1. Abillity to say "No" 2. Woman to be taken care of by man 3. Noticing and complimenting a woman's uniqueness 4. Listen, acknowledge and support without trying to kneejerk solve 5. Spontaneity, playfulness and drive
Like you said: "Best interests in mind." Respecting her to better herself and better the man as well, "vis a vis;" reciprocal loving in the practical, as well as the romance and fun...being felt by her that you are there in her life for the cause of both of you...a want and desire for individual improvement *_because_* you are really there, that is, *_in_* the relationship and thereby others (outside your relationship together) _*will feel(!)*_, as in, "Hey that is true couple."
real men don't want childish women who need direction, they want an adult partner to build a family and/or to face life's hardships, with whom having true emotional/physical connection. It's far too risky to put your life (health, assets, time, mental well-being) in the hands of a woman-child.
eh, I'd like to meet people who I can have fun with. Not just women, but of course also women! Maybe we can become friends or lovers. Who knows. But I want to and like to have fun.
That last point is huge. Women are like children. Show them laughter and fun and they'll attach themselves to you. I wish I had taken this to heart 25 years ago.
the masculine force is like an Island, unmoved by the swirling feminine waters that churn & break upon the shores. One moment, smooth & calm, in an instant, a raging tempest
@@StevenJeffrey-h2g I have seen many men, once proud ''alpha's'', get washed away by said waters. I grew up in a household where this was the norm, it cured me from desiring to live with a woman for life.
Because women reflect men. How we show up directly correlates to her behavior (if you chose the right girl). You can have a totally different relationship with the same woman depending on how you show up.
I’m impressed. You are wise beyond your years, Maya. Great advice! Men, listen up. These are not unreasonable requests. It’s truly what makes women feminine, so embrace it and enjoy the fruit!
I want to add to the fourth point: If a woman complains about something it means she trusts you. When she complains about something it is better to ask if she wants to be heard (us to listen) or if she wants a solution. Then you can continue. 166:4. 15/10/2024. 21:10. 1 354.
Great advice! I've found #4 particularly helpful. Whenever my S/O is in some emotional pain, I have a tendency to jump into doing what I can to 'fix' the pain. I always need to stop myself, since that's literally a default reaction hardwired in me. I think part of it is me being used to taking the lead for everything. But, as you've said, counter-intuitively, to help her the most I need to actually allow her to sit in that pain and let her to lead me in how to best support her emotionally.
It’s funny, I see a lot of guys in the comments complain about how this is too much. It’s simply just a frame of being. Embody these ideals and you won’t have to work or try to be it. Only in the beginning as you start to implement the mindset. But once you’ve stepped into that frame and make it who you are, relationships are going to get a lot easier, trust.
I LOVE this video. I’ve been married for 20 years. I’ve been through clarity, I’ve been through a paucity of understanding. Your truths are true truths! They are all great reminders. I can’t wait for the next opportunity to practice them. Also, it’s just plain hot to be like this with your wife. Yay!
God leads men, men lead women, women lead children ~the natural order of things . If a woman is feeling her man can't lead she may try to pick up the slack, but it is not a role many find comfortable for long
@StevenJeffrey-h2g Yep. And many of today's women have been indoctrinated to reject that. By the time they figure out the truth, they're hitting the wall, and nobody wants them anymore.
All the clever advice videos in the world summed up in one sentence: just be yourself and have a good heart, the person who likes what you have inside you will recognize it - end of message.
11:15 yes, and with that comes pain of making some missteps as you put yourself in some vulnerable situations. But whenever you feel that feeling of maybe you did something wrong or made a mistake, or felt you got rejected, in whatever social situation, women, men, new people, potential friends etc, we need to say to ourselves that this is GOOD, this bad feeling is actually proof of that good thing, which is to escape the comfort zone; you know to a certain degree at least. So instead of believing in the shame, and the pessimistic thoughts, deliberately recall everytime that this pain is part of the process, the process cannot happen without that pain happening from time to time, and it does not feel comfortable no. So do not conclude that this is another failure, instead this is another episode where you SUCCEEDED in managing to put yourself in a vulnerable situation and try something, to act and do. Essentially no pain no gain. And then of course try to learn from that mistake, don't just discard it, but use it to learn what may have went wrong and perhaps we can do something about it, or improve something with our own way of handling things, in the future, or the next time. As an opportunity to perhaps see things from a new perspective, driven by the temporary uncomfortable feeling that arose from whatever misstep/mistake/failure happened.
