I am interested in this breed but want to do some research from people who already had it...kindly help with few queries. How often do a burnese mountain dog has to to be vaccinated and what are the expenditures incurred.?
@@swetashetty3811 u should get one THEY are so cute and if u are upset or sad u always can cuddle the Dog i tell u IT MAKES U FEAL BETTER A LOT!! ARE THEY WIZARDS 🧐
Wow, I love hearing that this breed lives longer than the standard, my Jura lived for 11 long years and I was glad of every day that she was in my life. Sounds as though she was well loved and will be well missed. Enjoy your memories there will be many.
@@swetashetty3811 regardless of the breed, all dogs require vaccinations yearly except for the rabies vaccine which if you choose to administer may last up to three years. If you do not allow your dog to roam free off leash in wooded areas you may choose to not do vaccines or flea and tick medicine as your dog will be less likely to contract diseases if it is on-leash. I do not vax my dog for anything except rabies because it is mandatory where I live. I do a titer-panel(blood-test)at the vet instead, it is more expensive than vaccines but vaccines can cause lifelong injuries, and the titer-panel is harmless, just a blood-test that checks your dog’s antibodies to see if it will be able to fight off potential bacterial/viral infections. Discuss with your vet if you do get a dog. I would also like to share with you that owning a dog can be very expensive, l have spent over $20,000 in vet bills on my 10 year old dog. You have to allow for at least $2,000 per year. I also recommend pet insurance!
Had had two Bernese 20years at my farm myself. I haven't regretted a day of it. We were inseparable. I have been crying for him every day since he died 4 weeks ago. He was my soul mate. So don't think about the little things of everyday life, and be thankful for the love and loyalty he gives you every day. He will go once too, then you will see how much you will miss him. Bye Hans.
Ultimate 100# lover..but can be stupid! A close relative had theirs go into a ravine next to a Colorado walking trail. When discovered a 200ft rope had to be procured to make a harness. Two active adults needed..one stayed at the top of the ravine...one had to climb down and up of the ravine to push the dog up. Also..the dog swallowed a 2 ft hide bone. Surgery needed to unblock dogs colon. Owner bought antibiotics by the ..GALLON..for 6 years. Heavy cost. Dog passed at year 8..when lungs finally collapsed.
Sorry you lost your best friend, dogs are by far the best when it comes to unconditional love and pure devotion. He will be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge when it's time for you to return. Cheers
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I grieved mine for two years. We had a talk one night and she said it was time to stop grieving her, and it was OK to let another one into my life. I just got my second puppy this past weekend. I'm happily in love, and my heart feels full again.
Blessings to you Hans ! My the days of happiness and love you shared light your path ! Think about volunteering at a shelter if you can't get a puppy or dog ! Remember you were blessed !
It is impossible to be depressed with a berner in the house. Fact. The first time you try to get depressed, he will steal your shoes or jump on you in bed in the morning or something that makes you laugh and you won't be depressed.
It is obvious that this woman truly loves that dog. What she was trying to do is to caution people about a Bernese Mountain dog. Because so many times people get a dog because they think it looks cool, they never research the breed. Then when these things come up they end up surrendering the dog because they didn’t understand what they were getting into.
I had a Bernese Mountain Dog , Charlie, that I loved like a child. He died at 8 years old. Broke my heart. It's been 7 years and I still not over losing my Charlie...💔💔💔
Mine died at 11& half yrs old. It's been 2 yrs now. Yes it breaks the ❤️. I still cry at times. I think he loved me more than anything. We went on walks for 10 yrs. I figured he would have joint problems as he got older...so I started early with him. He was active until 4 mo. before he left me. I will always love him..always.
@@suehowery1286 it's great that you had him though! The death of a dog can be just as bad or even worse than the death of a human, so take your time, it's ok
sounds like he was a good boy mate, i understand had 2 dogs, 1 border collie, 1 Merrima both passed,, 1 at 12 years, 1 at 13 Broke my heart into so many pieces i can't count that was 2 years ago Feels like yesterday you never forget them
Bless yours, mine s having her 6th bday this year, bmd s are the Love of my life, unfortunately the breed got so popular in mid Europe, prices doubled, ( I don’t really care about that)but it also means sadly that a lot of illnesses will be passed on due to the people that breed for money,
We lost our girl this year, she was such an amazing dog. Her little brother is still with us and hes a goofball Edit: her brother is unwell, they found 2 masses in his chest and fluid behind his spleen. We probably have to say goodbye this weekend. Such amazing dogs but make sure you have pet insurance because you'll go bankrupt for these furry babies
10 reasons why you SHOULD get a Bernese mountain dog: 1. They are super cuddly 2. They are HILARIOUS and always make you smile 3. They are so GORGEOUS 4. They are super chill 5. They give out of this world amazing hugs 6. They are really smart (which i know can make things harder, but makes it easier to train) 7. They are super friendly 8. Lots of kisses and cuddles 9. you’ll ALWAYS have company 10. They are ADORABLE, just look at them!! ❤️
How can you resist Benny’s smile?! Lol my Bernese cross smiles at me like that. Though because she is half Pyrenees her need for exercise is through the roof!
I have a 115 lb 11 year old boy and he still walks 1 1/2 miles at least once a week. He's happy and absolutely the best friend I've ever been blessed with!
I still dearly miss our Berner "Wellington". He made it to 12 and then seemed to shut down as an old person does. He was so good with our babies and toddlers and everyone remembers him with love. The most special dog I ever met 💕
It's a big commitment having one of these dogs. For some it's well worth it. I've read a quote about the Bernese Mountain dog; three years a young dog. Three years a good dog. Three an old dog. The rest is a gift from God.
Lost my laburnese recently from liver cancer that spread. I still can’t stop crying. She was my companion for eleven short years. She was the best of the best. I was never alone. Miss my baby forever.
I got my BMD 3 years ago, next to Velcro, nothing sticks to me tighter than her.. She’s my best friend & she is such a talker. Best loving dog I have ever had in my life.
Liz Greenlee I agree they are great talkers a cross between Lassie and a Bernese in chatter Love the breed I was blessed to have a 125lb male who lived to be 9.5 years (never enough!) but will get one again someday soon!!
We have a 3 year old as well! He's the best cuddler (for like 2 minutes), has the quirkiest personality, and usually a joy to take places as he love attention and pets! Love Berners!!
I very much grow up with these dogs, my grandpa used to bred them. They are just the most adorable dogs in the world! As a kid I used to play with the puppies all day long. Never had a bite or something, they are just so good-natured. Best wishes from Switzerland !
I just lost my Bernese Mt Dog. She was going to be 10 and it is the hardest time that I ever had to endure. We told everybody that she was our daughter cause we had all boys. It is devastating but we enjoyed every minute with her. She was the best dog ever!!! They are great dogs and they have their own personality. Kupid was my heart.
ADORABLE. Our Berner lived to 12 years 3 months. She was a 108 lb fluffball. Aare was also the sweetest dog in the world. Going to get a new 8-week old Berner puppy on Sunday! Berners are the best.
"If you dont like a 100lb tackling you on the couch, the bernese mountain dog is not for you" I think I've said this a 100x to people after getting my berner Max. Of course that's my favourite thing about him though.
Your “little” Benny is soooo cute!!!!! Only one of these reasons resonate with me!! Enjoy Benny!!! I have a Bailey and she is all of these… wouldn’t even trade the shedding … tho she’s not too bad after the puppy stage ( I do brush her daily ) she loves it “needy” lol me too I guess♥️♥️
We had 2 Berners and this is my FAVORITE breed! Sadly, it is true that they do not live long lives, but the time we did have was amazing! They have huge personalities; Sophie would make up games to play! She would get ME to fetch! I was always cracking up around them and yes they would sit on my lap. Such fun! It's a positive I think that they think they are people and just want to hang out with you. We didn't want a stand-offish breed. They were are family members and are so missed! Very sweet, funny, and yes selective hearing....loving breed!
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I have had 2 Bernese Mountain Dogs during my life, first one lived to 13 and was 125 pounds, was a show/stud dog and won several Best of Breed awards. He was perfect in the ring but an absolutely stubborn male who knew exactly how to push his luck. Figured out how to open doors, gates, and latches to take himself on walks. Second dog lived to 12, and was a smaller male, who was much more cautious of people, but still loved to cuddle. The toilet paper thing definitely had me laughing, as he would shred the toilet paper on occasion, and sometimes mannage to eat socks if we left them in reach. Hope to have another in my life someday. They say anything after 8 years is a blessing with them.
I have always had Bernese, I just regret the early loss of one at seven years of age due to a bad veterinary diagnosis (Lyme disease). The others happily spent the 12 and 13 years before leaving for old age. Currently, one 10 year old in full health and an 11 month old puppy. For me, it is an extraordinary breed, but to be considered as one more member of the family: it can't stand loneliness or inattention.
We lost our boy Riley a month before his 6th birthday this past July. I didn't think twice about getting another. Fortunately, we have some breeders in the MD/PA area who are breeding for health and longevity. So, I'm hoping our next one will keep us company for a longer time. :-)
Try FEEDING for longevity instead! My pets have NEVER gotten sick in over 25 years having them. I am what's called a 'health-nut'! Yup, I'm INSANE because I do not support the MEDICAL MAFIA!
this is so accurate hahaha. My berner was my BEST friend for 8 years. they really are bigger than life. They really have such a comforting presence and its been difficult getting over the loss but then I remember all the times he made me happy. Great video!
Our last Berner lived to age 12. He was a slightly smaller male (maxed out about 85 lbs). He also did develop some hip problems and would limp at times, but aside from that was fairly healthy. Our current Berner just turned four.
