How to Ace a Job Interview with Effective Body Language

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  • Опубліковано 3 жов 2024

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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  4 роки тому +5

    Find out more in our full article on this topic:
    www.scienceofpeople.com/body-language-interview/

    • @shanliu7101
      @shanliu7101 4 роки тому

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    • @rohancrew1988
      @rohancrew1988 3 роки тому

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      I was stupid forgot my password. I would love any help you can give me.

    • @maverickelias3073
      @maverickelias3073 3 роки тому

      @Rohan Crew Instablaster :)

    • @rohancrew1988
      @rohancrew1988 3 роки тому

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      Seems to take quite some time so I will get back to you later with my results.

    • @rohancrew1988
      @rohancrew1988 3 роки тому

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      Thanks so much, you really help me out !

  • @Picturerazzi
    @Picturerazzi 10 років тому +67

    I think one thing forgotten is mirroring your interviewer in subtle ways because people subconsciously like people like themselves. ;)

    • @maxharlan2565
      @maxharlan2565 8 років тому +3

      +owlie girl We like those that are like us. Have you ever read "Influence" by Robert Cialdini

    • @craneflaw2019
      @craneflaw2019 5 років тому +1

      owlie girl dont be like Howard from Big Bang Theory though

    • @alcudiababe1
      @alcudiababe1 2 роки тому

      I do know this from UA-cam and other UA-cam videos but Narcissists both know and do this too!!

  • @SailorGreenTea
    @SailorGreenTea 8 років тому +20

    My friend smiles to keep his mood up. He smiles for himself.

  • @instentheos8754
    @instentheos8754 7 років тому +6

    Profesional hypnotist-NLPer here.
    This lady is talking sense. THANK GOD.

  • @chelsearachel
    @chelsearachel 2 роки тому +2

    Here once more. I succeeded with these tips last time.

  • @euphorophile8987
    @euphorophile8987 8 років тому +7

    Vanessa you're wholly,totally,completely AMAZING!

  • @ericaami971
    @ericaami971 4 роки тому +3

    @ Kenneth Cowtowne
    You are so right. It is impossible to have just one item. I will be interviewed
    by 3 HR people and so I have to take along 4 copies of my interview material, a
    pencil, a pen and a notebook for notes. All of this is in a very professional
    looking small case. And then I have my purse in which I have a small bottle to
    water, an umbrella (because even on a sunny day, it can start pouring down
    rain!) change purse etc. Since it is summer and my interview is in the
    afternoon, I don’t need a coat. But I definitely need to drink something to
    keep my mouth moist before the interview. If I only took one item to the
    interview including all of the items which I need, then I would have to take a small
    (carry-on) and that would not look very professional at all. I have always
    interviewed with two items (always looking professional) and have never had any
    problems whatsoever. It would have been nice if the gentleman in this video had
    articulated better and not spoken so fast. I loved the speech pattern of the
    woman in the “bright pink”. I do however find some of Ms.van Edwards other
    videos quite helpful. I even ran into the other room and made sure that my
    shoes were not scuffed or anything. J

  • @staykhozynycnyc7870
    @staykhozynycnyc7870 9 років тому +7

    videos are always fun to watch. Especially when you give tips on body language, love them. And plus isn't she so damn beautiful? keep up the great videos Vanessa.

  • @dinesshprabu
    @dinesshprabu Рік тому +1

    Love from India 💐 that's so amazing even after A decade things never change. That's the best part i love about science of people🎉
    Thank you so much Vanessa.

  • @nicoleramos5054
    @nicoleramos5054 7 років тому +5

    Love your videos! I'm obsessed!

    • @nicoleramos5054
      @nicoleramos5054 7 років тому

      Vanessa Van Edwards thanks for the reply! They are, working on my social persona 😀

  • @habibanazeera
    @habibanazeera Рік тому +1

    Thank you Vanessa. I love you ❤

  • @shuuzipuuzi
    @shuuzipuuzi 7 років тому +6

    Wow I love her

  • @TreasureForeverOfficial
    @TreasureForeverOfficial 6 років тому +11

    On the real-- F!!CK that about not smiling! Smiling is nice, smiling is a favor to the people looking at you, it is positive, it is inspiring, uplifting, and contagious! Who are these messed up people designing the corporate world as a place people don’t smile!? Wtf!

    • @craneflaw2019
      @craneflaw2019 5 років тому +1

      Treasure Forever not in a competitive surounding

    • @SafwanNet
      @SafwanNet 5 років тому +2

      Yet you have no smile

    • @derekbolthausen1604
      @derekbolthausen1604 2 роки тому +2

      I wouldn't hire you with this response lol. Diplomacy - argue your point diplomatically

  • @spectermakoto9029
    @spectermakoto9029 8 років тому +28

    How the FUCK are they going to get new shoes if they don't have a job

    • @mrarky8958
      @mrarky8958 8 років тому +1

      +Specter Makoto Right?? It's an outrage! It is sad that people judge the worth, positivity and confidence of each other on such nuanced, superficial things like a coat, bag or the back of the shoes. If you're someone who doesn't give a damn about that sort of thing, you may as well wave to the job, because its gonna fly right out the window.