What's crazy is every thing you talk about in your videos I stumbled upon by accident when I was 16-18 and somehow slowly forgot until you reminded me. Thank you Maya 😊🎉
I told my ex that I always saw her in pain, after several months of seeing her suffer mentally and physically I asked her if she wanted me to help her find specialists, doctors, therapists. This was a mistake, although I took her to an OBGYN who found several cycsts on her ovaries, a therapist that told her non of her troubles have to do with me, and many other doctors. Me trying to help her was a form of neglect oddly, she just wanted to be taken out to eat and didn't want any of her problems to be resolved. Trying to solve them reminded her that she had problems. She didn't want to communicate about her problems. She would lay in bed all day depressed on her cell phone. It became where all I did was focus on setting up doctor appoints to help her and she secretly hated it. Girls want to be left to self destruct. They will love you if you let them suffer. Saying no has no power here
eh, it sounds like there was some issue beyond just "women issues" there. Sounded like she had some deeper psychological problem happening, depression even. But even so, it's not wrong that sometimes we just need someone to take interest in us in a way that feels genuine and positive and fun.
@@CrazyGaming-ig6qq Yeah, her ex sexually abused her, she had no mom or dad, her grandma hated her, her closest family member her great grandma started dying, and she wasn't allowed to go out when she was in her teens so she was obsessed with going out, and everyone wanted to be a part of us or destroy us because we were powerful together. She left me and got with a gym shirtless selfie guy. She looks happy in her profile photo but I know she's not, and I'm sure that guy is excited to be with her because no girls would want him, a rebound relationship. But yeah you're right.
You literally described the kind of guy I am and somehow I always end up with childish narcissistic women who cant even comprehend anything you just talked about. I’m uninterested in caring for a woman like a child. I’m getting a dog instead. 😂
At least a dog loves you unconditionally. Any other human only cares about what you "provide", not for the person you are. Personally I'm getting a boat. It'll cost less than a woman and at least I'll be able to travel with less drama and crap in my life.
Signing up for martial arts lessons might be more my speed I know the costs and benefits up front. I know exactly what I'm paying each month, what the rules are, what I hope to achieve, and all of the risks hours before I even set foot inside the dojo. All I'd have to do is focus, adapt, and commit. People come and go. So do animals. But skills rarely follow suit in that regard. EDIT: I'm not claiming to have all the answers. I'm just trying to allude to the importance of building skills.
you forgot to say the tip number 0: anything you say mean nothing if the woman doesn't find the man attractive in the first place. After that, it only depends on the level of attraction: there aren't unattractive male behaviours, there are only unattractive men (A. Grace quote)
Kudos for stating the fundamental reality about women with attraction the least a man does matters most, without attraction the most a man does matters the least.
Bad women are complicated, good women who work on themselves outside of their careers are not complicated. This is just a statement of inexperience or bata male complaining.
They seem like it but it boils down to understanding a few simple rules. They use emotion, men use logic. That’s why you never argue, it’s a winless task. Also, you need to understand attraction goes in space, basically every rom com chasing guy movie, do the opposite and that’s a good start :)
Another 5 things... Jeez, the list is endless. They'll all be single moms soon. I'm investing in cat food and box wine companies. And NEVER getting married again !!!
Women are not complicated, they are very simple actually. They've never been held accountable, so they change their mind to whatever feels good at that moment, and expect everyone else to cater to that emotionally or financially.
I show support by offering to help free her from whatever quagmire she feels she’s in. If she doesn’t need my help or doesn’t take it at least I offered. I’m not bending over backwards to help anybody.
1 - Women will use this as an excuse to squabble. Stop testing your men - a relationship is not a soap opera; 2 - Women do not care for her men, why should in the end men do the contrary? 3 - No one is born with the obligation to validate one's existence; 4 - Women simply must stop believing that men is "a women's mind in a male body that misbehave on purpose" - besides, what "uniqueness" women have today to praise? 5 - Women claim to be independent. Why should any men try to interfere?
4. Listen, acknowledge and support without trying to kneejerk solve - i want more explanation here. i understand at some level by i need advices . Thank you
Intresting to see more and more young people taking care about the quality of relationships. And some of these channels impress me because sometimes there is true wisdom. I do not agree that my wife became a part of myself. A healthy relationship is not Hollywood alike, melting in each other. Its the opposite, its about healthy boundaries and creating a future together. The times where the man alone was the provider of the family are long gone. In some modern relationships its the women which makes more money. I think woman have to adapt to this new reality. If you need that cosy feeling that someone secures your future financially. This maybe is deep rooted in our DNA. But its no longer a reality many couples can life.
