BEHIND THE SCENES: A Proper English Wedding
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BEHIND THE SCENES: A Proper English Wedding
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Venue: Hampton Manor
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Those kind of churches and manor houses are pretty common in the UK, loved Jamie's shocked reaction!
Yeah, generally in Europe, we don't even appreciate it anymore.
Well in the U.S we never rlly seen places like that
In the US, even our prettiest churches are not even close to this!!!!
Yeah I was watching like... What? What is she looking at? It's a church
so fun as a brit to watch you freak out about the church and manor, it all just looks like a regular wedding to me! California wins on weather but England wins on old buildings!
Lol, you so high energy, bouncing around, when the UK wedding planner is calm and soft-spoken
Why is no one talking about that woman’s singing?! It was absolutely amazing
do you know what the name of the song by any chance?
Jamie you can come to my wedding as a guest next year in Scotland if you want. Come see a proper Scottish wedding
I love how excited you got about the church. Literally every town has one as beautiful as this in the UK. took me a long time to figure out what a boutonniere was too. You had a lovely day weather-wise. It's rare 😂 x
My wedding is 2 years form now, could you please do a video on a long term wedding planing/timeline! I just love you so much!
@@JamieWolfer Yes, please!! I am in the same boat with a two year engagement! :)
Agreed! It would be wonderful to get some long term planning/timeline videos for those of us who are getting the ball rolling way in advance!!!
Yes! That would be awesome! I just got engaged, knowing it was going to be at least 2 years until a wedding. Also how do you get family to slow down and accept the long engagement? Lol
Such a great idea!
Same boat too!!! @JaimieWolfer
Loved your reaction to an English wedding, an Irish wedding is even longer and slower 😂
Please make a 'differences between english and american weddings' video, it would be fascinating to learn what they do differently!
I love your channel and its been extremely helpful in getting myself prepped to plan my own wedding!! Thank you!
We’re actually pretty similar :-).. however our day seems to start a lot earlier. I guess that is to do with the weather. All of our churches look like that and there are so many venues with beautiful architecture. I love how cute her reaction was 😄
The main thing is the timing! UK weddings tend to be all day, so lunchtime ceremonies (for example mine will be at 1pm), but other than that it's pretty much the same. Our venues are quite different.
I live for the hats the ladies wear to UK weddings. And the old beautiful buildings create such a neat backdrop.
Wow!! I would love to see a video about venue research and the difference between ala carte and all inclusive venues (which is better budget wise) ☺️
Your reactions made me SO excited for my wedding next year! I'm an American expat in the UK, and know my family won't have experienced anything like the English estate country wedding we're having 😃
AND, I am hiring that message booth! I ❤️ it.
the correct word is immigrant not expat, just saying
@@analauraaranamontes3533 4 years later you felt the need to reply to this and INCORRECTLY? Read a dictionary, just saying.
So funny watching you freak out about the house, I don't think you could handle seeing Chatsworth house or Blenheim Palace! (I'm from the UK)
I am British so I love it when the other wedding planner said it’s nice! It is nice but we have so many gorgeous manors churches and buildings all over the UK!
I’m so excited to look at the differences between the US and weddings here in the UK, I’ve been looking forward to this since you said you were coming over :)
I loved hearing the soprano rehearse in that beautiful church! I am a mezzo-soprano and have sung for so many weddings and funerals (the Ave Maria is a very popular choice)...I’m not even engaged yet but I love watching these videos. One thing my boyfriend and I have agreed is that our best friend is going to play organ so hopefully we can find a church/venue that allows that.
I'm from Birmingham this was so weird seeing places I know. The manor was average you should see the castles!!
I’m getting married in 3 weeks time 😃 you helped me a lot with my wedding so thanks 😃glad I find you on UA-cam 😃
This was so fun to see your take on a British wedding.
What did you think of the whole ‘evening guest’ thing? Some US people I’ve spoken to have said they like the idea but they couldn’t do it as people would think it was rude. Just curious as to your thoughts really.
Glad you enjoyed it.
