genius Bro.

    • @zakkhetfield1963
      @zakkhetfield1963 2 роки тому

      Thanks, feel free to use it 👍🏼

    • @LandofLit
      @LandofLit 2 роки тому

      @@zakkhetfield1963 Cool, but I've been trying not to incorporate prompts since you can't remove them once you use them.
      Do you think you can get away w/o prompts or you find you need them if you want them to message something?

    • @zakkhetfield1963
      @zakkhetfield1963 2 роки тому

      @@LandofLit More girls respond to my prompts than my pictures, so I'd recommend using them, just make sure you pick some that represent your personality as much as possible while also being easy to respond to.
      That's why I chose the shower thoughts prompt. It's equal parts witty and funny, while also being genuinely interesting to think about.
      Concentrate on 1 prompt that you're really happy with, make that the first one they see. The other prompts don't need to be as specific or as thought out.
      Its what has worked for me anyway.

    • @LandofLit
      @LandofLit 2 роки тому

      @@zakkhetfield1963 okay so at the very least focus on having one prompt right? That prompt and answer can be yours or my own that I like? 🤔 I might try my own first I mean...my channel LITERALLY dabbles in comedy lol 😊

    • @zakkhetfield1963
      @zakkhetfield1963 2 роки тому +1

      @@LandofLit Exactly. Figure out your own or work away with mine, it's all good. Best of luck 👍🏼

  • @planu9031
    @planu9031 2 роки тому

    5:00 this definitely be use for tinder a laughter is definitely added value to your profile

  • @amieliyahu3404
    @amieliyahu3404 2 роки тому +1

    I subscribed to you because of alex from playing with fire. Saw the you vs nelly video. Omg nelly is such a toxic woman.
    And you are such a great example of an awesome woman!
    Honestly you just gave me hope. I see the hatred modern Tiktok women have for men, which is a result of the criminal mainstream media thru the years.
    Thank you Courtney.
    ❤️

  • @Galatorm
    @Galatorm 2 роки тому

    My theme song is the Captain America theme at the beginning of Captain America 2, the one where you watch the sun rise from afar on the national mall in Washington, as Steve Rogers run lap around the water.
    I don't know, this song really give me a morning vibe, along with a much needed energy boost to start my day.
    Good video overall, some nice tips. I'm looking for a coparent rather than a lover, so the bio is bound to take it into account, but I'll try to keep your advice in mind.

  • @Submersed24
    @Submersed24 3 місяці тому

    Dating apps are the source of my depression as a guy. It’s just not fun messaging a girl you like knowing she is talking to 50 other guys you need to compete with for her attention. I met my past gf irl and I was the only one she was talking to before we dated and loved it. The amount of options just creates a never ending need for constant validation imo for most

  • @kesslerbuslines9861
    @kesslerbuslines9861 Рік тому

    Does the "Love poem" have Emma Age 6 ?
    Did everyone miss that?

  • @kelvin_l
    @kelvin_l 2 роки тому +1

    Love your videos! Keep up the good work! Your friend Hallee seems like a pretty amazing person...and she's single?

  • @SigmaLegend69
    @SigmaLegend69 2 роки тому +2

    2:18 ONS Attitude?
    Urban Dictionary, the Acronym is: “One Night Stand”.

  • @Somalakshmi-Binata6200
    @Somalakshmi-Binata6200 Рік тому

    This video was so relatable and funny 😂

  • @LatimusChadimus
    @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +5

    Dudes left theirs blank? I'd say 90+% of women on any dating site (hinge and bumble excluded) put "blah" "..." Or "Idk" and that speaks volumes (she came to swipe, not to find an LTR)

    • @nightfangs2910
      @nightfangs2910 2 роки тому +4

      Yep, she's looking for validation and to see how high her sexual market value is

    • @thecommenter9267
      @thecommenter9267 2 роки тому +3

      Yep, at this point it's pretty much objectively true that female dating profiles are significantly lower quality than male dating profiles. And the obvious reason for that is because men face stiffer competition and therefore NEED to be on point in order to stand out. Women have all the options anyways so there really is no need to put effort into their profiles.

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +1

      @@thecommenter9267 for sure. I mean if they only have the effort to write blah, or this is stupid, then you can already get a sample of their basic attitude.

