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I love that you acknowledge why it’s hard to just walk away from this kind of guy. He has so many qualities you want but at the same time isn’t giving what you deserve.
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Always out of reach, words and actions do not match, empty promises, endless excuses for everything, nothing done or said is ever enough, actions speak louder than his words.....ladies beware of such predators.!!!!!!!
it's actually easier than most women though. After 3 - 4 months of dating if he hasn't ask for a commitment/relationship with you, he's a waste of time. You need to toss him out of the window and move on.
@@pronobiska that's why you don't just date one person and date multiple men. 3-4 or 6-8 dates is just an average based on men's healthy psychology. You don't want to rush and get into a relationship too early as that is a huge red flag 🚩 for narcissists and violent abusive men, they like to rush to a relationship.
@@fireeye33 i totally agree with you on no rushing and red flags. It's just that I.find that a man who.still doesn't knows if he wants to be in a relationship with you after 3-4 months of dating is also a red flag. I think he should suggest being exclusive after 2 months if things go well, then you can see if you are ready too. You can answer let's get to know each other better. But a guy that dates you for 3 months and still doesn't know if he wants to be with you is a red flag of someone just dragging you along. Personally I wouldn't like to continue dating him even if I'm having coffee dates with 5 other men.
@@pronobiska in some cases like long distance where you don't meet often, 3-4 months or 6-8 dates are adequate. Also here's another thing you have to think about if you want to do a quick 2 months. You gotta think about yourself 1st more than him....Are you sure you know this man and willing to commit only after 2 months? I wouldn't, I would rather invest a little longer to truly understand his character than committing with a wrong man. So it's all about yourself more than him. My husband and I have been married 17yrs and ours were different bc we were friends long before we committed, I didn't know he likes me, but at the time he told me I already know him well to make a decision.
@@fireeye33 I understand you are saying 4 months seem appropriate to you. On the other hand, if you've been married for 17 years.... I'd say the dating scene has changed a bit since the last time you visiited it :). A pleasure chatting to you. Have a great day!
These man have a dissmisive avoindant attachment style. The are afraid of love and commitment/intimacy. I dated a man like this.i knew nothing about this attachment style. I walked away, then i learned about this attachment style. I'm save attached, and wanted another shot. Because his actions where good, but his words where confusing. I know now where that came from, but i knocked on a closed door. I still miss him, but will leave him alone. I'm working om myself and see what the universe has in store for me and him.
@@tc9875 yes, i know it's stupid, but i have the feeling we are not done yet. There was a click, we share the sane interests. I'm not verry often impressed by a man. I don't find man that are interesting. I'm 7 years single and he was the first one who i find interesting. We'll see what's happen. Maybe i'll meet another man, who's a better match. I just watch what the universe has in store for me.
@@sportyspice1402 It not stupid at all. Sometimes the pull back and time apart could be God using this time to show him what he's about to miss and to whip him into shape. The break could be a blessing.
@@tc9875 yes, i also think and feel it that way. I also needed this lesson to learn. He motivated, encoureged and inspired me to do more with things in life. He introduced me with things i love to do now. If i didn’t met him, i was still the same. If didn’t met him, i had never learned about attachment styles and growth. So i think this time in between is nessesery to grow to each other in the future.
I wasted four years of my life on this type of man. It never went anywhere. Incredible chemistry …. That led to pain and heartbreak I used to call him “elusive” and his life was always in chaos All so true and I wished I had listened to this video then “Ignore his words and watch his actions”. And actually believe it and be able to move away from this type of man.
This is why I keep my legs closed. I refuse to be played! No matter how hot he is, he's not going to get my goods until we say I do. It sounds old fashioned, but I have dodged so much heartbreak from noncommittal men and players just by doing this. It is their kryptonite. They all seem like they could be "the one" at first, but that is usually deception.
I just dumped a guy like this. Everything was perfect until I went thru his phone and saw he was interested in other women. He even traveled to see one of them. He told me he loved me, wanted us to move in together. And raise his teenager kids🤦🏽♀️. All the while talking to other women. SMH. WE WERE only dating about 3 months. The worse part about it is he lied and said he was just joking with her. I asked her and she said they were just childhood friends. I didn't believe either of them. They can have each other. Im going to find someone better.
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you see the first time if he stable or crazy. or later. Move on or stay. Avoid big nomads, people who are usually not very stable. Set boundaries. You dont know person well in the beginning, first 3, 4 months
Every point resonated with me and I try and be relaxed but his inconsistency and lack of progression triggers me and brings out my insecure needy side. I then pull away from him and he gets upset but never takes accountability for his actions never matching up to his words, he acts like the victim. It's like I'm hooked on the potential of who he could be and who he was at the beginning when he was more consistent from which we built an amazing connection. I'm drained and sad that I don't ever fully feel enough so went into no contact telling him I'm moving on and he got in touch after a week but still no progression...he's constantly in my thoughts and it hurts he doesn't step up and claim me as I don't feel connected to guys easily as he otherwise ticks so many boxes. I hang on in hope he wakes up but deep down I know he won't....he's lost in his own pity and insecurity and is always full of excuses 💔
I'm right there with you. Just broke up with him. It's been four years and I'm also just tired and sad. During my birthday.. but I'm trying to not let it get to me anymore.
Same thing here. I wasted 3 yrs on this "Always Something Man." It's been 8 months since I broke it off for good, but it still hurts and I involuntarily think of him every day and have no interest in being with anyone else. No contact and keeping busy has helped somewhat, but the longing feeling comes back often and I regress. I do have enough regard for myself to never go back, but I think I need therapy to get over the pain. Lessons learned, but I wish I knew this stuff about avoiding unavailable men before I met this guy. Never experienced this kind of heartbreak and hope I never ever do again. It's awful.