I grew up with berners. During my childhood to adolescence we've had three bernese mountain dogs. The first dog lived to be 16 years old. Our second and third dog both lived to be 13 and both passed away from cancer. When I am a little more settled in life I will most definitely get another berner. They are such joy. Our first berner was so special, he learned my sister how to walk (by letting her grab onto his fur and slowly standing up and doing a few steps) and always walked with my oldest brother to his schoolbus and (without us telling him) always went and picked him up from the schoolbus at the right time.
Sound great however most dogs have an do go with an owners family members they will walk ya,wait an walk bk..You ever have any other dogs an different breeds???
I looove bernese mountain dogs, but I'm sensible enough to recognize they're not the dog for me. I can't give them what they need. I still think they're fantastic though.
Same. Though I have to say, Bernese make me question my "I'm not a dog person and I don't want pets" belief. I would have to settle down with a house and that's not gonna happen. I would love to be able to experience these cuddles, though!
zeus is literally like my son he’s super super needy a HUGEEE brat but he has my entire heart and i totally recommend this breed to anyone who spends a lot of time home alone!
OMG! I LOVED my BMD so much! Mason was one of the best dogs I ever had. He was 80 pounds, lived till he was 12! Didn't care about the hair, and I trained him very well...he listened perfectly. He also didn't require tons of exercise or mental stimulation!! After he passed I decided to only rescue, we have had Tahli for 10 years now. But I will never ever forget the love and devotion I got from my beloved Mason!!
Sweet relationship with Mason! It’s not fair that dogs don’t live longer. I’m so happy that you adopted a rescue. We have 12 rescued dogs and they are all amazing! If you want a BMD but can’t afford one, do your research on an Akbash. They are just as big, not as needy, they are herding dogs so they need exercise, very smart and extremely protective. They are like grizzly bears.
breakingseas we LOVE our dog. He has been so expensive with vet bills, special food, and grooming. They have a lot of health issues common to the breed and have very sensitive stomachs. But as every owner will tell you it’s worth it!
They do destroy a lot of things in the first year but they are just amazing afterwords. And as for the life span i've seen plenty healthy ones over ten where i live. Be prepared though, we send ours to the groomers once a month or two, the shedding can be quite spectacular. hihihih
The absolute worst part of having one in your life, is saying goodbye. Way too soon fir most. Cancer is rampant in the breed. Lots of research is being done, but as with humans, its very slow. “2 years a puppy, 2 years a good dog, 2 years an old dog. Anything more is a blessing. “
I couldn’t live without Oliver! He is my total buddy! Ten reasons don’t compare to the great time we are having! I didn’t realize all your ten reasons when I got him, but he has won my heart!!!!
I had one some years ago, she was my best friend. Even tho she was blind and had trouble to walk, she knew where I was and everytime I got home she would go to me and we hug. And she knew what I was up to and does the right thing❤
That 6-10 year range really hit hard. This August will be the 2nd year anniversary of my lab passing away and she was 14 at the time, which is on the very old side for her breed. I couldn't imagine having one of these dogs pass in just 6 or 7 years.
It's so sad that we don't get them for longer. We lost our first 3 at 7, 7, and 8. Our boys that we have now are both coming up 7 in the next few months. But I'll always say that I'd rather have a Berner for 7 years than zero years. They are the heart and soul of our house :)
Had a pal who owned a teckel. Teckled lived to 16. Then they just exponentially got worse and the dog had to be taken to a clinic where they passed. The only consolation is that the owner (who had the time) stayed by their side til the bitter end.
I had my bella for 13 years. Got her when I was 7, she nearly saw me turn 20. She's the oldest Bernese in my countries history, and one of the top 10 oldest ever. God I miss the goofy looks she'd throw me when I did dumb stuff ahah
When I was looking for a family dog, I talked to a breeder of Bernies. She asked me how old my kids were; when I told her six and nine, she replied that she never recommended Bernies to families with young children because of the heartache they'd suffer when the dog passed at age 6. That was 22 years ago; I guess not much has changed.
Wonderful video! I've had 9 Berners over the past 30 years!. I spent summers in Switzerland when I was a kid and fell in love with the breed! I have one of the best breeders in the country and my dogs average life has been 12 yrs. Once they became such a popular (and expensive) breed, unqualified breeders started breeding them for $$$$, then the avg lifespan dropped to 6-8. definitely research and get a good breeder. If you pay less for a bad breeder it will probably be heartbreaking!
I had one when I was a kid and he can never be replaced and will always be the best of all dogs. However he weighed 55-60kg pure muscle machine (heavier than my brother) so he could easily drag him around if he wanted to, so if you get one make sure to train it as best as you can.
I am really scared of dogs and I can't even pet a small dog because of my fear, but today i met my neighbour's 3 months old bernese mountain dog and i wasnt scared of him! My brother wanted this dog and I said no but now I am actually excited for a dog!! They are amazing for someone who is scared they listen to you and won't bite you unless you put your hand in their mouth.
Well i would argue that any properly trained dog listen to it's owner and do not bite regardless of its breed but if you are confortable with this one particular breed because you had a good experience with it that's already a nice step forward to one day getting over you fear of dogs !
Berners are well known for being very loving dogs that just want to be by your side. They're also not really aggressive, and when they bark, it's more likely they want you to know they're there then as a scare tactic. So basically don't get one to act as a guard dog, because it's more likely gonna wanna cuddle up to thief then scare the thief away.
@@jish55 I had the offspring of a champion breed sire who snuck off and got a border collie pregnant = my first dog. My dad's place was almost robbed and everything was pulled out of the garage, but since this beast was tied up in the back, I think they thought otherwise and left. The dots above the eyes look like it is looking at you even if it is asleep from afar. Mine never barked and only hurt me once by accident (his nail took off my nail) :/ as a kid, so be aware, they think they are small dogs and easily tip over 100 pounds quickly (2 bag poops).
I played with our berner by letting her "bite" my arm and wrstle, like other dogs do with sticks. No harm was ever done. Berners are extremely relaxed and comforting. Never seen an agressive berner in my life. ...except that one time where ours was actually barking and engaged. My mom and I were on a walk, later on the evening, it was dark already and something tall was standing infront of us on the walkway. Just standing there, menacingly. Our berner barked at it, but it didnt flinch, so she got a little bit excited, ran at it, barked some more, etc. We got excited too, as we laughed our asses off watching our berner barking menacingly at a garbage bin.
We've had our burner, Ringo for 4 years. He's definitely been a blessing and times a challenge. Lol we love him too death. Can't imagine not having him. In our lives. He's my constant companion. But he's also very needy. But thats ok. We love him.
Just discovered you guys last night! I LOVE Berners and Benny is definitely one of the cutest I've ever seen! That said -- I remember that I chose to get a mixed breed shelter dog, "with the right energy" (as Cesar Milan puts it) because of all the reasons you so gracefully stated here. Mostly life span and health-related issues due (often) to overbreeding, etc. Also expense. I've been deeply fortunate to have my beloved pup for 10 years in June. He's a 100lb heavily shedding super-sweet Lab/Shepherd mix named Noah and I have never loved another being so much. That said, I still completely ADORE Bernese Mountain Dogs and probably always will even if I never have one. This is the good thing about the UA-cam -- you can love everyone else's dogs, too! Thank you for sharing your sweet Benny with us and for your straightforward honesty about the breed.
Thanks for a very responsible video. So many people buy animals on impulse and have no idea what they are getting into, only to end up giving them away or worse, abandonment. Education is the key and you did a great job of informing all of us. Thanks!
Reason 8 is a BIG one. Two days ago, we lost my bernesian, 11 years old. Everyone is telling me, how good that is for those dogs and that i should take this as a gift - meanwhile i admit to have a total breakdown over that loss. And they are right, i totally know that, as i have those now a long time and had lost 2 others before with way less years. And yet, it is not lowering the grief. They are simply the best family friendly, guarding dogs in the world (and for everyone who has or had one, the best dogs overall oc). But the one weak point all dogs have is: they dont live as long as we do, and so your best friend, the truest buddy you will find, your shadow and guard, your most loyal soul you can imagine will become sick, old or both and you will have to let them go - which MOST times will be a decision YOU have to make and that can hunt you a lot (it does it to me. I ordered the doc to put three dogs to rest now, was there when my family had to make this decision with 7 other dogs over the decades - and i will never know, if it was the right decision or if the dogs would have continued / there would been a solution the docs i consulted just didnt know of). This goes for every dog - but bernesian have to live between 7,5 and 9 or 10 years in average - that means that a big number dosnt come that far. Three times more likley to catch cancer (which was the case with my princess, she was fit in her head and very well with her body until cancer stroke her, without i ve no doubt she would been able to make at least 2 more years), predistined to get trouble with their joints and other, related medical issues. You cant fill your home with more love and care - and you have to brace for a big emotional impact when it leaves. The silence in my home right now is getting me (and we have two little kids...). I m not used to move around without my shadow. I miss the very moment i ruffled her, before i went to bed and the snorkling and deeply satisfied grunts when she moved in a comfy position. To open the fridge without her standing in the kitchens door is confusing. So really, really be warned. The rest is all stuff you can learn to manage and live with, often enjoying those "treats", but this one you will just not be able to avoid and it will hit hard. Every single time. That said: my wife and i are now, two days after we had to say goodbye, while i m still crying writing this, we both agreed that we will have another one as soon as the wound is closed and we find another good breeder. For nothing in the world i would miss those 11 years. And i m confident, the next bernesian will be incredible and as unique as she was. So, make your decision wisly.