  • @headbanger1992
    @headbanger1992 2 роки тому +1

    Loved This and yes our favourite hallee 😀

  • @AnlStarDestroyer
    @AnlStarDestroyer 2 роки тому +1

    How do I match with Hallee?

  • @bulletzzz3
    @bulletzzz3 2 роки тому +1

    In my opinion the best profiles are the ones where they don't take things too seriously. Post some funny / goofy / confusing pics.

  • @LatimusChadimus
    @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +16

    Uh oh! Courtney told her fans that her friend is single! 😂😂🤣 The simps will swarm......fellas lol just in case, level up, let them swarm

    • @wynonasbigbrowndragon6121
      @wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 2 роки тому +1

      I came here to see if anyone was going to comment on the fact that she just told the entirety of UA-cam that her attractive and cool friend is single. She's either doing her friend a favour or playing a prank of some kind 🤣

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому +5

      I think it helps to know that you’re getting the perspective of a single girl who is actually using the apps! 😂 it’s been a while since I’ve used one so I like to add a fresh perspective 🙌🏼

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +1

      @@georgegray2712 i know but it might nudge some of them. Twas just poking fun at Courtney 😅

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому

      @@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 see see! See! Could be messing with her friend, or just not caring 🤣🤣

  • @WilliamMcgady
    @WilliamMcgady Місяць тому

    Hallee and Courtney what cars from 1950s and 1960s take pictures in front of?

  • @JohnstasBACK
    @JohnstasBACK 2 роки тому +1

    i love the group vids. Especially when you have a topic and ask the opinions of different women LMAO those are entertaining/informative

  • @max8m1
    @max8m1 2 роки тому +1

    I went on a first date with a girl where we actually swooned about nice cars with a funny twist. We were talking about what would make a good death, so she said she'd like to get run over by a really cool car at high speed. I proceeded to ask her which one she'd prefer, so I'd know when to hold her tight when such a model passes us. Never expected to proceed talking to a girl about cars for half an hour, but we did and it was awesome! ^^

    • @JishinimaTidehoshi
      @JishinimaTidehoshi 2 роки тому

      Stereotypes are stupid. I'm a woman and I've talked about horror films and hentai porn with other women 😂😂😂

  • @aeternus6296
    @aeternus6296 4 місяці тому

    I've never felt so undesired or unwanted in my life and I was abandoned by my mother. I have never felt such suicidal self loathing in my life. I'm deleting these apps.

  • @nicoschroder7720
    @nicoschroder7720 2 роки тому

    Hey Courtney, what is your opinion on black & white photos? I have all my pictures in b&w do you think it adds an artsy touch or should i keep a few pictures normally so people can see my skin color etc?

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому +1

      I’d say 1-2 B&W photos doesn’t hurt but make sure you have most of them in color!

    • @hkay3127
      @hkay3127 2 роки тому

      Umm.. are you on Schindler's list?

  • @jjteller41
    @jjteller41 2 роки тому

    Hallee is back🤩🤩

  • @stanleygordon8441
    @stanleygordon8441 Рік тому

    Question Ladies? Once you find a match on a dating app. At what point will you delete your profile / app. And do you think you will wondering if you are missing something. asking for a friend.

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 2 роки тому +1

    What does she think 'candid' means? 🤔

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 2 роки тому +1

    2:18
    I guess he's gotten tired of reading the plethora of abbreviations on women's profiles.
    i.e.
    No ONS
    No FWB
    No NSA
    I mean getting on Tinder and then projecting a sense of entitlement like you're only there for a husband... 🙄
    She's either lying, or stupid.
    First time I read 'ons' I thought WTF is that, because she was too lazy to use capitals.
    And females are lazy when it comes to making profiles.
    I once created a fake woman's profile to see what the male competition was like on Tinder,
    and I was surprised to find that overall their proflies were WAAAAY better than the women's.
    They'd obviously done a bit of research and put some work into it.
    Which on further reflection actually isn't surprising;
    this is what we do, and what women don't do.
    Also, I'd say (at least in my estimation as a straight guy) that collectively they were better looking than the women. Like, by more than a little.

  • @michaelrespicio5683
    @michaelrespicio5683 2 роки тому +8

    There have been lots of horror stories concerning dating apps. Most users are looking for someone in the same city so in that case, just go out there and do it in the real world. For someone who says "be confident", what there's to be confident about in breaking the ice from behind a screen by text? That works for online community group chats and making friends around the world but when looking for a relationship? Makes you seem desperate. If you're a real man, you wouldn't have to rely on dating apps. If you're really confident, why seek validation by asking girls to review your profile? These apps are an ego drainer for men and an ego feeder for women. An abomination to society.

