WOMEN RESPOND TO THE FRIEND ZONE | YOU STARTED IT (A PODCAST BY DANIEL FERNANDES) | S03 EP13

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  • @siddiquemohiuddin4034
    @siddiquemohiuddin4034 4 роки тому +79

    You heard it here first - Dan should do Patriot Act in India. What a riot this guy 😂
    05:50 Slick plug haha
    06:46 Burn #1
    07:06 Burn #2
    08:07 Unraveling the genius of BJP
    08:43 The BJP secret is out!!
    09:30 The secret of the BJP campaign
    10:45 Why India has not progressed in the same time other countries became world super-powers
    11:01 These are still jokes....right?
    12:08 Poetic comedy
    12:34 Politics explained
    13:57 Migrant lives matter
    15:12 FACT
    15:33 Locusts and WhatsApp groups
    20:57 Dating insights
    23:58 A strange way to motivate, but it works
    24:25 FACT (Always said this)
    25:00 How to propose as an honest student
    26:33 How to keep the desire burning
    30:03 Life principle to live by
    31:09 Dan’s Netflix Recommendations

    • @ranjini1828
      @ranjini1828 4 роки тому +1

      Wow man 👍

    • @maximfernando8110
      @maximfernando8110 3 роки тому

      I realize Im kinda randomly asking but does anyone know of a good website to stream newly released movies online ?

  • @orjune20
    @orjune20 4 роки тому +163

    That Groot statue reflects my mood while listening to this podcast series

  • @koolguy5248
    @koolguy5248 4 роки тому +22

    Corona Virus didn't broke the system, it just exposed a broken system. Great Podcast Sir Ji, reminds me of Junaid Akram. Love from Pakistan, 🇵🇰.

  • @manodavidson
    @manodavidson 4 роки тому +66

    Daniel- talks about for 15 minutes how terrible species we really are, next sec..anyways I don't wanna ruin your Sunday. 😁 Genius.

  • @IndrajaSalunkhe
    @IndrajaSalunkhe 4 роки тому +28

    Hey Daniel. We have seen relationships, where women are open (Telling men in clearcut words) about what they want but, men are not even interested to know what women want. They have a preconceived idea of romance and there is no thought. Therefore, such relationships don't last long. Also, the points which you mentioned at the last are, apt. Thank you for a lovely podcast yet again. It's nice to see someone so clear-headed speak about things that matter.

  • @kaashvibhowmick4667
    @kaashvibhowmick4667 4 роки тому +11

    If I could I'd quote the whole podcast and preach.... But as I can't, I'll just share and hope people listen.... Great job man... Thank you.

  • @sumitsoren1678
    @sumitsoren1678 4 роки тому +16

    you've got balls man.. loved that u talked about migrants and held govt for all these miseries. permanent fan..

  • @TheNeo349
    @TheNeo349 4 роки тому +32

    Great episode Dan, as always!
    Two things:
    1. Don't eat the Locusts: WHO has issued guidelines that these locusts likely contain a lot of pesticides/insecticides so they are not fit to be consumed.
    2. Loved your segment on things men need to understand about women. How about a segment on stuff women need to understand about men in the next episode?

    • @tilottamam7315
      @tilottamam7315 4 роки тому

      👍👍👍

    • @gangashankar6048
      @gangashankar6048 4 роки тому +1

      How about a segment on stuff women need to understand about men in the next episode? Answer: Hello, This was there and is still there its called a patriarch society.
      What is already there why you ask for. The privilege of men is still there...
      men need to understand about women - Now what's happening is the balancing act. ... this is the homework or neglected part being just talked now. Just talking won't solve remember.

  • @gauravsharma7235
    @gauravsharma7235 4 роки тому +25

    I literally couldn't hold myself when u told abt that child trying to wake his mother up. Your words literally pierced right into my heart and came out as tears from my Eyes. I wish I could love and respect you even more, Man!!
    Also, the very next joke on IT cell locust attack blew me up so super thanks for that too!! 😇😇

    • @prajaygiri18
      @prajaygiri18 4 роки тому

      His joke blew your mind so, may be you can blow him up too
      😅😅😅
      Dan , I liked that blowing joke very much 👍👍😅