@@bellabong8862 I feel for you so much and your reply had me thinking of how I'd work out if a guy was emotionally unavailable moving forward and I think it's when they say they aren't sure what they're looking for and if they are fresh out of a relationship then I'd definitely not entertain that! Is there any other signs? I shall hunt out videos to become better equipped!
Thanks for sharing your experiences here! Keep in mind that what’s truly for you will bring you CLARITY, not confusion - so if you’re feeling confused (or unsure about a man’s feelings for you based on his actions) most of the time, that’s definitely a big red flag. These videos should be helpful: ua-cam.com/video/oFvfNmWMueE/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/_jARxknc160/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/x8yKaWNdq7g/v-deo.html, ua-cam.com/video/xy6ld4SDwKE/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/eLiiLy78_Ak/v-deo.html.
This is perfect! The kind of relationship I was in. I just told him after being with him for 2 years…bye bye bye!! Time to find someone who will ‘step up’!
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Diane. I’m glad you were able to move on so you can make yourself available for what you truly want and deserve! 💕
You’re welcome! Yes, ideally his words and actions will line up - but if they don’t, I’d watch his ACTIONS (unless he’s flat-out telling you that he doesn’t want a relationship, in that case it’s important to believe him). 💜
THIS is exactly what I am going through right now! Every single one of these signs you said, he is doing them all. That is why I finally gave up on him, after more than 3 1/2 years of knowing him, talking to him.
I don’t have kids because I don’t want them or want to waste my life on them. I’ve realized I’m not okay with settling and being with a man who has kids and always coming second, when he always gets to come first for me. I NEVER feel satisfied. So I only date truly single AVAILABLE men without kids, then we are on the same level and can give the same to the relationship
I've been experiencing this with the man, well, maybe more like a boy trapped in a man's body, for 8 months now. I've been going back and forth for a while and pulled away from the situation to gain more footing and he's only proven to me he's not willing to fight for me. It's a shame because I know in my heart he's not fighting for himself either, even if he sees himself differently. It's been hard for me to commit to the idea of letting him go entirely, but now I see clearly I don't have a choice if I'm trying to love myself and give myself what I deserve. Thank you for all you do Helena.
This!! And I will advise it’s far better to walk away when you first realize this man is this way. Don’t keep giving him repeated opportunities to disappoint you. Lesson learned the hard way here.
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Ok so I have major updates on my situation. As soon as I pulled away and stopped trying to get his attention all the time things rapidly changed. He started wanting to see me more. We've been going out on more dates. He started making more time for me and pursuing me. Now he wants to move things forward and is talking about the possibility of me being his girlfriend. I've wanted this for so long but now I'm the one who's shaking in her boots! Am I really ready? Have things changed enough for me to go with It? Will things revert back to the way they were before as soon as I say Yes? How can I maintain his interest in pursuing me if I say yes? Any video links or advice would be super helpful. I'm too close to all of this to see clearly and I'm quite star struck.
Unfortunately all 8 :/ but he finally admitted he wasn’t ready for a relationship and was seeing other people and I finally got the closure I needed…. But it cost me 8 months of my heart & head space! Love this video to help me be more educated the next time!
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Oh my God this was my situation but thanks to your advices I told him after 4 months that I looking for commitment and I'm not into false hope. So I move on with my life, don't waiting for him. I'm simple grateful for great time we spent together. Case closed. 😊
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Or you could go lighter I guess hah ask him where he sees himself in 3 years and if he doesn't say married to you, or what you're looking for..then you guys aren't looking for the same things...
And I'm not Helena but I have a feeling she would say that's fundamental problems and that you cannot fix that, only fix to that is getting somebody that wants the same things as you.
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I ran into a few guys like this. All 8 signs! I found for me that these 2 were very interested, but also a little insecure, so they didn’t step up, but loved keeping in touch for the attention. 🙄🙄🙄 But now I’m just staying away from Beta males, (and not leaning in). Not worth the trouble!
Mine has all 8 except for number 4. We were living together then I found out he was talking to another woman. Says it never got physical but my gut says otherwise. I gave him another chance and things were going good and we were about to move him in then I saw a girl text his phone and I read him talk about going over and having sex 4 hours before he came to see me. He ONCE AGAIN said it never got physical and he was sorry and would cut out all contact but once again my gut says different. I'm sticking to my decision and love MYSELF more but HOW DO I NOT FALL FOR HIS BS AGAIN. He is so smooth and won't back down when I say I'm done because I have gone back and forth so many times.
Wow he sounds like a bad person. You are definitely better off without him. He could never make you happy at this point. The right guy for you is out there. 💖
If you have gone back and forth so many times and still there you have already enabled the continuum of his BS and he will continue as many times as he wants because you have accepted it
I know it’s cliche but you really can and will do so much better. You don’t deserve that type of treatment in a relationship. Walk away and don’t enable it any longer. ❤️
My experience has been dating a man for nearly 3-1/2 to 4 years and I went to his house almost every wknd due to the fact that my 2 adult children still live with me. He has taken me on vacations he wanted to go to but stopped over at my house maybe 4 times in total over the years but during the week he doesn't seem to put me on the list of being much of a priority and doesn't try to get together often at all. It seems to be on his terms or at his convenience lately. NOT a good sign!!!! I invested too much from the get-go!