Unfortunately nothing will Works for long therm in modern relattionship Keep in peace alone and never marriage Dont loose your health and time or money and scape this trap
But also do what she wants without her knowing what she wants and make sure she doesn’t hate what you’re doing even though you have to guess, lmfao avoid women like this there are plenty of normal non confused women
9:00 Yes, but mans also have feelings! Woman sometimes have that big blind spot and they think in their emotional struggles, that the world goes only around them. Nope men also have problems and cant always regulate the emotions of the partner. Thats why learning emotional regulation is so important…yes sometimes we regulate each other… but not always. No relationship can provide constant regulation of the other person… saying no to constantly new unregulated emotions is a very healthy boundary…
so true. Once I started teaching 7-8 year olds, female behavior started to make more sense. It's as if woman subconsciously want to know how you will handle yourself one-on-one with a 7 year old. Kids will test relentlessly.
Screw that. Its the era of women now proving themselves to men... Men gave up on women, they dont need you. But will have you if you actually bring peace to his life.
8:00 Sorry. There is something that woman need to learn. Men feel seen when you listen to his solutions examples. It’s a quality in men and not a mistake. I can witness the feelings of my partner, and she can witness my ideas of solving a problem. It doesn’t mean she has to follow my ideas but she at least can do me the same favor back and she can listen to me. If she wants to be seen I want to be seen as well… 😮🎉❤🎉
As a guy I agree. Its heavly nuanced. With my girlfriend I will just listen and not try to problem solve for minor day to day complaints. BUT if there is complaining happening over and over again with one particular issue she is having....well then I put a stop to it and step in with a solution that puts the issue to bed once and for all.
This stuff will definitely give you a tighter bond with a woman. Don't get the wrong idea it's very beautiful, but there's something else at play, something far more subtle.
Problem with women now is they only seem to think one dimensionally. Men are always being taught how talk to, how love, how to provide..etc for a woman, but whose teaching the women about a man's needs?
Yea women are so egocentric in these times they don't even think about a man's needs, unless they want something from him or are really into it, it's sad. I mean I've had terrible expierences with women that just proof that. This generation of women I'd say, is way too spoiled. Like women can be weak, or cry, or vulnerable etc, while men meet this challenges just as much, but are supposed to be tougher etc. And women find it too obvious that men hunt for them & take the initiative but meanwhile will complain quickly if a man contacts them when they don't like it etc..
@@bekeneel that isn’t the issue, the issue is men who are driven to their purpose raise attraction of women. Men who lose that focus on their purpose as soon as they start dating someone and focus on making their woman their purpose can cause attraction of their partner to decrease long term because it’s weak insecure behaviour. That is why so many times a woman will start to pull away and can’t explain why.. I’m sure we’ve all heard “you’re sweet I just feel something is different”. Those are often the reasons why.
Apparently women find Tony Soprano attractive for the following reasons: He's competent, decisive, attentive, attuned, and likes women Which nakes some kind of sense. To the "women are too complicated" crowd you should read Battlestar Galactica and Philosophy, specifically its take on Simone DeBovoirs "other" mediated through the type 6 Android. Women are as man have made rhem. Until very recently biologically and socially, mate choice was of primary importance, and you needed to be able to understand and predict the mood and behaviour of your man as thier lives and the welfare of thier children depend on it. This has been the case since the dawn of man pretty much, certainly since the dark ages. The colour pink is a salutory lesson. Women are as complicated as we as men have made them. Understand why.
If women want to be provided for, they have to accept that a man's home is his castle. Meaning that when a man gets home after enduring the world outside, he wants to be able to relax and be with his woman, not have the outside world forced upon him by a woman more interested in work or politics or any other external concern.
Everything is in this video is 100% correct, expressed beautifully, and known by most mature men. However, it takes effort, focus, time and a certain state of mind for a man to be able to do these things. In some ways, it is the same as when a father has to form, control, manage and temper his reactions with his children. If a man has an relatively easy, stress-free, happy life with a manageable workload and one or zero children, this is achievable. But many men are not in this state. Maya is young and may not be considering the burden of delivering on all this not only to a woman but also the pediatric version to multiple children. Modern life is that of 60-hour work weeks, endless extracurricular activities of children, relatively high cost of living, etc.; modernity has made it harder than ever for men to have the peace of mind to deliver these things. Is it the fault of the man or the environment he's in? When a woman does not get what she wants or needs from a man, does she lash out at him or does she exercise the same discipline of temperament she wants from him to realize it might be the environment, and she might be a part of exacerbating that environment?