  • @soumyachandrakar8697
    @soumyachandrakar8697 4 роки тому +3

    Sometimes I wonder how is it that we have reached our 20s without ever coming across anyone who'd talk about politics with the same enthusiasm as they talk about friendzone and dating. Most videos on the internet talking about the latter either take the funny angle or give out vague advices like "Be yourself". I hope your detailed take really is helping someone out there. It really was important to talk about how many different kinds of relationships there are. And yet nobody ever tells this to anyone and most of us spend years figuring things out, getting stuck somewhere between casual and serious when actually there's something for everyone out there, as you said. Again, it's just so surprising that it's only now that I'm hearing someone talk about life just as it is, and not about some vague concept of life which is either black or white. Thanks for talking about the right things and for being as articulate as you are. You are the friend that so many of us needed. Thanks for your podcasts and for the topics that you choose to speak about.
    A suggestion for yout next podcast if it's alright: How is your anxiety now? Does it become possible to live a normal life with anxiety or do you ever learn to control it? And any suggestions for someone who is going through a hard time?

  • @AmrutaVSonawane
    @AmrutaVSonawane 4 роки тому +8

    I legit said okay out loud when you said get tickets for the zoom show, okay? This is so great, it's like you are seating infront of us and talking in person.

    • @adityapillai5799
      @adityapillai5799 4 роки тому

      Better get it before they run out of tickets 👀😂

  • @supriosamanta2563
    @supriosamanta2563 4 роки тому +25

    Hey Dan, I loved your podcast. Can you talk about the current education scenario in our country in your next podcast?

  • @abhinavjain785
    @abhinavjain785 4 роки тому +4

    This was the absolute best one. From start to finish. Honestly, love the duration as well, felt extremely engaged the entire time.

  • @mustafaalmamun5216
    @mustafaalmamun5216 4 роки тому +19

    I hate I have to wait for 7 days for your next episode.. I wish you had madr 2000000crore episodes and I could binge watch them in one go. 😁😁

  • @simranjeetkaur8796
    @simranjeetkaur8796 4 роки тому +2

    Falling in love with your craft all over again is such an over whelming emotion. For some reason, it elates me. So, I am glad you were able to feel that passion rekindle in a sense.

  • @NidzShah-ps6kr
    @NidzShah-ps6kr 4 роки тому +15

    Actually, I think women are as clueless about dating too bcz we don't get an instruction manual either. A lot of people end up driving their partners away bcz they probably weren't process oriented and gave up on themselves after bagging their muse. Process orientation is basically the key.

  • @vaasavisingh2380
    @vaasavisingh2380 4 роки тому +5

    Your podcast is my sunday routine now. This episode was spot on. Loved it ❤️

  • @shaheensiddiqui9682
    @shaheensiddiqui9682 4 роки тому

    You have no idea how helpful these podcasts are... I am not talking about the results and effects on "society"
    Just talking about myself... I love listening to you and find these podcasts really comforting...
    Please never stop...

  • @cst171093
    @cst171093 4 роки тому +1

    I am glad that someone is talking about real issues. And I am always glad to see that you are the one.
    On topic of relationships -
    While I agree on most of what you said, relationships work when both put enough efforts. I am hoping all the women who say that men don't communicate effectively or put enough efforts, are at least doing their own bit. Because, many a times men feel that women, although interested, do not put efforts, and wait for us to take the first step everytime. That's a major turn off.

    • @absolutelydanny
      @absolutelydanny  4 роки тому +1

      Watch out for next week's episode. I gotcha!

    • @spencerfernandes4617
      @spencerfernandes4617 4 роки тому

      @@absolutelydanny True, Even after taking the courage to confess your feelings we still have to pass some test which we are unaware about.
      This is the time we don't understand what's happening n lose interest eventually.

    • @cst171093
      @cst171093 4 роки тому

      @@absolutelydanny thank you :)

  • @jessytorres5719
    @jessytorres5719 4 роки тому +8

    Loved the episode. Felt like some was speaking my exact thoughts 💭

  • @irfanahmed-lj6re
    @irfanahmed-lj6re Рік тому

    Rewatching after 2 years and still relevant, breaks my heart.

  • @gitikayadav4796
    @gitikayadav4796 4 роки тому +1

    It was refrehing to listen to you. Loved "Do not be a rubic's cube". Thanks for decoding the government and dating in the same video. Lots of love.