@@juliafisher5844 Sorry to hear that! I finally ended things, for now at least, so...time will tell if its meant to be but I wont be pursuing from my end!
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I'm hurting so much, this Mr always something . Everything that you say is really what I'm experiencing with this man whom I thought was really the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with, just a sad situation. Helena thanks.
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Thank you! Those people who are familiar with my story know that I had a LOT of trouble in dating and relationships all throughout my 20s and 30s before I figured out the principles that I now teach.
I’m going through this. 😖 He feels like he needs to be able to provide solely for a family so he wants to get his finances together first before we make the next step, but I’m almost 30 and I want more children. I walk a fine line between being patient and letting my hormones take over. We have a great connection as you said, but the effort is lacking. He does things for us here and there, calls multiple times a day and we see each other once or twice a week, but we hardly go on dates and he doesn’t seem to want to live a life with me. It’s like he fit me into his life like a puzzle piece, but I have to hop back into my own puzzle when I leave his house. (If that makes sense)
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Alexandra! I recently recorded a podcast episode on when to be patient vs. went to move on (and what to say to get your needs met in a situation like this). You can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/4X0QHejFTKLJAiXhPR9OdY?si=787OOqFgQLGP7nt9ieCqwA&dl_branch=1 … or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000535607362
Yes! I said to him " you're just fitting me in! I don't want that I want to be with someone who shares their life with me and vice versa .. I'm still with him and things only get better for a short time he can be so casual towards me. I know it's time to be brave now
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It was sow paintfful because He give my that answer" I don 't Have Time now for womans and The Place off Love îs into giovaness( I am 63 years now)" and" All îs Happening în your Imagination"!.
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I said to my partner: What about us? You know that you want to be with me. Why do you have options to live in other cites and or other state? My partner said: Why do I have better growth and investment capabilities, business options and the ability to buy something better? I am defining all of that. First I have to think about myself, then I think about other things. I hope you understand me. I'm so confused, doesn't make sense to me and I want to know why.
Since women are at greater risk and on a much shorter timeline, I think it was only fair that commitment came before sex. Don't give men what they want ( sex a regular basis) until you get what you want (commitment). Once a man gets to the point in his life where he's ready for commitment, he won't have a problem waiting for sex while getting to know you. If he can't wait, he either doesn't want anything from you other than short term no strings sex, or is simply too immature for a committed relationship. Shhhh, don't tell the men I told you.
And I Anwer to Him" I donat whant to Bee your meastrees now and Never, because I Have a Realy Emotion for you and I whant to Bee The One în Your Life, because That I 'm Deserve!".
Helena, I'd love to hear your thoughts or see a video about, stepping outside of the box when dating, as in going for what you need in a relationship rather than going for what you want..pursuing someone out of your preference, or not like what you're not used to in order to get what is best for you.
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Mr. ‘always something’ is exactly the man am into for sooo long, damn! 🤯 hmmm watch his actions 🤔 he said one time “ don’t mind my words but what i do”
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wow ...my ex completely ugh it sucks...going NC...I want to see actions buddy...sick of breadcrumbs and sweet talk! I had my things to work on during break up too..ty Helena and Love advice:)
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This was an EXCELLENT presenting! Very practical as it makes one wake up to the true reality if things. Helena, the man I adore is haunted by his former girlfriend --- she just won't quit. What can I do? My heart is breaking 💔
So sorry. That’s an annoying situation but the best advice i can give is you need to be SUPER confident in yourself… as in you are the best option. Period! If you know he is truly over his ex and believe in what you two have together, then you really have to be self- focused!
Would like some feedback on dating a man whom you don't feel is actually attracted to you physically? I am plus sized and he's admitted he's not especially attracted to plus sized women. He has never complimented me on any aspect of my appearance....eyes, hair, lips, nothing....when I finally asked him point blank.....he hesitated for like five seconds. I said, so that's a no and he said he just didn't want to seem like he was just saying what I wanted to hear. This isn't about me being needy or vain, it's about the fact that I've heard relationship experts say that a man has to feel some initial physical attraction to a woman and the fact that I am not feeling any kind of pull of attraction coming from him towards me. You know when a man is physically attracted to you, they can't really help but show it....you know, like when you catch them looking at you, etc. Does anyone have any experience with things working out in a similar situation? We actually have a fair amount in common.
Personally, this wouldn’t feel good to me - but I’d recommend getting in touch with what feels good to YOU in a relationship. There are definitely men out there who will find you incredibly attractive! ❤️
@Amanda I’m sorry girl. I’m still dealing with it now. This man has been in my life for a year. He said he just wanted to be friends fairly recently .. I’m trying to just focus on me. ❤️
There is this guy we ve been talking for almost 2 months . We met once. We dont live in the same city. He seems interested but it just feels off, he s so slow. He would initiate the convo, but it would stretch over the day. When he finally keeps the conversation going for a bit, we talk about...i feel like nothing..the usual stuff..work, well being, i try to make it light as i naturally always try to be fun and all. I feel like im the one leading convo. He does not call often, really. I get the " ill block him" urge but i dont block people in general. We r not dating or even in a relationship. I dont know what we are at this point. I dont know what to do. I dont wanna tell him straight" i feel like you and youuu.... it ll seem like im dying for him or being clingy.
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Omg this is what I’ve been stuck in for four years. On and off, comes and goes 🥲. Idk how to cut the connection. It’s hurt me so much. Not to mention he still talks to other girls. He doesn’t want to commit to me, yet he doesn’t let me go. Why so?
