Watching this made me cry, I didn't realize how much I'm in my masculine energy taking care of everyone, house chores, picking up half of the financial weight in my relationship and not having enough time for myself. I hope things will be better balanced at some point soon. Thank you for your videos ❤
Hello Lisa, I just want to thank you for all that you have done for us! I stumbled upon your videos during Covid-19 lockdown when I was 16 and you caught my attention. I never realized how much the world has surpressed my femininity. You have helped me learn about myself in the best way. I’ll be turning 20 soon and I am still learning about myself and my femininity, but I would have never been in this position if it wasn’t for you because you began my journey and I feel like I’m changing from my feelings to the way I dress, to even my attitude. Thank you so much and please keep going and don’t stop what you are doing 💖💖💖
I'm very grateful to find your channel! Thank you for your advice! As a frontwoman in a band it's difficult sometimes. Especially dealing with my bandmates. I was always in survival mode and I was always getting upset or stressed. Now I'm working on myself to get more into my feminine energy. I've been watching many of your videos lately. Thank you.
Ahh I loved this.. I've just turned 22, and decided to dedicate this year to enjoying myself, experiencing new things and doing what I love, so this came at a perfect time. Thank you, Lisa ❤️
I needed this video today! I struggle with people pleasing and being a pick me. Every video you put out I watch over and over and over until it clicks. I also put quotes and statements you make that resonate with me on post it’s and put them on my vanity so I can see them at all times.
Turning on my masculine energy has helped me be less emotional and unbotherd. If you're naturally on the extreme feminine side you have to balit with masculine. The reason coaches are encouraging feminine is for women who are more in their masculine. Balance of feminine and masculine is for women and men.
you are Goddess Friya embodied!! 💫😌 🪄✨ Goddess of love, fertility, female empowerment, beauty & magic 🕊️ Thank you for following your mission to awaken the inner feminine Light, Lisa!🪽
you have such a beautiful aura ! you changed my life, I purely wish you the best in the universe, your voice calms me soooo much, I really adore and admire you as a human being, love you so much🤍❤
Every time when I allow myself to go out of the survival modus, I look around and see most women are in jeans etc ==> practical like workers And then I thought than I am not normal because I preferred nice pretty clothes... But now I am proud to wear pretty feminin outfits , even when I am the only one 🤗 because of your update I now know that most of them in the survival modus and that a lot of them don't know this and that others never would tell me that they miss a femininer style, too. Thank you very much 😘💐
I keep watching this video. Man, now I recognize, I am definitely in survival mode. I am always stressed out and I am always in fight and flight mode. Thanks for all the practical advice as to how to resolve it, Lisa. I absolutely love your content.
I’m totally in survival mode. Having a 6 month old baby who’d exclusively breastfed and a husband that works a lot, I’m am totally drained! These videos do help though and it’s good to hear an explanation for why I’m so exhausted all the time
Hi Lisa! Thanks for talking about this, it's important to remember, and difficult for me nowadays not to be on survival mode, I think I'm very calmed and many things nowadays stress me out..
hi lisa i feel lucky to see ur video at 21th, even i often in my survival mode, i belive that i can switch that to feminime flow quickly. Thankyou for you advice❤
My mom is living in a sevival mode all the time, and whenever i tell her to step into her feminine energy and have time for herself, she always says she can't because she has a lot of responsability that comes with having 5 kids and having to take care of the house, i hate seeing her drained and afraid all the time, what do you think i can do to help her? And thank you so much lisa for this valuable informations i really apreciate you guiding us and teaching us how to be on our feminine energy❤️💋
Do a dish. Sweep a floor. cook dinners (plural) if your old enough pay a bill. is your father dead? Take your mom somewhere she would enjoy. Ask her about examining her own life goals, besides working and slaving for everybody else. HERE BOOM 💥ways to REALLY help your mom. It sounds like You REALLY care . It sounds like she's really in trouble and REALLY needs _ real help. May GOD bless your mom. And may the people that love bless her.❤🎉💥
Lisa, you always look the best. You always look so good! You're such a sister and mentor to me. This dress is nice and classy. It shows your shape. I love your belt. And I love your new hairstyle too. Very nice waves. I love your earring too. It really matches your whole outfit. I appreciate your content. It helps me so much on this femininity glow-up journey. 🥰 Many blessings to you. Keep going and keep making great contents! 🥰
man that's actually profound- so true. depression is functioning in survival mode. that should help anyone out there thinking that there is no way out. there is always a way. thanks @nattygamer4755
Heyyy Lisa How r u doing I hope you are doing good and how's your health and how's your health and whenever you posts a new video it's put a huge smile on my face...💗😀😀💫
hey Lisa , I love your videos and thank you so much ❤❤ your videos have taught me so much about being in your divine feminine . So much love from South Africa 🌍🫂 no more reacting , just living and being .