  • @eliza91d
    @eliza91d 4 роки тому +19

    only goans will understand what he means by Locusts recheado fry 😂😂😂

    • @wilsondsouza1395
      @wilsondsouza1395 4 роки тому

      Mangalorian but yeah I understand 👍

    • @jahankamath6187
      @jahankamath6187 4 роки тому

      No no no Lia...Muslim from Gujarat...but was living in Colaba among a lot of Goans...so I understand 😘...also these people were my happy childhood memories...so I keep taking girlie trips to Goa every single year..🙄...not 2020

  • @yerikboyka1359
    @yerikboyka1359 4 роки тому

    Daniel podcast is way more better than nation's media channels

  • @uditarathi6472
    @uditarathi6472 4 роки тому +3

    "Have you tried locusts?" 😄😄😄

  • @Lakiluckyy
    @Lakiluckyy 4 роки тому

    Thanks Dan for your efforts to make this world a better place for everyone, in your own unique way. This makes your content even the more addictive for us. Was having a crappy day, but it ended on a great note after watching this episode. Truly, thanks a bunch! Stay happy always!
    Ppl reading this comment, let us share Dan's podcasts and get him more views and subscribers.

  • @mithrak9904
    @mithrak9904 4 роки тому +5

    Long comment alert :
    Hey Dan, Amazing show as always man..!! The🔥❤
    The Dating advises were absolute truth bombs. And I love how you articulate things when you speak of varied topics in a single show especially when there is a political content involved. Speaking of which I would love it if you spoke about the "Diversion Factor". The way something that happened is made to seem so important while there is some even bigger shit happening around. Like for example, we were busy with the locusts in the front seat, while there was a "crocodile" petition to change India's name to "Hindustan" or "Bharath" lurking in the back seat. I don't know, Is India a new born baby whose name can be changed according to the wish and whim of a "current ruling government"..? Like gazette mein publish hoga kya? It's outrageous why nobody thinks of the consequences while doing these kind of things. 😑😑😑. it's not even important at this moment or any time in future for that matter. Would love to hear your thoughts on this..!?

  • @subashninair792
    @subashninair792 4 роки тому +4

    I like how you are able to deliver your knowledge on all aspects .Intriguing.

  • @jusjaisinghani8179
    @jusjaisinghani8179 4 роки тому +5

    'College romances are about being with someone just long enough to increase your self-worth to a point where you realize you need to be with someone better.'
    The phrase of the episode I think, whatsay?

  • @ashmakilaniya6818
    @ashmakilaniya6818 4 роки тому +2

    Keep making the podcasts..love em all.. love ya❤️😁

  • @vidzeerox
    @vidzeerox 4 роки тому

    Came here to laugh. Cried Midway. 10/10. Beautifully done. Would recommend.

  • @TheWadhwaninavin
    @TheWadhwaninavin 4 роки тому

    One of the best podcast of yours.... You really are amazing great upfront honest podcast...
    With real issue and real life scenarios.
    Not something like KJo movies fucked up story love....
    People are still into this... Some women also still wants all the fairly tale in mid 20s relationship... Honesty I feel from both sides... And all 20s both the sexes feel an imaginary love and kind of film
    But you open the reality
    Great work Danny...
    You are the product which is the same as advertised...

  • @bababooey6193
    @bababooey6193 4 роки тому +16

    Lez build a temple for Danny. Dannystan. Locusts are the prasadam. Scotch- teertham.
    The priest will be Pravin Tambe and his heirs.

  • @nupuramarnath7797
    @nupuramarnath7797 4 роки тому

    Love your straight talk. Especially liked the point on what you said about BJP and manipulation. It’s infuriating how their incompetence gets a free pass by careful eye washing and whataboutery. Worshipping false gods.

  • @chinmayeesurekha
    @chinmayeesurekha 4 роки тому

    Okay, I loved the episode and whole the second half of the video is great😋

  • @khushbookohli8220
    @khushbookohli8220 4 роки тому +1

    Danny you're so wholesome, I'm gonna coerce every single person I know into watching this. xD

  • @ranjini1828
    @ranjini1828 4 роки тому +4

    Aamm churaya mere kisne o Sanam Thune
    Tantana na na na
    Att lakh mil gaye kisko jai Sanam
    Mujhe
    😆😆😆😆😆😆
    I really enjoyed the whole episode .