Yes, he’s not letting you go because this is a great deal for him - he’s getting everything he wants with no strings attached. But it’s a terrible deal for you so I would definitely move on, as difficult as that is. ❤️
Same here, I know how hard it is to let go, we have already invested so much. I really feel for you, I’m really sorry, but you just have to, I’ll have to do the same.
Helena, I thought I was with a super great guy who has all the qualities I wanted. I ended up asking him to do something for me (write me an email) and he didn’t do it. Then, we got into an argument because I said I wanted him to do something with his actions to show his love for me, but he didn’t know how to do that and couldn’t figure it out. Now we’ve been going in circles for two weeks and he hasn’t done anything. He was previously very loving and came to see me, bought me dog food, spent hours on video chat with me to sort out issues. Can you explain what kinds of actions we should be looking for? Now I am just kind of waiting to see what he will do.
It seems as though he was already showing you with his actions if I’m understanding the situation correctly. So he may be feeling that whatever he does isn’t enough (or something along those lines), which will usually demotivate a man or push him away. 💜
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Omg you just painted a canvas of a guy who I have been dating for 4 months. Broken promises of words but not actions of wanting to move in together at the 9 month mark and I'm not sure why he is choosing that timeline and telling me he see's a future with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He works a lot so we see each other 1-2 times a week. I complain and now I feel like I'm pushing him away. Do I lean back and not say anything and watch his actions? Before he was rushing in to save our relationship and make sure that I know he's serious. We came exclusive in the 8 week timeframe and we've had some bumps in the road along the way. I fell in love with him so it makes it complicated to just walk away. We both have said the three little words. I just don't know what to do to turn this around without pushing him away any further. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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We can talk for three hours on the phone yet he goes back to his default mode the next day, never builds on the momentum. It’s been 5 months, haven’t had sex with him and I WILL NOT.
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@@BrooklynBaby100 lol 😂 there’s an update. He’s a Scorpio and I learned that was part of his testing strategies. After six months he opened up and he’s been very committed , consistent and loyal. He has introduced me to the family and everything is going good. He’s The most generous and romantic guy I’ve ever met, he’s literally addicted to me (that’s what Scorpios do) Final words: if you’re dating a Scorpio you need to be patient. They treat you like a queen but it’s takes a lot of patience to pass all their tests since they don’t trust easily.
@@missware2677 Ahhh omg I’m so happy to hear the great newsssss!! It’s wild, men have things they’re insecure about and struggle with too! Sheesh wow I’m so happy 😁 for you
Is it possible for these signs to be situational? The guy I’m seeing is finishing a thesis and is working really hard to finish and get his life built up after a divorce a few years ago. He keeps saying after he gets on his feet he will have more time for me and we can see where things go from there. But at the moment he’s displaying be all these signs. Is it worth waiting until his thesis is done in a few months to see if something changes ?
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Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💜 Yes, men typically know right away whether or not they’re interested in pursuing a committed relationship with you. That’s why it’s important to never wait for a man. My husband and I talked about that in this video: ua-cam.com/video/_D37APGOy8Y/v-deo.htmlsi=MFvN1zHvcR6JUSHk
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Don’t choose a man before he chooses you. I’m still learning that one. 😭
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Bingo!!!!
I love that you acknowledge why it’s hard to just walk away from this kind of guy. He has so many qualities you want but at the same time isn’t giving what you deserve.
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Always out of reach, words and actions do not match, empty promises, endless excuses for everything, nothing done or said is ever enough, actions speak louder than his words.....ladies beware of such predators.!!!!!!!
it's actually easier than most women though. After 3 - 4 months of dating if he hasn't ask for a commitment/relationship with you, he's a waste of time. You need to toss him out of the window and move on.
3-4 months is a lot of time to loose. Why would you loose 4 months (almost half a year) and invest so much emotionally? I'd give him 2 months.
@@pronobiska that's why you don't just date one person and date multiple men. 3-4 or 6-8 dates is just an average based on men's healthy psychology. You don't want to rush and get into a relationship too early as that is a huge red flag 🚩 for narcissists and violent abusive men, they like to rush to a relationship.
@@fireeye33 i totally agree with you on no rushing and red flags. It's just that I.find that a man who.still doesn't knows if he wants to be in a relationship with you after 3-4 months of dating is also a red flag. I think he should suggest being exclusive after 2 months if things go well, then you can see if you are ready too. You can answer let's get to know each other better. But a guy that dates you for 3 months and still doesn't know if he wants to be with you is a red flag of someone just dragging you along. Personally I wouldn't like to continue dating him even if I'm having coffee dates with 5 other men.
@@pronobiska in some cases like long distance where you don't meet often, 3-4 months or 6-8 dates are adequate. Also here's another thing you have to think about if you want to do a quick 2 months. You gotta think about yourself 1st more than him....Are you sure you know this man and willing to commit only after 2 months? I wouldn't, I would rather invest a little longer to truly understand his character than committing with a wrong man. So it's all about yourself more than him.
My husband and I have been married 17yrs and ours were different bc we were friends long before we committed, I didn't know he likes me, but at the time he told me I already know him well to make a decision.
@@fireeye33 I understand you are saying 4 months seem appropriate to you. On the other hand, if you've been married for 17 years.... I'd say the dating scene has changed a bit since the last time you visiited it :). A pleasure chatting to you. Have a great day!
After years of being with this type, I’ve finally detached. All 8 applied to me. So relieved to be moving on. ✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽
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These man have a dissmisive avoindant attachment style. The are afraid of love and commitment/intimacy. I dated a man like this.i knew nothing about this attachment style. I walked away, then i learned about this attachment style. I'm save attached, and wanted another shot. Because his actions where good, but his words where confusing. I know now where that came from, but i knocked on a closed door. I still miss him, but will leave him alone. I'm working om myself and see what the universe has in store for me and him.