If you think it’s bright in England, you have to come to Sweden 😅 The sun sets at 10 pm where I live and it’s bright until 11, the sun rises at 3 am. In the far north of Sweden we have midnight sun during the summer. The sun never sets.
thats so cool 😮
Please do a comparison follow up! Would love to know an American's experience/views on UK weddings!
you came to the UK at the perfect time. its usually really dull. and its only in summer where we have longer light days
Thanks for a fun video Jamie, love your excitement at a typical UK style wedding. Not all our venues are quite as fancy as this manor (you did pick a stunning wedding location to attend 😚) but this timeline is pretty normal for the UK, 10 hours plus ... and you'll still hear UK brides say (with a tint of sadness) how their wedding day went by too fast lol - I certainly did 🥰
I would like to see you on one of the typical polish weddings because it’s different kind of story 😂
It’s super common here to have a small ceremony between 40-120 guests and then have a very large reception (evening do). It’s a chance to invite all your extended family, friends, work colleges + their partners to come and celebrate. Also we LOVE any excuse for a piss up haha
Please do a video on all the different things a coordinator is suppose to do! Its super helpful since im having family coordinate and it'll also give us insight on things we may be forgetting! :)
OMG! This was an amazing insight on an English wedding!!! LOVE IT!
LOVING the slower pace...I'm a Southern Girl from GA, USA
i literally live opposite hampton manor!! crazy! ive been watching your channel for so long and didnt even know this video existed!
Phoebe is GORGEOUS!!!!!!!!! Wow
I clicked so fast! I love your behind the scenes videos! 🙌🏼❤️
I'm getting married next year in March at a place called St Audries Park in the South West and its a gothic manor. Manors are absolutely stunning! Something the UK does brilliantly, stunning houses, stunning venues!
Oh I love St Audries! You and your fiancé/fiancée have to slip away and get some photos taken down on the beach...
wow. this was so fun to watch! i took a gap year at a school in a manor house in northern england and it looked SO similar to this one (from the outside)! this made me want to go back so bad! and english wedding would be so exciting ♥️
thanks for showing us this experience!
please make a video of hour by hour how the ideal wedding day would go? ☺️ thank you!!
Loved this! I'm in Scotland so we follow this kind of pattern. We are getting hitched in December 2020 so always looking for ideas I can put my own take on xx
Kristina Callaghan congrats! We’re getting married next December too ☺️ feels like a lifetime away x
So many traditions with a filipino ceremony. A whole ritual with sponsors during the ceremony, and a money dance during the reception. Only being half filipino and knowing I will be expected to include these. It's gonna be fun times.
Absolutely loved this. Was so nice to see you learning all about our UK traditions. It’s amazing how much they can differ from a US wedding ☺️ hope you enjoyed your stay in England! X
I love this so much! It made me laugh at your reaction to everything here, because that’s exactly how I was when I moved to the UK in January. Living in Arizona my whole life things are wayyyy different! There are still things that surprise me to this day! So cool getting to see you work a wedding in a place I live! I hope you had a great time here!
Absolutely love your reaction to everything. The stairs 😂😂 made me chuckle. I’m getting married 31st August at a little country pub in the UK that was previously a mill. You’re very welcome to come and look at a different type of architecture 😄
I love how excited you are about the venues! ❤️
So lovely to meet you on this day! As one half of the videography team this day, it's super interesting to see the day from your perspective. Hope you enjoyed the rest of your time in the uk! 😁
How exciting to see the differences! My wedding is two months away and your videos have helped me so much!! Would love to see a comparison video ❤️
Your reactions were the best part of this video and I loved it!!!!! The venue was amazing!!!! I just adore you!!!
Jamie is a good old American! Lol Haha I mean that in a kind way but she is so hyper and phoebe is like..... what it's a major chill out 😂😂
If you’re still in the UK you are come to come to my wedding this weekend !
This is EPIC!!! I absolutely love the contrast of weddings in the US and the UK. This was such a fun ride, love!
Great video!! I’m American and my fiancé is English and we’re planning to get married in England. I’ve noticed so many differences in US vs. UK weddings already and I’m just in the beginning stages of planning. Your videos have been so helpful already, a comparison video from your perspective would probably help clarify so much!! Thanks!! Love your channel!!
I waited patiently for this lovely video 👍
This was cool! I'm getting married in about 8 months, and this got me so excited for my own wedding! I live in Mexico City so I get it when it comes to cultural differences in weddings. It's common to have "evening guests" here, too....that's the people who you don't know too well so you don't wanna pay to feed them, but they're good dancers so you invite them to fill up the dance floor. We dance a lot of salsa here, so excited for that party!!!
Never clicked so fast! New subscriber, Been binge watching your old content until you posted a new one!!