I agree! I think berners are the best.. but what about bennys previous owners who got one and ended up giving him up cause they couldn’t care for him... or my friend who found he poor Berner in a shelter cause her previous owners gave her up. Now both dogs have such anxiety and issues from this. Not everyone can handle these dogs and they need to know they aren’t just pretty and it’s not all love and cuddles! The first three years can be challenging . So I’d rather inform people of SOME of the cons of a berner... Most of these are researched. Not my opinion.
The only reason I would never get a Bernese Mountain Dog ever again is the short life span 😭 he is the best dog ever. He has the biggest heart and stomach (you forgot to tell, they always want your food 😅 - and look like this while I am eating 🥺) great video - thank you! Our Noah is our family member and our children tell us everyday, they could not live without him anymore... he is sooo loved 💖 Greetings from Austria 🤗
My Bernese: - Steals whole ass loaves of bread from donkeys - Hits her head on everything - Doesn't like the turkey we have - Likes the ducks we have - Hates the lawnmower, or any other kind of loud garden device thing - Steals food from baby's hands - Wants food, acts starved when she just had dinner - Loves my mom the most because she used to sneakily give treats - Dislikes me the most because she actually has to listen to me She IS understanding tho. I don't like clinginess (I like subtle love a cat gives, making me think I'm a cat person), so when she knows the pats are over, she lies beside me. We then just enjoy each other's presence.
Does your dog take any medication? It sounds a lot like how my dog has acted since he's been put on seizure medication, he's constantly hungry and has become more impulsive about acquiring food, if it wasn't for the fact that he has a weight issue I'd be convinced I was under feeding him.
I think you hate your dog 😡😡 But I am a dog person Because dog are really good and better from humans I have 3 dogs 1st is a golden retriver 2 is Lhasa apso and 3rd is Bernese mountain dog I love all my pet they help me every time also , when I was working on laptop and it was cold (-4degree) he take blanket and give it to me , all are very very playfull , and they don't disturb me between my any office work and sit near me I love all my dogs 😍😗🤗💖💖
I don’t like the clinginess of the Bernese either. My Bernese is so possessive of people that pet her it has become a major annoyance because she attacks our other dog if we pet him. She has some serious issues that have developed I think she was the product of bad breeding. Also she was given to us from a guy that was allergic so we did not buy her.
@@jaceybowker3374 that doesn't sound good at all. Maybe look for professional help? It's not in a Bernese nature to be that aggressive. My dog gets jealous too, but the worst she did was sit on a puppy (don't ask hehehe).
I had one for nearly11 years, she did have cancer so got her spleen removed when she was 9, she lived a great life until she got bloat just before her 11th birthday and we made the difficult decision to let her go. Beautiful dogs with the best temperament. Miss her every day
Top Tip: Speaking from experience, If you have or are considering getting a Bernese Mountain Dog or a similar large breed, research what GDV is. Knowing what it is, what signs to look out for and having a skilled vet to go to in advance could save your dogs life.
These dogs are seriously the cutest!! I know myself though and found that cats are definitely the way to go for my particular lifestyle and needs, but what I wouldn't to be able to hug a dog like this even just once!
My wife and I have had four Berners over the last 30 years. Now that we are older, our children who grew up with the Berners are telling us it is time to get a small dog, that a Berner would knock us down, be too hard to handle etc. There is no way we ever get any other breed of dog. Once you have a Berner, you will have them for life.
Wife fell because our Berner leaped unexpectedly in wrong direction, pretty bad permanent back injury. Ours died in May, 2020, at 7 years from lymphoma -- happened very quickly. Are we going to get another?? Of course we are!
I have a Bernese and all of the facts are true. But I’m has a HUGE vocal range. She can go from a super deep bark to a super high pitched yip. And she yips at us all night for no reason. But I’m very glad I have one.
My Bernese lived 9 beautiful years, he was my companion, best friend, went abroad with, scuba dived and boating, ride horses by my side and some times I my eyes off cried hugging him.
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My Bernese is the cuddliest dog I’ve ever met. My whole family have never met a dog like her. Her name is Dixie and she’s coming up to a year old! She’s the sweetest, gives you proper hugs and affection I just love her
Everything you said was spot on. Tobias was constantly with me and that included going on vacation. He was a great traveling dog. Sometimes we got in the Jeep and drove aimlessly around and he loved it. He was incredibly intelligent too.
my berner is turning 3 on new years he’s made my life so much better, he got cancer at 1 year old. he’s been worth all the struggle and expenses. love seeing yours he’s very adorable
About ten years ago I was feeling ill. I felt dizzy. My blood pressure was high. I didn't know. A distant neighbor was walking her adult Bernese past my home and I just fell in love looking at the dog. It was all smiles and so big. Can't remember if male or female, but it didn't matter. I had to, I mean just had to pet the dog. I asked the woman if I was allowed. I went up to him and sat down a little distance away. He sniffed the air and came over to me. Boy, did he hug me. My heart melted on the spot. I got up and talked with the woman and while talking, bent down to pat and softly rub the dog. I got dizzy and fell in the soft grass. He immediately stood over me with two legs on each side of my torso. He would not let me get up until I felt better. He would not move. My love for the breed grew. I've never had one and don't think I could care for them well enough. Besides, my heart would shatter when he suffers and passes so soon. I don't think I could handle that. What is my point? I'm not sure. I just wanted to share a memorable experience and my distant love for the breed. I can see how much you love to be with your Benny. It is blatantly obvious you love his cuddles and attention, even if you don't have private time for yourself. I bet you love him so much, you have let down your guard around him and he doesn't care what you are doing. He just loves you more.
As someone with personal experience owning both. Our Berner is so much worse than our Dane. Danes get jealous and push in to you forcing the other thing getting your attention further away from you and give you sass. Berners climb over top of whatever is in their path to your face even if that means sitting on top of you, someone else, or any animal you may be cuddling. But it’s definitely very close if not dead even between the two depending on the specific dogs personality.
I have a Bernedoodle & love her to pieces. She must have gotten more of her dad than mom because all the traits you speak about is exactly hers. Thank you for the information as it helps me explain to people that cannot tolerate Chloe’s personality. I am so very happy she is in my life 💛
I love your and your husband's videos on Berners. You guys are delightfully accurate and descriptive. My guy is about 18 months old and he's as you described. He is definitely 'all dog.' Thanks for educating us on Berner ownership!
It's good to hear that you are SO positive! I can understand, now, that you have a Bernese. They are blessed to have you as an owner, being as positive as you are!
Mine was 10y almost 11 and if we say speak she did it even on her last days . But we have to put her to sleep because she was sick 😞 I love that dog and i still love her 😘🐶 Rip Liaka some day i will meet you again.
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Too many people buy dogs for the wrong reasons, they buy Staffies, American Bullies etc because they look tough, they buy little dogs because they look cute, they buy big dogs because they think small dogs are weak: the list is endless. My mum had a mostly fox terrier that was a stray who wandered in one day, took off then came back the next day, the dog was 12 - 18 months old, no microchip, a nice healthy weight, mum had her for about 12 years, my situation doesn’t allow for pets so when mum passed I gave her to an elderly lady who still has her two years later and loves her to death (I’m welcome to visit and I do) I’d never have have chosen this dog for myself but she chose my mum and accepted me, she was healthy but had kennel cough and was obviously mistreated in her time between homes so I had her sleep in and on my bed as she pleased, we ended up good mates, if it wasn’t for the fact I’m away half the year and the dog (Jesse) bonded with me to the point I couldn’t leave her with friends or at home with friends caring for her (she didn’t travel well either) as it took days for her to calm down, she needed someone who was home most of the time which she now has again: she remembers me when I visit and I’ve tried to entice her to leave with me which is funny, she follows me to the door, looks around then goes to her new owner... I wish I didn’t have to find her a new home but she’s happy and although I’ve offered there’s no way her new owner will ever part with her save the same way as mum did. I could type for hours about this little dog that’s not even 20% the size of one I’d have chosen.
My friend’s family has a berner named Nessie and she’s definitely a huge, cuddly furball, who also had to have emergency surgery as a puppy because she ate a bunch of stuff she wasn’t supposed to
I love my two Berners! I will in a heartbeat get another and so on. Best breed ever for me. Yup, no personal space 🤣, dog hair is my glitter 😂 and so on... A very smart breed ❤️
They are like Cheetos, after one you can’t stop. We are on #3 . Dutch is a Halloween baby and just turned two. We lost our first (Blaze) at 7 and our second (Ozzy) at 12. They possess an energy that once gone leaves a hole that must be filled.
I am 73 years old and got my wonderful best friend, Brodie, 13 years ago when he was 8 weeks old.He is a Bernese/Golden retriever whose looks and size are like his Bernese Mom. He is the most loving, loyal, gentle dog I’ve ever known or had. He is the darling of my apartment building as he greets everyone he sees during the day and even gives hugs. Yes, he loves attention and gets plenty! He has no health problems yet and I credit him for my exceptional health as we get plenty of exercise together every day. I am so grateful for my wonderful Brodie❤️
We got our first Bernese 6 months ago and this explains him to a T. We love him so much. We love that he wants to be with us all the time. That’s one reason we chose this breed. ☺️
I make little treat boxes (using tp rolls) for ours and she LOVES them. I put apple pieces and a few kibbles in there and she is so HAPPY to figure out how to open them up.