I know his twin in Toldeo! I'm rooting for you..same boat..but I don't have time for the..I'm not ready..but you certainly act like it.
Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💙
@@tc9875 yes, i know it's stupid, but i have the feeling we are not done yet. There was a click, we share the sane interests. I'm not verry often impressed by a man. I don't find man that are interesting. I'm 7 years single and he was the first one who i find interesting. We'll see what's happen. Maybe i'll meet another man, who's a better match. I just watch what the universe has in store for me.
@@sportyspice1402 It not stupid at all. Sometimes the pull back and time apart could be God using this time to show him what he's about to miss and to whip him into shape. The break could be a blessing.
@@tc9875 yes, i also think and feel it that way. I also needed this lesson to learn. He motivated, encoureged and inspired me to do more with things in life. He introduced me with things i love to do now. If i didn’t met him, i was still the same. If didn’t met him, i had never learned about attachment styles and growth. So i think this time in between is nessesery to grow to each other in the future.
I wasted four years of my life on this type of man. It never went anywhere. Incredible chemistry …. That led to pain and heartbreak
I used to call him “elusive” and his life was always in chaos
All so true and I wished I had listened to this video then
“Ignore his words and watch his actions”. And actually believe it and be able to move away from this type of man.
Thanks for sharing your experience here - I’m glad you were able to eventually walk away! ❤️
This is why I keep my legs closed. I refuse to be played! No matter how hot he is, he's not going to get my goods until we say I do. It sounds old fashioned, but I have dodged so much heartbreak from noncommittal men and players just by doing this. It is their kryptonite. They all seem like they could be "the one" at first, but that is usually deception.
I just dumped a guy like this. Everything was perfect until I went thru his phone and saw he was interested in other women. He even traveled to see one of them. He told me he loved me, wanted us to move in together. And raise his teenager kids🤦🏽♀️. All the while talking to other women. SMH. WE WERE only dating about 3 months. The worse part about it is he lied and said he was just joking with her. I asked her and she said they were just childhood friends. I didn't believe either of them. They can have each other. Im going to find someone better.
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“Always something”… couldn’t have said it better myself. My Mr. always something recently said he wanted to just be friends…
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@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you ❤️
you see the first time if he stable or crazy. or later. Move on or stay. Avoid big nomads, people who are usually not very stable. Set boundaries. You dont know person well in the beginning, first 3, 4 months
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Every point resonated with me and I try and be relaxed but his inconsistency and lack of progression triggers me and brings out my insecure needy side. I then pull away from him and he gets upset but never takes accountability for his actions never matching up to his words, he acts like the victim. It's like I'm hooked on the potential of who he could be and who he was at the beginning when he was more consistent from which we built an amazing connection. I'm drained and sad that I don't ever fully feel enough so went into no contact telling him I'm moving on and he got in touch after a week but still no progression...he's constantly in my thoughts and it hurts he doesn't step up and claim me as I don't feel connected to guys easily as he otherwise ticks so many boxes. I hang on in hope he wakes up but deep down I know he won't....he's lost in his own pity and insecurity and is always full of excuses 💔
I'm right there with you. Just broke up with him. It's been four years and I'm also just tired and sad. During my birthday.. but I'm trying to not let it get to me anymore.
Same exact boat girl
I’m done trying to figure it al out in my head.
I have to face the hard truths 🥲
Same thing here. I wasted 3 yrs on this "Always Something Man." It's been 8 months since I broke it off for good, but it still hurts and I involuntarily think of him every day and have no interest in being with anyone else. No contact and keeping busy has helped somewhat, but the longing feeling comes back often and I regress. I do have enough regard for myself to never go back, but I think I need therapy to get over the pain. Lessons learned, but I wish I knew this stuff about avoiding unavailable men before I met this guy. Never experienced this kind of heartbreak and hope I never ever do again. It's awful.
@@bellabong8862 I feel for you so much and your reply had me thinking of how I'd work out if a guy was emotionally unavailable moving forward and I think it's when they say they aren't sure what they're looking for and if they are fresh out of a relationship then I'd definitely not entertain that! Is there any other signs? I shall hunt out videos to become better equipped!
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This is perfect! The kind of relationship I was in. I just told him after being with him for 2 years…bye bye bye!! Time to find someone who will ‘step up’!
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Diane. I’m glad you were able to move on so you can make yourself available for what you truly want and deserve! 💕
Ignore his words.. watch his action🙏thank you so much for a great tip!!
Actions and Words must match .....
You’re welcome! Yes, ideally his words and actions will line up - but if they don’t, I’d watch his ACTIONS (unless he’s flat-out telling you that he doesn’t want a relationship, in that case it’s important to believe him). 💜
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THIS is exactly what I am going through right now! Every single one of these signs you said, he is doing them all. That is why I finally gave up on him, after more than 3 1/2 years of knowing him, talking to him.
Yes, it’s a very common situation. I’m glad you were able to choose yourself and move on! 💕
I don’t have kids because I don’t want them or want to waste my life on them. I’ve realized I’m not okay with settling and being with a man who has kids and always coming second, when he always gets to come first for me. I NEVER feel satisfied. So I only date truly single AVAILABLE men without kids, then we are on the same level and can give the same to the relationship
Date like-minded men
@@candycane3230 its very hard to find men these days without children. Im sure finding someone like minded is her main priority. Clearly.