The man is supposed to be the rock. When he’s stable and collected, she’ll more likely calm down. The pressures your talking about are legitimate but woman are different then men. I would say, as a man handling that much it would be important to have personal grounding prayer time so that when interacting with the woman or children he’s calm, cool, level headed, non-reactive.
So, so, so many....I wanna say hoops, why does having any kind of human relationship require so much freakin' work?! I saw a guy tell some relationship advice for men, and he said: "Men don't take your foot off the gas pedal" But what about us?! (guys) We are human too, don't we deserve to be heard 😢 I mean why is it that the guy is the only one who has to put in the work?? I don't know, it's just so much work for a pay off with little too gain, and with everything being so expensive nowadays.... 😔 Women (more emotional than rational) change rapidly as like the weather. They say, be sensitive to my feelings, and when we do so they call us sissies. Maybe that's why culture has often described women as cats, you just don't know... they're a freakin' mystery! 😮💨
Well, considering every good man I know, including myself, has gotten screwed-over by an unfaithful, duplicitous woman after he gave his heart and soul to her, why should I give a rat's rear about what "women want me to do"?
Well..I'm saying NO....If I was listening to this as an incentive to invest my money, I'd pass on the deal...like every one of these types of videos it's all about their needs..."Women WANT" and even when we do every single one of these things it WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH! I'm just waiting for the first fully programmable female doll BIOBOT! And it's right around the corner, the very first program I'm inputting is accountability and responsibility 🤣
1. Abillity to say "No"
2. Woman to be taken care of by man
3. Noticing and complimenting a woman's uniqueness
4. Listen, acknowledge and support without trying to kneejerk solve
5. Spontaneity, playfulness and drive
Sounds good.
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Like you said: "Best interests in mind." Respecting her to better herself and better the man as well, "vis a vis;" reciprocal loving in the practical, as well as the romance and fun...being felt by her that you are there in her life for the cause of both of you...a want and desire for individual improvement *_because_* you are really there, that is, *_in_* the relationship and thereby others (outside your relationship together) _*will feel(!)*_, as in, "Hey that is true couple."
I drive.
These are all 100% great points she makes.
real men don't want childish women who need direction, they want an adult partner to build a family and/or to face life's hardships, with whom having true emotional/physical connection. It's far too risky to put your life (health, assets, time, mental well-being) in the hands of a woman-child.
All women need direction and "real men" aren't afraid to lead.
@@bigol9223 as I said: woman-child. I leave to you, "real man"
eh, I'd like to meet people who I can have fun with. Not just women, but of course also women! Maybe we can become friends or lovers. Who knows. But I want to and like to have fun.
'Men think that providing means money. No. It's more than that.' It's all your money and then some.
Your soul to be possessed by a creature worse than the devil !
Indeed.
🤣 funny but true
It is not purely money, as they also want your soul 😂
"Honey, I have a flat tire." "Oh. How does that make you feel?"
That last point is huge. Women are like children. Show them laughter and fun and they'll attach themselves to you. I wish I had taken this to heart 25 years ago.
Pursue your own happiness & then you will be laughing naturally anyways, it will attract people, positive forces to your life
This video is exactly why men now don't look for women's approval.
It's funny they think they have emotional intelligence ,when they can't even communicate.
They expect men to be mindreaders
the masculine force is like an Island, unmoved by the swirling feminine waters that churn & break upon the shores. One moment, smooth & calm, in an instant, a raging tempest
@@StevenJeffrey-h2g I have seen many men, once proud ''alpha's'', get washed away by said waters. I grew up in a household where this was the norm, it cured me from desiring to live with a woman for life.
No time for silly games. Either all in or out. No in betweens
I'm like this also. It takes a long time for a girl to understand this, as they are so used to get their way with their stupid little games.
Why should I care? Do Women care what I want? I doubt it
Because women reflect men. How we show up directly correlates to her behavior (if you chose the right girl). You can have a totally different relationship with the same woman depending on how you show up.
Ça dépend mon ami. Don't judge everyone by your current experience. What makes you think you know the whole world?
Women don't care what we want cus you simps will accept anything she give you. Too scared to say somthing to her but you got to nerve to talk to me.
@@MissionJesus370 To whom? You are a bold one, surely. I hope you are not so brazen in real life!
It's all about her feelings because emotions are facts.
It’s actually just one thing:
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I’m impressed. You are wise beyond your years, Maya. Great advice! Men, listen up. These are not unreasonable requests. It’s truly what makes women feminine, so embrace it and enjoy the fruit!
You can enjoy the fruit without saddling yourself in a relationship. Its far more of a sacrifice for a man than a woman.