What a gorgeous wedding 😍 This makes me so excited for my own wedding in 3 months 🙌🏻
What a beautiful wedding! I love the idea of recording a message for the bride & groom. This video was so interesting and entertaining ❤
So cool! I'd like to know what elements of their wedding you liked most and could see implementing here in the US. The night time guests are interesting. Maybe that could save money on food costs? Do they have more appetizers or snacks at night?
Yes, there is normally an evening buffet that consists of rolls and hot fillings such as bacon, sausage and eggs. There is also usually some kind of dessert spread and the wedding cake is cut up for guests to enjoy a piece or take home. 😄
Loved this video!!!!!!! Wow thank you for sharing!!!!!
This was totally awesome!! How exciting for you! What a great adventure! :)
Im soooo happy you came to UK! You are totally amazing! So excited for my wedding next Saturday!
If you think that’s chilled out you need to come to an Irish wedding 😂
I flippin love this! Your videos have helped me destress from the wedding planning, so thank you! I love the behind the scenes!
This place kind of reminds me of the place Zoe goes for the Gleam Christmas party’s!
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! Your awesome.
That venue 😍😍 I loved your reaction!
This is so cool. Yup this is a typical British wedding 😂 I want to know the differences!!
Your in the UK 🇬🇧 WHOOOO!
Such brilliant content please do more behind the scenes if brides let you!
I love your videos, has helped me majorly seeming I am currently planning my own wedding, but the one thing I'm wondering is what to pack for the night before and night of wedding bag? It would totally help I know the basics but it's more the essentials in case any bride would forget to pack something.... Thank you for being amazing with what you do ❤️
Your reaction to the church and venue AMAZING :D it's great to see that you like the feel of a chilled out British wedding. We do them like this all the time. Also Meriden is where my Grandparents were from, it's such a pretty area. You have to try a Welsh wedding now.
That was incredible omg!!!!
Can I have a proper English wedding in Colorado? I love the flow and the vibe of the wedding!
Lilian Sosa I don’t see why not, it’d just be a difference of timeline. A typical British wedding leaves a tonne of time for the bride and groom to speak to everyone. I think the daylight hours in summer really helps though because you’re not ridiculously pushed for time to get all your photographs as it’s light for so long
Samantha Jayne I love the thought of having time to talk to all guests. Our list is up to 200 and 5-6 hours to spend with everyone just doesn’t seem like enough!
Lilian Sosa it’ll still fly by regardless but a few more hours definitely helps 💛
Yes! Follow up video please :)
Ahhhh 😍😍😍 I so love this video! I had the same reaction when I saw manor houses in England! I just appreciate everything about it! Im getting married in England in August 2020 and Im planning my wedding "long distance" way and letting my fiance get involve with the everything as he lives in the UK and I live in Canada. It would be an interesting video talking about wedding planning abroad. 😘
omg who are these people!!! What an amazing set of musical guests!
Yay! You are awesome! I love the relaxed vibe of this event. How could you apply that in California?
Jamie your reaction to the venue was amazing, there are alot of venues like these in the UK.. I so wish you could come back to help me with my daughters wedding in February but its way too short notice.. She wants her wedding to go more American than English because she just loves to be different and she's having 2 ceremonies.. One traditional church and one hands fasting outside which is pretty different for the UK and its mid February so it's probably going to be pretty cold and dark by 5pm
As an aside, Phoebe is beautiful!
Could you please do a video about destination weddings? I know you did one in Hawaii, which was more vlog style. I really love your videos and advice, and would love to hear your thoughts and opinions. (not going to lie, going to paste this in the next 3 videos of yours that I watch.) Also, I love you, and you're amazing and would love for you to plan my wedding when/if it happens.
Woah quite an interesting wedding! Didnt know weddings in the UK lasted all day! Thanks so much for vlogging it Jamie!! Enjoyed it as you enjoyed it:)
Abigail Dcosta wait, they don’t in the US?
@@samanthajayne6030 hey Samantha, I dont live in the US, I actually am from India.. I'm interested about British culture at the mo! So found this vid pretty interesting 🙆♀️😁
Abigail Dcosta wow! How similar or different are the weddings there? 😄
Them fams have mulaaaaahh!!!! Jear desus! That's a very expensive wedding! Ah... I can only dream about that kind of wedding.