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I've been experiencing this with the man, well, maybe more like a boy trapped in a man's body, for 8 months now. I've been going back and forth for a while and pulled away from the situation to gain more footing and he's only proven to me he's not willing to fight for me. It's a shame because I know in my heart he's not fighting for himself either, even if he sees himself differently. It's been hard for me to commit to the idea of letting him go entirely, but now I see clearly I don't have a choice if I'm trying to love myself and give myself what I deserve. Thank you for all you do Helena.
This!! And I will advise it’s far better to walk away when you first realize this man is this way. Don’t keep giving him repeated opportunities to disappoint you. Lesson learned the hard way here.
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Ok so I have major updates on my situation. As soon as I pulled away and stopped trying to get his attention all the time things rapidly changed. He started wanting to see me more. We've been going out on more dates. He started making more time for me and pursuing me. Now he wants to move things forward and is talking about the possibility of me being his girlfriend. I've wanted this for so long but now I'm the one who's shaking in her boots! Am I really ready? Have things changed enough for me to go with It? Will things revert back to the way they were before as soon as I say Yes? How can I maintain his interest in pursuing me if I say yes? Any video links or advice would be super helpful. I'm too close to all of this to see clearly and I'm quite star struck.
@@rosesamuri17 any updates?!
Unfortunately all 8 :/ but he finally admitted he wasn’t ready for a relationship and was seeing other people and I finally got the closure I needed…. But it cost me 8 months of my heart & head space! Love this video to help me be more educated the next time!
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Oh my God this was my situation but thanks to your advices I told him after 4 months that I looking for commitment and I'm not into false hope. So I move on with my life, don't waiting for him. I'm simple grateful for great time we spent together. Case closed. 😊
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4 months is not enough time to expect a man to commit.
Nailed it!!! Experiencing all 8...I know in my heart it's time to move on...one step at a time. Thanks for a great video
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Helena I love your advice on this... pick yourself first, ignore words, pay attention to his actions. Love, love this! 🙌👏👏
I’m glad you enjoyed it, Elizabeth! 💗
I’m experiencing the whole 8 signs, omg
Snap!
Exit the premises now! Don’t wait around. So much easier said than done, but don’t waste months or years on a guy like this.
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You are radiating pure love. Thank you for everything you do for women 💕
You’re very welcome! ❤️
I've been stuck in that situation recently. It's unhappy.
Then make him unhappy! Take your power back gorgeous!
Or you could go lighter I guess hah ask him where he sees himself in 3 years and if he doesn't say married to you, or what you're looking for..then you guys aren't looking for the same things...
And I'm not Helena but I have a feeling she would say that's fundamental problems and that you cannot fix that, only fix to that is getting somebody that wants the same things as you.
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@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you for the links. Your channel is helpful. 💖
Exactly 8/8 in this situation for 8 months and that’s enough. Thank you :)
I’m now in no contact. If he come back and want to commit, should I believe him?
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I ran into a few guys like this. All 8 signs!
I found for me that these 2 were very interested, but also a little insecure, so they didn’t step up, but loved keeping in touch for the attention. 🙄🙄🙄
But now I’m just staying away from Beta males, (and not leaning in).
Not worth the trouble!
Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many women can relate. 💛
Mine has all 8 except for number 4. We were living together then I found out he was talking to another woman. Says it never got physical but my gut says otherwise. I gave him another chance and things were going good and we were about to move him in then I saw a girl text his phone and I read him talk about going over and having sex 4 hours before he came to see me. He ONCE AGAIN said it never got physical and he was sorry and would cut out all contact but once again my gut says different. I'm sticking to my decision and love MYSELF more but HOW DO I NOT FALL FOR HIS BS AGAIN. He is so smooth and won't back down when I say I'm done because I have gone back and forth so many times.
Wow he sounds like a bad person. You are definitely better off without him. He could never make you happy at this point. The right guy for you is out there. 💖
Me too😢
If you have gone back and forth so many times and still there you have already enabled the continuum of his BS and he will continue as many times as he wants because you have accepted it
Don’t let him back in, EVER! that’s how you don’t fall for his BS again. Cheating is a deal breaker. Period!
I know it’s cliche but you really can and will do so much better. You don’t deserve that type of treatment in a relationship. Walk away and don’t enable it any longer. ❤️
My experience has been dating a man for nearly 3-1/2 to 4 years and I went to his house almost every wknd due to the fact that my 2 adult children still live with me. He has taken me on vacations he wanted to go to but stopped over at my house maybe 4 times in total over the years but during the week he doesn't seem to put me on the list of being much of a priority and doesn't try to get together often at all. It seems to be on his terms or at his convenience lately. NOT a good sign!!!! I invested too much from the get-go!
Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. 💙
Same boat
@@juliafisher5844 Sorry to hear that! I finally ended things, for now at least, so...time will tell if its meant to be but I wont be pursuing from my end!
Yes, I was înto this situation three years ago!. Yes, all this Signs are very Clears to People, but not for my.
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I'm hurting so much, this Mr always something . Everything that you say is really what I'm experiencing with this man whom I thought was really the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with, just a sad situation. Helena thanks.
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I always love helena's videos they are straight to the point ❤
Thank you so much! 💗
Finding Mr. Right was no problem for you Helena because you're beautiful.
Thank you! Those people who are familiar with my story know that I had a LOT of trouble in dating and relationships all throughout my 20s and 30s before I figured out the principles that I now teach.