Do not try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other. The big philosopher - 4 Touchdowns in one game Mr. Al Bundy
i like how through out her videos you can see her glowing and been bright!
Keep going love you are doing great!
You are absolutely right on all accounts. I have learned all these things the hard way. But they work, each and every one of them!
I want to add to the fourth point: If a woman complains about something it means she trusts you. When she complains about something it is better to ask if she wants to be heard (us to listen) or if she wants a solution. Then you can continue. 166:4. 15/10/2024. 21:10. 1 354.
Great advice! I've found #4 particularly helpful. Whenever my S/O is in some emotional pain, I have a tendency to jump into doing what I can to 'fix' the pain. I always need to stop myself, since that's literally a default reaction hardwired in me. I think part of it is me being used to taking the lead for everything. But, as you've said, counter-intuitively, to help her the most I need to actually allow her to sit in that pain and let her to lead me in how to best support her emotionally.
It’s funny, I see a lot of guys in the comments complain about how this is too much. It’s simply just a frame of being. Embody these ideals and you won’t have to work or try to be it. Only in the beginning as you start to implement the mindset. But once you’ve stepped into that frame and make it who you are, relationships are going to get a lot easier, trust.
On balance, you are putting out great, accurate content. Don't listen to the haters in the comments. You are doing good work.
I LOVE this video. I’ve been married for 20 years. I’ve been through clarity, I’ve been through a paucity of understanding. Your truths are true truths! They are all great reminders. I can’t wait for the next opportunity to practice them. Also, it’s just plain hot to be like this with your wife. Yay!
Men lead, women follow. Just say no to simping 🙏
Men lead, directly to the unemployment line or prison if he's not careful.
acting this way does not make sense anymore with modern society (and modern women)
God leads men, men lead women, women lead children ~the natural order of things . If a woman is feeling her man can't lead she may try to pick up the slack, but it is not a role many find comfortable for long
@StevenJeffrey-h2g Yep. And many of today's women have been indoctrinated to reject that.
By the time they figure out the truth, they're hitting the wall, and nobody wants them anymore.
All the clever advice videos in the world summed up in one sentence: just be yourself and have a good heart, the person who likes what you have inside you will recognize it - end of message.
Pure gold. Thanks a lot. I will try my best. I promise
Thank you for your great video!
This is all really true, except the girl already has attraction to you. Saying no to a girl that thinks you’re ugly. Not gonna help 😂
11:15 yes, and with that comes pain of making some missteps as you put yourself in some vulnerable situations. But whenever you feel that feeling of maybe you did something wrong or made a mistake, or felt you got rejected, in whatever social situation, women, men, new people, potential friends etc, we need to say to ourselves that this is GOOD, this bad feeling is actually proof of that good thing, which is to escape the comfort zone; you know to a certain degree at least. So instead of believing in the shame, and the pessimistic thoughts, deliberately recall everytime that this pain is part of the process, the process cannot happen without that pain happening from time to time, and it does not feel comfortable no. So do not conclude that this is another failure, instead this is another episode where you SUCCEEDED in managing to put yourself in a vulnerable situation and try something, to act and do. Essentially no pain no gain. And then of course try to learn from that mistake, don't just discard it, but use it to learn what may have went wrong and perhaps we can do something about it, or improve something with our own way of handling things, in the future, or the next time. As an opportunity to perhaps see things from a new perspective, driven by the temporary uncomfortable feeling that arose from whatever misstep/mistake/failure happened.
Thanks for sharing you’re relationships knowledge! Good episode ! 👌👌😎😎
Thank you, Girl.
What's crazy is every thing you talk about in your videos I stumbled upon by accident when I was 16-18 and somehow slowly forgot until you reminded me. Thank you Maya 😊🎉
Anyone wants someone to provide for them.
Creating a game plan is a response to seeing her pain. That's why we want to solve the problem.
Hey Maya...I just figured it all out and Jack Jones said it all in a song Lollipops and Roses !...It's all so magical and it all Works !
*Definitely a reminder to pay attention to what isn’t being said!*
I told my ex that I always saw her in pain, after several months of seeing her suffer mentally and physically I asked her if she wanted me to help her find specialists, doctors, therapists. This was a mistake, although I took her to an OBGYN who found several cycsts on her ovaries, a therapist that told her non of her troubles have to do with me, and many other doctors. Me trying to help her was a form of neglect oddly, she just wanted to be taken out to eat and didn't want any of her problems to be resolved. Trying to solve them reminded her that she had problems. She didn't want to communicate about her problems. She would lay in bed all day depressed on her cell phone. It became where all I did was focus on setting up doctor appoints to help her and she secretly hated it. Girls want to be left to self destruct. They will love you if you let them suffer. Saying no has no power here
eh, it sounds like there was some issue beyond just "women issues" there. Sounded like she had some deeper psychological problem happening, depression even. But even so, it's not wrong that sometimes we just need someone to take interest in us in a way that feels genuine and positive and fun.