    • @jamosa8929
      @jamosa8929 8 років тому

      @1:45

    • @jesuslovesyou534
      @jesuslovesyou534 8 років тому +7

      Specter Makoto dont be drammatic... She specified.. Just make sure they are clean.... Dont put wrong words in her mouth.... All these tips are really great... Blessings.

    • @fuckinchencho
      @fuckinchencho 6 років тому

      Robbing

  • @kkkkkkkkkk955
    @kkkkkkkkkk955 10 років тому +4

    you are amazing! Thank you :)

  • @ReadyRed15
    @ReadyRed15 9 років тому +7

    In this video and the video about body language of leaders, she says that smiling makes you seem submissive and not as intelligent, but in her 5 secrets to a successful ted talk, she said that the people who smiled were seen as more intelligent and credible. What is the difference in these situations?

    • @maxharlan2565
      @maxharlan2565 8 років тому +8

      +ReadyRed15 Motivation behind the smile? Are you doing it from a congruent place (where you feel good) vs. doing it to pretend you feel happy.

    • @rhinoragni8349
      @rhinoragni8349 4 роки тому +4

      Nice to see that someone is really watching and listening and making distinctions. Great question!

  • @susanparker9916
    @susanparker9916 8 років тому +4

    I would love to hear your comments on this, Vanessa. I am a PHD, who has been out of the workforce for 15 years raising a kid with autism. I was a prof of psychology, working in a research center for disability studies many years ago. I am now re-entering the workforce as a Special Educator and have found the culture to be very different, but I am adapting well and really love the people and the work itself. What I find however, is that I am having to really amp my 'I'm a nice lady and a regular person who wants to learn from you' attitude with the folks who interview me and work with me. If I was interviewing in academia, my nonverbals would be more serious, reflecting confidence and competence, but in education, it seems that is intimidating to teachers and administrators. So, I believe the rules could be a little different for someone in my position. I seem to do better when I play down my intellect and play up my 'I'm a humble older Mommy' attitude. What is you take on this, please. P.S. I love your vids and play them to the Psych classes that I teach at the local community college :)

    • @SafwanNet
      @SafwanNet 5 років тому

      Great question

    • @salpivartivarian1615
      @salpivartivarian1615 10 місяців тому

      I'm in a very similar situation. I hope this comment gets a response (I realize you wrote this 7 yrs ago, hah!)

  • @abrahamolvera2340
    @abrahamolvera2340 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing Vanessa Van Edwards. ❤️

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc3344 6 років тому

    Thank You so much dearest sweeties 💐🙏
    You’re such an inspiration ❣️
    Stay Blissful Eternally 😇🕉💖

  • @nathantoth1527
    @nathantoth1527 5 років тому

    Love your insight.

  • @memdf2004
    @memdf2004 5 років тому

    In another video you stated body language is 60% not 93%-competition is stiff but 7% is a pretty small margin

  • @Shaukatali-vd3ov
    @Shaukatali-vd3ov 6 років тому +1

    great tips

  • @tejuswadbudhe7909
    @tejuswadbudhe7909 5 років тому

    Thank you

  • @asishb6673
    @asishb6673 8 років тому +2

    superb

  • @PelegoRecords
    @PelegoRecords 7 років тому +22

    People are way too judgemental.

    • @joshbane7671
      @joshbane7671 5 років тому +1

      PelegoRecords people don’t judge enough

  • @reemyonass6137
    @reemyonass6137 9 років тому +2

    You're amaazing :)

  • @ThePeterDislikeShow
    @ThePeterDislikeShow 2 роки тому

    Is it worth it to delay an interview due to a mouth sore?

  • @cantarmohamed8549
    @cantarmohamed8549 4 роки тому

    Here in Somali our boses don't care about body language. They care about the one who is responsible for us.

  • @tonyjlorns1727
    @tonyjlorns1727 6 років тому +2

    I just don't buy this the more successful you are you smile less !

  • @evianmason1630
    @evianmason1630 6 років тому

    Yeah, Man

  • @dalikenchadze3423
    @dalikenchadze3423 6 років тому

    Vanessa

  • @CowtOwne
    @CowtOwne 9 років тому +3

    Okay, is she a psychic, or does Vanessa have some credentials? Perhaps she is 100% accurate, but did Vanessa just start with promoting her opinions, or maybe she has divine knowledge? This video offers nothing at all new, aside from the 'research' that indicated "only bring in one item; Not a coat plus a briefcase" (what?) So its Winter and I'm automatically "disorganized" because I have two items (a coat and a briefcase) with me?

    • @derekbolthausen1604
      @derekbolthausen1604 2 роки тому

      Yeah, that one struck me as odd also. The thing I find on some of these are they are best on each persons own perception of what they think is a positive or negative trait. She has some interesting points, but I agree - opinions, perceptions or fact? Fact I think not.

  • @mauricefemenias9752
    @mauricefemenias9752 5 років тому

    Xanax 30 min before jajaa