Would you mind snapping some pictures of everything you put in your body for a few days or a week? It’s easy to come up with ideas for one day but it’s tough to figure out what to eat every day
This is my second time watching this video. I think a lot of people are missing the point of the message… Yes we can’t all abandon our jobs/kids/bills etc and be horizontal on the couch. Modern life, even with all its technology is difficult for a lot of women (and men too) in a multitude of ways. But I can guarantee no matter what your current circumstances are there will be one or two small things you can do to bring down survival mode. Don’t think it’s possible to get out of it completely- I’m being realistic. However, even if you are someone who eats clean and exercises etc….you could look at identifying your triggers, whether it’s money,men or whatever and aim to make changes over a 30 day period. It’s hard for me to save money, but even just a bit of savings started to lower my cortisol/stress when I look at online banking. Getting rid of the f&&k boy, helped my sleep because I let go of my mobile phone. These things are not massively life changing like quitting your job or moving countries but they have improved my quality of life and that’s what brings you out of survival x
Stressed, insecure, masculine women.....they attack me because I have boundaries, and act unbothered. But i am very emotional, when they attack me, i cry, i isolate from them. I don't know how to handle the situation. Especially if it's a coworker, and i have to see them every day
I stopped working and stay home with my children because of this. I am not staying anywhere with a bunch of bullies. If you are able to switch jobs or careers please do so, it's better that way.
@@ThePinkPantha21 thank God I don't have a full time job anymore. ( I had two bullies, I was in survival mode 24/7, my mental health was VERY bad, I had weird depressive thoughts, a lot of stress/anxiety symptoms) I do have a side hustle that (so far) doesn't drain me, it's a couple of hours. I do have a coworker who is always in a rush, wants everything perfect without mistakes, passively blames me for stuff. I am single and have no children, hopefully one day I will no longer have to work
No wonder I have been more in a survival mode . My coworkers are causing me to feel that way, I recently got suspended from the workplace for creating a "hostile" environment, and was called back when no evidence was provided. I'm a mom as well so imagine how I felt when I was let go for that week . My poor man receives all of my stress and anger 😔 anything he does now triggers me.
You are adorable. Enjoy your 20s, because this isn’t feasible when you get older. I have been in survival mode/burnout for around 10 years. Unfortunately, getting out of it probably isn’t possible. In spite of looking much younger than my age, taking care of myself physically (exercise, eating well, etc), dressing well - i can’t even find a date. After listening to Sadia Kahn, it was confirmed that traditional women can’t get dates. So now what? At 47, i have to think of retirement - alone - and how to get there - alone - while trying to pay all the 100% inflation bills - alone. Fun, huh? Keep trying while you’re young. Everything I tried has failed except the very career I hate. Oh well.
This is me also. Well I’m 48, so you’re nearly as old and burnout as me! Congrats! 🥳 lol … On a more serious note I am concerned for the younger generation. People are not wanting traditional relationships, and this is leading to a lack of bonding. Also the lack of commitment is difficult if you treasure starting a family. Hook up culture is massive. People are in denial about their porn addiction and attitudes towards casual sex. I’m not a prude. Obviously do what you want. How did it become this way? It’s these things - 📱 yes I love mine but I don’t want to order sex like it’s a dominos pizza 🍕 x
I also like Sadia Khan, I understand what she is saying about traditional women. Also hear people pointing out the dating pool is significantly smaller after 40. Having said that there is 7 billion on the planet and nothing is impossible. Lisa has previously talked about “abundance mindset” which I do agree with. But I also like to be realistic as I find this more of a balanced approach x
@@lou15176 thank you for mentioning that. Unfortunately, the abundance mindset and manifestation does not work for everyone. I’m living proof for that. And I’m only interested in men, so that 7 billion got smaller. There was a really funny video on a woman trying to find eligible men, and it really is accurate when you narrow everything down from age group, to nationality, sexual preference, etc. it is well done but also very funny.
@@rachaelwilliams786 😊 yeah the 7 billion thing. That’s more a reminder for myself due to past mistakes of putting someone on a pedestal and thinking they are “god like” letting them dictate my moods - good or bad. I had to remind myself they are human! Oh yeah and the figure keeps dropping if you take out anyone who is married or gay, or significant age gaps etc. x
You need to look at stoicism. Stop looking for a date. Be the date. Work on yourself, actually be unbothered, and be thankful for what you do have not what you want. We are ALL a getting screwed these days, and being depressed won’t fix it.