  • @StillThinker08
    @StillThinker08 4 роки тому

    I really like your podcast. I can binge watch all your podcast episodes, I get you. You are awesome 👌

  • @RM-nf8tb
    @RM-nf8tb 4 роки тому +1

    Are the Zoom shows open to people outside of India? Great podcast once again Dan!

  • @abhijithpreshobhan5200
    @abhijithpreshobhan5200 4 роки тому +1

    "Hey, I'm here. Consume me!."
    Damn! I gotta try this out. Even if it's just to crash and burn.

  • @sakshirockssss
    @sakshirockssss 4 роки тому

    THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST. THE BEST. PERIOD.

  • @krutiparimal7890
    @krutiparimal7890 4 роки тому +1

    Hey Daniel you have always been my favourite comedian but after watching Shadows i have started respecting you more.Also hoping that you are coping well in these times.
    Coming to the relationship topic, its so tough to find love when you are an introvert can you please talk about that.
    Wishing luck for your future shows and lots of love♥️
    Ps: Thank you so much for making this podcast i really look forward to it!

  • @Mediocremelodiesbysaurabh
    @Mediocremelodiesbysaurabh 3 роки тому

    Please bring back the Podcast Dan.

  • @amartyavardhan.7330
    @amartyavardhan.7330 4 роки тому +12

    Topic suggestions:
    1. Your childhood
    2. Favourite stand-up inspirations.
    3. The right kind of education.

  • @vianacolaco6453
    @vianacolaco6453 4 роки тому +6

    The thumbnail though 😂😂😂

  • @hunnyawatramani3751
    @hunnyawatramani3751 4 роки тому +10

    WHICH IS WHY I FIND SCHOOL OF LIFE TO BE THE ONLY TOOL I USE WHEN I AM CONFUSED ABOUT GENERAL THINGS IN LIFE!!!! Parents have outdated knowledge and colleges find these things very mundane and unimportant.

  • @soumyarath4110
    @soumyarath4110 4 роки тому

    Always love your work! You are doing an awesome job.🤗

  • @maryrozario9695
    @maryrozario9695 4 роки тому

    Iove listening to you Danny...please make these videos longer. I'm accustomed to listening for couple of hours. I subscribe JRE, tigerbelly, theovon, chrisd'elia etc..

  • @koolpalb
    @koolpalb 4 роки тому

    The best one so far.
    A humble suggestion cum request: you should split the video into the various topics you covered and upload them separately, especially the govt and what terrible species we are part.

  • @namasyugowda7139
    @namasyugowda7139 4 роки тому

    The locust burn was brilliant!!!

  • @aceo_o2295
    @aceo_o2295 4 роки тому +1

    "Hey I'm here consume me!" 🤣🤣😂

  • @anoushkasen6665
    @anoushkasen6665 4 роки тому

    Dan, please never stop.

  • @roohalji125
    @roohalji125 4 роки тому +1

    That banging on Thalis thing you said. Damnnnnn you talked my mind. Kudos

  • @Anonymity680
    @Anonymity680 4 роки тому

    I completely agree with the communicate what you want part. Many women also hold themselves back from dating because they think if I don’t want to end up with this guy then let me not get involved at all. Otherwise he will judge me. And I don’t want that kind of judgement. Of course its a two way street and both need to communicate more.

  • @daily_news_wire
    @daily_news_wire 4 роки тому

    Professor Dan is too dynamic with his content. One minute he is discussing about the issues with BJP and their role in overall act over lockdown for different set of people, and then the next minute, he is sharing the relationship stuffs and what you need to get with that. Just awesome👌👌 Mr. Professor!!
    Can you talk about Uttarkhand fire and what is actually happening with China on borders.

  • @chinmayeesurekha
    @chinmayeesurekha 4 роки тому

    2nd favourite line is the one about college romance!