We just bought our third Bernie puppy. The first lived only 3years. Second died after 7years. They don’t have a long lifespan. But, they are very affectionate, easy to train. The current puppy we bought is 8weeks old and has been home for one full week and is now trained to go outside. She has had no accidents. Nor does she bark much. They really only bark for fear. They love to run. Fortunately even though we live in a large city, we are close to large parks. If you time early mornings and late evenings you will rarely disturb other dog walkers.
Not really. They can be a bit more needy and are like all over you and get upset if they don't get enough attention. Not all dogs are like that. And they have a ton of fur.
@@BennyBerner Definitely. And my neighbor's dog, I noticed hadn't been brushed in eons. His coat looked bad, so I bought a big brush. He was super happy to be brushed, which surprised my neighbor from Wisconsin. His fur looks great now. I am boiling some potatoes for the pooch. Apparently, he loves potatoes. Have you tried seeing if your Berner likes boiled potatoes? This guy loves them. And I got a huge box. Don't want to waste them.
@Michael Metras Yes, they can be very sweet if they love you. It's amazing how much fur they shed. Anyway, I find them adorable. They are sweet giants.
Mine, Bradley, was 230 at one point. Yes he was a giant for the breed plus he had thyroid issues. He also had two TPLOs and lived to be 7years and 2 days. 😥
Some of those depend on the personality of the individual dog. I have a Berner who obviously loves to be with you 24/7 and sit on top of you but is fine laying down when I need to get stuff done and she doesn’t chew on anything except bones/treats. She’s also great at home while I’m at work. Depends on the dog.
That's true.Our Astra was very kind and loving BMD, always nearby us, but never made any "pressing".She never touch the things in the house.She use to stop on the entrance to kitchen, but didn't go in (without any command). She was big for female dog (about 50 kg) but there was no problems to walk with her on the leash, in the car or in restaurant.She even didn't bark much, only when is something "very important" (mostly one single "VAW!) She was fine till the last evning,Just passed away in one night.She was nearly 13 years old.
My parents got a Bernese Mountain dog for me because they want me to have someone who will help me with my problems. We had a Bernese Mountain dog before and she helped me a lot with my illnesses and to be honest I feel that my puppy is trying his best to help me already.
Berners are GREAT dogs. We have had two. One lived 8 years. The other 3 1/2 years. Berners are prone to cancer. However, the joy of their company cannot be beat. They are super dogs.
I see a lot of owners make this training mistake, repeating a command over and over and thinking the dog will eventually "get it." Say your command ONCE, then show the dog what you expect. For example, "sit" - say it once then use your hand or a treat to get the dog into sitting position. They will learn far quicker, whereas when you just keep repeating yourself he or she just assumes it's voluntary or will ignore the command altogether. Peruse some of Cesar Milan's books or videos, or pick up some books by Brian Kilcommons (I've worked with him). Personally I love BMDs and wish I had the space for a couple. They're smart but also, as you said, can be stubborn.
I quite agree. She seemed to suggest co-operation which is done by talking. Giving a command is not co-operation: it's obedience. An adult dog understands very well what you said. I only saw couple of Cesar Milan videos, but he seemed to me a person who would raise his dog in fear, thinks being in the top of the hierarchy pyramid requires breaking the dog. My experience with two big male BMD is that they want to please and they do it out of love, not fear. Showing your strength while playing, is enough for dog to learn you have the physical power. While training them commands, they learn you are the one who gives them. Opening doors and giving food and things like that show the dog that their human members are more grown ups in the pack: they have skills the dog does not. My mom never used any physical power with the dogs, yet they did what she told. It was both love, and a kid's respect to an adult. With well behaving dog you don't need to give commands even once a day: they understand just normal talking and want to co-operate. Co-operation mode is usually good. Outside training, I never gave commands unless it was an urgent situation which needed fast obedience. With strange dogs, demand the focus that they listen you. Do not try to threaten them, just be determined, it's enough.
Wow. We didn't really have these issues with our Berner (except life expectancy and initial cost). He was seven when he died, but it was out of the blue (heart failure maybe?) , so there were no vet bills. But shedding, neediness, activity level, etc. were not an issue. In fact, shedding was only a problem when he would blow coat in the spring, and we would just take him to the groomer to get blown out. I think they can have different coat types (he had long and wavy hair), so maybe that impacts the shedding. He was also totally lazy, and was happy laying on our feet at the bottom of the couch all day long. He was super calm and gentle, and really careful around kids. We didn't have problems with stubbornness, but we were never able to get him to stop pulling on the leash (and they are unbelievably strong). We just used a gentle leader, and our five year old could walk him with that with no problem. I guess we just got really lucky! We are considering getting another one, so we will definitely be contacting the same breeder! Hopefully some of our original dogs qualities were part of the breeders genetic lines, so we can avoid these problems again!
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My Bernese lived to be 14 years old! She was a true blessing and never left my side up until her last day, may she Rest In Peace.
I am interested in this breed but want to do some research from people who already had it...kindly help with few queries. How often do a burnese mountain dog has to to be vaccinated and what are the expenditures incurred.?
Awh dude I'm so sorry! I imagine you two were very close? My staffy is 13 this year and when he goes not sure how I'm going to cope with that
@@swetashetty3811 u should get one THEY are so cute and if u are upset or sad u always can cuddle the Dog
i tell u IT MAKES U FEAL BETTER A LOT!!
ARE THEY WIZARDS 🧐
Wow, I love hearing that this breed lives longer than the standard, my Jura lived for 11 long years and I was glad of every day that she was in my life. Sounds as though she was well loved and will be well missed. Enjoy your memories there will be many.
@@swetashetty3811 regardless of the breed, all dogs require vaccinations yearly except for the rabies vaccine which if you choose to administer may last up to three years. If you do not allow your dog to roam free off leash in wooded areas you may choose to not do vaccines or flea and tick medicine as your dog will be less likely to contract diseases if it is on-leash. I do not vax my dog for anything except rabies because it is mandatory where I live. I do a titer-panel(blood-test)at the vet instead, it is more expensive than vaccines but vaccines can cause lifelong injuries, and the titer-panel is harmless, just a blood-test that checks your dog’s antibodies to see if it will be able to fight off potential bacterial/viral infections. Discuss with your vet if you do get a dog. I would also like to share with you that owning a dog can be very expensive, l have spent over $20,000 in vet bills on my 10 year old dog. You have to allow for at least $2,000 per year. I also recommend pet insurance!
Had had two Bernese 20years at my farm myself. I haven't regretted a day of it. We were inseparable. I have been crying for him every day since he died 4 weeks ago. He was my soul mate.
So don't think about the little things of everyday life, and be thankful for the love and loyalty he gives you every day. He will go once too, then you will see how much you will miss him. Bye Hans.
Ultimate 100# lover..but can be stupid! A close relative had theirs go into a ravine next to a Colorado walking trail. When discovered a 200ft rope had to be procured to make a harness. Two active adults needed..one stayed at the top of the ravine...one had to climb down and up of the ravine to push the dog up. Also..the dog swallowed a 2 ft hide bone. Surgery needed to unblock dogs colon. Owner bought antibiotics by the ..GALLON..for 6 years. Heavy cost. Dog passed at year 8..when lungs finally collapsed.
Sorry you lost your best friend, dogs are by far the best when it comes to unconditional love and pure devotion. He will be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge when it's time for you to return. Cheers
@@bkm2797 I will carry both of them in my heart forever. Cheers
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I grieved mine for two years. We had a talk one night and she said it was time to stop grieving her, and it was OK to let another one into my life. I just got my second puppy this past weekend. I'm happily in love, and my heart feels full again.
Blessings to you Hans ! My the days of happiness and love you shared light your path ! Think about volunteering at a shelter if you can't get a puppy or dog ! Remember you were blessed !
"They are annoyingly needy"
Me an emotionally stunted and constantly lonely individual: gimme gimme gimme
Oh you won’t be lonely with this breed lol
Sameee
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It is impossible to be depressed with a berner in the house. Fact. The first time you try to get depressed, he will steal your shoes or jump on you in bed in the morning or something that makes you laugh and you won't be depressed.
@@briaralaric3487 seen this exact comment elsewhere. Are you desperate, is this an elaborate plot? Maybe you re a chinese spy?
Alternative title:
*Me roasting my dog for 5 minutes straight*
It is obvious that this woman truly loves that dog. What she was trying to do is to caution people about a Bernese Mountain dog. Because so many times people get a dog because they think it looks cool, they never research the breed. Then when these things come up they end up surrendering the dog because they didn’t understand what they were getting into.
Jim Coppersmith they were just kidding
lol
@@gz9520 still so many facts are wrong...i had one by myself and like 7 or 8 reason were completly wrong she said
pHiLaToR99 not all dogs are exactly the same
But most comments I’ve gotten from Berner owners is this is spot on :)
Instructions unclear: got a Bernese Mountaindog
lol !
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I had a Bernese Mountain Dog , Charlie, that I loved like a child. He died at 8 years old. Broke my heart. It's been 7 years and I still not over losing my Charlie...💔💔💔
You made him very happy probably!
Mine died at 11& half yrs old. It's been 2 yrs now. Yes it breaks the ❤️. I still cry at times. I think he loved me more than anything. We went on walks for 10 yrs. I figured he would have joint problems as he got older...so I started early with him. He was active until 4 mo. before he left me. I will always love him..always.
@@suehowery1286 it's great that you had him though! The death of a dog can be just as bad or even worse than the death of a human, so take your time, it's ok
No wayyyyy! I have a Bernese and her name is “Charley”
sounds like he was a good boy
mate, i understand
had 2 dogs, 1 border collie, 1 Merrima
both passed,, 1 at 12 years, 1 at 13
Broke my heart into so many pieces i can't count
that was 2 years ago
Feels like yesterday
you never forget them
I've had my Bernese for 12 years now, she's old and better than most humans, I can tell you over a 100 reasons why you should!