  • @Shalini-Harinakshi891
    @Shalini-Harinakshi891 Рік тому

    Your feedback is always so helpful Hallee.

  • @drmatthewhorkey
    @drmatthewhorkey 2 роки тому

    Good to see Hallee again!

  • @wadey4215
    @wadey4215 2 роки тому

    Just saw your pwf collab honestly I think people think your older purely because of your classy demeanour usually get that with older women in my experience....Great work thanks for the great content 👍

  • @JohnstasBACK
    @JohnstasBACK 2 роки тому +3

    her friend is the human version of a golden retriever

  • @EmisFearGuitar
    @EmisFearGuitar 2 роки тому +1

    you guys were doing such a great job on this video. Then you said you like pineapple on pizza and my Italian heart broke a little bit... there you go, controversial topic started ;)

  • @TheDustLord
    @TheDustLord 2 роки тому

    You should do a video where you see what women’s profiles look like

  • @joeballer4036
    @joeballer4036 3 місяці тому +1

    INSTEAD of telling us what is a good profile. It's much better if you give thoughts on which profile you find attractive or who your single friend would swipe right on. I hope people realize those are two different things.

  • @jjteller41
    @jjteller41 2 роки тому

    Hey Courtney first off thank you for offering hinge , way better than tinder and the others. I watch most of your content and take tips from you and wanted to know. As a devorced dad when is it right to tell a girl im dating that i am one?

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  2 роки тому

      Hi Jake! I would recommend letting her know very early on, honestly the sooner the better. I did a video with my friend Alexa Lee and we discussed this in detail, I think you would really enjoy that episode!

    • @jjteller41
      @jjteller41 2 роки тому

      @@CourtneyRyan i think iv seen that one , with your devorced friend? The problom is, that everytime i get a girl to go out with me, once i tell her about it , she ends it

    • @jleano609
      @jleano609 2 роки тому +1

      @@jjteller41 if she ends it quickly, good. You can’t change it, so may as well not waste time with someone who wants fundamentally different things.

  • @paulobatuyi
    @paulobatuyi 2 роки тому

    Halee looks stunning so two beautiful women for the price of one is definitely a bonus so thanks Courtney 😌🙏🙇 UNFORTUNATELY most women have a different attitude to what you're both saying. Most look for bad boys wealth looks height muscles over a man that would treat them right and a gentleman to them that's boring. I wish men had the picking advantage but we swipe right and women swipe left until something trickles their fancy. But keep up the good work may be one day the table will turn but hell will freeze over before that ever happens.

  • @allaboutpisces5829
    @allaboutpisces5829 2 роки тому +1

    Some people go online just for validation. Do y’all rate other female profiles? Most of these girls want a certain guy regardless of how good your profile is.

  • @igmz777
    @igmz777 2 роки тому

    In Fahim's 1st picture, I was 100% expecting to see a ghost behind him! 🤣 👻

  • @redpillbrian7534
    @redpillbrian7534 2 роки тому +2

    I think it is solid advice in the video and I don't really know Hallie's situation but I just question all these upper tier chicks who are single. Any woman who looks like that has thousands upon thousands of guys hitting her up on social media, cold approaching them. Really to be "single" for more than a couple months would tell me she is dismissing every guy as not good enough. I have seen this happen all over the country and if Tom Brady showed up he would be too old and if Zac Efron showed up he would be too short and too old. The point is every dude is dismissed and then they become addicted to rejecting guys and often they are in a teenie Bopper tease phase until their mid 30s.

  • @stevenbrashear3408
    @stevenbrashear3408 2 роки тому +5

    I have to disagree about the drama part along with the bad attitude because at the end of the day, nobody needs to be dealing with unnecessary headaches. As grown adults, people should know how to regulate their own emotions. And if they don't, they have a responsibility to get themselves professional help. Now don't get me wrong, shit happens. However, if the person is going to be like a constant trainwreck, then that is a major no no.

    • @laverdadbuscador
      @laverdadbuscador 2 роки тому

      idk, I agree with them only because female nature is more emotional based. You can end it at any point in time if it gets out of hand, but I think a better approach is just creating emotional safety for a woman.