  • @hey_man1
    @hey_man1 4 роки тому +1

    Aam churaye mere🤣😂😜😆

  • @fahadrehan642
    @fahadrehan642 4 роки тому

    It's a crime that Danny doesn't have a Netflix/prime special

  • @mrudulasrivatsa
    @mrudulasrivatsa 4 роки тому

    This is my first podcast and I am reminded that I love your politics

  • @bharatiyajokesparody
    @bharatiyajokesparody 4 роки тому +1

    Awesome content!😂🙌

  • @ankushshingade2293
    @ankushshingade2293 4 роки тому +11

    Hey Dan, loved your content. Can you talk on protests going on in America? So that we can feel good for some time thinking we are not racist (but we are).🤓

    • @rakibulmahmud3253
      @rakibulmahmud3253 4 роки тому

      Yes we are racist consumers take the example of Fair and Lovely...😄 I use Boro Plus

  • @dhruvtrivedi7689
    @dhruvtrivedi7689 4 роки тому

    love the political humour and satire danny. migrants and poor people have been harassed by politicians of all the parties but in my opinion it's largely bjp's fault. also respect for the insights on issue of friendzone and relationships.keep up the good work.

  • @parasharupasana
    @parasharupasana 4 роки тому +1

    Love you Daniel ❤️

  • @mi_tanmay
    @mi_tanmay 4 роки тому

    🤩🤩🤩 You are just amazing!!!!

  • @sankeerthbhargav1041
    @sankeerthbhargav1041 4 роки тому

    Dan please do share your workout routine.. and tips for people to stay fit this lockdown

  • @priyaroshini9736
    @priyaroshini9736 4 роки тому +1

    I personally think men in India don't understand dating because it was not a thing for a very long time. We had the system of arranged marriage and how that worked was the guy meets a girl or couple of girls and then lets the parents know I like a particular girl and he gets her. That's how things worked out for a while. It's not that like in western countries if you can't get a gf you will never be married. If hey the girl you like doesn't respond or "friends zoned" you, the parents will still find someone through the arranged marriage. So it's like men feel they have options. And that's why the feeling of entitlement comes into the picture.

  • @cy882
    @cy882 4 роки тому

    Groooot ♥️

  • @apekshaadme9805
    @apekshaadme9805 4 роки тому +12

    When you mentioned Migrant Workers, I was hoping you would talk about Sonu Sood!

  • @shashwatkunder1658
    @shashwatkunder1658 4 роки тому +1

    You would be an awesome prof in that relationship class you were talking about Danny 😃

  • @rakshithshetty5298
    @rakshithshetty5298 4 роки тому

    Great stuff dude.. Love your content. Only thing I wanted to point out is the way you pronounce paatal lok sounds like you are talking about skiny people🤣🤣

  • @sreeragmv
    @sreeragmv 4 роки тому +1

    I love your podcasts😁

  • @anjalisawlani
    @anjalisawlani 4 роки тому +1

    May 5, 6 & 7 you say 🤔 . I already missed it 😆

  • @vihangwagh400
    @vihangwagh400 4 роки тому

    16 days without feeling outrage and I stumble upon your video. Why Danny why?

  • @viharikacherukula8060
    @viharikacherukula8060 4 роки тому

    I can see that you are taking great effort on getting the men right. Just to clarify one thing as a women that sometimes you don't have to remind each other why they liked on the past. Evolution is a part of humans and it's okay if people change, it's about liking how they evolved to be and to evolve together and share the journey. You may not like the person for the same reasons anymore but still love them for who they became

  • @conradbhengra
    @conradbhengra 4 роки тому

    Take a shot every time he says "okay "😂

  • @yakuzamk7464
    @yakuzamk7464 4 роки тому +1

    *15:47** we are talking about actual locusts* 😂😂

  • @sooryaprakash239
    @sooryaprakash239 4 роки тому

    Daniel- talk about food..im a personally a non vegetarian. I only eat chicken,mutton and seafood...where is the boundry?..what can we eat and what all not to?... there's so much of eating habits ( veg, vegan, non veg, canibalism).... What factors should be considered on food (,taste, nutrition, morality or religious beliefs)?

  • @mustafaalmamun5216
    @mustafaalmamun5216 4 роки тому +1

    Wowww...respect bro

  • @arika12332
    @arika12332 4 роки тому

    Will you have international shows?

  • @nidhibagari3250
    @nidhibagari3250 4 роки тому

    Leta just rename this from 'You Started It' to 'Who Said Stupid Shit'. It's most appropriate 😂😂👍

  • @vaniechelliah5518
    @vaniechelliah5518 4 роки тому

    Are the shows only for Indian audience? Tried to pay via credit card for the show on the 5th of June, payment didn't go through with an error message stating portal doesn't allow international transactions ...I live in Sydney

    • @absolutelydanny
      @absolutelydanny  4 роки тому +1

      Hey yes, I'll be announcing international shows soon. Make sure you're following me on Instagram.