Dear Lisa, I agree 💯% with what you state and those are amazing advice, but you seem to not have children (yet or not). Let me tell you, how difficult it is to apply your advices when you are a mum, children, if you want to raise them well (this is another topic, on which I could start a UA-cam channel 😂) are draining, most of the time positively, but still taking time for yourself is really hard. I join you on the fact that if you give this beautiful feminine energy, you will find the right man that will be an extraordinary dad for your kids, and then will be able to support you. Unfortunately if you don't choose the right man, he is not going to support you properly, either staying married to you, and being a jerk, or leaving you. Take care!
What are your thoughts for women in masculine environments such as the army? How can we balance femininity and still have camaraderie while simultaneously being respected. Thank you lovely Lisa🤍
Watching this made me cry, I didn't realize how much I'm in my masculine energy taking care of everyone, house chores, picking up half of the financial weight in my relationship and not having enough time for myself. I hope things will be better balanced at some point soon. Thank you for your videos ❤
Hello Lisa, I just want to thank you for all that you have done for us! I stumbled upon your videos during Covid-19 lockdown when I was 16 and you caught my attention. I never realized how much the world has surpressed my femininity. You have helped me learn about myself in the best way. I’ll be turning 20 soon and I am still learning about myself and my femininity, but I would have never been in this position if it wasn’t for you because you began my journey and I feel like I’m changing from my feelings to the way I dress, to even my attitude. Thank you so much and please keep going and don’t stop what you are doing 💖💖💖
Heey girl 😊I'm also happy for this page and I turned 20 last week ❤hbd in advance
You are lucky to hear what Lisa has to say from such a young age😊. May you grow into a brilliant and feminine woman❤
I'm very grateful to find your channel! Thank you for your advice! As a frontwoman in a band it's difficult sometimes. Especially dealing with my bandmates. I was always in survival mode and I was always getting upset or stressed. Now I'm working on myself to get more into my feminine energy. I've been watching many of your videos lately. Thank you.
Ahh I loved this.. I've just turned 22, and decided to dedicate this year to enjoying myself, experiencing new things and doing what I love, so this came at a perfect time. Thank you, Lisa ❤️
And your man will come girl. Keep focusing on you ever after he comes ok.
I needed this video today! I struggle with people pleasing and being a pick me. Every video you put out I watch over and over and over until it clicks. I also put quotes and statements you make that resonate with me on post it’s and put them on my vanity so I can see them at all times.
Turning on my masculine energy has helped me be less emotional and unbotherd. If you're naturally on the extreme feminine side you have to balit with masculine. The reason coaches are encouraging feminine is for women who are more in their masculine. Balance of feminine and masculine is for women and men.
you are Goddess Friya embodied!!
💫😌 🪄✨
Goddess of love, fertility, female empowerment, beauty & magic 🕊️
Thank you for following your mission to awaken the inner feminine Light, Lisa!🪽
you have such a beautiful aura ! you changed my life, I purely wish you the best in the universe, your voice calms me soooo much, I really adore and admire you as a human being, love you so much🤍❤
Thank you! ❤PCOS is also caused by being on survival mode too long, unfortunately hard to reverse
I have PCOS, too, and never thought about this!! :-O
Every time when I allow myself to go out of the survival modus, I look around and see most women are in jeans etc ==> practical like workers
And then I thought than I am not normal because I preferred nice pretty clothes...
But now I am proud to wear pretty feminin outfits , even when I am the only one 🤗
because of your update I now know that most of them in the survival modus and that a lot of them don't know this and that others never would tell me that they miss a femininer style, too.
Thank you very much 😘💐
Everytime i watch lisa's video. It makes me wanna subscribe to her channel. (I subscribed long time ago 😮💨).
Just wrote down notes, while watching this. thank you beautiful!!!
I keep watching this video. Man, now I recognize, I am definitely in survival mode. I am always stressed out and I am always in fight and flight mode. Thanks for all the practical advice as to how to resolve it, Lisa. I absolutely love your content.
Well said ! My life with 4 children and being the default parent all this is 💯 true .
I’m totally in survival mode. Having a 6 month old baby who’d exclusively breastfed and a husband that works a lot, I’m am totally drained! These videos do help though and it’s good to hear an explanation for why I’m so exhausted all the time
Hi Lisa! Thanks for talking about this, it's important to remember, and difficult for me nowadays not to be on survival mode, I think I'm very calmed and many things nowadays stress me out..