I’m getting married in a castle. If you like our manors/stately homes, then I don’t know how you would feel about that. 😂🇬🇧 xx
I like the idea of day guests and evening guests can we make that a thing in the US!!! 🤑🤑🤑
MsJae Jontelle so crazy, I didn’t realise this was a UK thing 😂 it’s so good, let’s you priorities where you spend your money a little more without completely missing people out
I would LOVE if you would do a comparison video!
Love this vlog! I'm originally from the UK, but I moved to New Zealand when I was almost 3. My cousin had his wedding in the cutest chapel in Derbyshire, and they had the reception at his wife's parents farm in a marquee in one of the fields! Slightly different vibe to a manor reception, but it was still so much fun, and if I remember correctly, they did the same thing with the DJ coming in later and had a string quartet playing during cocktail hour/the beginning of the reception. I sang at their ceremony, so I remember their wedding so fondly. We're planning on going over to the UK for a very chilled out reception-like party for all my UK family over there, and I think it's going to be very different from anything that they normally have over there because my fiance is VERY kiwi. It should be interesting haha
Please do a comparisons video! As someone who grew up in a country different from the one they were born in, I'm always interested in cultural differences, but especially when it comes to weddings! I find it all so interesting.
In New Zealand everyone invites everyone to the ceremony, because it's cheaper, and invites only their nearest and dearest to the reception - which I feel like in the UK it's the other way round. So I find it all very interesting.
Love what you do so much! All of your videos are so full of positive, fun-loving vibes. Keep doing what you're doing! And sorry for the long comment 😂
Just adding to the requests to see an in-depth UK vs US wedding video!
I cant believe how many guests wore white to the wedding!
There’s a couple venues like that here in Texas actually
Love the behind the scenes! So cool to see a different region's way of doing things. I wonder if this wedding was pretty typical for the area?
I love this so much! Although I’m US born and raised, I’m planning to plan my wedding as English as possible because...well Jane Austen and Downton Abbey...I just attended a wedding in Iceland and the reception was similar in laid back but so much more special than most US weddings I’ve attended. Do you think it’s possible to have a reception like this in the US or would people feel antsy?
Hey, do you have any videos on rehearsal dinners and how to do them at home or somewhere other then the venue on a budget?
I think this is where they shoot THE MUMMY 2"
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
So what kind of flowers are those? Lol I’m dying to know they’re beautiful.
Savannah Castillo nigella
Have you been anywhere else in the UK? Our weddings are very different compared to America 😂
Jamie Wolfer Aw lovely! I’m from Kent (‘Garden of England’). Did you try to bump into Zoe and Alfie - I know your a big fan 😂
My question is where are the ppl when they do the flip? Do they have a second cocktail hour? Crazy long wedding. What was it 12 hours long?..... LOL
We are exactly 100 days away from my wedding!!!
Lol yeah most UK weddings start with ceremony around 12noon or 1pm and the day finishes at midnight. When Jamie mentioned the guests were "milling around" and chilled, that's when the venue does the flip. It's a nice time for folk to relax, wander or sit and chat, and Bride n Groom can do extra photos or just go off and be together for half an hour... before the party part really starts 🤗 Wishing you a wonderful day for your own upcoming wedding 🥰
There are often spaces with a bar at venues that allow for spill out, guests normally head into that space when the changeover happens
Samantha Jayne that def makes sense. I used to do wedding so hurdling ppl is a thing I thing about. Lol
Michelle Edwards thanks. As a bride I would love the extra time as a guest I’m not sure I could hang! I would def need a nap. Lol
Do you not have churches in America? There’s at least one church like that in almost every village over here x
I'm going to get married with an Englishman in Mexico, I want to know about traditional stuff on weddings there, I mean I see that part of people saying speeches and jokes that's a bit uncommon here. Is that an important tradition in England?... I'm building up ideas of mexican / english things that we could do in the wedding. I'm excited but this is overwhelming at times
I tried to follow the link for the British wedding planner and it say the link is broke
you think the Brits do it slow paced... I'm in the middle of planning my "french" wedding next year (marrying a french man) and finding out the timings are ridiculous!
My Dad is always saying only the 1% has those Pinterest weddings. Do you think thats accurate or do you think people in all social classes have weddings like that?
I don't necessarily think the vendors were joking when they said "it's just another opportunity for people to drink" hehe... I'd say that's pretty "proper" English ;)
American weddings.are fun but feel very rushed
Ivy is a weed 😂
Ivy is a weed. I live in Oregon and I can’t get rid of it. You have to have a professional digger to get it out
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