  • @alokrema
    @alokrema 4 роки тому +1

    preach🙌

  • @shreyashsonawane5248
    @shreyashsonawane5248 4 роки тому

    Talk about ur life journey how you have faced everything from the beginning till the current status of living you are in now... if possible talk for it .. lots of love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ appreciate ur every podcast💯💯💯💯

  • @hudasamreen5716
    @hudasamreen5716 4 роки тому

    Amazinggggggg!!!

  • @hellriderkhan
    @hellriderkhan 4 роки тому +4

    The Invisible Guest was remade as Badla in Bollywood i guess

  • @ruthtruthinireland
    @ruthtruthinireland 4 роки тому

    I kid you not, every word you speak is truth. Don't every change!

  • @ayaametc
    @ayaametc 4 роки тому

    Always on point

  • @itseasywithshubhi1294
    @itseasywithshubhi1294 4 роки тому +5

    This is my weekly Dumbshit Detoxification therapy by Dr. Daniel, who is inspired by David Chappelle and sprays Davidoff, and gives superb advice about Dating. Is it me or jack Daniels talking?

  • @dr.deadpan
    @dr.deadpan 4 роки тому

    I made notes out this shit ❤🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @gangashankar6048
    @gangashankar6048 4 роки тому

    1. You can't force or demand friendship that is happening. Instead of forced ' I love you ' or forced dating, forced friendship as a hidden agenda exists and then the real face comes up after some time which is scary.
    2. Demanding explanations of why you can't be my friend is not useful.
    3. Men deciding what are the rules for friendship, men deciding that when it's convenient they want to friend, girlfriend and wife is another issue being faced.
    4 . Men want a liberal girlfriend and conservative wife.
    5. Men have rules different for their sisters/daughters. So we as a society are fighting triple standard
    1. Men rules
    2. Women rules
    3. Men rules for sisters/wife/daughters/daughter-in-law.

  • @ranjitsahani1531
    @ranjitsahani1531 4 роки тому

    Hey Daniel, I like your show and have been contributing for it in my own capacity. I however was wondering is there a way I could pay you directly so that I shouldn't be paying extra 4.25 rupees for rupees 20 I want to pay.

  • @Ashishsing11
    @Ashishsing11 4 роки тому

    Dan's episodes are series of like hmm , haan & finally someone fucking said it.

    • @Ashishsing11
      @Ashishsing11 4 роки тому

      And also series of Dan thinking to himself "Maine bohot mast joke mara"

  • @MajjiRambabu
    @MajjiRambabu 4 роки тому

    Hey Daniel, if poosible make video of RGV's life. Hope you see this message.

  • @roohalji125
    @roohalji125 4 роки тому +2

    Hello my name is Daniel Fernandes. I'm going to flip everyone.
    I like your podcasts. Keep it up. Not the finger, the podcasts

  • @mayankvishwakarma9997
    @mayankvishwakarma9997 4 роки тому

    the invisible guest 2016
    badla 2019
    pie to pie😅

  • @yuvrajwadhwani
    @yuvrajwadhwani 4 роки тому

    I dig the closer camera angle

  • @mayankvishwakarma9997
    @mayankvishwakarma9997 4 роки тому +9

    Dani: IN OTHER NEWS
    Abish mathew: bro really?😅

  • @zeeshanghori7437
    @zeeshanghori7437 4 роки тому +2

    4th week commenting this... talk about Football

  • @jojohaldar
    @jojohaldar 4 роки тому

    Haha , have you tried locust!

  • @djshelin
    @djshelin 4 роки тому +1

    Don't listen to Daniel, he is a really good comedian
    Don't make efforts, keep it organic
    How much conversation, what kind of conversations, it really depends on the vibe between the two, it will go good if its right or at least one of them will definitely break the silence and make the other comfortable without any efforts.
    Developing conversation skills is good for impressing people but why you want to be with a person who is impressed by just your conversation skills :-P .
    Being completely honest from day 1 either makes your relationship very strong or saves a lot of your time and energy that you are investing in if he or she is not the right person for you.
    Blowing some one's mind should not be the criteria to get anyone laid.Stop treating relationships as games, start if it's genuine, end it if it is really not making you happy from inside.
    Keep it simple.
    These things apply to both sides.