This is an excellent video. Please do more like this one. Thank you so much! ❤
Yesssss more videos about femininity 😍😍😍🤍🤍🤍
hi lisa i feel lucky to see ur video at 21th, even i often in my survival mode, i belive that i can switch that to feminime flow quickly. Thankyou for you advice❤
My mom is living in a sevival mode all the time, and whenever i tell her to step into her feminine energy and have time for herself, she always says she can't because she has a lot of responsability that comes with having 5 kids and having to take care of the house, i hate seeing her drained and afraid all the time, what do you think i can do to help her?
And thank you so much lisa for this valuable informations i really apreciate you guiding us and teaching us how to be on our feminine energy❤️💋
Do a dish. Sweep a floor. cook dinners (plural) if your old enough pay a bill. is your father dead? Take your mom somewhere she would enjoy. Ask her about examining her own life goals, besides working and slaving for everybody else. HERE BOOM 💥ways to REALLY help your mom. It sounds like You REALLY care . It sounds like she's really in trouble and REALLY needs _ real help. May GOD bless your mom. And may the people that love bless her.❤🎉💥
I needed this one today! Thank you so much!
Your advices are really helpful ❤
Lisa, you always look the best. You always look so good! You're such a sister and mentor to me. This dress is nice and classy. It shows your shape. I love your belt. And I love your new hairstyle too. Very nice waves. I love your earring too. It really matches your whole outfit. I appreciate your content. It helps me so much on this femininity glow-up journey. 🥰 Many blessings to you. Keep going and keep making great contents! 🥰
Thank you so much for this video Lisa!! 💕🥰 So inspiring x
What I needed to hear. Thank you for being so aligned with the answer I needed to hear.
Thank you for sharing . So helpful. Thank you. 🇬🇧💛🤍
Thank you for this message!
Wonderful!!!! Pretty dress and flowers!!!!! xoox
Thank you so much Lisa I needed this ❤
Thank you very much for making this videos for us it really helps me
A video about wearing what we want, being glamorous and not caring what people think ❤
Hi, lovely.
So glad to be here ❤ thank you for such incredibly helpful content. You're lovely. God bless ♡
Love ur videos 💗
Hello lisa, could you make a video listing movies nas characters for us to use as role models, it would be so helpful with reprogramming our habits
This video is right on time 😢 I just realized depression is functioning in survival mode.
Lisa, I share your videos with all of my friends. ❤
man that's actually profound- so true. depression is functioning in survival mode. that should help anyone out there thinking that there is no way out. there is always a way. thanks @nattygamer4755
Wonderful!
Yup just trying to survive. And yes it is literally affecting my health. I’ll try but I honestly lost all hope. So it’s going to be hard for me.
I love the way u talk so wonderful lols
Your videos are so much helpful. Changed my mindset towards men and love. I have no enough words to thank you darling. I love you queen👸 😘😘
this was needed!
Love your content ❤
Love the dress. Totally my style. Do tell where you got this
Heyyy Lisa How r u doing I hope you are doing good and how's your health and how's your health and whenever you posts a new video it's put a huge smile on my face...💗😀😀💫
very good video I am now going through anxiety but this helped me I follow you now
Hust found you. You're amazing 👏 Please a video on how to deal with extra jealous nasty female coworkers 😢
hey Lisa , I love your videos and thank you so much ❤❤ your videos have taught me so much about being in your divine feminine . So much love from South Africa 🌍🫂 no more reacting , just living and being .
Yay , just in time 💕
Love the dress! Where is it from?
Would you mind snapping some pictures of everything you put in your body for a few days or a week? It’s easy to come up with ideas for one day but it’s tough to figure out what to eat every day
Can a feminine be a CEO? Or do I have to be masculine? I’m an ambitious woman so I’m curious.
Hello Lisa, how can I get one of your courses? And where is it the option to pay with PayPal?
This is my second time watching this video. I think a lot of people are missing the point of the message…
Yes we can’t all abandon our jobs/kids/bills etc and be horizontal on the couch. Modern life, even with all its technology is difficult for a lot of women (and men too) in a multitude of ways. But I can guarantee no matter what your current circumstances are there will be one or two small things you can do to bring down survival mode. Don’t think it’s possible to get out of it completely- I’m being realistic. However, even if you are someone who eats clean and exercises etc….you could look at identifying your triggers, whether it’s money,men or whatever and aim to make changes over a 30 day period. It’s hard for me to save money, but even just a bit of savings started to lower my cortisol/stress when I look at online banking. Getting rid of the f&&k boy, helped my sleep because I let go of my mobile phone. These things are not massively life changing like quitting your job or moving countries but they have improved my quality of life and that’s what brings you out of survival x
Stressed, insecure, masculine women.....they attack me because I have boundaries, and act unbothered. But i am very emotional, when they attack me, i cry, i isolate from them. I don't know how to handle the situation. Especially if it's a coworker, and i have to see them every day
I stopped working and stay home with my children because of this. I am not staying anywhere with a bunch of bullies. If you are able to switch jobs or careers please do so, it's better that way.