Bless yours, mine s having her 6th bday this year,
bmd s are the Love of my life, unfortunately the breed got so popular in mid Europe, prices doubled, ( I don’t really care about that)but it also means sadly that a lot of illnesses will be passed on due to the people that breed for money,
I love to hear this, Matthew !!! You have a Gold Treasure there !!! Give her a loooong hug from Norway !!!
@Izzy Z I''m soo sorry... I get choked up just thinking of losing my Cleo...
Great video. Do you have the top ten reasons why? Would love to hear it.
I'm guessing it's all cute or amazing or fat fluff or GET IT:)
The Life Span is the saddest thing...argh i hate that they leave us so soon....
Oh I know😭
We lost our girl this year, she was such an amazing dog. Her little brother is still with us and hes a goofball
Edit: her brother is unwell, they found 2 masses in his chest and fluid behind his spleen.
We probably have to say goodbye this weekend.
Such amazing dogs but make sure you have pet insurance because you'll go bankrupt for these furry babies
@@ChadRockwell i feel very sorry for you! 😞
That’s so sad I never heard that before
@@mcadoovicky6465 large dogs age faster than smaller dogs.
Old Swiss saying about the BMD: " 3 years a young dog, 3 years a good dog, 3 years an old dog, the rest is a gift"
That's very close to the truth.
Then we already have 2 and a half years as gift, Our BMD she's 11 and a half years 😁
So true!
Yeah it stinks they have such short life spans
@@DVK1662ur math ain’t mathin
sounds perfect, I'll take 10
😂🥰
Agreed
10 reasons why you SHOULD get a Bernese mountain dog:
1. They are super cuddly
2. They are HILARIOUS and always make you smile
3. They are so GORGEOUS
4. They are super chill
5. They give out of this world amazing hugs
6. They are really smart (which i know can make things harder, but makes it easier to train)
7. They are super friendly
8. Lots of kisses and cuddles
9. you’ll ALWAYS have company
10. They are ADORABLE, just look at them!! ❤️
All correct!!🥰🥰
How can you resist Benny’s smile?! Lol my Bernese cross smiles at me like that. Though because she is half Pyrenees her need for exercise is through the roof!
Yus I agree, I have a Bernese mountain dog ouo
they very protective, specially boys, and whoo the heck would not want Berner!!
Ours though doesn’t lick! No kisses for us
I have a 115 lb 11 year old boy and he still walks 1 1/2 miles at least once a week. He's happy and absolutely the best friend I've ever been blessed with!
I’m so happy he’s Heathy at his old age
I still dearly miss our Berner "Wellington". He made it to 12 and then seemed to shut down as an old person does. He was so good with our babies and toddlers and everyone remembers him with love. The most special dog I ever met 💕
It's a big commitment having one of these dogs. For some it's well worth it. I've read a quote about the Bernese Mountain dog; three years a young dog. Three years a good dog. Three an old dog. The rest is a gift from God.
agree
That’s very nice quote.👍☺️
@@BobSaysWhat22 lol what ?
Lost my laburnese recently from liver cancer that spread. I still can’t stop crying. She was my companion for eleven short years. She was the best of the best. I was never alone. Miss my baby forever.
❤
Sorry for your loss. This vlog melted my heart.
We never knew of labernese until my lab was bred by my bernese. It is a great crossbreed and having another liter soon. People love the mix
And almost a year later and with a new labradoodle I still mourn my Cookie Laburnese every day of my life.
Shout out to Cookie !!!!!! Good doggie !!☺️
I got my BMD 3 years ago, next to Velcro, nothing sticks to me tighter than her.. She’s my best friend & she is such a talker. Best loving dog I have ever had in my life.
Liz Greenlee I agree they are great talkers a cross between Lassie and a Bernese in chatter Love the breed I was blessed to have a 125lb male who lived to be 9.5 years (never enough!) but will get one again someday soon!!
We have a 3 year old as well! He's the best cuddler (for like 2 minutes), has the quirkiest personality, and usually a joy to take places as he love attention and pets! Love Berners!!
Cathy Griewe My girl is 125lbs & the biggest baby. She’s constantly vocal. We never have to question where she is lol
Lweisen Our girl demands the attention haha she’s a superstar in her own mind
ha! Same with ours! And she is also a big baby! Major Drama Queen!
I very much grow up with these dogs, my grandpa used to bred them. They are just the most adorable dogs in the world! As a kid I used to play with the puppies all day long. Never had a bite or something, they are just so good-natured. Best wishes from Switzerland !
I just lost my Bernese Mt Dog. She was going to be 10 and it is the hardest time that I ever had to endure. We told everybody that she was our daughter cause we had all boys. It is devastating but we enjoyed every minute with her. She was the best dog ever!!! They are great dogs and they have their own personality. Kupid was my heart.
You probably made her very happy! Stay strong
Cancer?
Shout out to Kupid!!! ...ain't nothing like a good doggie😁
So sorry for your loss. Praying for you 🙏❤💛💓♥💗🙏
Sorry she couldn't stay, hopefully you know she will be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge.
ADORABLE. Our Berner lived to 12 years 3 months. She was a 108 lb fluffball. Aare was also the sweetest dog in the world. Going to get a new 8-week old Berner puppy on Sunday! Berners are the best.
Why is it that the best dog breeds have the shortest life spans
"If you dont like a 100lb tackling you on the couch, the bernese mountain dog is not for you" I think I've said this a 100x to people after getting my berner Max. Of course that's my favourite thing about him though.
Mine used to consider running up to you and nose diving into your crotch a 'hug'
@@ryszardkrukowski5119 mine does this to!!
Your “little” Benny is soooo cute!!!!! Only one of these reasons resonate with me!! Enjoy Benny!!! I have a Bailey and she is all of these… wouldn’t even trade the shedding … tho she’s not too bad after the puppy stage ( I do brush her daily ) she loves it “needy” lol me too I guess♥️♥️
My Berner lived to be 10.5 years old. The pluses definitely outweigh the negatives. But you captured it well. Most gentle, sweet dog ever.
We had 2 Berners and this is my FAVORITE breed! Sadly, it is true that they do not live long lives, but the time we did have was amazing! They have huge personalities; Sophie would make up games to play! She would get ME to fetch! I was always cracking up around them and yes they would sit on my lap. Such fun! It's a positive I think that they think they are people and just want to hang out with you. We didn't want a stand-offish breed. They were are family members and are so missed! Very sweet, funny, and yes selective hearing....loving breed!
Do you love animals? I love animals a lot, i have a dog is name is Sherlock. He's over 9 years old with me now
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Cute. I know this is an old comment, but my doggo (a Saluki) is also named Sophie :)
I have had 2 Bernese Mountain Dogs during my life, first one lived to 13 and was 125 pounds, was a show/stud dog and won several Best of Breed awards. He was perfect in the ring but an absolutely stubborn male who knew exactly how to push his luck. Figured out how to open doors, gates, and latches to take himself on walks. Second dog lived to 12, and was a smaller male, who was much more cautious of people, but still loved to cuddle. The toilet paper thing definitely had me laughing, as he would shred the toilet paper on occasion, and sometimes mannage to eat socks if we left them in reach. Hope to have another in my life someday. They say anything after 8 years is a blessing with them.
I have always had Bernese, I just regret the early loss of one at seven years of age due to a bad veterinary diagnosis (Lyme disease). The others happily spent the 12 and 13 years before leaving for old age. Currently, one 10 year old in full health and an 11 month old puppy.
For me, it is an extraordinary breed, but to be considered as one more member of the family: it can't stand loneliness or inattention.
We lost our boy Riley a month before his 6th birthday this past July. I didn't think twice about getting another. Fortunately, we have some breeders in the MD/PA area who are breeding for health and longevity. So, I'm hoping our next one will keep us company for a longer time. :-)
Try FEEDING for longevity instead! My pets have NEVER gotten sick in over 25 years having them. I am what's called a 'health-nut'! Yup, I'm INSANE because I do not support the MEDICAL MAFIA!
May I know the name of the breeders?
@@jenellethomas5895 I would like to know as well
this is so accurate hahaha. My berner was my BEST friend for 8 years. they really are bigger than life. They really have such a comforting presence and its been difficult getting over the loss but then I remember all the times he made me happy. Great video!
My mom has one that is 12 years old. He is still going semi strong. A little hip problems now but he is 12 for heavens sake. Also 123 pounds.
redbeard101 that is a big boy
Our last Berner lived to age 12. He was a slightly smaller male (maxed out about 85 lbs). He also did develop some hip problems and would limp at times, but aside from that was fairly healthy. Our current Berner just turned four.
@@ewwwitscosso2292 123lbs is average. One of my first boys weighed out at 145. Jake was a big dog. Equally as sweet as he was big.
BMD Big feet omg he is basically a bear 😮
"But owning a Bernese Mountain Dog is more than just cuddling"
Of course, there's also the snuggling and swaddling too.
Giant dog scooting around like a caterpillar all wrapped in a blanket? Yes please.
I have a 10 yr old golden doodle and I haven’t peed alone in 10 years!!!
Both my goldendoodles follow me everywhere, too! It’s fun to have two big dogs in a small bathroom.
A Bernedoodle is going to be our next puppy 🐶
Just protecting u!!😁😁
@@hollyandstelladoodle8748 what a horrible thing to do to a beautiful dog. Ruin it with a poodle. Just get a poodle instead.