I’m going through this. 😖 He feels like he needs to be able to provide solely for a family so he wants to get his finances together first before we make the next step, but I’m almost 30 and I want more children. I walk a fine line between being patient and letting my hormones take over. We have a great connection as you said, but the effort is lacking. He does things for us here and there, calls multiple times a day and we see each other once or twice a week, but we hardly go on dates and he doesn’t seem to want to live a life with me. It’s like he fit me into his life like a puzzle piece, but I have to hop back into my own puzzle when I leave his house. (If that makes sense)
Thanks for sharing your experience here, Alexandra! I recently recorded a podcast episode on when to be patient vs. went to move on (and what to say to get your needs met in a situation like this). You can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/4X0QHejFTKLJAiXhPR9OdY?si=787OOqFgQLGP7nt9ieCqwA&dl_branch=1
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This is literally my relationship too…
Yes! I said to him " you're just fitting me in! I don't want that I want to be with someone who shares their life with me and vice versa .. I'm still with him and things only get better for a short time he can be so casual towards me. I know it's time to be brave now
Literally me now but im 25
That’s a good name! Mr.Always Something!
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Thank you for this. I really needed to hear this. I need to let him go and move on.
You’re welcome, Marcella! 💕
Great advice! I am in a relationship like this
Thank you, Janice! 💕
This is exactly my current situation, quite apt for me…
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My problem has always been lack of other options so I tend to look back at what I had (which wasn't much).
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Thanks Helena! This is so accurate.
You’re welcome! 💜
i don't wanna believe this is true haha. But deep down, I know I've gotta deal with the pain and be the hero i need to be
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It was sow paintfful because He give my that answer" I don 't Have Time now for womans and The Place off Love îs into giovaness( I am 63 years now)" and" All îs Happening în your Imagination"!.
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Relate much..basically, all qualities are present..Guess, the red flags are there but I was just blind enough and ignore..😢😥😭
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I said to my partner: What about us? You know that you want to be with me. Why do you have options to live in other cites and or other state?
My partner said: Why do I have better growth and investment capabilities, business options and the ability to buy something better? I am defining all of that. First I have to think about myself, then I think about other things. I hope you understand me.
I'm so confused, doesn't make sense to me and I want to know why.
Since women are at greater risk and on a much shorter timeline, I think it was only fair that commitment came before sex. Don't give men what they want ( sex a regular basis) until you get what you want (commitment). Once a man gets to the point in his life where he's ready for commitment, he won't have a problem waiting for sex while getting to know you. If he can't wait, he either doesn't want anything from you other than short term no strings sex, or is simply too immature for a committed relationship.
Shhhh, don't tell the men I told you.
Thanks for sharing your insights here!
And I Anwer to Him" I donat whant to Bee your meastrees now and Never, because I Have a Realy Emotion for you and I whant to Bee The One în Your Life, because That I 'm Deserve!".
Great video and tips. Thank you, Helena
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@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you! Watching it now
You’re welcome! 💕
Helena, I'd love to hear your thoughts or see a video about, stepping outside of the box when dating, as in going for what you need in a relationship rather than going for what you want..pursuing someone out of your preference, or not like what you're not used to in order to get what is best for you.
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You’re so good Helena! What you said depicts my life ! Thanks 🙏
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@@HelenaHartCoaching Thanks 🙏
Oh my god.. every single one. And to be honest, I’ve known it for a while. Why is so hard to walk away from these guys??
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So glad you did this video! You’re amazing! Thanks 🙏
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Experiencing pretty much Allll of these 🙄🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️😞😞
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Mr. ‘always something’ is exactly the man am into for sooo long, damn! 🤯 hmmm watch his actions 🤔 he said one time “ don’t mind my words but what i do”
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Thanks Helena...really needed to hear this!!! 🙏🏻
You’re welcome, Miriam! 💕
Excellent video and excellent points! 💥💥💥
Thank you! 💕
wow ...my ex completely ugh it sucks...going NC...I want to see actions buddy...sick of breadcrumbs and sweet talk! I had my things to work on during break up too..ty Helena and Love advice:)
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You nailed it, it's very relevant😪
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This was an EXCELLENT presenting! Very practical as it makes one wake up to the true reality if things. Helena, the man I adore is haunted by his former girlfriend --- she just won't quit. What can I do? My heart is breaking 💔
So sorry. That’s an annoying situation but the best advice i can give is you need to be SUPER confident in yourself… as in you are the best option. Period!
If you know he is truly over his ex and believe in what you two have together, then you really have to be self- focused!
@@EadsB7002 Thanks ever so much! The pressure on me is large bc she won't disappear!!! I so appreciate your input, Helena 💜💐
Would like some feedback on dating a man whom you don't feel is actually attracted to you physically? I am plus sized and he's admitted he's not especially attracted to plus sized women. He has never complimented me on any aspect of my appearance....eyes, hair, lips, nothing....when I finally asked him point blank.....he hesitated for like five seconds. I said, so that's a no and he said he just didn't want to seem like he was just saying what I wanted to hear. This isn't about me being needy or vain, it's about the fact that I've heard relationship experts say that a man has to feel some initial physical attraction to a woman and the fact that I am not feeling any kind of pull of attraction coming from him towards me. You know when a man is physically attracted to you, they can't really help but show it....you know, like when you catch them looking at you, etc. Does anyone have any experience with things working out in a similar situation? We actually have a fair amount in common.
Personally, this wouldn’t feel good to me - but I’d recommend getting in touch with what feels good to YOU in a relationship. There are definitely men out there who will find you incredibly attractive! ❤️
Love This, and needed to hear this content...Thank You So Much~❤
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💗
I’ve experienced all signs with my last guy. Lol
@Amanda I’m sorry girl. I’m still dealing with it now. This man has been in my life for a year. He said he just wanted to be friends fairly recently ..