@@ThePinkPantha21 thank God I don't have a full time job anymore. ( I had two bullies, I was in survival mode 24/7, my mental health was VERY bad, I had weird depressive thoughts, a lot of stress/anxiety symptoms) I do have a side hustle that (so far) doesn't drain me, it's a couple of hours. I do have a coworker who is always in a rush, wants everything perfect without mistakes, passively blames me for stuff. I am single and have no children, hopefully one day I will no longer have to work
Huh? Who cares? You sound insufferable
No wonder I have been more in a survival mode .
My coworkers are causing me to feel that way, I recently got suspended from the workplace for creating a "hostile" environment, and was called back when no evidence was provided. I'm a mom as well so imagine how I felt when I was let go for that week . My poor man receives all of my stress and anger 😔 anything he does now triggers me.
@@diving.deep. have you ever considered that you’re just an awful person to be around? No shame in it.
How can I know if my friend rally care about me or she is fake friend ?🥺
50,000 tasks… I’m dead 😂😂😂. This is so true.. a real OVER estimate hahahaha (let’s stop! 🛑)
Relaxxxxxxx 💕
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yea life is always surviving mode to me as im single mum of 3 and i dont like cooking, cleaning but i have to do not fun
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You are adorable. Enjoy your 20s, because this isn’t feasible when you get older. I have been in survival mode/burnout for around 10 years. Unfortunately, getting out of it probably isn’t possible. In spite of looking much younger than my age, taking care of myself physically (exercise, eating well, etc), dressing well - i can’t even find a date. After listening to Sadia Kahn, it was confirmed that traditional women can’t get dates. So now what? At 47, i have to think of retirement - alone - and how to get there - alone - while trying to pay all the 100% inflation bills - alone. Fun, huh? Keep trying while you’re young. Everything I tried has failed except the very career I hate. Oh well.
This is me also. Well I’m 48, so you’re nearly as old and burnout as me! Congrats! 🥳 lol …
On a more serious note I am concerned for the younger generation. People are not wanting traditional relationships, and this is leading to a lack of bonding. Also the lack of commitment is difficult if you treasure starting a family. Hook up culture is massive. People are in denial about their porn addiction and attitudes towards casual sex. I’m not a prude. Obviously do what you want. How did it become this way? It’s these things - 📱 yes I love mine but I don’t want to order sex like it’s a dominos pizza 🍕 x
I also like Sadia Khan, I understand what she is saying about traditional women. Also hear people pointing out the dating pool is significantly smaller after 40. Having said that there is 7 billion on the planet and nothing is impossible. Lisa has previously talked about “abundance mindset” which I do agree with. But I also like to be realistic as I find this more of a balanced approach x
@@lou15176 thank you for mentioning that. Unfortunately, the abundance mindset and manifestation does not work for everyone. I’m living proof for that. And I’m only interested in men, so that 7 billion got smaller. There was a really funny video on a woman trying to find eligible men, and it really is accurate when you narrow everything down from age group, to nationality, sexual preference, etc. it is well done but also very funny.
@@rachaelwilliams786 😊 yeah the 7 billion thing. That’s more a reminder for myself due to past mistakes of putting someone on a pedestal and thinking they are “god like” letting them dictate my moods - good or bad. I had to remind myself they are human!
Oh yeah and the figure keeps dropping if you take out anyone who is married or gay, or significant age gaps etc. x
You need to look at stoicism.
Stop looking for a date. Be the date. Work on yourself, actually be unbothered, and be thankful for what you do have not what you want. We are ALL a getting screwed these days, and being depressed won’t fix it.
First here....❤😇
Dear Lisa, I agree 💯% with what you state and those are amazing advice, but you seem to not have children (yet or not). Let me tell you, how difficult it is to apply your advices when you are a mum, children, if you want to raise them well (this is another topic, on which I could start a UA-cam channel 😂) are draining, most of the time positively, but still taking time for yourself is really hard. I join you on the fact that if you give this beautiful feminine energy, you will find the right man that will be an extraordinary dad for your kids, and then will be able to support you. Unfortunately if you don't choose the right man, he is not going to support you properly, either staying married to you, and being a jerk, or leaving you. Take care!
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This was super helpful, enjoyed it! 🤍🤍🤍
What are your thoughts for women in masculine environments such as the army? How can we balance femininity and still have camaraderie while simultaneously being respected. Thank you lovely Lisa🤍