@BMD Big feet F*ck off. I’ll get whatever dog I want.
BMD Big feet Stop. I love my goldendoodle and he is actually a really cute dog so stop criticizing people’s choice of dog.
I grew up with berners. During my childhood to adolescence we've had three bernese mountain dogs. The first dog lived to be 16 years old. Our second and third dog both lived to be 13 and both passed away from cancer. When I am a little more settled in life I will most definitely get another berner. They are such joy. Our first berner was so special, he learned my sister how to walk (by letting her grab onto his fur and slowly standing up and doing a few steps) and always walked with my oldest brother to his schoolbus and (without us telling him) always went and picked him up from the schoolbus at the right time.
Sound great however most dogs have an do go with an owners family members they will walk ya,wait an walk bk..You ever have any other dogs an different breeds???
@@michelesmith4775reminds of that movie hatchi 😢
I looove bernese mountain dogs, but I'm sensible enough to recognize they're not the dog for me. I can't give them what they need. I still think they're fantastic though.
Same. Though I have to say, Bernese make me question my "I'm not a dog person and I don't want pets" belief. I would have to settle down with a house and that's not gonna happen. I would love to be able to experience these cuddles, though!
zeus is literally like my son he’s super super needy a HUGEEE brat but he has my entire heart and i totally recommend this breed to anyone who spends a lot of time home alone!
OMG! I LOVED my BMD so much! Mason was one of the best dogs I ever had. He was 80 pounds, lived till he was 12! Didn't care about the hair, and I trained him very well...he listened perfectly. He also didn't require tons of exercise or mental stimulation!! After he passed I decided to only rescue, we have had Tahli for 10 years now. But I will never ever forget the love and devotion I got from my beloved Mason!!
Sweet relationship with Mason! It’s not fair that dogs don’t live longer. I’m so happy that you adopted a rescue. We have 12 rescued dogs and they are all amazing! If you want a BMD but can’t afford one, do your research on an Akbash. They are just as big, not as needy, they are herding dogs so they need exercise, very smart and extremely protective. They are like grizzly bears.
My cutie bernese Kenai lived 12 years and passed away 2 months ago. She was one of the reasons of my day-to-day happiness. I miss her so so so much.
yay thank you for posting this! i wanted to see what are the challenges with owning one. they’re my dream dog!
It’s always good to know what your getting yourself into!
breakingseas we LOVE our dog. He has been so expensive with vet bills, special food, and grooming. They have a lot of health issues common to the breed and have very sensitive stomachs. But as every owner will tell you it’s worth it!
They do destroy a lot of things in the first year but they are just amazing afterwords. And as for the life span i've seen plenty healthy ones over ten where i live. Be prepared though, we send ours to the groomers once a month or two, the shedding can be quite spectacular. hihihih
They will truly steal your heart, there’s no doubt. Do your research on the breed, find a very responsible/reputable breeder and you’ll be golden
The absolute worst part of having one in your life, is saying goodbye. Way too soon fir most. Cancer is rampant in the breed. Lots of research is being done, but as with humans, its very slow.
“2 years a puppy,
2 years a good dog,
2 years an old dog.
Anything more is a blessing. “
I couldn’t live without Oliver! He is my total buddy! Ten reasons don’t compare to the great time we are having! I didn’t realize all your ten reasons when I got him, but he has won my heart!!!!
I had one some years ago, she was my best friend. Even tho she was blind and had trouble to walk, she knew where I was and everytime I got home she would go to me and we hug. And she knew what I was up to and does the right thing❤
Absolutely a 100% right! And still worth having. Best Breed Ever
Agree!!!
That 6-10 year range really hit hard. This August will be the 2nd year anniversary of my lab passing away and she was 14 at the time, which is on the very old side for her breed. I couldn't imagine having one of these dogs pass in just 6 or 7 years.
It's so sad that we don't get them for longer. We lost our first 3 at 7, 7, and 8. Our boys that we have now are both coming up 7 in the next few months. But I'll always say that I'd rather have a Berner for 7 years than zero years. They are the heart and soul of our house :)
Feel you man. Parents had a lab who outlived ,Sera bernese 5 years old ex missus property. Mine anyways hehe.
They are awesome. Dogs.
we got two female bernese over the years and lost both to cancer (both 6 years)
Had a pal who owned a teckel. Teckled lived to 16. Then they just exponentially got worse and the dog had to be taken to a clinic where they passed. The only consolation is that the owner (who had the time) stayed by their side til the bitter end.
I had my bella for 13 years. Got her when I was 7, she nearly saw me turn 20. She's the oldest Bernese in my countries history, and one of the top 10 oldest ever. God I miss the goofy looks she'd throw me when I did dumb stuff ahah
When I was looking for a family dog, I talked to a breeder of Bernies. She asked me how old my kids were; when I told her six and nine, she replied that she never recommended Bernies to families with young children because of the heartache they'd suffer when the dog passed at age 6. That was 22 years ago; I guess not much has changed.
To help you getting an understanding of what she means with exercise. These dogs are used for mountain search and rescue.
Wonderful video! I've had 9 Berners over the past 30 years!. I spent summers in Switzerland when I was a kid and fell in love with the breed! I have one of the best breeders in the country and my dogs average life has been 12 yrs. Once they became such a popular (and expensive) breed, unqualified breeders started breeding them for $$$$, then the avg lifespan dropped to 6-8. definitely research and get a good breeder. If you pay less for a bad breeder it will probably be heartbreaking!
I had one when I was a kid and he can never be replaced and will always be the best of all dogs. However he weighed 55-60kg pure muscle machine (heavier than my brother) so he could easily drag him around if he wanted to, so if you get one make sure to train it as best as you can.
I am really scared of dogs and I can't even pet a small dog because of my fear, but today i met my neighbour's 3 months old bernese mountain dog and i wasnt scared of him! My brother wanted this dog and I said no but now I am actually excited for a dog!! They are amazing for someone who is scared they listen to you and won't bite you unless you put your hand in their mouth.
Well i would argue that any properly trained dog listen to it's owner and do not bite regardless of its breed but if you are confortable with this one particular breed because you had a good experience with it that's already a nice step forward to one day getting over you fear of dogs !
Any dog that's well trained, mannered, & knows who's boss will be gentle & friendly to people who are skeptical towards dogs.
Berners are well known for being very loving dogs that just want to be by your side. They're also not really aggressive, and when they bark, it's more likely they want you to know they're there then as a scare tactic. So basically don't get one to act as a guard dog, because it's more likely gonna wanna cuddle up to thief then scare the thief away.
@@jish55 I had the offspring of a champion breed sire who snuck off and got a border collie pregnant = my first dog. My dad's place was almost robbed and everything was pulled out of the garage, but since this beast was tied up in the back, I think they thought otherwise and left. The dots above the eyes look like it is looking at you even if it is asleep from afar. Mine never barked and only hurt me once by accident (his nail took off my nail) :/ as a kid, so be aware, they think they are small dogs and easily tip over 100 pounds quickly (2 bag poops).
I played with our berner by letting her "bite" my arm and wrstle, like other dogs do with sticks. No harm was ever done. Berners are extremely relaxed and comforting. Never seen an agressive berner in my life.
...except that one time where ours was actually barking and engaged. My mom and I were on a walk, later on the evening, it was dark already and something tall was standing infront of us on the walkway. Just standing there, menacingly. Our berner barked at it, but it didnt flinch, so she got a little bit excited, ran at it, barked some more, etc.
We got excited too, as we laughed our asses off watching our berner barking menacingly at a garbage bin.
We've had our burner, Ringo for 4 years. He's definitely been a blessing and times a challenge. Lol we love him too death. Can't imagine not having him. In our lives. He's my constant companion. But he's also very needy. But thats ok. We love him.
Just discovered you guys last night! I LOVE Berners and Benny is definitely one of the cutest I've ever seen! That said -- I remember that I chose to get a mixed breed shelter dog, "with the right energy" (as Cesar Milan puts it) because of all the reasons you so gracefully stated here. Mostly life span and health-related issues due (often) to overbreeding, etc. Also expense. I've been deeply fortunate to have my beloved pup for 10 years in June. He's a 100lb heavily shedding super-sweet Lab/Shepherd mix named Noah and I have never loved another being so much. That said, I still completely ADORE Bernese Mountain Dogs and probably always will even if I never have one. This is the good thing about the UA-cam -- you can love everyone else's dogs, too! Thank you for sharing your sweet Benny with us and for your straightforward honesty about the breed.
🥰🥰🥰 welcome
Thanks for a very responsible video. So many people buy animals on impulse and have no idea what they are getting into, only to end up giving them away or worse, abandonment. Education is the key and you did a great job of informing all of us. Thanks!
That’s exactly what I was doing.. a lot of people didn’t understand that haha
Reason 8 is a BIG one. Two days ago, we lost my bernesian, 11 years old. Everyone is telling me, how good that is for those dogs and that i should take this as a gift - meanwhile i admit to have a total breakdown over that loss. And they are right, i totally know that, as i have those now a long time and had lost 2 others before with way less years.
And yet, it is not lowering the grief.
They are simply the best family friendly, guarding dogs in the world (and for everyone who has or had one, the best dogs overall oc). But the one weak point all dogs have is: they dont live as long as we do, and so your best friend, the truest buddy you will find, your shadow and guard, your most loyal soul you can imagine will become sick, old or both and you will have to let them go - which MOST times will be a decision YOU have to make and that can hunt you a lot (it does it to me. I ordered the doc to put three dogs to rest now, was there when my family had to make this decision with 7 other dogs over the decades - and i will never know, if it was the right decision or if the dogs would have continued / there would been a solution the docs i consulted just didnt know of).