@@CrazyGaming-ig6qq Yeah, her ex sexually abused her, she had no mom or dad, her grandma hated her, her closest family member her great grandma started dying, and she wasn't allowed to go out when she was in her teens so she was obsessed with going out, and everyone wanted to be a part of us or destroy us because we were powerful together. She left me and got with a gym shirtless selfie guy. She looks happy in her profile photo but I know she's not, and I'm sure that guy is excited to be with her because no girls would want him, a rebound relationship. But yeah you're right.
You are sooooo far aheah...and you are sooooo young....you have flipped your external energy towards men...abundance is yours...AJ
the helping part goes for men and women, all humans
You literally described the kind of guy I am and somehow I always end up with childish narcissistic women who cant even comprehend anything you just talked about. I’m uninterested in caring for a woman like a child.
I’m getting a dog instead. 😂
😆😆😆😆🤦
At least a dog loves you unconditionally. Any other human only cares about what you "provide", not for the person you are.
Personally I'm getting a boat. It'll cost less than a woman and at least I'll be able to travel with less drama and crap in my life.
@@trancekingpj that’s whats up! I just bought a basically brand new from 2013 bass tracker 175 last week; it was worth it!
Signing up for martial arts lessons might be more my speed
I know the costs and benefits up front. I know exactly what I'm paying each month, what the rules are, what I hope to achieve, and all of the risks hours before I even set foot inside the dojo. All I'd have to do is focus, adapt, and commit.
People come and go. So do animals. But skills rarely follow suit in that regard.
EDIT: I'm not claiming to have all the answers. I'm just trying to allude to the importance of building skills.
30 years ago...only requirements were.
Decent looking, Decent job and nice shoes😂😂😂
these days decent looking means women will be throwing themselves at you on dating apps, it's kind of gross tbh
30 years ago?
Nicely done!
you forgot to say the tip number 0: anything you say mean nothing if the woman doesn't find the man attractive in the first place. After that, it only depends on the level of attraction: there aren't unattractive male behaviours, there are only unattractive men (A. Grace quote)
Kudos for stating the fundamental reality about women with attraction the least a man does matters most, without attraction the most a man does matters the least.
Thank you!
women are to complicated
I wonder why they never came with a manual.
They don’t even understand themselves
Bad women are complicated, good women who work on themselves outside of their careers are not complicated. This is just a statement of inexperience or bata male complaining.
@@Gsea101
They seem like it but it boils down to understanding a few simple rules. They use emotion, men use logic. That’s why you never argue, it’s a winless task. Also, you need to understand attraction goes in space, basically every rom com chasing guy movie, do the opposite and that’s a good start :)
Another 5 things... Jeez, the list is endless.
They'll all be single moms soon.
I'm investing in cat food and box wine companies.
And NEVER getting married again !!!
Thankyou!
Garbarrrrge!
Thank you Maya.
Good to see you again. Love your content. You look beautiful as well ❤❤❤
A man thinks that if he can fix the woman’s problem, then he can help reduce the damage. And yet, instead, the woman rejects his efforts.
The only point I understand is no. 1, the ability to say no to her. All the other points are non-concrete blabla to me.
Women are very complicated and men are very simple Period.
Women are not complicated, they are very simple actually. They've never been held accountable, so they change their mind to whatever feels good at that moment, and expect everyone else to cater to that emotionally or financially.
Men are complicated but we do not reveal it
Women are simple but try to disguise it
Sounds good.
At least it has gone down from 15 to 5 without going up to 6 again, let alone back down to 3 and then back up to 48.
I am all good, you make sense, i do all thies things🎉
I show support by offering to help free her from whatever quagmire she feels she’s in. If she doesn’t need my help or doesn’t take it at least I offered. I’m not bending over backwards to help anybody.
1 - Women will use this as an excuse to squabble. Stop testing your men - a relationship is not a soap opera;
2 - Women do not care for her men, why should in the end men do the contrary?
3 - No one is born with the obligation to validate one's existence;
4 - Women simply must stop believing that men is "a women's mind in a male body that misbehave on purpose" - besides, what "uniqueness" women have today to praise?
5 - Women claim to be independent. Why should any men try to interfere?
Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!
4. Listen, acknowledge and support without trying to kneejerk solve - i want more explanation here. i understand at some level by i need advices . Thank you
You are correct about porn videos they kill the the truth that God give to us to do it love and kindness to our partner that how to live God comment.
Intresting to see more and more young people taking care about the quality of relationships. And some of these channels impress me because sometimes there is true wisdom. I do not agree that my wife became a part of myself. A healthy relationship is not Hollywood alike, melting in each other. Its the opposite, its about healthy boundaries and creating a future together. The times where the man alone was the provider of the family are long gone. In some modern relationships its the women which makes more money. I think woman have to adapt to this new reality. If you need that cosy feeling that someone secures your future financially. This maybe is deep rooted in our DNA. But its no longer a reality many couples can life.
finances are not in out dna. Safety feeling for her is
Shes giving yall the easy game. Take notes.
I think you did a good video here.
Good advice Maya, thanks for sharing
Women don't want a solution but they want emotional support 🤣🤣🤣 That is so clever.
Tbh, that's what most women say anyway. It's not like they're afraid to say any of this.
Unfortunately nothing will Works for long therm in modern relattionship
Keep in peace alone and never marriage
Dont loose your health and time or money and scape this trap
If you don't want help solving the problem, don't bother your man. Real men fix stuff. Call your sister if you need to "be heard".
The same things men want
Weird ... In short: Just don't be nice and never do what she wants. But who wants to play that silly game?
But also do what she wants without her knowing what she wants and make sure she doesn’t hate what you’re doing even though you have to guess, lmfao avoid women like this there are plenty of normal non confused women
it's weird when you show no interest, they are interested- as soon as you show interest, they lose it. ridiculous
9:00 Yes, but mans also have feelings! Woman sometimes have that big blind spot and they think in their emotional struggles, that the world goes only around them. Nope men also have problems and cant always regulate the emotions of the partner. Thats why learning emotional regulation is so important…yes sometimes we regulate each other… but not always. No relationship can provide constant regulation of the other person… saying no to constantly new unregulated emotions is a very healthy boundary…
The testing by the female can also be to some part to see how the man would treat and handle and educate their child as father,
so true. Once I started teaching 7-8 year olds, female behavior started to make more sense. It's as if woman subconsciously want to know how you will handle yourself one-on-one with a 7 year old. Kids will test relentlessly.
Why this insanity?
...sounds like you're describing somebody who isn't an equal partner and just expects to be coddled because they own a womb.
😂😂😂
... [coddled] and entertained within life's emotional theme park...
Screw that. Its the era of women now proving themselves to men... Men gave up on women, they dont need you. But will have you if you actually bring peace to his life.
Those freckles!
8:00 Sorry. There is something that woman need to learn. Men feel seen when you listen to his solutions examples. It’s a quality in men and not a mistake. I can witness the feelings of my partner, and she can witness my ideas of solving a problem. It doesn’t mean she has to follow my ideas but she at least can do me the same favor back and she can listen to me. If she wants to be seen I want to be seen as well… 😮🎉❤🎉
As a guy I agree. Its heavly nuanced. With my girlfriend I will just listen and not try to problem solve for minor day to day complaints. BUT if there is complaining happening over and over again with one particular issue she is having....well then I put a stop to it and step in with a solution that puts the issue to bed once and for all.
This stuff will definitely give you a tighter bond with a woman. Don't get the wrong idea it's very beautiful, but there's something else at play, something far more subtle.
So basically.... men just have to go back to the way they were before a certain movement turned things on its head in the 1960s? Got it.
Communication is the key.
Women don't get it.
Magic maya your not the prize men are
Problem with women now is they only seem to think one dimensionally. Men are always being taught how talk to, how love, how to provide..etc for a woman, but whose teaching the women about a man's needs?
Man needs to stick to their purpose in life and stay driving towards that. Good women will find that attractive and support you in that.
@@ElevateMyRelationships And women don't have a purpose in life? 😅 I don't see how men & women are different in that.
Yea women are so egocentric in these times they don't even think about a man's needs, unless they want something from him or are really into it, it's sad. I mean I've had terrible expierences with women that just proof that. This generation of women I'd say, is way too spoiled. Like women can be weak, or cry, or vulnerable etc, while men meet this challenges just as much, but are supposed to be tougher etc. And women find it too obvious that men hunt for them & take the initiative but meanwhile will complain quickly if a man contacts them when they don't like it etc..