    • @stevenbrashear3408
      @stevenbrashear3408 2 роки тому +1

      @@laverdadbuscador true. However, wouldn't you also agree that emotional safety is important for both? Otherwise, the situation could become very toxic.

    • @laverdadbuscador
      @laverdadbuscador 2 роки тому

      @@stevenbrashear3408 I think in THEORY yes I agree it SHOULD be that way. BUT I think men need to be light handed with it. Confidence is the most attractive quality a man can posses. If you show too much emotion or desire a lot of emotional safety it will come from a place of "neediness". As men, we're expected to handle hard truths, solve problems, be independent, make decisions.....of course we will have moments of weakness and vulnerability. I just don't think its something we as men can biologically expect from our female partners if we want a monogamous relationship.

    • @stevenbrashear3408
      @stevenbrashear3408 2 роки тому +1

      @@laverdadbuscador I definitely agree with confidence and being able to solve problems, etc. So with that being said, fair game. However, you always have to take into careful account as far as knowing exactly who and what you're dealing with. Especially when it comes to circumstances of somebody who's emotionally unstable. Under those types of circumstances, you're constantly going to be putting out fires that are easily avoidable. Therefore, you have to choose your battles carefully as well as your partners carefully.

    • @jleano609
      @jleano609 2 роки тому

      Of course. Standards and boundaries are massively important in holding frame in relationships. But do you need to be suggesting that in your bio? Honestly, there’s no point in saying anything that could be perceived as negative. Why reduce your “funnel” that way?

  • @emilschneider9974
    @emilschneider9974 Рік тому

    "Ruffle your feathers" 🤩 this can have a double meaning...my very attractive ex-wife used to talk about going to have her feathers plucked once a month!😍

  • @Fab5Hill33
    @Fab5Hill33 2 роки тому

    Maybe make the phone bigger so we can see the pics/bio better? Also might be better to get opinion from your friends on if they would swipe right/left - and why or why not?

  • @michaelpatton9573
    @michaelpatton9573 2 роки тому

    Reactions to dating profiles is extremely subjective, but does give an idea of the thought process which is good. For example, the issue of the car in the photo. They are correct that it could attract a certain type of person and turn off others, but that's the point isn't it? So the takeaway is whatever you show, you will be judged by it, so make sure what you reveal is signaling to the type of person you want to attract.

  • @lawrencegeisewite6444
    @lawrencegeisewite6444 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the advice I really enjoy your channel

  • @infinitywarrior2110
    @infinitywarrior2110 2 роки тому

    Never been on a date
    What should I do?

    • @AMA-wm7wy
      @AMA-wm7wy 2 роки тому

      play football become so good like KDB and girls will flock to you like migrating birds.

    • @infinitywarrior2110
      @infinitywarrior2110 2 роки тому

      @@AMA-wm7wy well I'm 6 ft height with a beard and I can play guitar but still 🤐🤐

  • @jasonanthonyschultz5672
    @jasonanthonyschultz5672 2 роки тому

    I love your content and really appreciate hearing the perspectives of your friends as well. One thing that would really help would be to have more women of color to give a broader perspective. I thing I’ve seen 2 or 3 women of color on your channel so far. More diverse voices would be greatly appreciated!

    • @JishinimaTidehoshi
      @JishinimaTidehoshi 2 роки тому

      Melanie King, a black woman, also makes dating advice videos here on UA-cam

  • @HashBandicoot356
    @HashBandicoot356 2 роки тому

    Oh you guys don't like pressure, ultimatums or pre-screening out in dating? That's really interesting....

  • @jrsampson29
    @jrsampson29 2 роки тому

    I try my best with my profile I always change it and do different things Courtney Ryan you really help out a lot

  • @tpespos
    @tpespos 2 роки тому +1

    Lol you had me at single friend, I feel played. For real though, I’m taking notes to hopefully impress someone as lovely. I just moved across the country and I’m looking to update my profiles before turning them back on.