This goes for every dog - but bernesian have to live between 7,5 and 9 or 10 years in average - that means that a big number dosnt come that far. Three times more likley to catch cancer (which was the case with my princess, she was fit in her head and very well with her body until cancer stroke her, without i ve no doubt she would been able to make at least 2 more years), predistined to get trouble with their joints and other, related medical issues.
You cant fill your home with more love and care - and you have to brace for a big emotional impact when it leaves.
The silence in my home right now is getting me (and we have two little kids...). I m not used to move around without my shadow. I miss the very moment i ruffled her, before i went to bed and the snorkling and deeply satisfied grunts when she moved in a comfy position.
To open the fridge without her standing in the kitchens door is confusing.
So really, really be warned. The rest is all stuff you can learn to manage and live with, often enjoying those "treats", but this one you will just not be able to avoid and it will hit hard. Every single time.
That said: my wife and i are now, two days after we had to say goodbye, while i m still crying writing this, we both agreed that we will have another one as soon as the wound is closed and we find another good breeder.
For nothing in the world i would miss those 11 years. And i m confident, the next bernesian will be incredible and as unique as she was.
So, make your decision wisly.
What a beautiful tribute to your lovely friend. Sending you a big hug from over here.
Thank for your transparency. I have a catahoula and I'd feel the same if anything happened 2 her. Ihope u get another one tho.
Beautifully said. Crying now.
Your comment made me tear up. They sound like wonderful dogs! 😢
Another of those breeds where the owner MUST be smarter than the dog!
You really just have to learn your Berner, it takes a while but i can just tell when Benny is gonna do something lol
I personally have a berner and i love her with my whole heart 100% get one
I agree! I think berners are the best.. but what about bennys previous owners who got one and ended up giving him up cause they couldn’t care for him... or my friend who found he poor Berner in a shelter cause her previous owners gave her up. Now both dogs have such anxiety and issues from this. Not everyone can handle these dogs and they need to know they aren’t just pretty and it’s not all love and cuddles! The first three years can be challenging . So I’d rather inform people of SOME of the cons of a berner... Most of these are researched. Not my opinion.
I don't care about anything you just said. I will still get this dog :)
The only reason I would never get a Bernese Mountain Dog ever again is the short life span 😭 he is the best dog ever. He has the biggest heart and stomach (you forgot to tell, they always want your food 😅 - and look like this while I am eating 🥺) great video - thank you! Our Noah is our family member and our children tell us everyday, they could not live without him anymore... he is sooo loved 💖 Greetings from Austria 🤗
My Bernese:
- Steals whole ass loaves of bread from donkeys
- Hits her head on everything
- Doesn't like the turkey we have
- Likes the ducks we have
- Hates the lawnmower, or any other kind of loud garden device thing
- Steals food from baby's hands
- Wants food, acts starved when she just had dinner
- Loves my mom the most because she used to sneakily give treats
- Dislikes me the most because she actually has to listen to me
She IS understanding tho. I don't like clinginess (I like subtle love a cat gives, making me think I'm a cat person), so when she knows the pats are over, she lies beside me. We then just enjoy each other's presence.
Does your dog take any medication? It sounds a lot like how my dog has acted since he's been put on seizure medication, he's constantly hungry and has become more impulsive about acquiring food, if it wasn't for the fact that he has a weight issue I'd be convinced I was under feeding him.
@@madestmadhatter nope, she's just a big foodie.
I think you hate your dog 😡😡
But I am a dog person
Because dog are really good and better from humans I have 3 dogs 1st is a golden retriver 2 is Lhasa apso and 3rd is Bernese mountain dog I love all my pet they help me every time also , when I was working on laptop and it was cold (-4degree) he take blanket and give it to me , all are very very playfull , and they don't disturb me between my any office work and sit near me
I love all my dogs 😍😗🤗💖💖
I don’t like the clinginess of the Bernese either. My Bernese is so possessive of people that pet her it has become a major annoyance because she attacks our other dog if we pet him. She has some serious issues that have developed I think she was the product of bad breeding.
Also she was given to us from a guy that was allergic so we did not buy her.
@@jaceybowker3374 that doesn't sound good at all. Maybe look for professional help? It's not in a Bernese nature to be that aggressive. My dog gets jealous too, but the worst she did was sit on a puppy (don't ask hehehe).
If you don't have the time to take your dog out for walks, DON'T GET A DOG OF ANY KIND. Dogs need exercise several times per day EVERY SINGLE DAY.
I had one for nearly11 years, she did have cancer so got her spleen removed when she was 9, she lived a great life until she got bloat just before her 11th birthday and we made the difficult decision to let her go. Beautiful dogs with the best temperament. Miss her every day
I had a Rottweiler cross berner, he was extremely protective yet a big softy at the same time.
Top Tip: Speaking from experience, If you have or are considering getting a Bernese Mountain Dog or a similar large breed, research what GDV is. Knowing what it is, what signs to look out for and having a skilled vet to go to in advance could save your dogs life.
These dogs are seriously the cutest!! I know myself though and found that cats are definitely the way to go for my particular lifestyle and needs, but what I wouldn't to be able to hug a dog like this even just once!
My wife and I have had four Berners over the last 30 years. Now that we are older, our children who grew up with the Berners are telling us it is time to get a small dog, that a Berner would knock us down, be too hard to handle etc. There is no way we ever get any other breed of dog. Once you have a Berner, you will have them for life.
Patrick Welsh agreed!!!
I have shared my life with 4. Losing one is just horrible but I will always own one. I am almost 63.
Wife fell because our Berner leaped unexpectedly in wrong direction, pretty bad permanent back injury. Ours died in May, 2020, at 7 years from lymphoma -- happened very quickly. Are we going to get another?? Of course we are!
John Laurence Poole Sorry for your loss ❤️
i’m sure they sense when their owners are more fragile and take care of you, those dogs are also good therapy dogs so they can’t be ignorant
I have a Bernese and all of the facts are true. But I’m has a HUGE vocal range. She can go from a super deep bark to a super high pitched yip. And she yips at us all night for no reason. But I’m very glad I have one.
My Bernese lived 9 beautiful years, he was my companion, best friend, went abroad with, scuba dived and boating, ride horses by my side and some times I my eyes off cried hugging him.
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I lost my bernese too soon. Was a perfect dog and I Love so much.
My Bernese is the cuddliest dog I’ve ever met. My whole family have never met a dog like her. Her name is Dixie and she’s coming up to a year old! She’s the sweetest, gives you proper hugs and affection I just love her
Everything you said was spot on. Tobias was constantly with me and that included going on vacation. He was a great traveling dog. Sometimes we got in the Jeep and drove aimlessly around and he loved it. He was incredibly intelligent too.
Jeeps and Berners... I can't think of a better combination! I can see the ears and the big feather tail flopping in the wind now :-)
fun!! I had a little black dog named Tobias (Toby) in the 60’s. Miss him. 😢
The best dog I ever had!! Extremely Loyal!!
my berner is turning 3 on new years he’s made my life so much better, he got cancer at 1 year old. he’s been worth all the struggle and expenses. love seeing yours he’s very adorable
About ten years ago I was feeling ill. I felt dizzy. My blood pressure was high. I didn't know. A distant neighbor was walking her adult Bernese past my home and I just fell in love looking at the dog. It was all smiles and so big. Can't remember if male or female, but it didn't matter. I had to, I mean just had to pet the dog. I asked the woman if I was allowed. I went up to him and sat down a little distance away. He sniffed the air and came over to me. Boy, did he hug me. My heart melted on the spot. I got up and talked with the woman and while talking, bent down to pat and softly rub the dog. I got dizzy and fell in the soft grass. He immediately stood over me with two legs on each side of my torso. He would not let me get up until I felt better. He would not move. My love for the breed grew. I've never had one and don't think I could care for them well enough. Besides, my heart would shatter when he suffers and passes so soon. I don't think I could handle that. What is my point? I'm not sure. I just wanted to share a memorable experience and my distant love for the breed.
I can see how much you love to be with your Benny. It is blatantly obvious you love his cuddles and attention, even if you don't have private time for yourself. I bet you love him so much, you have let down your guard around him and he doesn't care what you are doing. He just loves you more.
"They are the most needy dogs in the entire world."
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As someone with personal experience owning both. Our Berner is so much worse than our Dane. Danes get jealous and push in to you forcing the other thing getting your attention further away from you and give you sass. Berners climb over top of whatever is in their path to your face even if that means sitting on top of you, someone else, or any animal you may be cuddling. But it’s definitely very close if not dead even between the two depending on the specific dogs personality.
I was literally scrolling to find the Dane comment. Hahhaha. Love it!!!! Thank you 😍
Haha my friend's Dane "Sally" is a horse that will climb into your lap if you let her.
I have a Bernedoodle & love her to pieces. She must have gotten more of her dad than mom because all the traits you speak about is exactly hers. Thank you for the information as it helps me explain to people that cannot tolerate Chloe’s personality. I am so very happy she is in my life 💛
Our Astra pass away 3 days ago.She was 12 years and 8 months old.I never regret every sigle day with this angel on 4 legs.It was gift from heaven. 💜
Yes they are.
Our Berner is 5 months old, we love him for all of those reasons! ❤️❤️❤️
I love your and your husband's videos on Berners. You guys are delightfully accurate and descriptive. My guy is about 18 months old and he's as you described. He is definitely 'all dog.' Thanks for educating us on Berner ownership!