@@bekeneel that isn’t the issue, the issue is men who are driven to their purpose raise attraction of women. Men who lose that focus on their purpose as soon as they start dating someone and focus on making their woman their purpose can cause attraction of their partner to decrease long term because it’s weak insecure behaviour. That is why so many times a woman will start to pull away and can’t explain why.. I’m sure we’ve all heard “you’re sweet I just feel something is different”. Those are often the reasons why.
@@bekeneel agree to a degree. There are lots of misguided selfish women out there. There are really good ones that do exist though :)
I like being told what’s what by a chick in her early twenties. I’m a real man.
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This is a boot ! It’s a scam!
Apparently women find Tony Soprano attractive for the following reasons:
He's competent, decisive, attentive, attuned, and likes women
Which nakes some kind of sense.
To the "women are too complicated" crowd you should read Battlestar Galactica and Philosophy, specifically its take on Simone DeBovoirs "other" mediated through the type 6 Android.
Women are as man have made rhem. Until very recently biologically and socially, mate choice was of primary importance, and you needed to be able to understand and predict the mood and behaviour of your man as thier lives and the welfare of thier children depend on it. This has been the case since the dawn of man pretty much, certainly since the dark ages. The colour pink is a salutory lesson.
Women are as complicated as we as men have made them. Understand why.
If women want to be provided for, they have to accept that a man's home is his castle. Meaning that when a man gets home after enduring the world outside, he wants to be able to relax and be with his woman, not have the outside world forced upon him by a woman more interested in work or politics or any other external concern.
that whole "don't solve her problems" is idiotic,,, take care of me and make me feel safe,, but don't take care of me or take away my problems
Everything is in this video is 100% correct, expressed beautifully, and known by most mature men. However, it takes effort, focus, time and a certain state of mind for a man to be able to do these things. In some ways, it is the same as when a father has to form, control, manage and temper his reactions with his children. If a man has an relatively easy, stress-free, happy life with a manageable workload and one or zero children, this is achievable. But many men are not in this state. Maya is young and may not be considering the burden of delivering on all this not only to a woman but also the pediatric version to multiple children. Modern life is that of 60-hour work weeks, endless extracurricular activities of children, relatively high cost of living, etc.; modernity has made it harder than ever for men to have the peace of mind to deliver these things. Is it the fault of the man or the environment he's in? When a woman does not get what she wants or needs from a man, does she lash out at him or does she exercise the same discipline of temperament she wants from him to realize it might be the environment, and she might be a part of exacerbating that environment?
The man is supposed to be the rock. When he’s stable and collected, she’ll more likely calm down.
The pressures your talking about are legitimate but woman are different then men. I would say, as a man handling that much it would be important to have personal grounding prayer time so that when interacting with the woman or children he’s calm, cool, level headed, non-reactive.
Well then SAY IT !!!!!!!
How about: “5 things Men want women to do but are nervous to say”
Now, that would be interesting.
Don’t mean to hit on you. But your hair looks soo pretty like that .
Men just need three things, peace, a cooked meal, and sx. Why is that so complicated?
Keep up with what you do, you the best!
So, so, so many....I wanna say hoops, why does having any kind of human relationship require so much freakin' work?!
I saw a guy tell some relationship advice for men, and he said:
"Men don't take your foot off the gas pedal"
But what about us?! (guys)
We are human too, don't we deserve to be heard 😢
I mean why is it that the guy is the only one who has to put in the work??
I don't know, it's just so much work for a pay off with little too gain, and with everything being so expensive nowadays.... 😔
Women (more emotional than rational) change rapidly as like the weather. They say, be sensitive to my feelings, and when we do so they call us sissies.
Maybe that's why culture has often described women as cats, you just don't know... they're a freakin' mystery! 😮💨
None of this matters if you are autistic
really liked this video
First of all- the mistake you simps are making is being concerned about what a woman “secretly” wants- what about what men want?
Amen so true.
best!!!
Well, considering every good man I know, including myself, has gotten screwed-over by an unfaithful, duplicitous woman after he gave his heart and soul to her, why should I give a rat's rear about what "women want me to do"?
Well..I'm saying NO....If I was listening to this as an incentive to invest my money, I'd pass on the deal...like every one of these types of videos it's all about their needs..."Women WANT" and even when we do every single one of these things it WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH! I'm just waiting for the first fully programmable female doll BIOBOT! And it's right around the corner, the very first program I'm inputting is accountability and responsibility 🤣
When she speaks tip of her nose is stretching, it's crazy :D
Good topic, great hair today! .
@Magicmaya says women "test men." When did men consent to be tested? Do women even know what the word "consent" means?
hello maya, another day, another banger video