  • @rforget23
    @rforget23 2 роки тому +2

    Can I ask for your opinion on what someone who smokes weed on a regular basis should do with their dating profiles? Do women like seeing 4/20 friendly or something along those lines? Thank you for everything you do! ❤

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +1

      Sometimes it means they do smoke or are ok with smokers. Just know she may have addictive / dependent personality traits and that's not relationship healthy. Maybe just date her at arm's length, see if she finds you more entertaining than getting high

    • @LatimusChadimus
      @LatimusChadimus 2 роки тому +1

      Oh you do it. Don't post it or bring it up. If she brings it up in person, maybe surprise her yet it's estrogenic and you should just quit. It's not worth it. I gave that up back in my early 20s and I'm on my early 30s

    • @thecommenter9267
      @thecommenter9267 2 роки тому +3

      I wouldn't put it on your profile, but you could certainly bring it up in person once you're close enough.

  • @angellicad
    @angellicad 2 роки тому +1

    Something I absolutely hate is when all of their photos are GROUP photos! Idk who I’m looking at😂

  • @josephstevens9888
    @josephstevens9888 2 роки тому +6

    Hallee is just simply beautiful... fantastic smile as well!

    • @Marcus_009
      @Marcus_009 2 роки тому +1

      Don’t simp my man

    • @rippedup4546
      @rippedup4546 2 роки тому +2

      @@Marcus_009 Yes, especially because attraction can be made through one comment on UA-cam. LOL! (sarcasm)

  • @laverdadbuscador
    @laverdadbuscador 2 роки тому

    only car you should take a pic of would be a camper-van taken in a cool scene. Only because it shows adventure / free spirited. I could be wrong though.

  • @GFitness23
    @GFitness23 2 роки тому +2

    Girls don’t spend that much time analyzing the bios. Height and good photos make up about 95% of the decision they make of swiping right or left. The only humor you can display via dating apps to increase your chances is through comment on their photos or their comments to increase the likelihood of a match

    • @oober5150
      @oober5150 Рік тому +1

      Not true, women pick up on details, I don't care how good someone looks if they say stupid crap or nothing at all on the bio its a no

  • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
    @marlonmoncrieffe0728 2 роки тому

    😅 Ah, I love emojis too and use them as bullet points!
    🚗 I like the car tip, ladies!
    🙇‍♀️ Thanks!

  • @charleswilson4526
    @charleswilson4526 2 роки тому

    Courtney, any advice for dudes on Grindr?.

  • @mikeyoung7640
    @mikeyoung7640 2 роки тому +1

    Thank God I’m asexual and ace romance. Because romance is very much of a tiring game it sounds like it’s all so complicated. So basically these videos will not help me because I can’t take into much information. But when I do look at videos as a sexual person. It just seems so tiring into doesn’t seem right it’s supposed to have a naturally.

    • @alfanegro4554
      @alfanegro4554 2 роки тому

      I feel the same bro i'm too lazy for that

  • @C0ffeeKing
    @C0ffeeKing 2 роки тому

    Where do i submit my tinder profile? I need help haha

  • @markustran777
    @markustran777 2 роки тому

    Anyone else notice Jan took that dog bio off of Courtney's other Tinder video?? Haha I don't think she even noticed

  • @SigmaLegend69
    @SigmaLegend69 2 роки тому +1

    I have been seeing the “Tinder Swindler” going viral, haven't seen it yet, I suppose that's a: ⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳

  • @unappealingundesirable2826
    @unappealingundesirable2826 Рік тому

    Here is a question: I'm male, and I'm not a dog person. NO ill will against dogs. I just wouldn't be comfortable living with dogs. I think that if he puts that on his profile, that he's not a dog person (and acknowledges that that eliminates him with many great women), that's just being straight-forward. Now, I am a CAT lover (even though I have no pets). Get this: The CAT-loving women, won't give me the time of day! I have reached out to several desirable women who "have a cat, and DON'T have to have a dog," and they ALL close me out! That's not the most bothersome thing: So many women with DOGS will in fact show interest in me! If you're a woman who loves and has a cat, isn't it refreshing that a man who ALSO loves cats, is showing interest in you? Duly noted: Just because she and I are both cat lovers, does not make us an automatic match. But, why don't these DOG-loving and dog owning women just close me out from the outset? Is there some element of "But, he's going to feel different about MY dog?" Seriously, I'm about to change my dating profile to "Not a cat person. I'm into dogs, the bigger, shaggier, barkier, louder and MEANER, the better!" I mean, what do I have to lose at this point, by changing my profile to that? I bet all the DOG women would start "closing me out," and I bet the CAT women would start Smiling at me in droves!

  • @WeaponX7.
    @WeaponX7. 2 роки тому

    Everyone talks about this self timer camera setting but I cannot for the life of me find it