I own a berner and this is all soooo true😅 but you’re so right the goods outweigh the bad but a long shot! Cute vid xx
And meanwhile a parrot can live up to 60+years... dogs need longer lifespans!
A gorgeous dog btw :)
It's good to hear that you are SO positive! I can understand, now, that you have a Bernese. They are blessed to have you as an owner, being as positive as you are!
My Bernese mountain dog James is 10 and half year old still going strong
That’s our goal! Well hopefully longer too :)
Mine was 10y almost 11 and if we say speak she did it even on her last days . But we have to put her to sleep because she was sick 😞 I love that dog and i still love her 😘🐶 Rip Liaka some day i will meet you again.
Our Bernice mountain dog lived to 11. A good life
1 reason to get one. You will have an amazing best friend 💙
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Too many people buy dogs for the wrong reasons, they buy Staffies, American Bullies etc because they look tough, they buy little dogs because they look cute, they buy big dogs because they think small dogs are weak: the list is endless. My mum had a mostly fox terrier that was a stray who wandered in one day, took off then came back the next day, the dog was 12 - 18 months old, no microchip, a nice healthy weight, mum had her for about 12 years, my situation doesn’t allow for pets so when mum passed I gave her to an elderly lady who still has her two years later and loves her to death (I’m welcome to visit and I do) I’d never have have chosen this dog for myself but she chose my mum and accepted me, she was healthy but had kennel cough and was obviously mistreated in her time between homes so I had her sleep in and on my bed as she pleased, we ended up good mates, if it wasn’t for the fact I’m away half the year and the dog (Jesse) bonded with me to the point I couldn’t leave her with friends or at home with friends caring for her (she didn’t travel well either) as it took days for her to calm down, she needed someone who was home most of the time which she now has again: she remembers me when I visit and I’ve tried to entice her to leave with me which is funny, she follows me to the door, looks around then goes to her new owner... I wish I didn’t have to find her a new home but she’s happy and although I’ve offered there’s no way her new owner will ever part with her save the same way as mum did. I could type for hours about this little dog that’s not even 20% the size of one I’d have chosen.
My friend’s family has a berner named Nessie and she’s definitely a huge, cuddly furball, who also had to have emergency surgery as a puppy because she ate a bunch of stuff she wasn’t supposed to
I love my two Berners! I will in a heartbeat get another and so on. Best breed ever for me.
Yup, no personal space 🤣, dog hair is my glitter 😂 and so on...
A very smart breed ❤️
They are like Cheetos, after one you can’t stop. We are on #3 . Dutch is a Halloween baby and just turned two. We lost our first (Blaze) at 7 and our second (Ozzy) at 12. They possess an energy that once gone leaves a hole that must be filled.
I am 73 years old and got my wonderful best friend, Brodie, 13 years ago when he was 8 weeks old.He is a Bernese/Golden retriever whose looks and size are like his Bernese Mom. He is the most loving, loyal, gentle dog I’ve ever known or had. He is the darling of my apartment building as he greets everyone he sees during the day and even gives hugs. Yes, he loves attention and gets plenty! He has no health problems yet and I credit him for my exceptional health as we get plenty of exercise together every day. I am so grateful for my wonderful Brodie❤️
My whole life I have wanted a bernese mountain dog because they give u no space 😂 they looks so cuddly 🥰
They are the best
We got our first Bernese 6 months ago and this explains him to a T. We love him so much. We love that he wants to be with us all the time. That’s one reason we chose this breed. ☺️
I make little treat boxes (using tp rolls) for ours and she LOVES them. I put apple pieces and a few kibbles in there and she is so HAPPY to figure out how to open them up.
I love this cheeky little boy!! His mom and dad are adorable too😉💋
Aweee thank you!!
Greetings from Oz lve really enjoyed your videos.What a lovely dog who loves you so much.
Thank you!
We just bought our third Bernie puppy. The first lived only 3years. Second died after 7years. They don’t have a long lifespan. But, they are very affectionate, easy to train. The current puppy we bought is 8weeks old and has been home for one full week and is now trained to go outside. She has had no accidents. Nor does she bark much. They really only bark for fear. They love to run. Fortunately even though we live in a large city, we are close to large parks. If you time early mornings and late evenings you will rarely disturb other dog walkers.
So basically they act like almost every other dog in general? Got it
Not really lol you’ll never understand a berner till you get one!
Not really. They can be a bit more needy and are like all over you and get upset if they don't get enough attention. Not all dogs are like that. And they have a ton of fur.
Basil and yes a lot of dogs can be cuddly. But nothing like the berner😂
@@BennyBerner Definitely. And my neighbor's dog, I noticed hadn't been brushed in eons. His coat looked bad, so I bought a big brush. He was super happy to be brushed, which surprised my neighbor from Wisconsin. His fur looks great now. I am boiling some potatoes for the pooch. Apparently, he loves potatoes. Have you tried seeing if your Berner likes boiled potatoes? This guy loves them. And I got a huge box. Don't want to waste them.
@Michael Metras Yes, they can be very sweet if they love you. It's amazing how much fur they shed. Anyway, I find them adorable. They are sweet giants.
I'm not used to seeing Americans living in an apartment.... especially on youtube
IDontRollMyRs yeah I thought they all live in big ass houses in the US
@@duchessedeberne3909 I wish.
lol no, most people live in apartments, especially in the larger cities. With our economy, people can’t afford houses anymore
So same as here: If you don‘t have parents paying for you, you keep renting. Man this situation sucks
The greedy boomer generation really did a number on us
We met our first Mountain dog in Switzerland in the 80's. Wonderful dogs. Funny . great companion and watchful. Lots of positives too!
Mine, Bradley, was 230 at one point. Yes he was a giant for the breed plus he had thyroid issues. He also had two TPLOs and lived to be 7years and 2 days. 😥
Some of those depend on the personality of the individual dog. I have a Berner who obviously loves to be with you 24/7 and sit on top of you but is fine laying down when I need to get stuff done and she doesn’t chew on anything except bones/treats. She’s also great at home while I’m at work. Depends on the dog.
That's true.Our Astra was very kind and loving BMD, always nearby us, but never made any "pressing".She never touch the things in the house.She use to stop on the entrance to kitchen, but didn't go in (without any command).
She was big for female dog (about 50 kg) but there was no problems to walk with her on the leash, in the car or in restaurant.She even didn't bark much, only when is something "very important" (mostly one single "VAW!)
She was fine till the last evning,Just passed away in one night.She was nearly 13 years old.
My parents got a Bernese Mountain dog for me because they want me to have someone who will help me with my problems. We had a Bernese Mountain dog before and she helped me a lot with my illnesses and to be honest I feel that my puppy is trying his best to help me already.
Berners are GREAT dogs. We have had two. One lived 8 years. The other 3 1/2 years. Berners are prone to cancer. However, the joy of their company cannot be beat. They are super dogs.
I love my Max (Bernese) he is 4 months old and everything you said is true about him, but he is so darn cute and lovable
I see a lot of owners make this training mistake, repeating a command over and over and thinking the dog will eventually "get it." Say your command ONCE, then show the dog what you expect. For example, "sit" - say it once then use your hand or a treat to get the dog into sitting position. They will learn far quicker, whereas when you just keep repeating yourself he or she just assumes it's voluntary or will ignore the command altogether. Peruse some of Cesar Milan's books or videos, or pick up some books by Brian Kilcommons (I've worked with him). Personally I love BMDs and wish I had the space for a couple. They're smart but also, as you said, can be stubborn.
Paul Drake Zak George also talks about this a lot! His books are great as well!
I quite agree. She seemed to suggest co-operation which is done by talking. Giving a command is not co-operation: it's obedience. An adult dog understands very well what you said.
I only saw couple of Cesar Milan videos, but he seemed to me a person who would raise his dog in fear, thinks being in the top of the hierarchy pyramid requires breaking the dog. My experience with two big male BMD is that they want to please and they do it out of love, not fear. Showing your strength while playing, is enough for dog to learn you have the physical power. While training them commands, they learn you are the one who gives them. Opening doors and giving food and things like that show the dog that their human members are more grown ups in the pack: they have skills the dog does not. My mom never used any physical power with the dogs, yet they did what she told. It was both love, and a kid's respect to an adult.
With well behaving dog you don't need to give commands even once a day: they understand just normal talking and want to co-operate. Co-operation mode is usually good. Outside training, I never gave commands unless it was an urgent situation which needed fast obedience.
With strange dogs, demand the focus that they listen you. Do not try to threaten them, just be determined, it's enough.
Wow! My dog acts like yours. Needy, wants hugs at all times and won't leave you alone.
Wow. We didn't really have these issues with our Berner (except life expectancy and initial cost). He was seven when he died, but it was out of the blue (heart failure maybe?) , so there were no vet bills. But shedding, neediness, activity level, etc. were not an issue. In fact, shedding was only a problem when he would blow coat in the spring, and we would just take him to the groomer to get blown out. I think they can have different coat types (he had long and wavy hair), so maybe that impacts the shedding. He was also totally lazy, and was happy laying on our feet at the bottom of the couch all day long. He was super calm and gentle, and really careful around kids. We didn't have problems with stubbornness, but we were never able to get him to stop pulling on the leash (and they are unbelievably strong). We just used a gentle leader, and our five year old could walk him with that with no problem. I guess we just got really lucky! We are considering getting another one, so we will definitely be contacting the same breeder! Hopefully some of our original dogs qualities were part of the breeders genetic lines, so we can avoid these problems again!