I’m trying to just focus on me. ❤️
There is this guy we ve been talking for almost 2 months . We met once. We dont live in the same city. He seems interested but it just feels off, he s so slow. He would initiate the convo, but it would stretch over the day. When he finally keeps the conversation going for a bit, we talk about...i feel like nothing..the usual stuff..work, well being, i try to make it light as i naturally always try to be fun and all. I feel like im the one leading convo. He does not call often, really. I get the " ill block him" urge but i dont block people in general. We r not dating or even in a relationship. I dont know what we are at this point. I dont know what to do. I dont wanna tell him straight" i feel like you and youuu.... it ll seem like im dying for him or being clingy.
Just ask him straight forward , you will save yourself all the headache you are going thru now
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Well put! Right on.
Thanks Sally! 💛
Omg this is what I’ve been stuck in for four years. On and off, comes and goes 🥲. Idk how to cut the connection. It’s hurt me so much. Not to mention he still talks to other girls. He doesn’t want to commit to me, yet he doesn’t let me go. Why so?
It's time for you to let HIM go and take care of yourself
I've followed you for over two years, you are getting better all the time, thank you!
He will keep you, as long as you let him.
Yes, he’s not letting you go because this is a great deal for him - he’s getting everything he wants with no strings attached. But it’s a terrible deal for you so I would definitely move on, as difficult as that is. ❤️
Same here, I know how hard it is to let go, we have already invested so much. I really feel for you, I’m really sorry, but you just have to, I’ll have to do the same.
That’s a great vid 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you! 💕
Helena, I thought I was with a super great guy who has all the qualities I wanted. I ended up asking him to do something for me (write me an email) and he didn’t do it. Then, we got into an argument because I said I wanted him to do something with his actions to show his love for me, but he didn’t know how to do that and couldn’t figure it out. Now we’ve been going in circles for two weeks and he hasn’t done anything. He was previously very loving and came to see me, bought me dog food, spent hours on video chat with me to sort out issues. Can you explain what kinds of actions we should be looking for? Now I am just kind of waiting to see what he will do.
It seems as though he was already showing you with his actions if I’m understanding the situation correctly. So he may be feeling that whatever he does isn’t enough (or something along those lines), which will usually demotivate a man or push him away. 💜
Thank you so much Helena!
You’re welcome! 💕
And fron Tree years I Tray to Bee myself and growht every day!, but it is sow, sow Hard!!.
When I Realize IT was somethink wrongh în this History and I Make a Dificult Dicison: I travel
Thanks Helena💗
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Thank you for your wise advice!!!
You’re welcome! 💜
Love your advice
Thanks Theresa! 💕
OMG....All of this....😢😢😢😢
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Omg you just painted a canvas of a guy who I have been dating for 4 months. Broken promises of words but not actions of wanting to move in together at the 9 month mark and I'm not sure why he is choosing that timeline and telling me he see's a future with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He works a lot so we see each other 1-2 times a week. I complain and now I feel like I'm pushing him away. Do I lean back and not say anything and watch his actions? Before he was rushing in to save our relationship and make sure that I know he's serious.
We came exclusive in the 8 week timeframe and we've had some bumps in the road along the way. I fell in love with him so it makes it complicated to just walk away. We both have said the three little words. I just don't know what to do to turn this around without pushing him away any further. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I see all these sign in him. It's hurting. I ll want to leave him and move on.
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În Italy( from Roumania) and I was asking Him how was posible to Bee sow loving în World but în Reality norhing
It was posible because , I was fall în Love to Him and I don' t whant to See anythink!. I coud not see!. But, It was a Time before
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Thx Always Appreciate Great Coaching Reality ❤️
You’re welcome, Maggie! 💕
Thank you!
You’re welcome! 💕
All 8 signs 😱
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@@HelenaHartCoaching I have watched this video when it first came out. I know he is No. 3
In that case, the other videos I linked above should be really helpful. 💜
Please make videos about long distance
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We can talk for three hours on the phone yet he goes back to his default mode the next day, never builds on the momentum. It’s been 5 months, haven’t had sex with him and I WILL NOT.
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😂Did we date the same guy? 😂 Did you try talking to him
And telling him how you feel and DO NOT spend that long again with someone else 1 hour tops!
@@BrooklynBaby100 lol 😂 there’s an update. He’s a Scorpio and I learned that was part of his testing strategies. After six months he opened up and he’s been very committed , consistent and loyal. He has introduced me to the family and everything is going good. He’s The most generous and romantic guy I’ve ever met, he’s literally addicted to me (that’s what Scorpios do)
Final words: if you’re dating a Scorpio you need to be patient. They treat you like a queen but it’s takes a lot of patience to pass all their tests since they don’t trust easily.
@@missware2677 Ahhh omg I’m so happy to hear the great newsssss!! It’s wild, men have things they’re insecure about and struggle with too! Sheesh wow I’m so happy 😁 for you
Is it possible for these signs to be situational? The guy I’m seeing is finishing a thesis and is working really hard to finish and get his life built up after a divorce a few years ago. He keeps saying after he gets on his feet he will have more time for me and we can see where things go from there. But at the moment he’s displaying be all these signs. Is it worth waiting until his thesis is done in a few months to see if something changes ?
Don't wait on a man. This is a sign to move on.
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Waited for 6 years and yet no sign of commitment , wen questioned he told me he wants to move on ..
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